It's painful to listen to my daughter sing. [Hello Counselor/ENG, THA/2019.03.11]

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  • @momiji7789
    @momiji7789 5 лет назад +1034

    Omg the mom's face lol. It's been a while since I've seen someone just _this_ over it.
    *After getting exposed*
    Daughter: (cries crocodile tears)
    Mom: =_=

    • @MihiroNai
      @MihiroNai 5 лет назад +54

      Same, the only time she seemed a bit relaxed was when she sang but after that, even they complimented her she wasn't even happy for herself

  • @noorfazlin2025
    @noorfazlin2025 5 лет назад +2807

    why she keep saying that her family can't understand her meanwhile she not even try to understand her family. anyway i feel so bad for her grandmother.

    • @nami7305
      @nami7305 5 лет назад +11

      @Mariëlle Weidgraaf I totally agree with you. A child becomes the way parents treat them.

    • @yeonjunsbarkincatanddogmv7628
      @yeonjunsbarkincatanddogmv7628 5 лет назад +4

      Oh the *irony!*

    • @suzieesk9389
      @suzieesk9389 5 лет назад +33

      @Nâmî Not every child becomes the where their parent treat them.
      That girl was very rude and Immature towards her family members. She isn't very considerate towards others. She said her grandmother was harsh to her, but does she know why? She didn't. Also by damaging other people's things like what she did to her grandma was something very mean and selfish, she even broke her grandma favourite chair. For me, I thinks it's a concern. Both sides has problems.

    • @yogurljane557
      @yogurljane557 5 лет назад

      Yes it's sad

    • @thisisntallowed9560
      @thisisntallowed9560 5 лет назад +7

      @@suzieesk9389 Every child react differently. She's not very considerate and I think she's in a state of revenge. But she takes her anger on everyone around her. Everytime someone says that she is wrong she just ignore why they're angry. Maybe it's too hard for her to admit that she is wrong because of the way she's been raised. When her mother speaks to her when she's angry she really doesn't weight her words, maybe that's why she can't admit she's wrong. She seem to really not realize that she's being selfish but at the same time her mother shouldn't talk to her that way.

  • @loveyjoonstm3321
    @loveyjoonstm3321 5 лет назад +710

    OMG THE MOM IS SO TALENTED SHE SHOULD BE A SINGER INSTEAD

    • @from1__107
      @from1__107 4 года назад +5

      Since her and Ravi both have deep voices and can sing they should collaborate

    • @floralfancy7814
      @floralfancy7814 2 года назад +2

      Doesn't mean the daughter should give up on her lifelong dream though.

  • @chimchim8240
    @chimchim8240 5 лет назад +2110

    Watching her crying really pissed me off 🙄 selfish af

    • @mariecie6337
      @mariecie6337 5 лет назад +21

      Yes😣 I cant help but screamed bcause Im so pissed off

    • @sarahdawn5100
      @sarahdawn5100 5 лет назад +60

      I honestly got pissed too cuz I felt like they were just crocodile tears. The only reason they said something harsh was because she did something wrong or never talked about it...

    • @annalizasaet5475
      @annalizasaet5475 5 лет назад +6

      But not yuqi

    • @soniahardani
      @soniahardani 5 лет назад +1

      Yea right, a total drama queen

    • @ynynrmhrmgebgergnrbwfbgebe749
      @ynynrmhrmgebgergnrbwfbgebe749 5 лет назад +6

      IM EXTREMELY DISGUSTED BY HER ESP WHEN SHE CRY

  • @eizosmicrowave8698
    @eizosmicrowave8698 5 лет назад +1413

    *while crying*
    “She says I’m a rotten child…”
    Me: CUZ BISH U ARE

    • @seanhand396
      @seanhand396 4 года назад

      @@chitea6014 I agree, communication is a path to better understanding. Especially in a family.

    • @kih6789
      @kih6789 4 года назад +8

      @@chitea6014 but her younger sister is less than an adult than her but acted way more maturely? considering your logic then that shouldnt be possible. also her nan obviously supported her and you can tell she sided with her at the beginning by trying to put excuses for how the oldest daughter acted and yet she retaliated by breaking her chair and table and that could have seriously hurt her considering her age. my older sister was like that by screaming and yelling, breaking things and as a family we all became more considerate and she just turned into a dictator like the daughter in this show. even if we walked on egg shells, i would be hit all of the time and threatened with knives and my sister was understood and supported more than the girl. sometimes it isnt the familys fault and imo she definitely isnt the victim in this situation, because no matter what type of point she tried to get across it becomes invalid the second she starts acting violently. did her family ever break things, throw shampoo bottles and disturb her all throughout the night even when she had exams? the most she can complain about is being told off (which happens a lot more to even well behaved children) however her family are obviously the victims by the stories they talk about. even if she has a mental illness it still doesnt disregard the fact that her family are victims.

