LIFE UPDATE: How are we really doing? Having another baby? Has our relationship changed?

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  • Опубликовано: 22 окт 2024

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  • @shirleyhughes7452
    @shirleyhughes7452 Год назад +60

    Please give yourselves a break! You had twins, you lost 2 lites of blood during delivery. You had just moved again. You both deserve medals. You work so well as a couple.

    • @fabandell
      @fabandell  Год назад +7

      We didn’t even think of that! Thank you 🤍

  • @soniab78
    @soniab78 Год назад +23

    Dealing with a newborn singleton, particularly your first, is the most insane change. I can't even imagine that for multiples!!
    You are doing so impressively well. You've even managed to keep your vlogs going.

  • @lisabaird1407
    @lisabaird1407 Год назад +3

    I think the boys look more like Fab. They are so handsome. I love the Q &A vlogs!!

  • @lisasandiford4387
    @lisasandiford4387 Год назад +3

    OMG! Jeeze talk about doppelgänger. You and Gregg, even my husband chipped in (does not do socials, RUclips, nothing at all) and said, ‘got to be bro’s’ 😂. Can’t wait for more housey stuff guys. And just to end, Fab the coconut hob knobs are to die for, good shout! Keep vlogging xx

  • @rosepanteli8008
    @rosepanteli8008 Год назад +6

    I am really glad someone else didn't enjoy the new born Stage I really struggled especially with my disability and baby when they are tiny . Now my daughter is one in a few days I am loving it x

  • @_ry.murrayx
    @_ry.murrayx Год назад +5

    omg the boys are looking so big now!! 🥹

  • @standup2982
    @standup2982 Год назад +10

    The twins are at such a lovely stage. Savour every moment, it goes so quickly. I have my youngest two of five children still at home and I'm adjusting to the older three having spread their wings and left home. My oldest two live in Oxford as my eldest works for the ambulance service there. They live together which is a great comfort for me that they're together. My third lives in Brighton with her girlfriend. My younger two are at school, one in sixth form and one in Year 7.
    I'm a single Mum, have brought them up alone and became disabled three years ago. I now have carers come in twice a day to support me and the children.
    You two are doing such a wonderful job, you're excellent parents. This time when they're little goes by so incredibly quickly. Being parents is the hardest yet the best and most rewarding job in the world. You will look back and have so many happy memories 💖

  • @jow4983
    @jow4983 Год назад +7

    Aww Ell, look at the way the baby is looking at you, gorgeous, I see Noah like Fab and Ari like Ell xx

  • @sarahkelly2293
    @sarahkelly2293 Год назад +2

    Guys please take stock and reflect on how well you are doing. 2 happy thriving babies. You're a great team. It was never going to be easy but not all of life is. Thanks for keeping it real.

  • @jennifergeary1
    @jennifergeary1 Год назад +8

    Loving the combo vlog with q&a! Boys are so like you Ell! Another fab vlog that’s made my day! 😘

  • @Vicki843
    @Vicki843 Год назад +19

    What a great surprise to get a second video this week! I’m so glad you don’t post the negative/mean posts. There’s enough of it in the world now. They’re your babies and it’s your family, and you have the right to do what works best for you. I really believe parenting is a learn-as-go experience, and no two experiences are the same! Your honesty is so important, especially for new and soon-to be mothers. I still can’t tell who the boys look like the most, but they’re adorable and really developing such cute personalities!

    • @carolannmills714
      @carolannmills714 Год назад +3

      Iloue vlogs videos and everything you do your boys are so handsome and cheeky and you both are fantastic parents

    • @fabandell
      @fabandell  Год назад +3

      Thank you so much! 🤍🤍

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      @stevenpryer5880 Год назад +1

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  • @dorisspecial3619
    @dorisspecial3619 Год назад +13

    A real video by real parents. So happy you are both being so open with each other. I think you're both doing alot to stay conne ted! I was 6 yrs old when my twin brothers (#6 & 7 of 7) were born. My Dad did absolutely nothing, but I couldn't stand leaving a crying baby. I started helping with them. My Mom never said thanks, but I never expected her to. I think with 7 kids she had all she could do.

