Well done darling for speaking up and out. I must admit I nearly turned off because I was getting massive triggers over the different people who've raped me, but I got to the end, I'm proud of you and your an inspiration x
You're so brave! After I was assaulted just after arriving at a university I went to medical where the campus police officer told me not to file a report because I didn't need the publicity. Being an out of state freshman and not having a support group, I did as I was told and ended up taking literally decades afterward to straighten my life out.
It is horrendous the rapist was not expelled and was allowed to return to the school. Shame on everyone involved in that insane decision. I'm so sorry you were victimized by another student, and then again, by your school. 😞 Bravo to you for your courage and righteousness. You are an inspiration to people everywhere.
We not just exterminate the male gender any attempt to change them into what we want would force backlash making use the enemies feeling raped themselves having to listen to use so need to for them to change at gun point
Explain to me where the proof is? How do we know this isn’t just some crazy lady that’s mad at this guy because he wouldn’t actually sleep with her.. there’s too many crazy women in this world for all of you sane women to actually be believing this nonsense
I've never understood why a guy would have to rape a woman. From what I understand it is a power trip, and a very brutal thing that nobody should have to go through. And our so called justice system needs to be looked at too, there is no excuse for two crimes to go unpunished.
No Women deserves to be Raped, under No circumstance, it doesn’t matter what Woman or anyone, Rape is Barbaric Hateful, Mean, Hateful, Sickening, despicable, and is is also unjust, disrespectful behavior or demeanor, sexual assault and Rape is not acceptable under any circumstances. Author Advocate for Humanity, Jason Sandifer, Michigan, 7/28/2022, 10/23/2022 1/05/2023 3/03/2023
You should some horrible things done by horrible things done to children by women deeper forms of abuse. Mental abuse done to children. Everything thing it might be bad karma I know looking at factors and what's in your power is victim blaming. But I'm saying what go through might just be bad Karma
It's unbelievable how many deranged creeps there are in this world. If you aren't born to intelligent parents who know how to protect you, youndont have a prayer in this world
I'm still trying to accept that the police as well as some loved ones seemingly brushed it off as no big deal when I came to them for help. It just doesnt make sense that such a horrific crime isn't considered serious to a lot of people.
I'm downplaying it. I'm actually pretty angry about it. This kind of thing can either eat away at you or you somehow come to peace with it. I choose the latter.
You should’ve received the help you needed. I’m so sorry you didn’t get that from those you came to for support. 🥺 I hope you give your anger the space it deserves to express itself. Wishing you healing 💜
I'm so sorry for all you have been thru! Men have failed you, the schools have REALLY FAILED YOU! Then you found you & your VOICE! I think it was meant to be to meet that Boston Globe reporter at that time, fate! What is so pathetic & disturbing is how little the school did for you. Why was "HE" or any of "Them" an exception to the rule? Thank You for sharing your journey of pain & your strength!
first case: What happened to the criminal charges you pressed? Didn't you had enough evidence? 4:05 It's much worse today. The punishments for rapists get lower by the year. 8:30 Why didn't you reported that and asked about the case? Was the case and evidence already at the police? 9:40 Did you asked why they closed the case without telling you? It needs to go to the DA, why's campus security meddling that much with it and even covering it up? - You always have to press criminal charges at the real police. Did you pressed criminal charges at the police/DA for the rape cases in the meantime? - With that much evidence, he should get convicted. 14:35 A change of policies doesn't help if the policies are being broken anyways. The police won't do anything about the stalker, you have to collect the evidence yourself.
If this channel is to empower the women with the ability to voice their experience, then can someone explain to me why you guys protect the assaulters by muting their names?
It's Berklee college of music, not UC Berkeley. You might have thought of that if you'd listened to the story and heard this happened in BOSTON. Keep your "jokes" to yourself. They're not funny.
I dont wanna call anyone a liar, especially about something like this. But it is a lil different that she still talked to him n let him stay the nite. Most women Hate their abuser n can't even be around them... idk. Maybe its like some Stockholm type situation or something
@@Rose_buddand a lot of women - especially domestic violence survivors Return to their abusers up to 5 times on average (well documented) Before they actually leave …. I’m so tired of the lack of education around psychology / mental health / what happens when someone has extremely low self eestemm Or is manipulated by those around them that nothing was wrong / normalised the abuse Google is free … And yes Stockholm syndrome is a part of it You should also educate yourself how cults works ,.. cause works on similar premise…. Even serial killers or pedofiles who grooms victims ……. Stay in your lane if your gonna present a stupid comment despite the overwhelming science of absuse psychology
When she let him into the apartment, he took that as she wanted him. Sick but true. Stop being so naive. You already went through one so called assault and you still trust? Give me a break.
