Q&A | Future with DIYS | How I met my fiancé | Dealing with mean comments | Wedding update
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You're such a sweetheart! I've always loved your enthusiasm and wholesomeness. And you're right about what people say. Sadly, some mean girls didn't stop their behavior in high school and continue to bully their entire lives. You couldn't stop them if you tried, but you can have a life filled with love and happiness and that will always elude them ❤
Omg PLEASE do a wedding planning video!!! I've been watching you for years! Get it girl! Your strong, beautiful and inspirational!!
That's what I'm waiting for ❤
I’ve been married 30 years and I’m so excited for Sarah Jane and want to see her video too!
I feel sj could make anything awesome, congratulations 🎉
I'm in the UK I have in my opinion a beautiful dress you are welcome to have xx
I’ve loved watching u for the entire time You’ve been on ! U are awesome! Just curious about your age ? Thanks for being u !
When people are mean, it tells a lot about them. Most meanies are jealous, often unhappy. I think you are very creative and I like the pace and editting of your videos. You just keep doing you because obviously you do you best and we love you.
Agreed, nasty, mean people,are jealous……plain and simple!
Agreed 100%. What happened to the golden rule? If you have nothing nice to say, don’t say anything at All. It seems it’s just the opposite these days!
Well said!
Anyone who says anything negative about you it’s because they are jealous. You are beautiful and amazing! ♥️
Sarah Jane, I'm sorry people are so mean 😢 you are a wonderful person. I love all the hard work you put into making the videos so we can get good deals. I was so glad to hear you donated so much. God bless you ❤.
Love this video! You're such a ray of light Sara Jane to me and so many others. I love how honest you were in this video and what us viewers could take away from it. Your story of how you met Colton gets me every single time. It's crazy how fate worked for you two! Can't wait to celebrate you two. ❤ P.S just know my sister watches you too and is the reason I knew you uploaded today. lol She was asking me if I saw your video today. She wanted to know if I had known how you and your fiance met before. 😂
Thank you Bethany! That is so sweet. Your friendship has been one of the highlights of my RUclips journey. I'm so thankful to call you my friend. ❤.
I love that you two are friends. and I I am glad to see that you Bethany will be there to celebrate. How sweet! Yeah!!!!
I love that two of my favorite bargain shoppers/DIYers are friends!❤
I love you too Bethany!!!
Kudos to you Sarah Jane for donating 90%+ of items to good causes - so proud of you! I think you are really fun and appreciate you. 💓
Absolutely! God bless you for being a blessing to others.
Omg, Sara Jane! I can't imagine ANYONE saying mean things to you. You seem like the most beautiful, kind, genuine person in the world. It would take a really mean hearted person to say ANYTHING bad about you. I'm so glad you learned to ignore it because whatever they said is far from the truth! I've been following you for so long and you are such an inspiration and a bright light in this world!
I loved your answer about the DIYs. I used to do it too and it just became too much and no longer fun, so I completely get it!
The story of you and your fiance made me grin from ear to ear. What a sweet, genuine way to meet someone. You deserve all the happiness. I can't wait to see your beautiful wedding!!! ❤❤❤
Much love ❤❤❤
This is so incredibly kind and I appreciate your support so much ❤
Loved getting to know you! Would love a wedding planning video! So happy for you! Sara Jane, your eye shadow is looking so amazing! Please do a video on your makeup look. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
I love you Sarah Jane! You are just adorable ❤Love your channel. You are always so encouraging and uplifting.
Sorry about the haters😢.
Gen Xer here who just adores you and your content! You’re so positive and real. 🎉
I’m somebody’s grandma and I love your channel. From diy’s to fashion, you’re just adorable!
Thank you so much ❤❤
Thank you for all you shared! Congratulations on your coming 💑wedding!! ❤❤❤ You deserve all the happiness in the world.
Any guy who didn't call YOU back is crazy. You're beautiful inside and out. So happy for you and proud of your accomplishments!
