I have 5, and to answer your question about how to balance naps/schedule, with my 4-5 they did a lot of their morning naps out of the house in the car seat, or I would have friends over during morning nap so the older ones could still have a play date. Nap time is sacred time 2-4 so we do not Schedule anything during this time. No doctors appointments, play dates etc. the older ones who are not in elementary school still have quiet time during this time. On the weekends I will spend some one on one time with my older ones during this time We also do weekly date nights with our older kids. They each get a one on one date (one per month) Summer months are more of a balance becauee my oldest is 9 and my youngest is 1. There are very few activities that entertain all of them at once. We just head into each day with a schedule and the window of 10-1 is the no complaint time. That means that on some days we will do an activity for the older ones and on others it will be more focused on the younger ones. All kids must find something to do while at the activity though and not complain or there is no screen time. Obviously this rule is more focused on my older ones. The main thing to realize is that growing up in a big family is a blessing, just as growing up in a small family is. There will always be a balancing act no matter how many kids you have. You figure it out as you go, learn what works for your family and adjust to it as the kids grow. The kids grow up happy, loved and also they learn not to grow up entitled because they have siblings and have to learn to think of others feelings as well.
💕 you are such a hard worker 💪🏼 What if you got a nanny once or twice a week to help with the children/ household while you get editing and emails done? This way at night you can focus on your bed routine vs working late.
You look so pretty in this video! Absolutely glowing! Love your authenticity! Definitely agree about not showing tantrums and honoring your children. You’re doing great Momma!
You strike such a good balance being honest about motherhood but respectful of your kids!! Also Ella dancing never ever gets old I love it so much!! 😍😍😍 also I love cbt, thank you so much for bringing awareness to the place therapy has in life 🙌🏻
Tiff, the way that you uplift and empower other women is so wonderful to see! Thank you for encouraging everyone to be genuine and true to themselves! xo
First video I have watched and now I’m going on a binge of your videos 💯 seem like a wonderful family so thank you for sharing your family Who else finds a good family or person on utube and then goes and watches heaps of there videos🤔
I absolutely love watching your videos. Sometimes I feel so alone, even though my marriage is good. I just get lost in mom life, and watching your videos and seeing you go through some of the same things helps a lot. Your family is seriously an inspiration and so uplifting. The odds of you reading this are slim I’m sure, but if you do come across it, I just wanted to say thank you because you help this mom a lot. I’ve tried watching other videos similar but always come back to your channel. It’s so positive and light. Your family has helped comfort me in some very stressful times, and you are doing such an amazing job, and have such a beautiful family. I’ve never left any comment on youtube before, but I have to say thank you. Thank you for making this channel and sharing your life because it helps way more people than you’d think.
I struggled with being done having kids. My husband was for sure done at three. I realized I wanted to have four because I kind of felt I had to prove I could do it (came from a family of four) and was sad to be done. That being said I realized I really was stretched as thin as I wanted to be. I was ready to move in to the next stage with our family of five. I had my tubes tied and I feel no regret about it. I love your vlogs. So relatable. Upbeat, funny, real, cute, everyday. It helps me remember I’m not doing this alone.
I honestly feel like I was meant to watch this today. I was a stressed out mom today who probably could have been kinder and more relaxed and i was feeling so guilty and sad but you’re right we only have one life to live the most important thing is that we enjoy it. I love how real and balanced you are especially in a space where most people seem practically perfect.
Tiff, you are so sweet to want to get the little boy you're pumping for to 1 year. I hope his mom knows how truly blessed she is to have you pumping for her. As always, thank you for keeping your vlogs so "real" for us. I appreciate that so much more than constant vlogs from people show casing their "perfect" life. As if we all don't know that life isn't perfect. You're the best!! Keep doing what you do. I love you & your family! You can make a bad day turn around or at least lessen my anxiety by just watching one of yours or Chris' videos.
😭😭😭 thank you so much! Made my night. Perfectly imperfect is just fine! It gets exhausting trying to keep up with the Jones. I just love to share my real life in hopes it will help another mama out there - the whole reason I started my channel ♥️
Yes! I spent so much time caring too much what others think to the detriment of the way I thought of myself. Now, as you say, I'm myself and just practice kindness and it is what it is🌟 Also, Ella is that hat! And wow, the scootch crawl! Nice job. My little guy is rolling over and pushing himself up. So amazing all the learning kids do everyday!
Thank you for sharing the beautiful and ugly times! Keeping it real so new mommas like me know not everything is perfect and that’s is OKAY. Also I like what how you don’t share your kiddos tantrums so they don’t get embarrassed, way to balance media & protecting their privacy. Great job!
I so appreciate your honesty, positivity, and kind heart. I love watching your videos on days when I am not having the best time. By the way, your hair looks so good!
