Rich & DawnCheré Wilkerson - Love Lies: How to Handle Heartbreak

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  • Опубликовано: 30 сен 2018
  • Heartbreak. A word that, when unpacked, reveals layers of emotions and behaviors that rob us of freedom and joy.
    In the third week of their collection of talks "Love Lies," Pastors Rich and DawnCheré Wilkerson dive deeper into the topic of relationships with a sermon entitled "How to Handle Heartbreak."
    How do we handle heartbreak? Do we avoid it, and pretend like it’s trivial? Do we tell ourselves we can get through it alone? Many times we turn to the wrong places to look for healing, falling prey to the pressures of pop culture and what is flaunted as being the right thing to do.
    Life, through the disappointment of failed relationships, disappointments, failures and disapproval, will bind our hearts into brokenness. However, God gives us hope through his everlasting and steadfast love. His love binds our broken hearts in a different way. As Psalm 147:3 is written, “He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.”
    After recognizing the hurt, we should look to God for our healing. This will take time. Just as physical fractures take time to mend, emotional and spiritual fractures also require healing time. Our heart - the essence of our lives - will be mended by God’s hand over time, if we perceive our brokenness according to His plan for us. In this process, our duty is to make the right choice and to think the right thoughts.
    We must choose to resolve instead of resigning and decide to restore and not to relapse. We must be committed to restricting the affections of our hearts while continuing to contribute love and generosity to the community. We must recognize that once we place our trust in God, we are bound by a love that binds our broken hearts in the right way, in God’s way.
    To do this, we must realize that we cannot achieve freedom from heartbreak through our own short-sighted efforts. Instead, we must have complete faith and trust in His design for our happiness in this life. That is the state of mind that we should relentlessly pursue.

Комментарии • 590

  • @hannahdeleon5053
    @hannahdeleon5053 2 года назад +242

    The amount of pain I’m in right now is indescribable. Please pray for me.

    • @ivanmorales3941
      @ivanmorales3941 2 года назад +3

      Im going through it now, how are you these Days?

    • @hannahdeleon5053
      @hannahdeleon5053 2 года назад +18

      @@ivanmorales3941 I’m at a better place now than i was 5 months ago. I promise it’ll get better.

    • @terrencewalker4603
      @terrencewalker4603 Год назад +2

      @@hannahdeleon5053How are you doing now?

    • @kenyatta3212
      @kenyatta3212 Год назад +3

      🙏🏾

    • @keithwilde1348
      @keithwilde1348 Год назад +10

      Pain is temporary. Years from now you will look back on this painful experience and be amazed that you pulled thru.

  • @mitchel7251
    @mitchel7251 3 года назад +338

    God will never take something away from us without the intention of replacing it with something much better.

  • @LuluSipsTea
    @LuluSipsTea 5 лет назад +778

    "If you don't heal from what hurt you, you'll bleed on people who never cut you". MY GOD, MY GOD!!!

  • @saralgw
    @saralgw 4 года назад +489

    the pain of a heartbreak is so soul crushing that God is the only one who can heal it...

    • @isaacsanders9203
      @isaacsanders9203 4 года назад +2

      sara lynn so true!

    • @llaudelizelizabethtremotch4101
      @llaudelizelizabethtremotch4101 3 года назад +14

      Always pray to God to heal you and surrender your heart to him. Tell him I cannot take this pain anymore Lord , help me because I can't help myself and wait for God answers. Every night I say it until God restore my soul.

    • @godsown4683
      @godsown4683 2 года назад +2

      @@llaudelizelizabethtremotch4101 I am also saying the same thing.

    • @Tara-mb3bv
      @Tara-mb3bv 2 года назад

      Blessings and peace to you in Christ Jesus our Lord. I know this comment was a year ago and I do hope whatever it was for you yesterday a year ago etc. is your blessing today. I wanted to reach out bc I saw your name and thought it neat bc my name is Tara lynn, ..smiles..but then i went to write that and I thought of your comment and it made me think of an illustration: the grape lol I know right the grape of love growing in the warmth and comfort of the sunlight growing and thriving on the vine connected in part to a vine, then one day that grape gets plucked thrown into a basket and then put into a press, crushed and smashed wringing every last drop of all that sunlight and comfort of yesterday but today it sits under the crushing the power of draining out and that thing it once was is in fact is no more. Today it sits changing into something altogether different, through thus this process it cant see the wine it will become sweet, fragrant and a joy to someones cup, an excess at someones table. It only knows today, the crushing. Wow I already knew it but God is good I am crushed today but I need to remember to be expectantly hopeful of that day when I will be fragrant drink to be enjoyed and welcomed altogether as a new thing becauseof this. I hope this might touch somebody else who is enduring the crushing, let the perseverance that this crushing, creates. God bless.🌸🕯🏵

    • @danielwise5786
      @danielwise5786 2 года назад +2

      Have been single since 4 years, and I want to give love another try.

  • @infinitynet9838
    @infinitynet9838 Год назад +39

    "Don't let the person who didn't love you stop you from meeting the one who will love you."

  • @heather_anne
    @heather_anne 3 года назад +305

    To anyone going through heartbreak:
    You are loved. You are chosen. Things might be tough now but sweet sisters and brothers you WILL get through this. Don't give up. God is the Good Shepherd and we are his sheep. The Good Shephard doesn't abandon his sheep. He didn't bring you this far to give up on you! Speak this truth over yourselves today!!

