I'm just going to say that there should be a law that gives us 3 days off a month in the same week for periods. I just had the worst 2 days that I have had since college. Missed 2 days of work because of it and I already had a back injury so it made it so much worse.
@@DrSimiAdedeji Yessss, I live in Spain and am SO happy with this. I have been diagnosed menorrhagia (for which I have medication but nevertheless have anemia every 2 times a year) and suffer terrible pains since 16 (I know what I say when I say terrible pains, I have given birth naturily 3 times 😅) which knock me out 2 days. So for me, this is such an advance in womans rights. Thank you for normalizing "weird" things and taking serious how bad a period can be for women, very much apreciated 🥰
@@patriciatoney240 That depends on your doctor a bit, because my doctor told me that if you can really demonstrate that although you "only" suffer the intense pain that knocks you out, it is also possible to get the leave. The only thing is that you MUST have a document from your doctor that supports it, so het together with your doctor, explain your personal situation and ask about the options.
Just wow. This was so informative. I'm a bit of a "medical unicorn," though, when it comes to my period... So, I just turned 42, and I don't have a period. In fact, I haven't had a period in 19 years. I started when I was 16 years old, and I had a FOUR YEAR period! I bled for four years straight. I graduated high school with my period, and I went on my senior trip to Mexico with my period. I never told my mom or anyone, and I hated doctors, and honestly, I thought it was normal. So, I learned to live with constant bleeding. No pain or cramps or any other period issues. Just bleeding. When I was 20 years old, it stopped for 11 days. I freaked out cause I didn't know what was happening. I ended up getting diagnosed with something that was impossible to get as I was a virgin and I was about to take a shot of meds to treat it when it I found out my test was accidentally switched with someone else and I had a yeast infection. I got meds/steroids to help jump start it and I simply spotted randomly for about 3 years but never had a regular monthly period again. I just wore pads/tampons constantly as I never knew when I would bleed. It's amazing what you get used to and I just learned to adjust. When I was 23 I was told I had PCOS and that was the reason for my weird period issues. And at 24 my period stopped completely and during a Dr visit I found out I had type 2 diabetes so they claimed that diabetes was a reason for my issues. I also had a doctor tell me I had entered early menopause. That was interesting and not true. So I haven't had a single day of bleeding in 19 years. Funny story, after all these issues I was told having kids would be next to impossible, but when I was 31, I found out I was almost 6 months pregnant! I had no signs or symptoms of pregnancy. No sickness, cravings or weight gain... nothing. I just randomly took a test with a bf I had only been seeing for a month and bam. I was 23 weeks along. The only sort of answer I got from my doc was that even though I didn't have a physical period, my body was still acting on a cycle of sorts. But to this day, I still never got any answers as to why I bled for 4 years straight or how I really got pregnant or why I never had a regular period ever. I now have a 10 year old daughter, and I feel like I don't know if I know how to tell her how to have a period or what to expect really. I just hope she doesn't have the issues I have. I will admit that not having a period for almost 20 years has been nice, but I think maybe it's caused more issues not being normal. I'm so sorry for the long post, but I've never really shared this story and wondered if anyone has had a similar story. As age up toward 50, I don't think I'll be having a period ever again due to menopause coming, but I've just had a strange life. To anyone who takes the time to read this, thanks for listening to my rant. Have an awesome day! 😌
There is a doctor out there somewhere who has a diagnosis for you. Often, women's issues are written off as exaggeration when Dr's are perplexed. Some doctors (unfortunately) only want to deal with clear-cut cases and *easy patients. It took 2 years for me to be diagnosed w/ Crohns, which is a relatively known disease. I lost 30 pounds in 1 month and one of the MANY Dr. referred me to psych because he believed it was all in my head. Your story is amazing and I hope there is someone out there who can solve the mystery for you.
@tvs9978 lol unique for sure. And that's not even the half of my medical journey... my story is full of many chronic illnesses, a heart attack at age 35 and I'm currently battling cancer. I could write a book about my journey through life. I'm definitely grateful that I've been able to maintain a positive outlook on everything. I wouldn't wish what I've been through on anyone but I've been able to help others by sharing my journey so as long as good things come out of all this, I can be ok with that. I'm one hell of a tough cookie and I plan to stay that way 😁❤️
I’m 69 years old, and all I can say is that I wish someone like you had validated my experience when I was having my periods. I never heard about these things from other women or from medical practitioners. There wasn’t any information identifying what was in the range of normal, so there was an unnecessary experience of anxiety when these things happened. Just wish I’d known …. Thank you so much for talking openly about all of this now. So many women will appreciate your message as your RUclips channel grows. And that’s a very good thing! ❤
I couldn't agree more. I'm 66, and when I was 28, I suffered from severe endometriosis for a full year, while no fewer than four doctors told me it was all in my head and even referred me to a psychiatrist. When it was determined it wasn't all in my mind I found a doctor who did surgery. He told me my uterus was FILLED with endometriosis and dried up cysts. He said that I literally had no choice but to have a hysterectomy and it was a good thing I did, as it was precancerous.
urgh, that's terrible!! I'm sorry that happened to you. 😔 a good doctor wouldn't have just passed you off to a psychiatrist, they would have referred you to the correct specialist.
Waoo am 61 today that applied to me too,I hv always wondered why I got loose stool during my periods.Great lesson too,thou I still hv my normal periods every 21days at my age.Thks for the information.
Ma'am You are a gem You broke down in 10min what doctors didn't tell me for years I used to be ashamed of my period because female managers would not understand why I came late it would need a day off Some women wouldn't believe it was that serious My period would physically break me down Doctors would only prescribe pain medicine Ifound out last year I had endometriosis I was so relieved
I have endometriosis so I know how you feel . I have got my cysts in fiboids and ovaries removed by undergoing treatment . I'm still having periods problems
I’m glad you finally have an answer but I’m sorry you have endometriosis. It’s not fun at all. We really need better education around menstruation, what’s normal and what’s not, for the general public including boys/men and doctors. Appx 50% of the population will menstruate in their life (are, or have) and GPs need a better understanding of it and when to refer someone to a specialist.