I’m a 24 year old cat mom and I don’t plan on having children but I love watching your channel so much! I watch you every day. Ella is the cutest! Thanks for being real. ❤️
Awwww, I really enjoy your videos!!! You are beautiful, inside and out.,, you and your hubby have wonderful, very well disciplined children!!! I’m glad your going to therapy for anxiety and anxiety attacks. I’m in therapy for trauma, Anxiety attracts, ADD. I always put everyone in my life,,,,,BEFORE ME!!! I’m a giver, cancer survivor, survived a stroke, survived an accident n was hit at 90 miles an hour. IM A SURVIVOR........ Honey, take care of yourself,,, you are absolutely Super mom, a wonderful wife,,,,, that multitasks!!’ You have a precious family,,,, take time for YOU!!! Pamper yourself, get mannies and pedis, have a date night with your hubby!!! I appreciate the time you give of yourself to make videos and vlogs!!!!we love you for sharing your time and family with us!!’ GODS BLESSINGS ALWAYS!!!! ❤️💋
People like you inspire me... I've wanted start RUclips for ever and always recorded stuff but never actually did anything with it because I was always afraid of what people I know would say, and finally was like you know what I'm going to do it... because you're right I shouldn't care about what people think they are going to think what they want regardless! So thank you for that, love your channel, keep doing your thing and inspiring other people that watch your videos. I hope to one day be able to do the same ♥️
I hit like button even before I watched the vlog 😂😂😂 Mom of three under two and tiny youtuber here. Love your channel! Edit: yes! Be yourself! And happy mommy = happy kids! She is almost crawling soooo cute. And she is such a happy baby. My baby is 3mo and he is getting stronger every day. It’s so amazing to watch them grow so quick 😍
Ugh.. im pregnant with my first and I love love love this channel. Im so happy to have a channel to watch like this so I know a little of what to expect.
My boys call each other bro bro because your boys do. I think that is the cutest. I have 7 children and once you've had your third it doesn't get much harder. I love big families and wouldn't change anything. People always ask how we afford it but you can't buy the happiness we have. The things we can't afford wouldn't come close to the love we all share. Never a dull moment though!💕
I have 3 and we are finally moving onto the next stage in life , kids are getting to be more independent, I am able to do so much more alone with all of them (in the past year we have done two long distance drives with just me and my 3 kids who are 8,6 and 4 . We drove from NY to Missouri and then also NY to SC . ) I never thought I’d ever be able to do any of that alone without my husband but this new and next stage of life has been so nice . Some days I miss having a little baby but 3 is perfect for our family
I love you and your channel and always appreciate your honesty and how yourself you are. And you seem like such a good mom💜💜💜 I always feel better after watching your channel and look forwards to your uploads.
Your kids are so darling and Ella's dance moves always bring a smile to my face! We're a family of 4 and I budget $300 for two weeks ($600 a month). We had previously budgeted $220 a week and it was stressing me out how much I was spending on food because I was always going over on that. I eat gluten free and little dairy and still managed to keep it at my new budget. I feel so much better knowing we're still eating healthy, a lot of organic foods and some grass-fed meats while keeping the budget low. We also live about 45 minutes from Los Angeles, CA so food can get expensive here!
Family of 4: we go to Costco once every two weeks. from Costco we buy milk (4 gallons.. baby and husband drink a lot), eggs, meat, 2 packs bagels, diapers, wipes, frozen veggies, and some snacks for kids. Everything else we get from the grocery store. We spend about $150 a week but often $200 or more. We also eat out about once a week
I'm also a mommy of 3. I have 3 girls aged 7, 6 and 3.. they definitely keep me on my toes but they are hands down the greatest thing that could have happened to me! I love your videos and your babies are beautiful!!
I totally understand what you mean! I think about it all the time. To be PRESENT in the present. You are a Phenomenal Mother, Wife and woman. I look up to you so much even though I'm 27 almost 28. Really though you inspire me so much!
We have a family of 7 and budget 400 every 2 weeks on groceries. I also do a 300-400 Costco stock up once every 2 months. I stock up on lots of meat, kids snacks, household items etc
First of all I love your personality and my kids an i love watching your family. Im the oldest of 5 kids i have 1 biological brothers and 3 adopted brothers . I can assure you i never felted like i miss out on anything in my childhood. I love growing up in a big family . And now that we're all adults with are owne kids its amazing to see how close they are as cousins
You are such a magnificently marvelous mother to your beautiful children they couldn’t be more lucky to have such a wonderful mom to mentor and guide them and you couldn’t be luckier to have them
Omg yess I completely agree with you on how they miss out! We stopped at three and our youngest is 18 months and we can do sooo much more now! Than what we could last summer it’s a blast ! My others are 3.5 and 5.5 years
Sometimes when we take on extra things in our lives it affects us more than we realize. It can be hard to say no to doing things that you truly enjoy doing. When we say no to some things/opportunities, we are also saying yes at the same time to taking care of ourselves. This is just something that I have been learning/been more aware of for myself, because I like to be able to do all the things, but I know that it can just mentally be too much for me at times. Anyway, thanks for sharing your day to day with us, and being so open. :)
I’m a new subscriber, so I’m just seeing this video. I also struggle with anxiety. Bless you and your family. The crawling is adorable! I can’t wait for grandkids! I miss all of the milestones.
Mama can’t take car of everyone else without taking care of herself first. 💕 I hope you can get back on track for yourself. I’m new to your channel and loving how real you are especially on the ditl videos. I’m trying to get myself back on track also.
I have 5 kids they were all under the age of 5. The last 2 were twins. It all worked out. Never not did anything because of naptime. They are 17 and up now. Everyone survived the craziness☺
Im watching this as I nurse my 11 week old son and my almost 3 year old son eats my lunch while his sits on his plate ( mean while it's the same thing). I just wanted to say that one of the many reasons I love your channel is how real you are about tantrums and the true side of toddlers. You also respect your kids "demonic" moments and their privacy with that! You're doing amazing!
