How I Met My Future Husband ONLINE | What I Looked for & How I GOT IT! | Online Dating

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  • Опубликовано: 19 ноя 2024

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  • @BeautifulBrwnBabyDol
    @BeautifulBrwnBabyDol  3 года назад +87

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    • @shaunaboo961
      @shaunaboo961 3 года назад +2

      So hyped for this💕💕

    • @wiser0185
      @wiser0185 3 года назад +1

      Dr. Nina u need to slow down in your talking not sure why u talking so fast🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @mattiejohnson7388
      @mattiejohnson7388 3 года назад

      Your story is so beautiful of how you met your future...

    • @jolenemcclean3351
      @jolenemcclean3351 3 года назад

      Nice video!! I have followed you four years and I have told so many people about you !!! Congratulations!!!

    • @pretoriaafro5074
      @pretoriaafro5074 3 года назад +1

      He did an amazing job surprising you.

  • @feliciaworthy9864
    @feliciaworthy9864 3 года назад +786

    I met my GOD GIVEN GIFT online also. We met in April engaged in June and married in December. We are 15 years strong. Congratulations to you and your love.

    • @kaycampbell364
      @kaycampbell364 3 года назад +13

      What platform please

    • @007Meekz
      @007Meekz 3 года назад +6

      Yes 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 I would love to know which platform as well

    • @DrineThePoet
      @DrineThePoet 3 года назад +3

      What a blessing

    • @DrineThePoet
      @DrineThePoet 3 года назад +6

      @@kaycampbell364 right? Spill the tea lol

    • @rawfoodsgirl
      @rawfoodsgirl 3 года назад +4

      Ok! How did you know he was the one in two months?!

  • @justfive3957
    @justfive3957 3 года назад +604

    Congratulations, I met my husband online at the age of 18 and he was 21, we dated for a year and got engaged. He joined the military and 18 years later we are still together with three kids and laugh every single day. I am loving every moment.

  • @Tiaballa
    @Tiaballa 3 года назад +411

    Congratulations! I got engaged in December too and also met my love online. My fiancée was truly consistent in his treatment of me throughout our relationship. In my 40s and a bride for the first time.

    • @TheDstinfrared34
      @TheDstinfrared34 3 года назад +38

      Congrats! This is so encouraging as I'm 39 and using online dating for the first time.

    • @DrineThePoet
      @DrineThePoet 3 года назад +21

      So encouraging because I'm 37. Thanks got sharing sis and God bless!!

    • @sandria22
      @sandria22 3 года назад +4

      Wow love it. Congratulations

    • @naturalnikki8675
      @naturalnikki8675 3 года назад +3

      Congratulations!

    • @estherdennis5837
      @estherdennis5837 3 года назад +3

      Congratulations 🎊🎈. This is so encouraging to me 👌

  • @petisadavis7518
    @petisadavis7518 3 года назад +107

    I met my Nigerian husband online at 21 he was 28 we got married soon after and now we have a baby hes the best man ever I don't regret anything

  • @TsholoPhoka
    @TsholoPhoka 3 года назад +503

    I love to see healthy relationships. Congratulations on your engagement 🥂

  • @shiirenesims6250
    @shiirenesims6250 3 года назад +238

    I met my husband online, he proposed in thirty days and we've been married for four years now. A man knows what he wants, it didn't take years. We were blessed to both want the same things at the same time, and we found it in each other.❤❤❤

    • @TheDstinfrared34
      @TheDstinfrared34 3 года назад +11

      Congrats! 30 days..oh wow. May I ask how a quick proposal didn't scare you off?

    • @shiirenesims6250
      @shiirenesims6250 3 года назад +33

      @@TheDstinfrared34 It didn't scare me off because I'd already been in prayer and fasting for a husband. It was the Most High that actually revealed to me that he was my husband to be. This was our testimony and journey yet it may not be the same for everyone. The Most High Yah definitely works in mysterious ways. We now have four children total, I had two children before marriage, one child from my husband and we currently have another child on the way. It's definitely a season of reaping blessings. ❤

    • @TheDstinfrared34
      @TheDstinfrared34 3 года назад +12

      @@shiirenesims6250 Thank you for your response! Sis..I don't know you but I'm so happy for you! 💗

    • @Jeah1911
      @Jeah1911 3 года назад

      Congratulations! What site did you use?

