Diane, I don't often comment on RUclips, but I wanted to let you know I've been watching your videos off and on since last summer, and I decided to take the plunge and do the baby steps six days ago. I love how you are so calm and understanding. I tried implementing the whole Flylady system all at once last spring and completely failed; I thought I was too good for babysteps--haha! I really didn't understand until today that I need to take care of myself and regain my strength before I can tackle my house. Thank you so much for taking the time to make these videos. I feel like you're a friend, even though you're so far away and we have never met!
I had let my dishes go, delayed emptying the dishwasher, and it was a mess at bedtime last night. I was just going to forget it, like I did the night before. Then, I thought, oh I can probably do this in 15 minutes, then I will feel happier in the morning to see a clean counter and sink. So I did it! (While finishing up watching a cooking show.) This morning, I will put the hand washed dishes away and get on with my day. I have just felt so cheerfully encouraged by you! Not compelled, like YOU HAVE TO DO THIS! But. nudged into happiness.
I think I’m going to like this baby step! Every flat surface in my home is a “Hot Spot” right now, so overwhelming. I didn’t quite know how to start working on them. Now I do! My sink is shining, I’m dressed to shoes and I’m going to start right now at my desk. Timer started! Go!
The last minute or so really struck a chord with me. We don't want to start and we don't want to finish. That's why the timer is the key to just getting things done without the hyper focus- which is really a problem. Even though I've been with Flylady since 2002, I'm still learning. Thanks
Thank you so much. The house makes me feel so overwhelmed that I can't even start. You are kind and straightforward. Encouraging me that perfection is not what we have to be. I am so grateful that for a week now my sink has been shined and it makes me smile each morning when I get up. I have hope that I can make a start on the rest. I have even managed to get dressed first thing. Thank you for breaking it down into small steps
Thank you for your inspiring and motivating videos. Your videos work! It took me 2 weeks to get to Day 6 but finally I'm keeping my sink clear and clean before bedtime. I try and wash my dishes as soon as I've used them too. Now it's time to focus on all the hot spots! I love that there's no pressure to do it in a hurry. Thank you for sharing your time with us all and helping us.
On day 7 today but I'm struggling with the hotspots a bit. So far I've cleaned the same hotspot 2 times today and it's down to the last few bits. I got super sidetracked for 20 minutes the second time because I got overconfident and thought I could do it without a timer. Will definitely be using the timer more. Thanks so much for the videos Diane! My first flybaby week is going great!
Dearest Diane, I was actually terrified of the 2-min hot-spot! (I have a multitude of those), But 2 minutes flew by so fast! I was extremely pleased afterwards. I also did a 2-minute email clean up (yes, both done with a timer :) Thank you so much, I'm really enjoying your "cheerleading"
I am loving your videos! Thank you for walking us through small steps at a time. I am a perfectionist and forcing myself to do them one day at a time, and I love this system!
That ring (love)! I enjoy putting myself on a timer. It really is amazing how much one can accomplish with a set time! Thank you for sharing all your great videos! (giggles to your StarTrek reference).
I am so thankful for you! I started Fly Lady in 2006 or 7? All the emails overwhelmed me. I already had routines in place, so it resonated with me. However, I was starting to experience heavy brain fog and other symptoms, and I knew I needed something to get me through. The timer is a really good idea-I never used it because of being hyper-focused which led to quick burnout. I’m starting again now that I find myself facing an empty nest soon, and menopause. My diet has changed for the better, and no more brain fog or exhaustion! Yay me!😆 I love that I can see how you do things, and your perspective on life. You are such and encouragement. Thank you!🎉🎉🎉
I had a hot spot on my kitchen table as I put all things on it which didn't belong to my bags in order to clean up my bags. First I wanted to let that pile unto tomorrow but then I eliminated that hot spot and I am glad I have done it (a bit more than 2 minutes...but it went very quick)
I've been enjoying your video's and especially appreciate the Star Trek references. Subscribed and thank you for the motivation to keep doing the steps.
Well it just shows how much of this system is natural for me as I don't really have that many hotspots .may use the 2 minutes for deleting emails because I am run ung out of storage and most I don't read .loving being back to getting dressed to shoes .makes so much difference ..Thank you x
Hi Diane,thanks for your helpful videos. I try to follow my evening routine and yes I shine my sink (when I use it and when I'm at home). The thing with the 15 minutes or so for using the internet or smartphone...thats something I have to learn.😉 tomorrow I will clean some hotspots.
Cleared a hot spot made the error of not shining my sink last night ,leaving dirty dishes Noticed how much I enjoyed waking up to q cleat sink so lesson learned .
Hi Diane. I found Flylady by researching cleaning routines and octane across a woman called the secret slob. Thenbifound you to walk me through the baby steps. Thank you so much! I have always struggled with cleanliness an already I can feel a difference. I tried Spark Joy the Marie Kondo method and so many things about that didnt fit me.... Mainly the must do the whole house as fast as possible . I always ot burned out and didnt maintain it. Just realized as I ride my stationary bike I already set out my clothes and shoes and did nt even think about it!!! Love the timer it really helps me with pretty much everything. Cant wait for the next lesson thanks Diane!!