    • @themanidentifiedasdinosaur8138
      @themanidentifiedasdinosaur8138 3 года назад +2

      ​@@chitea6014 Respect begets respect. If she wants to be understood, she also must know how to understand.
      Even if she's, as you say, not mature mentally yet, her mom's request is really simple. Don't sing loudly from 3am to 12 noon since that's her sleep time. What is wrong about that? No one is asking her to stop singing or practicing. They are simply asking for a compromise to tone it down in the morning.
      If she really wants to practice in the morning, she can go to arcades. There's music booth in there. Even if she screams her brains out, no one would say anything. I'm trying to understand her wanting to pursue her career but the simple thing that your mom, who is feeding you, wants a good night (or morning since she gets home at 3am and sleeps until noon) sleep, and you can't do that one simple request and your reaction is to dump all the shampoos in the bathroom, scatter clothes, break furnitures, If I were the dad, I literally would've kicked her out of the house. AND I MEAN THAT LITERALLY.
      If you're not spending or sharing anything for the house yet, you don't have any rights to destroy or waste anything at your house. She should be head over heels thanking her parents for keeping her alive and even accompanying her to record labels studios. Rotten child is actually and understatement and very generous of her mother.
      Again, if I would ask you, if you were her, would it be hard if your mom asked you, "Please, Guk Chuu, don't sing in the morning. I want to sleep." Was it that hard?

  • @Lollita438
    @Lollita438 5 лет назад +549

    the grandma is so cute

  • @theblondeshespeaks
    @theblondeshespeaks 5 лет назад +1513

    Why doesn't she try going to a karaoke place? 🤗

    • @NJkurokitty7
      @NJkurokitty7 5 лет назад +124

      theblondeshespeaks now there’s a constructive idea I can get behind.

    • @skyhope5105
      @skyhope5105 5 лет назад +77

      if she sings so loud how about she finds a place outside, abandoned where she wouldn't cause noise to people around her. If I was so serious I would find a quiet place like that. Also has she ever went to auditions? Even if she is not good enough it's always good to show her skills no matter the level.

    • @anak4600
      @anak4600 5 лет назад +6

      I guess it's about money

    • @winnieli7257
      @winnieli7257 5 лет назад +5

      wait thats actually a great idea

    • @akim5702
      @akim5702 5 лет назад +27

      @@anak4600 That's not an excuse because karaoke is so cheap in Korea. There's even coin rooms, where you go in and pay 50 cents per song.

  • @areumpark6104
    @areumpark6104 5 лет назад +452

    She could have seriously injured her grandma with her damn attitude. Messing with her stuff to break???!?! Like seriously what’s wrong with her. If I was related to her, I would’ve taught her a damn lesson by now

    • @wfrzna1210
      @wfrzna1210 4 года назад +3

      sameee I seriously hate her attitude like EWWW I don't want that near me at all

  • @nmatulhs7846
    @nmatulhs7846 5 лет назад +375

    eventhough she's crying, I didnt have a pinch of pity for her at all. It seems like she's faking it to get people on her side. lol. The most creepy part was what she did to her grandma. How can you have a heart to do that to your grandma?Oh my goodness girl!! May your grandma live a long life.

  • @keyqchan
    @keyqchan 5 лет назад +136

    Imma buy Mom's songs if she ever release an album/single.

  • @Momo-vo9io
    @Momo-vo9io 5 лет назад +451

    She is the first guest that cried and I was unmoved. How is your family speaking harshly to you justification for doing all that shit?! Like her grandmother could have injured herself severely. And with all that she decides to play victim. The idol who found some connection to her totally missed the point, her mother does support her dream to an extent because she took her to lessons and auditions she just wants her to be considerate of the family. Sigh, so frustrating.

    • @jaehyuniversity
      @jaehyuniversity 3 года назад +12

      Idk but when she cried i really got annoyed,she's crying and checking herself on the screen

    • @arbitrium1520
      @arbitrium1520 2 года назад +1

      On the one hand, she should be considerate of her family, and rather than destroying things, she could use other ways to solve the problem, on the other hand, he mother did not take very good care of her when she is young so that may have resulted in her personality now..

  • @misha745
    @misha745 5 лет назад +410

    I understand she must practice but she can do it at a reasonable hour and stop when people are sleeping. That's basic common curtosy.
    Sidenote: I can't believe she went around sneakily breaking her grandmother's things, especially her chair. SMH. She's lucky she the grandmother didn't get seriously injured.

    • @nova-in9oh
      @nova-in9oh 2 года назад +1

      imagine if her grandmother collapsed because of that broken chair. that child is so inconsiderate of others. lashing out on her grandmother just bc she kept barging into her room? and the grandmother told her to understand bc she’s not used to knocking. what a spoiled brat.

  • @madeinbusanjkjm
    @madeinbusanjkjm 5 лет назад +118

    Jinyoung is such an angel, she is so beautiful and sweet and fun.
    This woman is seriously entitled. I understand that she has a dream but I can't stand inconsiderate people. I wish she moved out so she at least wouldn't bother her family with her singing. When you live with other people you just simply have to consider them as well. Loved the mum's trot singing though.