  • @wawa292
    @wawa292 Год назад +2

    Thank you for being honest.
    Everyone even friends on social media never want to show the real day to day struggles ( big or small), even at work, coworkers don’t want to share any hardship, as in everyone wants to show the happy/ non problematic side. Showing your true day to day lives is incredible and inspiring. I don’t think you are being hard on yourself just real. Thank you for letting me in.

  • @jodeming5088
    @jodeming5088 Год назад +5

    You two had twins straight out of the gate. This was all brand new to you both. You are doing an incredible job. You can tell how much you love the boy’s as well. Being honest about what you’re going through is the best thing you can do. Stand tall, be proud and carry on. Ignore the ugly. You boys are the cutest. They are at a fun stage and will only get better. Thank you for sharing how life has changed and also for sharing those precious boys with us. Much love from Florida.
    You two are absolutely adorable and so much fun to watch and listen to. The boys have wonderful role models. Stay happy!

  • @campingqueen8121
    @campingqueen8121 Год назад +3

    You guys are doing great!! Look how much the boys adore both of you!! Fab, your devotion to Ell and the boys is so obvious and is a legacy to them all!! Always tell them that you love them, even when they’re teens!!

    • @fabandell
      @fabandell  Год назад +1

      🫶 for sure! We will always tell them

  • @auntiesamsam
    @auntiesamsam Год назад +3

    Personally I found the newborn stage a lot easier. I found from 6-9 month harder as baby getting more independent but not able to do a lot still, babys can be so demanding sometimes. Doesn’t help my partner works 6am-8pm x

  • @lucygale336
    @lucygale336 Год назад +2

    Gosh, your fabulous I really thought your vids would be less but your sticking to em 😉

  • @debrap947
    @debrap947 Год назад +1

    Yup I prefer a Q&A in this format. Those smiles are everything, I know I say it a lot but really...they are everything! Your boys are so fab! Hahaha, see what I did there? Cheers for now and thanks for sharing. 👶🏻👶🏻

  • @shellybielawski1773
    @shellybielawski1773 Год назад +2

    Don’t listen to any negative comments, you are doing a wonderful job parenting. Do things the way you want and don’t worry about what people have to say. Y’all have 2 beautiful boys and wonderful family so you are very blessed. Love 💕 y’all!

  • @fayefoster5756
    @fayefoster5756 Год назад +2

    Hi guys u both are doing such a fabulous job the trick is that u can’t do everything like before and the boys come first house work can wait do what u can and don’t get anxious because if u both are anxious the baby’s know sending all my love to u all xxxx

  • @emmajacquet5178
    @emmajacquet5178 Год назад

    If you can't find any flowers look into dried flower bouquets, thats what I did. They're beautiful, they can still be very colourful (if that's what you're into), you can organise them weeks or months in advance and they're dried so you can keep them after the wedding. You could frame them, put them on display or even sell them on (I sold my brides maid bouquets).

  • @beryl9538
    @beryl9538 Год назад +7

    You are my favourites. Love your twin boys, they have a smile that melts your heart. Love always. South Africa

  • @1foxtrotfan907
    @1foxtrotfan907 Год назад +6

    You guys are doing great. Love all your videos. The boys are getting so entertaining with their beautiful smiles and coos. I think Ari looks more like Ell and Noah looks like Fab but just alittle. Have a fantastic day.

  • @americaneagle697
    @americaneagle697 Год назад +1

    I understand! My granddaughter had reflux when she was born. It was so difficult. Poor baby! You guys are doing this parenting thing great!

  • @benburns5995
    @benburns5995 Год назад +1

    I thought at first that Greg was Fab's brother as they look a lot alike. It is great that you were able to have dinner out with friends.

  • @joanne-xh6ex
    @joanne-xh6ex Год назад +2

    Great video guys,loved a bit of both..Noah and Ari are scrumptious! You are doing amazing x

  • @juliebrooke6099
    @juliebrooke6099 Год назад +1

    I think at the moment they look more like Ell but I expect they will go through phases of looking more like Fab- that’s how it went with my children anyway. I love seeing them smiling now.