My budgies used to go nuts when I was speaking on the phone, or when applause came on the TV. This looks like a great plan to use. I'm on my own and retired so I was totally too good to myself in terms of taking it easy. It's not really my nature but I told myself I deserved to do nothing after years of nursing in a very stressful area. 👍. I'm looking forward to getting control back.
Thank you .Great video and love hearing the love birds . . This will be great for work as sometimes I go go go and forget to take time for .me .still shining sink and getting dressed to shoes .
LOL, my whole house is a Hot Spot! I wish I had a Dalek to exterminate it all! I have a problem with letting go of "stuff" because of what it cost, even if it's a little. For example, I found a pile of paper napkins I've had for years for holidays stuck back in a closet. I took them out and now they are sitting on my kitchen island. I know I should throw them away, but I keep thinking "you'll want those one day!" or "You are wasting money.!" I will have to work on that for sure.
Sharon Doty - I had the same problem! I kept moving them around, thinking I'd remember them next holiday, but after years of that not happening, I said, "Heck with it, 'Everyday's a holiday!'" and we used them until they were gone and off my mind. What a relief!
I cleared out two hot spots this weekend. One by my kitchen phone. This is where all paperwork, bills and my purse would sit. I cleared out the cabinet right above that and now the counter is clear. I put something in that space to remind me it is not where I should be putting things. Another spot was on one of the living room speakers. This would collect kids shoes, socks or anything that needed to go upstairs. I cleared it off and put a plant there. Many more hot spots to tackle (top of bedroom dressers!).
My husband and I work and have two girls 4 and 1 years old. I told he needs to help and do the baby step with me. I was so happy when I didn't even had to asked him to the dishes he did while I put the girls to bed this means we are both going to be at the same time and early. Thank you so much
Hello, I'm new to this and didn't realize that once I would begin limiting my internet use to 15 minutes at a time like you mentioned in one of the first steps that I would naturally begin doing this step at the top every hour... I was desperately trying to fill my time lol. So this will just be a continuation of that. Thank you for tips! I finally have hope!
I sorted the content of my purse: all the cards and other contents this encouraged my DH without that he noticed it and he released the couch of the big pile of clothes and emptied all the suitcases and the luggage of our 4 weeks holiday (we use to take A LOT with us) and we put it all on and around the living-room sofa and now it is neat again
I am doing day 1-5 faithfully. OMG these baby steps are like rocket fuel for my quest for order. However, I have gotten stuck here at day 6 for about a week.not adding any new steps. I’m scared of the timer. I loath haste. Haste feels like anxiety. I also don’t use timer to govern my internet time. I will fix both problems tomorrow and report back🤪
Just go for one per day. The aim is to make it a habit. If you are consistent with the rest of your daily routines and have energy/time left over, feel free to do more but don't skip the basics.
Thanks for your question I was wondering the same thing. I have like 3 hot spots per room..... If you need organizing tips on top of flylady I also like clutter bug, she's full of great tips. I used her video to clean my oven in preparation for Thanksgiving. My husband cooked a boston butt in the oven, it overflowed the pan, he did his bets and got most of it, but its the dregs that cause the off flavors. Clutterbug is full of check lists different organizing systems based on what type of organization you prefer so you can find a home for your hotspot clutter.
Two things: I think it's wonderful that you have done these tutorials, and I'm happy to find that you're a Whovian as well! I'm glad that I have these videos to refer to on my journey.
Diane, I have recently discovered flylady and your site! You have such wonderful information and support! I have one question you seem to get very dressed up everyday. How do you keep your clothes clean while your cleaning?
Hi Glenda! You'll find that once you start cleaning the Flylady way, you are cleaning consistently (for short bursts of time) and so you no longer need toxic products. I only use environmentally friendly sprays, and find that I don't need much product at all. Much better for the environment and for you! 😃 I only wear an apron when I am cooking but you may want to wear one while cleaning, if that is a worry for you. You'll see that in all my "clean with me" videos, I am wearing my outfit for the day. Hope that helps! ruclips.net/p/PLxIYCyTLBED8Wax351mgTMw2dcA8XvrqQ
I get a little confused...I can do a 15 minute declutter easily in a hot spot. Is there a good way to determine when I should turn it into a 15 minute declutter and when I should just give it 2 minutes?
Whatever you have the time/energy to do is great, Melissa! Your hotspots are the places you dump things when you walk in the door (kitchen counter, hall table, coffee table). Keep attacking one every day and see if you can reduce the number of hotspots.
Hi, I know this video was from a couple of years ago but I am just getting started and on day 8. My question is do you keep doing the hot spots of your home (2min every hr) every day or just this day?
Hi Noelia! There is no reason to do a hotspot every hour. Just when you can. But the aim is to do it at least once every day, so that it becomes a routine to see where you are piling things/to take action.
