🇿🇦 XHOSA BOYS ARE CHEATERS? Americans React to South Africa Dating Culture | BET Africa Culture Code

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  • Опубликовано: 12 янв 2025

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  • @mphozotwa4363
    @mphozotwa4363 2 месяца назад +111

    As a Xhosa man, i can assure you, there is only 4 or 5 of us loyal men left.

    • @TheDemouchetsREACT
      @TheDemouchetsREACT  2 месяца назад +13

      🥲😅 Nooo

    • @Nyameka-j7z
      @Nyameka-j7z 2 месяца назад +13

      Thank you for telling the truth,my guy😊. Unfortunate but true

    • @NdivhuhoMadzhigili
      @NdivhuhoMadzhigili 2 месяца назад +5

      😂😂😂 hey it's bad mos.

    • @Moneyplot
      @Moneyplot 2 месяца назад

      @@mphozotwa4363 ayikho lonto.

    • @BrimanTV
      @BrimanTV 2 месяца назад +3

      I'm one of those 5,they don't believe me when I say I'm loyal, they believe I am an anomaly 🤦🏽‍♂️

  • @kholekamkhize4264
    @kholekamkhize4264 2 месяца назад +23

    love seeing the connection between African American and South African communities! Learning from each other's experiences and perspectives is truly inspiring
    I’m here for this!

  • @lisatjaji
    @lisatjaji 2 месяца назад +91

    (i haven't even watched the video) and i can say as a Xhosa man this is not true. 😭😭😭😭We're not all the same.

    • @TheDemouchetsREACT
      @TheDemouchetsREACT  2 месяца назад +7

      It’s just the title, fam😅.

    • @Gizzo_187
      @Gizzo_187 2 месяца назад +16

      Xhosa men have never cheated in the history of mankind... 😂😂 I say this as a xhosa man..

    • @lisatjaji
      @lisatjaji 2 месяца назад +5

      @@Gizzo_187 Thank you🙏🏾, so true 😔🙌🏾at this point we're being accused😞😭

    • @kabelontshotsho
      @kabelontshotsho 2 месяца назад

      Please react to couples exchange phones by Joseph Dary South Africa edition check out season 2 episode 181

    • @lorrenzom
      @lorrenzom 2 месяца назад

      @@Gizzo_187 🤣🤣🤣🤣we all know that you are lying , yall have PHDs in cheating it’s literally in your DNA 🧬

  • @lindanisibisi1661
    @lindanisibisi1661 2 месяца назад +37

    We as Zulu people we just direct, we are not angry. we tell it like it is. always 🤣

    • @TheDemouchetsREACT
      @TheDemouchetsREACT  2 месяца назад +7

      Nothing wrong with that, fam!😅

    • @LincolnNcame
      @LincolnNcame 2 месяца назад

      Whenever us Xhosas are mentioned you guys must insert yourselves 🤦🏽‍♂️. Damn but y'all white colonizers helpers are a nuisance that's for sure.

    • @lindanisibisi1661
      @lindanisibisi1661 2 месяца назад +1

      @@TheDemouchetsREACT Yep!! 😂

    • @likhayam
      @likhayam 2 месяца назад

      Zulus are a very angry nation

  • @pitsoyakgosimoamogoa1861
    @pitsoyakgosimoamogoa1861 2 месяца назад +35

    I am a tswana man, and I tell you. we are the most calm people In Mzanzi

    • @AnkhceStars
      @AnkhceStars 2 месяца назад +1

      @@pitsoyakgosimoamogoa1861 AFRICANS YOU DON'T OWN YOUR ANKHCESTARS LAND, WHOLE CONTINENT.Its not CALM it's OUT OF POWER, cowardice AFRICANS 🌞⚖️🤎✨
      I Am a MotswanaXhosa by my parents , I AM ALL OF ALKEBULA

  • @coolkidintheblock2861
    @coolkidintheblock2861 2 месяца назад +8

    I love Xhosa people man 🤣🤣🤣 I want to learn Xhosa so so bad

  • @lindiwesikhakhana
    @lindiwesikhakhana 2 месяца назад +26

    If you liked that you should check out BET Africa's Guy code, girl code and there are other episodes of Africa culture code.

