As a single blk man with no kids, when I begin to self improve mylife, many people look at me in a new light of envy etc. As for past exes and dates who rejected me and left, Im like something totally new to them. No returns from the past. This why brothers shouldn't worry about who's with them or not
If she leaves you move on and keep on moving. Don’t ever look back. Going back never works out. Respect yourself and your worth. Keep moving forward. Keep growing.
*Grass isn't always greener on the other side* that *80/20 Rule* hits hard especially when you chose to leave a good man or sabotage a good marriage or relationship to do it and its usually because *women prepare for the wedding but not to be wives* and wives are suppose to be there for your husband and his needs just like we are there for our wife and her needs.
Her husband is a very very lucky Man, D'Nieka is a very cool grounded down to earth woman, and she takes the time to understand the black Man, I love her. She's dope
@@DNiekaMarieDOPEDISCUSSIONS 8:29 I have a question for you I went out with this girl about 4 times.She comes over my house we chill then she puts me in the friend zone why did she do that she knew the first time we went out if I was a friend
I had a chick tell me she didn't want a man who just started out in life. That hurt my feelings back then when I was younger because it was so shallow and short sighted
I'm going to let her learn the hard way, you leave....you stay gone. I used to feel the need to work on things but no more, if you don't play your part, I'll do better without you.
I got rid of my ex full way..blocked her from my phone to social media. I only hear about her from ppl she know & they got tired lf her soap opera. Moving on is the best thing with or without a new relationship & a plus to catch on with your life they wasted when she was around. You become a better guy later moving on & focused..
Great topic and I can definitely relate. Every once in a red moon My ex always "checks in" tryna see wassup wit me while she wit her new man.... And there's no thrill or pleasure in that cuz all I think is she was doing the same thing while she was with me.
So true. Me and my gf is going thru some things and she left me unsure of what she wanted to do. I continuously asked her over and over for 3 weeks what she wanted. She didn’t know, she couldn’t answer the question and then when I blocked her on everything, she reached out to a mutual friend to try and get in contact with me. I’m like WOW it took me to block you to get a response.
hahaha my ex wife's friend just reached out to me 2 months ago on FB messenger asking me "if I was remarried or had a gf", she then goes on to ask me "if I've spoken to my ex lately". I told her "no and didn't need to speak to her". I then say to her that "I move forward and not backwards and ended the conversation". Funny thing is that I hadn't seen my ex since 2012, don't even know what she looks like now and I don't look for her either. I'm sure time hasn't been too kind to her and she's probably been riding the carousel as well. lol... f*cking classic! SMDH
Hahaha that's female nature for ya man. Most women live off emotion. They can love you today and be cooperative and tomorrow they will pretend like you don't exist. You did the right thing by blocking her. Now she has to live with this regret for the rest of her life while you go on to do bigger things and better women
@@GEORGIOARCADE when you’ve seen it, you can’t ever believe otherwise. I’ve had two 5 year relationships that were madly in love and then 1-2 weeks later they’re bed hopping. You can either understand them or love them.
She was insecure when I got with her. She wasn’t treated right in her relationships. She was always the one to initiate the breakup. The exes always came back to her. I am the one who did not act the same way. I stayed away. I know my own worth. I helped her build her self esteem to the point she thought she was better than me. She then cheated and I immediately dumped her. She was blindsided. At first she was relieved. Then she had the worst few weeks. She has deep regrets and now she copes with substance use. Trying to run from the guilt she named anxiety.
This is a skill not many women have, being honest and reflective of what a woman does and why. It sad how how many women throw themselves around looking for childish satisfaction.
If a woman walks out the door never take her back fellas. It’s like someone stole your car and it came back with 100k miles and a bent tailpipe. (Pun intended)
I definitely not boo boo the fool, but I know she will find a way to try again. Her informants are back checking my social media again. I have moved on with someone else and really enjoy being around someone who lets me be me and accepts me for me.
