@@jasg771 OR… she could actually use effort into getting her U.S. visa so she can work, apply for a driver’s license, and she can go back do Indonesia with or without him. But instead she’d rather cry, complain, and be a professional victim in every situation while expecting her husband to do everything for her.
He’s not wrong for not wanting to live with her parents and struggle!!! I don’t know why they can’t understand that!!! He needs a mature woman!! I would leave her there and send her divorce papers back!!!
Well he atleast worked and tried to sustain them in the USA . She on the other hand sit on her ass in both countries and cried every two seconds things didn't go her way. She is way worse than him. @jasg771
He is not doing anything right! What is she doing? Crying every two seconds when things don't go her way. Please, she said she was stuck at home in the USA but didn't bother to apply for a work permit for almost 4 years she lived there. She didn't ask him for a car. Then she lied to go back home where she again didn't do either. He couldn't work in Indonesia she didn't try to work in her own country, claiming the salary won't be enough to sustain both, but the income from the banana chips sale will be.
Parents are overbearing and need to mind their own business. Tata is toxic and I hope James goes to USA and finds another woman. One who doesn't act like a toddler.
Most likely she didn't even applied for the work permit. She didn't even wanted to work in Indonesia to support their income saying the money from her possible job won't be enough
Metalia is immature! She Crys for everything & is irrational James waits to the lady minute to have serious conversation with anyone .... I hope to not see this couple again !
After watching her sometimes it's best to leave people who are super traditional alone she should of married someone in her culture that understands their way of life and traditions because the demands she's putting on him are ridiculous the man is trying to take care of her if he would have decided to stay and sell bananas whatever she wanted him to do I bet they her and her fam would be calling him a bum in no time , he's not innocent either he lies alot he's a " yes " man they say yes to everything then when pressed the truth comes out , I don't know why she married him he has good intentions but I don't know if he's truthworthy his words and actions are different
Tata made him move by telling him no doctors in the US could diagnose her health condition so she had to go to an Indonesian doctor. Major manipulation. She and her family have tried every way she can to manipulate him, guilt, shame, blame, it's really awful.
James do not feel guilty is your wife is to be blamed. She was lying all the time and she tried to pretend she was sick to leave to go back to Indonesia and let you believe I give up everything to go with her and it’s just not working so best you go back to your family businessand work and maintain yourself. You cannot live like that. She doesn’t understand that’s not your style of living that’s their culture and it’s sad to say it does not look right.
Tata's parents raised her to be a spoiled brat! Why can't they understand that he is just returning to earn more money so that he and Tata can have a better life! He wants to set things straight with his family as well! What's wrong with that?! Tata failed also to do her duty as his wife! If she really loves him. She would have supported him positively without the tears and the whining! In fact, she would leave everything behind so she could support him again and join him! She is just a hypocrite who acts like a child! I guess they have broken the vow for better or for worse! She better stay there and he better move on! I don't see this working out well for both..
I’m so confused, it seems her parents take care of them. Is this all about money? Because being a husband isn’t all about money. It’s about daily support of each other.
But two adults, one of them American, relying on her elderly parents to support them. And neither of them got a job in Indonesia. If they had gone there with some savings, the situation could have been different.
@@jacquiandp-dog7755she lies her ass two, a lot. And she is manipulative and selfish on top of that. And good he doesn't want a child because she has no business of taking care of one.
She cries to much! She needs some growing up to do and just find a guy in her home country. James is a great provider and needs to just find an Asian girl in America. Too much drama on her end and her sister is so mean and evil!!!
@@kalpanabharatme he worked when in USA while she stayed her ass at home for almost 4 years. She could have applied for a work permit she didn't. Why a man should provide solely for a young healty partner capable of working. Isn't 21 century or something. Aren't women so damn independent. Not to mention they didn't had children or she isn't pregnant or something to say she can't work. Wtf
@@loredanadincu4300 He’s the one talking about needing to be a provider. She was helping with making the jewellery they sell online. No indication she didn’t want to work.