    • @danfruean10
      @danfruean10 3 года назад +1

      thank you for this!

    • @redroseempress5095
      @redroseempress5095 2 года назад +3

      Thank you please pray for me

    • @cyndeemcbride2390
      @cyndeemcbride2390 2 года назад +8

      I really needed to hear this today.
      Going through a really bad breakup and feeling so hurt rite now.😭😭😭

    • @heather_anne
      @heather_anne 2 года назад +2

      said a prayer for you🙏❤

    • @cyndeemcbride2390
      @cyndeemcbride2390 2 года назад +1

      Thank you Heather. God bless you 🙏🏾❤️

  • @casspower
    @casspower 4 года назад +369

    I’m so hurt from my breakup I trust in God but the pain is so much

    • @GonzoTheMystic
      @GonzoTheMystic 4 года назад +10

      I can relate

    • @rickmenasco322
      @rickmenasco322 4 года назад +18

      The pain is crushing.

    • @adonayflores7267
      @adonayflores7267 3 года назад +7

      I hope you’re doing well. 💘

    • @lisandras.2601
      @lisandras.2601 3 года назад +6

      I feel the same.

    • @lisandras.2601
      @lisandras.2601 3 года назад +21

      But we are in this together. The both of us and so many more people... lets get through this together. Cause yes we lost our person but God still said 2 is better than 1, we got eachother sister ❤trust God's love

  • @MsSweetStacey
    @MsSweetStacey Год назад +24

    It’s been almost 3 months since my healing process, I made it. I’m so proud of myself, I told myself throughout that 3 months I was in that relationship that I would give it all back to myself and I did. I focus on God and I continue to keep putting myself first. God made it so peaceful for me this month when I was so afraid, he gave me a safe spot and protected me throughout my healing journey. I just want everyone to know that happiness is within you, you’re not going to find it in a person. I also want to say that I’m still healing but trusting God and having faith keep me at peace every time. You’re gonna be more than okay.

  • @benmott8768
    @benmott8768 3 года назад +131

    Went through a breakup a few months ago. I've never been so completely crushed. I was convinced she was my soul mate and nothing is more devastating than finding out the person you're in love with doesn't even care about you at all. 💔

    • @mikeyjay7014
      @mikeyjay7014 3 года назад

      I feel you

    • @jennywaters9659
      @jennywaters9659 3 года назад

      I pray the Universe grant your heart desires with more love and commitment from your ||lover/specific person|| through the help of the same Great and Powerful man •Dr Steve• who helped me attract the guy I loved the most (Jeremy) 💞💞💞☺️☺️. He can attract whosoever you want into your life. I will advise you seek out his help thanks...)

    • @jennywaters9659
      @jennywaters9659 3 года назад

      Send him a message on Whatsapp 💕

    • @jennywaters9659
      @jennywaters9659 3 года назад

      +2347030894892.

    • @petronipov
      @petronipov 3 года назад +3

      Going through the same. Are you feeling any better?

  • @danielleadamson9762
    @danielleadamson9762 3 года назад +263

    After hours of crying my eyes out and feeling broken, I stumbled across this sermon. Thank you so much for helping me start my healing process.

    • @Roadglide86
      @Roadglide86 3 года назад +5

      I'm in the same situation

    • @danielleadamson9762
      @danielleadamson9762 3 года назад +7

      Matt A God led you here, it’s definitely not a coincidence. I pray that your heart will begin to heal again too and that you find joy again.

    • @Roadglide86
      @Roadglide86 3 года назад +3

      @@danielleadamson9762 thank you! You to I can't sleep my mind just keeps racing thoughts about her. Not fun

    • @danielleadamson9762
      @danielleadamson9762 3 года назад +2

      Matt A I totally understand. But in time it will get easier

    • @Roadglide86
      @Roadglide86 3 года назад +4

      @@danielleadamson9762 yes
      Yea I hope so, my life is falling apart because of it

  • @jiejie6054
    @jiejie6054 5 лет назад +257

    I am broken
    I am depress
    I am lonely
    Jesus
    Heal me
    Search me
    Fill me

    • @ayabulelankani1579
      @ayabulelankani1579 4 года назад

      Jie Jie how are you feeling now?🤗

    • @oaklandsoldier8520
      @oaklandsoldier8520 4 года назад

      I'm at that point right now.

    • @isaacsanders9203
      @isaacsanders9203 4 года назад

      Jie Jie hope you’re doing better!

    • @jiejie6054
      @jiejie6054 4 года назад +4

      Isaac Sanders thank you. I am doing better and stronger by the grace of Jesus. I hope you too as well doing great.

    • @annasachin9950
      @annasachin9950 4 года назад +4

      me too... please pray for me too. i want to move on from the loop of heartbreak and loneliness

  • @hazelmaedeleon
    @hazelmaedeleon 3 года назад +72

    Beeing broken is a season, it is not permanent. We can all get through this with the help of God. 😊💖

  • @bryanjustus4235
    @bryanjustus4235 2 года назад +56

    My wife of 20 years has told me that she doesn't love me anymore and left. This is so devastating I've cried so much. This is surprising to me, never saw this coming. I have a heart that loves fully. I don't have a secret life or lies. It hurts soooo bad. I know enough to know that I have to run to God. Please heal my broken heart. It is not in my nature to have a hard heart. I'm scared I will never love anyone again.