You just can't walk away from someone that you gave your heart too all at once without making peace with it, because it will come back to hunt you later in the future
If she don't have your back,She's slowing you down.Don't let yourself get attached to anything you are not willing to walk out on in 30 seconds flat if you feel the heat around the corner.. "Heat quote"
Facts, developed a 1 strike policy years ago when opportunists would leave me for a toss up, get played, regret leaving, and work up enough nerve to come back. #PASS #OneAndDone
I was the perfect gentleman. Widower , not just after sex , expensive dinners out . Paid for car repairs, only to be told that i am a piece of shit compared to her old boyfriend. Now she truly is lost . I've moved on, but saw her awhile back and she grabbed me wanting to reconcile. Not at all . Nasty woman !
“Should’ve thought about it ‘fore you said goodbye, and the same thing that make you laugh can make you cry. But the grass was much greener on the other side, but the same thing that make you laugh can make you cry.” - Marques Houston “Grass Is Greener”
she is on point they want that 20% and give up there 80%.now she is looking to come back to get that 80% back.but now you have find somebody that,s on your same path as you.and they never learn from there mistakes.
My ex left a couple months ago but she keeps showing up in the morning banging on my door trying to see what I’m doing and why I’m not answering my phone.
All of the above sista...I pull out all of the stops with a lady. She realized it 5 years later. YEAH, text messages and voicemail messages. I met a wonderful lady who loved me when I had nothing. I am doing so much better now and she can move on.
Yep! I heard it from there families and friends and there kids! One of my ex's grandkids really liked me and said I was a really nice guy for her grandmother! But her grandmother attitude etc. I had to leave!
I love how my ex tried her luck with her crush who she always talked trash about right after our break up, and he ended up rejecting her. She became overweight & miserable whereas I've progressed in life and have found new love.
D’ Nieka I see nothing wrong with what you said but for real for real in my opinion most women just want an ego stroke and really don’t be regretting leaving you. They just come back around to troll and see if you still fuck em and be hurt when you tell em you ain trippin over them. A Woman’s ego be struck when she realizes you don’t want her back! 😂🤣😂
It would be nice to think they did. But I agree with you if too much bad stuff happened in the relationship she won't have any regret even the dumpee once he's recovered will probably think its for the best
You don't have to show them, best belive, if you never come back, she already knows you're doing better. Alot of them won't come back, bc of that. Who knows it could've been 3-4 months, since you last spoke. She may have been as cold as ice with you, 3 months later, anything could've happened in that time
1000% Queen Marie...its because of these reasons i became an expert of moving on...be to too late when they realize a great guy...just 2000% working on me now my principles...maybe one day a king will get chose...no disrespect...im really really burnt out with chasing...much respect to you and your platform
This 💩 burns me up. Made the mistake of giving this women all the tools I had, all the love, all the attention etc. Instead of discussing today, my goals consisted of the future. Included her with each and every idea. Provided a plan. Provided a path to get there. All I asked for was respect and appreciation. Wanted to receive and not give. Disgusts me how an old school man like myself has to compete with these smash and dash dudes today.
If you couldn't see what you had until you see them with someone else then you never appreciated what you had and most likely were filling your time entertaining OPTIONS never fully invested and someone else invested into what you wasted.
They regret it cuz now their mating options are limited, they 3 kids need a daddy, they miss the free dinner dates, the water bill due and they miss the non sexual attention . Nah, you had your chance and now im on to the next. Thanks for these little gems of wisdom. God bless 👑
I had every single one of those things happens to me I literally got ex’s sandering my name just to get me back and all I could do was laugh at it 🤷🏾♂️
A woman drops her guy to have other dudes fill her v-jay jay, and that’s scagly. Dudes don’t want that left over v-jay jay that’s rotten, smelly and now is loaded with diseases. Her leaving is the best thing that could have happened to that guy.
my ex broke up with me without really being able to give me a reason (5year relationship). Ive left her alone completely for 3 month, and shes been messaging me pretty much at least every 2 weeks the entire time. Constantly checking up on what im doing. Eventually got tired and called her out on it and she said she still cares but has no intentions for more...ok then...then leave me alone to do my thing?? nah?? girl be a fruitcake
Don’t respond. She just wants to know you still care and you showed her you do. She wants to know you will be there if she ever hits a low point so you’re like a plan z
Mine did the same, 5 years. I’ve been leaving her on read. I think they instinctively want to keep you there just in case it doesn’t work with the new guy. Truly disgusting behavior
It takes a real queen to be a genuine and open minded to enlighten the good brother of the world my hat off to you queen thankful the enlightening of new being for us all one love
Indeed young lady, your "WISDOM" stretches FAR beyond your years of living! Your commentaries are always spot on and continued BLESSINGS to you and your family my sister. 🙏🏽🙂👌🏾👍🏾💛💯
Yes my ex did me very wrong cheated with scum and yes of course it hurt and never did I fully expect to start a trillion dollar a year physicall industry but I must say that my businesses have made me Happy in the lost of losing me 💪😁 honestly feel so much better with your spiritual motivational words of wisdom and self help .and also I'm very proud of your success and I wanted to congratulate you on your marriage and career..plus I also saw the photos of your car and I love it..keep IT up always thank you.
