He who hasn't sinned cast the first stone. Battling alcoholism is hell on earth. I'm glad to see Tom is in a good place now. I wish him and his wife healing and peace.
A narcissist’s prayer: That didn't happen. And if it did, it wasn't that bad. And if it was, that's not a big deal. And if it is, that's not my fault. And if it was, I didn't mean it. And if I did, you deserved it.
Only a woman can say that, what does he do go away and be locked away from women for life. The fight was between them two during the covid lockdown, it's a two way thing, i have seen many a good man crumbled at the hands of a woman.
Really hope this works out for you Tom. My late wife loved Kasabian and Bow was one of the songs played at her funeral. I will buy any album that you put together.
@@mikemccaine4229 That's a shitty, immature comment. He didn't say he hadn't done any solo stuff, just that there's a platform there for him to do it. Be kind.
Life is hard, people fuck up. People should try to judge much less. Good luck to you two, hope you continue growing. Wishing all the success and happiness for the future x
Respect and love you to mate. This world is a maddening, crazy place to live.. every human is touched by mental illness, and I’m really happy that you are finding peace. Alcohol is evil, and you’ve done so well to take that step into sobriety. Well done, and keep it up ♥️
Nah sorry - this is a load of BS. 'It was JUST a one off, it happens' No. Beating up your partner doesn't just happen. I think this message is worrying as it's showing women that if it happens once then it's okay?! I absolutely love Kasabian, I've seen them about 5 times but this is not okay. Fair dos for saying sorry but domestic abuse does NOT 'just happen' and it doesn't matter if its a one time thing. Once is enough.
Domestic violence has soared since lockdown, so you could say for a lot of people it does just happen. The difference here is she took him to court to force him to change his lifestyle and save their relationship. He's lost a multi million pound job as a result of his actions, been named and shamed all over mainstream media and many people will never forgive or forget. Everybody makes mistakes, not many try and put it right. Give the guy a break
I had problems with alcohol and aggression too, so I can relate to what Tom feels and goes through. I'm recovering from it now, and so I hope that Tom will get over it too.
I’ve suffered depression and chronic anxiety all my life and tried to bury my demons with alcohol and cocaine , I couldn’t leave the fucking house for weeks sometimes months nevermind be the frontman of a massive band , it’s too easy for people to use the mental health excuse as a shield to hide behind , when the truth is they were really just a class A cunt, there is no excuse to put your hands on a woman you claim to love . Mental health my hole , Serge saw through his bullshit and was in a better position to judge than any fan .
I can't find the video, can someone please explain to me what is happening? All I know is that he has a addiction problem and that he once abused his wife ( which is unacceptable)
I met Tom and a few of the other members of Kasabian outside Leicester train station whilst I was there for a weeks worth of work. He didn’t want a fuse so I didn’t give him one. Tom is very down to earth and I asked “ why are you always on a European tour when I want to see you live”? He replied my family always say the same thing. He was waiting for sergio to get a train to the recording studio. I wished that into existence as I really wanted to meet them as I’ve loved them since the soccer am days. I didn’t take a picture but I did in my mind.
When it came out he had been fired from the band, he put out a statement making it seem like he was a victim, no mention of the pain he had caused on others. Then the band was forced to come out and reveal he had physically assaulted his partner. Now in this "remorseful" video he again paints himself as a victim. He never once mentions how his partner must have felt through it all, just that he had been through hell. This is why it's so unconvincing to most of the viewers of this video.
I hope he gets back with the Kasabian boys on tour, he's way too talented a performer to be sitting about. The way he could command an audience only a select few could do.
@@TheMusicalElitist No, I'm ok with forgiveness and my opinion that the intense heat of a moment and argument can make people do things they normally wouldn't do, especially when drunk.
All the best Tom, so glad you're on the up.....was gutted to see how you were treated by ex band mates after such a long time and what you did and achieved together, turned my stomach to see them at tramlines without you. You and your Missis make a lovely couple, every relationship has its ups and downs, just not every kerfuffle makes the news, brilliant that it has all brought you closer together. Cant wait to hear your solo stuff. ....count me in for a ticket when you tour!!
kerfuffle?... 😂 kerfuffle?!?! he beat up a woman infront of a child ffs. id hate to be in your life when shit hits the fan if this is what you call a kerfuffle
This is classic example of a guy who can't take ownership of what he's done. It certainly comes across as he sees himself as the victim. Feel sorry for the woman, very weird that she's almost apologies for him. The way that they both say it was a one off at the same time screams of denial from both of them. Very sad that someone in his position can't lead a better example other than being a twitchy addict who denies responsibility and blames it on his adhd. Very sad.
She needs to get some self esteem and self worth. I would also be concerned for the child that witnessed the assault. I’m not saying that he can’t get better but until he takes some personal responsibility he won’t stop portraying himself as a victim.
you don't know what the situation was. he has put himself out to the world and admitted what he done was wrong and took ownership 00:44 . get over yourself
@@christianchavz857 they don't exactly need him but to keep the whole band together. Yes he did something very wrong but everyone deserves forgiveness if they apologize and are sincere, haven't you ever done anything wrong? And if you have most likely you seek forgiveness, and you would want to be forgiven. Most of all his partner has forgiven him,so why shouldn't we?
@@kasabianrage7487 🤦🏼♂️ fanaticism intensifies. Of course, nobody’s perfect! but there’s a big difference between not being perfect and being an abuser, beating a woman up is not just a “mistake”.
@@christianchavz857 agreed but he's not a habitual abuser and people need a chance to be forgiven if not well were all guilty of something and then just complete hypocrites.
