Autistic Sons Get Locked in Car | Parent's Nightmare

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  • We're having a big summer and even accidentally lock our Autistic sons in the car.
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Комментарии • 163

  • @thomasschoeck9080
    @thomasschoeck9080 2 месяца назад +12

    Simon is talking pretty well here. From what I remember I was as old as nine or even ten (third or fourth grade) before I started using such phrases as “That’s no fun!” and “That’s boring!”. I guess that’s one of the differences between being level two like I was growing up and being level one like Simon.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  2 месяца назад +4

      I’m sure you are right. One thing that has really helped. Simon is the fact that we got him Speech Therapy so early. He was doing Speech Therapy regularly as soon as we got him diagnosed it two years old.

  • @JonBrase
    @JonBrase 2 месяца назад +3

    5:09 Marie has perfected the art of relaxation.
    Also, for my uncoordinated butt, that is a much more reasonable use of a paddleboard than standing on it. My sense of balance isn't horrible, and I could probably do it, but it's not good enough for the experience to be anything but stressful (side-to-side rocking being one of my stims is probably a factor too).

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  2 месяца назад +1

      I have never been on a paddle board but I don’t know if I could stand and stay standing. I would be too nervous to fall, I think

  • @TentoesMe
    @TentoesMe 2 месяца назад +11

    You could have said your husband had a fight with Tentoes. People would believe that!

  • @games_bond7221
    @games_bond7221 2 месяца назад +5

    I once got a tick. I was 8 or 9 I think and we had just learned in school that ticks can cause dangerous illnesses. I was at the beach and I ran to my mom screaming "MOM I HAVE A TICK MY TEACHER SAID THEY KILL YOU I'M GONNA DIE TAKE IT OFF I'M GONNA DIE" and my dad had to step in while I panicked. He pulled it out and I was fine afterwards.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  2 месяца назад +2

      I would gel that way if I got a tick.

  • @echofoxtrot2.051
    @echofoxtrot2.051 2 месяца назад +5

    My brother isn't autistic but got us locked in my mom's car when we were kids. Then he set off the alarm because he panicked and couldn't figure out how to unlock it so he pulled up the door lock manually. *BEEEEP BEEEEEP BEEEEEEEP....BEEEEP BEEEEP BEEEEEEEP* 😂

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  2 месяца назад +1

      Wow! That sounds like a memory that you won’t forget.

  • @suzanneofthesouthernisles1224
    @suzanneofthesouthernisles1224 3 дня назад +1

    What a loving big sister and family ❤❤❤

  • @thomasschoeck9080
    @thomasschoeck9080 2 месяца назад +5

    It looks like Ezra understands the word “Stop”. When did he learn that?
    I first learned the word “stop” in the context of a car stopping at age five-and-a-half when I was in preschool from my mother at traffic lights as a result of a lot of repetition. I was at least seven years old (first grade), if not eight years old (second grade) before I started to understand it in a more general sense. I guess it took me that long because I was level two back then (I’m level one now).

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  2 месяца назад +3

      I wish I knew the exact time he realized he understood the word stop. But he can’t tell us that. He has been working on listening to the Word stop at his school for the past year so I think being able to repetitively work on that for a long time has helps increase his understanding.

  • @bunglejoy3645
    @bunglejoy3645 2 месяца назад +3

    Only one problem now ezrie and simon eill know how to unlock it when you dont want it unlocked ouc h glad you had lovely holidays❤❤❤

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  2 месяца назад +1

      Very true! And I don’t want Simon to think it’s a good idea to get into the front seat

  • @tamaraanderson7260
    @tamaraanderson7260 2 месяца назад +2

    What a fun family lake outing! It looked like Ezra really liked it! Your older kids are so good to help each other!