    • @jeccym8715
      @jeccym8715 3 года назад +7

      He knew what he wanted, and am happy for you❤❤❤❤❤

  • @smithaquarius1
    @smithaquarius1 3 года назад +177

    When a mans dating with intention; he has his plans laid out... you never have to question things or him!!! You’ll always know where you stand

    • @sweetsugar1014
      @sweetsugar1014 3 года назад +5

      Yes maam!! And that's key, finding a man with 'this' mentality. That's a gem.

  • @hillarytaylor69
    @hillarytaylor69 3 года назад +251

    Love this!!! I met my fiancé on Tinder two years ago. We joke all the time that it doesn’t seem that long. Our first date ended up being 15 hours 😳😳😳!! We literally talked allll night!!! Fast forward to today, I’m grateful that God has placed him my life. This man pours into me like no other!!! Thank you for sharing your love story!
    Oh for the naysayers: I am divorcee’ with two children and he didn’t have any children.

  • @ReginaRogers
    @ReginaRogers 3 года назад +259

    I love that he asked you to be his girlfriend officially. I have heard a lot of people argue that it is not necessary but I think it is to avoid any misunderstanding. Thanks for sharing your story. Beautiful 🖤

    • @ttemfash
      @ttemfash 3 года назад +15

      My current boyfriend asked me officially out the gate to be his exclusive girlfriend.

    • @rondas7772
      @rondas7772 3 года назад +11

      Exxaaccttllyy, totally agree

    • @damarisortiz6690
      @damarisortiz6690 3 года назад +1

      I love that too

    • @williamjohn6202
      @williamjohn6202 3 года назад

      Are you married

    • @classylady4606
      @classylady4606 2 года назад

      Agreed!!!

  • @teady012002
    @teady012002 3 года назад +56

    I met my husband online too. No intentions of it being serious but we are the love of each other’s life. We had so much in common it was scary. 4 years together, 1 year and a half married and a baby girl and I wouldn’t change a thing.

  • @francita0076
    @francita0076 3 года назад +170

    This is the real life Ciara’s Prayer 🙏🏾 with doing the work included!!

  • @roxaneowen613
    @roxaneowen613 3 года назад +107

    That is wonderful. When/I met my husband, he was purposeful...but I was not ready. He was purposeful, intentional and patient. 5+ years of datng, 5 years married and he is still purposeful and intentional and I know I am blessed. My18 year old gifted my husband a request that he adopt him as an adult. This is because of how purposeful my husband is, Congratulations on your blessings. it is wonderful to see.

  • @Rel_30
    @Rel_30 3 года назад +161

    I'm 30. Single. No children. I've often wondered when I'll meet a partner get settled enough to marry and start a family. Here u got engaged almost two years. I'm going to keep working on myself to get ready for the man God will send me. Congratulations on your engagement hun.

    • @karenb4860
      @karenb4860 3 года назад +9

      On GMA they said the new “real” dating website is IG, lol Great dating tips see shown online

    • @BeautifulBrwnBabyDol
      @BeautifulBrwnBabyDol  3 года назад +21

      Its coming sis! Thanks!

    • @Princessfrmalmighty
      @Princessfrmalmighty 3 года назад +5

      Same boat as you.

    • @jeccym8715
      @jeccym8715 3 года назад +21

      Am 35 ,single ,no children, so keep praying❤

    • @karmabest5188
      @karmabest5188 3 года назад +10

      I am 44 with no kids and single. I get you bronze30.