@@kasabianrage7487 saw this and I don’t believe it seriously 🤦🏻♂️ I’m shocked about this kinda thought you got for a person convicted in court for assaulting his partner in front of their child, dragging her by ankles and hitting her in the face with a wooden pallet!! also he lied saying he hadn’t done anything to the rest of the band before turning round in court pleading guilty. Also he denied everything until he realized there were a lot of proofs like videos also the witness his own child who called the police, if you don’t know about law, let me tell you this was better for him (admitting the assault) not because he was feeling any remorse but cause it was better for him, if he still denied the assault even with those proofs showed in court there would’ve been a more serious court ruling for him. They’re better off without him!!!
Must be alot of prefect people on here, Tom knows he messed up and mental health is in all of us and we all have a breaking point, good luck to them both in the future b
@@Retrobeemer did you see his reaction to the audio recording of it, not that it's justified but he clearly had issues and didn't just hit his partner for the sake of it
@@arlocooper3384 I don’t doubt he had issues but alcohol doesn’t make people abusers. It just adds fuel to the fire. I would suggest she leaves and takes her child with her. Now that poor kid has to grow up with the man it saw beat it’s mother. He doesn’t even appear to have any remorse. Just banging on about how tough it’s been on him!
Power hungry Serge will never let this man return. Got rid of the best member of the band in Chris Karloff in 2006, which he was probably secretly delighted at. As the years went by increasingly looked for any reason to get rid of Tom - which Tom handed him on a plate. Serge is an absolute charlatan and snake. Don't know what the hell Kasabian are now. Jumping about like he's in a peak midlife crisis.
Tom super proud of you. I lost it with my Mrs too, pissed & stressed, nothing to outrageous but I decided to quit the booze. Almost a year. It’s a great life. A fresh journey, I never say never but now I’m committing to two years because it’s gone so well. All the very best to you. Keep rocking. Would You Mind is f’ing brilliant by the way. It’s my go-to track at the moment 👏
Ok I know that you people are fans of Kasabian. I am too. But dear fans... wtf?! He beat his partner by hitting in the head and other parts of the body. He was drunk. If he did it once, he can repeat it every time he's angry. The thing is that it should not have happened. This was seen by the child who called the police. He didn't plead guilty until the CCTV video was shown to him. It's so cruel. I can understand comments such as "New beginning, good luck" but not "I don't think he's a usual beater" or "we love you Tom
@@ungobungo7986 Correct (wonder how sth like that could be forgiven in a marriage though). I just think that the attitude of people in the comments belittles the tragedy that happened and I strongly disagree with the one that said it's overreacting, because it's not. And I don't think he doesn't deserve another chance. I keep my fingers crossed for his transformation but the use of violence against the weak is sth that should be condemned with no exceptions.
@@onlythebear2490 Well, I certainly don't envy you having this kind of attitude, dear absolutely-no-empathy man. Wonder how would you react if it was your mother or sister.
I could be more understanding if this was his first meltdown, but it’s not.. The last time was in 2017,when he split with his long term partner, he had to move into his own flat, as he’d had a ‘serious meltdown’, he gives us all a head’s up regards his ‘self destructive behaviour’. It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to understand that this isn’t Tom’s first violent freak out. This lovely partner will have given him yet another chance. So yeah, I’m with Sergio on this, you can’t keep fucking up like this and expect people to say oooh, he’s fixed, he’s been sober for 8 months so it’s all ok.
He’s made a mistake and is trying to move forward to a better life for himself, family and friends. It’s actually nobody’s business but they’re being open about their struggles. Be kind, forgive and move forward...surly that’s a better way?
He is a beautiful singer & a very talented person. Life is hard, and we all mess up. Being able to admit our wrongs & try to do right when things are tough is sign of great strength. I wish them both well. 🕊 📻 🎙
Bless you both. Huge respect. Life is far from easy, and too many people are willing to point the finger without acknowledging their own issues. Stay strong both of you. Sending genuine love as someone who's been there. Admitting your failings is probably the most difficult thing you can do, but learning from them makes you!. So chuffed for you both. Stay Blessed.
admitting your failings only after your bandmates have to call you out in public for them. so noble and humble i can see why she is clinging on to him😂 no, but now i see how weak minded both these two are i see why the band took the actions to call him out publicly, as clearly she wasnt gunna call him out on it. thing would only get worse between them and it would of come back to bite the entire band if they didnt name and shame him. whoever decided to sack him probably saved his life
He looks anxious which is totally alright. If he's been an addict he was probably drowning that side out with the drink. It's getting the tools now and building on your life. He will find out in the end why the fook did he do the drinking in the first place. He will rise and entertain again with the right people in his life x
Maybe I'm wrong, but this did not look genuine to me. She looks super nervous, not relaxed at all, he definitely looks like he's on something, can't sit still at all, or stop for breath. Time will tell I suppose.
@@alexclemence8685 I’ve just noticed he made another mistake - their instead of there; wouldn’t have noticed if you hadn’t replied to me, so thanks for that. I’ll let him know now. Merry Xmas! 🎄
Look, everyone knows it was bad what he did, there's no denying it, but to write off an entire mans life for a mistake is just ridiculous and incredibly narcissistic of the people to even think that , every human on this planet makes mistakes and outside of handful of heinous acts, every human deserves a second chance.
Tom deserves more than a chance to start again. He did wrong, he admits it. I dont think hes a usual beater. People who judge in a tough way maybe are perfect people?
Good fortune to the both of you , you clearly love each other very much . Stuff happens , we learn and move on . I think that you are both an inspiration regarding what can be achieved , when many others have thrown in the towel . Big ;love to the both of you , Mark ❤️.