  • @MosesMatsepane
    @MosesMatsepane 2 месяца назад +3

    I am glad you guys picked up the energy. Colourism is insane in South Africa, because Apartheid assigned value based on your skin tone. So people are still psychologically holding on to that. It's gotten a lot better in the cities, but it's still there. Especially in the townships, they have no filter there. 😅😅

  • @BongieBala
    @BongieBala 2 месяца назад +11

    I find it interesting whenever I hear someone says that a certain group or tribe of people are cheaters. The idea that someone's behavior is determined by their tribal affiliation is curious to me. Cheating and misbehaving as a person has nothing to do with their tribe; rather, it is a reflection of their own lack of self-discipline.
    Human nature is complex and diverse, and to attribute negative traits to an entire group of people based on their tribe is unfair and inaccurate. People of all backgrounds are capable of both honest and dishonest behavior. It is not a matter of tribal identity, but rather individual choices and actions.
    Stereotyping and generalizing about a particular group can be harmful and perpetuate prejudice and discrimination. It is important to recognize the humanity and individuality of each person, rather than making assumptions based on group affiliations.
    In conclusion, it is misguided to label a certain group of people as cheaters or any other negative trait. While there may be cultural influences on behavior, ultimately, each individual is responsible for their actions. Self-discipline is a universal struggle for many, and it is important to refrain from making sweeping judgments based on tribal affiliations.

    • @TheDemouchetsREACT
      @TheDemouchetsREACT  2 месяца назад +2

      While we do agree on the subject of stereotyping, we believe this video was made in good fun. Thanks for sharing!

    • @thuliyaLaw
      @thuliyaLaw 2 месяца назад +2

      Lol said a Xhosa 😂

    • @MthobisiMaphinda
      @MthobisiMaphinda 2 месяца назад

      ​@@thuliyaLawdont be like that I'm Xhosa Guy😂😂❤

    • @redx12ae33
      @redx12ae33 2 месяца назад

      We do not choose where we are born but we do choose what to believe. Unfortunately people take the easier road when it comes to thinking - hence stereotyping and tribalism.

    • @GeorgiaMcDunhill
      @GeorgiaMcDunhill 2 месяца назад +1

      it was justa a fun video bre.
      it was a joke,nothing deep .🫡

  • @NtandoMandinda
    @NtandoMandinda 2 месяца назад +14

    As Xhosa gents we are in trouble 😂😂😂
    But we don't cheat

  • @REMOFILWEremoo
    @REMOFILWEremoo 2 месяца назад +6

    I am Tswana and we are very direct we will tell it like it is 😂 some may say we are mean but we are not 😂

  • @deepinsights707
    @deepinsights707 2 месяца назад +7

    Tswanas can speak most of the South African languages because the are a minority group. Because of this they are viewed as intelligent

    • @SibusisoHlophe-dp5lq
      @SibusisoHlophe-dp5lq 2 месяца назад

      Correct. And Vendas are also more likely to be multilingual... to survive.
      But If you speak Zulu you can survive anywhere. IsiZulu asitolikwa.

    • @coolkidintheblock2861
      @coolkidintheblock2861 2 месяца назад

      @@SibusisoHlophe-dp5lq the delusion 🤣🤣🤣 you people are the most uneducated group in SA, we all know that, I’m Zulu who grew up with Tswana people and I thank god every day for that, because I’m smart and can speak English and all other languages

    • @coolkidintheblock2861
      @coolkidintheblock2861 2 месяца назад

      @@SibusisoHlophe-dp5lqthe delusion you people have 🤣🤣🤣 I’m Zulu too, you people are the most uneducated group of people, more especially the KZN ones, you Dom Dom