  • @beauty_buys_uklisa3868
    @beauty_buys_uklisa3868 Год назад +1

    I’ve thought they always looked like Ell as newborns but now starting to look like both of you equally 😊

  • @leannehopper2563
    @leannehopper2563 Год назад +1

    Loved the vlog I think the boys are more like fab, your both doing a great job I love how much fab helps with the boys keep doing what your doing xx❤️

  • @ferganwalker
    @ferganwalker Год назад +4

    Lovely to see you both get out and about and meet up with Friends. Looked like you all had a wonderful day out x

  • @ferganwalker
    @ferganwalker Год назад +3

    Great Vlog, love how you both keep it true to life. You are both fantastic parents. All going well in the future, you will be blessed with another child x

  • @loriolson692
    @loriolson692 Год назад +1

    I am really really grateful that your C-section recovery was so good and that you didn't have any issues me on the other hand I had a scheduled C-section I was 35 that was 40 weeks but when I went in that morning they were having trouble finding his finding his heartbeat he was 10 lb even I had gestational diabetes he had issues as well it took me 10 and a half months to heal I did have a very hard recovery but I'm not young and healthy like you are I am older and overweight but I would do it all over again it was so worth it but I'm just so grateful that your recovery was so good that makes my heart really happy

  • @elsie-wb9cr
    @elsie-wb9cr Год назад +1

    Loving your honestly here. I switch off from the Instagram photoshopped videos of 'perfect' evenings and find your content so relateablr. I Found newborn so hard and we went straight into a lockdown. Then another so had little to no help or support from anywhere. Can't imagine having twins. Dancing fruit is still a favourite for my 2 Yr old it always calmed her down. Now she's hit the Terrible 2's and I'm being tested on a whole new level 🙄
    Keep doing what you're doing, smashing it.

  • @tammynielsen4212
    @tammynielsen4212 Год назад +1

    I love that you show a very real view of what it is like to have a baby rather than only sharing all the good. Every baby is a blessing. I had one that never slept more than a hour at a time for 5 years of his life yet my other free slept through the night from birth and were the perfect babies. I wish they had you tube back than so I could see that I wasn't the only one going through it. But to be honest even when you tube did start people only posted the good times so I wouldn't of wanted to watch it lol.

  • @karenkozdron2380
    @karenkozdron2380 Год назад

    I am 73 and I look forward every week to seeing you videos. You are so inspiring even to me at my age.
    I like the mix of Q&A and everyday life. Love the paint on the cabinets. St. Louis Mo. USA

  • @strawberrykatnz
    @strawberrykatnz Год назад +2

    Hello from the Netherlands! I agree with Fab, I like the Q&A vlogging, it's more interactive but still straight to the point and you guys don't stop doing what you need to do in the process as much like with the sit-down style ones. I really enjoyed this! You guys are so down-to-earth and chill, I like the pace of your videos. 👌

    • @fabandell
      @fabandell  Год назад +1

      Glad you enjoyed! Thanks for the feedback 🙌🏻

  • @sandrakelley3210
    @sandrakelley3210 Год назад +1

    Love your videos! Fab, Greg could pass as your brother. I couldn’t tell u apart when u were at lunch and that lunch looked delish. I think everyone learns the samething with first babies. You learn with the first ones and will be different with the next babies. I don’t know how my mother did it. She had 6 children (I’m a twin with a brother at 2 yrs old) under 8 years. Bless her heart! The boys are adorable especially now that their smiling! They will change in looks some what as they get older. I don’t know who they look like more, your had shapes are very similar. The key thing when raising children is sharing your thoughts with open minds and you both have that. Love you guys!

  • @cindyheyman5452
    @cindyheyman5452 Год назад +1

    Ellen, have you thought of doing silk bouquets or making your own. ? You can order them and make them. Helps cut cost

  • @MaryJW
    @MaryJW Год назад

    I have twin boys...18 yrs old now...once they hit 5 months it got alot easier. Cherish every second, it goes faster than you can even imagine. Beautiful babies you have there!!