I mean Jesus they are not a boy band , some of the stuff rock bands of the past got up to and they sack him for 1 mistermeaner . Serge obviously saw this as his opportunity to take over vocals ,
@@EdwardCLin everything is a conspiracy. How were they supposed to continue with him being a convicted wife beater. That label would never go away regardless of the it being a drunken blip in his life
@@stevefoster7529 he's like we are all happy again even though i kicked the shit out of her! sickening behaviour no excuses, he is finished career wise t.v. etc now.
I hate the fact you're having to explain yourself. It's a tough process that your going through, I know because I've been there. I wish you and your Mrs all the best. If she can forgive you then everyone else should too. It's so easy to judge but so hard for people to take a step back and try to understand other people's issues. Keep up the good/hard work, much love from one of your very loyal fans. X
Would be nice to hear the word sorry somewhere here Watching this you struggle to work out what’s actually happened, I get life’s not black and white but doesn’t come across well, shit happens isn’t really a valid excuse in 2020 . Ladism has aged
He’s always hyper, and that happens to be his partner who he hit. I know all about being coerced, but it’s very rarely the abuse victim doing the coercing
Victim says to Tom “you’ve been through hell haven’t you?”. It’s not acceptable to beat the shit out of a woman. He will do it again in a few years I’d bet my life on it.
Frankly the band were out of line to sack him. Some friends they are. They should have just let the legal process take its course and said -"yeah he fucked up, he's going to have pay for his crime, this is his last chance - if it happens again he is out." Everyone deserves a second chance.
@@mateamargo5261 I didn’t realise you were the authority on how depression and alcoholism should affect everyone. I’ll message you should I ever feel depressed in future
Its a funny one. An amazing group with a fantastic lead singer and this happens. Its never ok to hit a partner. He realises this but lets hope he's learnt from it. Definitely go for a solo career because Kasabian are rubbish now.
As much as I like Tom the Kasabian lads had no choice but to ask him to leave. Everyone makes mistakes but denying domestic abuse initially then only admitting it when caught on security cameras is awful. Hopefully he gets the help he needs and wish him all the best
@@marky1888no1 I agree with you regarding Prince Andrew but not the rest. He committed domestic abuse against his partner, denied it and only admitting after he was shown security footage. That does matter! If it was a small offence then no worries but something on the magnitude of domestic abuse can't be ignored. The lads had no choice to let him go but hope he sorts himself out
Its his private life if his wife forgives him what has it got to do with the media and the public, what he did was out of order but it doesn't affect me listening to him singing in kasabian, John lennon hiy his wife hes a national hero
@@marky1888no1 It depends on the crime committed. If it was something small then ok. However what he committed was domestic abuse, which isn't a private issue (despite his wife forgiving him) it's a sociatal issue, it's a moral issue and it's a criminal issue. If it just rested on being a private issue what message does that send out? That domestic abuse is ok? It can get be swept under the carpet and all will be forgotten? Sorry no. What Tom forgot was that people like you, me and the others listen to the band's music and some people will look up to him even, people have spent their hard earned money on seeing the band live, bought the records. So the lads had no choice but to let him go. He not only let himself down but everyone connected to the band too. He let himself down further by only admitting to it after he was shown security footage. Ffs he did it in front of his child and the child had to call the police. It's very sad however I hope he can get the help he needs. John Lennon should have been punished for what he did to Mrs, though domestic abuse was largely ignored back then, if he had done that in this day and age it would have been a big issue.
The fact that his wife supports him still shows that isn't really his character. We all have our issues. We all have our bottoms. Some are uglier then others but he seems like a good lad. Sucks he isn't in Kasabian but I can enjoy them and his solo stuff at the same time.
@@thesound-chameleonman3580 no because no one in the UK goes to jail. But I have no idea about his sentence and I doubt either of us are qualified to or possess enough of the facts to pass judgment.
Tom well done mate. Everyone deserves a second chance. Great to see you're in recovery. Alcohol is deadly and can raise our demons. All the best of luck.
People make mistakes and go through there own personal and relationships problems. He never had a previous track record of anything bad and shouldn't be thrown under a bus for one mistake. There both rebuilding there life together and Good luck to them both.
I just heard the news, KASABIAN are continuing on with serj taking over vocal duties and Tim Carter becomes a full member of the band....... Im gonna miss Tom but I am excited to know that my favorite band is marching on.... Cant wait for a new album....cheers
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Please kids, whenever you’re in the house, take off your coat or jacket, otherwise when you go outside you won’t feel the benefit.
I think this is the only sensible comment on here.
omg we sound like our mums 👍
@Sucofni Sucofni what if you keep your coat on inside when you do go back out you'll be warmer for longer?
I'm not even sure about anything now lol
Especially if it’s made of 125 dead guinea pigs.
😂 love an old wives tale
He who hasn't sinned cast the first stone. Battling alcoholism is hell on earth. I'm glad to see Tom is in a good place now. I wish him and his wife healing and peace.
A narcissist’s prayer:
That didn't happen.
And if it did, it wasn't that bad.
And if it was, that's not a big deal.
And if it is, that's not my fault.
And if it was, I didn't mean it.
And if I did, you deserved it.
You fucking bell end !!
Oh sorry that just didn’t happen 👌🏻
Does this include Ozzy Osbourne?
Only a woman can say that, what does he do go away and be locked away from women for life. The fight was between them two during the covid lockdown, it's a two way thing, i have seen many a good man crumbled at the hands of a woman.
Tom was a great frontman, I hope he comes back after sorting himself out. Stop the alcoholism and cut out the nose candy, and look after your lady.
Well said , some support for the man at least 👌🏻
yes on all counts
Lol! I love how you’re condoning domestic violence…
@@TheMusicalElitist where did i say that?
@@garyrodriguez9408 🤦♂️
Really hope this works out for you Tom. My late wife loved Kasabian and Bow was one of the songs played at her funeral. I will buy any album that you put together.
