I never thought it is appropriate for a man about to get married to go to a strip club, and I've been called several things because of that. If you want to do it ok, but I'm not marrying a man who think it is appropriate. You're not really single anymore if you are about to get married. It is just a fact.
I messed up. He was disrespectful to me and i shouted and blocked him. I would never tolerate bad behavior.. but i gave too much attention to it. I ignored him at 1st... . But he kept pestering and then i lost it.
I’ve slowly come to realize that I only see myself building a future with a man of God. Men who say things like “I operate off a set of principles and values” and view themselves as their own God turn me off because man is ever changing but God remains the same. Man changes his values with the wind but God never changes.
How about the guy you have been corresponding with for 5 months and he purse me never gave him my phone number, he gave me his from the start said ring me any time you fancy a chat. I never did until 5 weeks ago he knew i was ringing him for the first time,blocked me 2 minutes before he knew I was ringing him, this was 5 weeks ago. We were planning on meeting up he was going to take me out fir a meal. Never happened. He initially most of the texts we got on well same interests SOH etc etc i don't get why he did that? Knew i was shy until I get to know someone. Weird? Very hurtful to block some like tgat . People don't usually dump you before actually meeting you do they?.
Don't ignore it! Say something like, " I feel _____" ( ie: Uncomfortable, feel it's too soon, really like you, find you attractive, enjoy your company- etc, BUT) .. then politely let him know that you'd like to take things slow & get to know him better . (But if you're okay with a brief kiss during or after the date- or couple dates- or would like to hold hands, then let him know that too). But if he gets mad, sulks, or puts out pressure about wanting more- or begins to ignore, reject, or treat you bad- then that's a good sign for you to know too! In fact, the sooner the better- bc that just shows he isn't respecting you or putting much value into how you're feeling either. (And will help you discover any immaturity, poor self-control, manipulation, and/or controlling behavior on his part🚩🚩🚩). A guy that truly likes & values you for YOU (and not just for sex) will naturally want to wait and show respect toward you. He will care about how he is coming across while getting to know you.. (especially very early on). Maintaining eye contact with you- (from shoulders up) - rather than on your Body, will also prove a genuine interest in YOU- yet a bold fixation, (or even discreet fixation) on your body parts just means that he is interested in sex only. Hope this helps!
It is becoming normal for women to allow their men to see hookers once and awhile. It’s conflicting idea to me. They say ‘all men cheat’ you might as well tell him you’re ok with him seeing an escort once and awhile as long as he’s open and honest with you about it and as long as he follows the rules you both agree upon like ‘once a month’ or ‘once every 6 months’ Etc. Is this a good way to prevent a man from cheating? Can a man be happy being with one woman the majority of his life? Into old age?
@Red berries In the groups, if you ever dare make a complaint about anyone from their " inner circle " for inappropriate behavior, your future posts will be blocked (even if you tell the founder) and they don't correct the behavior.
No, it’s not becoming normal and never will be. Your relationship is what you make it and what are your hearts desires. There are plenty of good men out there. But if you want to have an open relationship go ahead and make sure your entertaining other people too. Whatever floats your boat.
@Red berries Like any other advice take it with a pinch of salt. I accept advice only from people who are ahead of me in life. And have achieved what I wish to have. We are all adults, meaning we should be selective and able to make our own decisions, this is just another RUclips video.
I'm glad I found my boyfriend blocked me over a little nothing but I can't stop thinking of him he told me it wasn't really that easy for him to leave me alone he's wired but calls me crazy b it hurt me then I was chasing him I shouldn't he acts mental at times,He has 9 kids told me he wasn't really ready for a relationship but we've been friends a long time we met in 2005 then hooked up this year we exchanged Christmas gifts but lately it's been crazy between us
@@ameliawilson8593 .. I'm confused. Is there a question in all that? It sounds like a lot of stress, uncertainty & drama. And that he's keeping you at arms length for his convenience... does he only get w/you when he wants something? (and in return you only get next to nothing- or crumbs?) Please tell me no, because you deserve better than that.
@@ameliawilson8593 why do you like this type man ? Four different women , do you think you are the one to him? No way , run !!! Baby girl !! You should left him , can’t be friend with a toxic man .
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@Red berries How do I come in contact with you for furthure questions?
@Red berries It gets removed.
I never thought it is appropriate for a man about to get married to go to a strip club, and I've been called several things because of that. If you want to do it ok, but I'm not marrying a man who think it is appropriate. You're not really single anymore if you are about to get married. It is just a fact.
I messed up. He was disrespectful to me and i shouted and blocked him. I would never tolerate bad behavior.. but i gave too much attention to it. I ignored him at 1st... . But he kept pestering and then i lost it.