Thank you Kim and congrats on your baby! Those demonic moments are normal for toddlers! We’re perfectly imperfect over here and I wouldn’t want it any other way 💕
I do a grocery shop about every 2 weeks. It runs about $250.00. The thing that saves me the most money is doing the grocery pickup service, (where you shop online for your foods, someone else does the shopping for you, and you pick up at the store, you stay in your nice air-conditioned car & someone loads it in your car for you.) It's a life saver!!! I save money by shopping online because I see exactly what my total price is as I shop, and I can search for the exact items/brands I want. When I go into the store to shop I usually end up buying way more than I needed to...especially if my 3 1/2 year old goes with me.
To me 3 is the perfect amount of kids, I have 4 its chaos 24/7. I love them all to pieces. But its alot on your plate. And my kids love signing up for sports. It was hard enough juggling 2 in sports, next year all 4 will be doing either soccer, softball, or baseball. Lord help me through it! I work out of home too which is a factor in it. Some nights were not home until after dark or close to, so that wears on me alot. But also my kids have never missed out on anything because of our baby. We always found ways.
Definitely go for four.. you won't regret it! Mine are 19, 15, 10, & 2.5 years 😘 If you feel you mentally and physically can handle it your kids will love an additional sibling; do what's best for your family!
We are the same, we have two older boys and then had our first girl 8 months ago. We are done growing our family for sure!! This is technically my fourth pregnancy/child. We lost our third boy when I was pregnant at 19 weeks and so I think that’s why I feel very blessed to have had another but deep down I would like for her to be a big sister but for our sanity as parents I think we’re done and we feel very blessed. I had a strong feeling I wanted to try again for just one more after losing Nathan but now that strong feeling is gone and we feel complete. I think y’all’s family is beautiful and the three you have are going to be so close. God bless your adorable family no matter how big it is! 💙💚💜
One tip for saving money at the grocery store and saving time at dinner is buying a lot ground meat (I use turkey) and cook it all at once and then freeze the cooked meat in separate freezer bags. It’s cheaper to buy it in bulk and it saves so much time when cooking dinner! It last for about 3 months in the freezer!
Iam taking domperidone and it really increased my milk supply by like alot . So ask your doctor if she could describe you it . u take it 2 times a day .
I have 4 little ones. 3 boys and our baby girl. They are 6, 4, 3, and 20 months. I always felt bad because I thought my oldest was missing out on fun stuff because of the babies. But we figured out ways around it. For example, going to the movies. Can't do that with babies, but my bigger boys can. So, my husband takes them to the movies, and I hang with the littles. Eventually the time of babies will come to an end-whether you have 3, or 4, or 10! And when that time is done, there will be so much for all the kids to experience, and they won't remember missing out on anything when they're grown up. You're doing an awesome job! Going from 3 to 4 kids was so easy, in my opinion. Didn't notice much of a difference! lol
Tiff, you are an awesome mama and great wife. Enjoy your lufe with your kiddos. Even though they are little now, time goes by fast especially when they start school. I once felt like you, however, I wish now I could relive some of those precious moments. 💜💕💕💕🌽
Oh wow I LOVED how long this video was!! I feel like we’d be great friends in real life! You are so genuine and lovely, I really appreciate your outlook on life 💜
I truly hope you don't feel like a bad person or mom deep down because you are doubting having a 4th child. Just remember - You need to do what's best for your mental and physical health! And if you don't bring another child into the world it's perfectly ok, you already have 3 loved children and they are blessed to have you as a mom!
I ❤️ watching your family! So sweet! My daughter is 7 years old now, but watching Ella reminded me so much of her when she was a baby! I ❤️ her sweet noises and her dancing!! And thank you so much for sharing how you take your ☕️ -it is so delicious and the only way I like to drink it now. My kids come running when they hear the whipped cream and I give them a small squirt in their mouth and they ❤️ it 😂!
I love shopping at Aldi! I feel like you can get most things there for the best price, I know some things taste different, so get those at other stores. I usually make one list and one day of shopping. Prepping for the meals for the week ahead of time saves your time and sanity. I only have 1 kid and she is 2 so I know it's a lot different. But, you can do it girl!
We grew our family differently (through foster care and adoption). I had only 1 kids to 3 kids. Then to 2 kids back to 3, then 4, then 5 back to 3 then 4. Now we have 3 that we adopted and honestly I want one more. I feel 4 just evens everything out.
It's hard to consider more kiddos when you finally find that "sweet spot" where baby is sleeping through the night, big kids are (mostly manageable), that "balance" you've been searching for seems like it is in the not so distant horizon...In my "mama of 5 world", if you're even debating it, you're not done! Lol! I'll tell you what I tell other mamas of two and three kiddos considering more. Number 3 is the "gateway kid", if you have three you can have 10! The only difference is you have to figure out where they'll sleep, and where they'll sit in the car! I'm newly out of the "baby trenches", as number 5 is out of diapers, fully potty trained, and my oldest is 13! I am so content...We did not plan on 5 kiddos, but are so grateful, so complete, and so blessed! Sending you so much love on your beautiful family!
The gift of a sibling will be more memorable than the things you do, It's life long. :) I believe God will give you the "done" feeling when you're done. I am waiting on that feeling........