  • @carolhalpin-hv3db
    @carolhalpin-hv3db Год назад +2

    Yous are so honest it’s not that easy but it will get better your baby boys are so cute and yous are doing amazing job

  • @blessedmama000
    @blessedmama000 Год назад +1

    Yess!! I don't enjoy the newborn stage either, I'm so much happier later when the babies don't need constant attention and I can get some rest and then enjoy them ♥️

  • @ferganwalker
    @ferganwalker Год назад +3

    Re: who do the boys look like. I would say that Ari looks more like Ell and Noah more like Fab (even though they are identical) x

  • @beckynorris2577
    @beckynorris2577 Год назад

    You are both doing amazing and it's so nice to see someone showing the realistic side of having young babies. My son is now 14 months old and had cmpa and bad reflux and I remember feeling jealous of the parents who had such settled babies but the reality is most people don't post the hard days. I am now 26 weeks pregnant with our second and I feel more prepared and understand that it's fine to struggle when they are newborns and it has no reflection on you as a parent

  • @lindaburrows4724
    @lindaburrows4724 Год назад +1

    You are great parents and a great couple I think the boys look like Ell. Love watching your life you are doing amazing xx

  • @irenagallagher8053
    @irenagallagher8053 Год назад +1

    Hey guys I love the wat you have done this vlog incorporating the questions in with the vlog. Also sorry Fab but I reckon the boys look more like Ell. I love your channel, thankyou for being so open and honest about your life. Don't be so hard on yourselves you are Fantastic parents. xx

  • @Rosey_Parker
    @Rosey_Parker Год назад

    You don't know how tough having a baby is - and the whole transition to being a parent - until it happens to you. One is hard enough and I can only imagine two has extra challenges! Cute little boys and people need to hear your honesty! And btw - you all have the most gorgeous brown eyes!

  • @amandahardcastle6728
    @amandahardcastle6728 Год назад

    they are getting so big. don't blink they will be 16 before you know it. my twin turns 16 in august.

  • @habibti2014
    @habibti2014 Год назад +1

    Thank you so so much that you two are honest ‼️‼️‼️🙏‼️🙏❤️❤️❤️

  • @alisymes2011
    @alisymes2011 Год назад +1

    Really enjoyed this vlog, thanks for sharing. So lovely to see the boys smiling they sure growing fast 😊 xx

  • @jade-eo8hu
    @jade-eo8hu Год назад +1

    My first dance song was by Dan&Shay called 'from the ground up'
    I hadn't heard it before and my husband (then fiancé) showed me it and I absolutely loved it and we both decided that was the song for us.
    You both are doing amazing as parents x

  • @carolcreamer8285
    @carolcreamer8285 Год назад +1

    Loved the vlog Ell , Fab looking forward to the next vlog 😀 😊 😍 👍 xxx

  • @sherristyers5627
    @sherristyers5627 Год назад +1

    Those are two of my favorite flowers too.
    The boys have gotten so big

  • @joannejepson5333
    @joannejepson5333 Год назад

    Yes, spunk is a great American slang word!
    People with spunk are courageous or determined. They happily charge through difficult things. They are strong! Your are a spunky mama!

  • @maryannebyrd9273
    @maryannebyrd9273 Год назад +1

    I am a twin but unfortunately she passed away from cancer I miss her so much every day x you are such a beautiful loving family love your videos

    • @ebony2000
      @ebony2000 Год назад +1

      Very sorry to hear that 😔 💔

    • @fabandell
      @fabandell  Год назад +1

      So sorry to hear that 💔 sending all our love xxx

    • @maryannebyrd9273
      @maryannebyrd9273 Год назад +1

      Thank you x

  • @janeelwine6860
    @janeelwine6860 Год назад

    If you don’t want your tulips to droop, get a pin/needle and poke it right through the stem just under the base of the flower. Don’t know how it works but it does!
    👍

  • @berylsparks2636
    @berylsparks2636 Год назад

    We lost twins at 36 weeks, twin boys. We're both now in our mid 70's. Hang in there, we still haven't got over the loss, but we've been more than blessed with a fabulous son and daughter.

    • @fabandell
      @fabandell  Год назад

      So sorry to hear this 💔 that must have been so tough.