Coco , I'm glad you found a good gyno to help you I've been living with Endo symptoms for 35 years and have only just found a doctor who actually listens and doesn't cut me off with; Oh you're just one of the unlucky women who have a bad period. Take a panadol. So glad you've had the procedure and feel better each day 🌻
As a 49 yr old women, this is amazing. On my last leg as far as periods are concerned. God, I wish you were around 30 yrs ago. So understanding. So informative. And absolutely fantastic. Thank you.
same here. At least mine are much shorter than they used to be. I don't know when to expect menopause as my mother had a hysterectomy due to cancer before she went through it. Well, I guess she had not started menopause at the time as she didn't communicate about her health much at all. She waited a few months to tell us kids about the cancer because she didn't want to ruin our Senior year of high school.
I’ve had butt cramps for years! Just randomly both on and off my period. :[ why does my butt do that….. I’m so glad I’m not the only one, I remember half trying to tell my doctor about it years ago and I think they just said drink more water? Which I didn’t do…… Maybe that’s why I occasionally get them..
I've also been getting butt cramps for years. Many times the butt cramps inform me my cycle is about to begin. I am so glad to finally know what's happening. I don't generally cramp in my abdominal region at all. I just get this weird cramp that feels a bit like constipation.
So glad to know that period clots are normal. I always have a crazy sharp pain before passing a big one. Enough to wake me out of my sleep sometimes! And it’s usually on day three or four of my period.
I one time had a blood clot that was like a chicken egg in size and i was like WUTTT? How could that get out of mine tiny pear??? That time I was under shower so i guess warm water helped it pass... But pooing while on period is painfuuuul nastaaaay I thought i was giving birth and i had been soooooooooo constipated due to job stress that i wasnt pooing daily....bruhhh i left the work wc feeling so tired like omggg....
I always get constipation and diarrhea along with bloating, fatigue, cravings and mood swings. Being a woman is really a struggle at times lol Edit: fixed a typo. Also that’s for the 1k likes!
I personally think that nature made a tiny mistake not putting a stop button on us.When I was younger I was like, ok it's all worth the =*@%& I want to have babies. But now, WHY DO i STILL NEED ALL THIS AT 46 AND AFTER 3 KIDS 🙄😂
I'm Black American. I'm learning how to handle female problems through RUclips. In my family, it's taboo to discuss female related issues. I can't even joke about it. The female period and changes are seen as something gross. None of the women in my family will discuss premenopause/ menopause, cramps, fibroids, flow changes, etc. I appreciate this video.
I understand you im a white woman but im with a Ghanaian, and my period is a big taboo in the beginning i was finding it diffecult and weird but now i understand more about the culture. First i always felt pushed away cause during my period he dont want hugs or kisses, and he also dont that i prepare food for him during my bleeding.... But now i know so its ok those few days a month, the only talk we have is that he ask if it is floathing heavy cause he knows my bleedings can be very though
Funny enough I'm on my period right now and RUclips recommended me this! I swear it's listening to me 😂 Thank you for going into so much detail with your points 🙏🏻 I'm living for your joyful attitude towards periods as they're a blessing letting us know that the body's working smoothly! I've just subscribed ❤️
It amazes and, frankly, pisses me off how little we, women are taught about our body as a young girl. It would make our lives so much easier and less anxious as we go through the different stages of our life had we received such a clear, tabu-less informaton. Thank you for the really helpful videos, Dr. Simi! ❤
*Our bodies are fascinating!* 💪🏾 How many of these do you experience?? I’m here to talk about them openly and explain medically why they happen. I hope you learn something new and remember, periods are not disgusting. 🩸watch next: Period Colors Explained: ruclips.net/video/uUzdSn_aChY/видео.html Should Periods Hurt: ruclips.net/video/ajM1xtS9Kp8/видео.html
Do you have any idea about something that happened to me a few years ago… at that time I had relatively light and less painful periods, but one day I had pain that was almost the worst I’ve ever felt. It was sudden and I couldn’t walk, was dizzy, threw up, cried, nearly fainted, and it went on and on for ages. I have epilepsy so I was scared it would bring on a seizure but very luckily it didn’t, thank god, as I hate having them in public. I was out but managed to get to the gp very nearby (with help) and he immediately took me in before the full waiting room, did multiple tests and gave me huge painkilling meds. Just after the internal ultrasound, my period started so I think they thought it was just period pain. But it has never happened before or since, and they found no medical issue. We still don’t know what happened.
It’s so nice hearing someone tslk about this stuff. I grew up in a very conservative household and textbooks/sex ed in schools doesn’t cover this stuff. For a long time I was worried there was something wrong with my health - so grateful for this video
I didn’t know what periods were until I had my first one at 12. My mom is from Asia, and it’s a big taboo subject. I came home from school crying because of all the blood in my pants. She just laughed and handed me a pad, and that was the end of the conversation. This video is great and so wish I had this 25 years ago!
Thank you for this! I always wondered why I would get yeast infections while I was on my period. I would change my tampon frequently and would still get a yeast infection. Knowing that it’s common for that to happen, helped me feel less worried and self conscious.
Dr. Simi you are ab absolute gem! I had to learn about a lot of things on my own because my mother didn't really take the time to explain much to me, and it's a little embarrassing considering I'm in my twenties. But you elaborate things in the most brilliant way that makes me (and others I'm sure) comfortable. Please keep releasing videos - your channel, knowledge, personality, and kindness is a blessing ☺
Don't be embarrassed about any of it. My mom explained very little to me and now that there are spaces like youtube to learn stuff I have come across many people with similar experiences. It took me til my 20s to figure out tampons and I had been dealing with dance class with leotards and tights for years by that time. I hated dance class when on my period. I now have learned a lot of girls experienced similar things and I wish I would have had youtube to find answers back in the day! Even when we learn the basics well, each of our experiences can be different enough that our mothers may not know what to do.
It’s the thrush song and dance for me. ❤ In all seriousness though, you did a phenomenal job breaking down the science behind everything in an easy to understand manner. Thank you!
Definitely breast sensitivity (not as extreme as like with pregnancy but I notice it the first couple of days for sure), looser stools, and increased sex drive - triple check for me!
For breast pain/tenderness, try drinking two cups of Cinnamon Tea with Milk before going to bed. It will cause you to get up to pee several times at night, but you'll definitely see a big difference in breast tenderness the next morning. I hope this helps you!
I love the Barbie illustrations. Nice to know that so many things I experience each month are actually normal. Especially the clots. I've had clots each month for years. I didn't think that much of it till I started having babies and then after each they always say about looking out for clotting. I used to think but it's not much different from my usual period there's just more. I've had 4 children so I guess it was normal.
