Last year was mine and my ex’s first Christmas/NYE together. We also had the same dilemma of what to do on NYE as we wanted to spend with both our friends, we actually met up the day before then spent NYE separately with friends! We’re not together anymore but I don’t regret that decision at all as the friend I spent it with would have been alone as she was single at the time - boyfriends come and go but friends are there forever
That engagement dilemma is also super embarrassing. Like it makes you look goofy that he still has that up. I'd be upset that I wasn't told, and I'd be hell embarrassed by the whole thing.
18:26 - her friends are single and going on a single night out it doesn’t matter about how long they’ve been friends etc and water the friendship. It’s New Year’s Eve go on the trip with your partner and let your single friends go out together as single friends, your not single. If you want to go out another time with them that’s fine but not when they’ve labelled it as a single trip too.
Me and my boyfriend started dating in the September, made it official in November and then we spent New Year together. We never even discussed it, it was just a given. Surely if you are really into each other you will be desperate to spend time together. We have just spent out 5th NYE together btw 😊
In exactly the same dilemma with NYE story. I spent Christmas Eve night and Boxing Day with my mates Spent Christmas Day with the girlfriend My mates are having a house party for NYE but my girlfriend doesn’t want to go as she doesn’t really know any of the girls… Who do I let down?
There’s only one way that she’ll get to know the girls and if it’s going to be a long term relationship it is so nice to get along with your spouses friends and partners so try and give her some reassurance that you’ll be there at the party too
I’m going to my boyfriends mates for a house party so if you want this relationship to be something long term I would bring her along and just assure her you will be by her side until she’s comfortable and settled at the party - getting to know people in your life will be a huge benefit to your relationship as a whole
It depends on her anxiety levels, I was in this position last year but my anxiety was very high as I’ve never met any partners friends before. We had also only been together a month. We both agreed to spend time together during the day then spend NYE separately with friends. We broke up the following May but I found meeting friends easier in smaller doses than in a big group!! If she’s quite outgoing invite her to the party but if she’s quite anxious I wouldn’t push it, either help her meet your friends in the lead up or spend time with your friends on NYE then see her separately ❤ at the end of the day not all relationships last forever but your friends will be there for a long time!!
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They’ve switched sides!!! My brain cannot comprehend
I wanted them to for ages!! It’s Sophia & Cinzia not Cinzia & Sophia 😂😭
The retail working girlies can’t relate to the naked chrimbo limbo😭
Last year was mine and my ex’s first Christmas/NYE together. We also had the same dilemma of what to do on NYE as we wanted to spend with both our friends, we actually met up the day before then spent NYE separately with friends! We’re not together anymore but I don’t regret that decision at all as the friend I spent it with would have been alone as she was single at the time - boyfriends come and go but friends are there forever
the way you described the Christmas week lol was literally my life the past few days 😂😂
Watching this whilst at work wishing I had confusion week (used up all my annual leave in the summer) 🤦♀️
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Me too! Currently working from bed 😂
Same 😂
11:00 I found out I am pregnant on New Years Eve, I was like 2024 going to be a wild ride (in the best way) 😂
That engagement dilemma is also super embarrassing. Like it makes you look goofy that he still has that up. I'd be upset that I wasn't told, and I'd be hell embarrassed by the whole thing.
Legit even if he doesn’t use fb much at least delete all the pics like surely he wouldn’t want that to be seen by anyone
best podcast of the year (every year) 💕
I would just make my own plans. I don’t want to be someone’s plan B because plan A fell through
18:26 - her friends are single and going on a single night out it doesn’t matter about how long they’ve been friends etc and water the friendship.
It’s New Year’s Eve go on the trip with your partner and let your single friends go out together as single friends, your not single. If you want to go out another time with them that’s fine but not when they’ve labelled it as a single trip too.
Always love the podcast, hope u both had a lovely Christmas and I hope u have a lovely nye❤
The teacher HAS to ask him to be her valentine this year !!!
I ate grapes under the table last NYE at 00:00 and met my boyfriend 7 days later after being single my entire life it works girls
Happy NYE !!!
Me and my boyfriend started dating in the September, made it official in November and then we spent New Year together. We never even discussed it, it was just a given. Surely if you are really into each other you will be desperate to spend time together. We have just spent out 5th NYE together btw 😊
Omg I didn’t realise they’re 28 and 29… I assumed it was like an 18 year old writing in. This guy needs to grow up and prioritise his girlfriend 😂 x
Does anyone know what trainers they are wearing? 🫶🏼
Anyone know where Sophia’s phone case is from? 😊
does anyone know if they answer all dilemmas or do they receive too many?
They definitely don’t answer all of them, I’ve emailed a few times and only 2 have been used haha - not sure if some get used on patreon now though!
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Stop telling my girl
Yeah why is cinza yelling omg
In exactly the same dilemma with NYE story.
I spent Christmas Eve night and Boxing Day with my mates
Spent Christmas Day with the girlfriend
My mates are having a house party for NYE but my girlfriend doesn’t want to go as she doesn’t really know any of the girls…
Who do I let down?
Your mates
There’s only one way that she’ll get to know the girls and if it’s going to be a long term relationship it is so nice to get along with your spouses friends and partners so try and give her some reassurance that you’ll be there at the party too
I’m going to my boyfriends mates for a house party so if you want this relationship to be something long term I would bring her along and just assure her you will be by her side until she’s comfortable and settled at the party - getting to know people in your life will be a huge benefit to your relationship as a whole
Go to the party if your girlfriend feels supported enough - make sure you make an effort to make her feel included
It depends on her anxiety levels, I was in this position last year but my anxiety was very high as I’ve never met any partners friends before. We had also only been together a month. We both agreed to spend time together during the day then spend NYE separately with friends. We broke up the following May but I found meeting friends easier in smaller doses than in a big group!! If she’s quite outgoing invite her to the party but if she’s quite anxious I wouldn’t push it, either help her meet your friends in the lead up or spend time with your friends on NYE then see her separately ❤ at the end of the day not all relationships last forever but your friends will be there for a long time!!
Brunette needs to know when to stop talking
It’s a podcast ? That’s the literal point of a podcast Karen