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  2 месяца назад

      Thank you so much for sharing!❤️

  • @thomasschoeck9080
    @thomasschoeck9080 2 месяца назад +2

    I remember riding in a canoe both Summers when I went to Summer Camp. I did not like it because it always felt like the canoe was going to tip over. That was back when I was nine and the ten years old (third and fourth grade) back in the 1980s.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  2 месяца назад +2

      I feel the same way. I don’t enjoy feeling like it may tip over. Ezra, though seems to like the feeling of being on a kayak.

  • @zakbrand7354
    @zakbrand7354 2 месяца назад +2

    I can't wait to go to camp it will be, y 14th year . It's a special needs camp for kids and adults . Going august 11th till the 30th.
    Love your channel you guys rock

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  2 месяца назад +1

      That sounds like a fun camp. 🏕️ thanks for sharing. So happy to have you here!

  • @thomasschoeck9080
    @thomasschoeck9080 2 месяца назад +1

    My parents had their second dog a number of years ago and they used a tick spoon for tick removal. They sell these in pet stores and they might also work for removing ticks from a person’s body, but I am not one-hundred percent sure about that.
    I also remember reading that it is important to be sure that the entire tick comes off at once. For some reason (I forget why) infections are more likely if the head comes off.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  2 месяца назад +2

      Very true. We knew we had the whole take because our neighbor who got the tick off of Mark also got off a piece of Mark skin that the tick was hanging onto. So we knew that the whole tick was off. Sometimes they like to keep their head in, which can be a problem.

  • @christienelson1437
    @christienelson1437 2 месяца назад +2

    Some things that come naturally to an autistic child can be very difficult for other children to do. So some things that autistic children may have to be taught are easy for other children. Autistic children think at a different rate than other children do so you may have to stop to show them because they are thinking so fast that little details like locks are missed. It really isn’t because they are defective it is because their mind works differently and sometimes more efficiently than other children. Social cues are often missed because those are slow skills and their mind disregards them because they seems insignificant to other things they are learning. They are like flies and we are like worms.💕🙏💕🙏

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  2 месяца назад

      I love this description. Thank you!

  • @user-eg8ht4im6x
    @user-eg8ht4im6x 2 месяца назад +2

    A delightful video, made my day. Apart from the Tick bit yuk!

  • @beheldlizzard04
    @beheldlizzard04 2 месяца назад +5

    Simon is so smart unlocking the car for you guys 🩵💕

  • @alexandershilling
    @alexandershilling 2 месяца назад +2

    Honestly, I think leaving people that are autistic or not in a hot car is extremely dangerous hot car interiors can reach leave. Fall temperatures in a matter of minutes. Also remember to drink plenty of fluids if you’re outdoors.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  2 месяца назад

      You are right. Thank you so much for sharing!

  • @thomasschoeck9080
    @thomasschoeck9080 2 месяца назад +5

    Just like me Simon doesn’t like getting his feet wet. Maybe that’s why Simon finished toilet training within three months or so after he started.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  2 месяца назад +5

      Very observant. It’s true that the fact that Simon doesn’t like messes or feeling messy or wet definitely played a big part in potty training him faster.

    • @ashleecollinsworth9279
      @ashleecollinsworth9279 2 месяца назад +2

      I have got bit by ticks several times and I am actually allergic to

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  2 месяца назад

      ouch! that is no fun!

    • @ashleecollinsworth9279
      @ashleecollinsworth9279 2 месяца назад +1

      @@7Aheadfamily no it wasn’t

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  2 месяца назад

      Hope you don't get bitten again. ❤️

  • @rbrtpongo
    @rbrtpongo 2 месяца назад +2

    we been doing a kayaking event in new mexico for many years as well to its alot of fun.

  • @thomasschoeck9080
    @thomasschoeck9080 2 месяца назад +2

    I wonder if they sell iPhone or android phone cases with enough buoyancy to be able to allow a cell phone to float (sort of like a life jacket for a cell phone). If that doesn’t exist it would be a good thing for someone to invent.
    If one could prevent a phone from sinking it would probably last pretty well given that the newer iPhone and android phones are said to be fairly water-resistant. They are not actually waterproof, though.

