Are you in a toxic relationship? Sadia psychology [Chat & Vibes EP.05]
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- Опубликовано: 5 сен 2024
- For this episode, I am joined by Sadia who is a psychologist and relationship coach. We talk all about toxic relationships, cheating, behaviour patterns and her expert opinion about relationships and social media in this generation.
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Literally, she was my teacher. Loved her ❤
@Lipstick Nista In her late 30s or early 40s I assume. Not sure tbh, but I’m 28 now so…
I can imagine her being that teacher all the guys use to crush on.
@@sugarray6250 lmao that couldn’t be more true. Even girls be crushing on her.
@@sugarray6250 she is turning 40 and was married for a month and divorced
@@Altaw33l Really? To whom? Surely, someone nowhere near her league? She looks beyond the league of almost every single man out there.
Love how Sadia talks about people (men and women) instead of blaming men or women she tries to address both genders issues i love this balance in her
I've been binging on Sadia's podcast the last week. When she means "bc I'm a women" and being empowered, don't need to que in Dubai, not having to pay for anything, those examples are about being a "beautiful, thin/curvy, to many men wanting her type to be in bed". Sadia is a beautiful women with an aesthetic who many men would want to test their boundaries with. Sadia is charming, smart and have a British accent. Most women, don't have that power. To many men who can't decipher this, her message is threatening bc to most men bc they will feel anything polite or nice will be seen as a simp. Example: I left my my hazard light on while out for lunch, my car battery died when I got back. I had a young man who assisted me when I flagged him down. He was super kind and did not demand anything. I as a person knowing roadside assistance would cost be $110 or a taxi call would cost me $50. I slipped him a $20 bc this man did a wonderful nice deed for a me. Giving him nothing would be a damsel in distress any more money from what I've given him would set a poor precedent. As it was just less than 5 mins of work and he was just there. Could I have played my "women card" -yes . But in 2023, that's not a good look for women. When given the choice.
Exactly my thoughts. She isn’t usual woman. She is a woman with superpower of being exceptionally beautiful and also smart and charming
@@LesiavanderWoman lol she is a 304 in Dubai
She’s also Muslim and I notice Muslim women have a better understanding of why dating dynamics are the way it is and how to navigate. Obviously not every woman who is Muslim gets it but the ones who do really do
Sadia is Christian.❤
@@trutheternal728 she was raised as Muslim
@@trutheternal728she fasts in Ramadhan still
@@trutheternal728 I believe she is Muslim, she said that in her podcast and interviews
@@trutheternal728no she s not. She is muslim. But anyways Muslim and Christians have originally the same values.
Sadia, you are a beautiful woman and you know your power! Hence why your so comfortable in your skin! Your 100% right, women do have issues with women especially in the work environment! I have experienced it myself!
I love That Sadia knows her power
@@xiaoandbaocute girlfriend.
Sadia, you are not typical woman. You are top beauty woman. Your experience with men helping you with heavy bags, bosses helping you with your career etc isnt coming from fact that being a woman is a privilege. It’s coming from a fact that being exceptionally beautiful woman is a privilege. Sad that you not verbalising your understanding of your super power and just verbalising your privilege of being a woman.
This is very true especially in Dubai
2:51 - 3:04 - very true, the state of our (important) relationship(s) determine the state of our lives
Loved Sadia on the @justpealythings podcast, that pearl chick got so emotional haha, she is kinda too robotic and almost mimics Myron Gaines, the guy she previously said was bitter and angry at women and that he has no confidence, now she is back paddling because all her followers are from that same world, and she is afraid that all those simps will stop following her or will go against her. And also, I'm always suspicious of a girl who always takes the guy's side, something off about it.
Totally agree with your assessment of Pearlythings
Bruh Pearl is the epitome of a PickMe
100% agree!
Which country would that be, I wonder. She looks quite White - and too sublime to be anything else, but this is in stark contrast to her name and her religion. Perhaps, mixed-race? Certainly doesn't look pakistani, turkish or arab.
Fear of abandonment perhaps?
This is very true about the workplace. The only issues I have had have been with women so far.
No hate to her, I lover her content. Idc if she is an antifeminist, even though I am feminist I love her confidence and charisma. But there's also a word called "pretty privilege". And I guess that's her super power too.
Loved the conversational topics that came up in this segment.
I love how proud to be muslim she is ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ it's sooo refreshing!!!!! ❤❤❤❤
NO
WHEN IM AT MY DADS
THATS WHEN IM HONEST ABOUT EVERYTHING
IM GETTING A DIVORCE
AFTER HE WAKES UP
BUT ME AND HIM ARE MATES SO I WANA KEEP IT GOOD BETWEEN US.