Serge sang Bow mate. Tom leaving Kasabian doesn’t have to ruin that
@@Stephen_Platt true but I loved vlad the impaler and many that Tom sang. They were to collectively a brilliant group and really entertaining live
Sorry for your loss Paul. 🙏
@@penguin0075 thanks it’s appreciated
@@Stephen_Platt It's not the same. Different vibe altogether. Kasabian's like a tribute band without Tom.
Like spuds job interview in trainspotting
Ayyy just the ticket!
He fucked up good and proper
A wee bit o speed
Haha
Sad, but true.
He seems like a brain injury victim. I suppose that's what drugs do.
Does anyone remember the creature comfort adverts on tv?
😹
It's so true, this feels like a mock-u-mentary.
Lol 😆
Lord Fuzzman class
Ha ha...it's easily turn on and offable
Tom there’s a solo platform out there for you, your fans are missing you badly. So much love from us all 💕
he has already made solo records. shows how much of a fan you are!
@@mikemccaine4229 That's a shitty, immature comment. He didn't say he hadn't done any solo stuff, just that there's a platform there for him to do it. Be kind.
Life is hard, people fuck up. People should try to judge much less. Good luck to you two, hope you continue growing. Wishing all the success and happiness for the future x
I get the vibe that their living room doesn't have a carpet
Thought this was filmed in a pub!
Respect and love you to mate. This world is a maddening, crazy place to live.. every human is touched by mental illness, and I’m really happy that you are finding peace. Alcohol is evil, and you’ve done so well to take that step into sobriety. Well done, and keep it up ♥️
Well this doesn’t seem weird at all
He doesn't seem well at all.
I don't know him or his group and I'm not sure why this was recommended to me. Is he a bit thick?
@@blackmore4 He beat up his wife..
He’ll feel much better when his snake of a wife has taken every f’kin penny he has.
Nah sorry - this is a load of BS. 'It was JUST a one off, it happens' No. Beating up your partner doesn't just happen. I think this message is worrying as it's showing women that if it happens once then it's okay?! I absolutely love Kasabian, I've seen them about 5 times but this is not okay. Fair dos for saying sorry but domestic abuse does NOT 'just happen' and it doesn't matter if its a one time thing. Once is enough.
Yeah I'm with you mate. If you chin your missus you're a bad person right to the core.
He got community service!
@Perfect Restoration Good job I have blue hair now then isn't it 🙂🤣
Blue..that's worse..
@@colinhickman4071 A shit personality and being rude is worse actually but whatever Colin 🤪
Domestic violence has soared since lockdown, so you could say for a lot of people it does just happen. The difference here is she took him to court to force him to change his lifestyle and save their relationship. He's lost a multi million pound job as a result of his actions, been named and shamed all over mainstream media and many people will never forgive or forget. Everybody makes mistakes, not many try and put it right. Give the guy a break
Hughie Laurie and Patricia Arquette
Lol! Classic observation! ☮️❤️👏🏽🔥
Fkn hell.. it is 🤣🤣🤣
Not a bad call that👍
poor sods
Brilliant!!! 🤣🤣
This is what Liamh Gallagher would look like if lost everything
Look at him in 2014 he was a state thank god he resurrected 3 years later
I had problems with alcohol and aggression too, so I can relate to what Tom feels and goes through. I'm recovering from it now, and so I hope that Tom will get over it too.
I know the feeling dude many guys have issues from early childhood living can get really bleak so quickly watch out for the skin deep etc
I’ve suffered depression and chronic anxiety all my life and tried to bury my demons with alcohol and cocaine , I
couldn’t leave the fucking house for weeks sometimes months nevermind be the frontman of a massive band , it’s too easy for people to use the mental health excuse as a shield to hide behind , when the truth is they were really just a class A cunt, there is no excuse to put your hands on a woman you claim to love . Mental health my hole , Serge saw through his bullshit and was in a better position to judge than any fan .
Tom, your voice gives me the chills. You belong on stage sharing love with those who can't live without you singing
I was feeling the same words. I wouldn't have been able to say.
Thank you for transcribing
+1❤
Liam looking well. Shame he and Noel can’t reconcile.
😂😂😂😂😂
Troll.
This band thinks it is oasis bit is just a pub band at best. Couldn't find a melody in a melody shop
@@Lonely_Goat Send us a demo.
@@qwanathomas735 I don't walk and talk like I am in the world's biggest band thou.
Me: 'I wonder if that lad from Kasabian has sorted his life out and might get back together with his band'
Watches this video: 'RIP Kasabian'
What do you mean “Sorted his life out”- He’s a Psychopath you nut job he’s never going to change!!!
@@peterjones2737 thats what I meant
@@peterjones2737 why are you on every vid..what hes done to you?
I can't find the video, can someone please explain to me what is happening? All I know is that he has a addiction problem and that he once abused his wife ( which is unacceptable)
You just explained it 🥴
Is this an outtake from Spinal Tap?
Spinal SLAP
I met Tom and a few of the other members of Kasabian outside Leicester train station whilst I was there for a weeks worth of work. He didn’t want a fuse so I didn’t give him one. Tom is very down to earth and I asked “ why are you always on a European tour when I want to see you live”? He replied my family always say the same thing. He was waiting for sergio to get a train to the recording studio. I wished that into existence as I really wanted to meet them as I’ve loved them since the soccer am days. I didn’t take a picture but I did in my mind.
Exciting times
@@meesamagill1193 ruthless 🤣🤣🤣
@@kylejames983 😬
So you carry fuses everywhere with you? Don't be surprised if not everyone wants one. Many of us have spares in the house.
@@chelseapoet3664 😆😆😆😆😆
When it came out he had been fired from the band, he put out a statement making it seem like he was a victim, no mention of the pain he had caused on others. Then the band was forced to come out and reveal he had physically assaulted his partner.