I don’t get these mean people - if you don’t like someone’s channel,don’t watch it! There’s no need to make mean or rude comments. It sure says a lot about them. I’m so relieved to hear that you aren’t letting it bother you cuz I would hate to lose you, as so many others of us would! I truly enjoy you and your channel! I’ve already lost one of my favourite channels because of these people, and I don’t want to lose another favourite ❤️. I never realized the DIYs were so much work, you made it look so easy 🙂. I loved hearing about how you and your fiancé met! I always ask people about it. I myself have given up on online dating and hope to someday meet some more naturally like you did! Thank you for being so open with us! ❤️🇨🇦
Yes a wedding 💍🥂🍾planning q&a video!! Congratulations and well wishes🎉!
Why the heck would anyone be mean to you? Your videos are the cutest! I am a Dollar Tree connoisseur and I wish you would make more! 💜🌵
So sweet of you to make the clothing donations! I def miss the DIYs but I overstand what you mean! So happy to see you happy and coming into the age of thick skin and enjoying the "moments"! Loved this video, congrats on 6yrs❤🙏🏾
Sarah Jane thank you for sharing yourself with us!! I absolutely love watching your videos!!❤
Sara Jane, my Mom told me years ago that those who talk down others do so because of jealousy. They talk down others to make themselves feel more important. They have no clue that lifting up others is what will really bring them joy. You are a joy bringer. I'm glad you no longer let the downers of the world bring you down with them.
The story of how you met your fiancé is very similar to how I met my husband. He always said that we met that night because we were “meant to be”. Ironically enough, this happened in Orlando as well. We have been married for 23 years. I wish you and your future hubby much love and happiness!!
I am so glad you addressed mental health issues as I think there are many of us who can really use this service…Tfs!
I have learned through the years that most the time when people are talking bad about you and saying bad things about you and just being nasty, they are just miserable with themselves. They have nothing better to do than to try to find somebody they can constantly talk about to make themselves feel better. So don't worry about it, I think you're doing great I love your videos and I've been watching you for 3 years now and will continue to watch you and I'm 64 years old and I don't care what anybody thinks about me.
Preach!! At 57 sooooo true!
I think this comes with wisdom of aging :) I am 65. When I turned 63 I stopped caring what anyone thinks of me. I feel so free to be me.
EXACTLY!!!!
I would love a wedding planning video! My hubby and I got engaged and married 6 weeks later so we only had some family there… no rehearsal, no reception, we literally got married, ate cake, and left for our honeymoon. This was 13 years ago. We’ve talked about doing a vow renewal since our wedding was so tiny so I would love to see your ideas! I’m sure many others would love to see your ideas as well even if they’re not planning a wedding, I’m sure it would be useful for any planned event! ❤
Ps, haters gonna hate, I’m glad you don’t let it get to you anymore , you are an amazingly talented, kind, and beautiful woman and your followers know that! ❤ sending love from Texas!
Love your honesty in the video. It can be hard to be so personal but it's one of the things that keeps me a subscriber.
Yes, same! ❤
May this Sunday be full of blessings for you. Wishing you a blissful week ahead.
This video is so sincere Sara Jane! I’m sure most of your viewers have had those negative experiences, and you have found an intelligent way not be defeated. Congratulations on your success! I always look forward to your new posts, whether fashion, DIY or whatever. ❤
TY for this!! It's great hearing more about you!! You told us about your transition to Fla, but didn't tell us how you ended up in NC. Please explain if you don't mind.😊
Your fiance is very blessed to have you!! You are the whole package!!😊
This is so kind of you to say! My fiance was relocated to North Carolina in August of 2022 for work so we packed up everything to move up here. I do miss Florida but I also enjoy being back in the Carolinas. Thank you for watching!
Thank you for the video, Sara Jane. And congratulations on 6 years! I think I have been watching you since almost the beginning, and I always enjoy your content, whatever it is. Your positivity and your smile always make it fun to watch you! Ignore the haters, and just keep swimming🐟, sweetie! 🥰❤
Thank you for sharing! I didn't realize how much went into your DIYs because you make it look so easy. Please continue your journey on RUclips!