Thank you so much for you inspiring videos! I really love watching them and they already helped me so much :) I have a little question concerning the hot spots: do the 2 minutes include getting rid of all the stuff on the hot spot? I often have stuff on this places that need further action, for example I had two photoframes that had to be put on the wall... I did it in the meantime ;) but it included going on the attic and getting nails, getting my hammer out of the cupboard... Do you recommend to do such things directly after clearing the hotspot or would you collect them at a special place and do them another time? (Sorry, for my bad English ;) I hope you understand what I mean)
+Cécile du Jard Hi Cécile! Yes, just go through the items on your hotspot and put them where they belong (invitations/bills to be paid go on your desk or in an 'action' folder, hairbrush goes in the bathroom, keys go with your handbag) and your picture frames could go in a little box for Anti-Procrastination day tasks. You can take action on those things later - right now we are sorting through our Hot Spot piles. Hope that helps?
Thank you! Ah, I hadn't yet read/heard about Anti-Procrastination day, (I tried really hard to focus on the babysteps yet and not look around a lot to read too much about the rest of the flylady system) that sounds awesome, really what I need ;)
ok. today is my acutal 6th day of the baby steps. I know, it is late actually it is the 7th now. but just, when I thought, yes you came late, but didn't even manage the 2 min hospot, I did it. early this evening, I did some cleaning in the bath room. but the actual tast of today - hotspots - I didn't. just as I was about the prepare my cloth for tomorrow, I realized, I could go through the cloth on my chair, where I put one time worn cloth and let them pile up (just realized, that I had 4 bras in there. more than tops. just one trousers. weired) . so, for now I should really go to bed. thanks for your encouragement
Sorry, I don't get it. It's 2 minutes of just knowing what is in the pile and then when the two minutes are up we can go and put them away or is it 2 min to run and clean that pile and leave the space empty and everything in its place ?
Hi! New FlyBaby here! I found the FlyLady website on 12/12/2019 and got the Sink Reflections book out of my library on 12/14. Shined my sink for the first time on 12/15, and been doing my best ever since. I’ve been dressing to shoes and doing the AM/PM routines regularly every day since that mid-December. I’ve also slowly started to Declutter, 15 minutes at a time. I decided to start watching this 31 baby steps playlist, and at the end of this video you ask how it’s going, so I’m letting you know! Thank you for your videos!
Is it best to sort for two minutes then when timer goes off put away sorted items or do you suggest putting things away as you go? In other words, if you were not taping would you have run the Christmas decoration downstairs come back up then run your necklace upstairs, etc... or have done it just as you did on tape and put all away after sorted? Maybe a silly question...just get it done!🗣
Hello Diane, thank you for your inspiring videos: seeing someone actually DO the babysteps helps tremendously! I have a question about babystep 6: do we also PUT AWAY the things we pick up from the hotspots? You seem to put them in a basket or so... And would that putting away be included in the 2'? Thanks a lot for your answer!
Hi Inge! Just deal with as many things as you can from your hotspot in the two minutes. Put away stray items in the room where they belong, recycle the junk mail, toss trash. You'll be amazed at what you can do in 2 minutes and it also helps us to *see* the places where we tend to dump things, and stops us from dumping things there the next time. Hope that helps!
Dear Diane, yes, this does help :-) I understand what you mean now. Thank you for your answer. I like your videos so much: I feel your honesty and warmth behind the way you 'coach' and I am very fond of your lovely accent. Thank you for being YOU! Warmly appreciated! Take good care, love from dreary Flanders (Belgium)
This was awesome! Enjoy your tea! We love Dr. Who too! BTW, did you know that Spock used that sign because it's the letter Shin in Hebrew which starts the word Shalom? I love tidbits! Exterminate!!!! (those hotspots!) LOL!
H Diane, thank you so much for these babysteps. I can do anything in two minutes just have to remember to set my timer. Have been doing all the others steps and seeing such a change in my house. Cleared my kitchen worktops yesterday and only left the things I love and want to clean. My husband came home commenting, so much space to put things. He usually just dumps all his work things papers glasses and contacts with cleaner and cloths right on my counters. Still not sure yet what I can do about that as that becomes my hot spot when he comes home. Any advice! Thanks again for taking us through these steps. Been more helpful than just going on the Web and seeing what to do for that day. Love from a wet and rainy UK. xx
+Maritsa Denman My husband does that too so I put a big wooden bowl on top of the chest of drawers and he dumps stuff into that (keys, coins, gum, pens, etc). Keeps it contained and he knows where to find it. Good luck, Maritsa!
Thanks for the great videos! What do you do if you find something in your hot spot (something you want to keep) but you don't have a place for it? In the video, you find 4-5 things but you already know where it belongs. I know this is a slow process but it is slightly frustrating when you are cleaning a hot spot or trying to declutter and you just don't have a place yet. Just curious as to what other do - thanks again!!'
+Seajay035 I would pop them in a basket and work on the contents once a day, or on Anti-procrastination day. Perhaps the items don't have a 'home' because you don't really need them/love them/use them? Set your timer for 5 minutes and decide what to do with them, one at a time...
Thank you Diane. I am 71 years old and I have been following your Babysteps since 1 of May, but I do have a Problem with the Hot Spots, I just kind a move the stuff from one Hot Spot to another. I do not know where to put them. I cannot find a place in my mess. Do you have a solution?
Hi there! Set your timer for 5 minutes and deal with each item (don't worry if you dont get all the way through the pile). Ask yourself do I need this item, do I want to keep it, can it be given away or thrown away. Give the things you want to keep a proper home, and put them away.