@@noyb12345because he literally said he had no where to stay and it was freezing cold outside. I’d likely let a guy friend in too if that was the case. He probably lied to her. Why is it her fault? She had an extra bed for him to sleep in and she said no when he tried over and over and he said no you want this. He’s the problem. Not her.
You’re disgusting. She was being sweet and thoughtful because he said he had no where to go in the middle of winter and he was in her friend group. It’s so shitty that we can’t afford to be kind to others cause we may get raped and because we weren’t street smart enough we’ll get told it’s our fault even though we set clear boundaries, we said no and he didn’t listen.
Once again, it’s always the guys fault… I literally don’t hear any of these women in any of these videos ever accepting responsibility, especially with these adult women making adult choices. The videos where these women were children and had their caretaker abuse. Them is sickening and messed up, but nothing happened to this woman and yet somehow, she’s a victim even though she talk to him again later on in life and continue to interact with him. I mean come on now
I am so sorry this happened Her story is so sad it’s outside 😭😭😭😭
Well done darling for speaking up and out. I must admit I nearly turned off because I was getting massive triggers over the different people who've raped me, but I got to the end, I'm proud of you and your an inspiration x
Oh my god 🙏 im very sorry 💔😭🤬
You're so brave! After I was assaulted just after arriving at a university I went to medical where the campus police officer told me not to file a report because I didn't need the publicity. Being an out of state freshman and not having a support group, I did as I was told and ended up taking literally decades afterward to straighten my life out.
She’s definitely not brave. She’s a crazy man hater…. the guy was punished and it just wasn’t good enough for crazy lady
It is horrendous the rapist was not expelled and was allowed to return to the school. Shame on everyone involved in that insane decision. I'm so sorry you were victimized by another student, and then again, by your school. 😞 Bravo to you for your courage and righteousness. You are an inspiration to people everywhere.
And at the same time innocent people are being harassed with false allegations.
We not just exterminate the male gender any attempt to change them into what we want would force backlash making use the enemies feeling raped themselves having to listen to use so need to for them to change at gun point
That's what this society does to us women, blame us , I am so sick of rape culture
It’s out of control
That’s because you women are bat crap crazy … I mean literally the guy was punished for an entire year and this crazy lady couldn’t just let it go…
That’s horrible how they didn’t handle her case properly… we need Justice
The school didn't take this to the police! That is unbelievable!
well the school was trying to 'protect their reputation' that's what all those institutions do
Explain to me where the proof is? How do we know this isn’t just some crazy lady that’s mad at this guy because he wouldn’t actually sleep with her.. there’s too many crazy women in this world for all of you sane women to actually be believing this nonsense
"He got suspended and I tried to kill myself." - And this is what victims face. He gets to return to school and people get to blame her. Ridiculously.
The one who told u u ruined his life???!? Makes e wonder wtf they have done
Take advantage is being tricked being forced is referred to as rape
I've never understood why a guy would have to rape a woman. From what I understand it is a power trip, and a very brutal thing that nobody should have to go through. And our so called justice system needs to be looked at too, there is no excuse for two crimes to go unpunished.
Our justice system has one principle: "Convict the innocent and support the criminals." - so they do exactly what they're created to do.
How are you so strong? It’s amazing!
No Women deserves to be Raped, under No circumstance, it doesn’t matter what Woman or anyone, Rape is Barbaric
Hateful, Mean, Hateful, Sickening, despicable, and is is also unjust, disrespectful behavior or demeanor, sexual assault and Rape is not acceptable under any circumstances.
Author Advocate for Humanity,
Jason Sandifer,
Michigan,
7/28/2022, 10/23/2022
1/05/2023
3/03/2023
You should some horrible things done by horrible things done to children by women deeper forms of abuse. Mental abuse done to children. Everything thing it might be bad karma I know looking at factors and what's in your power is victim blaming. But I'm saying what go through might just be bad Karma
It's unbelievable how many deranged creeps there are in this world. If you aren't born to intelligent parents who know how to protect you, youndont have a prayer in this world
The dynamics you mentioned are so similar to what I went through. I think students assault other students so much more often than people realize.
As do those who state they've been assaulted, apparently everyone in the comment section has been
You really are a warrior!
Brave girl! Bon courage from France ! ❤
I'm still trying to accept that the police as well as some loved ones seemingly brushed it off as no big deal when I came to them for help. It just doesnt make sense that such a horrific crime isn't considered serious to a lot of people.
I'm downplaying it. I'm actually pretty angry about it. This kind of thing can either eat away at you or you somehow come to peace with it. I choose the latter.