  • @suziebelle1959
    @suziebelle1959 Год назад

    Can your babies get any cuter! Their smiles are so adorable. Keep up the good work, you are both doing so well xx

  • @julie-annpistell1511
    @julie-annpistell1511 Год назад +1

    Loved this video, you are both so natural and down to earth it’s a pleasure to watch your videos.
    The smiles from the boys is just heartwarming, I so look forward to seeing them every week, plus I’d like to thank you both for allowing us to seeing them so much in your videos ❤
    Thank you 🙏 xxx

  • @ethelruane3713
    @ethelruane3713 Год назад +1

    Another lovely video!!Beautiful family xxxx

  • @London-cc4mh
    @London-cc4mh Год назад

    Ari is definitely like you! They’re getting to the really cute stage! I always hated when my little boy wasn’t a newborn anymore but the next bit is actually way better 🥺 Then the same when he turned 1 but I think 14 months onwards is just the most fun you’ll ever have!

  • @molly7696
    @molly7696 Год назад

    2 videos in one week, a lovely notification to get off RUclips!! I think the boys are the spit of Fab

  • @karendyba5213
    @karendyba5213 Год назад +1

    Love this vlog seeing lots of the boys and answering questions, you both are so honest and I like that xx

  • @nitarock7656
    @nitarock7656 Год назад +3

    Love watching. You two are amazing. Your boys are so handsome. Love from Canada

  • @rachelpeters7979
    @rachelpeters7979 Год назад

    I am so glad you are honest about how hard it can be as a parent. The first-time parents that go into it thinking it's all sunshine and rainbows are more likely to end up with PND.
    I missed my route of work the most but then when I went back I just wanted to be back home lol.
    My favourite age is 6m to 2 years.

  • @stillolivia2230
    @stillolivia2230 Год назад

    Boys are your double!! Can't see fab yet!
    You guys are amazing LOVE watching your life vlogs!! ♡♡

  • @user-mp4zs2by9m
    @user-mp4zs2by9m Год назад +1

    I really enjoyed this video! Love your honest interactions & sharing. You’re a beautiful family. ❤👨‍👩‍👦‍👦❤

  • @janiceburnall9412
    @janiceburnall9412 Год назад

    Just love how honest you both are. Wish more people were like you!! Great vlog, gorgeous couple, gorgeous boys!! ❤❤❤❤

  • @amberbenton2704
    @amberbenton2704 Год назад +10

    You guys are doing great, that first year as first time parents is a HUGE learning curve but it’s all worth it and goes so fast, so enjoy every minute ❤
    I found going from 0 to 1 the hardest transition as I found it hard to let go of my previous no kids life, however with my second the newborn stage has been a breeze and I have loved it and question whether it was as hard as I remember! (My first struggled with colic too) 😅

  • @elc193
    @elc193 Год назад +1

    Love your vlogs, but this one is truly special, so down to earth and normal. You are an amazing couple. Best from Canada❤

  • @laraineweinberg2329
    @laraineweinberg2329 Год назад +1

    Love these videos, love seeing how you get on with each other and are so supportive of each other, wish I’d had that level of support from my partner when my children were young

  • @christaallen2105
    @christaallen2105 Год назад

    Definitely like the q & a and vlog mix because I have ADD and I zone out in like 10-15 minutes when people are just talking lol.

  • @paulineoconnor6205
    @paulineoconnor6205 Год назад

    Excellent video. Totally enjoyed it. One of the best and sweetest sounds is a baby laughing. ❤❤

  • @Jackiey687
    @Jackiey687 Год назад

    The boys look like a good mix between you both! Gorgeous twins ❤

  • @katetomlinson1638
    @katetomlinson1638 Год назад +1

    aww thats one of my regrets! not going out to eat while the babies young, because when they are toddlers holy cow good luck sitting down darnnit

  • @terryleonard7673
    @terryleonard7673 Год назад +1

    Love this type of video. You both are doing a great job with your boys! Just remember to be kind to each other and yourselves. Love from Ottawa, Canada.