great break down 👍I love to see stuff like this it gives me a reason not to deal with nonsense and dysfunctional behavior from a woman...like the guy said on the song too late too apologize
What about the ones that are not considered dating but tells every man she has friends and knowing she has options but sees that you are the good man and then one day she doesn't communicate anymore I met her at work
No woman I ever had a relation with never admitted they messed up with me 1st kiss - single, no kids 1st GF - single mom 2nd GF - single, adopted a kid 3rd GF - has an old drunk BF no kids 4th GF - dumped me to date my friend. but now single, no kids All these women trashed me and dumped me.
My ex wife divorced 29 years ago before RUclips and Social media she located me via a blog I was during saying “I made mistake I want my husband back “ Apology accepted but access denied Block and delete rinse and repeat 🔁…Thanks ❤❤
D'neika women call u crazy bcuz they have no patience. Nowadays women follow the wave not all women but ik the wise women step out the way cuz it's not y'all business. Good men like me stay out the way too
Big sis D'Nieka never misses! 💪🏿💪🏿 Dope content Queen.
Really enjoying the channel so much.
Dont take her back fellas ain't worth it, have the self respect to walk away for good so u can further grow
FACTS my brother.
Good morning brother True facts 💯
what if you got kids together
Agree, don't even worry about making her regret it. Best believe, the fact that you never come back ,she knows your onto better things
@@Grindmindd they disrespect you leave them too.
Women who leave, teach men that they don't really need them to be happy.
During the Process of Development to become Successful you Remember who Stood by you and Who didn't !
Damn so crazy
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As a single blk man with no kids, when I begin to self improve mylife, many people look at me in a new light of envy etc. As for past exes and dates who rejected me and left, Im like something totally new to them. No returns from the past.
This why brothers shouldn't worry about who's with them or not
FACTS 💪 same here...
@@HURRY-UP-N-BUY ✊🏿💯
If she leaves you move on and keep on moving. Don’t ever look back. Going back never works out. Respect yourself and your worth. Keep moving forward. Keep growing.
Any woman that cross the line for leaving a good thing behind never take her back what she has sown she has to reap.
*Grass isn't always greener on the other side* that *80/20 Rule* hits hard especially when you chose to leave a good man or sabotage a good marriage or relationship to do it and its usually because *women prepare for the wedding but not to be wives* and wives are suppose to be there for your husband and his needs just like we are there for our wife and her needs.
walk away especially if she s a narcissist!
*Only a dog returns to its vomit* - Sun Tzu
I NEVER go back. One strike, you're out.
😂
Irony is that they call men dogs and say dogs are our best friends lol
That’s from the Bible.. not “Sun Tzu”
Her husband is a very very lucky Man, D'Nieka is a very cool grounded down to earth woman, and she takes the time to understand the black Man, I love her. She's dope
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@@DNiekaMarieDOPEDISCUSSIONS 8:29 I have a question for you
I went out with this girl about 4 times.She comes over my house we chill then she puts me in the friend zone why did she do that she knew the first time we went out if I was a friend
I had a chick tell me she didn't want a man who just started out in life. That hurt my feelings back then when I was younger because it was so shallow and short sighted
I'm going to let her learn the hard way, you leave....you stay gone. I used to feel the need to work on things but no more, if you don't play your part, I'll do better without you.
I got rid of my ex full way..blocked her from my phone to social media. I only hear about her from ppl she know & they got tired lf her soap opera. Moving on is the best thing with or without a new relationship & a plus to catch on with your life they wasted when she was around. You become a better guy later moving on & focused..