Thank you so much, Greta, I needed to hear this in the worst possible way!❤️
I’ve slowly come to realize that I only see myself building a future with a man of God. Men who say things like “I operate off a set of principles and values” and view themselves as their own God turn me off because man is ever changing but God remains the same. Man changes his values with the wind but God never changes.
Thanks for sharing
What if he’s your husband who’s not behaving after so many years of marriage
Great video, thanks ☺️
Doing nothing is a silent approval. I don’t agree this is what a high value woman would do
How about the guy you have been corresponding with for 5 months and he purse me never gave him my phone number, he gave me his from the start said ring me any time you fancy a chat. I never did until 5 weeks ago he knew i was ringing him for the first time,blocked me 2 minutes before he knew I was ringing him, this was 5 weeks ago. We were planning on meeting up he was going to take me out fir a meal. Never happened. He initially most of the texts we got on well same interests SOH etc etc i don't get why he did that? Knew i was shy until I get to know someone. Weird? Very hurtful to block some like tgat . People don't usually dump you before actually meeting you do they?.
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Good topic
This video was shocking to me either. 20+ women these days have grown in a herring jar.
What do i do if he touches me inappropriately on a first date? Do i ignore it too and risk it happening it again? or say something?
You say no. And stand by it. If you allow it they will take advantage.
Don't ignore it! Say something like, " I feel _____" ( ie: Uncomfortable, feel it's too soon, really like you, find you attractive, enjoy your company- etc, BUT) .. then politely let him know that you'd like to take things slow & get to know him better .
(But if you're okay with a brief kiss during or after the date- or couple dates- or would like to hold hands, then let him know that too).
But if he gets mad, sulks, or puts out pressure about wanting more- or begins to ignore, reject, or treat you bad- then that's a good sign for you to know too! In fact, the sooner the better- bc that just shows he isn't respecting you or putting much value into how you're feeling either. (And will help you discover any immaturity, poor self-control, manipulation, and/or controlling behavior on his part🚩🚩🚩).
A guy that truly likes & values you for YOU (and not just for sex) will naturally want to wait and show respect toward you. He will care about how he is coming across while getting to know you.. (especially very early on).
Maintaining eye contact with you- (from shoulders up) - rather than on your Body, will also prove a genuine interest in YOU- yet a bold fixation, (or even discreet fixation) on your body parts just means that he is interested in sex only.
Hope this helps!
Just grab his hand and take it out of the improper area *with care, soflty, almost like you didnt notice.
Absolutely say some thing, how bloody bold and cheek of him!!!! Crossed a boundary!!! We are not pieces of meat!
One of my favourite videos. It describes today's society perfectly.
It is becoming normal for women to allow their men to see hookers once and awhile. It’s conflicting idea to me. They say ‘all men cheat’ you might as well tell him you’re ok with him seeing an escort once and awhile as long as he’s open and honest with you about it and as long as he follows the rules you both agree upon like ‘once a month’ or ‘once every 6 months’
Etc.
Is this a good way to prevent a man from cheating?
Can a man be happy being with one woman the majority of his life? Into old age?
@Red berries In the groups, if you ever dare make a complaint about anyone from their " inner circle " for inappropriate behavior, your future posts will be blocked (even if you tell the founder) and they don't correct the behavior.
No, it’s not becoming normal and never will be. Your relationship is what you make it and what are your hearts desires. There are plenty of good men out there. But if you want to have an open relationship go ahead and make sure your entertaining other people too. Whatever floats your boat.
@Red berries Like any other advice take it with a pinch of salt. I accept advice only from people who are ahead of me in life. And have achieved what I wish to have. We are all adults, meaning we should be selective and able to make our own decisions, this is just another RUclips video.
@Red berries no, I have not
@K. Z. W I agree, those are all red flags 🚩 if not dealbreakers. Be careful what you tolerate as you teach people how to treat you.
I'm glad I found my boyfriend blocked me over a little nothing but I can't stop thinking of him he told me it wasn't really that easy for him to leave me alone he's wired but calls me crazy b it hurt me then I was chasing him I shouldn't he acts mental at times,He has 9 kids told me he wasn't really ready for a relationship but we've been friends a long time we met in 2005 then hooked up this year we exchanged Christmas gifts but lately it's been crazy between us
@@giuseppevittoriovitali no he's not married he got 4 different baby momma's
@@ameliawilson8593 .. I'm confused. Is there a question in all that? It sounds like a lot of stress, uncertainty & drama. And that he's keeping you at arms length for his convenience... does he only get w/you when he wants something? (and in return you only get next to nothing- or crumbs?) Please tell me no, because you deserve better than that.
@@ameliawilson8593 why do you like this type man ? Four different women , do you think you are the one to him? No way , run !!! Baby girl !! You should left him , can’t be friend with a toxic man .
You look beautiful, queen!❤