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Lesson here is dont reach out to opposite gender for advice
100% 😂😂😂
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Another lesson: Don't be a Muslim feminist TikToker
Waaah brother wanted only "advice" 👀👀
@@SB-vp5km 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
the prophet Muhammad (SW) said, "No man is alone with a non-mahram woman but the shaitan is the third one present." - At-Tirmidhi
Exactly
This applies online as well
BTW write SallAllahu alaihi wa sallam
Full
Shortcuts is meaningless in Islam
Did Satan open her DMs and message her?
@@Getcakedieyoung23 bruh
Satan whispers to people to do bad
@@Getcakedieyoung23
pauI in acts 9.3 saw the deviI of luke 10.18 likely though
Never ask a stranger specially a women online ask for advice. Best to speak to your Mother and sister or older lady
Exactly , just leave them let them be busy with their child. Who could've known such intentions they have.better seek advice from your own elders better marry an unmarried women.
He learned his lesson
Even better if there is contact with some sheikh or ustaz
@@FattyBoii99he can’t marry a married woman 😮
You mean not a single mother or divorcee 🥴
Well, one day your Daughters, aunties etc will be single mothers and can’t find a husband and someone will say this to them. Then you’ll remember your words and repent
@@Zazezoo yup , obv hahahah
Brother, first and foremost, such conversations should never be over text. This is to all men: never have important conversations over text; there will always be misunderstandings, especially with women. Also, as Muslims, we shouldn’t have such conversations with non-mahrams; it’s haram. And just from a non-religious perspective, you should never have asked a single mother for such affairs. Clearly, she is going to self-project it onto herself because she is herself a single mother; females are emotional. I’m going to be honest, even when I saw those messages, I thought this brother is weird and clearly up to no good. Secondly, brother, you are a grown man. Your family has to accept your choice, especially if it doesn’t go against Islam. You shouldn’t have your family dictating who you can marry and who you shouldn’t marry. You are not a child but a grown man. I believe the reason you ended up in this situation is because Allah is giving you a lesson. The reason you have gone through this trouble is because you are fearing disappointing your family. But let’s say you had married that single mother, and she would have given birth to a child. Would you have hidden that child from his/her grandparents and your whole family? From a Muslim brother to another Muslim brother, don’t act cowardly because of fear; only fear Allah. As long as you aren’t going against Allah’s commandments, then your family has nothing to be disappointed or embarrassed over.
Thank you! As a sister I don’t understand why he as a man needs his family’s permission 🤓 they know their rights regarding women but not regarding their family. A man can marry without anyone’s consent or support.
Out of all the single mothers in the world he had to message her of course not because of all the haraam make up, cat fishing attention seeking haraami, you have her the attention & following she craved and you shouldn't have privately messaged her which is very questionable as to why her and that there was ulterior motives involved.
Alhamdulillaah for the clarification and tawbah and it's timely this how evil many of these "sisters" are anything for validation/clout/attention even if it goes against Islam & nobody should take her testimony ever again, no wonder she's single, she's a manipulative liar...💯
yes and she lied umm sumayyah subhanAllah, she even broke the contract they signed
@@the7strongmen95 well they are both in the wrong then it doesnt make him a better person.
@@warfaali exactly 👍
Don’t ever seek advise from a RUclips woman, if you need to ask for advice about an issue regarding a woman, go you your mom and sister and others in your family
Of course but look at how he got slandered. How easily and horrible it is. Its become an epidemic.
yep and this sister umm sumayyah lied
I think he didn't because he wanted to keep it secret because he knew his family would not agree with it
@@the7strongmen95Where did she lie?
Even here, the brother is apologizing for calling her a liar.
मैं इस्लाम धर्म को कबूल
May Allah ﷻ protect all of us from wrongful slanders and forgive us all.
May Allah ﷻ grant all of us hidayah.
Ameen.
Ameen
yep and this sister umm sumayyah hurt the dawah scene and she lied, subhanAllah the imams said she even broke the contract between her and zaid, allahuakbar what a woman
@@the7strongmen95How did she hurt the dawah scenes by simply trying to warn vulnerable single mums of the ummah of a danger?
@@user-ym6we4bx7k she said I warn of dawah men right?
Ok so now can Zaid say I warn you of singIe moms whose insecurities make them confused because of how she behaved?
@@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543 How did she behaved? If someone had proposed to a man for his daughter with such a proposal, he would have dealt him a blow.
Would you accept for your daughter or sister to be in such a marriage?
I can't see why Zeid is struggling to find a wife. Reach out to him and propose on behalf of your sister for him to marry her on these terms until he finds his traditional virgin wife.
But only do it if she would be willing to be in such a degrading situation.
Khalas you apologised and InshaAllah you will reflect and grow from this. May Allah forgive you. It was meant for this to come out because the whole community learnt a big lesson from it.