  • @JaniceTaylor-it3ed
    @JaniceTaylor-it3ed 2 месяца назад +2

    Iam so sorry about you

  • @zakadams762
    @zakadams762 2 месяца назад +1

    Older brothers are great because they are so strong

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  2 месяца назад

      Agreed!❤❤ They were very helpful!❤❤

  • @thomasschoeck9080
    @thomasschoeck9080 2 месяца назад +2

    I think I would have been about six years old (or even seven) at least before I would have been able to follow directions the way Simon did to unlock the car.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  2 месяца назад +1

      I was very impressed with how well Simon did. He had a lot of people telling him what to do when it was very confusing for him, but he still was able to unlock the car and I’m so grateful for that.

  • @ashruz_3095
    @ashruz_3095 2 месяца назад +1

    I never saw where you talked about the fight dad got in

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  2 месяца назад

      At the end we mentioned what really happened to Adam.

  • @jkka1477
    @jkka1477 2 месяца назад +2

    Unrelated to this, but I have two questions about Ezra’s near death experience. Do you think he remembers his near death experience with cancer? And do you think nonverbal children on the severe end of the spectrum are more likely to have near death experiences due to two different factors, one being that they seek out danger and the other being that a lot of them can’t communicate their medical symptoms such as headaches, dizziness and nausea. I’m guessing that Ezra does not remember his near death experience but I do think that kids with level 3 and nonverbal autism (your son Ezra, for example) are more likely to have near death experiences because of the two factors I mentioned.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  2 месяца назад +3

      I agree that people who have level three autism are more likely to be in danger more often. The statistics are staggering. I wouldn’t be surprised if Ezra remembered being really sick. He was so sick that the doctor thought he had cancer. And he was sick for a long time, which was odd even for him. But I don’t know if he remembers that we all thought he had cancer. I wish he could tell us. Maybe someday he will

    • @jkka1477
      @jkka1477 2 месяца назад +2

      @@7Aheadfamily there’s a better chance that he can learn communicate more complex details on his speech device. I think someday his inner voice will find his way out. I know he’s still learning to type and spell. Which I think he’ll master when he’s 10. If I ever conduct autism research, I’ll do the studies that I’m highly interested in finding out about, such as the thing I’m wondering about with nonverbal autistic children. But I don’t know how that study would be conducted! Because It’s important that behavioral problems in nonverbal children are taken seriously. As they might be communicating something that is not acessable on their devices

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  2 месяца назад

      Thank you so much for sharing! ❤️

  • @Discord_worker
    @Discord_worker 2 месяца назад +2

    Make sure Simon don’t drive 😂😂❤❤❤

  • @tovahnelsontrina6210
    @tovahnelsontrina6210 2 месяца назад +3

    Oh no!!!!

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  2 месяца назад

      ❤️❤️❤️

    • @DrCoolZomboi
      @DrCoolZomboi 2 месяца назад +1

      @@7Aheadfamily I'm at my grandmothers house (I'm autistic Btw) my grandparents keep pestering me and saying "WhY ArE yoU EAtiNg WiTH YoUR HAnDs??!) and I'm like "I Cant help it" and they ask me why I cant help it and I just say that I just cant help it and They have been doing it for years and I'm actually going to go insane.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  2 месяца назад +1

      Thank you so much for sharing! That can be hard. ❤️

  • @cowboyfinleys2757
    @cowboyfinleys2757 2 месяца назад +2

    I hate ticks

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  2 месяца назад +1

      They are so gross, right? Me too. I hate ticks too -Holly

  • @higherground337
    @higherground337 2 месяца назад +1

    Is this Utah? The nature is so beautiful!

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  2 месяца назад

      Yes. It is in the Rocky Mountains.