  • @esveaz
    @esveaz 5 лет назад +685

    people commented how fake she is with her tears and i can see that too.
    i guess not only audiences but even the MC also sees that. usually MC especially Yeongja would show empathy once the "trouble-maker" crying, or some of them would even say "they are remembering bad memories, they are being touched, etc" but this time when this girl cried they give no shit and doesnt even change their mind to give her advice and make her pull herself together
    (i mean yeah everyone can see how fake her tears are)

    • @thisisntallowed9560
      @thisisntallowed9560 5 лет назад +15

      Her tears wasn't fake. Now it's not because someone's crying that people should be on her side. If she did something wrong she needs to know what even if she's crying. I believe she is truy hurt by her mother's words.

    • @Hip.Username
      @Hip.Username 5 лет назад +21

      To add to what kaepora said, the judges all said it wasn't a concern. When they think someone is full of shit they say it's a concern. If you raise a kid always talking harshly to them they'll learn to talk harshly. If you constantly call a kid a brat they'll believe it and resent you. She was hurt, but instead of expressing her feelings properly she just did what her mom did, act coldly and angrily. It wasn't considered a concern because they were both able to say how they really felt, and that alone can make a big difference

    • @Hip.Username
      @Hip.Username 5 лет назад +9

      @@pryzylla7017 how do you think she got used to getting her way? How do you think she learned to react with anger? I never said she was completely innocent, I'm saying they're not taking responsibility for their part in it. Her family hasn't taught her the right way to react to anything, and they're calling her a brat because she's doing what she's learned from them. I find it so stupid when people do things like yell at their kids and talk to them like they're not people, then when their kids learn this behavior and apply it to situations they're the ones who are brats. If you treat your child with no empathy, they will learn to have no empathy, and won't consider how someone might feel if they do something to hurt them because they've never been shown that same treatment. You can apply this to any situation when teaching children- if you're doing it, they will do it. Blaming a kid for doing what you taught them is just stupid. You can see on the mom's face when her daughter starts crying over the hateful things she's been told, she gives 0 shits about her daughter's feelings. That's the root of the problem.

    • @thisisntallowed9560
      @thisisntallowed9560 5 лет назад +5

      @@pryzylla7017 We're not giving her excuses for the bad things she does we're just explaining where this is coming from. What she did is not okay everyone agrees with this. Anger was probably her only coping skill, anger is very often a response to fear or powerlessness. Everyone around her treats her as 'rotten'.
      For her, it could be like they all validate the harsh things her mother has said to her

    • @lavinder11
      @lavinder11 5 лет назад +10

      @@thisisntallowed9560 They were fake as hell. No one was buying it; you can tell by the hosts' reactions where even Yeongja wasn't trying to comfort her. They said what they had to say go end the concern.
      That girl is rotten and used her mother speaking harshly to her (after she'd done something wrong) as an excuse. She didn't have one reaction to her mother recounting her sickness, but had all the tears when her tampering with her grandmother's stool was exposed. SMH

  • @fatirafimor1326
    @fatirafimor1326 5 лет назад +122

    I think the mom who will get called to sing trot after this episode aired... Not her daughter, she is toxic and selfish... The daughter voice is common and not unique.. But no doubt, she's a good singer though, for a citizen lol

  • @ygkatqs9121
    @ygkatqs9121 5 лет назад +67

    She’s so selfish.The fact that she cried annoys me.Just because you wanna be a singer doesn’t mean you have to rule anyone.They are not bothering your dream to become an singer YOU are destroying for own image on national TV and that is BAD.She needs to connect with her family and let someone else be the “head” of the family.She can’t take criticism or harsh words about her or anything!That annoys me so much!And the fact that she would have almost hurt her grandmother is cruel!Hopefully she realizes and hopefully,her family gets rest and keep fighting for her dreams.
    (Her mom is so good at singing!!)💜

  • @e.a.1548
    @e.a.1548 5 лет назад +73

    They need counseling, she's selfish, but the parents also are in fault.
    The insults she receives won't change her, it only hurts her, and the more she feels like her family doesn't listen or love her, the more she becomes selfish.

    • @홍홍홍-f8d
      @홍홍홍-f8d 5 лет назад +26

      L U M A T I C I’m not she’s right to be insulting her daughter but let’s be real, her mom probably started off asking nicely but since her daughter kept taking it too far I’m guessing she lost her patience.

    • @e.a.1548
      @e.a.1548 5 лет назад +1

      @@홍홍홍-f8d I agree, but still would recommend all of them to go together to therapy

  • @IDK-we1ey
    @IDK-we1ey 5 лет назад +50

    She's playing the victim at any opportunity she gets, but her actions speak louder than words. I honestly feel so bad for her family, especially for her lovely grandma.

  • @yogiepratama5782
    @yogiepratama5782 5 лет назад +27

    How can she be a singer with THAT ATTITUDE??