Hi sweetie, I am a lot older than you and my kids are grown but I can offer some advice on anxiety. I have been dealing with it for more than twenty years now. I am on a lot of meds for it but they only go so far. Walking for a mile or two is very helpful as well as deep breathing. We tend to be perfectionists so to let up on that a bit can be life changing.
The only things I really "need" from Costco are Kirkland dryer sheets, Kirkland garbage bags, pork tenderloin, and the odd freezer meal. Well, and strawberries and blueberries if they're a good deal, but I dont make a special trip just for fruit or anything. I find the regular grocery store close to me is just as affordable if not moreso. I'm also a fan of one stop shopping so I'm not wasting time and gas running to all different stores. There are things I prefer from one store over another so I do my big shop on the weekend then stop at one or two other stores mid week, so I'm alternating and I get everywhere I need to go once.
I Think Its So Funny How You Said “ We’re All One Big Mommy Family” I’m Only 20 Years Old And I Don’t Have Kids But I’ve Been Watching Your Videos From The Beginning 😂
If you’re considering baby #4, I’d say go for it. The newborn & baby stages fly by so quickly & daddy can do more stuff with the older kiddos while you get used to the new baby.
Peets Major Dickenson is one of my favs!!! I'm digging the Cafe Domingo too 💕 I love having it with the Natural Bliss Sweet Cream creamer 🔥 Soooooo good!! ok I'm done lol.
For me....going from 2 to 3 kids much harder than going from 3 to 4..... going from 4 to 6 with twins was a nightmare!!!! Still struggling almost a year later 😢😢. Spent a month on a mental health ward because I was mentally, emotionally and physically exhausted. So important to look after ourselves, especially our mental health 😊💛💚. Hugs from Ireland xoxo
I love that your so honest that your kids aren’t perfect! So many try to make their kids seem perfect or their lives on RUclips. I love that your honest about it! We all have kids that turn into little demons lol I have a 6 and 7 year old boys and they have their moments too.
New subbie! We buy meats and a few fruits from Sam's club and sides along with more fruit from Walmart , Lucky's ,and Red and White ( local grocery store) . Our save a lot ( aldi's) closed .
When I feel down about myself I just go with it... when I feel like I'm not in the mood to do stuff around the house or the capacity to keep up with others I just don't overthink it... because I know deep down it's not me... and it's just a matter of time before I get back to myself... I'm not meant to be perfect... and I don't wake up in the morning thinking whom am I going to impress today!!... this is me... whoever loves me, will always do no matter how I look or what I do... and who doesn't love me, they won't either way... so why to bother myself!!!
We’re jumping from two kids to 4 in September!!! Oldest is going to be 8 and other kiddo is 4. I honestly done worry about my oldest missing out because we do a ton of things as a family PLUS we’re homeschoolers!😄 Everything is an adjustment and tons of fun!
Your kids are so well behaved! I’d love to see a video on how you disipline 😊
I have 5, and to answer your question about how to balance naps/schedule,
with my 4-5 they did a lot of their morning naps out of the house in the car seat, or I would have friends over during morning nap so the older ones could still have a play date.
Nap time is sacred time 2-4 so we do not Schedule anything during this time. No doctors appointments, play dates etc. the older ones who are not in elementary school still have quiet time during this time. On the weekends I will spend some one on one time with my older ones during this time
We also do weekly date nights with our older kids. They each get a one on one date (one per month)
Summer months are more of a balance becauee my oldest is 9 and my youngest is 1. There are very few activities that entertain all of them at once. We just head into each day with a schedule and the window of 10-1 is the no complaint time. That means that on some days we will do an activity for the older ones and on others it will be more focused on the younger ones. All kids must find something to do while at the activity though and not complain or there is no screen time. Obviously this rule is more focused on my older ones.
The main thing to realize is that growing up in a big family is a blessing, just as growing up in a small family is. There will always be a balancing act no matter how many kids you have. You figure it out as you go, learn what works for your family and adjust to it as the kids grow. The kids grow up happy, loved and also they learn not to grow up entitled because they have siblings and have to learn to think of others feelings as well.
How can people even dislike anything on this channel 🤷🏻♀️ it’s such a beautiful family
I know! Some people just think they know better than everyone else.
I know!!! Haters will always hate and they’re probably so unhappy themselves :(
💕 you are such a hard worker 💪🏼 What if you got a nanny once or twice a week to help with the children/ household while you get editing and emails done? This way at night you can focus on your bed routine vs working late.
You look so pretty in this video! Absolutely glowing! Love your authenticity! Definitely agree about not showing tantrums and honoring your children. You’re doing great Momma!
Aw thank you so much!
I bet the mum of that little boy you donate to is so grateful!! Even if you have to stop you are still amazing!!
Feel like you need to hear this! You're doing awesome as an individual, wife, mom, sister, daughter, and a youtuber. ♡♡
You strike such a good balance being honest about motherhood but respectful of your kids!! Also Ella dancing never ever gets old I love it so much!! 😍😍😍 also I love cbt, thank you so much for bringing awareness to the place therapy has in life 🙌🏻
Tiff, the way that you uplift and empower other women is so wonderful to see! Thank you for encouraging everyone to be genuine and true to themselves! xo
First video I have watched and now I’m going on a binge of your videos 💯 seem like a wonderful family so thank you for sharing your family
Who else finds a good family or person on utube and then goes and watches heaps of there videos🤔
Not true!! We have 3 and we are DOOONNEEE!! haha! I am so ready to see my family grow, and experience life with my husband!