I needed this
Great topic and I can definitely relate. Every once in a red moon My ex always "checks in" tryna see wassup wit me while she wit her new man.... And there's no thrill or pleasure in that cuz all I think is she was doing the same thing while she was with me.
Grass always seem greener
I'd be like - leeme talk with your old man.....then like "WTF dude, your old lady is calling me up WTF bro."
@@pattayaesl7128 You sound like a beta male..smh
"The grass over there wasn't so green huh?" Lol I know lots of you fellas have gotten a chance to use this line when they try to come back.
some people just part of the process
So true. Me and my gf is going thru some things and she left me unsure of what she wanted to do. I continuously asked her over and over for 3 weeks what she wanted. She didn’t know, she couldn’t answer the question and then when I blocked her on everything, she reached out to a mutual friend to try and get in contact with me. I’m like WOW it took me to block you to get a response.
hahaha my ex wife's friend just reached out to me 2 months ago on FB messenger asking me "if I was remarried or had a gf", she then goes on to ask me "if I've spoken to my ex lately". I told her "no and didn't need to speak to her". I then say to her that "I move forward and not backwards and ended the conversation". Funny thing is that I hadn't seen my ex since 2012, don't even know what she looks like now and I don't look for her either. I'm sure time hasn't been too kind to her and she's probably been riding the carousel as well. lol... f*cking classic! SMDH
Hahaha that's female nature for ya man. Most women live off emotion. They can love you today and be cooperative and tomorrow they will pretend like you don't exist. You did the right thing by blocking her. Now she has to live with this regret for the rest of her life while you go on to do bigger things and better women
She for the streets
The power of ignoring and walking way is the best
@@GEORGIOARCADE when you’ve seen it, you can’t ever believe otherwise. I’ve had two 5 year relationships that were madly in love and then 1-2 weeks later they’re bed hopping. You can either understand them or love them.
She was insecure when I got with her. She wasn’t treated right in her relationships. She was always the one to initiate the breakup. The exes always came back to her. I am the one who did not act the same way. I stayed away. I know my own worth. I helped her build her self esteem to the point she thought she was better than me. She then cheated and I immediately dumped her. She was blindsided. At first she was relieved. Then she had the worst few weeks. She has deep regrets and now she copes with substance use. Trying to run from the guilt she named anxiety.
This is a skill not many women have, being honest and reflective of what a woman does and why. It sad how how many women throw themselves around looking for childish satisfaction.
If a woman walks out the door never take her back fellas. It’s like someone stole your car and it came back with 100k miles and a bent tailpipe. (Pun intended)
I definitely not boo boo the fool, but I know she will find a way to try again. Her informants are back checking my social media again. I have moved on with someone else and really enjoy being around someone who lets me be me and accepts me for me.
I love you My sister I was cheated on replaced in a day and insulted.... don't wanna lie I cried like a baby and she laughed with her friends.
Sorry that happened man. Just know she’ll have her share of betrayal.
You just can't walk away from someone that you gave your heart too all at once without making peace with it, because it will come back to hunt you later in the future
If she don't have your back,She's slowing you down.Don't let yourself get attached to anything you are not willing to walk out on in 30 seconds flat if you feel the heat around the corner..
"Heat quote"
Sorry ladies u missed out on ya blessing
True facts 💯
Facts, developed a 1 strike policy years ago when opportunists would leave me for a toss up, get played, regret leaving, and work up enough nerve to come back. #PASS #OneAndDone
I was the perfect gentleman. Widower , not just after sex , expensive dinners out . Paid for car repairs, only to be told that i am a piece of shit compared to her old boyfriend. Now she truly is lost . I've moved on, but saw her awhile back and she grabbed me wanting to reconcile. Not at all . Nasty woman !
“Should’ve thought about it ‘fore you said goodbye, and the same thing that make you laugh can make you cry. But the grass was much greener on the other side, but the same thing that make you laugh can make you cry.” - Marques Houston “Grass Is Greener”
she is on point they want that 20% and give up there 80%.now she is looking to come back to get that 80% back.but now you have find somebody that,s on your same path as you.and they never learn from there mistakes.
Dislikes came from the regretful women you mentioned
My ex left a couple months ago but she keeps showing up in the morning banging on my door trying to see what I’m doing and why I’m not answering my phone.