Great Q & A! I feel like I know you as a person so much better! Congratulations on your Wedding! I married my Prince Charming 40 years ago next month at a very young age of 18 - just because we were in love, and he is 4 years older than me - so we met with some resistance from family and friends but Thank goodness we didn't listen to them because we are still on our honeymoon. He is truly my best friend and I pray that is the case for you and your upcoming marriage. My Grandmother used to say, "If you can't something nice, then don't say anything at all" and I still hear her saying that to this day even though she passed some time ago. I think that people should get back to that old rule of thumb! Why is it so important to hurt others? I think it is to make up for their own unhappy lives. "I'm Rubber, your glue is also an oldy but a goody! If everyone would just treat each other as they would like to be treated, this world would be a much happier place. Yes, I am a pageant girl from an early age, but I really do want world peace, lol.... Keep doing what you do and ignore the haters and meanies! From this southern girl from Alabama - Keep that smile and God Bless!!
That's so awesome that you donate the clothes to those who may not necessarily be able to afford them. I love that.❤
As far as those mean comments, my advice (from someone who is old enough to be your Mom) is to totally ignore them. Those people are toxic and unhappy with themselves so they have to cut others down. They don't deserve a second of your time or a single thought from your mind.
Please do a self-tanning tips and tricks video.🌞
I have been watching you for years. You are my favorite! You are such a ray of sunshine! Thank you for being so genuine and real.😊❤️
This is so sweet thank you so much ❤
Hi Sara Jean. I've been watching your videos for awhile. I am old enough to be your mother but I love watching you because of your sweet demeanor. Thank you for sharing some personal stuff. What inspired me was when you were talking about dating and how guys should treat you. I love that your fiance CALLED you and not texted PLUS about what you said about a guy pursuing you. This has all gone away. Glad you kept your ground though in what you wanted! I wish you so much happiness!
So happy you found someone that treats you the way you deserve to be treated 😂
CONGRATULATIONS, I'm so happy for you . .
I am so happy to know you are happy. Congratulations on your engagement and upcoming wedding!! 🩷🩵💜💙
Great video, but most powerful when you shared the story about the negtive (nasty people) and you said what you learned about really pushing it into a 'does --not--matter' space. It is an ongoing battle to fight being emotionally hurt when people don't like you/your work, but you sincerely sound like you learned a cosmic life lesson. Be true to yourself...the rewards and dedicated follows will be there.
I honestly can not figure out how someone could find something negative to say about you. You are always so positive, caring & upbeat. I'm happy you found happiness & please continue to shine & spread positivity 😚. There needs to be more people in this world like you🤗
You are so amazing and that is why people love you because of your transparency and you show content that the average American can afford in this economy. Thank you for all you do, I appreciate you. Cannot wait to watch your upcoming wedding video.
We love you Sarah Jane! You are the best! ❤️
I was given a coffee mug that read “Don’t let the Turkeys get you down” best motto for life.
Your channel was one of the first channels that I subscribed to when I first started watching RUclips. I Loved your genuine, welcoming, and honest nature. I could easily relate and understand you. I think it would be helpful for you to share helpful tips and tricks for everyday life. I think you are an inspirational person that can be a positive life coach. Best wishes to you and your fiancé on your upcoming wedding. You deserve every happiness. Enjoy every moment together. ❤
Thank you for your transparency, vulnerability and kindness. I’ve loved your content since I subscribed 3-4 years ago. I’m looking forward to more. FYI I stopped doing my own diys for nearly all the same reasons. It’s a lot
I’ve been watching for a long time,but not quite the beginning. As a parent it hurts my heart to hear people saying mean things to such sweet people! I stumbled across your videos and your voice is what caught my attention. Sometimes I have a lot of trouble relaxing or calming down. Your voice usually makes me feel calm. So you’ve been helping me for a long time now ❤. I would love to see a Wedding video. I’m very glad you found a wonderful man. You’re right getting a call back is a big deal. I hope I get to enjoy your videos for a very long time to come. Congratulations on 6years and your wedding coming up. You deserve all the happiness that you are coming into right now. Keep swimming 🐠!
Yes yes yes Wedding ❤Video PLEASE
That is so great that you donate a lot of the clothes from your videos to local high schools! I worked as a teacher's aide at a high school for about 5 years and I saw the need for some of the kids was great. One of the teachers set up a secret santa project at Christmas where we school employees could buy gifts anonymously for students who would otherwise receive nothing. The thing they needed most was usually clothing. It was rewarding to see how much of a boost these kids' self-esteem got when they wore their brand new clothes!