  • @Ohemaamary
    @Ohemaamary 3 года назад +122

    Get you an intentional and purposeful man. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @LadyGoodeSpeaks
    @LadyGoodeSpeaks 3 года назад +100

    Wow! I so needed this! My friends make me seem crazy because I have kept my standards high, and refuse to settle. They may have not married their equal and settled because they were lonely or getting old, but I won't. I have never been able to. And this video affirms why. Truly, sometimes I feel crazy for moving the way I do. But this right here, shows me it is worth it. Congrats again!

    • @Bobisworld
      @Bobisworld 3 года назад +12

      Good, don’t settle. You’ll regret it

    • @dadivakiki
      @dadivakiki 3 года назад

      ditto

  • @joycerowekinard471
    @joycerowekinard471 3 года назад +38

    Congratulations 🎉🎉I met my husband on Facebook and we have been married for 7 years.

  • @eazzyrealitytv3578
    @eazzyrealitytv3578 3 года назад +73

    Ooh my God can someone just come and let’s start up a lovely,healthy and wonderful relationship

  • @Asigedge
    @Asigedge 3 года назад +92

    You have no idea how much hope you gave me. Im going through my divorce and I feel like my life is over. Like my best years were given to this failed marriage. But now I know I have to fix my pain, hurt and rebuild within myself. Focus on my own goals and love will come. Thank you so much Dr. Nina. Youre the big sister so many of us wish we had growning up.

    • @TanyaEJ
      @TanyaEJ 3 года назад +6

      Bless you! I understand and agree - hope renewed!

    • @BeautifulBrwnBabyDol
      @BeautifulBrwnBabyDol  3 года назад +10

      So happy to renew the hope! You got this!

    • @stephaniemorris9143
      @stephaniemorris9143 3 года назад +13

      Asigedge, I was divorced from my daughter's father and to date, it's been the hardest thing I have been through. But, God saw my heart and in 2010, I met the man of my dreams online, we were married in 2013 and we have built an amazing life together. My advice is focus on your healing, let yourself experience all the phases of grief. Give yourself time to heal and before long, you will be an Overcomer like I was❤ 🙏

    • @TheGoodLifeStarterPack
      @TheGoodLifeStarterPack 3 года назад +3

      @@stephaniemorris9143 Thank you for sharing this, as I am currently going through a divorce and thinking about the future is a mix of feelings: from excitement of forging a new life & path for myself, to fear and sadness/embarrassment. I will focus on healing, pursue my goals, & leave the rest in the Lord's hands!

    • @julieruth9308
      @julieruth9308 3 года назад

      Yes Dr. Nina, you are the big sister I feel I used have listened to longer than now, but I still thank God that he made me watch that video today. Thanks dear for giving gals like us another hope. May God bless yr union sweetheart. You are blessed

  • @MarkitaD
    @MarkitaD 3 года назад +50

    I can tell you are in love LOVE, the smile you have on your face when you are talking about him speaks volumes. It's beautiful. Congratulations!

  • @lisaj3639
    @lisaj3639 3 года назад +124

    Yes it's very hard. Im 63 and starting over.😱😱

    • @debram9998
      @debram9998 3 года назад +22

      Sister, you're beautiful. I'm 53 years old and starting over again. We're in this together. 🙏🙏

    • @Susie.wemove
      @Susie.wemove 3 года назад

      💜💜

    • @MsSwankie10
      @MsSwankie10 3 года назад +2

      My pastor just announced in church today that he's engaged and he is 65. You'll get there

  • @nellyismotivated7839
    @nellyismotivated7839 3 года назад +18

    I met my husband online 14 years ago! Congrats sis! 🌹❤️🎉

  • @crystalfrancis5577
    @crystalfrancis5577 3 года назад +126

    I'm happy for you and praying I'm next. 🙌🏿❤

  • @kendpark
    @kendpark 3 года назад +17

    I found my husband online too. We've been together 6 years and married for 1 year now😍

  • @erikalondon5720
    @erikalondon5720 3 года назад +29

    Your engagement inspired me to try out tinder again and I met a great guy that I have a great connection. Keep spreading the positivity girl. x

  • @chemirem.3934
    @chemirem.3934 3 года назад +23

    Your surprise was so genuine. Why are people downplaying your engagement? Saying y’all are just engaged. Hate is real. Anyway. I am so happy for you. Protect your space. Too many people are cynical and bitter to have what you have. Don’t waste your time on them because they have to heal deeply. I am sharing your videos with my friends who are looking for love and need support.