I feel you on that!
I absolutely love watching your videos. Sometimes I feel so alone, even though my marriage is good. I just get lost in mom life, and watching your videos and seeing you go through some of the same things helps a lot. Your family is seriously an inspiration and so uplifting. The odds of you reading this are slim I’m sure, but if you do come across it, I just wanted to say thank you because you help this mom a lot. I’ve tried watching other videos similar but always come back to your channel. It’s so positive and light. Your family has helped comfort me in some very stressful times, and you are doing such an amazing job, and have such a beautiful family. I’ve never left any comment on youtube before, but I have to say thank you. Thank you for making this channel and sharing your life because it helps way more people than you’d think.
I struggled with being done having kids. My husband was for sure done at three. I realized I wanted to have four because I kind of felt I had to prove I could do it (came from a family of four) and was sad to be done. That being said I realized I really was stretched as thin as I wanted to be. I was ready to move in to the next stage with our family of five. I had my tubes tied and I feel no regret about it.
I love your vlogs. So relatable. Upbeat, funny, real, cute, everyday. It helps me remember I’m not doing this alone.
I love yours and chris inappropriate side jokes. Hilarious !
I KNEW I’d hear this conversation come up soon about you having a 4th! 😂 your killing mom life Tiffany! ❤️
Who else clicks like even before watching!? #teamBeaston !!!!! ❤️
I honestly feel like I was meant to watch this today. I was a stressed out mom today who probably could have been kinder and more relaxed and i was feeling so guilty and sad but you’re right we only have one life to live the most important thing is that we enjoy it. I love how real and balanced you are especially in a space where most people seem practically perfect.
Video on discipline would really help a mom out here!!
Laura Valverde totally agree!
I just started following your channel. You guys are one charming, humble, adorable family. Ella’s dance melts me!
Tiff, you are so sweet to want to get the little boy you're pumping for to 1 year. I hope his mom knows how truly blessed she is to have you pumping for her.
As always, thank you for keeping your vlogs so "real" for us. I appreciate that so much more than constant vlogs from people show casing their "perfect" life. As if we all don't know that life isn't perfect.
You're the best!! Keep doing what you do. I love you & your family! You can make a bad day turn around or at least lessen my anxiety by just watching one of yours or Chris' videos.
😭😭😭 thank you so much! Made my night. Perfectly imperfect is just fine! It gets exhausting trying to keep up with the Jones. I just love to share my real life in hopes it will help another mama out there - the whole reason I started my channel ♥️
Yes! I spent so much time caring too much what others think to the detriment of the way I thought of myself. Now, as you say, I'm myself and just practice kindness and it is what it is🌟 Also, Ella is that hat! And wow, the scootch crawl! Nice job. My little guy is rolling over and pushing himself up. So amazing all the learning kids do everyday!
Thank you for sharing the beautiful and ugly times! Keeping it real so new mommas like me know not everything is perfect and that’s is OKAY. Also I like what how you don’t share your kiddos tantrums so they don’t get embarrassed, way to balance media & protecting their privacy. Great job!
I so appreciate your honesty, positivity, and kind heart. I love watching your videos on days when I am not having the best time. By the way, your hair looks so good!
Thank you! It means a lot that you took the time out of your day to say that! But I hope your days get better 💕
Tiff you kill it. Great mom. Your kids are so lucky. Ella is so smart. Love y'all ♥️♥️♥️
I love how you said I have 2 Woody's. And Chris is like No 3 woody's. Lol
Came to the comments just to see how many other people caught it😂
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Hahahha also came to see who caught that
I have 4 and couldn’t imagine not having 4, once you have 3 it’s just adding one more baby to the routine 🖤 A family of 6 is just a perfect number.
I’m a 24 year old cat mom and I don’t plan on having children but I love watching your channel so much! I watch you every day. Ella is the cutest! Thanks for being real. ❤️
Your #talkswithtiff always come to me in the most needed moments 💜
That makes me really happy because I always just say what’s on my heart!
Awwww, I really enjoy your videos!!! You are beautiful, inside and out.,, you and your hubby have wonderful, very well disciplined children!!! I’m glad your going to therapy for anxiety and anxiety attacks. I’m in therapy for trauma,
Anxiety attracts, ADD. I always put everyone in my life,,,,,BEFORE ME!!!
I’m a giver, cancer survivor, survived a stroke, survived an accident n was hit at 90 miles an hour. IM A SURVIVOR........ Honey, take care of yourself,,, you are absolutely Super mom, a wonderful wife,,,,, that multitasks!!’
You have a precious family,,,, take time for YOU!!! Pamper yourself, get mannies and pedis, have a date night with your hubby!!! I appreciate the time you give of yourself to make videos and vlogs!!!!we love you for sharing your time and family with us!!’
GODS BLESSINGS ALWAYS!!!!
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People like you inspire me... I've wanted start RUclips for ever and always recorded stuff but never actually did anything with it because I was always afraid of what people I know would say, and finally was like you know what I'm going to do it... because you're right I shouldn't care about what people think they are going to think what they want regardless! So thank you for that, love your channel, keep doing your thing and inspiring other people that watch your videos. I hope to one day be able to do the same ♥️
I hit like button even before I watched the vlog 😂😂😂 Mom of three under two and tiny youtuber here. Love your channel!