Now in this "remorseful" video he again paints himself as a victim. He never once mentions how his partner must have felt through it all, just that he had been through hell. This is why it's so unconvincing to most of the viewers of this video.
I knew nothing about what had happened but gathered from the headline he should maybe be apologising for something ?.... but he didn't!
I wonder if the child that witnessed the attack has been given counselling, or are they just hoping it will forget?
That’s between him and his partner. He owes us nothing.
MsChitterchat - No it isn't. Children have a right to protection from abusers. This is why safeguarding laws exist.
Correct.His partner knows which side her bread is buttered so is going a long with it all like they do that’s what you missed.
I hope he gets back with the Kasabian boys on tour, he's way too talented a performer to be sitting about. The way he could command an audience only a select few could do.
True
So you’re ok with him beating his wife?
@@TheMusicalElitist No, I'm ok with forgiveness and my opinion that the intense heat of a moment and argument can make people do things they normally wouldn't do, especially when drunk.
@@Rosstacular Spoken like a true enabler
@@TheMusicalElitist Spoken like a saint who has never done a wrong
'Shamed' star feels a bit unnessecary when he was nice enough to give an ad-hoc interview...
Yes he was. But he'll always have that stigma....good job nobody else has ever done anything wrong....
He looks like he’s not well
Drugs
Terrible laugh from is wife and he's just a hard stool with a sob story.
could nt care less.. he beat up his wife!
He looks like every indie rock star when they give up the loud mouth soup. A nervous geek
@@thesound-chameleonman3580 play the victim and you will win! lol
All the best Tom, so glad you're on the up.....was gutted to see how you were treated by ex band mates after such a long time and what you did and achieved together, turned my stomach to see them at tramlines without you.
You and your Missis make a lovely couple, every relationship has its ups and downs, just not every kerfuffle makes the news, brilliant that it has all brought you closer together. Cant wait to hear your solo stuff. ....count me in for a ticket when you tour!!
kerfuffle?... 😂 kerfuffle?!?! he beat up a woman infront of a child ffs. id hate to be in your life when shit hits the fan if this is what you call a kerfuffle
This is classic example of a guy who can't take ownership of what he's done. It certainly comes across as he sees himself as the victim. Feel sorry for the woman, very weird that she's almost apologies for him. The way that they both say it was a one off at the same time screams of denial from both of them. Very sad that someone in his position can't lead a better example other than being a twitchy addict who denies responsibility and blames it on his adhd. Very sad.
Well said Rhys. A proper, insightful comment. Cannot understand people justifying what he has done...
She needs to get some self esteem and self worth. I would also be concerned for the child that witnessed the assault. I’m not saying that he can’t get better but until he takes some personal responsibility he won’t stop portraying himself as a victim.
Your response is a classic example of being butthurt and salty.
I’m a Psychiatrist..
you don't know what the situation was. he has put himself out to the world and admitted what he done was wrong and took ownership 00:44 . get over yourself
Make amends with KASABIAN , show them you've changed... No one wants KASABIAN to end this way and without you it just doesn't work.
Why would they need this abuser?
@@christianchavz857 they don't exactly need him but to keep the whole band together. Yes he did something very wrong but everyone deserves forgiveness if they apologize and are sincere, haven't you ever done anything wrong? And if you have most likely you seek forgiveness, and you would want to be forgiven. Most of all his partner has forgiven him,so why shouldn't we?
@@kasabianrage7487 🤦🏼♂️ fanaticism intensifies. Of course, nobody’s perfect! but there’s a big difference between not being perfect and being an abuser, beating a woman up is not just a “mistake”.
@@christianchavz857 agreed but he's not a habitual abuser and people need a chance to be forgiven if not well were all guilty of something and then just complete hypocrites.
@@kasabianrage7487 saw this and I don’t believe it seriously 🤦🏻♂️ I’m shocked about this kinda thought you got for a person convicted in court for assaulting his partner in front of their child, dragging her by ankles and hitting her in the face with a wooden pallet!! also he lied saying he hadn’t done anything to the rest of the band before turning round in court pleading guilty. Also he denied everything until he realized there were a lot of proofs like videos also the witness his own child who called the police, if you don’t know about law, let me tell you this was better for him (admitting the assault) not because he was feeling any remorse but cause it was better for him, if he still denied the assault even with those proofs showed in court there would’ve been a more serious court ruling for him.
They’re better off without him!!!
Looks like he has no legs.
He might have lost them because of what happened. Have some respect. You could fall on hard times one day too. Everyone makes mistakes
@@georgem3197 eh?
Sorry, has Tom still got legs?? If no legs, where the fucks his feet gone, and don't ask me who has his shins. He has fallen on hard times mind...
It’s his spine that’s missing.
@@georgem3197 lighten up. He still has his legs . As far as I know.
Must be alot of prefect people on here, Tom knows he messed up and mental health is in all of us and we all have a breaking point, good luck to them both in the future b
Domestic abuse isn’t justified by mental health issues.
NO EXCUSES
prefect?
@@Retrobeemer did you see his reaction to the audio recording of it, not that it's justified but he clearly had issues and didn't just hit his partner for the sake of it
@@arlocooper3384 I don’t doubt he had issues but alcohol doesn’t make people abusers. It just adds fuel to the fire. I would suggest she leaves and takes her child with her. Now that poor kid has to grow up with the man it saw beat it’s mother. He doesn’t even appear to have any remorse. Just banging on about how tough it’s been on him!
Power hungry Serge will never let this man return. Got rid of the best member of the band in Chris Karloff in 2006, which he was probably secretly delighted at. As the years went by increasingly looked for any reason to get rid of Tom - which Tom handed him on a plate. Serge is an absolute charlatan and snake. Don't know what the hell Kasabian are now. Jumping about like he's in a peak midlife crisis.