  • @debbiemuamba6822
    @debbiemuamba6822 3 года назад +26

    It sounds like a movie/fairytale 🤧... True love does exist

  • @07meisakura
    @07meisakura 3 года назад +51

    My heart swells with joy hearing that you guys are so blessed in this relationship. I pray all the women listening to this find a man with similar characteristics. Congrats!

  • @dinahewing2717
    @dinahewing2717 3 года назад +26

    I met my husband on line and we have been married this year will be 9 years. Great video. I stepped outside my comfort zone, put in my application, and Bam!! He chased me for awhile Lol 😁☺️ Congratulations 😍

  • @tamaraakinbo1112
    @tamaraakinbo1112 3 года назад +28

    Wow! Listening to you makes me realize that I have never had a healthy relationship. Thank you for the education of what a healthy relationship should be. I'm quite content now in my singlehood, but should an opportunity present itself in the future I will definitely be approaching it from your point of view.

  • @LaRennEstherTV1985
    @LaRennEstherTV1985 3 года назад +24

    It’s the tears for me!! Love how every time you talked about him. You got teary-eyed.. You give me hope as well. God bless your Union..

  • @LaNeeWood
    @LaNeeWood 3 года назад +56

    I am so happy for you! I know this all has to be so exciting/overwhelming (in a good way) for you all. I met my, current, boyfriend on Tinder as well. We have been together for about a year and a half and its going well. I pray that if God sees fit, he will be my husband. Thank you for sharing your journey with us.

  • @BeadnWithNicoleB
    @BeadnWithNicoleB 3 года назад +17

    Aaaww thats my cousin. I can't wait for you guys to get married. I know God is going to bless me with a mate who is caring and loving.

  • @curlygurl43
    @curlygurl43 3 года назад +31

    I love the way you talk about him when you said you looked up to him! That's so amazing to have that type of covering in your life! I feel that way about my husband, now of 30 years in June. Wow -- I pray blessings upon this marriage and the family you will have! It's going to be so wonderful! I hope you had an amazing Founders Day my greek Sister!

  • @keewashington1316
    @keewashington1316 3 года назад +75

    LISTEN This gives me hope on giving Internet dating another chance. I am setting my bar high and will not fall for the impersonators. Thanks Dr. Nina you give me hope for women over 30.

    • @DrineThePoet
      @DrineThePoet 3 года назад +4

      Same sis

    • @shontaepyt2761
      @shontaepyt2761 2 года назад +3

      I'm in the same boat dating online but just know what u want and keep that because men are the same way I have had soooooo many men telling me what they want and how I need to look.. it was funny because half of them was ugly but it was also cool because they have standards too.. Just have fun with it and stay safe.. Read their profile first more than anything.. Stay safe my Sister

    • @keewashington1316
      @keewashington1316 2 года назад

      @@shontaepyt2761 thank you and you be encourage too out here!

  • @TruckinGal-by1so
    @TruckinGal-by1so Год назад +3

    The secret to finding a good mate is to become emotionally healthy and create a vision of what you want. I met my husband once I got myself together and was clear about my boundaries.