Yes subhanaAllah its a lesson for the whole Ummah. He did his part Alhamdulilah he acceptes his mistake in public. Everything its Khair because these muslim young generation will take a big Lesson in shaa Allah .
It is also wrong to agree or even to encourage her to post a video. Her first video already contained tabarruj. She can post a story instead (without video) where she clarifies the truth. For a person in dawah, he needs to be firm in the prohibition of women posting themselves online especially with glam makeup. It was also wrong of him to watch her RUclips in the first place, may Allah forgive him for that and guide him.
To be honest, I haven’t really been following what’s going on but what is the lesson for the community to learn from this ?
@@GenerationZ0 I was going to ask the same question. Is the lesson to not engage in a lecherous behavior or is it to not expose someone's lecherous behavior to protect others from it?
Hopefully the sister learned her lesson about misleading ppl and will post her apology video as she has agreed to
She tried to "expose" him but it backfired on her so quick. May Allah rectify our brother Zaid's affairs. And May Allah deal with every evil doer.
it didnt backfire but it did let them and everyone know what happens when you take a wrong step away from what our deen teaches us. I.e speaking with non mahrams privately.......
The best of us are those who make tawba may Allah forgive us
Backfire and rectify? Please clean your brain and have some decency
@@KnowNothing-d3p It did backfire on her, because there is no way she could have interpreted his words or text the way she did. The way she spoke they she portrayed herself showed her animosity who speaks volumes. They wrong thing they (imam’s/witnesses) did is not punishing her for her stupidity and wrong action.
@@nbarr318 She was wrong in all the thing she did. He was wrong by approaching her.
It never backfired you’re just prejudiced
Bro, Why you going to take advice from a random women online...?? If you want advice go to a Married knowledge Man...
I didn't allow myself to believe it untill you spoke about the matter aswell, especially isnce you are a student of knowledge. May Allah عز و جل forgive us all and increase us in knowledge!
When students of knowledge are humans and make mistakes …
Out of all the single mothers in the world he had to message her of course not because of all the haraam make up, cat fishing attention seeking haraami, you have her the attention & following she craved and you shouldn't have privately messaged her which is very questionable as to why her and that there was ulterior motives involved.
Alhamdulillaah for the clarification and tawbah and it's timely this how evil many of these "sisters" are anything for validation/clout/attention even if it goes against Islam & nobody should take her testimony ever again, no wonder she's single, she's a manipulative liar...💯
yes she lied and manipulated the situation, also she broke the islamic contract
@@the7strongmen95 he broke the contract ...look at what the masjid lewisham said.
@@amina-hr2je
Where is their statement?
This is a test from Allah سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَى may Allah helps you to pass this trial successfully and wisely.
Even if the whole world comes together to break you down if Allah has your back nothing on earth can harm you.
May Allah protect us all
As a child, I was taught that if one puts a veil on the faults of other believers Allah on the day of judgement will put a veil on his faults. It's strange how people bring these matters to the public eye, this is the state of the Ummah, fast food generation, lesson here is wake up and understand the basics of Taqwa.
In matters of marriage you don’t need to veil sins and I believe the sister did a great service making innocent girls aware of the way he thinks. Many naive ones have fallen for his lies but a lot can read between the lines and see through this “apology” where he is not sorry for anything, blames her, blames shaytaan, threatens with hadith and punishments of Allah. Many sisters can see his nature and inshaAllah it will save many innocent girls from considering him as an option
U r right ❤ sins are not ment to be exposed in publicly but ment to be corrected it privately
@xXxAISHxXx
I reject your suggestion. If I don't veil matrimonial issues and start putting matters in public, men from my community will stop marrying Muslim women, Do you know how many Muslim men are falsely locked up by so called Muslim women? The truth always prevails in this world, and the next. It's very clear who is the liar and who has spread falsehood in this case
your first mistake was dm’ing a mutabarrījah, who’s lack of haya’ and taqwa is evident. fear allah and lower your gaze on social media. don’t dm sisters or speak to sisters in private. the situation can escalate easily and cause you to commit major sins.
He already apologized for that…
5:00 He already admmitted that. Please protect your brothers honour.
At the end everyone makes mistake and he has turned back to Allah.
May Allah protect us from every fitnah.
Mutabarijah maybe she is even better than you
The famous best seller book :
Hey men love bit@ches.
Typical madonna complex
@@MarwaAhmed-ni3tw We judge by the apparent.
Thanks for giving us the full context and showing us your side to the story as well. and yes we should be kind to each other as brothers and sisters in Islam ☪️ and not say such insults and rude things to one another inshallah may you continue giving us dawah brother may Allah bless you 🙏🏼
Out of all the single mothers in the world he had to message her of course not because of all the haraam make up, cat fishing attention seeking haraami, you have her the attention & following she craved and you shouldn't have privately messaged her which is very questionable as to why her and that there was ulterior motives involved.