    • @jeanetteromo4830
      @jeanetteromo4830 2 года назад +5

      Praying for you. God WILL get you through .

    • @RatoM.Official
      @RatoM.Official 2 года назад +2

      Truly sorry you're going through this.

    • @freya0620
      @freya0620 2 года назад +1

      Hang in there, God’s is with us brother. No matter how broken we are. God knows and God will heal.

    • @dawnm7450
      @dawnm7450 2 года назад +1

      Prayers for your healing

    • @fowbwsf
      @fowbwsf 2 года назад

      Praying for your healing. 🙏🙏

  • @kateashlytasis8606
    @kateashlytasis8606 2 года назад +16

    It's so sad. I keep on wanting us back. I keep on replaying our situation in my head why we can't work out. It's just so sad we can't fight together because of his filial obligation and maybe he just found someone closer.

  • @jessicamerced9116
    @jessicamerced9116 Год назад +20

    I made a huge mistake falling deeply in love with the wrong person. The amount of pain I’m in is unbearable.

    • @hopemulaudzi8797
      @hopemulaudzi8797 Год назад +1

      Same here...after I had promised myself never to love again,I went and fell way deep in love with the wrong person.
      It hurts so much and I don't know to heal from all this. The worst is having to appear happy infront of everyone.
      I regret meeting this man

    • @nithyusha
      @nithyusha 10 месяцев назад

      ❤take you guys

    • @povmonyneathmorm
      @povmonyneathmorm 10 месяцев назад +1

      We all are in this together! Let’s pray for each others!
      I pray for you both 🙏🏻🤍

  • @dziesezumu3539
    @dziesezumu3539 2 года назад +39

    When my girlfriend left me, I was so hurt and even try to suicide but out of nowhere I reach a prayer centre and trust me, I'm so healed...
    I do miss her time to time but the hurt is gone... Thanks to the Lord

    • @IamHeavenian-CitizenofHeaven
      @IamHeavenian-CitizenofHeaven 10 месяцев назад

      God still has a plan and a purpose for you and Satan knew that could be the very plan to distract you from fulfilling your destiny in God's purpose for your life. May God help you see with perfect vision and walk into your destiny in Jesus's name

  • @user-jz6mu
    @user-jz6mu 2 года назад +19

    Watching this for the second time. My boyfriend broke up with me in March and has since been telling me how happy he is without me and how he does not want me. I've been feeling so sad and I keep crying. We were together for 5 years and this pain is so unbearable 😭

  • @itsgrves7396
    @itsgrves7396 5 лет назад +156

    Just broke up with a girlfriend of 3 years.... the past few days have been absolutely full of pain and heartbreak. This was a very timely message, thank you Lord!

    • @_ladyy___k_9459
      @_ladyy___k_9459 5 лет назад +5

      I know it's hard but hang in there 💖🕆🕆💖💖

    • @Lukvargz
      @Lukvargz 4 года назад +5

      Kenwick Hey mate you don’t have to see the better days, the days where you’ll be healed from the pain. Just Trust and chase the lord and his path for you and he’ll put you back on your feet before you know it.

    • @myramaria507
      @myramaria507 4 года назад +2

      I am sorry for you... I know how it is... The break ups are tough...

    • @melinaabrahamns7538
      @melinaabrahamns7538 4 года назад +1

      Just broke up with my bf of two years😭

  • @brittany9910
    @brittany9910 3 года назад +25

    THANK YOU SO MUCH!! After being in an on & off relationship for years, he finally told me he liked me but didn’t love me. I’ve been so heart broken 💔. But I told God I will be still; that I would not beg the man I love to love me back. Instead I would surrender the broken pieces to God. I haven’t heard from him in months. It’s been hard but God is with me. Thank you for the reminder and please pray for me!💛

  • @mariannediomano3585
    @mariannediomano3585 3 года назад +33

    “If you never heal from what hurt you, you bleed on people who never cut you.” - so powerful

  • @JennaEdwards808
    @JennaEdwards808 2 месяца назад +1

    I’ve learned not to react, but commit to rebuilding myself and my faith in Gods promises

  • @Hope-ie4ut
    @Hope-ie4ut 3 года назад +25

    I feel completely broken after a breakup 💔 I will continue to trust God, that He is the only only that can repair my shattered heart, the pain is almost unbearable.

    • @smilingsunrise6814
      @smilingsunrise6814 3 года назад +2

      Same here. No matter how long it pass. but my heart still hurt. Hopefully GOD can fix my heart soon. I dont know anymore how to handle this. May GOD have mercy on me.

  • @sinclair657
    @sinclair657 4 года назад +25

    There is no rules on when or how to break up, but there are rules on how to move on " Give God all the broken pieces". Thanks for this talk.