  • @janetics.
    @janetics. 3 года назад +14

    Whew! I’m not crying the baby is 😭😂
    All I heard was that he was intentional from day 1.
    A true blessing 🙌🏿 I heard when a real man holds you down your world changes completely. Extremely happy for you and grateful you posted a video to encourage and uplift women who might feel like there’s no hope because there surely is. God CAN give you the desires of your heart and EXCEED your expectations at any point.
    Have faith ❤️

  • @nicnaknewsome9650
    @nicnaknewsome9650 3 года назад +17

    This Is Exactly How I Want To Feel & I Will !! God Is Sending Him Soon ! Congratulations To The Both of You

  • @brilliancemusic6095
    @brilliancemusic6095 3 года назад +14

    Your energy is unmatched! Especially during a time when we are being told we can't have love or marriage. Thank you

  • @cfreemful
    @cfreemful 3 года назад +54

    "...more than a dreamer, I'm an executor ..." That my friend was a very powerful statement.

  • @WhenGraceCalled
    @WhenGraceCalled 3 года назад +11

    You can tell when a woman is well-loved and girl you are glowing! So excited for you all!

  • @MerlsAlfred
    @MerlsAlfred 3 года назад +9

    You give me hope. When my ex husband walked out I gave up on love but your videos have helped me and these most recent ones oh lord Dr Nina the right one is out there for me! Thank you for sharing. You are truly inspirational.

  • @thenatural.hygienist193
    @thenatural.hygienist193 3 года назад +13

    Congratulations. I love how you described your relationship, the way you connected, set boundaries, included each other while encouraging your individuality and all with intention. He sounds like a wonderful man. There's hope out there for us ladies ❤

  • @HausofLuciana
    @HausofLuciana 3 года назад +20

    You so right. Intentional is important.

  • @chemirem.3934
    @chemirem.3934 3 года назад +14

    The fact that a person will invest in you means they want you to have the best. Preach!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Dr. Nina!! That’s why some women end up with rich men PLUS a pre nup. Okay 🧐 they examining the pockets and not the intentions.

  • @Hail_Amina
    @Hail_Amina 3 года назад +17

    I can’t stop crying 😭 such a beautiful story. I’m so happy for you.

  • @MsStina514
    @MsStina514 3 года назад +10

    Awwww Congrats Nina!!!( Big Sis in my head) I've been struggling to let go of my old relationship with my sons father. Just recently joined therapy to begin my healing process. (Being INTENTIONAL for myself and with myself) You've warmed my heart just watching this video. Thanks for giving us hope, and for your vunerability.

  • @kristijjones1087
    @kristijjones1087 3 года назад +11

    I just love your personality, spirit, and determination to be a better you daily. I have watched your channel for some years now and you have helped me in many ways. Thank You Dr. Nina! Big Congratulations to you. So happy for you sis. I pray that I will be able to share my engagement story like this one day real soon in God's timing and God's will. Thanking God in advance. Amen!

  • @krystalmichg
    @krystalmichg 3 года назад +9

    I could feeel the emotion you were exuding in this video you must’ve been holding tears back a lil. So happy for you for finding the one. You deserve it!!!

  • @missk4934
    @missk4934 3 года назад +13

    So powerful. I laughed and cried right along with you and I truly believe in the timing of this video. I’ve been doing that deep inner work and I’m looking for the same qualities in a man and partner that you mentioned. Thank you for sharing 🙏🏼💛

  • @biancaexilus9402
    @biancaexilus9402 3 года назад +44

    Definition of a healthy relationship in 36 mins❣️❣️❣️

  • @crystalssbsnrn9673
    @crystalssbsnrn9673 3 года назад +6

    This makes me so hopeful the way you talk about him gives me chills hopes and courage for my own husband to come.

  • @shakiyagotdreams8563
    @shakiyagotdreams8563 3 года назад +9

    This is going to be a good series! I have friends that had successful online marriages but I can’t even get a date. I’m trying to learn how to get out of negative thinking and around negative ppl.... even family Lol. Please school us! 💖💖

  • @Only1Tweet
    @Only1Tweet 3 года назад +7

    It's the tearing up while talking about her man and how he loves her for me. Listen... I'm here for it and am taking notes! Congratulations and many, MANY blessings to and for y'all!