Edit: yes! Be yourself! And happy mommy = happy kids! She is almost crawling soooo cute. And she is such a happy baby. My baby is 3mo and he is getting stronger every day. It’s so amazing to watch them grow so quick 😍
Aw thanks so much!
Ugh.. im pregnant with my first and I love love love this channel. Im so happy to have a channel to watch like this so I know a little of what to expect.
My boys call each other bro bro because your boys do. I think that is the cutest. I have 7 children and once you've had your third it doesn't get much harder. I love big families and wouldn't change anything. People always ask how we afford it but you can't buy the happiness we have. The things we can't afford wouldn't come close to the love we all share. Never a dull moment though!💕
I have 3 and we are finally moving onto the next stage in life , kids are getting to be more independent, I am able to do so much more alone with all of them (in the past year we have done two long distance drives with just me and my 3 kids who are 8,6 and 4 . We drove from NY to Missouri and then also NY to SC . ) I never thought I’d ever be able to do any of that alone without my husband but this new and next stage of life has been so nice . Some days I miss having a little baby but 3 is perfect for our family
I love you and your channel and always appreciate your honesty and how yourself you are. And you seem like such a good mom💜💜💜 I always feel better after watching your channel and look forwards to your uploads.
That’s my goal I want you to leave feeling like you had your soul food! 😭
Oh my word you’re so motivational and encouraging! I love watching your videos!! And your kids are sooo cute ♥️
Your kids are so darling and Ella's dance moves always bring a smile to my face! We're a family of 4 and I budget $300 for two weeks ($600 a month). We had previously budgeted $220 a week and it was stressing me out how much I was spending on food because I was always going over on that. I eat gluten free and little dairy and still managed to keep it at my new budget. I feel so much better knowing we're still eating healthy, a lot of organic foods and some grass-fed meats while keeping the budget low. We also live about 45 minutes from Los Angeles, CA so food can get expensive here!
Family of 4: we go to Costco once every two weeks. from Costco we buy milk (4 gallons.. baby and husband drink a lot), eggs, meat, 2 packs bagels, diapers, wipes, frozen veggies, and some snacks for kids. Everything else we get from the grocery store. We spend about $150 a week but often $200 or more. We also eat out about once a week
Haha you and your hubby are the cutest there at the end 💕 fav youtuber by far and you’re doing an amazing job. Love the content! Xoxo
Thank you Caitlin 💕
I'm also a mommy of 3. I have 3 girls aged 7, 6 and 3.. they definitely keep me on my toes but they are hands down the greatest thing that could have happened to me! I love your videos and your babies are beautiful!!
I totally understand what you mean! I think about it all the time. To be PRESENT in the present. You are a Phenomenal Mother, Wife and woman. I look up to you so much even though I'm 27 almost 28. Really though you inspire me so much!
I see your uncommon James white Tshirt. Love it, and I love kristin cavallari♡
We have a family of 7 and budget 400 every 2 weeks on groceries.
I also do a 300-400 Costco stock up once every 2 months. I stock up on lots of meat, kids snacks, household items etc
Sarah....AKA Mommy that was helpful. How old are your kids
Teach me your ways!! How do you do this? We are spending $100 every week and it's just three of us 😭
Avail Mcdowell my oldest is 9 and then we have 8, 5, 3, 1.
First of all I love your personality and my kids an i love watching your family. Im the oldest of 5 kids i have 1 biological brothers and 3 adopted brothers . I can assure you i never felted like i miss out on anything in my childhood. I love growing up in a big family . And now that we're all adults with are owne kids its amazing to see how close they are as cousins
Tiffaney, she’s so cute. I can’t Believe how big Ella is getting . Hope u have a wonderful Mother’s Day🦋🦋 Enjoying ur videos 😊
You are such a magnificently marvelous mother to your beautiful children they couldn’t be more lucky to have such a wonderful mom to mentor and guide them and you couldn’t be luckier to have them
Omg yess I completely agree with you on how they miss out! We stopped at three and our youngest is 18 months and we can do sooo much more now! Than what we could last summer it’s a blast ! My others are 3.5 and 5.5 years
You re doing such a great job with your family
Sometimes when we take on extra things in our lives it affects us more than we realize. It can be hard to say no to doing things that you truly enjoy doing. When we say no to some things/opportunities, we are also saying yes at the same time to taking care of ourselves. This is just something that I have been learning/been more aware of for myself, because I like to be able to do all the things, but I know that it can just mentally be too much for me at times. Anyway, thanks for sharing your day to day with us, and being so open. :)
I’m a new subscriber, so I’m just seeing this video. I also struggle with anxiety. Bless you and your family. The crawling is adorable! I can’t wait for grandkids! I miss all of the milestones.
Omg the neighbors think I'm crazy and there not wrong! I'm still laughing at that! 😂
Mama can’t take car of everyone else without taking care of herself first. 💕 I hope you can get back on track for yourself. I’m new to your channel and loving how real you are especially on the ditl videos. I’m trying to get myself back on track also.
You can do everything with the baby too. You just make it work💜 boys don’t have to miss out on a thing!
