This advice was a slap to my face not in a bad way but it felt like you were talking right to me like sort of a wake up call you are so right on this thank you so much for this advice cause my friends just encourage this behavior instead of telling me how it is. I got to stop liking guys I don't even talk to. I'm already in college I cant keep chasing after fantasies.
I just realized now that I wasted my entire middle and highschool years crushing on this boy who I never had one real conversation with actually not even so much as a how is your day going conversation,not even a freakin hi.I literally liked this guy so much he was like the guy that I would compare all guys to.Fast forward to now where I actually did talk to him.OMG!!! I wish I would of found shallons videos sooner.Theres honestly nothing I like about this guy and the cuteness that he once had completley evaporated just because his personality was so ugly.
I like someone i never talked to, we're not in any classes together but my freinds are in some of his classes, i like him because: 1. He's not like the other boys, he doesn't hang around with the popular guys 2. He's smart and not dumb like some boys 3. He's really calm 4. He's already looked at me a few times 5. ALOT OF OTHER STUF
Hi Shallon, I too get crushes on guys. I am very shy, so I think having a crush is easier. I don't crush on every guy, because I'm a one crush at a time kind of girl. 😂😂Crushes are exciting, but also exhausting, and eventually lead to a broken heart. I really ENJOY your videos. Thanks for the advice!!
I had a HUGE crush on this guy in high school. I never really talked to him. After watching Shallon’s video I realized I just loved the idea of him because he was super popular, had a lot of friends, was really smart, and played sports. Now several years later I don’t even think about him.
hi can someone help me? There is this boy at my school that I really like but I don't even know his name lol. He just seems so nice. So he's not in any of my classes but I follow one of his classmates on ig but I can't find him anywhere on social networks and this is making me crazy...in school I kinda catch him staring at me and idk we are on the same floor at school...can someone give me an advice? like what should I do??
This is beautiful! I am so inspired by you and makes me want to change the way I'm living my life now. This makes realize that's there's so much more to life than just crushes and that I shouldn't obsess over every guy! Thank you so much for making this video!
I love this. I am interested in this guy I haven't talked to yet but getting a certain feeling from different aspects of your life is good advice. Thank you so much!
OMG Shallon your advice just snapped me out of my weird delusional thought of how much I like this guy because he is tall (lol). my first crush after 3 years lasted for 6 hours 😂
The best way to get rid of the crush u never speak too(but is in your class ) just speak with him online and see if he is interested or not ...if not he will ghost u and will not show any interest the crush will fade away
omg you have completely helped me !!!! I kind of have this big obbsession over a guy I "like"' and king of a lot of people know I "like" him.😁 and someone told him but he didn't say anything 😐 but if I change how I say it and say I'm actually interested in them instead of saying I really like them which does when think about it sound kind off Creepy 😂😂 thank you for all of your help ❤️🙌
Thank you so much for all the awesome advice you have given me !!!💜💜💜!!! you are , someone I trust to ask advice BC so far ... this RUclips channel is the Best !!! I have never had such good advice !!!🎁 Thank you !!!
Wow I didn't thonkof it that way I'm crushing on a boy who doesn't even know i exist because he's older than me but if he ever actually came up to me it would just be awkward. I don't know him but it was like a random sparkThanks for making this bid really woke me up
Hey, Shannon! I really need some help. I have a crush on a boy who’s in my PE class, and we flirt all the time. We both stare at each other and blush during class. He asked for my snap, and we have a Streak. Everyone asks if we’re dating and ships us, which sometimes can be awkward but is overall flattering and is helping our *almost* relationship grow. But, now that PE switched to health class, I don’t sit next to him anymore, so we can’t flirt. He sits 3 seats behind me and I do sometimes catch him staring at me, but now that we can’t really talk anymore I’m scared that he’s going to lose interest in me. And even though I’m 99.99% sure he knows how I feel I’m way to scared actually say it out loud. Should I just try to get over him???
Uhm he actually liked to tease me in first and 3rd grade he always made me laugh he stopped 😭😭 I’m in 8th I remember in 7th grade when we got the same classroom he always stare at me and my heart starts beating so fast but sadly he stopped 😓😪
me too! he literally stares at me and me always make eye contact at lunch. i feel like i’m delusional but if you’re sitting with your friend group on the other side of the cafeteria and staring at me, i’m gonna think you like me back. am i crazy?
Small youtubers have the best advice
This is actually the most legit advice I've ever heard on RUclips.
This advice was a slap to my face not in a bad way but it felt like you were talking right to me like sort of a wake up call you are so right on this thank you so much for this advice cause my friends just encourage this behavior instead of telling me how it is. I got to stop liking guys I don't even talk to. I'm already in college I cant keep chasing after fantasies.
so true
I just realized now that I wasted my entire middle and highschool years crushing on this boy who I never had one real conversation with actually not even so much as a how is your day going conversation,not even a freakin hi.I literally liked this guy so much he was like the guy that I would compare all guys to.Fast forward to now where I actually did talk to him.OMG!!! I wish I would of found shallons videos sooner.Theres honestly nothing I like about this guy and the cuteness that he once had completley evaporated just because his personality was so ugly.