    • @coolkidintheblock2861
      @coolkidintheblock2861 2 месяца назад

      @@SibusisoHlophe-dp5lqThe decision 🤣🤣🤣 I’m Zulu too, you people are the most uneducated people in the country

    • @coolkidintheblock2861
      @coolkidintheblock2861 2 месяца назад

      @@SibusisoHlophe-dp5lqThe decision 🤣🤣🤣

  • @sinotandopuzi5752
    @sinotandopuzi5752 2 месяца назад +5

    As a person, you need to date a Xhosa man at least once in your life, for character building 🤧 & as that lady said, preferably in your early-mid 20’s 😭

    • @lyriccave
      @lyriccave 2 месяца назад +1

      Sinothando hay marny 😅😂

    • @sinotandopuzi5752
      @sinotandopuzi5752 2 месяца назад

      @ Nje for character building, also uyazi that ungafa na anytime ba awukho strong 🤧😭

    • @lyriccave
      @lyriccave 2 месяца назад

      @sinotandopuzi5752 🤣 kwakungeje ke kodw ekuqaleni. It's just social media came real hard on us and we had to adapt 🫂😅

  • @kemisoofentse3944
    @kemisoofentse3944 2 месяца назад +3

    I remeber I sent a video of Batswana people wedding back then and y’all did react to it ❤

  • @darylsaintwilliams
    @darylsaintwilliams 2 месяца назад

    Wassssup fam, you I am loving this new content man! I'm on Binge mode ! Nice stuff Deez and CeCe 🤜🏽🤛🏽

  • @MannyWdz
    @MannyWdz 2 месяца назад +7

    Nooooo to GOLD Teeth please please please😅

  • @godsbabeborn-again5945
    @godsbabeborn-again5945 2 месяца назад

    I'm Tswana and I love you guys. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @luv3ander
    @luv3ander 2 месяца назад +7

    i’m Tswana 😂❤

  • @rudzanimunyai2090
    @rudzanimunyai2090 2 месяца назад +12

    Actually, colourism is a big issue in South Africa. I can assure you all dark skin people grew up with it and light skin are often perpetrators. Like, a learned behaviour at home. I have seen some people address it on social media and I think we are headed in the right direction. Hopefully, it’ll dismantle soon. Parents should do better as well!!

    • @christinelloyd8775
      @christinelloyd8775 2 месяца назад

      What utter cr*p! Having lived in South Africa all my life and at the age of 72 have gone through all the tragedies of apartheid and many other hard times, been arrested for joining anti apartheid demonstrations etc. there is a large integration between black and white people now. Hop on board and take up a degree so you will know something about the social and cultural changes in South Africa before shooting off your mouth. We have a much bigger and richer middle class amongst the black population now, who need to learn to respect the working classes, black or white in this country.

    • @lorrenzom
      @lorrenzom 2 месяца назад +2

      It’s everywhere not just a South African thing

    • @LincolnNcame
      @LincolnNcame 2 месяца назад +1

      But you're Zimbabwean though😂😂

    • @rudzanimunyai2090
      @rudzanimunyai2090 2 месяца назад +1

      @@LincolnNcame Here was I thinking you’re Congolese 😂

    • @rudzanimunyai2090
      @rudzanimunyai2090 2 месяца назад +1

      @@lorrenzom This is true but I think it’s worse in our country.

  • @Ohole
    @Ohole 2 месяца назад +2

    You guys are so cute!! ❤

  • @neomontja71
    @neomontja71 2 месяца назад +8

    Hmmm very interesting. There is a certain tribe I know that cheat a lot , I don't wonna mention names but they are from the North. That's all I have got to say 🤣. I never would have thought this about Xhosa men 🤔. Very that Xhosa women are gorgeous. Well , growing up I was bullied a lot because I was so dark. I was actually called "Monyamane" but today I am told that I have beautiful colour. Tiday people use terms like " The melanin is popping". The darker the berry , the sweeter the juice". Hence I am not that too dark anymore 🤣. Iyhoo my tribe and cold teeth! Is such a turn off.