@@DianeinDenmark Thank you soo much for a fast answer. I do feel overwhelmed and I get a knot in my brain looking at all the chaos. But I did clear out some clothes lying on my livingroom floor since month. Better than nothing I guess. Thank you again
Don't silence those birds, Diane. They're wonderful. Give them 15 minutes! Hah! Forging ahead with the program. Thanks for taking the time to make this video series. All the best from Canada, formerly Scotland. ; )
I listened and I learned but there is one big thing for me, if it is a work day at home, I wear smart casual, a cleaning day, cleaning clothes which are basically old clothes that I don't mind getting dirty or bleach on, if it's a day out I wear nice clothes and if it's a day at home sewing or studying, it's leisure wear. I don't by wear shoes in the house as a rule, just slippers, sandals or slipper boots. I take your point about getting up and dressing for the day but that can consist of many changes of clothes for me. My washer is always on. Xxx
What if I already spend too much time with myself? I am always out of energy and sleep alot. I don’t deserve to spend time for myself when I haven’t even done anything or have nothing to do.
Just do what you can in the 2 minutes! We are adding a new step to our routine each day and slowly building daily habits. We are working on our Hot Spots every single day for 2 minutes.
I love those crazy birds! Do you have to wear protective gear to clean their cage or feed them? I had some that were so in love with each other and not so much with me!
+Karen Valdez Find a home for them. If you don't need them right now, put them in a box and check after one month...if you really aren't using them or don't need them, out they go! 😃
My baby room was getting so crowded with clothes everywhere and I have to loundry I put a timer for 15mim and I was so surprised how much it got cleaned up
I am moving house but it's kind of like doing it in the dark because I haven't had confirmation that apartment I want is ready. wonder have you any advice that seems to be so much to do and I still have my son's things and don't want to touch them obviously bit overwhelmed
Diane, I don't often comment on RUclips, but I wanted to let you know I've been watching your videos off and on since last summer, and I decided to take the plunge and do the baby steps six days ago. I love how you are so calm and understanding. I tried implementing the whole Flylady system all at once last spring and completely failed; I thought I was too good for babysteps--haha! I really didn't understand until today that I need to take care of myself and regain my strength before I can tackle my house. Thank you so much for taking the time to make these videos. I feel like you're a friend, even though you're so far away and we have never met!
Ha ha, so glad that you have seen the starting with simple steps is the best way. Good luck!
@@DianeinDenmark Thanks! It's the next day, I'm dressed to shoes, and I'm going to go watch Day 7 now!
I had let my dishes go, delayed emptying the dishwasher, and it was a mess at bedtime last night. I was just going to forget it, like I did the night before. Then, I thought, oh I can probably do this in 15 minutes, then I will feel happier in the morning to see a clean counter and sink. So I did it! (While finishing up watching a cooking show.) This morning, I will put the hand washed dishes away and get on with my day. I have just felt so cheerfully encouraged by you! Not compelled, like YOU HAVE TO DO THIS! But. nudged into happiness.
I feel like my whole house is a hot spot 😣 but smaller, 2 minute increments is definitely doable! Thank you for the baby steps!
You are such a great mentor Diane - calm, warm and supportive - I also love hearing your birds in the background - they sound HAPPY! :-)
Aww, thank you so much, Susan!
I think I’m going to like this baby step! Every flat surface in my home is a “Hot Spot” right now, so overwhelming. I didn’t quite know how to start working on them. Now I do! My sink is shining, I’m dressed to shoes and I’m going to start right now at my desk. Timer started! Go!
I’ve been keeping my sink shiny and it’s amazing how good I feel coming into the kitchen.
The last minute or so really struck a chord with me. We don't want to start and we don't want to finish. That's why the timer is the key to just getting things done without the hyper focus- which is really a problem. Even though I've been with Flylady since 2002, I'm still learning. Thanks
Bingo!
"We don't want to start and we don't want to finish."
Thank you so much. The house makes me feel so overwhelmed that I can't even start. You are kind and straightforward. Encouraging me that perfection is not what we have to be. I am so grateful that for a week now my sink has been shined and it makes me smile each morning when I get up. I have hope that I can make a start on the rest. I have even managed to get dressed first thing. Thank you for breaking it down into small steps
Go you for getting dressed, Helen!
I’m in the same place and this is helping me not feel so overwhelmed
Thank you for your inspiring and motivating videos. Your videos work! It took me 2 weeks to get to Day 6 but finally I'm keeping my sink clear and clean before bedtime. I try and wash my dishes as soon as I've used them too. Now it's time to focus on all the hot spots! I love that there's no pressure to do it in a hurry. Thank you for sharing your time with us all and helping us.
Looking at my living room mantel. Deadly Papers That I have to Deal With! Two minute timer, here I come!
I love your Dialect cup. I love Doctor Who. These videos make the system not seem so overwhelming. Thank you so much
You are very welcome!
On day 7 today but I'm struggling with the hotspots a bit. So far I've cleaned the same hotspot 2 times today and it's down to the last few bits. I got super sidetracked for 20 minutes the second time because I got overconfident and thought I could do it without a timer. Will definitely be using the timer more. Thanks so much for the videos Diane! My first flybaby week is going great!