Liked before I even watched because its Tiffani and family ❤❤❤❤❤
Aw thank you Lisa you’re the best
@@BeautyTheBeastons awwww thanks just love watching your channel grow ❤❤❤
Oh my goodness, Ella already starting to crawl! Good job girlie I cant believe how fast time goes and she is getting also big♡
It’s going way too fast 😭
I have 5 kids they were all under the age of 5. The last 2 were twins. It all worked out. Never not did anything because of naptime. They are 17 and up now. Everyone survived the craziness☺
Ella's little earrings make her look so grown up 😊 so cute!
Im watching this as I nurse my 11 week old son and my almost 3 year old son eats my lunch while his sits on his plate ( mean while it's the same thing). I just wanted to say that one of the many reasons I love your channel is how real you are about tantrums and the true side of toddlers. You also respect your kids "demonic" moments and their privacy with that! You're doing amazing!
Thank you Kim and congrats on your baby! Those demonic moments are normal for toddlers! We’re perfectly imperfect over here and I wouldn’t want it any other way 💕
I do a grocery shop about every 2 weeks. It runs about $250.00. The thing that saves me the most money is doing the grocery pickup service, (where you shop online for your foods, someone else does the shopping for you, and you pick up at the store, you stay in your nice air-conditioned car & someone loads it in your car for you.) It's a life saver!!! I save money by shopping online because I see exactly what my total price is as I shop, and I can search for the exact items/brands I want. When I go into the store to shop I usually end up buying way more than I needed to...especially if my 3 1/2 year old goes with me.
To me 3 is the perfect amount of kids, I have 4 its chaos 24/7. I love them all to pieces. But its alot on your plate. And my kids love signing up for sports. It was hard enough juggling 2 in sports, next year all 4 will be doing either soccer, softball, or baseball. Lord help me through it! I work out of home too which is a factor in it. Some nights were not home until after dark or close to, so that wears on me alot. But also my kids have never missed out on anything because of our baby. We always found ways.
LOL they really do look like Winnie the Pooh! Im dying PS 4 babies is totally worth it! Not easier but worth it!
Definitely go for four.. you won't regret it! Mine are 19, 15, 10, & 2.5 years 😘 If you feel you mentally and physically can handle it your kids will love an additional sibling; do what's best for your family!
We are the same, we have two older boys and then had our first girl 8 months ago. We are done growing our family for sure!!
This is technically my fourth pregnancy/child. We lost our third boy when I was pregnant at 19 weeks and so I think that’s why I feel very blessed to have had another but deep down I would like for her to be a big sister but for our sanity as parents I think we’re done and we feel very blessed. I had a strong feeling I wanted to try again for just one more after losing Nathan but now that strong feeling is gone and we feel complete. I think y’all’s family is beautiful and the three you have are going to be so close. God bless your adorable family no matter how big it is! 💙💚💜
You seem like such a great mom and wife 💕
your Dog scared me I thought that your pillow behind you was breathing !!!! LOL!!!!
Tiff, you are such a Rockstar!!! You inspire me lady, for sure!!! Love your fam!!!!
One tip for saving money at the grocery store and saving time at dinner is buying a lot ground meat (I use turkey) and cook it all at once and then freeze the cooked meat in separate freezer bags. It’s cheaper to buy it in bulk and it saves so much time when cooking dinner! It last for about 3 months in the freezer!
You got us addicted to whip cream in coffee 🙌🏻
So true about people not liking you.. I have 3 and I definitely can't do 4.
Yeah I can’t imagine 4 right now
Iam taking domperidone and it really increased my milk supply by like alot . So ask your doctor if she could describe you it . u take it 2 times a day .
I have 4 little ones. 3 boys and our baby girl. They are 6, 4, 3, and 20 months. I always felt bad because I thought my oldest was missing out on fun stuff because of the babies. But we figured out ways around it. For example, going to the movies. Can't do that with babies, but my bigger boys can. So, my husband takes them to the movies, and I hang with the littles. Eventually the time of babies will come to an end-whether you have 3, or 4, or 10! And when that time is done, there will be so much for all the kids to experience, and they won't remember missing out on anything when they're grown up. You're doing an awesome job! Going from 3 to 4 kids was so easy, in my opinion. Didn't notice much of a difference! lol
Tiff, you are an awesome mama and great wife. Enjoy your lufe with your kiddos. Even though they are little now, time goes by fast especially when they start school. I once felt like you, however, I wish now I could relive some of those precious moments. 💜💕💕💕🌽
Your channel is my absolute FAV!!!
Oh wow I LOVED how long this video was!! I feel like we’d be great friends in real life! You are so genuine and lovely, I really appreciate your outlook on life 💜
I truly hope you don't feel like a bad person or mom deep down because you are doubting having a 4th child. Just remember - You need to do what's best for your mental and physical health! And if you don't bring another child into the world it's perfectly ok, you already have 3 loved children and they are blessed to have you as a mom!
I ❤️ watching your family! So sweet! My daughter is 7 years old now, but watching Ella reminded me so much of her when she was a baby! I ❤️ her sweet noises and her dancing!!
And thank you so much for sharing how you take your ☕️ -it is so delicious and the only way I like to drink it now. My kids come running when they hear the whipped cream and I give them a small squirt in their mouth and they ❤️ it 😂!