@robertaeveritt3060 Yes, there are a lot of indicators she doesn't want to work. She complained about being lonely in the house all the time but did nothing to remediate that for almost 4 years. She didn't get her work f permit for 4 years in the USA. He told her in Indonesia that the money from the banana chips selling won't be enough. She said at one point she can't go to work in her own damn country because the money she will make won't help sustain the both of them. But the banana chips she was talking on and on about would have. She had no problem letting her parents pay for stuff for them. Ask him if he wants her back in the USA to be his sister sponsor so she can come too. And when he says he can't make enough for that because he already has her, she doesn't say I will work too or something to help. And just because he said he wants to be the provider doesn't mean you should stay at home on your ass all day when you can f work or go to school or something. She is a f young fit woman with no kids at home or on the way. She can f work , especially when she sees her husband is struggling, like in Indonesia. But she didn't bother. She is a liar , selfish, manipulative ass who throws temper tantrums every time she can't get her way. And he is just a liar. At least he worked in the USA and now he goes back to try and make more money or something. All she is doing is what I said above and telling to her sisters about their problems.
How u can live without money??? Both dont have jobs. Of course he wants to go back home to make some money and be able to provide. Thats the best decision for him.
He was right to leave. He never should have gone there.
He should still come to visit his in laws. Probably visit twice a year so his wife will be less homesick
well he couldn't have been on the show if he didn't
@@jasg771 OR… she could actually use effort into getting her U.S. visa so she can work, apply for a driver’s license, and she can go back do Indonesia with or without him. But instead she’d rather cry, complain, and be a professional victim in every situation while expecting her husband to do everything for her.
Exactly! Whats the point to sit around at home with her parents and not making a single penny.
If you’re so worried, why not go with him? She’s not smart at all & is incredibly insufferable.
Gosh her voice is annoying.
She is such a big kid and should not be married! Grow up, girl!
He’s not wrong for not wanting to live with her parents and struggle!!! I don’t know why they can’t understand that!!! He needs a mature woman!! I would leave her there and send her divorce papers back!!!
Mature women won't want him
@ 🤣😂
He is the opposite of mature 😵💫😵💫
Well he atleast worked and tried to sustain them in the USA . She on the other hand sit on her ass in both countries and cried every two seconds things didn't go her way. She is way worse than him. @jasg771
@ 🤣😂
Why cant Tata get a job and support herself? She is an adult, she can take care of herself.
He is not doing anything right! What is she doing? Crying every two seconds when things don't go her way. Please, she said she was stuck at home in the USA but didn't bother to apply for a work permit for almost 4 years she lived there. She didn't ask him for a car. Then she lied to go back home where she again didn't do either. He couldn't work in Indonesia she didn't try to work in her own country, claiming the salary won't be enough to sustain both, but the income from the banana chips sale will be.
Leave Tata and put this odd relationship behind you.
She's soo annoying 😢😭🚮🚮🚮
They are so dysfunctional, not to mention immature and ANNOYING.
Parents are overbearing and need to mind their own business. Tata is toxic and I hope James goes to USA and finds another woman. One who doesn't act like a toddler.
If she's so bored and lonely in the us why dosen't she get a job? If she has been there for three years she must be allowed to work ?
Most likely she didn't even applied for the work permit. She didn't even wanted to work in Indonesia to support their income saying the money from her possible job won't be enough
@@loredanadincu4300 you are probably right. What a stupid excuse.
Metalia is immature! She Crys for everything & is irrational James waits to the lady minute to have serious conversation with anyone .... I hope to not see this couple again !
Just divorce...
where do you live? I'm looking for a 90 day fiance 😘😘
Lol except it’s not your heart she’s worried about, it’s another body part.
Truth
After watching her sometimes it's best to leave people who are super traditional alone she should of married someone in her culture that understands their way of life and traditions because the demands she's putting on him are ridiculous the man is trying to take care of her if he would have decided to stay and sell bananas whatever she wanted him to do I bet they her and her fam would be calling him a bum in no time , he's not innocent either he lies alot he's a " yes " man they say yes to everything then when pressed the truth comes out , I don't know why she married him he has good intentions but I don't know if he's truthworthy his words and actions are different
Tata made him move by telling him no doctors in the US could diagnose her health condition so she had to go to an Indonesian doctor. Major manipulation. She and her family have tried every way she can to manipulate him, guilt, shame, blame, it's really awful.