Go you, Alexa!!!
Dearest Diane, I was actually terrified of the 2-min hot-spot! (I have a multitude of those), But 2 minutes flew by so fast! I was extremely pleased afterwards. I also did a 2-minute email clean up (yes, both done with a timer :) Thank you so much, I'm really enjoying your "cheerleading"
2024 introduced a 30 sec timer to tidy up for my preschoolers. ❤ You always inspire! 🎉
I am loving your videos! Thank you for walking us through small steps at a time. I am a perfectionist and forcing myself to do them one day at a time, and I love this system!
Yay, one a day will get you there! (We are all perfectionists here! LOL)
I have a few hotspots in my home. 2 minutes is very manageable!!
That ring (love)! I enjoy putting myself on a timer. It really is amazing how much one can accomplish with a set time! Thank you for sharing all your great videos! (giggles to your StarTrek reference).
I am so thankful for you! I started Fly Lady in 2006 or 7? All the emails overwhelmed me. I already had routines in place, so it resonated with me. However, I was starting to experience heavy brain fog and other symptoms, and I knew I needed something to get me through. The timer is a really good idea-I never used it because of being hyper-focused which led to quick burnout. I’m starting again now that I find myself facing an empty nest soon, and menopause. My diet has changed for the better, and no more brain fog or exhaustion! Yay me!😆 I love that I can see how you do things, and your perspective on life. You are such and encouragement. Thank you!🎉🎉🎉
You are so very welcome, Dawn! Go you! 🎉🎉🎉
So far so good...hotspot on desk...check! I'm going to take a duster and look for more so I can sort and then just dust that surface...go me! x
dishes in sink from breakfast and no shoes on. It was nice to wake up to a clear, clean sink.
I had a hot spot on my kitchen table as I put all things on it which didn't belong to my bags in order to clean up my bags. First I wanted to let that pile unto tomorrow but then I eliminated that hot spot and I am glad I have done it (a bit more than 2 minutes...but it went very quick)
I've been enjoying your video's and especially appreciate the Star Trek references. Subscribed and thank you for the motivation to keep doing the steps.
I feel less stressed.Im following directions.
I hate having shoes on especially shoes that tie but I’m doing it !!! I’m really loving this program!
Woo hoo, go you! And you don't need to wear the shoes all day, only when you are flying through your routines 😀👋
Diane in Denmark that makes it a bit better than !
I did my hotspot today but it took 35 minutes!!! However next time it'll take only 2! :D
Well it just shows how much of this system is natural for me as I don't really have that many hotspots .may use the 2 minutes for deleting emails because I am run ung out of storage and most I don't read .loving being back to getting dressed to shoes .makes so much difference ..Thank you x
Hi Diane,thanks for your helpful videos. I try to follow my evening routine and yes I shine my sink (when I use it and when I'm at home). The thing with the 15 minutes or so for using the internet or smartphone...thats something I have to learn.😉 tomorrow I will clean some hotspots.
Cleared a hot spot made the error of not shining my sink last night ,leaving dirty dishes Noticed how much I enjoyed waking up to q cleat sink so lesson learned .
You are doing great, Heather!
Hi Diane. I found Flylady by researching cleaning routines and octane across a woman called the secret slob. Thenbifound you to walk me through the baby steps. Thank you so much! I have always struggled with cleanliness an already I can feel a difference. I tried Spark Joy the Marie Kondo method and so many things about that didnt fit me.... Mainly the must do the whole house as fast as possible . I always ot burned out and didnt maintain it. Just realized as I ride my stationary bike I already set out my clothes and shoes and did nt even think about it!!! Love the timer it really helps me with pretty much everything. Cant wait for the next lesson thanks Diane!!
Welcome here, Roxy Anne!
My budgies used to go nuts when I was speaking on the phone, or when applause came on the TV. This looks like a great plan to use. I'm on my own and retired so I was totally too good to myself in terms of taking it easy. It's not really my nature but I told myself I deserved to do nothing after years of nursing in a very stressful area. 👍. I'm looking forward to getting control back.
Thank you .Great video and love hearing the love birds . . This will be great for work as sometimes I go go go and forget to take time for .me .still shining sink and getting dressed to shoes .
You are so welcome, Heather!
LOL, my whole house is a Hot Spot! I wish I had a Dalek to exterminate it all! I have a problem with letting go of "stuff" because of what it cost, even if it's a little. For example, I found a pile of paper napkins I've had for years for holidays stuck back in a closet. I took them out and now they are sitting on my kitchen island. I know I should throw them away, but I keep thinking "you'll want those one day!" or "You are wasting money.!" I will have to work on that for sure.
Sharon Doty - I had the same problem! I kept moving them around, thinking I'd remember them next holiday, but after years of that not happening, I said, "Heck with it, 'Everyday's a holiday!'" and we used them until they were gone and off my mind. What a relief!
I did finally decide to do that and now we are using Halloween napkins in February and it's OK!
@@sharondoty2451 that's funny, we've been using up super hero napkins from my grandson's 4th birthday back in July, company gets a laugh out of them!