  • @choohah5604
    @choohah5604 5 лет назад +46

    With this kind of attitude. She cant even survive a day in entertainment industry once she taste how harsh that world is 😒😤

  • @doyoungstoes4516
    @doyoungstoes4516 4 года назад +30

    The older daughter actually pissed me off but seeing Yuqi's cute face made me stay calm
    Edit: now I'm crying because yuqi is crying

  • @kalinalikadziyauskas3770
    @kalinalikadziyauskas3770 5 лет назад +37

    I hate how when the MCs ask her why she did that and her answer always is "They spoke harshly to me." Like, girl that doesn't give you the right to break your grandma's things, trash your mom's room, throw a tantrum.

  • @MeirianaChen
    @MeirianaChen 5 лет назад +7

    There's this saying, "Mom's love is the best in this world". No matter how bratty her children are, she will always love & support you no matter what.

  • @MIKROKOSMOS-lk1mw
    @MIKROKOSMOS-lk1mw 5 лет назад +68

    how to slap a person on a phone screen ?
    anyone ?

  • @urbantokyo4313
    @urbantokyo4313 5 лет назад +55

    22:45 THOSE GUYS ARE LUCKY TO BE BETWEEN YUQI AND MINNIE

    • @yirenh
      @yirenh 5 лет назад +2

      ikr !!! lol

    • @uniqueflyerangel8223
      @uniqueflyerangel8223 4 года назад +3

      Yeah facts. I feel like Yuqi resolved the spoilt girl’s issue with her mother more faster than those other guys.

  • @lieni539
    @lieni539 5 лет назад +49

    This is making me mad.. Time to watch Return of Superman.

  • @MiaReduce
    @MiaReduce 5 лет назад +68

    Seeing how she reacted when the mom told the story about her being sick just showed how terrible her as a person is. And when shes cornered, she just plays victim. Those looks like crocodile tears to me. And she needs more vocal practice but shes not too bad. Just that her attitude is bad. Very bad.

  • @eizosmicrowave8698
    @eizosmicrowave8698 5 лет назад +56

    I got sooooo annoyed when she cried. Like boi.
    *STAPH*

  • @ericaachalamet4056
    @ericaachalamet4056 5 лет назад +19

    okay but seeing yuqi crying , my heart

  • @yolandayuda
    @yolandayuda 5 лет назад +23

    Her tears is fake, she has mental problem.
    I am furious to see how bad she treated her family.
    Better kick her out from home.
    Anw, better she doesnt try to sing anymore, her voice is just standard. Why she should proud of it?
    MOM VOICE IS SO GREAT!

  • @TBoneFruit
    @TBoneFruit 5 лет назад +10

    did anyone notice the grandma cheering on the girl when she sang ? way too sweeeet

  • @zsj._0919
    @zsj._0919 3 года назад +9

    Seeing Yuqi cry makes me wanna cry too. T^T

  • @tendainjovu721
    @tendainjovu721 5 лет назад +8

    The mums voice is beautiful ♥️

  • @syuhadahadah7841
    @syuhadahadah7841 5 лет назад +33

    learn how to respect others first then others will respect u.. your attitude is reflection what person u are..

  • @markschickenhand1158
    @markschickenhand1158 5 лет назад +17

    I feel so bad for her grandmother 😔

  • @hana8629
    @hana8629 4 года назад +3

    Seeing Yuqi crying really hurted my heart😭😭
    Don't cry again baby❤❤❤

  • @staceyyang1224
    @staceyyang1224 2 года назад +4

    the mother voice is so nice and omg i love it.

  • @abcde1794
    @abcde1794 5 лет назад +36

    She is really selfish 😡😡
    I think your mother should be cry here not YOU 😡
    Thingking How hard this for your mother
    Try to understand also not only asking other family member to understand you..
    And i dont get it why the guest says this its not concern

  • @mxzls
    @mxzls 4 года назад +4

    her only excuse of her mom being harsh to her was her calling her a rotten child, but yet she is much harsher to her family members

  • @TahOgawa1
    @TahOgawa1 5 лет назад +39

    If I was her mother I would pack her things, give her some little cash and let her live the life she want, far away from the family.
    Do you want to live well? Work for it honey cause I'm done

  • @imanjabrane2072
    @imanjabrane2072 5 лет назад +7

    Mom and daughter are so talented👏 they both have loud and Husky voices.. the mom has a very unique voice and she's better than some popular singers.. I think the daughter is selfish and she needs to think about other people too but don't stop her from archiving her dream.

  • @lavinder11
    @lavinder11 5 лет назад +6

    Those tears were rehearsed. Wow at how this girl turned out.

  • @zohrabaig397
    @zohrabaig397 4 года назад +3

    How could you mess with your grandma especially when she seems that wholesome and cute

  • @mohammadalmajid6599
    @mohammadalmajid6599 5 лет назад +26

    Ngl I skipped through the whole episode (my 10 minute break time XD) and I can already tell the daughter is at fault. Also I heard the mom's trot she is good

  • @uniqueflyerangel8223
    @uniqueflyerangel8223 4 года назад +5

    Yuqi’s crying made me cry 😢

  • @whitecrayon4712
    @whitecrayon4712 5 лет назад +11

    can we talk how the mom so good in singing?