  • @amberbriggs3996
    @amberbriggs3996 3 года назад +38

    I was crying when i clicked on this video, I now feel so much better and honestly a revelation

  • @0910ruffy
    @0910ruffy 5 лет назад +116

    this video moved me. 🙏🏻 my heart is so broken right now. I’m trying to be okay and acknowledge every emotions that I go through. the process wasn’t easy. it was the worst but all I can do is pray about it. after all I’m still grateful and reminding myself that God is so good and that in the end everything will be okay and I’ll be okay. not now but in God’s time ❤️

  • @jackiep2333
    @jackiep2333 2 года назад +5

    I teared up seeing all the beautiful young women hurting and still willing to let God guide and heal them.

  • @quackwackers3621
    @quackwackers3621 3 года назад +36

    It’s been three weeks now and my heart is literally breaking and is still hurting. My head has been spinning but I need to realise that it is God brought them into my life and he removed them. There is a reason for everything. If they were meant for you they wouldn’t leave.

    • @jennywaters9659
      @jennywaters9659 3 года назад

      I pray the Universe grant your heart desires with more love and commitment from your ||lover/specific person|| through the help of the same Great and Powerful man •Dr Steve• who helped me attract the guy I loved the most (Jeremy) 💞💞💞☺️☺️. He can attract whosoever you want into your life. I will advise you seek out his help thanks...)

    • @jennywaters9659
      @jennywaters9659 3 года назад

      Send him a message on Whatsapp 💕

    • @jennywaters9659
      @jennywaters9659 3 года назад

      +2347030894892.

    • @sabrinacaro6848
      @sabrinacaro6848 2 года назад +2

      Can you update me? Have things gotten better??

    • @quackwackers3621
      @quackwackers3621 2 года назад +4

      @@sabrinacaro6848 Hey girl, it’s been 8months since my break up and man I still get those days where I want to just snap and stop talking to everyone and shut the world out. In the beginning it was like that all the time for me now it’s not as frequent. What I would say really helped me was praying. Like I kid you not if I didn’t pray or ask God to heal my heart I don’t know if I would even be here to testify that ive made it this far. So it got way worse before it got better. I’m still not fully ok now but another thing that really helped was journaling and making video diaries explaining everything that happened to me in that relationship sometimes the video diaries would just be of me absolutely balling my eyes out and others would be of me explaining how I felt in that moment. My emotions were absolutely everywhere man like it felt like my head would explode from time to time. I cried for so long and just about everywhere I went I cried aswell. For so long I did not eat properly or even drink properly I was so heart broken that my sorrow filled my stomach and quenched my thirst. I was not ok at all and I really think that the moment I realised how not ok I was well was when I realised I really only had God and myself everything changed for me. I started to push myself to do things that had become such a chore for myself like even eating or brushing my teeth simple things I use to do everyday without a problem but had become such a chore for me. So I really utilised this time to build a relationship with myself and address the breakup with myself. Like it sounds silly but for my whole breakup I was telling everyone what happened but I never really sat down and told God like talking to him like he is a close was a game changer. So no it didn’t get better for a while and somedays it feels like I’m completely over it and others it feels like I could easily have a mental break down. I’m a lot better now compared to then but healing isn’t linear. If you ever need to someone one to talk to just drop your @ on any social media platform I got you girl I also made a playlist of videos that I felt really helped me get through this aswell so just let me know xx

  • @PramodGurung29
    @PramodGurung29 3 года назад +21

    I was in an unequally yoked relationship from a year. I loved my girl so hard that I couldn’t even think of breaking up with her. She is also in love with me. She loves me a lot. I didn’t understood about the problems of being married with an unbeliever. So, Now I know the truth of god’s word and I broke up with her. I told her everything and now I am here broken hearted. I am in need of you God. Please fill me. Please pray for me guys 😩😩

    • @kuttipavs
      @kuttipavs 3 года назад +1

      Be confident pramod gurung, everything happens for a good reason,u have a bright future go ahead,build your own relationship with our lord God. He is always your well-wisher,ask him,fight with him,cry at him,share your thoughts with him, ofcourse our God is a good listener and communicator.at the last note pramod, be happy ..things will never always be like the same,hope for the best ok..gud luck and have a good day 🤗

    • @CMD_Line
      @CMD_Line Год назад +1

      This happened to me recently, I've let in my eyes atleast an incredibly amazing women go because of being unevenly yoked and the heartbreak is simply savage because we both want to be together, but I said I have to put God first because I love him.

  • @evelynw2935
    @evelynw2935 3 года назад +8

    Get me a man who looks at me like Rich looks at Dawncheré when she preaches 💯

  • @anjaniemohabir
    @anjaniemohabir 3 года назад +19

    Here after a really hard breakup. I can’t cry. I just feel hurt inside

  • @welllivedlife-desireeg2804
    @welllivedlife-desireeg2804 3 года назад +7

    I know God led me to this video after my boyfriend broke up with me last week. I was blindsided and now heartbroken. Thank you Lord for allowing me to watch this. I trust that God will heal me and he has a good plan for my life.

    • @jennywaters9659
      @jennywaters9659 3 года назад

      I pray the Universe grant your heart desires with more love and commitment from your ||Ex|| through the help of the same Great and Powerful man •Dr Steve• who helped me restored my Broken Home. He can make your |ex| beg you for a second chance. I will advise you seek out his help thanks...)