Once you baught your money is gone laying around in the house is not goingto return my money back ..that's what I have to remind myself. .hahaha
Sharon Doty I am the same way so I am trying not to buy anything not easy have a. Great day...joan
Here I am back at Day 6- I did 3 hot spots this morning. Now it’s time to make coffee and exercise.
I cleared out two hot spots this weekend. One by my kitchen phone. This is where all paperwork, bills and my purse would sit. I cleared out the cabinet right above that and now the counter is clear. I put something in that space to remind me it is not where I should be putting things.
Another spot was on one of the living room speakers. This would collect kids shoes, socks or anything that needed to go upstairs. I cleared it off and put a plant there.
Many more hot spots to tackle (top of bedroom dressers!).
Go you, Frugal Five! And, as you have put something new in the space, it really will make you think twice about dumping new items there...well done!
Excellent guide!!!
I am simply AMAZED I am already seeing progress! Thank you!
Go you, Jeanette, for taking those babysteps! :-)
Thank you, I can see changes... I need to de clutter a bit.... I feel on top of the world, be blessed.....💕💕💕
My husband and I work and have two girls 4 and 1 years old. I told he needs to help and do the baby step with me. I was so happy when I didn't even had to asked him to the dishes he did while I put the girls to bed this means we are both going to be at the same time and early. Thank you so much
Hello, I'm new to this and didn't realize that once I would begin limiting my internet use to 15 minutes at a time like you mentioned in one of the first steps that I would naturally begin doing this step at the top every hour... I was desperately trying to fill my time lol. So this will just be a continuation of that. Thank you for tips! I finally have hope!
Thank you for walking us through these. Thanks to your help, I was ready for my son's French exchange student today!
Bravo, Lynn!
I sorted the content of my purse: all the cards and other contents
this encouraged my DH without that he noticed it and he released the couch of the big pile of clothes
and emptied all the suitcases and the luggage of our 4 weeks holiday (we use to take A LOT with us)
and we put it all on and around the living-room sofa and now it is neat again
Great idea!
I am doing day 1-5 faithfully. OMG these baby steps are like rocket fuel for my quest for order. However, I have gotten stuck here at day 6 for about a week.not adding any new steps. I’m scared of the timer. I loath haste. Haste feels like anxiety. I also don’t use timer to govern my internet time. I will fix both problems tomorrow and report back🤪
6 day - done!
Two minutes.....?! It takes me more than that to find the right pair of glasses for the task at hand to see what I'm doing.
Wow weird you said you do t have to start 1st Jan, could be17th May... today's 17th May and here I am after finding you this evening! 😊
Thank you
Diane, do we attack 1 hot spot a day or many? What is the goal so that attacking hot spots doesn’t become the overwhelming focus of the day?
Just go for one per day. The aim is to make it a habit. If you are consistent with the rest of your daily routines and have energy/time left over, feel free to do more but don't skip the basics.
Thanks for your question I was wondering the same thing. I have like 3 hot spots per room..... If you need organizing tips on top of flylady I also like clutter bug, she's full of great tips. I used her video to clean my oven in preparation for Thanksgiving. My husband cooked a boston butt in the oven, it overflowed the pan, he did his bets and got most of it, but its the dregs that cause the off flavors. Clutterbug is full of check lists different organizing systems based on what type of organization you prefer so you can find a home for your hotspot clutter.
Love your ring! I love the birds too!
Thanks, Jeanne!
My TV tray next to my computer table is a hot spot. And my letter organizer.
It's good to hear these from you!
I have been working on hot spots kitchen island,and coffee table two day now. Thank you for your video, they are soooo help ful.
Isn't it funny how 2 minutes can make such a difference? Go you, Diana!
Two things: I think it's wonderful that you have done these tutorials, and I'm happy to find that you're a Whovian as well!
I'm glad that I have these videos to refer to on my journey.
My whole living room is a hot spot 😅
Diane, I have recently discovered flylady and your site! You have such wonderful information and support! I have one question you seem to get very dressed up everyday. How do you keep your clothes clean while your cleaning?
Hi Glenda! You'll find that once you start cleaning the Flylady way, you are cleaning consistently (for short bursts of time) and so you no longer need toxic products. I only use environmentally friendly sprays, and find that I don't need much product at all. Much better for the environment and for you! 😃 I only wear an apron when I am cooking but you may want to wear one while cleaning, if that is a worry for you. You'll see that in all my "clean with me" videos, I am wearing my outfit for the day. Hope that helps! ruclips.net/p/PLxIYCyTLBED8Wax351mgTMw2dcA8XvrqQ
I get a little confused...I can do a 15 minute declutter easily in a hot spot. Is there a good way to determine when I should turn it into a 15 minute declutter and when I should just give it 2 minutes?
Whatever you have the time/energy to do is great, Melissa! Your hotspots are the places you dump things when you walk in the door (kitchen counter, hall table, coffee table). Keep attacking one every day and see if you can reduce the number of hotspots.
Just tackled Hotspot in kitchen. Thank you. Now for relaxing in bath. :D
Hi,
Diane I am a Baby, and fell off, can't get out of bed. on WHEELCHAIR & WALKER.
THANKS FOR UR HELP.