  • @pokerfacenino
    @pokerfacenino 5 лет назад +34

    Here's the thing: this is an issue of emotional abuse. From early on, the daughter was criticized (probably usually fairly!) but in a tone that both lacked compassion and heavily shamed her for things she was sensitive about. She doesn't want to eat with them, because mom heavily judged her appearance when eating. She sabotaged their things because when she spoke to them, they didn't seem to be taking her seriously (so she ramped up the "pay attention to me" response). She CALLED A TEEN COUNSELING LINE because things were getting so bad (GOOD CHOICE!), but even that got turned on her. She is legitimately good at singing--and mom says she's too ugly to make it. Mom literally told the entire room, three times, that the daughter "disappointed her". Of course the daughter is going to take that deeply, deeply personally. None of her responses are appropriate, but they are completely understandable from the point of being criticized to the degree that she has been. Mom refuses to take responsibility and CHANGE HER WORDS. You can criticize without being cruel. She's been cruel. Just because your point is valid doesn't mean you can be mean about it, and they've gone this many years with Mom unwilling to think about her words. "It worries me that you're spending so much time on this" is way, way better than "you're pathetic and wasting your life".
    This relationship is fucked up, and it started with the way mom talks to her.nDaughter's responses? Still absolutely inappropriate, but look at what was modeled to her: cruelty. They both need to learn healthier ways to express discontent without cruelty. Go to real counseling.

    • @wissamalhashemi5548
      @wissamalhashemi5548 3 года назад +11

      You're right.
      On another note, it pisses me off how everyone here is against the daughter and saying that she's fake crying. She has her reasons, though unjustified, they make sense given the way that she has been treated and from her perspective. Yeongja asked her what she has done for her mom, but actually most people don't have the capacity to go the extra mile for others, and that's understandable. Though it's a sad truth, it's the reality of things. It doesn't matter if it's for your mom, grandma, or anyone else. Most people can't even help themselves properly, how can you expect them to help others? What Yeongja said was literally unnecessarily harsh, it would've been better as a suggestion rather than a confrontation. The other male host saved it though, good on him.
      Every comment that I've read above this one have all been shitting on the daughter exclusively, it's so much, makes you want to never look at the comments again.

  • @ramyaananth7000
    @ramyaananth7000 4 года назад +3

    She's a teenager and she's been treated badly since forever. She's never been given warmth to spread it to others. Y'all being extremely rude in the comments section need to understand that she's behaving that way because her mom has always targeted her ego and was extremely rude to her from the get go. She literally had to call a helpline to deal with her stress. Y'all are just insensitive to be saying all that about a teenager from a 23 minutes clip, and that's way more DISGUSTING than her behaviour. Y'all think cyber bullying is okay? The hypocrisy is appalling. This girl's got so much pent up in her and that needs her family to take her to someone more experienced and qualified to talk about it instead of them bringing her on national television and cornering her.

  • @clairenicole1037
    @clairenicole1037 5 лет назад +18

    Im shook when her mom sings like how tf

  • @kaoshengher223
    @kaoshengher223 5 лет назад +14

    I don’t know if it would help but maybe they could put up some like soundproof padding around the room ? Honestly that would help some

  • @yochogiwhatbish8064
    @yochogiwhatbish8064 5 лет назад +3

    OMG HER MUMS VOICE IS SO BEAUTIFUL

  • @iplay2166
    @iplay2166 5 лет назад +6

    Does Minnie knows that she is so charming? I can’t take my eyes off her

  • @Kelly-mn8fd
    @Kelly-mn8fd 4 года назад +6

    I'm surprised she said out loud that she pulled her sister's hair and then expected everyone to side with her when she went on from there about her family being against that

  • @moonbyulstrashcan2047
    @moonbyulstrashcan2047 4 года назад +4

    but no one is gotta talk about how yuqi talked about her past and started crying, i cried 😭

  • @Sjuna8
    @Sjuna8 5 лет назад +6

    I watched many hello counselor episodes. When someone's crying, I always ends up crying too.
    But now when she cried, why I didn't feel anything?

  • @sreyneang682
    @sreyneang682 5 лет назад +30

    With those attitudes she will be alone forever so selfish! Hope she can change and become a singer

  • @amylimplatya117
    @amylimplatya117 5 лет назад +5

    16:00 and after. I can totally relate with her. I used to get blamed for everything I did and didn’t do. That’s why I lock myself in my room these day.

  • @robertdowneyjr5478
    @robertdowneyjr5478 5 лет назад +4

    *I love the guy in the blue. With curly like hair! He’s so adorable from other videos I watched!*

    • @skeywoo318
      @skeywoo318 5 лет назад

      *_Queen Malak RBLX • Coolawesomekid1013_* Ravi from Vixx

  • @bhkplabuq1904
    @bhkplabuq1904 5 лет назад +1

    Guys she doesn't deserve all those hate comments..its so hurtful if she read those comments. Its may even cause trauma or deep depression

  • @jesscyubonglerang3031
    @jesscyubonglerang3031 3 года назад +1

    sometimes i got mad at my parents and grandparents too, but i still respect them... i feel bad for the mother and grandmother...