Thanks for sharing so openly with us. Congrats on your 6th year and congrats on your up coming wedding. I do miss your DIY's that is why I subbed to you in the beginning...It was your wedding ideas...and I got married last July and used a few of them. I am a crafter, so I do understand how difficult it can be to provide content and also having to be in the mood to craft is something we have no control over. So I guess we will just wait for the time and enjoy them when they come. I think another helpful part of being successful on YT is having a good personality (you do) and being pretty (you are). Anywho...thanks for all you do and prayers for continued growth.
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I've always come to your channel for the DIY videos, rather than the shopping videos, and I was wondering why you hadn't done any DIY's lately. So I appreciate you letting us know that you are steering away from that content, rather than keep us wondering. Congrats on your upcoming wedding, and your continued RUclips success.
I’ve been follower of your channel for a while and I really enjoy your content, especially the Walmart hauls, you are so positive, thank you for sharing your ideas and money saving tips!! Enjoyed this Q&A!!! Kim from Southern Middle Tennessee
Thank you for sharing. I met my husband in a very similar manner. He was the love of my lide and world. Tragically he passed away and now I am filled with emptiness; I have a void in me. I hope to someday fill that but I don't think it will ever happen. Thank you for sharing. All the best to you on this new adventure. You deserve the best!!! Alicia in CT
Xoxo
I just love you so much Sara Jane!!! You are so REAL!!!! 💜 I hope you never change! We had a HUGE wedding in 2003, yes ma’am I’ll be married 21 years in March to my highschool sweetheart!! 💜💜💜 it’s a wonderful feeling when you find your “person “
So nice to learn a bit more about you. Keep being YOU because we love YOU. ❤
What a blessing for others that you donate so teens who otherwise may not have something stylish to wear would have that. I'm sure it means so very much to them.
Love the story of how you met your fiancé. I have always said and believe 100% you will meet someone when you least expect it (my car brought me my husband). You have always been a favorite for me. Wishing you much love,happiness and fun ❤
Sara Jane, you are one of the sweetest and kindest people on RUclips! Stay True and Stay You. 💖🙏🏻🥰
“Just keep swimming”
I LOVE THAT MOTTO !! I’m going to remember that. 💪🥳
Your incredibly sweet 🍭🧁💕
God bless you! Your videos bring so much light to our lives. ❤
LOVE that you showed the courage to share your true journey with us. You have been such an inspiration & it’s been so fun following your journey. Thank you!
Please do the wedding planning video. And then don’t forget to show us some highlights from your actual wedding ❤
I love this video! You are the sweetest and work so hard on your videos. Thank you! Love the blooper at the end 😂
I have to admit, I dont watch all of your videos but I have watched enough to know that I cant see how anyone can say anything wrong or bad about you. Glad you're not letting them affect you.
What a sweet video! So nice to get to hear your story about how you started out on your channel and all you've learned. You've gained a lot of life wisdom, clearly, so as you said, the pain of those experiences were for your benefit in the long run. Good for you! Loved your dating stories, too - isn't it perfection how you finally let go of it all and that's the moment you met your fiance! Gotta love the universe! A little bit of unsolicited wedding day advice - go slow, focus on enjoying every moment of the day - it really does become a blur, it goes by so fast! Look forward to more from you in 2024 and just keep letting the meanness roll off of you. 😘
Wedding video now!! I had no idea you were just starting out back then, but I've been watching you since then. You have stayed the exact same classy, innovative, and all-around good person the entire time. I'm so happy you're happy and so excited to see how amazing your wedding will be!! 🤗
The pop at the end scared me hahahhaa, awesome ! Congratulations on 6 years on youtube !!!!!!! I've loved your channel since the very first video I watched 🥰 I'm so happy that you are happy, and I truly mean that ! When you find the right one......the really right one, everything falls into place. And it's like oh...I get it now, that's how it's supposed to be !
I can't wait to see wedding pictures !!!! So exciting !!!
Sending you tons of positive energy and love !!