Alhamdulillaah for the clarification and tawbah and it's timely this how evil many of these "sisters" are anything for validation/clout/attention even if it goes against Islam & nobody should take her testimony ever again, no wonder she's single, she's a manipulative liar...💯
Out of all the single mothers in the world he had to message her of course not because of all the haraam make up, cat fishing attention seeking haraami, you have her the attention & following she craved and you shouldn't have privately messaged her which is very questionable as to why her and that there was ulterior motives involved.
Alhamdulillaah for the clarification and tawbah and it's timely this how evil many of these "sisters" are anything for validation/clout/attention even if it goes against Islam & nobody should take her testimony ever again, no wonder she's single, she's a manipulative liar...💯
May Allah aid you akhi
You have been nothing but a good daae to the ummah
#pickme
He's looking for a wife until he gets his traditional virgin. Why not reach out to him with a proposal accepting the conditions he proposed to the sister?
Dont stress it bro, I knew you were innocent, maybe this is a sign for you to get married ASAP
Justice advocate howfa...No shout abeg@@andreeaboloca4440
Bravo for defending a narcissist and gaslighter! 😪 NO! Islam does not encourage multiple marriages!! Only in the case of war and providing for orphans and their mothers and EVEN THEN you have high standards of kind treatment and equality and if there is a single DOUBT you could not fulfill these things, DON‘T MARRY A SECOND WIFE! 😪😪😪 May parents struggled to be fair with their kids, their own flesh and blood!
@@ramonaengels9277 ayyyeee don't worry I can see where you are coming from and it's understandable but don't generalise how you see things towards others okay
@@ramonaengels9277
You are acting like it is haram.
Stop.
"And if you fear that you shall not be able to deal justly with the orphan-girls then marry (other) women of your choice, two or three, or four; but if you fear that you shall not be able to deal justly (with them), then only one or (the slaves) that your right hands possess. That is nearer to prevent you from doing injustice."
You are acting like Islam forbids it outside of those cases. But this is downright falsehood.
@@ramonaengels9277 Islam does encourage 4 marriages quit spreading false information you kafir
Allahuma barek brother, what a brilliant response, may allah guide us all
I'll say it again, don'tt listen to any one-sided story. We're all sinners. We don't have the right to judge anyone, especially since in the middle of the conversation we only knew what we heard.This situation taught me that people forget everything good you did once you made a mistake. My allah guid us 🤲🏼
Ameen brother/sister. We are most definitely quick to judge when we hear the slightest thing. May Allah guide us all
Out of all the single mothers in the world he had to message her of course not because of all the haraam make up, cat fishing attention seeking haraami, you have her the attention & following she craved and you shouldn't have privately messaged her which is very questionable as to why her and that there was ulterior motives involved.
Alhamdulillaah for the clarification and tawbah and it's timely this how evil many of these "sisters" are anything for validation/clout/attention even if it goes against Islam & nobody should take her testimony ever again, no wonder she's single, she's a manipulative liar...💯
May Allah bless you, brother🤲🤲🤲
One of the best people I know
May Allah protect you and increase you Zaid 🤲❤️
ameen he is a good brother, imagine what he went through
Asalamualikum, I'm a single mother, and I didn't agree with how the sister slandered you. This sister has no healed at all and unfortunately she has alot more to learn, Feminism has played a part in her ways of misreading your intentions. May Allah guide her. May Allah protect you.
SubhanAllah ukhti I feel the same. I am not a single mother but ex-feminist and I KNOW the process that went on in her head. She needs healing. May Allah cure her. Ameen
@@andreeaboloca4440 are you cherrypicking? He did not promote temporary marriage IT IS HARAM. Also, he DID NOT propose to her.
@@waniaiftikhar635He was to propose to a different sister, not the one who exposed him!
The sister exposed him as she was mad at him marrying her until he gets a virgin. He can’t afford a virgin for now, so to protect himself from zina he’ll marry a single mum and “keep her” when he gets his virgin. So he’ll be going around asking if sisters are virgins before he marries. So broke / desperate men can afford single mums but not virgins without kids… he’ll probably move into her home yet act like he’ll be doing her a favour…You clearly missed the point. This world never fails to amaze 🥴
@@waniaiftikhar635speak for yourself… I’m a single mother and just because a sister speaks up it doesn’t mean she’s feminist. Everyone keeps the word whenever a sister errs that people have forgotten who feminists really are.. the issue here is clearly that of misunderstandings and poor communication. The sister could have easily told the brother exactly how she felt about the situation. I was married briefly to a student of knowledge who only wanted to use me to protect himself from zina! I was just a single mum he was doing a favour yet he would come to my home and benefit. I reported him to his imam and family whom he kept me secret from. Unfortunately students of knowledge are only humans !