Either nervous or very shifty...but seemed very fidgety and weird...i hope its the truth but it just seemed a bit off
Tom super proud of you. I lost it with my Mrs too, pissed & stressed, nothing to outrageous but I decided to quit the booze. Almost a year. It’s a great life. A fresh journey, I never say never but now I’m committing to two years because it’s gone so well. All the very best to you. Keep rocking. Would You Mind is f’ing brilliant by the way. It’s my go-to track at the moment 👏
Ok I know that you people are fans of Kasabian. I am too. But dear fans... wtf?! He beat his partner by hitting in the head and other parts of the body. He was drunk. If he did it once, he can repeat it every time he's angry. The thing is that it should not have happened. This was seen by the child who called the police. He didn't plead guilty until the CCTV video was shown to him. It's so cruel. I can understand comments such as "New beginning, good luck" but not "I don't think he's a usual beater" or "we love you Tom
You think what you think, I think what I think. I am not ashamed for this, dear keeper of justice and truth.
His wife's forgave him mate
@@ungobungo7986 Correct (wonder how sth like that could be forgiven in a marriage though). I just think that the attitude of people in the comments belittles the tragedy that happened and I strongly disagree with the one that said it's overreacting, because it's not. And I don't think he doesn't deserve another chance. I keep my fingers crossed for his transformation but the use of violence against the weak is sth that should be condemned with no exceptions.
@@karol515253 of course, and if his wife hadn't forgiven him then it would be as you said but she has and I'm sure shed rather it be dropped
@@onlythebear2490 Well, I certainly don't envy you having this kind of attitude, dear absolutely-no-empathy man. Wonder how would you react if it was your mother or sister.
Hate to say it, but I'd rather see Tom solo then the rest of the current Kasabian. Tom's just that big of a presence.
Not convinced these two have not drunk in 8 months.
why would they lie?
@@cfcdaviddcfc dunno
Tom mate..... Keep on trucking please...... Amazing frontman...... Amazing voice...... Fantastic gig belfast..... Please i hope you all the success
I could be more understanding if this was his first meltdown, but it’s not.. The last time was in 2017,when he split with his long term partner, he had to move into his own flat, as he’d had a ‘serious meltdown’, he gives us all a head’s up regards his ‘self destructive behaviour’. It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to understand that this isn’t Tom’s first violent freak out. This lovely partner will have given him yet another chance. So yeah, I’m with Sergio on this, you can’t keep fucking up like this and expect people to say oooh, he’s fixed, he’s been sober for 8 months so it’s all ok.
8 months sobriety is a start at least. I'm sure he knows that the hard work is only just beginning.
so he has hit women before?
@@thesound-chameleonman3580 I can’t be certain, but reading between the lines of his past freak outs I think so.
Feels bad moment when this has more views than every Kasabian song since his departure
He’s made a mistake and is trying to move forward to a better life for himself, family and friends.
It’s actually nobody’s business but they’re being open about their struggles.
Be kind, forgive and move forward...surly that’s a better way?
Never ANY excuses for beating up a woman. Cowardice.
@@thesound-chameleonman3580 exactly
Just to be clear, what precisely is nobody’s business? Would you say the same if he had been convicted of child porn offences?
The new Ike & Turner
@@Mark-gp5zg did they hit each other?
He is a beautiful singer & a very talented person. Life is hard, and we all mess up. Being able to admit our wrongs & try to do right when things are tough is sign of great strength. I wish them both well. 🕊 📻 🎙
Going solo didn’t do Richard Ashcroft any harm,best wishes Tom,I,ll look out for your next album
Ian brown would be better comparison .... i'm assuming you know why
Watching this in 2024, about to see him in December 👍🎸🍺
He sounds so good with his live stuff now, can't wait
😭😭😭😭jealous
Looks changged up to me.
Just saying
Top front man tom , belongs on the stage
Bless you both. Huge respect. Life is far from easy, and too many people are willing to point the finger without acknowledging their own issues.
Stay strong both of you. Sending genuine love as someone who's been there. Admitting your failings is probably the most difficult thing you can do, but learning from them makes you!.
So chuffed for you both. Stay Blessed.
Such a heartfelt comment. So true.
@@dreamwalker4631
💜
admitting your failings only after your bandmates have to call you out in public for them. so noble and humble i can see why she is clinging on to him😂
no, but now i see how weak minded both these two are i see why the band took the actions to call him out publicly, as clearly she wasnt gunna call him out on it. thing would only get worse between them and it would of come back to bite the entire band if they didnt name and shame him. whoever decided to sack him probably saved his life
Major drug problem. Trust me I've been there.
Coke/speed will ruin his life
Drink not drugs
That's what I thought. Over acting. Hopefully he can get back on track
@@spencerglover1 drink is a drug
He looks anxious which is totally alright. If he's been an addict he was probably drowning that side out with the drink.
It's getting the tools now and building on your life. He will find out in the end why the fook did he do the drinking in the first place. He will rise and entertain again with the right people in his life x
When is the rematch?
Hopefully she beats the crap out of him
His Mrs is a keeper ,I'm bummed he won't be there tomorrow in knebworth, but she's helping him and I respect that
Maybe I'm wrong, but this did not look genuine to me. She looks super nervous, not relaxed at all, he definitely looks like he's on something, can't sit still at all, or stop for breath. Time will tell I suppose.
I get the point but maybe he is nervous ? But of a weird situation isn’t it. Would of been nice to hear the word sorry in their somewhere
@@portamentouk would have not would of.