You should’ve received the help you needed. I’m so sorry you didn’t get that from those you came to for support. 🥺 I hope you give your anger the space it deserves to express itself. Wishing you healing 💜
@@kendrah8365 Thank you. I wish you the best too.
@@sapphire_starlight
It was campus security and campus leadership. As far as I heard, it didn't go to the normal police and also not to the DA.
I'm so sorry for all you have been thru! Men have failed you, the schools have REALLY FAILED YOU! Then you found you & your VOICE! I think it was meant to be to meet that Boston Globe reporter at that time, fate! What is so pathetic & disturbing is how little the school did for you. Why was "HE" or any of "Them" an exception to the rule? Thank You for sharing your journey of pain & your strength!
You rock!
Brave❤️
first case: What happened to the criminal charges you pressed? Didn't you had enough evidence? 4:05 It's much worse today. The punishments for rapists get lower by the year.
8:30 Why didn't you reported that and asked about the case? Was the case and evidence already at the police? 9:40 Did you asked why they closed the case without telling you?
It needs to go to the DA, why's campus security meddling that much with it and even covering it up? - You always have to press criminal charges at the real police.
Did you pressed criminal charges at the police/DA for the rape cases in the meantime? - With that much evidence, he should get convicted.
14:35 A change of policies doesn't help if the policies are being broken anyways.
The police won't do anything about the stalker, you have to collect the evidence yourself.
If this channel is to empower the women with the ability to voice their experience, then can someone explain to me why you guys protect the assaulters by muting their names?
I’ve been wondering that too! My guess is that it has something to do with legalities. Can you answer us, Unfiltered?
It's definitely legalities. Particularly for open cases, but also in general to avoid defamation suits, etc.
Horrible 😭💔
The audacity of trying to match
Did you never get any counselling after the initial abuse. Didn't your parents give you any advice ?
Does Berkeley even acknowledge that men exist?
It's Berklee college of music, not UC Berkeley. You might have thought of that if you'd listened to the story and heard this happened in BOSTON.
Keep your "jokes" to yourself. They're not funny.
@@Aelffwynn Berklee Shermklee. Same liberal crap. Stfu
So how'd you like Roxbury?
Is this really America?
I'm not believing her. At all. Sorry.
Then move on and don’t comment.
Literally, no one cares about your opinion.
I dont wanna call anyone a liar, especially about something like this. But it is a lil different that she still talked to him n let him stay the nite. Most women Hate their abuser n can't even be around them... idk. Maybe its like some Stockholm type situation or something
@@Rose_buddand a lot of women - especially domestic violence survivors
Return to their abusers up to 5 times on average (well documented)
Before they actually leave ….
I’m so tired of the lack of education around psychology / mental health / what happens when someone has extremely low self eestemm
Or is manipulated by those around them that nothing was wrong / normalised the abuse
Google is free …
And yes Stockholm syndrome is a part of it
You should also educate yourself how cults works ,.. cause works on similar premise….
Even serial killers or pedofiles who grooms victims …….
Stay in your lane if your gonna present a stupid comment despite the overwhelming science of absuse psychology
@@Rose_buddThe guy who assaulted her in college is not the same guy as the TA in high school.
Eh.....🤔
When she let him into the apartment, he took that as she wanted him. Sick but true. Stop being so naive. You already went through one so called assault and you still trust? Give me a break.
You're the problem.
@@jade-wr9pn he's right. If you're not into a dude why let him in your apartment alone. Sounds like he was set up🤔
@@noyb12345 Only sx offenders talk like this. You are saying a man can rword a girl if she let him inside her home?
@@noyb12345because he literally said he had no where to stay and it was freezing cold outside. I’d likely let a guy friend in too if that was the case. He probably lied to her. Why is it her fault? She had an extra bed for him to sleep in and she said no when he tried over and over and he said no you want this. He’s the problem. Not her.
You’re disgusting. She was being sweet and thoughtful because he said he had no where to go in the middle of winter and he was in her friend group. It’s so shitty that we can’t afford to be kind to others cause we may get raped and because we weren’t street smart enough we’ll get told it’s our fault even though we set clear boundaries, we said no and he didn’t listen.
Yum yum! Hot.
Once again, it’s always the guys fault… I literally don’t hear any of these women in any of these videos ever accepting responsibility, especially with these adult women making adult choices. The videos where these women were children and had their caretaker abuse. Them is sickening and messed up, but nothing happened to this woman and yet somehow, she’s a victim even though she talk to him again later on in life and continue to interact with him. I mean come on now
Ya that doesn’t look like rape