1:48 also speak to your doctor because they can prescribe something to help! I used to get the worst cramping in that area leading to awful period poos which really affected my life. I saw the doctor about it and was given a really great medication to take. It helped make the pain so manageable! I just wanna write this comment so people know there’s solutions to this problem!
@@J.A.00 unfortunately I can’t remember the exact name, but it was like a painkiller. I took it when I felt like I needed to (usually once or twice a day) and it worked wonders.
I was today years old when i finally learned that period clots is "normale" .... Been a menstruating individual since i was 12 yr old... i am now 42!.... Thank you for making me finally feel a bit less weird
This 44 year old lady learned a lot about mensuration today lol 🙂Especially regarding referred pain. Things make sense now. Thank you, Dr. Simi! You rock!
Oh, my goodness ! I remember the pain and shocking sudden rectal pain while walking . Weird and scary feeling as a teenager. You're a blessing for girls who stumble across your videos . I'm definitely happy to have found you , because I have granddaughters. Having videos like this and watching together makes opens an opportunity for girl talk . Thank you ❤
I love you so much!!! Finally I understood the period clots. I'm 33 and I had never had period clots until it started to happen 3 months ago. I went to the doctor, she said I'm perfectly healthy and it happens but it never happened before so I couldn't understand it. But I'm relaxed now.
As a minor in England, I'm below 16, I got my first period last year January on the FIRST DAY BACK FROM WINTER BREAK! And I was slightly panicking but I told a female teacher and all went well. I do poo a LOT LOT more on my period which means more food and water intake which means MORE poos! So glad I'm not alone and thank you for normalizing this behaviour!
I got my first period the day of a school fair when I was in 6th grade. You'll learn soon that periods have a funny way of knowing all your important plans, they love to crop up at the most inopportune moments haha... good luck to you. Remember to stay hydrated and practice self-care during your period.
This is so helpful, thank you. I wish I had this infromation as a teen. I've experienced most of these, but not all at the same time in my life. I've been passing large clots since my earliest periods and didn't know for years it was unusal. The change in pooping, referred pain and vaginal infection came in my 30s. It's a lot!
You're the first person who has acknowledged the butt cramps! They hurt sooo bad and usually I just side eyed like there's something wrong with me if I mention it
The clots are the most uncomfortable thing for me. They're never that big, but they're always big enough to feel and just feeling them makes me freeze up because "hate-it-hate-it-hate-it-get-out-of-me-right-tf-now!"
This woman is a sweetheart and very humorous. Health was my very favorite study in school. We had to take it for 6 marking "periods," and I received 100's on my report cards for every one. I'd love for her to be my OB/GYN!
I am so thankful I came across your channel! This is information I needed….decades ago! 54 next month, STILL having regular cycles 🤦🏽♀️, experiencing perimenopause, PMS, and fibroids ALL right now! Information you have provided in this, and other videos, has helped me determine that I need to be more aggressive in having my voice heard, in discussing issues and concerns with my doctor! I need relief! 😩 Blessings to you with this channel!🙏🏽
I experienced everything you mentioned apart from increased sex drive , my periods were so heavy , the cramps and migraines so severe I felt totally wrecked. At 43 because of the clots , of which one was so big it felt like parting with a baby , I had an endometrial ablation . This stopped me from having a period and transformed my life . I still experienced monthly migraines and some bloating but all the other nasty effects of periods ended . I've felt like a new woman ever since.
thank god i got rid of most of these weird stuff and the terrible cramps after giving birth to my first child, really hope it's not just temporary...great and very informative video, now i understand what was going on
The video all women didn’t know we needed. Or maybe some of us knew we needed, but I didn’t. So glad that I came across this video. Thank you for sharing!!!
Period clots are the worse for me. They come with pain that last a few seconds and i can feel them going down. I have to stop doing everything that im doing in the moment.😩😩😫
girl same. They're huuuge. I have very heavy flow from day 1 to day 3. Thay 2 is the worst and I pass many period clots with considerable amounts of blood. Sometimes I have to change my pads every hour (I only use the thickest type for nights). I can't wear tampons because of the clots during my heavy days... I have to plan my life according to my periods. It's exhausting...
Me planning for my period. Need to take a road trip but if the period gets going(like day 2 or 3) then I gotta be by the bathroom nonstop. I need lots of fluids so I can pee non stop to pass the clots. It’s such a job! We really should get days off from work.
And here I thought 'period poop' was going to refer to that brown discharge you get toward the end of your period... glad I tuned in! I used to get cysts on my ovaries that made my period so much worse than normal! Including rectal cramps (SOOOO painful!) and actual period poops! Although, any kind of abdominal issue would do the same thing, like bladder problems... I thought it was because of the cramping and swelling.
I hope periods will get more and more normalized. I grew up without a mum but I think that might have helped with openly talking about stuff like this (with my dad etc.). Now I have a friend (we're both late twienties) and she keeps telling me how glad she is to have someone to talk to about these things because she can't even ask her own mum or sister, they both feel uncomfortable (at the moment she's learning how to use tampons since she never had before and I've been using them since my teens, giving her tips and tricks on how to use them, just today she sent me a message that she managed to put one in and she was so happy and I'm happy for her) and I'm just as glad. It's so freeing being able to talk about bodily functions without fear and embarrassment.
Thank you for the video. Last year I had massive period clot and regular bleeding (changed sanitary pad every 2 or 3 hours) on 2nd day of period. Happened for 3 menstrual cycles. Went to see ob/gy after reading few articles online. It turned out I had fibroid in my uterus. Got them removed and now period is back to normal. If you feel period is different, go see ob/gy
My only problem with my periods are passing huge blood clots, they never hurt coming out but some of them were really big. I asked my OB=GYN about it and she told me that I was losing parts of my uterus. My periods would always last me 7 to 9 days with the first 5 days were very heavy. I appreciate this video so much and the great information you have given us. Thank you and God Bless..