  • @dannieharris4908
    @dannieharris4908 Год назад

    After 6 years of ttc and my. Husband being told its very un Likley that he can have kids we had our miracle baby and then 8 months later caught again with our beautiful baby girl it was a shock but after thinking it would never happen we have never been more happy. Your doing An amazing job my baby girl and your. Twins are a few weeks apart so. It's amazing to be able to. Follow your. Journey when my little girl is the same. Age xxx

  • @suzanmalegodi4059
    @suzanmalegodi4059 Год назад +2

    i just love this family i am obsessed with you guys 🥰🥰🥰

  • @micheleperez2703
    @micheleperez2703 Год назад +1

    OMG Ell, I still can’t look or touch my c-section scar either!! I thought I was the only one and it’s been 33 years!!!! Lol

  • @snodge100
    @snodge100 Год назад

    You can read every book on the shelf but when reality hits in you just wing it ,everyday is different some good some exhausting,nobody will ever know those boys better than you both and only you can know what’s right for them , I’m 53 and my three girls have left home ,I’m also a twin I have a twin brother never had a cross word , I have two grandsons one is six born on my birthday what a special gift that was , one 10 months and I love nanny duty , take help and enjoy time together and give your mums special time with the boys xxxxx

  • @tinabloomfield7228
    @tinabloomfield7228 Год назад +1

    Loved this video!!!! Great work you two❤️ Noah and Ari are growing so fast ❤️❤️

  • @tammynielsen4212
    @tammynielsen4212 Год назад +1

    It's a hard time for anyone being a first time parent, throw in a extra one hats off to you both going from 2 to 4 all I can say is if you decide to have another one it will be a walk in the park for you both lol.

  • @2atthirtytwo
    @2atthirtytwo Год назад +1

    Loved the video! You’re doing so well and Ell you’re looking absolutely amazing btw! ❤ so nice to have people being so real!
    And they boys smiles melt my heart ❤️ so cute!! Xx

  • @emmaramsay1747
    @emmaramsay1747 Год назад +1

    Love this video. Answering questions & changing location...worked so well. Love seeing the boys interacting & smiling. Totally agree the newborn stage isnt fun its bloody hard work it gets better. Thanka guys for another great video 💕

  • @jaderobertson136
    @jaderobertson136 Год назад

    I just love how real u guys are it's so refreshing because u see so many people online making out there lives are perfect and I know myself even having 1 new born was so hard...all 4 of my children have suffered with colic and reflux and seeing them upset all the time was awful so I totally agree with ell I found it very stressful. U guys work so well together and your amazing with the twins👶👶sending u so much love as always 💗 💙💗💙 xx

  • @carolcreamer8285
    @carolcreamer8285 Год назад +1

    Hi Ell 👋 👋 👋 👋 Hi Fab 👋 nice to see you both 😀 😊 and your gorgeous boys xxxx

  • @stillolivia2230
    @stillolivia2230 Год назад

    Oh & the answer to your last questions we LOVE BOTH vlogs and these all your styles and contents we love never think its boring. It's fun and interesting for us xx

  • @F95GHomestead
    @F95GHomestead Год назад

    the challenges just change but I wouldn't say get easier. I think 2-3 years old was the hardest for me as a mom.

  • @barbarahunkeler6396
    @barbarahunkeler6396 Год назад

    I would enjoy any type of video from you both, but it is nice to hear some of the questions answered. I personally enjoy all your videos! You both make it look easy what you're doing even though I know it's far from it! I have 2 children, fully grown now but they were as different as night and day. My son was such a happy go lucky little guy, slept through the night at 6 weeks and hardly ever cried. My daughter didn't stop crying for the first 6 months. She suffered from colic too and lived on simethicone. They didn't have special bottles back then. She slept in a battery-operated swing for a very long time, it was the only thing that made her feel better. Once that was over things got much better! Boys are definitely easier than girls, especially in the cleaning department! 🙂 Just keep doing what you're doing because let's face it, you two rock at this! Hugs from CA ❤

  • @EllieBennettx
    @EllieBennettx Год назад +1

    So lovely to meet the boys finally!❤️ always so lovely seeing you xx

  • @leanneadams2549
    @leanneadams2549 Год назад

    Omg Ell where did you get that adorable white cardigan?? So nice !! Thanks for the update !! You guys are just killing it !! And I really do enjoy your vids and appreciate that they aren’t like 2 min long- you really get to see how the babies are doing !!! Thanks !! ❤️🙏 ps my grandson when he was little loved loved to get outside also !! So great for BOTH of us !