He’s also got ADHD, as an adult who has it too I can confirm you can’t sit still lol
@@op-xv3ui We know what he meant to say. Anyone pulling that online grammar police stunt is so fucking lame. 🙄
@@alexclemence8685 I’ve just noticed he made another mistake - their instead of there; wouldn’t have noticed if you hadn’t replied to me, so thanks for that. I’ll let him know now. Merry Xmas! 🎄
Look, everyone knows it was bad what he did, there's no denying it, but to write off an entire mans life for a mistake is just ridiculous and incredibly narcissistic of the people to even think that , every human on this planet makes mistakes and outside of handful of heinous acts, every human deserves a second chance.
Cancel culture. The ghouls want BL00d 😆
It’s like watching David St Hubbins and Jeanine Pettibone
Not really.
Yes
Love and blessings to you Tom. Kasabian just are not the same without you.
You see it goes like this , me me me and me , then it was me me and me again....
Tried to find the actual CCTV footage without success. Any links please?
Tom deserves more than a chance to start again. He did wrong, he admits it. I dont think hes a usual beater. People who judge in a tough way maybe are perfect people?
Oh, he is just the occasional beater?
@@menlove251 What do you know about it? Are you in their home?
Is it me or does he not sound convinced ?
100 percent mate
Good fortune to the both of you , you clearly love each other very much . Stuff happens , we learn and move on . I think that you are both an inspiration regarding what can be achieved , when many others have thrown in the towel . Big ;love to the both of you , Mark ❤️.
Awww i'm glad to see you both looking happy, wishing you nothing but lots of luck and love as you continue to move forward ❤❤❤
You can tell something’s really wrong when the victim says to her aggressor: “You’ve been through hell, haven’t you?” Wtf?! 🥴
Turns out you cant
They were both victims
She admits she was the aggressor and wanted to stand up in court and say thus. But was blocked by the law.
I mean Jesus they are not a boy band , some of the stuff rock bands of the past got up to and they sack him for 1 mistermeaner . Serge obviously saw this as his opportunity to take over vocals ,
@@EdwardCLin everything is a conspiracy. How were they supposed to continue with him being a convicted wife beater. That label would never go away regardless of the it being a drunken blip in his life
Good luck Tom, stay safe, stay clean, stay focused on the future.
and avoid beating up women
@@thesound-chameleonman3580 and putting videos on RUclips where its pretty clear you are on an entirely different continent from being ok
@@stevefoster7529 he's like we are all happy again even though i kicked the shit out of her! sickening behaviour no excuses, he is finished career wise t.v. etc now.
Tom, your a good lad, things happen in life, no one is perfect, we all.do things we wish we hadn't. You'll be ok.
Was the heating off?
I hate the fact you're having to explain yourself. It's a tough process that your going through, I know because I've been there. I wish you and your Mrs all the best. If she can forgive you then everyone else should too. It's so easy to judge but so hard for people to take a step back and try to understand other people's issues. Keep up the good/hard work, much love from one of your very loyal fans. X
You don’t beat up a woman and then just move on. I’m sorry but I wouldn’t still be with him.
Two people grasping onto straws. I loved kasabian, but when the missus is brought in the salvage the day it’s all very sad and not warranted.
You really shouldn't give these abusers air time - no excuses for beating up women ...... period !
100% true.
If a person learns from their mistakes then a second chance should be granted
No excuse for beating up anyone. Let’s not make it gendered eh?
No excuse for beating up men or women.
@@Greggorious123 no excuses game over for him now
This interview would be better in Dobly.
‘She means Dolby alright, she means dolby’.....😎
I cannot like the comment enough 🤣
The Vicar of Dobly
@@Grantrap Thomas Dobly.
You can't record rock singers in Dobly....
Love you both, thankyou and keep strong xx
Would be nice to hear the word sorry somewhere here
Watching this you struggle to work out what’s actually happened, I get life’s not black and white but doesn’t come across well, shit happens isn’t really a valid excuse in 2020 . Ladism has aged
It is quite clear he is still under the influence and struggling.
he beat up his wife... no excuses
That was uncomfortable to watch. He looks like he’s on drugs and it almost sounds like he’s being coerced by the woman next to him.
He’s always hyper, and that happens to be his partner who he hit. I know all about being coerced, but it’s very rarely the abuse victim doing the coercing
He’s probably nervous and uncomfortable in talking about the subject.
@@danieljonespt2876 so he should be... no explanation will make up for what this thing did... vile
Antipsychotic meds it looks like.
Since all this was kept fairly quiet for a while are we sure we know the whole story? I guess I’m just suspicious as she reminds me of Amber Heard.
This feels like a comedy skit
the double thumbs up and the end lol
He kinda reminds me of this guy ruclips.net/video/rm9jBH7ufRU/видео.html
@@Razormiller god this is accurate
"You ever took a punch in the ribcage hunny"
Sonny*
@@doricdave I know mate, I was being silly
Victim says to Tom “you’ve been through hell haven’t you?”. It’s not acceptable to beat the shit out of a woman. He will do it again in a few years I’d bet my life on it.
Be careful of what you bet your life for! People like you will never change the world for better! You silly f**k!
That's addiction for you though unfortunately.
Without a shadow of a doubt!!
All the best to you Tom for the future ❤
She looks like him without a beard 🤣
Yeah!!!!!!
Omg how to stop see it now? 😂😂😂😂😂
Frankly the band were out of line to sack him. Some friends they are. They should have just let the legal process take its course and said -"yeah he fucked up, he's going to have pay for his crime, this is his last chance - if it happens again he is out." Everyone deserves a second chance.
Shame on you Tom
why?
Good luck to both of you! Hopefully, Kasabian will be together and back stronger one day! Either way, looking forward to your solo album Tom! :)
game over they kicked him out of the band for beating up his own wife.. no excuses.. his solo won't get him anywhere now.