  • @ruhilsyafinaz1540
    @ruhilsyafinaz1540 3 года назад +1

    It's not because of the mother's comments towards her but it's her behavior and the way she thinks is the problem. She doesn't admit that it's really her fault. I'm not a good daughter but what she's doing is just wow, idk what to say

  • @justinseagull5755
    @justinseagull5755 5 лет назад +46

    *She's acting like victim here.*

  • @idkyikes
    @idkyikes Год назад +2

    the mum: „So I even took her to label companies and other places to SUPPORT HER DREAM“
    the girl: „you don‘t want her to become a singer? you oppose her dream?“
    bruh…sometimes I think that South Koreans don‘t know how to properly listen to someone or don‘t know how to comprehend sentences because this happens to often in this show.

  • @soniajascameron
    @soniajascameron 5 лет назад +6

    She wants to be a singer yet she can't take criticism well? What's she going to do when she gets mean comments and constructive criticism from blogs?? Sue them? 😒😒
    She's just downright mean and psychotic. Those words her mum says are part of parenting. She's only trying to push her and make her strong. Life isn't a bed of roses, she should stop feeling entitled🙅🙅

  • @anggipermatasari280
    @anggipermatasari280 3 года назад +1

    i hate how the daughter is the one who is crying
    the fact that the mom is not crying it means that she cannot even feel anything anymore :(

  • @MadCheshireHat
    @MadCheshireHat 5 лет назад +37

    Haven't finished the video yet, but so far I actually do relate to her about her mom's harsh comments. It does suck when you're working hard toward your dream and your mom is constantly saying things that bring you down. It can make you just want to shut out that person, ignore them and their wishes. But I lived in a very complicated, long-time toxic environment and dysfunctional family with everyone weighed down by their own baggage that affected everyone else. I don't know what their home life is like, but it doesn't really seem like that's the case.
    I usually tried to stay quiet and kept in my room to avoid my mom and her issues.
    Edit 30 seconds later: okay, the throwing her mom's stuff around while she was gone is messed up. That's a total lakc of respect and immaturity. Acting out like a little kid getting petty revenge isn't the answer. Same with the grandma, that's not okay, and is rather scary to be screwing (or unscrewing, as the case may be) with furniture like that. I understand trying to make a point, but you're making the wrong ones!
    I can also relate to the sister story! Mine has done things that I've gotten angry with her about and yelled at her, then my mom would come in yelling at me. Usually I just bit my tongue about things, but eventually everything explodes.
    The comments keep calling her selfish and spoiled and yes, maybe she is, but they don't seem to know how difficult it is living in an environment that is stifling, constantly belittling, and harsh. Not everyone handles things the same way, not everyone is capable of doing so. I totally can see how cutting off from your family like this is seen as selfish and spoiled, but it seems like a coping or survival mechanism. They're both at fault here.
    I think this is still an issue/concern because they might have come to an understanding now, but in my experience, something like this usually isn't resolved in one sitting. Things might be great for awhile, but then people fall back into their old habits and routines. It usually takes ongoing counseling, talks, communication, whatever to stay on the same page and break the cycle. I hope that isn't the case here.

    • @개쇼-m8l
      @개쇼-m8l 5 лет назад

      CheshireKat .....

    • @idkyikes
      @idkyikes Год назад

      harsh comments?! Gurl…How is she working hard for her dream?? All what she is doing is warming up her voice and singing at home; if she truly aspires to become a singer than she should go to a karaoke and sing to her heart content there! and not annoying every single family member

  • @hannah_1009
    @hannah_1009 4 года назад +3

    I love her grandma ! At 9:29 it was so cute 😊

  • @clearblueskies1145
    @clearblueskies1145 5 лет назад +20

    More of Yuqi pls. Also, can't stand the blonde psychopath

  • @hiihello6265
    @hiihello6265 5 лет назад +2

    Mom Is A Great Singer

  • @clashoftash3691
    @clashoftash3691 3 года назад +2

    Wow they are both great singers!

  • @horanghaeee55
    @horanghaeee55 3 года назад

    Even if they harshly speaking to you, inside them it hurts.... Every mother in this Earth is amazing, so you should love your mother...

  • @denali2412
    @denali2412 5 лет назад +18

    Both the mother and daughter are at fault. They both said and did harsh things to each other and hurt each other. It's neither one or the other.

  • @bootlegkuromi
    @bootlegkuromi 5 лет назад +1

    I know how the daughter feels when someone doesn't support your dream and when your parents and other guardians have a harsh way of talking/scolding BUT I can't understand destroying valuables and sending that harsh text.
    Good communication is really a key to a good relationship.

    • @momiji7789
      @momiji7789 5 лет назад

      Yeah that text was over the line. Also, I think they supported her though. Even took her to auditions. The mom was fully on her side because she had similar dreams. The mom probably eventually realised the daughter is not cut out for it, but the mom at least gave her a proper shot before reaching that conclusion. That's more than a lot of parents. I think the daughter isn't doing this for the right reasons anyway.

  • @venicegrace541
    @venicegrace541 5 лет назад +6

    “I’m talking here, Mom” WT???