I like someone i never talked to, we're not in any classes together but my freinds are in some of his classes, i like him because: 1. He's not like the other boys, he doesn't hang around with the popular guys 2. He's smart and not dumb like some boys 3. He's really calm 4. He's already looked at me a few times 5. ALOT OF OTHER STUF
GIRL SAME AND I DIE INSIDE A LIL EVERYTIME WE MAKE EYE CONTACT
Yess :( and I just found out he’s dating this girl I know lol, so I gotta get over him
The hardest thing for me is that I know he likes me but we have no classes together so it’s so hard to talk😂
SAMMMEEEEEE I have my reasons just no one understands
Wow same
Hi Shallon, I too get crushes on guys. I am very shy, so I think having a crush is easier. I don't crush on every guy, because I'm a one crush at a time kind of girl. 😂😂Crushes are exciting, but also exhausting, and eventually lead to a broken heart. I really ENJOY your videos. Thanks for the advice!!
She LITERALLY described what I'm going through, and the comparation with "a dog chasing a car" totally relatable!!
I had a HUGE crush on this guy in high school. I never really talked to him. After watching Shallon’s video I realized I just loved the idea of him because he was super popular, had a lot of friends, was really smart, and played sports. Now several years later I don’t even think about him.
I've never related to something more omgggg I thought I was the only one feeling like this
Me too, it's so nice to read all those comments
same
hi can someone help me? There is this boy at my school that I really like but I don't even know his name lol. He just seems so nice. So he's not in any of my classes but I follow one of his classmates on ig but I can't find him anywhere on social networks and this is making me crazy...in school I kinda catch him staring at me and idk we are on the same floor at school...can someone give me an advice? like what should I do??
This is beautiful! I am so inspired by you and makes me want to change the way I'm living my life now. This makes realize that's there's so much more to life than just crushes and that I shouldn't obsess over every guy! Thank you so much for making this video!
I love this. I am interested in this guy I haven't talked to yet but getting a certain feeling from different aspects of your life is good advice. Thank you so much!
Dang, this helped me so much! I just realized the only reason I liked my crush is because he’s cute.... and I couldn’t think of anything else 😂😂
OMG Shallon your advice just snapped me out of my weird delusional thought of how much I like this guy because he is tall (lol). my first crush after 3 years lasted for 6 hours 😂
This is the older sister advice we all needed
This has really helped...It changed my vision on people, thank you so much!
You are brilliant!!! This video is amazing and fantastic advice! 🙏💜💗
Wow youve just rewired my brain 😂
This video is pure gold.
Wow... This is The first relationship advice video that I've actually found useful.. Thank you so much!
This is such a good video, it's like.. My lifeguide. You are so right and this is literally my favourite video on RUclips.
Amazing ! I think this is wht I needed some1 to tell me...I m so obsessed with this guy whom I have never talked to ! Thanks ..love ya ! :)
The best way to get rid of the crush u never speak too(but is in your class ) just speak with him online and see if he is interested or not ...if not he will ghost u and will not show any interest the crush will fade away
he doesn’t talk to me and my crush has lasted 4 years, almost 5… i think it’s past the “fading away” point
omg you have completely helped me !!!! I kind of have this big obbsession over a guy I "like"' and king of a lot of people know I "like" him.😁 and someone told him but he didn't say anything 😐 but if I change how I say it and say I'm actually interested in them instead of saying I really like them which does when think about it sound kind off Creepy 😂😂 thank you for all of your help ❤️🙌
I think I am in love again after listening to you. Thx!
This video helped me soo much
Thank you so much for all the awesome advice you have given me !!!💜💜💜!!! you are , someone I trust to ask advice BC so far ... this RUclips channel is the Best !!! I have never had such good advice !!!🎁 Thank you !!!
Thank you so much this is what i want it
Omg... thanks so much for that advice, it is amazing :)
you just made my life so much easier, i’m over this guy thank you!
Thank you, thank you, thank you, Shallon!!!
Wow I didn't thonkof it that way I'm crushing on a boy who doesn't even know i exist because he's older than me but if he ever actually came up to me it would just be awkward. I don't know him but it was like a random sparkThanks for making this bid really woke me up
this is amazing this advice is awesome
thank you for this Shallon!
Thank you do much for this great vid
This is good advice
That helped alot. Thx :)💞
Hey, Shannon! I really need some help. I have a crush on a boy who’s in my PE class, and we flirt all the time. We both stare at each other and blush during class. He asked for my snap, and we have a Streak. Everyone asks if we’re dating and ships us, which sometimes can be awkward but is overall flattering and is helping our *almost* relationship grow. But, now that PE switched to health class, I don’t sit next to him anymore, so we can’t flirt. He sits 3 seats behind me and I do sometimes catch him staring at me, but now that we can’t really talk anymore I’m scared that he’s going to lose interest in me. And even though I’m 99.99% sure he knows how I feel I’m way to scared actually say it out loud. Should I just try to get over him???
Thank you so much for this video! :-)
Best and realest advice ever!!!!!
I LOVE YOUR HUMOR
You are amazing, thank you!!
That's very wise and helpful
My first loves were people i never talked to lol
Thanks for the edvice I like a boy at my school which I have a lot of classes with but now I'm gonna get over him
That is surprising helpful 💜👏
this hit me man..lol
simply brilliant 👌
needed this...
Thank you so much
hey this is the vidio I was looking for
thank you
Uhm he actually liked to tease me in first and 3rd grade he always made me laugh he stopped 😭😭 I’m in 8th I remember in 7th grade when we got the same classroom he always stare at me and my heart starts beating so fast but sadly he stopped 😓😪
:(
me too! he literally stares at me and me always make eye contact at lunch. i feel like i’m delusional but if you’re sitting with your friend group on the other side of the cafeteria and staring at me, i’m gonna think you like me back. am i crazy?
i love her videos
thank you :)
Thx so much
Thanks shallon
shallon omg your so helpful and funny
amazing