  • @lovinthis02
    @lovinthis02 3 года назад +12

    Sis, this testimony was so beautiful and heartwarming. Blessing to and your Fiancé 💕💕💕💕

  • @Somuchtotalkabout
    @Somuchtotalkabout 3 года назад +17

    I loved listening to this! I smiled the entire video. I’ve never been happier for someone I don’t know lol! Congratulations 💕

  • @HIMAY10NENCE
    @HIMAY10NENCE 3 года назад +35

    I can listen to u all day . I love u and I’m so proud of u little sis 💕

  • @saywhatnow247
    @saywhatnow247 3 года назад +7

    Omg sis we have the same ring!!! I absolutely love my rose gold beauty!!! Congratulations! We're getting married in May covid or no covid!

  • @MsKwesi
    @MsKwesi 3 года назад +29

    Thank you for sharing your journey. It sparked some things in my spirit. God bless you and your betrothed.

  • @FaithLoveDreams
    @FaithLoveDreams 3 года назад +2

    Congratulations on your Engagement! I Met My Hubby on line also (Match) dated 3 yrs long distance and will be married 6 in March😍 Not sure how I missed you Dr. Nina I lived in Houston (well Humble) after Katrina until 5 yrs ago we live in MD now.
    Ladies, Online can work don’t let people discourage you, just fully Vet each person and listen to your spirit of discernment.

  • @BeautifulbyDesign
    @BeautifulbyDesign 3 года назад +12

    I have a friend that owns a bail bonding company and knows how to find out literally anything about a person. She is definitely all about getting their business before you date them. LOL! I'm feeling that BBBD!!

  • @coachjessicarich
    @coachjessicarich 3 года назад +12

    This video just reminded me that I need to continue to focus on my purpose, that Gods timing is perfect and not to settle. Absolutely beautiful story. Thank you for sharing your journey with us🤗❤

  • @DaileyThrifts
    @DaileyThrifts 3 года назад +6

    I get really execited/happy when friends or people I know get married or engage, but yet I struggle with relationships😄

  • @ashellhoy
    @ashellhoy 3 года назад +2

    I don't tell guys upfront what I like and don't like because I know they will try to be that even if they're really not. I say let's talk, get to know each other and either we will click or not. So glad you said that because it's so real.

  • @bibi1583
    @bibi1583 3 года назад +9

    This was lovely. I learned a lot. I am in a good place after divorce, its been 2 years and giving myself another year before looking for a spouse.

  • @missgoodenergy
    @missgoodenergy 3 года назад +3

    In a world full of RUclips videos that will make you feel like real love will never happen, it’s a must to STAY plugged into this channel. Thank you, Dr. Nina for sharing. My heart is smiling and hope for true love is restoring in me. 🙌🏾💓🙌🏾💓

  • @LilieAn1
    @LilieAn1 3 года назад +11

    This made me so emotional! I love the faith you have in the Most high sis! #Ephesians320

  • @classylady4606
    @classylady4606 2 года назад +2

    "It's the fact that a person wants to invest in you, they want you to have the best..."
    That's a whole word!

  • @beatsdontstop305
    @beatsdontstop305 3 года назад +10

    I love these types of videos from you. So much encouragement, inspiration, and joy.

  • @PrettyBrownRoseGold
    @PrettyBrownRoseGold 3 года назад +7

    I’m so happy for you queen! You deserve all of this happiness and congratulations to you and your fiancé! 💙

  • @jareya
    @jareya 3 года назад +13

    Beautiful. You answered all the questions so clearly with awesome advice.

  • @elizabethealy5549
    @elizabethealy5549 3 года назад +9

    Thank you! This video really has made me think differently about dating and holding on to hope❤️

  • @vanessaemmitt275
    @vanessaemmitt275 3 года назад +4

    Congratulations 🎊 👏 to you and Sean on your engagement!!! I love hearing how you started your journey making sure you had your life together. Women don't get it that all starts with us having our lives together. I've drilled this with my daughters! We women have to know "who" we are and know what we want for ourselves FIRST before we think about getting with anyone! I sent this video to my daughters. I LOVED this video...very inspirational! 👏 Thank you for sharing & praying 🙏 for your happiness in your new marriage!
    Looking forward to the wedding 💒 videos!!!! LOL 😆

  • @janicemurphy8620
    @janicemurphy8620 3 года назад +7

    Wow, I loved this video and how open, honest, and transparent you were. I've been wanting to sign up for the Mentor Membership for awhile now but my husband and I are on a tight budget paying for my tuition to finish my masters degree. I am going to go back to the drawing board to see how I can make this happen for myself. Thanks for sharing and I hope to be involved soon.