  • @kagomeakira9706
    @kagomeakira9706 5 лет назад +4

    1:12 as a hungarian, i started to laugh (and i was honored) when they used a picture of the hungarian parlament :D

  • @Blazikenblade
    @Blazikenblade 5 лет назад +9

    That eldest daughter needs to move out. Shes like my old housemate. I feel sorry for the family.

  • @flps04
    @flps04 4 года назад +1

    She’s the one that makes the home terrible. Not her family. She has no idea what it feels like to live in an dysfunctional home, this is coming from someone who has lived in a dysfunctional home.

  • @jungha265
    @jungha265 Год назад +1

    If the daughter truly wanted to be understood then she shouldn’t speak harshly to her mom JUST because she spoke harshly to her no matter the circumstance. She should’ve kept quiet to let her finish and then tell her “what you said really hurt my feelings” that’s it. A mother is so loving to their children that they want to give them the world!

  • @nancyy4409
    @nancyy4409 5 лет назад +5

    Moms voice 😱😍✔

  • @la-xl9sw
    @la-xl9sw 5 лет назад +17

    I think there's more to the story that they didn't get into. They said she stopped eating with the family after elementary school, which is like, age 11/12 based on the Korean school system I think. That's a very big deal. She must have felt isolated from her family and thus isolated herself to protect herself. She ended up becoming very selfish, probably in order to reward herself for what she felt like she was missing and deserved. The fact that the dad did not appear and apparently has said he's given up on it, is very telling. I think that there is a problem with how her parents have been looking at it for a while, which produced this situation. Now she is an adult, so she is responsible for her own actions. She needs to stop blaming her family because the bad things she does are her own doing and her own responsibility. But I think it is unfair to assume she just happened to end up this way. That does not just happen. That comes from upbringing. Both her and her mom seem to be butting heads the most. Both of them need to be more understanding and stop taking offense. If they are always offended at each other, they will always find reason to be angry. I think the daughter, since she is younger, needs tor really look at herself and decide to overcome this situation. She has to decide once and for all not to be part of the cycle. You can’t help other people’s actions but you can help your own. I say this because she has not left home/ started her own life yet, so she has to work on this for her own sake. I felt sorry for her and their family for letting it get to this point. There is definitely more to the mother’s actions as well. I’m not sure why she is always belittling her daughter. She is the parent first, so the buck starts with her. The daughter didn’t create the hostile environment because she didn’t bring herself into the world. I think the mom is very stressed due to work and her health. I really wish the dad had been part of this conversation because I think this is a deep family issue that is probably very much rooted in the parents’ relationship and situation.

    • @la-xl9sw
      @la-xl9sw 5 лет назад +11

      Also, I find it interesting that most of the comments section is people saying they have no understanding for/are unsympathetic to the daughter. She has done a lot of very wrong things, I agree, but I definitely think, looking at the situation, we should wonder, how did she get to this point? Therein lies the bigger problem, and probably the root of the matter, I think.

    • @rjgo5229
      @rjgo5229 5 лет назад +6

      @@la-xl9sw I really agree with your analysis. I am so perplexed to see most comments here dissing the girl so hard. I wonder why am I thinking differently? Psychopath, crocodile tears, rotten kid, selfish brat etc. I did not feel that her tears are faked, and I believe that her emotions here are very truthful.
      In fact, I can feel sympathy for her, because she is feeling very resentful towards her family and seeking revenge in her everyday life. And apparently, she has no allies at all at her house. Her actions do not make her likeable at all, but I think this is family issue that has to dealt with by changes from both sides, and not her own problem.
      It will benefit her greatly if she can see that she is resenting her family and find a way out of this mentality. But she is far, far away from irredeemable.

  • @HiBye-pu4xm
    @HiBye-pu4xm 4 года назад +2

    i would listen to the moms music her voice is so unique

  • @fredsebio1377
    @fredsebio1377 3 года назад +1

    Hey girl dont disrespect your grandmother,me as girl i used our step dad phone ,dont disrespect your grandmother your lucky that your grandma was still alive me my grand mother passes away longtime ago and i missed her dearly

  • @JustThatLauren
    @JustThatLauren 5 лет назад +45

    The mom and younger daughter have such strange eyes... is it because of a bad eyelid surgery?

    • @Blooming.92
      @Blooming.92 5 лет назад

      @Anteaxeno her sister still teenagers

    • @nanaprincess2537
      @nanaprincess2537 5 лет назад +1

      You have to be an adult aged 18 yo or more to have surgery.

    • @joshuposhu6188
      @joshuposhu6188 5 лет назад

      @@nanaprincess2537 not i n korea

  • @LERAAAV
    @LERAAAV 5 лет назад +2

    idk why but i love moms singing

  • @miscellaneous2204
    @miscellaneous2204 5 лет назад

    I love how when she’s pretending to cry that no tears even come out and her eyes are like not pouring tears opposed to how shaky her voice was.

  • @StandedInUtah
    @StandedInUtah 5 лет назад +3

    The woman in beige at 4.29 gives the side eye look ever. She out her whole body into that look.