Love watching your videos! Your doing a wonderful job, the kiddos will always test us, but hang in there. 👍🏼💗
I love shopping at Aldi! I feel like you can get most things there for the best price, I know some things taste different, so get those at other stores. I usually make one list and one day of shopping. Prepping for the meals for the week ahead of time saves your time and sanity. I only have 1 kid and she is 2 so I know it's a lot different. But, you can do it girl!
New thumbnail, new haircut 😂😂😂. I'm dying, love you guys!!!
We grew our family differently (through foster care and adoption). I had only 1 kids to 3 kids. Then to 2 kids back to 3, then 4, then 5 back to 3 then 4. Now we have 3 that we adopted and honestly I want one more. I feel 4 just evens everything out.
Who else just LOVES her honestly?!?!
Glenda Beauty she so real I love her channel 😁
It's hard to consider more kiddos when you finally find that "sweet spot" where baby is sleeping through the night, big kids are (mostly manageable), that "balance" you've been searching for seems like it is in the not so distant horizon...In my "mama of 5 world", if you're even debating it, you're not done! Lol! I'll tell you what I tell other mamas of two and three kiddos considering more. Number 3 is the "gateway kid", if you have three you can have 10! The only difference is you have to figure out where they'll sleep, and where they'll sit in the car! I'm newly out of the "baby trenches", as number 5 is out of diapers, fully potty trained, and my oldest is 13! I am so content...We did not plan on 5 kiddos, but are so grateful, so complete, and so blessed! Sending you so much love on your beautiful family!
The gift of a sibling will be more memorable than the things you do, It's life long. :) I believe God will give you the "done" feeling when you're done. I am waiting on that feeling........
Aww I love this. 💗
Hi sweetie, I am a lot older than you and my kids are grown but I can offer some advice on anxiety. I have been dealing with it for more than twenty years now. I am on a lot of meds for it but they only go so far. Walking for a mile or two is very helpful as well as deep breathing. We tend to be perfectionists so to let up on that a bit can be life changing.
The only things I really "need" from Costco are Kirkland dryer sheets, Kirkland garbage bags, pork tenderloin, and the odd freezer meal. Well, and strawberries and blueberries if they're a good deal, but I dont make a special trip just for fruit or anything. I find the regular grocery store close to me is just as affordable if not moreso. I'm also a fan of one stop shopping so I'm not wasting time and gas running to all different stores. There are things I prefer from one store over another so I do my big shop on the weekend then stop at one or two other stores mid week, so I'm alternating and I get everywhere I need to go once.
I Think Its So Funny How You Said “ We’re All One Big Mommy Family” I’m Only 20 Years Old And I Don’t Have Kids But I’ve Been Watching Your Videos From The Beginning 😂
If you’re considering baby #4, I’d say go for it. The newborn & baby stages fly by so quickly & daddy can do more stuff with the older kiddos while you get used to the new baby.
Peets Major Dickenson is one of my favs!!! I'm digging the Cafe Domingo too 💕 I love having it with the Natural Bliss Sweet Cream creamer 🔥 Soooooo good!! ok I'm done lol.
We are a family of 6 and our grocery bill is probably around $250 a week. Sometimes more. 😬
Totally caught Chris with his three fingers up when you said “we’ve got two woodys” 😂
For me....going from 2 to 3 kids much harder than going from 3 to 4..... going from 4 to 6 with twins was a nightmare!!!! Still struggling almost a year later 😢😢. Spent a month on a mental health ward because I was mentally, emotionally and physically exhausted. So important to look after ourselves, especially our mental health 😊💛💚. Hugs from Ireland xoxo
I love that your so honest that your kids aren’t perfect! So many try to make their kids seem perfect or their lives on RUclips. I love that your honest about it! We all have kids that turn into little demons lol I have a 6 and 7 year old boys and they have their moments too.
Yes those demons come out quite a few times over here 😂
New subbie! We buy meats and a few fruits from Sam's club and sides along with more fruit from Walmart , Lucky's ,and Red and White ( local grocery store) . Our save a lot ( aldi's) closed .
Stop it with being so hilarious. I can’t even deal with this laughing
Wow! Their eating their salad! I’d love to know what you put in it so I can have my three year old try some too! (He’s a super picky eater!) 💗
When I feel down about myself I just go with it... when I feel like I'm not in the mood to do stuff around the house or the capacity to keep up with others I just don't overthink it... because I know deep down it's not me... and it's just a matter of time before I get back to myself... I'm not meant to be perfect... and I don't wake up in the morning thinking whom am I going to impress today!!... this is me... whoever loves me, will always do no matter how I look or what I do... and who doesn't love me, they won't either way... so why to bother myself!!!
We are a family of 6💕our grocery bill is around 400-450 every 2 weeks.
We go to SAMS once a month and usually just buy things we go through quicker.
Beatrice Serrano with 4 kids do you work or stay home
We’re jumping from two kids to 4 in September!!! Oldest is going to be 8 and other kiddo is 4. I honestly done worry about my oldest missing out because we do a ton of things as a family PLUS we’re homeschoolers!😄 Everything is an adjustment and tons of fun!
You’re amazing! I love that you are so real and chill lol
Thank you !!
Tiffani, don’t forget it is okay to know your limit and to say no! 😘
Amen sister! Be yourself and dont care what people think! 💖
Yes amen sister!