  • @ralph9A28
    @ralph9A28 3 года назад +4

    Thanks so much for being intentional about doing things differently. We get so caught up in the likes that we tend to overshare, and man does it bite us in the behind! Congrats girl! You're such a jewel!

  • @Janettoi
    @Janettoi 3 года назад +4

    Oh Nina. You continue to mentor me all these years through your channel since 2008 and I can't tell you how elated I am for you. May God bless your union 💜

  • @TeeTacklesGoals
    @TeeTacklesGoals 3 года назад +7

    I'm claiming another deep loving relationship for myself, in my future. It's been a minute. You give us hope. Congratulations to you both!
    P.s. I'm saving up for your mentorship program. I'm hoping I can jump on board around June.

  • @katefab1028
    @katefab1028 3 года назад +6

    This video dropped right on time for me. At 33, I was feeling like maybe dating and marriage isn't for me and that I should just continue focusing on myself as I've been pretty discouraged lately. Watching this video and hearing what you've said has encouraged me, thank you for sharing your story and giving words of wisdom and insight on what it was like dating your current fiance. I'm definitely going to change my outlook and put my love story into God's Hands and trust Him while being intentional in what I looked for.

    • @antoniahardin1050
      @antoniahardin1050 2 года назад

      I'm 55 and never married. So,I can relate to how you felt.

  • @SonAng113
    @SonAng113 3 года назад +3

    Beautiful story Sis, I love how you kept your relationship so private, because personally for me that's a mistake many people make in sharing their business. He sounds like an amazing man; so happy for you both!! Best wishes.

  • @BettyIvory
    @BettyIvory 3 года назад +7

    Your speaking about having intention spoke to me. Thank you, sister dear.

  • @kristinarichardson8722
    @kristinarichardson8722 3 года назад +6

    I appreciate this. Although I dont know either of you personally, I FEEL the true real-deal connection. Its refreshing and a blessing. Congratulations to both of you.

  • @rcb7665
    @rcb7665 3 года назад +2

    I'm a single guy attractive, congrats on having a successful story and apparent happily ever after. While you do a great job of giving hope to those who need it, the other side of the coin is still having a sense of being realistic and being realistic about what one is looking for. I think in another video you may need to expound upon what you mean by intentional, since you stated you all were long distance friends for 4 months.
    I think definitely agree that Tinder/dating apps, are what YOU make of it. So regardless of whether people are telling you "this is for that, and this app is for this," all that stems from what YOU want to do, if you have good communication. Like you said, people hook up everywhere. Kudos to you for not just sitting back and putting yourself in position to be discovered, so many women don't do that (including getting in shape)! Best of luck to you and your man...continued success!

  • @KS-rn4co
    @KS-rn4co 3 года назад +5

    I love the love!!! Scrolling through the comments are really bringing joy to me!! Congrats guys

  • @Msleelee9487
    @Msleelee9487 3 года назад +5

    i did't have good luck online but i'm happy and done with dating. Congrats you will make a beautiful bride

  • @kedav4916
    @kedav4916 3 года назад +27

    Ayeeeeee gotta love those Detroit men, hes definitely a keeper🤗!🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽, I love your story.Congrats you deserve it! Does he has any Detroit friends in Detroit still?👀👀 lol...I'm a Detroit girl 😋

    • @erikkacherry4537
      @erikkacherry4537 3 года назад +4

      Me also Sis D Girl

    • @harnesswealth
      @harnesswealth 3 года назад +3

      Aye‼️ What up doe⁉️ Thank you for the support.