I’m a single mum and a feminist, and I don’t agree with what she did at all. Please don’t blame feminism for how she reacted.
Bro u should get married SOON.....i dont know why u are delaying it ???
May Allah make it easy
He is trying smh
As a Muslim you should know that it's what Allah wants not what he wants, that's basic knowledge of Islam
@@syedmajidahmed8292 he thinks he’s so special
Where you completely went wrong, in my humble opinion, is your assumption that single mothers have ''lower expectations" than women who haven't been married before. What a ridiculous way of thinking. Why would you assume a single mother wouldn't want to meet her new in-laws? Keeping her a secret from your family and your so-called traditional wife is such a huge insult. If you want to make ''big men'' decisions like marrying a single mother (and looking after her & her child), then also be man enough to face your family and tell them the truth! The fact you wanted to go about this in a secret, sneaky way only tells me that your main goal of marrying a single mother isn't out of respect of honouring her, but mainly to satisfy your own sexual desires (thinking this is an easy way, since single mothers don't expect much anyway). I haven't heard any apology from you on that aspect. Before anyone comes for me: I am a single mother who is actually very positive about the concept of polygyny. What bothers me though is this ridiculous thought process of many men that single mothers have low expectations or should compromise more just because they're single mothers.
some single mothers don't thats the truth. Some single mothers are tired of what happened to their lives, they may just want a handsome man like zaid to sleep with in a halal way and show them love, what is wrong with that may I genuinely ask?
@@hussainlizam2461 Wrong is that surely his Virgin Wife and her Family who did everything to raise her Halal wil not be happy when they find out he didnt tell them about the Single Mom! And wrong is the Kids from both wifes dont know each other! I tell you thid Traditional in Laws he mentioned wil make him Hell on Earth when they find out about Secrer single Wife.
@@hussainlizam2461 if a woman wants that type of arrangement, then fine that's her choice. But *most* women (including single mothers) wouldn't want that type of secretive relationship. And this brother was assuming that most single mothers want this type of relationship and that is simply not true.
@@hussainlizam2461no woman, single mother or not, wants that kind of relationship. You obviously know nothing about the female of the species, honestly take some time to learn about women! For God’s sake, would you be happy for your daughter to be in a relationship like that??
Well you have to ask yourself why do men want to hide this from their own family. You only think like this because you’ve already gone through divorce, but in the beginning you might’ve wanted only monogamy. Also, if it’s halal, what’s wrong with just satisfying urges and he also did say in the voice notes that there’d be quality time, so it’s not all about urges
Im sorry forr jumping to an accusation/assumption based on only listening to one side. Please forgive me for the sake of Allah
@@Jannah_Is_For_Al-Ghurabaa Allah Loves the Humble.
إن الحق يظهر، بارك الله فيك.
Alhamdulillah Alhamdulillah
May Allah forgive us all
Case closed. Alhamdulillah. ☘️
alhamdulillah but the sister lied and also broke her islamic contract which she signed
@@the7strongmen95actually the mosque posted a statement and he was the liar and the one who broke the contract so stop lying 😂😂😂
May ALLAH(SWT) protect those who are the truthful ones
ASSALAMUALAIKUM
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@@inspiringmuslimasking for knowledge. What's wrong in writing in short form?
Mashallah thanks for admitting ur mistake and clarifying this issue.
That's a good Muslim attitude
U got a new subscriber brother 🎉
May Allah accept this from you and ease your heart and rectify your reputation
This is a testament to the honesty of our dear brother Zaid, Allahumma barik. May Allah accept his efforts, how you are in private will eventually be shown to the people, if you’re honest in private then Allah will honour you in sha Allah. Barakallahu feek
"he knows what is in every heart", we r with u brother.
yes alhamdulillah he was proven of his innocence but umm sumayyah lied and she will be held accountable, she even broke the islamic contract the imams siaid
@@the7strongmen95 that women again proved that women cant keep any thing confidential, and has to create drama out of nothing.
and especially women from the internet loves drama
My advice to you is that next time, if you ever want to ask a perspective about women from a woman, ask a mahram that you are close to. As you said, this is a very delicate matter. Something you should not ask a stranger, let alone a non mahram to you. You handled this situation well and admitted your mistakes, and corrected the misconceptions. Thank you for repeating mutah and temporary marriage is haram as a lot of the men who defended you with the same misconception said temp marriage is permissible.
yeah that is what led to the entire scenario and some people are still telling him to do what is haram smh.
@@waniaiftikhar635sorry, meant to say mahram
Sorry I meant to say mahram.@waniaiftikhar635
Sorry I meant to say mahram.
I like how you accepted your mistakes and cleared misconceptions May ALLAH ﷻ make it easy for you and May ALLAH ﷻ guide us
"Do not let their words sadden you; prestige rests entirely with God. He is the Alert, Aware."💌💞
A reminder that people should focus on their own relationship with Allah before so called "dawah" online. Evidently there appears to be more bad than good and there are enough daee that why would someone build a following and risk riyah, fans and ego boosts.