I like the honesty of this woman, but I must admit it hurts me to hear all of it.
All of the above sista...I pull out all of the stops with a lady. She realized it 5 years later. YEAH, text messages and voicemail messages. I met a wonderful lady who loved me when I had nothing. I am doing so much better now and she can move on.
Yep! I heard it from there families and friends and there kids! One of my ex's grandkids really liked me and said I was a really nice guy for her grandmother! But her grandmother attitude etc. I had to leave!
I love how my ex tried her luck with her crush who she always talked trash about right after our break up, and he ended up rejecting her. She became overweight & miserable whereas I've progressed in life and have found new love.
Four is popular with single mom especially if the guy was working with them and the kids. Leave just to be come a side chick or FWB.
VERY VERY TRUE!
BM left me for a man 13yrs her senior… 10yrs later she still trying to find a replacement for me.
#cantmakethisup
#6 She don’t regret leaving you, only what you did for her.
Success and happiness is the greatest get back on Earth
The truth will set you free!!! Thank you! They don't realize the best part until its gone Sister didn't care nor appreciate Her Loss!
She *wants* the bad guy to be the father of her kids. She *needs* the good guy to accomodate her and her kids.
D’ Nieka I see nothing wrong with what you said but for real for real in my opinion most women just want an ego stroke and really don’t be regretting leaving you. They just come back around to troll and see if you still fuck em and be hurt when you tell em you ain trippin over them. A Woman’s ego be struck when she realizes you don’t want her back! 😂🤣😂
Females are capable of regret?
Yeah they do trust and believe, it’s just that cognitive dissonance gets in the way
Yes
I doubt it
They’ll probably blame someone else
@@EurosDem sounds about right! 😆
I honestly don't fully agree that woman regret leaving the guy that she really wanted because she made that decision already
It would be nice to think they did. But I agree with you if too much bad stuff happened in the relationship she won't have any regret even the dumpee once he's recovered will probably think its for the best
You don't have to show them, best belive, if you never come back, she already knows you're doing better. Alot of them won't come back, bc of that.
Who knows it could've been 3-4 months, since you last spoke. She may have been as cold as ice with you, 3 months later, anything could've happened in that time
1000% Queen Marie...its because of these reasons i became an expert of moving on...be to too late when they realize a great guy...just 2000% working on me now my principles...maybe one day a king will get chose...no disrespect...im really really burnt out with chasing...much respect to you and your platform
Lady your 5 Reasons are very significant and on point. Best wishes to you and the Hubby, stay positive stay informative!!!
This 💩 burns me up. Made the mistake of giving this women all the tools I had, all the love, all the attention etc. Instead of discussing today, my goals consisted of the future. Included her with each and every idea. Provided a plan. Provided a path to get there. All I asked for was respect and appreciation. Wanted to receive and not give. Disgusts me how an old school man like myself has to compete with these smash and dash dudes today.
You are a very good smart woman I'm sure your husband is very greatful to share his life with you 🌟.
If you couldn't see what you had until you see them with someone else then you never appreciated what you had and most likely were filling your time entertaining OPTIONS never fully invested and someone else invested into what you wasted.
I'm Focused on Exercising traveling nd money.
They regret it cuz now their mating options are limited, they 3 kids need a daddy, they miss the free dinner dates, the water bill due and they miss the non sexual attention . Nah, you had your chance and now im on to the next. Thanks for these little gems of wisdom. God bless 👑
So dope, short and yet so sweet .🙏🏾💎🔥
I had every single one of those things happens to me I literally got ex’s sandering my name just to get me back and all I could do was laugh at it 🤷🏾♂️
This is on da table as I Tex 😂 👌🏾🔥🔥
A woman drops her guy to have other dudes fill her v-jay jay, and that’s scagly. Dudes don’t want that left over v-jay jay that’s rotten, smelly and now is loaded with diseases. Her leaving is the best thing that could have happened to that guy.