    • @jennywaters9659
      @jennywaters9659 3 года назад

      Send him a text message on Whatsapp 💓

    • @jennywaters9659
      @jennywaters9659 3 года назад

      +2347030894892🙏🏾 🙏🏾

  • @rpfullingim
    @rpfullingim Год назад +6

    Even you break up many times if that person is the one that God has given to your life. You can't avoid what God's plan for your life.

  • @hopemulaudzi8797
    @hopemulaudzi8797 Год назад +2

    💔💔💔really broken right now.

  • @leahgreer7022
    @leahgreer7022 Год назад +2

    I just got out of a relationship , a hidden one at that ,that was a pretty long one. I lived in sin and within the relationship, I ran from the lord and I heard the Lord tell me over and over again to leave him, but I didn’t want to listen because I wanted to live my own life. And then God spoke to one of my family members revealing it and yeah it hurt, and it still does, it’s only been 4-5 days. I was unequally yoked and me telling him what the Lord had said and me doing that and being obedient to God was the greatest witness to him. I hear the Lord clearly now, even though it still hurts and I’ve felt like Im the only one that’s so hurt, but the Lord reminds me that he’s felt like that now and before. I’m running after the lord besides running from him. He’s all I’ve got.

  • @shekinah8701
    @shekinah8701 4 года назад +20

    After heartbreak we need liberation, only Jesus can set us free from pain, hurt from heartbreak.... He set me free, God how powerful He is.... Praise the Lord

    • @faunstancechulu4408
      @faunstancechulu4408 2 года назад

      I want him to set me free from my pain too. I really want him to heal me.

  • @LA-tg7lt
    @LA-tg7lt 5 лет назад +78

    “Give thanks with a broken heart”...😩🙌🏾 thank you for this.

  • @llaudelizelizabethtremotch4101
    @llaudelizelizabethtremotch4101 3 года назад +7

    Funny 🤣🤣🤣🤣,I feel heal from brokeness.. yes surrender your heart to God I did it and woooooww, I feel complete. Praise the Lord

  • @CARLECREATES
    @CARLECREATES 4 года назад +74

    this is one of my favorite sermons i’ve ever heard and i listen to sermons like candy 😂

  • @legacygirl721
    @legacygirl721 4 года назад +21

    Thank you so much for this message. I wish there was more teaching on this matter because we live in a society that is so relationship driven. Society says you need someone but they dont tell you how to deal when that person breaks up with you. Well they just say get a tub of ice cream, eat aways the pain, then get back out there and start dating again. I recentky went through a break up last year and and I still feel hurt. Im doing much better, God has shown me why we didnt work out and has been mending me. But I know im not 100%, so Ive just been praying that God blesses him and his new relationship. My prayer has been for God to use this loss for his Glory and I know he is. He will be glorified and the right person will find me. Im sorry this is a lot, but I am really thankful for this message. Thank you pastors!

    • @HOB97
      @HOB97 4 года назад +1

      I’m in a similar situation now. We were together for 3 years. The first part was amazing and the second half was toxic and abusive. I left him, but it’s been 7 months and I’m still devastated and in pain. He is even more broken than me, but I stalked him and I think he already started dating. I wish him all the best and pray for him every day, but I’m deeply hurt. God has been healing me and I’m a lot stronger and happier, but it’s taking a long time to heal, because I’m still in love with him, despite all. I’m holding on and taking it day by day and even though there are hard days, sometimes hard weeks, slowly I’m getting better and I understand why things happened the way they did.
      I’m praying for your healing and restoration.

  • @yeoitscori3618
    @yeoitscori3618 2 года назад +7

    I'm in a long distance breakup, realised my mistakes and proceed to Make the changes. but realised that I should making changes through christ. Thank you for this message.
    Im praying and standing on the word of god to ask for a second chance in life of the supernatural.
    1 year no contact since break. 1 year of working hard.
    please help me, help him want to reestablish to renew and rebuild our love. .
    I haven't stop crying, praying.
    I have found the one. I believe we will reunite, through his power of miracles of restoration. Please pray with me

    • @gamingonus26
      @gamingonus26 2 года назад +1

      Same with me

    • @CMD_Line
      @CMD_Line Год назад

      Sometimes we have to let go to receive, I speak first hand and maybe you have already 😊

  • @mariabaldovinos8429
    @mariabaldovinos8429 Год назад +6

    Thank you for your wisdom. You both hit all the points of my current heartbreak. I will trust God to heal me.

  • @mswasabi
    @mswasabi 3 года назад +4

    I’ve been relapsing multiple times. Help me pray that by the grace of God I can overcome this season.

  • @tiffanysteen1845
    @tiffanysteen1845 Год назад +2

    Wrong binding only leads to more breaking more brokenness to more pain! Have resolve to trust God in the broken places. Healing takes process

  • @sinayemakhanya557
    @sinayemakhanya557 Год назад +1

    I. Crying as we speak ...I miss him so much and don't know how to deal it

  • @boitumelomakobosheane2928
    @boitumelomakobosheane2928 Год назад +4

    I am going through a heartbreak now , my boyfriend broke up with me today . Listen my heart is so sore and my head is spinning God knows I need this

  • @Ashley-yt24
    @Ashley-yt24 4 года назад +22

    Wow! So good. Didn't even think I needed to hear this. "What the enemy wants to do is isolate you..." 32:06 - So easy to think we can handle things on our own because of people hurting us but we need each other.