  • @685squad2
    @685squad2 Год назад

    Awww super cute and adorable 🙌🏼🤍🤍
    Love watching you guy’s and the twins. Growing sooo fast🤍🤍
    Bless..!!

  • @denisesteinbrink1598
    @denisesteinbrink1598 Год назад

    I really enjoy your videos. So nice to see your family as life goes. Keep being the wonderful parents you are. You baby’s are perfect.

  • @geraldkor8307
    @geraldkor8307 Год назад

    I had a premie and I did not enjoy the new born stage. I was recovering from C section and my husband was wonderful but it was hard and I was Blessed because my Mom came and let me sleep for hour’s because I was exhausted and still healing.

  • @katepowis2894
    @katepowis2894 Год назад

    I've been watching you guys for a while now and think your Great. I'm a mom of 4, three girls and a boy ranging from 16 to 2 . I never normally comment however, I no you think the newborn stage is hard and my god it is but when you get to toddler stage you will look back on the newborn stage and honestly wonder where it's gone and realise the stages after the newborn stage are just as challenging making the newborn stage seem a breeze. It's just Soooo rewarding realising that you've got through it and seeing your children thrive. Keep it up guys I think your amazing 😍

  • @vivavampira249
    @vivavampira249 Год назад +2

    I'm always excited when you upload a new video. ❤you two are so sympathetic. Greetings from Germany 🥰

  • @dianenamciu638
    @dianenamciu638 Год назад +1

    My second child never wanted to be held when she was tired. She wanted to be laid down and go to sleep. It made me sad because I knew she was my last baby. I cried for at least a year when I saw a commercial with a baby in it

    • @naomip3002
      @naomip3002 Год назад

      I dream of babies that want to be laid down to sleep. I'm currently dealing with two newborns who want to be held always.

  • @mickiminx
    @mickiminx Год назад

    I for one enjoyed the Q&A! It’s lovely to hear you both being so honest about life with newborn twins ❤️ I’m in my 50’s & have been watching you for a while now (before the pregnancy) your vlogs are a breath of fresh air, whatever you do or talk about , you come across as such a down to earth lovely couple, so please do the odd Q & A every once in a while! That way you can answer questions a lot of people ask! 😘👍
    Quick update, I had a scam message reply from (not) you. Have reported it xx

  • @daralynnhale1565
    @daralynnhale1565 Год назад

    Momma Hale is so proud of you both!!! Doing the vlogs certainly has a dual purpose of positivity. Not only are you sharing your lives raising twins, it is also giving you time to check in with your partner and discuss responsibly the trials and struggles, emotional struggles, and the triumphs of getting through the first few months together. It is the hardest time but my Lord, you are both doing great parenting these two boys!

  • @dianeleitch7049
    @dianeleitch7049 Год назад

    You are a really nice couple and I realise twins are a lot of work. So here I go. I was 23 and had 3 children. New born, 16 months and just over 2. I was married at 18, joined my 18 year old husband, who had just joined the Army in Germany. I was away from family and everyone I knew. Lived in 1 room. No TV no disposable nappies etc,etc,. Had my first two in Germany and my 3rd in Hong Kong.
    This was over 50 years ago and thank goodness things today are better. I muddled through with no help from my 18 year old husband . Our 3 are all in their 50s and are successful adults. We will be celebrating our 57 th anniversary in August and are now great grandparents. So although I didn't have twins I still had 3 babies who didn't sleep through the night and I couldn't rest during the day because there was always at least 2 awake.
    I do understand you had a difficult birth, but you have family and friends who help and you do have time to yourself and also meet with others for lunch. I would certainly not want anyone to experience what I did, which was in the late 60s, but they work together, her Mum helps and others. So I can't quite feel how others are feeling for them.🙂

  • @kellymorrison2068
    @kellymorrison2068 Год назад +1

    You two are doing a great job, love how real you are.