JOYA
Hi, I know this video was from a couple of years ago but I am just getting started and on day 8. My question is do you keep doing the hot spots of your home (2min every hr) every day or just this day?
Hi Noelia! There is no reason to do a hotspot every hour. Just when you can. But the aim is to do it at least once every day, so that it becomes a routine to see where you are piling things/to take action.
Thank you so much for you inspiring videos! I really love watching them and they already helped me so much :)
I have a little question concerning the hot spots: do the 2 minutes include getting rid of all the stuff on the hot spot? I often have stuff on this places that need further action, for example I had two photoframes that had to be put on the wall... I did it in the meantime ;) but it included going on the attic and getting nails, getting my hammer out of the cupboard...
Do you recommend to do such things directly after clearing the hotspot or would you collect them at a special place and do them another time?
(Sorry, for my bad English ;) I hope you understand what I mean)
+Cécile du Jard Hi Cécile! Yes, just go through the items on your hotspot and put them where they belong (invitations/bills to be paid go on your desk or in an 'action' folder, hairbrush goes in the bathroom, keys go with your handbag) and your picture frames could go in a little box for Anti-Procrastination day tasks. You can take action on those things later - right now we are sorting through our Hot Spot piles. Hope that helps?
Thank you! Ah, I hadn't yet read/heard about Anti-Procrastination day, (I tried really hard to focus on the babysteps yet and not look around a lot to read too much about the rest of the flylady system) that sounds awesome, really what I need ;)
ok. today is my acutal 6th day of the baby steps. I know, it is late actually it is the 7th now. but just, when I thought, yes you came late, but didn't even manage the 2 min hospot, I did it. early this evening, I did some cleaning in the bath room. but the actual tast of today - hotspots - I didn't. just as I was about the prepare my cloth for tomorrow, I realized, I could go through the cloth on my chair, where I put one time worn cloth and let them pile up (just realized, that I had 4 bras in there. more than tops. just one trousers. weired) . so, for now I should really go to bed. thanks for your encouragement
new subscriber and trying this flylady system! Also - I LOVE your mug!! EXTERMINATE!
Sorry, I don't get it. It's 2 minutes of just knowing what is in the pile and then when the two minutes are up we can go and put them away or is it 2 min to run and clean that pile and leave the space empty and everything in its place ?
Work through the pile and put as much away as possible/toss/recycle in the two minutes. If you feel like doing more, go for another two minutes.
I just started watching but I love your mug!!!
Hi! New FlyBaby here! I found the FlyLady website on 12/12/2019 and got the Sink Reflections book out of my library on 12/14. Shined my sink for the first time on 12/15, and been doing my best ever since. I’ve been dressing to shoes and doing the AM/PM routines regularly every day since that mid-December. I’ve also slowly started to Declutter, 15 minutes at a time. I decided to start watching this 31 baby steps playlist, and at the end of this video you ask how it’s going, so I’m letting you know! Thank you for your videos!
Thanks for letting me know, Stella! And rah, rah, rah! 🎉
Is it best to sort for two minutes then when timer goes off put away sorted items or do you suggest putting things away as you go? In other words, if you were not taping would you have run the Christmas decoration downstairs come back up then run your necklace upstairs, etc... or have done it just as you did on tape and put all away after sorted? Maybe a silly question...just get it done!🗣
Hello Diane, thank you for your inspiring videos: seeing someone actually DO the babysteps helps tremendously! I have a question about babystep 6: do we also PUT AWAY the things we pick up from the hotspots? You seem to put them in a basket or so... And would that putting away be included in the 2'? Thanks a lot for your answer!
Hi Inge! Just deal with as many things as you can from your hotspot in the two minutes. Put away stray items in the room where they belong, recycle the junk mail, toss trash. You'll be amazed at what you can do in 2 minutes and it also helps us to *see* the places where we tend to dump things, and stops us from dumping things there the next time. Hope that helps!
Dear Diane, yes, this does help :-) I understand what you mean now. Thank you for your answer. I like your videos so much: I feel your honesty and warmth behind the way you 'coach' and I am very fond of your lovely accent. Thank you for being YOU! Warmly appreciated! Take good care, love from dreary Flanders (Belgium)
Let's hope we get some sunny, spring weather soon, Inge!
Kings singers
Thank you very much. I really have a hot spot of papers on my desk. Live long and prosper from hubby and wife Trek fans!
Yep hotspot in kitchen and kitchen table 🙁 by the bed ( husband calls it my nest) and on my side of the bathroom counter
I found my mason jar lid while cleaning.
This was awesome! Enjoy your tea! We love Dr. Who too! BTW, did you know that Spock used that sign because it's the letter Shin in Hebrew which starts the word Shalom? I love tidbits! Exterminate!!!! (those hotspots!) LOL!