    • @TheDemouchetsREACT
      @TheDemouchetsREACT  2 месяца назад +3

      😂😂 Ooh we think we may have discuss this on a livestream before.

    • @neomontja71
      @neomontja71 2 месяца назад

      ​@@TheDemouchetsREACT yes, we definitely discussed it 🤣

  • @thembi321
    @thembi321 2 месяца назад

    I loved today's topic guys ❤❤❤

  • @Lord_Submissive
    @Lord_Submissive 2 месяца назад

    I love how we all agree that goold teeth is a no lol

  • @lindiwesikhakhana
    @lindiwesikhakhana 2 месяца назад +5

    We Zulus are not angry we're direct there's difference.

    • @Renes_Nook
      @Renes_Nook 2 месяца назад +3

      And bullies😂 don't argue this one

  • @gokuplayswushuaow467
    @gokuplayswushuaow467 2 месяца назад +1

    The struggle of a xhosa man😭😭😭

  • @MoederP
    @MoederP 2 месяца назад +1

    I’m Tswana, we’re the most unproblematic 😊

  • @BYE-kv5rh
    @BYE-kv5rh 2 месяца назад

    Like Loot Love said, "They just can't believe their eyes."

  • @skeyo18eightyFiv
    @skeyo18eightyFiv 2 месяца назад +2

    Please react to more of this there are a couple of episodes of this show

  • @chimakalu41
    @chimakalu41 2 месяца назад

    4:53 the lady with the hat was tswana? Was she admitting.
    To anything ,smiling like that?

    • @lorrenzom
      @lorrenzom 2 месяца назад

      You Tswanas and Xhosas lowkey cousin coz wow they will deliver you in hell free of charge 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @sibusisosimama7501
    @sibusisosimama7501 2 месяца назад +2

    Im no longer a cheater ,yes im expert in cheating as a xhosa man but im retired now 😮😮😮

  • @philapholisangozi6363
    @philapholisangozi6363 18 дней назад

    Xhosa men are the Hill I'm willing to die on❤

  • @godsbabeborn-again5945
    @godsbabeborn-again5945 2 месяца назад

    Lol, it's bad to lump people up but yes, we Tswana women can be savages. My mom is one Tswana woman who is super sweet. I have my days.

  • @thuli4454
    @thuli4454 2 месяца назад +1

    Nah I think y’all misheard, they didn’t associate being rich with having light skin they associated it with gaining weight

  • @chimakalu41
    @chimakalu41 2 месяца назад

    3:12 dion said that is just straight business.lol

  • @uncletk99
    @uncletk99 2 месяца назад +2

    The characters that go with gold teeth are usually gangster in men and she's for the streets if a girl

  • @inathiantoni3777
    @inathiantoni3777 2 месяца назад +1

    "Yellow Bone" is a light skin person

    • @mphojames4547
      @mphojames4547 28 дней назад

      It should have been yellow tone, instead of bone

  • @Nyaks-k2o
    @Nyaks-k2o 2 месяца назад

    I am a mix of Tswana and Sotho and i must say SOME tswana people are very aggressive😂😂. I love your channel btw❤

  • @iclerkrun6602
    @iclerkrun6602 2 месяца назад

    All the participants appear to be celebrities. If they are, I have to say I doubt they can be authentic representatives of a traditional culture. Celebrities tend to morph into their own distinct way of life and you can easily distinguish their norms from those of true traditionalists.

  • @charlnongwe1977
    @charlnongwe1977 2 месяца назад +3

    I'm sotho ❤😅

  • @gomolemomathiane
    @gomolemomathiane 2 месяца назад

    😢😂😂 this true because i went through alot because of a Xhosa Muguuu.