I agree - in order to stop slander and risk of being misunderstood he needs get off social media !!! He couldn’t go to his own halal women relations - his sisters his mother his aunt - he needed to privately dm a non mahram lady instead- wow brother - you are definitely not a role model for our sons !!!!
Out of all the single mothers in the world he had to message her of course not because of all the haraam make up, cat fishing attention seeking haraami, you have her the attention & following she craved and you shouldn't have privately messaged her which is very questionable as to why her and that there was ulterior motives involved.
Alhamdulillaah for the clarification and tawbah and it's timely this how evil many of these "sisters" are anything for validation/clout/attention even if it goes against Islam & nobody should take her testimony ever again, no wonder she's single, she's a manipulative liar...💯
well said and totally agree! Too many like this brother online. Why do we need to even discuss what he and others get up to? All our faults and mistakes are between us and ALLAH. These people love to gain a big following and make a spectacle of their lives! He and the sisters involved should focus on our deen and sunnah (as should we all. So fed up of all these people who create a toxic environment and stray away from our beautiful religion. Astagfirulah 😟
Who told you he isn't focusing on his personal relationship with Allah??? Someone being a daee doesn't make them angels. They're still human and will never stop sinning. He quickly apologized, learned from this whole ordeal and never doubled down. It wasn't his fault that he got wrongly exposed.
In the comment evryone, WATCH YOUR WORDS‼️Don't say bad things about the sister as Allah will hold you accountable for it. Allah knows best.
your videos helped 100,000s of people to become better people, keep giving dawah, you were blessed with it, may Allah continue to shower His mercy on you
Brother from the very beginning I was sure that sister has got some misunderstanding and now it's clarified Alhamdulillah. May Allah give you success in dunya and akhira and May Allah guide us all. Sometimes we just started to spread bad about someone without even knowing the situation properly and completely forget that how much it can hurt someone . Again May Allah guide us all Ameen
no she lied, she deliberately hurt the dawah by doing this, she also broke the islamic contract that she signed with zaid by the way
This is a test from Allah سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَى may Allah helps you to pass this trial successfully and wisely.
Even if the whole world comes together to break you down if Allah has your back nothing on earth can harm you.
May Allah protect us all
AMEEN
May Allah forgive us for assuming anything before knowing the whole situation Ameen ❤️
آمین
Out of all the single mothers in the world he had to message her of course not because of all the haraam make up, cat fishing attention seeking haraami, you have her the attention & following she craved and you shouldn't have privately messaged her which is very questionable as to why her and that there was ulterior motives involved.
Alhamdulillaah for the clarification and tawbah and it's timely this how evil many of these "sisters" are anything for validation/clout/attention even if it goes against Islam & nobody should take her testimony ever again, no wonder she's single, she's a manipulative liar...💯
you bringing in another sister to ask her for advice on the matter of.... is wrong you shouldnt shared that. what goes between you and someone is between you and them only
zaid is truly an innocent brother, Alhamdulillah, this brother helped me so much with my deen, may Allah bless him abundantly
Imagine dming a single mother.And the worst is believing them.
و عليكم السلام و رحمة الله و بركاته💫
May Allah protect you 🤲
That's why It's important to know the full story before having an opinion. I'm sure a lot of people commented on your videos and said bad things. I've never watched your videos
before but I received two videos about your situation and I got curious. You seem like a good guy. Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullah brother
There’s always 2 side to every story. Allah sees and hears and it is only Allah that you are accountable for . Stay strong.
Sorry sister for disturbing u. Can u tell me what happen in short?
May Allah protect you from nazar and injustice and grant you a pious spouse, my dear brother. This situation is an eye-opener for me. No matter how respectful it may seem. NEVER speak to a non mahram alone. In person or online. Shaytan is the third person.
Even if he had proposed to a man with these conditions for his daughter or sister, he wouldn't have taken it lightly. Will you accept that for your sister? If so, then reach out to the brother with your proposal, but don't do so unless your sister is willing to be in such a degrading situation.
@user-ym6we4bx7k where did you get that I endorsed his proposal. (Of which he never did). I made dua for his protection as I should instead of insulting him as many others have. The blame started with him speaking to a non mahram unnecessarily. So I took it as a lesson for myself instead of hounding. How does me being respectful in a comment make me accept his mistakes. I'm disgusted at how this has affected the ummah. Why do people like you have to take a comment negatively and instigate further. I'm not on his side or the sisters. I make dua for Allah to rectify both their affairs.
@@SunnahisStrength Never said he proposed.
That's nice of you, Alhamdu lillaah. You took the best approach in such a situation. If you don't know the full story, that's what's bet to do. Thank you for the reminder.