+ellen moeller Hi Ellen! Yes, we love them all too! Star Wars, Star Trek, the Doctor and...Sherlock 😍
H Diane, thank you so much for these babysteps. I can do anything in two minutes just have to remember to set my timer. Have been doing all the others steps and seeing such a change in my house. Cleared my kitchen worktops yesterday and only left the things I love and want to clean. My husband came home commenting, so much space to put things. He usually just dumps all his work things papers glasses and contacts with cleaner and cloths right on my counters. Still not sure yet what I can do about that as that becomes my hot spot when he comes home. Any advice! Thanks again for taking us through these steps. Been more helpful than just going on the Web and seeing what to do for that day. Love from a wet and rainy UK. xx
+Maritsa Denman My husband does that too so I put a big wooden bowl on top of the chest of drawers and he dumps stuff into that (keys, coins, gum, pens, etc). Keeps it contained and he knows where to find it. Good luck, Maritsa!
Thanks for the great videos! What do you do if you find something in your hot spot (something you want to keep) but you don't have a place for it? In the video, you find 4-5 things but you already know where it belongs. I know this is a slow process but it is slightly frustrating when you are cleaning a hot spot or trying to declutter and you just don't have a place yet. Just curious as to what other do - thanks again!!'
+Seajay035 I would pop them in a basket and work on the contents once a day, or on Anti-procrastination day. Perhaps the items don't have a 'home' because you don't really need them/love them/use them? Set your timer for 5 minutes and decide what to do with them, one at a time...
Hi Diane, thank you for taking us through the babysteps. Where did you get the little FLYLADY? Love it as a reminder!
+Danielle_nl Yes, she's so cute! The doll was a gift from Marla (The Flylady) and sadly they are not for sale...
I did my first hotspot yay. I have like 4 in my home. 1 down 3 to go!
Thank you Diane. I am 71 years old and I have been following your Babysteps since 1 of May,
but I do have a Problem with the Hot Spots, I just kind a move the stuff from one Hot Spot to another. I do not know where to put them. I cannot find a place in my mess. Do you have a solution?
Hi there! Set your timer for 5 minutes and deal with each item (don't worry if you dont get all the way through the pile). Ask yourself do I need this item, do I want to keep it, can it be given away or thrown away. Give the things you want to keep a proper home, and put them away.
@@DianeinDenmark Thank you soo much for a fast answer.
I do feel overwhelmed and I get a knot in my brain looking at all the chaos.
But I did clear out some clothes lying on my livingroom floor since month.
Better than nothing I guess. Thank you again
Don't silence those birds, Diane. They're wonderful. Give them 15 minutes! Hah! Forging ahead with the program. Thanks for taking the time to make this video series. All the best from Canada, formerly Scotland. ; )
You are very welcome, Doro! And "hello" from the lovebirds, Tweet and Sparky! 😊
I listened and I learned but there is one big thing for me, if it is a work day at home, I wear smart casual, a cleaning day, cleaning clothes which are basically old clothes that I don't mind getting dirty or bleach on, if it's a day out I wear nice clothes and if it's a day at home sewing or studying, it's leisure wear. I don't by wear shoes in the house as a rule, just slippers, sandals or slipper boots. I take your point about getting up and dressing for the day but that can consist of many changes of clothes for me. My washer is always on. Xxx
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Thank you Diane, I will try that.xx
For bills, why not Direct Debit?
The bread basket in our kitchen is also a dumping ground. Just tidied it today!
Actually, my husband is seeing changes around the house. Baby steps for sure but he's visual so it's a different ball game here. Thank you, Nicole
This is such a help thanks
You are very welcome, Carol!
What if I already spend too much time with myself? I am always out of energy and sleep alot. I don’t deserve to spend time for myself when I haven’t even done anything or have nothing to do.
Love your sweater.
what do we do if in2 mins we cant put it aa. do we leave those items in the hotspot? is it 2 mins per day?
Just do what you can in the 2 minutes! We are adding a new step to our routine each day and slowly building daily habits. We are working on our Hot Spots every single day for 2 minutes.
I don't know how to add a picture of the sink shined! But, it is! :)
Diane is it 2 mins for just sorting or including the putting stuff away?
I would use two minutes to sort out, then put away in their respective homes (or put in trash/recycling/donation) etc.
I love your bread box!
I love those crazy birds! Do you have to wear protective gear to clean their cage or feed them? I had some that were so in love with each other and not so much with me!
My whole house is a hot spot 😭 I’m starting baby steps again.
Hi Juli anne! No need to start the babysteps over again. Just start today and move forward. I will be cheering you on!
My difficulty in clearing hotspots is that there are always items that I don't know what to do with. Any suggestions?
+Karen Valdez Find a home for them. If you don't need them right now, put them in a box and check after one month...if you really aren't using them or don't need them, out they go! 😃
Maybe I have a hotspot. How about every flat surface in my home.
LOL! Been there, done that! 😄👋 But my Flylady Routines changed all that.
My baby room was getting so crowded with clothes everywhere and I have to loundry I put a timer for 15mim and I was so surprised how much it got cleaned up
My whole house is a hot spot!😳
Yeyy! I get to do my hotspot today!!
Woo hoo, have fun!
I am moving house but it's kind of like doing it in the dark because I haven't had confirmation that apartment I want is ready. wonder have you any advice that seems to be so much to do and I still have my son's things and don't want to touch them obviously bit overwhelmed
👋😃 The Flylady website has excellent tips on moving. Here's a link for you www.flylady.net/d/getting-started/flying-lessons/moving/ Good luck!
I have a few hot spots lol
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