  • @MamiMami-dq6go
    @MamiMami-dq6go 19 дней назад

    Nu mai poate de plâns,că îl incomodează orice privire când mănâncă...deocamdată ..care are de perceput ceva

  • @MamiMami-dq6go
    @MamiMami-dq6go 19 дней назад +1

    Am alt stil la o presiune...anume..la celălalt..să cântăm

  • @MamiMami-dq6go
    @MamiMami-dq6go 19 дней назад

    Nu ne poate domina nimic,ei pierd totuși..toți..că nu știu nici măcar ce vroiam

  • @MamiMami-dq6go
    @MamiMami-dq6go 19 дней назад

    Numai așa stam noi cuminți,pe scaun,dar ne grăbim să vorbim..aici analizez

  • @JaniceTaylor-it3ed
    @JaniceTaylor-it3ed 2 месяца назад +1

    Marie

  • @Cartierscott
    @Cartierscott 2 месяца назад +1

    How was Ezra when he was locked in the car or he didn’t notice?

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  2 месяца назад

      He didn’t seem to notice.

    • @Cartierscott
      @Cartierscott 2 месяца назад +1

      How is his potty training btw ! We can definitely tell he has improved alot with letting you know his feelings and what he wants how do you know when he needs to go? Does he still
      Wear a diaper?

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  2 месяца назад

      It is coming a day at a time. We do underwear in the daytime, but it is defiantly still a challenge. Hope to be doing another video on that soon!

  • @MJ55319
    @MJ55319 2 месяца назад +2

    I love your channel great content

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  2 месяца назад +2

      Thanks so much! Do you like vlogs more or educational videos?

    • @MJ55319
      @MJ55319 2 месяца назад +2

      @@7Aheadfamily vlogs

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  2 месяца назад +2

      😊😊😊

    • @MJ55319
      @MJ55319 2 месяца назад +1

      @@7Aheadfamily I have been a fan an 13 and I love to educate myself about this stuff

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  2 месяца назад

      We so glad our videos have helped you!❤❤❤

  • @JaniceTaylor-it3ed
    @JaniceTaylor-it3ed 2 месяца назад +1

    Or one of son

  • @MamiMami-dq6go
    @MamiMami-dq6go 19 дней назад

    Știm...asta înnebunea...că să purific mâncarea cu luna de veghe

  • @MamiMami-dq6go
    @MamiMami-dq6go 19 дней назад

    Tot eu sunt..de asta sunt doi apărători

  • @MamiMami-dq6go
    @MamiMami-dq6go 19 дней назад

    Vrea să mă spună la toți..adică să facem niste instincte împreună de alianță cu natura,să nu îi ia uraganul fara sa stie

  • @MamiMami-dq6go
    @MamiMami-dq6go 19 дней назад

    Știm...asta înnebunea...că să purific mâncarea cu luna de veghe..și minte și cealaltă și cealaltă,nu suntem curiozitatea de ea însăși..da,să le ia uraganul

  • @MamiMami-dq6go
    @MamiMami-dq6go 19 дней назад

    El are de perceput și se amestecă percepțiile și nu vrea

  • @LifeWithShawn2024
    @LifeWithShawn2024 2 месяца назад

    I always wished my parents raised me better to my liking because of my possible mild autism which I'm still waiting to be evaluated . My mom would lash out on me & tries to change my routine wether if its washing my bedsheets on specific days I choose or forcing me to make my bed how she wants it done . It lead me having multiple sensory overloads only making her threaten to call the cops or send me away and also my dad cheating on my mom 12 yrs ago which means he doesn't come to the house often . With me only being 5 then in 2012 you know my childhood was very rough not just at home but at school because there the social environment is toxic full of 99% of mean people straight from hell causing drama & violence in the building ( by the way the teachers / administrators don't do nothing about bullying which I have been insulted A TON about my appearance & possible autistic symptoms ) . I was born and reside in Memphis TN till this day so people here aren't as nice . 7 ahead what's your say & advice about my life background ?