@user-ym6we4bx7k Barakallahu feek. I insinuated you believed he had proposed when you said, "Even if he had proposed to man with these conditions," as if this should have been the alternative for him to do. My mistake.
@@SunnahisStrength No. I was referring to the things he proposed of how he wanted to go about the marriage.
It's wisely to ask advice from your elderly, mother or sisters, if you're asking from the other gender, you seem to looking for her attentions ...
Every humanbeing is a sinner and the best of them are those that ask most forgiveness..what good in him is from Allah and rasul swala Allahu aleihi wasalam and any mistakes in him is from sheitan .
I’m glad you were able to give us the full context of everything.
Why did you even ask her for advice 😅 ? You should go to a men or if you want a female prospective ask you mother …..
yes he clearly said in the video, that was his mistake and he only asked her to find out her perscpective as a single mother, did you even watch the video or are you a feminist that goes against Allah and His messenger? answer
Alhamdulilah, brother I already knew that there was another side, and before forming any negative opinion I desperately waited for you to post this because Allahuma Baarik, Allah has blessed you with enough and deeper islamic knowledge and much more than those who were slandering over your name , accusing you of haram while commiting haram themselves. May Allah swt reward you for all you've done for the ummah, and give you the opportunity to carry it on and may he reward you with a righteous spouse in'sha'Allah.you've literally changed so many lives and help people grasp tighter onto their iman by the will of Allah. Stay blessed.
Akhi, everyone makes mistakes but the best of sinners are those who repent. We support you as long as you are honest and humble! اللّهُـمَّ بارِكْ!
Alhamdulillah for clarifying your mistakes, May Allah SWT pardon and forgive our shortcomings...🤲
I knew you were innocent when this situation happened, thankfully the problem and situation has been resolved alhamdulilah, may allah Azzawajal ease all the problem that we are dealing within this ummah and guide us all. Ameen.
I’m a sister and i knew he was innocent. I still can get how other sisters are so happy even mocking him and make trends about this topic. They wanted to see him fall and Allah helped him. May Allah bless him always. Amine🤲🏾
@@aminatadiop2841I’m also a sister and this thing is just ridiculous. whether innocent or not, it’s so embarrassing the sister should have sorted this out in secret. People will disrespect and have misunderstandings on marriage and Islam…
@@aminatadiop2841Exactly. This is what social media does, it creates a false reality and deception of situations where the truth is hidden and pushed away. Thankfully zaid brought the truth and cleared all the confusion. May Allah Azzawajal protect us from Such fitnah. Ameen.
You handled this very well and including example of the past. Continue doing dawah and May Allah make it easy for you to continue.
Jazak Allah khair for clarifying this. May Allah swt bless you both and the whole Ummah. I agree after this we should not comment on it any more.
may Allah bless you brother for clarifying and admitting your mistakes and being very humble, you are truly a good brother, keep your head up high and keep on making content because we do benefit a lot from them.
May Allah guide and forgive all. Misunderstandings happen, we are human, may Allah make things easy for the brother, sister and all ppl in these situations. Ameen
You should add in your bio that you aren’t responding to DMs from women. That can stop them messaging you ان شاء الله and reduce the fitna. Lots of other accounts do it and I think it could be a good example to set for other brothers and sisters to do the same
I'm happy to say that I subscribed to your channel because of this incident. Happy to be here to support you.
you are an amazing brother zaid forget the haters, Alah knows who is truly innocent, may Allah bless you and guide you
we ask for your forgiveness as well we should have waited for you to provide your side of the story
Allaah has stipulated three punishments for slander. They are: the hadd punishment; rejection of testimony; and describing the slanderer as an evildoer (Faasiq).
Your first mistake is ask tabarruj single mother who has no haya to publicly show her tabbaruj appearance im front of public.. I mean you can ask muslim single eldery women on this matter.. I understand you genuinely want to ask that to her.. But you ask this matter to sister who doesn't give a damn about show her tabbaruj appearance in public of course she doesn't mind to say whatever she said about you eventho what she said wrong about you.. At least you learn your learn the lesson now.. You're humble man zayid don't come to those tabarruj..
Your one big mistake is the mistake you apologised for. And it’s a grave mistake. And it’s a mistake many make, in different matters. IF YOU HAVE A DOUBT GO TO SCHOLARS!
Second you cannot have this poor choice of words, you are a full grown adult and apparently decent knowledge of Deen.
Those poor choice of words are actually belittling to single mothers.
But Alhumdulillah you apologised and major allegations are actually not true!
May Allah keep us all in his safeguard. Ameen.
We all make mistakes.
You should also forgive ones who believed in these slanders without any verification.
May allah protect you brother
Your a good genuine brother zaid, you didn't deserve any of this.
Jazak Allahu khayr for clarifying
May Allah honour you
Good message overall and warmly received let’s not divulge further into this and think the best of the brother and the sister in question.