I feel your menstruation trauma on that. I had to a have a surgery young and found out at 15 I have 2 uterus. I'm going through menopause now. Every month has been irregular I'll have 4-5 days of period for one uterus. And a day to day and half of just cramping but no blood. Then another 5-7 days of. At least they came at the same time eventually as a kid there would be months I'd have 2 periods and doctor would just be like your pattern is changing. Ignoring they were shorter periods3-5 days Vs 5 to 9. The bleeding all of last October wasn't fun though either. I fear having 2 distinct uterus that have own cycles menopause will never end
I'll show this to my doctor. I've had symptoms of infections while on my period for several months and I was concerned, and she's basically told me that it has nothing to do with my period and didn't even prescribe me something. Wth
Wow!! This wasn't information wasn't available when I had mine!! Thank you for informing the younger generation!! Beautiful!! Wish you were here 40 years ago!!!!❤️❤️❤️
I've never paid attention to my bowel movements during my periods, but now that you mentioned it, yep I do go more often and softer.... this was very informative, I wish society would normalize talking about our bodies, it shouldn't be taboo, for both men and women...thanks so much for this video, so glad I stumbled upon it
There should be a time and place for this kind of talk. I don't want to talk about this with everyone, so no thanks I don't want it to be normalised like talking about the weather.
@@DiamondsRexpensive for sure theres a time and place to have certain conversations, I just meant that no one should feel awkward or ashamed to talk about the body or functions, not interested in talking about it is totally different
I genuinely have never heard or seen mention of the butt cramps I generally experience until I saw this video moments ago. I am happy to finally have an understanding why this happens to me.
Can we talk about the increased sex drive, like why 😅 it's so random and I only noticed it as ive hit my 30's. I appreciate this lady so much... We all needed someone like you growing up. Detail is important. Thank you 😂
My sex drive is totally insane before and sometimes after. It’s nutz!!!!!! How many times in a day you make wonder like…. 3 or 4 times in the morning…then like 3 times in the afternoon. Maybe I can get to rest tonight….😅😅😅😅😅😅😅 I can’t get anything done! Is this cause I don’t have kids?? Cause this isn’t really funny anymore…😂😂😂😂😂😂LOL
Omg I am not gonna lie, you had me crying when you said... This ain't funny no more 😂😂😂... I can't relate on the kids front but it is slightly ridiculous how it creeps up on you and how many times your mind is wandering throughout the day.
I wish these type of videos existed back in my day! My daughter will have so much more info and confidence about this part of life than I ever did! Thank you
Great information! Can you do a video about Peri-menopause and Menopause. I'm at that certain age, early 50's and my period still makes an appearance. And I'm sure I'm not alone at this new/end stage of the reproductive process. It's a LOT to manage and understand. We need more information for the next generation coming. Thanks in advance. 🙂
I had really bad endo and PCOS(before it was a common diagnosis...early 90s). I had just moved out on my own for the first time and had never had noticeable blood clots before. I seriously thought that I was dying and had passed my liver out of me. I had a clot that was the size of my palm. I called my mom crying because I was convinced I was dying. So, when my daughter started her period I made sure she knew that clots can be various sizes and that no question is off limits...and I won't laugh at you if you think you are dying.
Wow..mine were getting large too..not that large tho but when I'd pass mine I would cramping sooo bad..that's usually how I knew a clot was coming. Like early on labor pains is what it felt like..once I passed it I would feel so much relief until the next one was coming.
@@Shayvideos1 well if that is what early labor pains feel like I guess that it was good thing I have never once had the pleasure to experience them. lol...I mean I know labor is obviously painful that is common knowledge but I don't personally know. Now hot flashes....I know what those feel like....those suck a**!
Last year my mom hit sixty. She hadn't yet had menopause and was still having her period off and on. All her life she's had irregular periods. She went into her Dr to get checked and they thought it might be uterine fibroids so they did an ultrasound and ran other tests. Turns out she had uterine cancer! She immediately went on some low dose chemo pills while she went through all the pre surgery tests and paperwork. A month later they did a full hysterectomy and sent it in for testing. Thankfully the results came back with no spreading and that they got it all ! Tomorrow she's going in to make sure she's still ok. So ladies if any of this fits you? TALK TO YOUR DR BEFORE ITS TOO LATE !!!!
@@rosiebottom3870 Some people have delayed menopause. I'm 53 and still having periods and I've never had a hot flash. I like it though, because it means that my body is still producing good levels of hormones and it keeps my skin smooth.
Being on the pill has been an absolute lifesaver. It regulates my hormones and stops my period. I went from needing nearly a week off due to heavy bleeding, vomiting, intense depression, pooping my brains out, and pain to having light occasional periods, less intense depression due to pms, and being able to actually exist without insanity.
Thank you for talking so openly about some of these things. We need to normalize topics like this so people aren't freaked out when they happen to them. It's totally normal!!
This info is so important and invaluable to navigating life as a woman. Unfortunately, my mother was not the kind of mum I could talk to about anything below my bellybutton, which meant for years and many periods I was overwhelmed with anxiety, fear and embarrassment. Perhaps you could explain a few hormonal side effects & why sometimes, not all, I was overcome with uncontrollable/inexplicable anger/rage towards one person - a work colleague, friend or partner. It didn't matter, it was awful and I'd have apologise when I was back to normal. ThQ so much 🥰
I love learning more about my body and how it works with these types of videos. Not really related to this but I recently learned that estrogen is a natural anti epileptic and epilepsy is more common in AFAB people due to the monthly spikes in these hormones
You've got beautiful skin Dr! I'm just as open and appreciate your straight talking and humour. I've experienced all these issues you've covered just not infections etc. I'm late forties so becoming peri menopausal!
I knew I wasn't crazy when I thought there MUST be a connection between my period and frequent diarrhea, but I never researched it. Mystery solved...thanks Doc! 😊👍🏾🙏🏽❤️👏🏽
Thanks for this video. So I noticed if I eat too many processed foods and too much caffeine before period that my breast are sensitive and my cramps are horrible. But if I cut caffeine, eat more veggies, drink water and certain hot teas it’s not as bad. I’ve noticed that as I’ve gotten older my period is so different, not on time and lasting 8-9 days but not heavy but with small clots. But I just pay attention to my body and bring any concerns to my doctor.
Love you. Your accent doesn't offend my American ears. Also, your information is delivered with such continuity and clinical tones until even as a male, I find this info fascinating. 🎉 Thanks for this public service
You should consider doing the educational videos for schools, your much more relatable than the ones I had a school who were quite preechy and technical
Firstly, soooo thankful I've never experienced anal cramps 🙌🏽😂. My period started when I was 9 and was very irregular in that it didn't always come every month and some months it came multiple times. But it was ALWAYS just 3 days, with cramps the 1st day and no PMS. After I had my son at 21, it extended to 5 days, cramps went away and I got the worst PMS 😫. I'm 47 now and I'd say within the last 5 years it's between 5-7 days, got cramps again and they can be on any day of my period, and still have PMS but not as bad. And the period finally decided to start coming every month, only once a month and on time like a clock. Now within the last 6 months, the dang thing is all over the place again. I guess I'm entering menopause and she wants to go out like she came in 🤦🏾♀️.