    • @maralinautube
      @maralinautube 3 года назад

      I'm a Detroit area lady by way of Flint.

  • @jsc0625
    @jsc0625 3 года назад +9

    I cannot thank you ENOUGH for this!! ❤️This is what I need to hear

  • @monag5124
    @monag5124 3 года назад +3

    Girlfriend let’s just say the brother makes your heart skip way more than a beat. We could feel the emotional vibes throughout this video. Congratulations again! Be blessed.🥰

  • @chrissyw7208
    @chrissyw7208 3 года назад +5

    There are great men still in this world. This gives me hope... and also to explore the option of long distance ❤ Congratulations!

  • @Sandra-ly1ss
    @Sandra-ly1ss 3 года назад +8

    This video was so on point and so solid!! Thank you for dropping gems - woo!!

  • @lovelydae7455
    @lovelydae7455 3 года назад +1

    I met my husband online too. People had a lot to say but he takes care of our family and we live in the nicest area of north texas

  • @brittanydonnet7347
    @brittanydonnet7347 3 года назад +7

    Thank you for sharing your love story with us and answering the questions we wanted to know because you really hit some key points and advice to a late 28 year old like myself what I should look for in a husband

  • @ltarleton7527
    @ltarleton7527 3 года назад +5

    Amazing story! I'm married and still enjoyed this video and learned from it!

  • @PrettyReddTheDoula
    @PrettyReddTheDoula 3 года назад +21

    Tony Gaskins would approve😊. Love it!

    • @taylortaylor4464
      @taylortaylor4464 3 года назад +3

      I thought Tony Gaskins was against online dating. - Maybe, I’m wrong.

    • @PrettyReddTheDoula
      @PrettyReddTheDoula 3 года назад

      @@taylortaylor4464 I was waiting....Lol
      That's the only part...

  • @tawnimarie1402
    @tawnimarie1402 3 года назад +5

    My mother sent me this link. Thank you for sharing. This is encouraging. Congrats and thanks for giving me hope. God bless you and your union. No more unintentional "shuh" lol.

  • @JD-dz9lx
    @JD-dz9lx 3 года назад +4

    The check yes or no card is sooooo cuteeeee! I love it.

  • @Jeah1911
    @Jeah1911 3 года назад +11

    Thanks for sharing Dr N. This is my problem right now... I’m having a mental blockage when it comes to online dating.

    • @shaunaboo961
      @shaunaboo961 3 года назад +2

      I’m guilty of this as well

    • @jsc0625
      @jsc0625 3 года назад +4

      Same...I keep extending my break from it 😂

    • @tionak
      @tionak 3 года назад +5

      That’s fair but the world is changing and it’s not nearly as taboo. Plus, people catfish in real life (I.e. pretending to be a good person etc.) so the risk is about even. Just be mindful.

    • @Jeah1911
      @Jeah1911 3 года назад +4

      @@tionak thank you... I like your perspective and I actually agree with it. I think there’s still a part of me holding on to “traditional” ways of meeting people. Might not be very realistic in today’s world!

  • @hortensiacampbell7852
    @hortensiacampbell7852 3 года назад +5

    I needed this💕
    I was really getting into the mindset of giving up. But this reminds me to try again. To always try again.🤗❣️

  • @reginahutchinson4057
    @reginahutchinson4057 3 года назад +4

    I just found you tonight wow you gave me hope. Thank you so much for sharing such a beautiful moment.

  • @moca1992
    @moca1992 3 года назад +1

    Can we all say a season of overflow? These last videos have exuded the pureness of joy, love and happiness. Thank you for sharing these moments with us. We are bless to witness something as beautiful as this rather than just hearing about it. I love this a thousand percent. It was the engagement planning for me, you can tell it was thought out. Again, congratulations to you both! Blessings!

  • @lenapple8376
    @lenapple8376 3 года назад +4

    God is good. You have to love yourself before you can love someone else.❤