May Allah make it easy for you brother, and thank you for the clarification
If you have the intention to get married then marry soon May Allah guide us all AMIN
May Allah make it easy for you and her.
اِنه مِن كيدِكُن انَّ كيدكُن عَظيم
We believe on you brother Zaid
It was a test from Allah
And also May Allah guide her 😢
I had slanders against me. May Allah forgive us all the good bad wrong right . Mercy
May Allah make it easy on you and allow you to reap good deeds from this. I was so confused, but knew that you meant well despite the news that was out there. Do find it in your heart to forgive people who have spoken about this. May Allah forgive and elevate you.
May Allah make everything easy for you my brother.
As a sister, your videos made me come closer to Islam, I would never doubt a good brother like you who has been giving dawah for years.
May Allah reward you for clarification.
Case closed from here ALLAH knows best. Anyone Insulting this brother or the sister they have sort in their heart and looking for Fitnah.
الله اعلم
All this nonsense private life things shouldn't have come up in any way shape or form.
Do we muslims not know to not expose each other's sins,if we have some problem with someone then why can't we solve it without making a big drama out of it? Is this the Muslim way?
May Allah give us hidayah
May Allah bless you bro, your video is so humble. This itself is a dawah to non muslims in my opinion. Barak Allah hu feek barak Allah hu feek Barak Allah hu feek.
Ubay ibn Ka’ab narrated: قُلْتُ: يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ إِنِّي أُكْثِرُ الصَّلَاةَ عَلَيْكَ فَكَمْ أَجْعَلُ لَكَ مِنْ صَلَاتِي؟ فَقَالَ: مَا شِئْتَ. قَالَ قُلْتُ الرُبُعَ؟ قَالَ: مَا شِئْتَ فَإِنْ زِدْتَ فَهُوَ خَيْرٌ لَكَ. قُلْتُ النِّصْفَ؟ قَالَ: مَا شِئْتَ فَإِنْ زِدْتَ فَهُوَ خَيْرٌ لَكَ. قَالَ قُلْتُ فَالثُّلُثَيْنِ؟ قَالَ: مَا شِئْتَ فَإِنْ زِدْتَ فَهُوَ خَيْرٌ لَكَ. قُلْتُ أَجْعَلُ لَكَ صَلَاتِي كُلَّهَا؟ قَالَ: إِذًا تُكْفَى هَمَّكَ وَيُغْفَرُ لَكَ ذَنْبُكَ “ O Messenger of Allah, I frequently invoke Allah to send Selawat upon you. How much of my supplication should I devote to you (Selawat)?” He said, “You may devote as much as you wish.” When I suggested “a quarter”, he said, “Do whatever you wish, but it will be better for you if you increase it.” I suggested “a half”, he replied, “Do whatever you wish, but it will be better for you if you increase it.” I suggested “two-thirds”, he then said, “Do whatever you wish but it will be better for you if you increase it.” I said, “Shall I devote all my supplications to send Selawat upon you?” He said, “Then you will be freed from your worries and your sins will be forgiven.”
Reference/hadith?
I really hope people unfollow you. Don't act innocent. You knew what you were doing.
May allah forgive ur shortcomings and also becareful ur actions bc all the world watching what u doing bc u are ambassador of islam
The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said,
“If anyone constantly seeks pardon (from Allah), Allah will appoint for him a way out of every distress and a relief from every anxiety, and will provide sustenance for him from where he expects not.” [Abu Dawud].Surat Ibrahim, verse 41:
رَبَّنَا ٱغْفِرْ لِى وَلِوَٰلِدَىَّ وَلِلْمُؤْمِنِينَ يَوْمَ يَقُومُ ٱلْحِسَابُ
This is lesson for all of us,
Wa alaykum as-Salam wa rahmat Allahi wa barakatuh. I have discovered you through this public (minor) mistake you made. I think if I were a public figure like you, I'd be caught out for many more slips in my deen. I think owning up to it and apologizing shows you practicing the deen with your _own_ mistakes as examples. We are all human and fallible and make mistakes. One blessing that came out of this unfortunate situation is that you got new viewers like me and we all learned this lesson together iA.
For people who questioned zayd on why texting non mahram,which is absolutey right and he have apologised but no one seems to question why did that women respond to a non mahram and she haven't apologised yet.HER ACTIONS FELT like she's the protectors of women to inform others women ABOUT ZAYD BUT WE SHOULD QUESTION WHY SHE RESPONDED TO NON MAHRAM AS HOW ZAYD APOLOGIZED FOR TEXTING NON MAHRAM
This should be the least if your concern. First she needs to get off social media especially with full makeup. Then study the deen.
Then everything else
Will
Follow. You are expecting her to start walking when she hasn’t even learned to sit unaided
That woman is a single mom and it seems like she won't be mingle anytime soon. This is what self destruction looks like.
