HARSH truth about that girl you are obsessing over.
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- Опубликовано: 11 сен 2024
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Pretty good advice. They also call this limerence. You can be obsessed with someone but not really have true feelings for them either. This fella needs to realize there are other girls in the sea if this one doesn’t work out!
We've all been there. At least for some guys, we've been there and done the things the email writer did.
I can't judge him too much.
Amazing hair, John
Seeing your hair this fabulous made me want to think more deeply about my life and make a 5-year plan
Thank John
Well said! This guy learned a lesson an important one
Thanks a lot John, you’ve been giving me advice I needed but nobody around me could give me. Hopefully I’ll see you at the top when I get there by 2028!
Hey John, loving the channels consistency and direction lately. It's a semi daily meditation when I'm out for my run/walk. I was wondering, would you be interested in making a video about your thoughts on Marijuana and whether it has a place in a man's life on his strive for excellence? Is there any use to it or is it best avoided? A lot of my friends love it but the culture and vibe really gives me the ick. Would love to hear a successful person share their thoughts!
Also the fresh cut is looking good, it's like watching the vids from a few years ago 😎
I will admit, I sometimes still feel like an incel despite having a girlfriend, probably because I feel that my 20s were a waste, didn't have a serious relationship until the beginning of my 30s.
It causes me to envy and resent couples out there younger than me, people who got to experience having a serious long-term relationship before I did and yes I know people will always say comparison is the thief of joy or don't compare yourself to others.
But I believe it's always has been and always will be part of the human psyche, been that way since the beginning of time to feel upset and depressed when you feel you are not part of the norm.
Because of that I feel like a forever permanent incel for all time, even when I did manage to get a girlfriend.
So yeah even while I did have a girlfriend, I still felt like an incel.
I don't see myself ever getting over this, it will be a pain and wound for the rest of my life.
And I'm not afraid to admit that there have been times over the years I have hated being born male, because I know I'm not the only guy in the world that has this mindset, that men have to do everything in dating and relationships and seduction.
Yes I know tons of people say what's the point of being angry and depressed over what didn't happen in the past or not?
Well I'm entitled and I have a right to my mindset, I believe it's always been part of human nature or just the human psyche to always be sad and depressed or angry and resentful over good things that they wish happened to them in the past but didn't.
I know I'm not afraid to admit I have had these thoughts, and I'm sure other guys have thought this way, we feel that if we had been born a woman, we would not have been single that long.
Probably because women just have to exist and they are guaranteed attention and options from Men, that requires no skill or no social dynamics, no game or no seduction.
One person I remember I heard said that women need game as well which I thought was the stupidest thing I ever heard.
So ya I still feel like an incel for all time despite managing to get a girlfriend eventually, and I still get irritated and annoyed whenever people and society say that men have it better than women do in the human mating game.
I get annoyed when people say go see a therapist because it's not like a therapist can reset my life or have me start my life all over again.
I spoke in a few other guys who feel the same way in regards to being forever angry and upset, sad, over never having had a girlfriend until later than normal, until late in life.
Probably because guys and men to learn and know all of these skills, all of these social behaviors, talk and behave a certain way, act a certain way, walk a certain way or have a certain lifestyle, have a certain body, certain income, and more than that which I either don't know or forgot.
Women are pretty much basically all set for just being born and just existing.
Because being pretty and beautiful is not a skill and it doesn't require any learning, it's not a behavior that takes training.
I get very angry and pissed off whenever people in society still think men have it better than women do in human mating
No my friend, we do have it easier than women, in lots of ways that make zero sense, it's a matter of making up for the law of attraction.
Even as stated in the video, Women tend to be more attractive to men who are assertive and masculine but also good looking.
If you don't have the looks your personality has to adapt accordingly. And if you don't then you have to put actual effort in to work on it. That's just the reality of it bro.
I'm 18 years old and I've been in a relationship with my girl for 3 years now and I'm mentioning that because my life has only just begun and once this is over I'll never get it back. You are already at that point.
One alpha male tip is to stop dwelling on the past and being so full of bologna and actually assess and reflect on yourself to figure out what may have caused you to be single for so long.
Make out the list of those things and fix them. That simple. It may seem hard but once you take that step I promise you will feel better about the past because your current/future self may be of age, but you are now a coochie wizard.
And I don't want you to think women don't need game because they do. I want you to know that you only need game if your not physically attractive. This goes for both male and female because if a girl doesn't look as good what does she rely on? ✨Personality✨!
You need to be more of a man about these things and ACTUALLY SET STANDARDS as also mentioned in the podcast.
If she's the one you want go for it!!!! Another tip I'll give is use that lack of game to your advantage!!!
If you approach her and slip up and say something stupid, turn it into a flirtatious remark! (Not in a creepy way!) You might even make her laugh and that's gold! My point is man stop being mad at the past when you're life is only going to keep going until it stops and THERAPY can be a great way to cope with and learn to accept your past and current emotions that you still feel because of it.
And stop looking at women as objects that you can just "get" you have to earn them just like they have to earn you.
Hope this helps 💯.
@@sheevuta5203 well you're better than lots of other men in the world because lots of guys go well into their twenties and older and I've never had girlfriends before
He's 22 and doesn't know where to meet girls?😅 bars and clubs for starters smh..
Another thing he could do is work 2 crappy jobs. Learn skill sets and sell things on ebay and Amazon.Until he finds a better job. Most crappy jobs offer free education
all he needed to do was write his number down on a paper and hand it too her
That's no better 😂
really good advice john
its like your reading my mind how did you know i was obsessing over her, she asked me out first I accidently rejected her then i asked her out and got rejected. I pretty much work at safeway too im an ugly guy. Ill never see her again they closed the store lol.
Sounds like this guy is choosing the SAFE WAY… 🥁
12:44. Just a note... You never mentioned this, but he should have straight off the bat asked her for her number, not her Instagram. Then he should have called her and asked her out... not given her his Instagram and asked her to follow him, then asked for her Instagram, etc. This way he would have known for sure if she was interested or not. Also, the fact is that most girls are unavailable and have boyfriends, especially young attractive girls, let alone she may not be interested in him. One thing you said that I disagree with, though, is you said "women are kind". I disagree. Some women are kind, but a lot of women are downright mean. I'm not being misogynistic, I'm just speaking from actual experience.
I'd like to see a video on flirting. It's something I need to improve on.
he should of asked her out sooner
creep zone lol
I hate warm approach.....it's used to be the only way, but it's a shitty way to source women
she could be talking to another guy or she could of had a boy friend