    • @jenmccaw9713
      @jenmccaw9713 3 года назад

      I was listening to that exact part when I read your comment. So profound.

  • @kling143
    @kling143 4 года назад +15

    I am crying watching ur video. My heart is broken and I believe God will restore me.

  • @brendamendoza7057
    @brendamendoza7057 4 года назад +78

    I really want to know their relationship testimony like how later of breaking up the first time, how they came back together?...or on the second time, how they again came back together?, how does pastor Rich knew that DC was the one? Because I'm in the midst of something so similar to this....and I can't find their relationship testimony anywhere, I really wish they could tell that 😭

    • @AyeYoBreezy
      @AyeYoBreezy 4 года назад +3

      if you havent found one, they just released a Q&A this past sunday with some other couples and they talk about it there!

    • @silvifernandez1
      @silvifernandez1 4 года назад

      @@AyeYoBreezy Would you mind sharing the link? I cant find it.

    • @AyeYoBreezy
      @AyeYoBreezy 4 года назад +6

      Silvia Fernandez ruclips.net/video/n-om9Ymb7JY/видео.html

    • @silvifernandez1
      @silvifernandez1 4 года назад

      Brianna Leigh thank you!! ❤️

  • @superindhai
    @superindhai 2 года назад +5

    I am broken hearted right now and thanks for this reminder...It's very painful..hope in God's perfect time I willbe healed and rebuild again in Jesus Name

  • @oliviasnook8565
    @oliviasnook8565 5 лет назад +13

    Wish they would talk a little more about why they broke up twice. My boyfriend of 2 years just ended things for the second time and I’m praying we both grow in this season, God willing maybe we can grow back together.

    • @aanuoluwapoadeoti7047
      @aanuoluwapoadeoti7047 3 года назад

      Stay strong! You'll be fine

    • @Stoovey24
      @Stoovey24 2 года назад +1

      I think they were young, probably still in high school. People grow. Sometimes people need to grow on their own so they can come back together and have a stronger relationship.

  • @rodrigomunoz6098
    @rodrigomunoz6098 3 года назад +16

    just got my heart broken this message helped me so much. i’ve been feeling so empty and lonely

    • @rosemoskalenko117
      @rosemoskalenko117 3 года назад +1

      i just got my heart broken a few days ago too, i’ve been feeling the same way you’ve been. through God we can do this!

    • @ovungwokha1028
      @ovungwokha1028 2 года назад

      The same happening to me

    • @cyndeemcbride2390
      @cyndeemcbride2390 2 года назад

      I can so relate to this😭😭😭

  • @settat2104
    @settat2104 Год назад +4

    Timely message. This hurts. I told a guy I loved him and he said he is sorry he can’t say it back. I kept pushing and now I blocked him. Ready for Gods healing over my life.

  • @marychuyortiz820
    @marychuyortiz820 3 года назад +8

    This is so great!!!🥺when she said that we don't rush physical healing but our emotions we need to trust God because healings takes time... 🥺Eyeeeee opener!

  • @rebekadelorve
    @rebekadelorve 5 лет назад +15

    If only there was a button for 1 million likes. ❤️

  • @libraflower8614
    @libraflower8614 5 лет назад +30

    Please keep me in your prayers I’m trying to heal and move on 💔 I want God to fill me up and show me light 💡

    • @medline5140
      @medline5140 5 лет назад +3

      God loves you! You got this!!

    • @libraflower8614
      @libraflower8614 5 лет назад +4

      @@medline5140 Babe God is so good I don't remember writing this, but I am at a way better place now I am so happy and excited for the future. Love and light to you hone. He loves you too

  • @juliehernandez8267
    @juliehernandez8267 Год назад +1

    Prayer God give all broken hearted REALITY Strength and RESTORATION true deliverance that only He gives amen....❤️❤️🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️

  • @emmyywemmyy
    @emmyywemmyy Год назад +7

    Please pray for me because I’m in so much pain. I was convinced he was my soulmate, but he betrayed me and hurt me at the end.

  • @marinamason2559
    @marinamason2559 5 лет назад +12

    So grateful for this video. Recently got my heartbroken after being with someone for nearly 3 years, and this message has brought me so much joy. Thank you! ❤️❤️

  • @courtneyred941
    @courtneyred941 5 лет назад +43

    I saw this on my feed a couple weeks ago and brushed it off. I had no idea today of all days i would need this. This is very on time for me and the peace i feel in the middle of my storm is unmatched. Thank you

  • @MannishByShakia
    @MannishByShakia 9 месяцев назад +1

    Praying for all of us here... this heart break and feeling unlovable is really really painful and embarrassing. This message is so good and I'm glad i found it

  • @tanyasahai
    @tanyasahai Год назад +2

    In desperate need of prayer. My insides hurt so much. Thank you.

  • @oldwoodsquotes3495
    @oldwoodsquotes3495 2 года назад +2

    Its really bad, I went through this yesterday and cried all night, I give my heart to Christ alone.