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I've been following you almost from the beginning~ appreciate and admire you for being so real and relateable! Keep doing you, wishing you so much joy, peace, and love!🎉💜🎉🩵🎉🩷🎉
You are such a sweet lady and a joy to listen to. Love your content it is always informative and your DIY' s are so good but with that being said I understand the logic of what you are saying about everything involved in making them. Congratulations on your upcoming wedding and wishing you a beautiful day and celebration.
Sara Jane, I just love how honest and true you are able to be with your fans. Watching your videos over the last few years, it's been so fun watching you grow and progress in your journey. So happy you have found true happiest. You so deserve it.
I’ve stumbled across your channel and I found you to be very inspiring! I could tell you genuinely love doing what you do on youtube! I love your diys and I love how open your are and spreading wisdom. Just keep swimming you’re great!❤
I appreciate you and all the content you share with us!
Loved this format! Great video, thank you!!
Yes yes yes on the wedding content!
CONGRATS ON WEDDING🎉🎉🎉
I have been watching your videos for years. It's awesome to see how your channel has progressed and i'm super happy for you! Thank you for all your hard work and you freaking rock!
YES! We love wedding planning! ❤❤❤
Yes! I’d love to see allllllll the wedding stuff!
You are just a joy! Can't wait to hear all about your wedding. Enjoy every minute!!
So happy for you!!
You’re the best! So excited for you!
I loved this video! ❤ You are amazing!
Thank you for answering those questions and sharing your experience and thoughts. Congratulations on your engagement.
Yes to the wedding video ❤
Your honesty and raw emotion can be felt through this video. Thank you for being genuine. ❤
I absolute love you! You are such a great beautiful human the world could use more people like you ❤
Awww, so happy for you !
I had a big wedding 36 years ago and I am still married. It was so special and the last time my family was all together. I have lost many family members since. I think it is important for family and friends to celebrate happy occasions. Yes it is stressful planning, but in the end very rewarding.
Had no idea all that goes on behind the scenes. Love your videos and appreciate you !! Thanks !!
Congratulations on your 6years! God Bless you for your generosity ❤I will continue to watch regardless of what you do! Yes, please, on the wedding video.
For the life of me I cannot figure out why people are so mean ! You come across as nothing but sweet, genuine , and caring, i'm so happy you're able to just keep going and ignore them. You are a very bright spot in this world, and 'm so happy you have someone to be your life partner who seems to be a great fit.
Definitely take us along on your wedding planning journey!!
I love yr honesty in this video!! Im forever a fan ❤❤
Thank you for sharing YOU!
I am very happy for your next life journey! Enjoy life!🩷🩷🩷
Loving this video!! Would love to see a Wedding video on what you’ve been doing! ❤ So excited for you!
Happy sixth year!!!!!! Love your channel!❤❤❤❤
You rock girl! Can’t wait to see your wedding planning!
Hey Sara! I have been a follower of yours for years I don’t comment too often but I really appreciate your channel and your videos. Thanks for sharing with us in this video. Have a blessed and beautiful year!
Thank you for sharing your journey on dating and finding your fiance. My daughter age 20 and I were watching this video and she was in a 3 year relationship with her boyfriend and just broke it off 5 days ago. She wasn't being treated nice. She loves your message about moving on.
Thanks for continuing to make excellent videos. I'm so glad that you've learned to ignore the mean comments!
What a great video Sara Jane!! Thanks for sharing!!❤
Shooting off that popper 🎉 was so cool!!! You are an AWESOME person, LOVE all your videos!!! I have been watching you on U-tube for quite a long time, especially when you were doing DIY videos, due to the fact that I am a crafter and work for Dollar Tree part time...LOVE MY JOB, VERY THANKFUL FOR IT.... CONGRATULATIONS!!! So HAPPY for you, and your up and coming wedding!!!
You are such a doll Sara Jane, I enjoy your videos so much. Congrats on your upcoming wedding and YT success.❤🎉❤
You are adorable! I’m happy for you and so happy you found the love of your life!!! Best of luck! And I’m so glad to hear your honesty about the difficulty with doing diy’s! I thought it was me! So thank you for that! Keep swimming! 🐠