No one wants single moms for a reason, and shes the biggest reason
It’s actually shocking how much she missed out.
Missed out on what exactly?
@@cinnamon88 She wanted him She wanted his genes. couldn't get it. Now onto exposing.
You know what it means but guess what it will be learning curve for both parties.@@cinnamon88
@@cinnamon88that fact that bro wasn’t even proposing to her
Out of all the single mothers in the world he had to message her of course not because of all the haraam make up, cat fishing attention seeking haraami, you have her the attention & following she craved and you shouldn't have privately messaged her which is very questionable as to why her and that there was ulterior motives involved.
Alhamdulillaah for the clarification and tawbah and it's timely this how evil many of these "sisters" are anything for validation/clout/attention even if it goes against Islam & nobody should take her testimony ever again, no wonder she's single, she's a manipulative liar...💯
I have no idea, I never watched you before this time, I am so sorry about this situation made you speak up and explain what was your intention. MAY ALLAH UNITE OUR UMMAH AND STOP SLANDERING OTHERS.
My own issue now is someone should better go tell that brother called faiyad to take down the video he has made
Yeh exactly that video has been a cause for slanders of this brother due to heavy misconceptions.
Yes
worst part is how he was just agreeing with everyone slandering Zaid in the comments section
I just checked his channel it’s not there anymore
@@mako8korra Alhamdulillah this should be a lesson for him not to jump on trends that are not verified
May Allah forgive him too
may Allah bless you and honour you, you took responsibility for your actions and you also cleared the lies, slanders and misconceptions about you
Don't worry zaid ❤ make Allah swt restore your honour and use you always to benefit this ummah ❤
Guys if I’m not mistaken the subtitles are done by someone else, so don’t think he’s insincere for colouring in words
whallahi brother I have seen a lot of slander and backbiting on youtube but you are the only person i have ever gone and defended and seen so many others do. We see you're sincere so don't worry about some trolls on the internet. I have never met you in my life but you seem like a good dude. May allah increasy you my brother in islam :)
zaid if you made mistakes just repent, your work in the dawah has been amazing, you made people muslim, you made people start praying and you helped sisters wear the hijab, you are a good man In sha Allah
May Allah protect you from Fitnah. I think we all understand the situation. May Allah protect you brother.
I am your sister from Yemen, and by Allah I only spoke out of hunger and distress. My mother, my brothers, and I lessons and tears. We are in a situation that only God knows about. God is sufficient for us, and He is the best disposer of affairs for those who brought us to this situation. By Allah Almighty, I did not write this appeal out of distress and distress. Poverty, O world, they have felt it So, I hope for you. By Allah Almighty, Lord of the Great Throne, he ate what I had in the house. By Allah, my brothers, he is my brothers by sitting in the house. Who has no food? By God, we are in a very difficult situation. We have 6 people entering the house, and my father has died, and there is no one who can depend on us and who lives in it.We live in a rented house because we cannot pay the rent we owe. '''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''' ''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''' ''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''' ''''''''''''' My brother, my first words are: I swear to God that I will not lie to you or deceive you. I am a Yemeni girl displaced from the war. My family and I live in a rented house in Al-Shahrab 15,000 Yemenis among us, and now we owe 45,000 for 3 months. The owner of the house is one of the people who does not have mercy, by God, my brother. He comes every day, insulting us, talking about us, and moving from the house to the street because we were unable to pay him the rent. The neighbors saw us crying and came back.They came back to talk to the neighbors and we were given the weekend. So we made him swear by God. He will take us out into the street. Have mercy on him and us. Our country is due to this war and we do not find food for our day, and my brothers and I live in a difficult life. Our father died, may God have mercy on him, and we have no one in this world who was with us in these harsh circumstances. My younger brothers went out into the street and saw...The neighbors eat and stand at their door in order to give them bread even if they break it. By God, to whom belongs the dominion of the heavens and the earth, they closed the door and expelled them and came back crying. They are dying of hunger. No one has mercy on them and a holiday is returned. I have made a living, and now if one of us helps us with a kilo of flour, I swear to God, I am dying of hunger. My brother, I am an alien to God. Then, I ask you to help me for the sake of God. I ask you, by God, to love goodness and to help me, even if you can, by messaging me on WhatsApp.On this number 00967717415667 and ask for the name of my card and send it and do not be late and may God reward you with all the best, my brothers Sagar, see how they are and help us and save us before they throw us out in the street, you will be lost or we will die of hunger. My family and I ask you, by God, if you are able to help us, do not be late and may God reward you well..`/--~«««~-♡~♡~♡~~•~•~♡~♡~♡~♡~♡~♡♡♡~~~: ~:~¡~¡~¡~;I.i.i.i.i.i. i.I.|-...................،،،،.،
This is a scam people. Do not upvote or entertain.