You are so blessed. Mine feel like a knife is being inserted into my anus and the pain grows and decreases repeatedly over a period of like 5-10min at a time. Luckily it doesn't last the whole period, but when it comes... it is unforgiving and unpredictable😥
I am very glad that videos like this are available for people who want to understand what they are experiencing. I would have given anything to have access to this type of information when I was experiencing these types of issues. A 45 minute class at ten years old over something I didn't understand and wasn't experiencing, and a mother who was raised in a home where "that type of thing" wasn't discussed were my guides through this entire process. What I wouldn't have given.....
Had such heavy periods I ended up getting a blood transfusion and periodic iron transfusions. Was told I had an extremely "fleshy" uterus. Got on the depo shot and it saved me❤
Thats what I have done. Although this round the depo shot (I think that's what I got) hasn't saved me. 5 blood transfusions and cannot keep my iron up in the past year.
My concern is lately I've noticed that my private part hurts during my period. I always had cramps that were around my uterus but lately I also feel pain in what feels like inside the V but far up (maybe close to the cervix). It's the worst, and I also get clots
Dr Simi I just wanted to say the biggest THANK YOU for these types of videos. I'm 25 turning 26(F) I never had proper 'sex ed' - from my parents nor school. Trying to find ANY USEFUL AND FACTUAL information regarding womanly functions has been incredibly difficult over the last 13 yrs since starting my 'womanhood' Thank you so very very much for explaining these types of things as they are regarded as normal and natural. I've experienced almost everything you spoke about in this video when it comes to the M cycle but have never had it explained to me nor what to look out for. This is some bit of education Society Should be learning so we as young adults understand what is going on with our own bodies and what to even look out for when it comes to medical issues in the future and to be informed. I cannot say THANK YOU enough! I wish you a lovely 2023 as well as i wish you were my life skills teacher cause that 30 min sex ed lesson we received in high school.... did NOT prepare me for what i was going to expect in the years following adolescent .
Hi, thanks so much for enlightening us on various topics of mensturation especially on heavy periods, clots and discharge! A lot of times many people including gyneas treat these questions like a taboo or brushing it off as "normal". One question I'd like to ask, covid-19 has affected period badly even after 3 months on. Extremely heavy, painful than it used to, lots of larger clots, and lasts longer than it did prior. Treatment to manage it is typical, ibuprofen for pain, etc 😩. Will it ever return to normal? Is there anything else that should we look out for?
A couple people I know started birth control to help this... I'm not sure how you feel about birth control, but it might be something to look into 😘 best of luck hun 🤞🏼💕💞
Thanks for the information about the infections. I thought it was something I was doing wrong in the hygiene department during that time. Thank you, thank you, thank you.
Thank you so much for these videos! Health class could be more thorough at my daughter's middle school, so needless to say, your videos help when we need to have more in-depth discussions about periods, girly parts, etc. Your videos help normalize it for them or at the very least stop them from saying "MOM" when I say something they think they should not discuss Lol!
Great video ! I'm glad to know it's actually normal to poop more on your period and experience sharp pain when needing / using the bathroom. Also feels good to be aware that weird pains and clots aren't that weird after all. Only thing I don't understand is, how can anyone feel more aroused when on their period? Idk, I'm just dead on my period, I don't want to deal with anything sexual in that state 😂
This was really informative, and I don't even get my periods anymore. My daughter's, however, struggle quite a bit with theirs, so I really appreciate having this as a great resource and opportunity to learn.
Tks a ton for this video..I go through all this in my periods n my behaviour is crazy as I cant bear the pain...n i used to think its not normal..I m glad I found this video...
To be honest I hate getting a period every month.....it's the most annoying and unnecessary thing to go through. I want a hysterectomy and insurance doesn't cover it unless it's an emergency. Any other ways to get rid of it permanently?
Oh. My. Freaking. Word! #3 #3 #3 #3 #3 #3 #3 Thank you for explaining this because I was about to lose my mind and talk to my doctor. I swear, the older I get, the more infections during period time I get. I was almost to the point where I thought something was wrong with me. Thank you for plainly clearing this up!
Great video. More if this should be taught in schools. Some things actually now make sense at my age if 50! Loving the infections element descriptions - partying anatomy and bugs!
2 years ago I had a blood clot so big it make me scream, it just fell to the ground when I was going to take a shower. Mind you, this never happened to me before so I went to hospital right away. When the doctors saw the photo of it they all thought I had a miscarriage because of how big it was (with the timing it would impossible to be pregnant). Worst night of my life for sure, the end of my birthday, hearing babies first cries and thinking I had something wrong, needed surgery/something removed and would never experience hearing my own baby one day. Thank you for this video!!
Thank you Leone. I’m glad that you enjoyed this video! I do try my hardest to make the explanations as clear as possible and I’m pleased that you appreciate that. Thank you! ❤️😊
I've experienced all of these, to varying degrees, over the years. It's a crying shame how little we are taught about our bodies. If I had a daughter, I would tell her everything that I know instead of leaving her to figure it out on her own. I'll share this video with my sister to help her teach her girls when the time comes.
I'm just going to say that there should be a law that gives us 3 days off a month in the same week for periods. I just had the worst 2 days that I have had since college. Missed 2 days of work because of it and I already had a back injury so it made it so much worse.
Spain has recently become the first country in Europe to introduce menstrual leave. 😊
It is done in Spain now but you have to have the more severe symptoms
Nausea and such
@@DrSimiAdedeji Yessss, I live in Spain and am SO happy with this. I have been diagnosed menorrhagia (for which I have medication but nevertheless have anemia every 2 times a year) and suffer terrible pains since 16 (I know what I say when I say terrible pains, I have given birth naturily 3 times 😅) which knock me out 2 days. So for me, this is such an advance in womans rights.
Thank you for normalizing "weird" things and taking serious how bad a period can be for women, very much apreciated 🥰
@@patriciatoney240 That depends on your doctor a bit, because my doctor told me that if you can really demonstrate that although you "only" suffer the intense pain that knocks you out, it is also possible to get the leave. The only thing is that you MUST have a document from your doctor that supports it, so het together with your doctor, explain your personal situation and ask about the options.