It's because you are a beautiful woman.
Love this host..dj Sims..u do it so well
Love watching Sadia on Simz podcast
Love the attachment talk
I am a feminist and I love listening to you! You are spot on. On the other hand, i'ts easy to see that you are priveleged: you are beautiful, intelligent and educated. But there still is a lot of oppression.
It also helps when you are very beautiful 😊
Less options is not better my grandparents stayed together till death but they argued all the time and made each other miserable causing all kinds of disorders
Brilliant Interview! Subscribed!
She's great
Love this one agree with both of you 😊thanks
Females get privileges?! Only beautiful well-spoken females get the easy road, in the contexts Sadia was referring to. Usually I think Sadia's POV is on-target, but this was way out-of-touch with reality.
Interviewer is very bright for her age! But would love if microphone were closer to her mouth/voice so it picks up the sound better. Thanks!
In this podcast, Sadia says that it's not easy for unattractive girls whose physical appearance doesn't meet societal beauty standards. ruclips.net/user/clipUgkx1LL-FZ71rPD8vQQ5kivAhBEY9eA3hzij
Interviewers camera isn't even focused
Because of the nature of Sadias job, she meets people who are vulnerable and damaged. Oftentimes they have severe childhood trauma which makes it difficult for them to have stable or loving relationships in any measure. This means that Sadia has confirmation bias and oftentimes doesn’t see the other side. Since she didn’t do clinical psychology, she does not have actual clients or clinical experience. She has theories on people.
All Sadias takes are simplistic and at times naive. A girl who is starved of love, affection and attention, isn’t going to jump at the first single guy she comes across because that she comes across because that could be any guy. Assuming that a man who complements a woman or gives her attention, has red flags is completely flawed and the opposite of encouraging love.
It’s against a woman’s biology to be with a man who makes her feel unsafe physically and emotionally or who holds her back. This means that a woman SHOULD leave a man like that or reject him early on, if he makes her feel uneasy and unsafe.
It also means that she SHOULD choose the man who makes her feel safe and loved. Sadias assumption that many people are damaged and that girls can’t tell the difference between a genuine protector and a man who’s a fox in sheep’s clothing, is silly. That’s another way of creating mistrust towards good men.
Many girls can tell when a guy is pretending to be someone he’s not but in actuality can’t follow through with his claims. I have been able to do it all of my life and other girls can too. I know when a guy is not loving but is pretending to be. I know when a guy thinks he can make me feel safe with words but makes me feel unsafe by his mere presence.
I know when a guy is too emotionally damaged to have a normal relationship. His questions, reactions and statements will be different. He will not pick up on when you’re tired, hungry, stressed or uncomfortable. He will be shallow and superficial.
He can’t connect the dots. And the reason why the can’t connect the dots is because no one taught him to feel these emotions and no one cared for him.
Andrew Tate is not a high value man. He is a man with money
Love sister Sadia.Have been binge watching everything with her in it. Sister Sadia shud have a talk with Dr Jordan Peterson.
I agree!!!
I agree
Sadia is great as a feminine confident person, she has a lot going for her. I would just suggest her to reduce using makeup and fillers , they are looking a bit too prominent on her ,just a simple suggestion :)
Sadia says that she experienced that women NEVER support one another and as if men NEVER hold women back. Both happen. At the same time, Sadia says that women have a support group which makes it easier to break up or get divorced. This means that women DO support women, even when they compete with them. Men DO hold women back. Oftentimes, women support hiring women at work and encourage promoting women.
There are successful and beautiful women who have been friends for decades. It’s not true that all girls backstab one another. Girls NEED other girls to have healthy relationships and marriages. Because if they don’t have girl time, they can’t de-stress. Everyone knows that.
Awesome Sister Sadia Psychology,
My Hearth goes out to in Respect of Equal Rights for Women ...
As "Low Class 'Love rats' tend to have Low IQ !
Activity on behalf of Women's Rights and Interests ...
Feminism, is recognised as the belief in Social, Economic, and Political Equality of the Sexes.
Respecting diverse Women's experiences,
such as :
The Five Basic Principles ...
1. Working to increase equality, ( some ppl such as : NGO non-governmental organization ).
Work on to increase equality especially at secondary schools. Teachers who are taught by having,
a free education tend to teach others of the same kind. Meaning the so called 'Apple does not fall from the tree'.
In order to respect the fair balance of opposing, components (such as: single mother's on Benefits Street,
who tend to be acholic and heavy cocaine users). And access or participatepornography and (child abuse).
Who have slept (with 'homosexuals' ) given, the ideology of a one night stand.
And so in this respect, one should not really be bothered about it too much. If the cap fits in,
the Grand schemes, of things and if the (Respect) did not exist from the start then it never shall.