  • @Onkarabetselesejane-l1j
    @Onkarabetselesejane-l1j 2 месяца назад

    Please react to sun city from (like a tourist)😭😭You'd love it......The other videos you've watched about sun city didn't really give you the insides so pretty please

  • @wifimoney766
    @wifimoney766 2 месяца назад +4

    They say zulu men are angry because sometimes we kinda are violent,lets not lie to ourselves (asingaqambelani amanga bobhuti)😂we cañt argue with people we just resort to beating them 😂and the zulu culture teaches us to be warriors fighters so we not good with arguing that why they say we angry😂even if your a teen and you do something wrong uncles wont talk to you and advice you 😂they say they gonna talk but end up beating you like they beating a criminal our culture is kinda violent i wont lie but we are sooo respectful that why women love us like soo respectfully 😂unless someone does us wrong 😂i was taught as a man never let another man disrespect you 😂

    • @TheIncredibleKnox08
      @TheIncredibleKnox08 2 месяца назад

      But it's very scary when Zulu guys speak to their women, trying to stamp their authority, like a wife is nothing.That"Thula wena mfazi kukhulumindoda"is not on,and even if the woman is addressing a Zulu man in a respectful manner, that is not always reciprocated.And the wife has to cower because they are scared.But it's your culture I respect it but with a side eye though

  • @fay-yaadhahmoodley3087
    @fay-yaadhahmoodley3087 2 месяца назад

    Personally speaking on behalf of Xhosa men.. Xhosa men say Xhosa women are wild and unfaithful. I have many Xhosa males friends. I also heard many feel Zulu women are more respectful and Zulu men are rude. This is why people are dating out of their race/ tribe because of these dynamics.

  • @AvumileAWETHU01
    @AvumileAWETHU01 2 месяца назад

    It's hectic to look Sudanese when you're south africa

  • @Kelentshole07
    @Kelentshole07 2 месяца назад +2

    ❤ I'm tswana

  • @chimakalu41
    @chimakalu41 2 месяца назад +1

    5:53 good example on the weight.

  • @DonThreeSixtyDegreez
    @DonThreeSixtyDegreez 2 месяца назад

    yawl should react to Uyajola 9/9, i promise you'll see what we is made off.

  • @chimakalu41
    @chimakalu41 2 месяца назад +3

    Who requested this? Has shots fired written all over it

  • @thembileenerstmziba7880
    @thembileenerstmziba7880 2 месяца назад +1

    Am a Xhosa man..... Am not guilty until proven so🤭

  • @nthabieto
    @nthabieto 2 месяца назад

    Tswanas are laid back. I'm appalled by these rumors

  • @sizakelediya3872
    @sizakelediya3872 2 месяца назад +5

    Dark skin use to be not so popular or liked but now tables has turned. Dark skinned people are gorgeous. The older generation was really into colorism but now it has changed. In my family all my siblings are Dark skinned and they gorgeous. I find Dark skin men embraced more than women in the past and men still love more. Dark tall men are still 🔥 yellow bone struggle to get girls.
    Sis you have a beautiful hair ❤❤❤

  • @FutBrix1096
    @FutBrix1096 2 месяца назад +2

    Xhosa men dont cheat 💪💪

    • @thuliyaLaw
      @thuliyaLaw 2 месяца назад

      Lies😂😂😂😂😂

  • @chimakalu41
    @chimakalu41 2 месяца назад

    8:32 big noses are the jam.I've had one all my life

    • @lorrenzom
      @lorrenzom 2 месяца назад +1

      @@chimakalu41 People with big noses 👃 must be Taxed because they are taking up all the Oxygen🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @chimakalu41
      @chimakalu41 2 месяца назад +2

      @lorrenzom that's how people say it back home. God made accommodation for big noses, so just on that alone you know there is enough oxygen for everybody. Did you not wake up alive today? Abeg . Recognize.

    • @lorrenzom
      @lorrenzom 2 месяца назад +1

      @@chimakalu41 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @Matthew6thirty3
    @Matthew6thirty3 2 месяца назад

    Wayekeni wethu amaxhosa mina what i knw bout em s d love for alcoholl...yoh umxhosa notshwala ngathi amaZulu nentwalo😂😂😂

  • @abdiqanihashi484
    @abdiqanihashi484 2 месяца назад +6

    But i really wanted a south Africa man tho 😭

    • @TheDemouchetsREACT
      @TheDemouchetsREACT  2 месяца назад +1

      There’s still time😅.