South Korea as well has menstrual leave you can apply for when on your periods.
Just wow. This was so informative. I'm a bit of a "medical unicorn," though, when it comes to my period... So, I just turned 42, and I don't have a period. In fact, I haven't had a period in 19 years. I started when I was 16 years old, and I had a FOUR YEAR period! I bled for four years straight. I graduated high school with my period, and I went on my senior trip to Mexico with my period. I never told my mom or anyone, and I hated doctors, and honestly, I thought it was normal. So, I learned to live with constant bleeding. No pain or cramps or any other period issues. Just bleeding. When I was 20 years old, it stopped for 11 days. I freaked out cause I didn't know what was happening. I ended up getting diagnosed with something that was impossible to get as I was a virgin and I was about to take a shot of meds to treat it when it I found out my test was accidentally switched with someone else and I had a yeast infection. I got meds/steroids to help jump start it and I simply spotted randomly for about 3 years but never had a regular monthly period again. I just wore pads/tampons constantly as I never knew when I would bleed. It's amazing what you get used to and I just learned to adjust. When I was 23 I was told I had PCOS and that was the reason for my weird period issues. And at 24 my period stopped completely and during a Dr visit I found out I had type 2 diabetes so they claimed that diabetes was a reason for my issues. I also had a doctor tell me I had entered early menopause. That was interesting and not true. So I haven't had a single day of bleeding in 19 years. Funny story, after all these issues I was told having kids would be next to impossible, but when I was 31, I found out I was almost 6 months pregnant! I had no signs or symptoms of pregnancy. No sickness, cravings or weight gain... nothing. I just randomly took a test with a bf I had only been seeing for a month and bam. I was 23 weeks along. The only sort of answer I got from my doc was that even though I didn't have a physical period, my body was still acting on a cycle of sorts. But to this day, I still never got any answers as to why I bled for 4 years straight or how I really got pregnant or why I never had a regular period ever. I now have a 10 year old daughter, and I feel like I don't know if I know how to tell her how to have a period or what to expect really. I just hope she doesn't have the issues I have. I will admit that not having a period for almost 20 years has been nice, but I think maybe it's caused more issues not being normal. I'm so sorry for the long post, but I've never really shared this story and wondered if anyone has had a similar story. As age up toward 50, I don't think I'll be having a period ever again due to menopause coming, but I've just had a strange life. To anyone who takes the time to read this, thanks for listening to my rant. Have an awesome day! 😌
There is a doctor out there somewhere who has a diagnosis for you. Often, women's issues are written off as exaggeration when Dr's are perplexed. Some doctors (unfortunately) only want to deal with clear-cut cases and *easy patients. It took 2 years for me to be diagnosed w/ Crohns, which is a relatively known disease. I lost 30 pounds in 1 month and one of the MANY Dr. referred me to psych because he believed it was all in my head. Your story is amazing and I hope there is someone out there who can solve the mystery for you.
Wow. That's quite the unique story
@tvs9978 lol unique for sure. And that's not even the half of my medical journey... my story is full of many chronic illnesses, a heart attack at age 35 and I'm currently battling cancer. I could write a book about my journey through life. I'm definitely grateful that I've been able to maintain a positive outlook on everything. I wouldn't wish what I've been through on anyone but I've been able to help others by sharing my journey so as long as good things come out of all this, I can be ok with that. I'm one hell of a tough cookie and I plan to stay that way 😁❤️
This only means one thing:noone can ever fully understand the woman 's body
Good Luck beauty ❤️
Bless your heart!
Thanks for normalising all of this. Your sense of humour is great!
🤣 Thank you for watching! Glad you enjoyed it!
Right, cause we all go through it but still feel embarrassed to talk about it ! 🤷🏽♀️😅
@@DrSimiAdedejihi
Please help me 🙏😭
Dr simi please 🙏 please 😭
I’m 69 years old, and all I can say is that I wish someone like you had validated my experience when I was having my periods. I never heard about these things from other women or from medical practitioners. There wasn’t any information identifying what was in the range of normal, so there was an unnecessary experience of anxiety when these things happened. Just wish I’d known …. Thank you so much for talking openly about all of this now. So many women will appreciate your message as your RUclips channel grows. And that’s a very good thing! ❤
I couldn't agree more. I'm 66, and when I was 28, I suffered from severe endometriosis for a full year, while no fewer than four doctors told me it was all in my head and even referred me to a psychiatrist. When it was determined it wasn't all in my mind I found a doctor who did surgery. He told me my uterus was FILLED with endometriosis and dried up cysts. He said that I literally had no choice but to have a hysterectomy and it was a good thing I did, as it was precancerous.
urgh, that's terrible!! I'm sorry that happened to you. 😔 a good doctor wouldn't have just passed you off to a psychiatrist, they would have referred you to the correct specialist.
Exactly! Finally someone talks it as it is. The real nature of periods
Waoo am 61 today that applied to me too,I hv always wondered why I got loose stool during my periods.Great lesson too,thou I still hv my normal periods every 21days at my age.Thks for the information.
Ma'am You are a gem You broke down in 10min what doctors didn't tell me for years I used to be ashamed of my period because female managers would not understand why I came late it would need a day off Some women wouldn't believe it was that serious My period would physically break me down Doctors would only prescribe pain medicine Ifound out last year I had endometriosis I was so relieved
Oh my. I’m sorry you had this all the while. Hope you’re recovering now?
@Vivian Ikechukwu Thank you🙏🏾. I am. I found a good gynecologist that let me know and did the surgery
I have endometriosis so I know how you feel . I have got my cysts in fiboids and ovaries removed by undergoing treatment . I'm still having periods problems
I’m glad you finally have an answer but I’m sorry you have endometriosis. It’s not fun at all. We really need better education around menstruation, what’s normal and what’s not, for the general public including boys/men and doctors. Appx 50% of the population will menstruate in their life (are, or have) and GPs need a better understanding of it and when to refer someone to a specialist.
Coco , I'm glad you found a good gyno to help you
I've been living with Endo symptoms for 35 years and have only just found a doctor who actually listens and doesn't cut me off with;
Oh you're just one of the unlucky women who have a bad period. Take a panadol.