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  2 месяца назад

      Thank you for sharing❤

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  2 месяца назад

      Some advice that we have for you would be to create a safe space, physically and emotionally. Also maintain a positive relationship with supportive friends.❤ Hope this helps❤

    • @LifeWithShawn2024
      @LifeWithShawn2024 2 месяца назад +1

      @@7Aheadfamily Ok thanks , can you go to your latest video and answer my other question pls ?

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  2 месяца назад

      Yes! Sorry, it has been a busy summer. :)

    • @LifeWithShawn2024
      @LifeWithShawn2024 2 месяца назад +1

      @@7Aheadfamily No problemo

  • @MamiMami-dq6go
    @MamiMami-dq6go 19 дней назад

    Nu știam..ce fac acum?! Nu asta vroiam,care cântec al cui...

  • @MamiMami-dq6go
    @MamiMami-dq6go 19 дней назад

    Nu este altul..nu este că dușmanul lui.. minte...nu este interesat de alea doua ale dușmanului..nu este tot el..nu are nimic în comun

  • @MamiMami-dq6go
    @MamiMami-dq6go 19 дней назад

    Daca nu aflam..o să innebunim

  • @ngyk98
    @ngyk98 2 месяца назад

    What? lock out of the car, what happened?

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  2 месяца назад

      I explain it in the video. We were getting ready to go and had already gotten both younger boys in their seat belts and I tried to gather the rest of the kids and shut the door and didn’t realized that the keys were in the car and the doors were locked. 🤷‍♀️

  • @MamiMami-dq6go
    @MamiMami-dq6go 19 дней назад

    Nu știi ce vrea..nu a găsit..nu vine acasă...

  • @MamiMami-dq6go
    @MamiMami-dq6go 19 дней назад

    Nu știam..ce fac acum?!

  • @MamiMami-dq6go
    @MamiMami-dq6go 19 дней назад

    A zis că face pe ai ei,dar se pare că ea nu are,meteorologi că să mintă in locul nostru..adică putem

  • @MamiMami-dq6go
    @MamiMami-dq6go 19 дней назад

    Nu o apără ei,ea îi apără

  • @MamiMami-dq6go
    @MamiMami-dq6go 19 дней назад

    Greu,copilăria incepe să simtă preocupările financiare părinți și împiedică cumva,pana te adaptezi..sau ...Ezraaa???

  • @MamiMami-dq6go
    @MamiMami-dq6go 19 дней назад

    Nu știi ce suntem,nici eu cum a fost luat...starea de veghe animalica

  • @MamiMami-dq6go
    @MamiMami-dq6go 19 дней назад

    Codex .ești tu..cine îmi pune dantura placa falsă?

  • @user-wo6py8yf4d
    @user-wo6py8yf4d 2 месяца назад +1

    Hey i love you guys

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  2 месяца назад +1

      Thank you!❤❤❤

    • @user-wo6py8yf4d
      @user-wo6py8yf4d 2 месяца назад

      Why you kids still in diapers?

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  2 месяца назад +1

      They aren’t in diapers. All of them where underwear was there a part in The video where they are wearing diapers?

    • @user-wo6py8yf4d
      @user-wo6py8yf4d 2 месяца назад

      @@7Aheadfamily what video?

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  2 месяца назад

      The video you commented on❤

  • @ihaveadreamformykids4400
    @ihaveadreamformykids4400 2 месяца назад

    Get Simon reevaluated, he is not autistic.

    • @7Aheadfamily
      @7Aheadfamily  2 месяца назад +1

      If you spent an entire day with him, you’d change your mind.

    • @Sarahvlogs-pu1bq
      @Sarahvlogs-pu1bq Месяц назад +1

      Heyy that’s not ok to say you don’t know what’s in there life ok? He is autistic don’t presume something when you don’t even know what ur talking about!

    • @Sarahvlogs-pu1bq
      @Sarahvlogs-pu1bq Месяц назад +1

      @@7Aheadfamilyu are totally right agreed for sure ❤