    • @elizabethletsoso2558
      @elizabethletsoso2558 2 месяца назад +1

      Oh yes 🤣🤣🤣

    • @lorrenzom
      @lorrenzom 2 месяца назад

      Get one as long as he is not Xhosa 😂😂

    • @The.real.herr_
      @The.real.herr_ 2 месяца назад +4

      At your own risk 😂😂

    • @abdiqanihashi484
      @abdiqanihashi484 2 месяца назад

      @@The.real.herr_ Hun I've survived Somali guys how bad can they be really 🤷🏾

  • @ultimatebang3745
    @ultimatebang3745 2 месяца назад

    Im Tswana 😂😂

  • @i_xatomic_
    @i_xatomic_ 2 месяца назад

    Not true...no way. We, Xhosa men, are the most loyal.

  • @girlhoodbesthood
    @girlhoodbesthood 2 месяца назад

    On the subject of colourism, colonisation my darlings.

  • @mkhuselimpapama3178
    @mkhuselimpapama3178 2 месяца назад

    As Xhosa gent, this is not true guys..lol

  • @blackrhythmrecords8691
    @blackrhythmrecords8691 2 месяца назад

    No they lie about us dem...😢

  • @LuyandaMaseko22
    @LuyandaMaseko22 2 месяца назад

    The Swati clan was not involved 😂😂

  • @tee_musecho
    @tee_musecho 2 месяца назад

    Hey guys please react to Kitty Phela rain dance.

  • @kamogelomolemoeng5905
    @kamogelomolemoeng5905 2 месяца назад

    Batswana we exist😂😂😂😂😂

  • @muzispellman6072
    @muzispellman6072 2 месяца назад +2

    As a Xhosa man born and raised in Zulu Land. I am a different breed😂

  • @thulisilevangqa6189
    @thulisilevangqa6189 2 месяца назад

    Heeeey they will CHEAT on u, to a point u will loose your minds. Yooo Xhosa boys, im Xhosa woman, when im looking, i will just go to Soweto 😅😅

  • @Ravens1300
    @Ravens1300 2 месяца назад +2

    Tswana women are savage

    • @TheDemouchetsREACT
      @TheDemouchetsREACT  2 месяца назад +1

      How so?👀

    • @abdiqanihashi484
      @abdiqanihashi484 2 месяца назад +1

      Don't be shy spill the tea ☕👀

    • @lorrenzom
      @lorrenzom 2 месяца назад +2

      Especially the ones from Rustenburg,they take the cup 🏆

    • @dimakatsomokotedi9144
      @dimakatsomokotedi9144 2 месяца назад +1

      @@lorrenzom 😆 me am different

    • @nthabieto
      @nthabieto 2 месяца назад

      What did I do to you @lorrenzom? 🤣😅😂

  • @lelethuzweni8387
    @lelethuzweni8387 2 месяца назад

    Given space and time +Satan. In fact the letter X is a problem by itself🤷🏽‍♂️

  • @nontozamoluqhide3828
    @nontozamoluqhide3828 2 месяца назад

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @mashaya035
    @mashaya035 2 месяца назад

    " We are not angry" 😅
    W reaction 💯

  • @mubangakalimamukwento6231
    @mubangakalimamukwento6231 2 месяца назад

    You guys change to African names

  • @zolanimagazi8841
    @zolanimagazi8841 2 месяца назад

    tswana women are god

  • @sizakelepetuniakubheka8269
    @sizakelepetuniakubheka8269 2 месяца назад

    Xhosa and Zulu’s are cheaters reason I’m dating a Sotho man ❤

  • @Londonboy4life
    @Londonboy4life 2 месяца назад

    Can you react to wode Maya first Botswana video 🙏🏾