2. Expanding Human choice ...
One should always seek the 'High Ground' weather that be in respect of knowledge or culture.
3. Eliminating Gender Stratification ...
People feel sexual urges at all stages of life and when some 'anti'climax' they tend to be angry,
and jealous of their own. And so they 'toxic relationship' becomes rampant in their everyday life.
Even if that means accessing the system. Receiving a free education at School with a free meal.
Low class 'love rats' tend to have low IQ.
4. Ending sexual violence,
Domestic abuse of any kind is usually found and taught in the home environment to start with,
and if one grows within this environment. The household of 'incest' and 'victims of 'child abuse' tend to,
be 'player haters'. Period.
5. Promoting Sexual Freedom.
In this respect one will find it difficult to adjust given the (four understandings above).
And in conclusion on the 'flip side' one is the life and soul of his or her funding.
corrupt , 'two face alcoholic's who or are 'paedophiles' making money with 'racist 'white' women').
Whereas in Islam it is our duty to 'educate society' our kids via Schools and Masjids.
(free meal or not)
In this respect I believe one is a 'smashing Women' ...
Therefore : identities, as one self as a strong role model and the power of knowledge with,
the inner belief and strengths.
Feminism divided into three main traditions, the "Big Three" schools of feminist thought:
1. Liberal/mainstream Feminism,
2. Radical Feminism,
3.Socialist or Marxist Feminism.
Nevertheless striving to empower all Women,(who are chosen by certain attributes),
to realise their full rights.
....
6:50 This is so true!!!
16:20 Awesome Statement ❤🎉
A beautiful and smart woman.
Being a woman vs beautiful charming woman
Soooo true! 🙌🏻
No way! Was this the same Ms Khan from Greenford High School??
Sadia is a feminine woman and her knowledge intellect is her power and she know that ❤🎉 i know she Will not let any toxic ass man destoy her. 💪 boundries
A 19 year old shouldn't exist in a thirty year old mind lol. My great great grandmother had four children to a 56 year old at 18. Without them I wouldn't exist. Love comes in all aspects of life, don't be harsh to think so quickly about age gaps.
@12:55, Sadia I am disappointed. You should be careful and more sincere to not conflate and confuse the terms "young women" and "teenage girls". There is a huge difference. If the general principal is that men prefer younger women, following that they obey the minimum consenting age and that these men possess good character, what is the issue with preferring a younger aged woman of consensual age? Is it possible you have missed the point of why these men were using the "body-count" argument for the 19 year old? The simple point here is that real supportive and community-conscious men are advising younger women not to recklessly give away their innate value of virginity and accrue multiple potential traumatic "fling" episodes that are likely to flare in the future over the possibility of pairing with a man of equal sexual market value. In other words, it is considerably far more detrimental to a young woman's partner pool to have accrued a "body-count" at a young age than a man, because we recognise the double-standard in society. Men can lose their virginity and will generally still be able to find another potential partner, whereas for every "body" a woman accrues, especially at a younger age, the more judgement will be passed. We are not here to discuss if that is right or wrong, it's just an observation of human behaviour. The irony here is, we are stating to younger women to rebel against the sexual objectification of women in media and general society, do not join/agree to appeal to men's carnal desires in an unacceptable framework especially at a young age, i.e. out of wedlock, without a protector etc. With respect to the age-gap differential, this is a nuanced topic that is forever shifting in mass opinion. I understand there is the ever-present concern of power dynamic, but what is the objection based upon? Your uncomfortable feeling? Could it not be a biological preference for men? Men do not use their "emotions" to object to the wants/needs women that have been allowed to voice for the past 3 decades. If it is a sexual pervert, predatory, manipulative and narcissistic individual pouting a claim, then yes, we should all be concerned.
You said in your early points that considering “those men have good character “ but she was specifically talking about Andrew Tate she never negated thhe idea of guys dating younger men or vice versa she was just making a point for Andrew who displays a sort of toxic masculinity where his body count doesnt matter but a women’s does and he can have a harem of women so in essence u are not making any sense as Andrew is the opposite of what you call a man of “good conduct/character “ the fact is he objectifies younger women in particular and that is a red flag in itself
i just pretend hes not here
cause i can use him if theres any issues with my real enemies.
Hes also got a mental illness but he loves it too much so its his problem.
Big fan
Ur deluded
Yes God's method is the best.
not got anymore crypto scammers?