Ffs sake nasty comments here he’s made a mistake like everyone else . He’s not looking well but I’m sorry but depression is an hard road to walk up
I'd hardly call giving your Mrs a good hiding "a mistake",but hey ho different strokes an all that.
I've been depressed and never beat up and drag my gf by the hair. I guess i 've been doing depression wrong
@@mateamargo5261 I didn’t realise you were the authority on how depression and alcoholism should affect everyone. I’ll message you should I ever feel depressed in future
@@blythwood1973 what was it if he didn’t mean to do it when depression and alcohol took hold? Don’t fall from your high horse will you?
@@bulliboyz manys the wife beater and perpetrator of domestic violence have come out with that shite. Pathetic.
Has anyone considered the hamster’s feelings in all of this?
The hamster only makes statements through his manager now
Is this his new Amazon Prime show?
Ha, ha, ha, ha... 😆
I think the hamster is long gone. Judging by the coat Vikki is wearing.
david robinson Ha, Ha 😆
Its a funny one. An amazing group with a fantastic lead singer and this happens. Its never ok to hit a partner. He realises this but lets hope he's learnt from it. Definitely go for a solo career because Kasabian are rubbish now.
As much as I like Tom the Kasabian lads had no choice but to ask him to leave. Everyone makes mistakes but denying domestic abuse initially then only admitting it when caught on security cameras is awful. Hopefully he gets the help he needs and wish him all the best
Bollocks his private life shouldn't have mattered , prince Andrew abused minors and didn't get as much flak , country is back to front
@@marky1888no1 I agree with you regarding Prince Andrew but not the rest. He committed domestic abuse against his partner, denied it and only admitting after he was shown security footage. That does matter! If it was a small offence then no worries but something on the magnitude of domestic abuse can't be ignored. The lads had no choice to let him go but hope he sorts himself out
Its his private life if his wife forgives him what has it got to do with the media and the public, what he did was out of order but it doesn't affect me listening to him singing in kasabian, John lennon hiy his wife hes a national hero
@@marky1888no1 It depends on the crime committed. If it was something small then ok. However what he committed was domestic abuse, which isn't a private issue (despite his wife forgiving him) it's a sociatal issue, it's a moral issue and it's a criminal issue. If it just rested on being a private issue what message does that send out? That domestic abuse is ok? It can get be swept under the carpet and all will be forgotten? Sorry no. What Tom forgot was that people like you, me and the others listen to the band's music and some people will look up to him even, people have spent their hard earned money on seeing the band live, bought the records. So the lads had no choice but to let him go. He not only let himself down but everyone connected to the band too. He let himself down further by only admitting to it after he was shown security footage. Ffs he did it in front of his child and the child had to call the police. It's very sad however I hope he can get the help he needs. John Lennon should have been punished for what he did to Mrs, though domestic abuse was largely ignored back then, if he had done that in this day and age it would have been a big issue.
@@stoneroses22 well said...
The fact that his wife supports him still shows that isn't really his character. We all have our issues. We all have our bottoms. Some are uglier then others but he seems like a good lad. Sucks he isn't in Kasabian but I can enjoy them and his solo stuff at the same time.
Definitely deserves a second chance, all you need Tom is some great tunes, great vocals and hopefully people can move on.
Kasabian ? Great tunes oh well first time for everything
no excuses, he beat up his wife. game over
@@thesound-chameleonman3580 not about excuses. He has been punished, time to move on.
@@heeeeeyyyyyyyyy did he go to jail?
@@thesound-chameleonman3580 no because no one in the UK goes to jail. But I have no idea about his sentence and I doubt either of us are qualified to or possess enough of the facts to pass judgment.
Tom well done mate. Everyone deserves a second chance. Great to see you're in recovery. Alcohol is deadly and can raise our demons. All the best of luck.
People make mistakes and go through there own personal and relationships problems. He never had a previous track record of anything bad and shouldn't be thrown under a bus for one mistake. There both rebuilding there life together and Good luck to them both.
He beat up a woman?
@Uncle Sam Not allegedly he was found guilty in court!
In front of her young child
Gud luck tom..singer of the best band ive ever seen live..2004 parr hall warrington...
He's lost something mentally thought. You can see it.
Very nervy... Fidgety.... Like the movements of the disease Michael j fox has...
@@nellmclaughlin3786 it begins with C and ends with E 👃
@@gman5218 Cabbage?
@@gman5218 Coffee?
@@gman5218 confidence?
I find it sad that his wife can forgive him and have him back but his band can’t
Is he supposed to be clean here ?!
ben frost
That's his normal self, he's always been like that. He's got ADHD and always been fidgety
@@lucasm3879 ADHD? Hahaha nothing to do with huge amount of snow he puts away then
@@MultiScampi it might be but he has serious ADHD. Google it.
@@MultiScampi and you would know that how?! You clown
@@sdgagge met him several occasions
I just heard the news, KASABIAN are continuing on with serj taking over vocal duties and Tim Carter becomes a full member of the band....... Im gonna miss Tom but I am excited to know that my favorite band is marching on.... Cant wait for a new album....cheers
Uncomfortable viewing.
Heard the snippet today from his solo stuff n sounds amazing tbh.. good luck to him..
Where'd you hear that mate?
Instagram
Coming from Leicester I am able to translate this for anyone if needed. 👍
He will never be as big as kasabian.
His Partner keeps Buttin In! He doz not sound Apologetic!
Good to see your so called friends given you support mate
I get the impression his wife is his manager now
Liam Gallagher / John Lennon syndrome! What actually happened anyway?
Perhaps thats good.
as long as it's positive it's great !!!! I didn't eat Courtney "love"
He gave her a beating now shes giving his bank account a beating. True love