So glad you've had the procedure and feel better each day 🌻
As a 49 yr old women, this is amazing. On my last leg as far as periods are concerned. God, I wish you were around 30 yrs ago. So understanding. So informative. And absolutely fantastic. Thank you.
same here. At least mine are much shorter than they used to be. I don't know when to expect menopause as my mother had a hysterectomy due to cancer before she went through it. Well, I guess she had not started menopause at the time as she didn't communicate about her health much at all. She waited a few months to tell us kids about the cancer because she didn't want to ruin our Senior year of high school.
Last leg...lucky you, all the women in my family keep having them till they are around 56.
But you still have them??
@@muurrarium9460wow
I really thought for years that I am the only one suffering from period diarrhoea, because no one is talking about it!
I thought I was losing my mind years ago when I was having butt cramps! Thank you for talking about it!
You’re welcome.😊
I don’t like butt cramps😭
@@janifieladam no one does😭😭so painful
I’ve had butt cramps for years! Just randomly both on and off my period. :[ why does my butt do that….. I’m so glad I’m not the only one, I remember half trying to tell my doctor about it years ago and I think they just said drink more water? Which I didn’t do…… Maybe that’s why I occasionally get them..
I've also been getting butt cramps for years. Many times the butt cramps inform me my cycle is about to begin. I am so glad to finally know what's happening. I don't generally cramp in my abdominal region at all. I just get this weird cramp that feels a bit like constipation.
So glad to know that period clots are normal. I always have a crazy sharp pain before passing a big one. Enough to wake me out of my sleep sometimes! And it’s usually on day three or four of my period.
Me too have always wondered wat that was.
Me too🤣
I just pretend I'm in another body. Cuz I still don't believe that pain is real
Same here, until the clot is out, then I know I am free. And period is over
I one time had a blood clot that was like a chicken egg in size and i was like WUTTT? How could that get out of mine tiny pear??? That time I was under shower so i guess warm water helped it pass... But pooing while on period is painfuuuul nastaaaay I thought i was giving birth and i had been soooooooooo constipated due to job stress that i wasnt pooing daily....bruhhh i left the work wc feeling so tired like omggg....
I always get constipation and diarrhea along with bloating, fatigue, cravings and mood swings. Being a woman is really a struggle at times lol
Edit: fixed a typo. Also that’s for the 1k likes!
It's fun isn't it 😃
I personally think that nature made a tiny mistake not putting a stop button on us.When I was younger I was like, ok it's all worth the =*@%& I want to have babies. But now, WHY DO i STILL NEED ALL THIS AT 46 AND AFTER 3 KIDS 🙄😂
Yes I agree
It’s so fun isn’t it?😂💀😩😭
@@LifewMariaNicole it's not so fun for me regarding this matter of me being a woman.
I'm Black American. I'm learning how to handle female problems through RUclips. In my family, it's taboo to discuss female related issues. I can't even joke about it. The female period and changes are seen as something gross. None of the women in my family will discuss premenopause/ menopause, cramps, fibroids, flow changes, etc. I appreciate this video.
That's honestly how I'm learning things about my body. RUclips and Google have taught me more about my body than school, or my mother has.
I understand you im a white woman but im with a Ghanaian, and my period is a big taboo in the beginning i was finding it diffecult and weird but now i understand more about the culture. First i always felt pushed away cause during my period he dont want hugs or kisses, and he also dont that i prepare food for him during my bleeding.... But now i know so its ok those few days a month, the only talk we have is that he ask if it is floathing heavy cause he knows my bleedings can be very though
Funny enough I'm on my period right now and RUclips recommended me this! I swear it's listening to me 😂 Thank you for going into so much detail with your points 🙏🏻 I'm living for your joyful attitude towards periods as they're a blessing letting us know that the body's working smoothly! I've just subscribed ❤️
Same here. Idk how RUclips knew but it somehow put this in my lineup right when I'm on my period... 😳 Yikes
Same for me I said how did they know
@@deeznuts_808 Lol same it's like how did they know 😂
Same I am screaming!!!! I’m like welp let’s get some education about this burden I was born to bear 🤣
Same lol
It amazes and, frankly, pisses me off how little we, women are taught about our body as a young girl. It would make our lives so much easier and less anxious as we go through the different stages of our life had we received such a clear, tabu-less informaton. Thank you for the really helpful videos, Dr. Simi! ❤
Not only are we taught little - little is known because women's health was never prioritized or invested in. Only now things are slowly changing.
Right ! Everything I learnt Am learning now
*Our bodies are fascinating!* 💪🏾 How many of these do you experience??
I’m here to talk about them openly and explain medically why they happen. I hope you learn something new and remember, periods are not disgusting.
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What about throwing up during the cycle? I throw up often and cramp terribly during this time
I have had clots, diarrhea, constipation, anal pain, mood swings and cravings.
All 😅
I get fevers with my cycle; been like that since I started. Is this another weid-fascinating thing that happens with other women?
Do you have any idea about something that happened to me a few years ago… at that time I had relatively light and less painful periods, but one day I had pain that was almost the worst I’ve ever felt. It was sudden and I couldn’t walk, was dizzy, threw up, cried, nearly fainted, and it went on and on for ages. I have epilepsy so I was scared it would bring on a seizure but very luckily it didn’t, thank god, as I hate having them in public. I was out but managed to get to the gp very nearby (with help) and he immediately took me in before the full waiting room, did multiple tests and gave me huge painkilling meds. Just after the internal ultrasound, my period started so I think they thought it was just period pain. But it has never happened before or since, and they found no medical issue. We still don’t know what happened.
As a grown 33 year old woman myself this is the first time I come across a medical professional who has explained women's period issues clearly.
It’s so nice hearing someone tslk about this stuff.
I grew up in a very conservative household and textbooks/sex ed in schools doesn’t cover this stuff. For a long time I was worried there was something wrong with my health - so grateful for this video
I didn’t know what periods were until I had my first one at 12. My mom is from Asia, and it’s a big taboo subject. I came home from school crying because of all the blood in my pants. She just laughed and handed me a pad, and that was the end of the conversation. This video is great and so wish I had this 25 years ago!
Why did she laugh
Lord where were you when I was having periods. This is so informative. Talk about the body after the uterus is removed
Thank you! And thank you for your video suggestion. 😊
Thank you for this! I always wondered why I would get yeast infections while I was on my period. I would change my tampon frequently and would still get a yeast infection. Knowing that it’s common for that to happen, helped me feel less worried and self conscious.