8:11 😂😂❤
Sadia is terribly cute
I don’t know why y’all are talking about the devil when y’all are the biggest sinners ever which you solidify with inviting scammers
not just because you are a woman, it's also because you are super gorgeous and hot. Super attractive hot women are privileged by men 😎
But she was married for a month ...... why would anyone take relationships advice from a 40 year old divorcee
you are writing this everywhere. why r u so stuck up about it
@@billybro1403 a therapist trying to help others but can't sort her own. Oh the irony!!!
That's weak. Do Cancer patients only see Drs that have/had Cancer?
@@billybro1403 she’s a fake psychologist
I know a relationship coach who refuses to leave her toxic husband because she needs to appear perfect to the world. I see people that have never been married, giving advice to married people.
So what, if she divorced, it doesn’t make her less intelligent..
Take a good advice and run with it,
I'm in love 😍
You mean being an attractive women, you get privileges, I'm not saying less attractive women don't get the help, but they probably have to ask.
Your comment on Tate is wrong, he says average men are invisible, you have to work hard and earn money to get there to be a top g, where an attractive women just gets invited by a top g based on her look, and bit of personality maybe, not saying they are in the marriage category, women top g will mostly marry someone higher value then them, men don't care about a women's money usually
On top of that, a practicing Muslim woman isn’t really allowed to use her beauty to her advantage. The rules on modesty and hijab completely stops a Muslim woman from every benefiting from her beauty. That’s the challenge for a lot of us
15:49 👌🏽
Golddiggers, where not coming for you, errr there not coming for you. yayaya
pretty women at work are very very difficult, other women are very hostile towards prettier women
I think I have to move to Dubai 😂
I like Sadia, no feminist biased crap
Hi
❤️🙏❤️
its not because youre a woman...try to see it from the perspective of maybe someone who is not as outwardly pretty or someone who is overweight....not as many doors held for them or meals bought...i believe thats what breeds feminism
Did she said Asian? She’s Asian?
she is clearly out of touch on other womens plight. plwase dont speak for all women .
If a man loses his job, his not the one cheating, his wife is...And if a man wants to keep his wife he better have a good job, good income, good status...it's not remoind her that she is loved...Bullcrap
Yeah she really triggered pearly never seen her so butt hurt you can tell shes mad jealous of girls like sadia psychology
It’s because you’re pretty not because you’re a women
Woman
Damn she had a freudian slip and referred to herself as a gold digger? 😳
Scam and ride ..! With amio talio..aka amir tariq..!
.!
What
She sounds like a pick me
💜⭕🤲🌠
Sadia is the most feminine and most desireable woman in the whole wide world.
Andrew Tate is toxic baby, it’s worrying as young 19 years old woman you look at that and find sense… Also the benefits to woman is for pretty ones like Saida, but that is in evolved society.. if she would be in Pakistan middle class the situation is very different for millions of females
Your camera is not focused you amateurs
5:30 men call most women gold diggers bc if you make average income (about $50k in america), women ain't tryna get wit you. Dis gurl thinks she smart, she aint
🐺
You chicks need to find a masculin man and obey him, and you’ll be very happy
I get uncomfortable about older woman complaining about older men dating younger woman. 😂 it is what it is hun
this woman sadia is just after fame and money all ,of a sudden shes blowing up the internet she was an actress before
People are so deceived by actresses, and if this is the standard today by God we have fallen
She has no degree either
Tell Me that a Woman this beautiful would be sexually inaccessible to anyone but the finest 0.000001% of men, i.e., Me, Alain Delon, Brad Pitt - and no-one the tiniest smidgen cruder or uglier. 🙏🏻
As a Muslim, the amount of bodies you have, doesn’t matter as long as you change your ways.
But the issue he’s targeting is o how proud women get by doing men like breakfast meals. Her self worth is lowered, yet she thinks otherwise. Her value is a lot lower, especially with attitude they possess.
It’s all about energy it’s all about what you perceive yourself
If you have been around the block, need to be humble then act like a bad b.. yes a younger girl around 18, is worth more, cause she hasn’t opened herself like a present, and her attitude will be sync to her experiences
nope, anything above 0 is haram and a red flag
@@FahadKhan-uz7dr your acting like a fool. So the one who has repented is also a red flag? Is that how Allah describes people who repent?
@@Dan-do6zh Body Counts aka "Whoring" Destroy Nations Salahuddin Ayyubi warned about this as well, so be careful what you are Advocating for, which Child of any Religion would want to know his Mamma has had it with a Dozen Men?
@@3RTUGRULBEY1990 did you read what I said you fool what does allah say on the matter once you ask for forgiveness?
@@Dan-do6zh Being among the Repenters ie T'awabeen is the best act among Sinful Muslims for Sure no Question, but the lasting Consequences of Z'inah and Adultery are to dangerous of a fire to play with, just like Gambling and Alcohol, Drugs etc they are enough to sink an entire Nation.