  • @faunstancechulu4408
    @faunstancechulu4408 2 года назад +2

    My boyfriend of 4 years just proposed for a break last week. He says he wants to be sure about us. It’s hurting, it’s breaking my heart. And I’m so confused. He even said if I may, I should also look around so I should be sure he’s meant to be mine. Honestly I do not have that energy to do so but I promise I prayed to God everyday to fix me into a Godly woman. He didn’t even have any fault in me but still he wants the break

  • @meenu2249
    @meenu2249 3 года назад +3

    "The wrong binding will lead to more breaking" - Now I know how a small crack in my heart lead to a shattered heart. I listened to the world and believed its lies. Now that I see the light and live in Jesus, I know how stupid I was to believe the world. I hope I knew this before.

  • @anjoliemarie
    @anjoliemarie 4 года назад +7

    Thank you God because I was losing my composure and I remembered I saved this to my watch later. Praise God!!

  • @scrappycoco7843
    @scrappycoco7843 Год назад +2

    Going on 12 straight years of getting my heart broken. Idk how much more I can take.

  • @jasonlopez8879
    @jasonlopez8879 5 лет назад +4

    I really needed this word, thank you

  • @eurania340
    @eurania340 5 лет назад +3

    LOVED THIS I WISH I WOULD HAVE HEARD IT BEFORE AND NOT AFTER GOING TROUGH MY HEARTBREAK BUT NOW I KNOW IT WAS GREAT

  • @marionyano9746
    @marionyano9746 5 лет назад +3

    I looked at this message a while back, i didn't know I'll need it soon.

  • @sarahjessicaczechowski3642
    @sarahjessicaczechowski3642 5 лет назад +4

    You guys are amazing. Thank you 🙏🏻

  • @corinamaebernardo7178
    @corinamaebernardo7178 5 лет назад

    This message moved me

  • @jorlymaladian8890
    @jorlymaladian8890 2 года назад +2

    I've been through a heartbreak .I still broken and it's a battle everyday trying myself to be strong each day,it's hard to pretend that I'm ok..im good..what I scared is I scared my bitterness will lead to lifestyle and I thank God that when I was felt emotionally and mentally depressed I thank God that he comfort me through his message ,bible verses and this one of those I watched ..thank you for this..it's realy inspiring and I learned...I felt love the love that unconditional from God above only

  • @primer2702
    @primer2702 4 года назад +3

    I'm studying the Bible using this preaching. In the minute around 5:06, Pastor DC said that verse in Psalm 34:18, I found the reading in Psalm 34:19. I'm a brokenhearted girl right now so this misreading made me laugh. God touches me in a very unimaginable way. Thank you Pastor Rich and DC. God bless both of you.

  • @teresacarrington244
    @teresacarrington244 5 лет назад +2

    Thank you very enlightening and encouraging.

  • @sonairoy1982
    @sonairoy1982 5 лет назад +17

    This is exactly what i needed. I wish i lived in Miami so i can join this church

  • @joycechen4282
    @joycechen4282 5 лет назад +6

    This was exactly what I needed & absolutely perfect 💗

  • @jessica7811
    @jessica7811 5 лет назад +6

    Thank you for making this video and preaching this sermon. It has truly been helpful! I listen to it everyday and I get something new each time.

  • @denifranssakka6742
    @denifranssakka6742 4 года назад +1

    Such a beautiful blessing ❤️❤️ Thank you and God bless y’all 🙏🏻

  • @balenagerencen.844
    @balenagerencen.844 3 года назад +4

    This is exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you, God.

  • @kiri_downbad7421
    @kiri_downbad7421 3 года назад +1

    I needed to hear this. Thank you.

  • @farahyusof7512
    @farahyusof7512 4 года назад

    Amen thank u Jesus, really needed this. Praise God

  • @laurenbarca4661
    @laurenbarca4661 3 года назад +3

    Going through a break up myself. I liked how she touched on how as humans we take physical pain seriously but when it comes to emotional pain we do not 🥺

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    • @miakouture6756
      @miakouture6756 2 года назад

      @@jennywaters9659 witchcraft?