  • @LittleFanz1820
    @LittleFanz1820 5 лет назад +2

    Dude, the mom look like a bit younger version of my mother. I am crying. The way she talk and act also the same as my mom 😂😂😂

  • @konnichiwa8762
    @konnichiwa8762 5 лет назад +1

    I really want to say to this girl that with those rotten attitude of hers, she will never go anywhere. No matter how skillful and talented you are, there's no way people will give her a chance if she still keep that way

  • @standreamcatcher5178
    @standreamcatcher5178 5 лет назад +7

    Many people in the comments are claiming that her tears are 'fake' and that she's 'acting like a victim'.
    Am I the only one who believes she has a mental disorder of some sort, and that she's not faking ANY of her tears?
    Although ruining her grandmother's chair is going a bit far, I believe that the girl is not the person to blame for everything; the mother's rude way of speaking bothered me much more. Her family should consider her feelings and should not make assumptions on everything being her fault.
    I feel like if the family is more respectful of her feelings, the girl wouldn't be so rebellious.

  • @eskfivudnndjejff
    @eskfivudnndjejff 5 лет назад +1

    I understand how the daughter feels. My mum was also such a person like her mum. If one of your family says course language everysingle word saying to you or even not really course word but twisting stuff, I wouldn't be nice to her. No one deserve blame the daughter of you didn't experience that family.

  • @yourmuse6186
    @yourmuse6186 5 лет назад +9

    She should rather become an actress

  • @angelyuqi6709
    @angelyuqi6709 5 лет назад +3

    My yuqi cried I feel so bad😭😭

  • @kaoritsubasa12
    @kaoritsubasa12 5 лет назад

    This is the first episode of Hello Counselor that I didn’t cry with the guest lol

  • @bwchoc
    @bwchoc 4 года назад +2

    I don't even feel bad she cries
    she's the one who hurt her family😤
    And she blames them for nothing ugh!

  • @rozahismail7530
    @rozahismail7530 5 лет назад +1

    and ‘my parent won’t listen to me’.Gurl.Who didn’t listen to their parents first???

  • @nsansan9928
    @nsansan9928 5 лет назад +5

    Ok i get it.. she feel pressured because she doesn’t get a support by her family.. that’s why she behave badly and doesn’t want to talk to her family.. but life goes like that, not everything we want, we can get it easily.. you have to have strong mentality especially if you want to go to entertaiment industry because it was so hard, if you just played victim all the time, your dream will not even coming true.. i understand her situation for not getting support from family.. because from i was child i like to cook and bake, but my parent always prevent me to do that because they think that it’s too dangerous for me, my parent is overprotecting and i know it because they love me so much, but somehow it makes me annoyed.. i always want to go to cooking school but not getting their permission and i got in a normal university.. but i shows my passion to them for 10 years and finally they slowly support me.. like they tell me to sign up to cooking/baking class.. and i’m so happy.. that’s why this girl should be shows her family how much she loved singing, instead of force them to accept it..
    And i’m so mad at her for treating her grandma like that!!! How can she do that to her own grandma.. it’s not like her grandma hit or abuse her, she just yelling to wake her up.. omg she so immature.. i can’t imagine if she had dad like me, sometimes my dad wake my brother up with wet towel in his face lol.. anyway i relieved that the grandma is ok..

    • @anastasiaabrahim9096
      @anastasiaabrahim9096 5 лет назад

      VIP BIGBANG the chick is a sociopath. Because her mother spoke harshly she threw down her clothes and makeup? And broke her grandma’s chair? She would have had to leave my house seriously

  • @harundaniel7705
    @harundaniel7705 5 лет назад +12

    hmmm.. I don't know how to feel about this one. Yes, the daughter may be over the top with her attitude, control over her family, violent behaviour. However we should not quickly jump to conclusion that this one episode shows her families full upbringings. She my have previously been abused (physically, mentally, emotionally) or have severe trust issues by her family which can answer why she believes that her family will only take her seriously if she turns to violence. I personally have a family which abused me to the point my father broke my skull, they never believe me when I tell them the truth, so sometimes even I turn to an extreme measure such as violence (mostly verbal) so that my parents actually understand how serious I am. Both the mother and daughter are great singers, I hope she keeps on trying to achieve her dream to become a singer because everyone deserves a second chance. if she never achieves it, I hope she tries to go on a different route such as producing / composing / song writing as a back up (just in case)

    • @venomusdrake2888
      @venomusdrake2888 5 лет назад +3

      Harun Daniel finally somebody who understands.

  • @yuygeomlove1306
    @yuygeomlove1306 5 лет назад +1

    I burst a tear when yuqi cried 😪😔

  • @leticiaferreira386
    @leticiaferreira386 5 лет назад +2

    9:28 look her grandma kkkkk sooooo cuuuuuuuteee

  • @guenchi2666
    @guenchi2666 4 года назад

    It broke my heart when I read that she broke her grandma's chair, girl you don't know how lucky you are that your grandma's still there, mine left me when I was 7 and wants me to be a singer and I still haven't reached it because I know it's not for me