Notice none of these reasons has to do with loving the man. All correct, though.
my ex broke up with me without really being able to give me a reason (5year relationship). Ive left her alone completely for 3 month, and shes been messaging me pretty much at least every 2 weeks the entire time. Constantly checking up on what im doing. Eventually got tired and called her out on it and she said she still cares but has no intentions for more...ok then...then leave me alone to do my thing?? nah?? girl be a fruitcake
Don’t respond. She just wants to know you still care and you showed her you do. She wants to know you will be there if she ever hits a low point so you’re like a plan z
Mine did the same, 5 years. I’ve been leaving her on read. I think they instinctively want to keep you there just in case it doesn’t work with the new guy. Truly disgusting behavior
You're always helping. You aided throughout my love which hurt and taught me. You're highly respected and essential to us men. Thanks you.
Thank you for some short game we need more of this cause we don’t always have time to sit for a hour
It takes a real queen to be a genuine and open minded to enlighten the good brother of the world my hat off to you queen thankful the enlightening of new being for us all one love
Indeed young lady, your "WISDOM" stretches FAR beyond your years of living! Your commentaries are always spot on and continued BLESSINGS to you and your family my sister. 🙏🏽🙂👌🏾👍🏾💛💯
Do women really regret leaving good men??? I dont think so..... it's too many men out there willing to give them Attention and Validation.
U on point sis awesome thanks for your thoughtfulness and effort to assist in building a strong Black family. Oakland Ca Salute u family ✊🏿✅🔥⬆️💯
Yes my ex did me very wrong cheated with scum and yes of course it hurt and never did I fully expect to start a trillion dollar a year physicall industry but I must say that my businesses have made me Happy in the lost of losing me 💪😁 honestly feel so much better with your spiritual motivational words of wisdom and self help .and also I'm very proud of your success and I wanted to congratulate you on your marriage and career..plus I also saw the photos of your car and I love it..keep IT up always thank you.
Yessssss Sis D you always on point. That's all facts. 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥Those were good factual points. Peace and blessings Sis D.✌🏾🙏🏾
great break down 👍I love to see stuff like this it gives me a reason not to deal with nonsense and dysfunctional behavior from a woman...like the guy said on the song too late too apologize
Great video. This is the truth.
100% of the time a man will be over that woman completely
What about the ones that are not considered dating but tells every man she has friends and knowing she has options but sees that you are the good man and then one day she doesn't communicate anymore I met her at work
Definitely can relate on these sis 🙌🏾♒
Poor baby she should have said real & stay solid
Am in love to this Chanel she is the only red pill Sister
Always such a pleasure! Proud to support this channel.
Preach big sister 🙏🏾😔
Very well explained. You exactly described all the situations.
Dope content like this I support you greater success big sis you 100 and down to earth and real and honest
This was sooooo good.. I'm in this situation right now...
No woman I ever had a relation with never admitted they messed up with me
1st kiss - single, no kids
1st GF - single mom
2nd GF - single, adopted a kid
3rd GF - has an old drunk BF no kids
4th GF - dumped me to date my friend. but now single, no kids
All these women trashed me and dumped me.
Bingo...I knew u were beta...man up dude!
@@l3blandi hes trolling
On point young lady thank u..
Thanks for blessing us with the game my Beautiful Black Queen
This reminds me of Sbe's Out Of My League (the movie)- Watch the movie then we'll discuss it!
orlando florida watching this all facts
Another one!!!!
I love these short ones!!!!
Keep um coming Lil big sis! loving these shorties ! Quick and to the point !! Love the long ones to but love the short ones!!!
Tyler Perry acrimony. I can count how many times I see this story unfold. Same script different cast.
Bro, I just told my homeboy that. Acrimony is more common than we want to admit
My ex wife divorced 29 years ago before RUclips and Social media she located me via a blog I was during saying “I made mistake I want my husband back “ Apology accepted but access denied Block and delete rinse and repeat 🔁…Thanks ❤❤
Thank you for actually getting straight to the point
All time classic right here!!!!🎉
Golden Information as usual 👸🏾
Back with another fire 🔥 video. 👍👍👍👍
LOVE ALL OF THE ABOVE TRUTH BE TOLD
🌹 QUEEN ON POINT MY GOODNESS💯
On a scale from selfless to selfish reasons
loved this, gave me some things to look for
I'm liking this format of video
Good to know
D'neika women call u crazy bcuz they have no patience. Nowadays women follow the wave not all women but ik the wise women step out the way cuz it's not y'all business. Good men like me stay out the way too
All facts.