  • @tofemm8945
    @tofemm8945 Год назад +2

    To anyone who is deeply hurt and in sorrow, I love you.
    I have some verses to share but allow me to share some of my personal past.
    Someone left me during my lowest point in life. We had a committed relationship for 7 years.
    This person left when my family fell apart because of adult affairs. Parents abandoning their child, siblings running away to friends.
    And as for me, I have her. And that was enough.
    When my parents did not gave me fundings to further my studies, I had to drop out.
    For several years I tried to find jobs, luck ran short when the pandemic began.
    I became this pessimistic person, out there to only survive. I was paranoid, no self- esteem, and I became so critical in everything that is going on.
    Bottom line, I was not at all someone pleasant to be with.
    She did not want to be a part of the mess anymore. It was not easy for her to choose to. But when she left, I lost all purpose to pursue anything.
    I felt rejected, unwanted, unloved. I was a lost cause.
    Something good happened that day when I was intervened to take my own life away. Something moved my heart, I broke down in tears upon realising this presence hugged me.
    In an instance, I felt something was telling me “I want you. I accept your pain and weakness.
    You have been through so much alone. All of your mistakes I will turn to good. All of your struggles is seen, but this time please let me walk with you. I love you so much.”
    Because it wasn’t an audible voice, the thought of being away forever kept coming back. But time and time again, the same presence and words was felt.
    And I finally accepted that I was wanted. I was embraced for all the things I have done and I am loved and not alone.
    Adult affairs stopped. My siblings reunited. And I have hope. Hope that I could achieve things purposeful, and cooperatively with God.
    Now life is with reasons in my eyes. Season by season I feel wanted, by someone so close even though I don’t see visually.
    I finally feel ok that I was rejected. To accept that I am not good enough and never will be in the eyes of many.
    It was not at all easy. By now you could guess who helped me to forgive and let go of the past. And who healed me. It was a slow healing process. But I enjoyed the moments.
    “He doesn’t care how great a person may be, and he pays no more attention to the rich than to the poor. He made them all.”
    ‭‭Job‬ ‭34‬:‭19‬ ‭NLT‬‬
    (Joseph being sold by his brother to slavery. Now his brothers ask forgiveness for the betrayal)
    “But Joseph replied, “Don’t be afraid of me. Am I God, that I can punish you? You intended to harm me, but God intended it all for good. He brought me to this position so I could save the lives of many people. No, don’t be afraid. I will continue to take care of you and your children.” So he reassured them by speaking kindly to them.”
    ‭‭Genesis‬ ‭50‬:‭19‬-‭21‬ ‭NLT‬‬
    “For we are God’s masterpiece. He has created us anew in Christ Jesus, so we can do the good things he planned for us long ago.”
    ‭‭Ephesians‬ ‭2‬:‭10‬ ‭NLT‬‬
    “He has sent me to tell those who mourn that the time of the Lord’s favor has come, and with it, the day of God’s anger against their enemies. To all who mourn in Israel, he will give a crown of beauty for ashes, a joyous blessing instead of mourning, festive praise instead of despair. In their righteousness, they will be like great oaks that the Lord has planted for his own glory.”
    ‭‭Isaiah‬ ‭61‬:‭2‬-‭3‬ ‭NLT‬‬
    “That is why the Lord says, “Turn to me now, while there is time. Give me your hearts. Come with fasting, weeping, and mourning. Don’t tear your clothing in your grief, but tear your hearts instead.” Return to the Lord your God, for he is merciful and compassionate, slow to get angry and filled with unfailing love. He is eager to relent and not punish.”
    ‭‭Joel‬ ‭2‬:‭12‬-‭13‬ ‭NLT‬‬

    • @tofemm8945
      @tofemm8945 Год назад

      Thank you for reading. God bless you.
      My faith is very small, but God did say He can move mountains with it. Allow me to pray for you.
      Heavenly father I pray that this person who is reading and seeking comfort, may you bless them. May you hug them and carry them in your arms. For when you say “Not only so, but we also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope.” In Romans 5, I know you are the God who keeps your every promise. This hope that I have Lord, may you be with them and work through them. I pray all of these in Jesus’ name. Amen.

  • @shawnaroker7305
    @shawnaroker7305 5 лет назад +6

    On time word 🙏🏽

  • @Hadassah20248
    @Hadassah20248 5 месяцев назад

    I just needed this really BAD... Thank you Jesus

  • @ilai7893
    @ilai7893 2 года назад +1

    Found this video today, a week after a girl I was seeing said she wanted to stop seeing me. Now this was to no fault of either of ours (she also wanted to let God do some binding in her life from past emotional wounds and needed space) but it still sucked to hear that from her. Praise God for being the setter of my cast, and pray for the patience and wisdom for myself and others going through heartbreak, to wisely guard our hearts (while letting in prudent community) as He rebuilds and restores - amen!

  • @sandralornah9155
    @sandralornah9155 5 лет назад +7

    God heal me..I pray. Amen
    Thankyou for the message

  • @priiiii8980
    @priiiii8980 2 года назад

    Needed to hear this. Thank you, Lord🙏

  • @charlieveluz2420
    @charlieveluz2420 4 года назад +1

    Thank you for this message

  • @beautyincmajor1714
    @beautyincmajor1714 3 года назад

    This was such a good word!!! It was soo needed!!

  • @sylviadelaparra9194
    @sylviadelaparra9194 4 года назад +1

    Woow!! Thank you for your beautiful message!! :)

  • @dianakusi5460
    @dianakusi5460 5 лет назад +1

    Wow awesome so good. Very generationally right. God richly bless you guys.

  • @emploridel
    @emploridel 3 года назад

    i sooo love this preaching

  • @tatummcgill5451
    @tatummcgill5451 5 лет назад +2

    WOWWW amazing words?! You guys are inspiring!

  • @sync2fusion
    @sync2fusion 3 года назад +2

    Thank you Pastor- gave me a new perspective of real love 🙏

  • @jmaldrich6456
    @jmaldrich6456 3 года назад

    This is what I needed!

  • @mariesavannah2369
    @mariesavannah2369 2 года назад +1

    I cant praise God enough for the internet every time I am in need of a message he lead me to the right one i needed to hear that

  • @mommaandthatbabybae6956
    @mommaandthatbabybae6956 2 года назад +1

    This lady is preaching!!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @rscruggs7298
    @rscruggs7298 5 лет назад +4

    God is Faithful! Thank You for the generation You are raising to speak Your Truth!

  • @hannahmaemonzon7438
    @hannahmaemonzon7438 5 лет назад +3

    Needed this. What a powerful message 🙌🏼