Tata is a annoying crybaby
Her facial expressions are so disturbing!!! 😳
What’s the point in taking care of her if you are keeping her in a life that she doesn’t want
divorce that baby and come back home
Poor planning guys
James do not feel guilty is your wife is to be blamed. She was lying all the time and she tried to pretend she was sick to leave to go back to Indonesia and let you believe I give up everything to go with her and it’s just not working so best you go back to your family businessand work and maintain yourself. You cannot live like that. She doesn’t understand that’s not your style of living that’s their culture and it’s sad to say it does not look right.
no one wants james but tata
That's exactly what I thought. Who wants a coward like him? Highly unattractive
You have to live your life together without family from the both side!!!!
My words!
Tata's parents raised her to be a spoiled brat! Why can't they understand that he is just returning to earn more money so that he and Tata can have a better life! He wants to set things straight with his family as well! What's wrong with that?! Tata failed also to do her duty as his wife! If she really loves him. She would have supported him positively without the tears and the whining! In fact, she would leave everything behind so she could support him again and join him! She is just a hypocrite who acts like a child! I guess they have broken the vow for better or for worse! She better stay there and he better move on! I don't see this working out well for both..
He should just disappear they are all clingy
I’m so confused, it seems her parents take care of them. Is this all about money? Because being a husband isn’t all about money. It’s about daily support of each other.
But two adults, one of them American, relying on her elderly parents to support them. And neither of them got a job in Indonesia. If they had gone there with some savings, the situation could have been different.
Daily support doesn't pay bills either lmao
@@neeeenah Lol and they don't even have that! Tata cries and James lies! 💩
@@jacquiandp-dog7755she lies her ass two, a lot. And she is manipulative and selfish on top of that. And good he doesn't want a child because she has no business of taking care of one.
She’s always crying. Every episode.
Every single episode!!!!!
Ugh he should leave and never come back she’s nauseating 🤮
But he should’ve researched the country and culture he went to before marrying someone from there
I knew she was gonna cry 😂
We would have all cheated on you
😂😂😂
Then why not find someone in your own country?
She cries to much! She needs some growing up to do and just find a guy in her home country. James is a great provider and needs to just find an Asian girl in America. Too much drama on her end and her sister is so mean and evil!!!
Why does he need to find an Asian girl?
In which world is he a great provider?
@@kalpanabharatme he worked when in USA while she stayed her ass at home for almost 4 years. She could have applied for a work permit she didn't. Why a man should provide solely for a young healty partner capable of working. Isn't 21 century or something. Aren't women so damn independent. Not to mention they didn't had children or she isn't pregnant or something to say she can't work. Wtf
@@loredanadincu4300 He’s the one talking about needing to be a provider. She was helping with making the jewellery they sell online. No indication she didn’t want to work.
@robertaeveritt3060 Yes, there are a lot of indicators she doesn't want to work. She complained about being lonely in the house all the time but did nothing to remediate that for almost 4 years. She didn't get her work f permit for 4 years in the USA. He told her in Indonesia that the money from the banana chips selling won't be enough. She said at one point she can't go to work in her own damn country because the money she will make won't help sustain the both of them. But the banana chips she was talking on and on about would have. She had no problem letting her parents pay for stuff for them. Ask him if he wants her back in the USA to be his sister sponsor so she can come too. And when he says he can't make enough for that because he already has her, she doesn't say I will work too or something to help. And just because he said he wants to be the provider doesn't mean you should stay at home on your ass all day when you can f work or go to school or something. She is a f young fit woman with no kids at home or on the way. She can f work , especially when she sees her husband is struggling, like in Indonesia. But she didn't bother. She is a liar , selfish, manipulative ass who throws temper tantrums every time she can't get her way. And he is just a liar. At least he worked in the USA and now he goes back to try and make more money or something. All she is doing is what I said above and telling to her sisters about their problems.
How u can live without money??? Both dont have jobs. Of course he wants to go back home to make some money and be able to provide. Thats the best decision for him.
Do you both a favor and leave her for good
I'm so sick of these two.
Me tooooooo!!!!!
Girl, bye.
Why do they all cry so much!
Tata would probably cheat first because she wants to be constantly coddled.
😮😢😂😢😢😢TRUE truth
I notice the indonesian women that have been on 90df over the years have been very annoying 😂
Let’s go Metallica
if you don't want that happened you should GO with him lol if not why you got married