Dr. Simi you are ab absolute gem! I had to learn about a lot of things on my own because my mother didn't really take the time to explain much to me, and it's a little embarrassing considering I'm in my twenties. But you elaborate things in the most brilliant way that makes me (and others I'm sure) comfortable. Please keep releasing videos - your channel, knowledge, personality, and kindness is a blessing ☺
Don't be embarrassed about any of it. My mom explained very little to me and now that there are spaces like youtube to learn stuff I have come across many people with similar experiences. It took me til my 20s to figure out tampons and I had been dealing with dance class with leotards and tights for years by that time. I hated dance class when on my period. I now have learned a lot of girls experienced similar things and I wish I would have had youtube to find answers back in the day! Even when we learn the basics well, each of our experiences can be different enough that our mothers may not know what to do.
It’s the thrush song and dance for me. ❤
In all seriousness though, you did a phenomenal job breaking down the science behind everything in an easy to understand manner. Thank you!
Definitely breast sensitivity (not as extreme as like with pregnancy but I notice it the first couple of days for sure), looser stools, and increased sex drive - triple check for me!
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All three of my symptoms in a nutshell
For breast pain/tenderness, try drinking two cups of Cinnamon Tea with Milk before going to bed. It will cause you to get up to pee several times at night, but you'll definitely see a big difference in breast tenderness the next morning. I hope this helps you!
@@twilabarcus9610 How to make this tea please
You're the first person I've ever seen give actual visual examples of what you're talking about .. thank you so much for that.
I love the Barbie illustrations. Nice to know that so many things I experience each month are actually normal. Especially the clots. I've had clots each month for years. I didn't think that much of it till I started having babies and then after each they always say about looking out for clotting. I used to think but it's not much different from my usual period there's just more. I've had 4 children so I guess it was normal.
1:48 also speak to your doctor because they can prescribe something to help! I used to get the worst cramping in that area leading to awful period poos which really affected my life. I saw the doctor about it and was given a really great medication to take. It helped make the pain so manageable! I just wanna write this comment so people know there’s solutions to this problem!
What kind of medication?
@@J.A.00 unfortunately I can’t remember the exact name, but it was like a painkiller. I took it when I felt like I needed to (usually once or twice a day) and it worked wonders.
@@jisoo1571i take ibuprofen and its not helping period poops
I was today years old when i finally learned that period clots is "normale" .... Been a menstruating individual since i was 12 yr old... i am now 42!.... Thank you for making me finally feel a bit less weird
This 44 year old lady learned a lot about mensuration today lol 🙂Especially regarding referred pain. Things make sense now. Thank you, Dr. Simi! You rock!
You’re welcome! I’m please you found it valuable! 😊
Oh, my goodness ! I remember the pain and shocking sudden rectal pain while walking . Weird and scary feeling as a teenager. You're a blessing for girls who stumble across your videos . I'm definitely happy to have found you , because I have granddaughters. Having videos like this and watching together makes opens an opportunity for girl talk . Thank you ❤
I have learned a lot from this video. Thank you for teaching us about women's health
You’re welcome. 😊
Shame we weren’t taught this in school
I love you so much!!! Finally I understood the period clots. I'm 33 and I had never had period clots until it started to happen 3 months ago. I went to the doctor, she said I'm perfectly healthy and it happens but it never happened before so I couldn't understand it. But I'm relaxed now.
Dr. Simi out here saving lives 🫂
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As a minor in England, I'm below 16, I got my first period last year January on the FIRST DAY BACK FROM WINTER BREAK! And I was slightly panicking but I told a female teacher and all went well. I do poo a LOT LOT more on my period which means more food and water intake which means MORE poos! So glad I'm not alone and thank you for normalizing this behaviour!
I got my first period the day of a school fair when I was in 6th grade. You'll learn soon that periods have a funny way of knowing all your important plans, they love to crop up at the most inopportune moments haha... good luck to you. Remember to stay hydrated and practice self-care during your period.
Aaaaw bless you. I started mine at 12 meaning I'm old enough to be your mum 😂😊
This is so helpful, thank you. I wish I had this infromation as a teen. I've experienced most of these, but not all at the same time in my life. I've been passing large clots since my earliest periods and didn't know for years it was unusal. The change in pooping, referred pain and vaginal infection came in my 30s. It's a lot!
You’re welcome! I’m really pleased that you found this educational. 😊
You're the first person who has acknowledged the butt cramps! They hurt sooo bad and usually I just side eyed like there's something wrong with me if I mention it
The clots are the most uncomfortable thing for me. They're never that big, but they're always big enough to feel and just feeling them makes me freeze up because "hate-it-hate-it-hate-it-get-out-of-me-right-tf-now!"
Yes’ exactly! I get really cold all the sudden after period clotting. What’s really happening.
This woman is a sweetheart and very humorous. Health was my very favorite study in school. We had to take it for 6 marking "periods," and I received 100's on my report cards for every one. I'd love for her to be my OB/GYN!
I am so thankful I came across your channel! This is information I needed….decades ago! 54 next month, STILL having regular cycles 🤦🏽♀️, experiencing perimenopause, PMS, and fibroids ALL right now! Information you have provided in this, and other videos, has helped me determine that I need to be more aggressive in having my voice heard, in discussing issues and concerns with my doctor! I need relief! 😩 Blessings to you with this channel!🙏🏽
You're the doctor and presenter that we all needed! Love your energy, honestly I don't watch tv but I could watch you all day! :)
If you also have hidradenitis, you'd also have to deal with cysts, flares and open wounds during your period and they're so freaking painful.
I experienced everything you mentioned apart from increased sex drive , my periods were so heavy , the cramps and migraines so severe I felt totally wrecked. At 43 because of the clots , of which one was so big it felt like parting with a baby , I had an endometrial ablation . This stopped me from having a period and transformed my life . I still experienced monthly migraines and some bloating but all the other nasty effects of periods ended . I've felt like a new woman ever since.
thank god i got rid of most of these weird stuff and the terrible cramps after giving birth to my first child, really hope it's not just temporary...great and very informative video, now i understand what was going on
The video all women didn’t know we needed. Or maybe some of us knew we needed, but I didn’t. So glad that I came across this video. Thank you for sharing!!!
You’re welcome. I’m really pleased that you found it helpful. 😊
Period clots are the worse for me. They come with pain that last a few seconds and i can feel them going down. I have to stop doing everything that im doing in the moment.😩😩😫
girl same. They're huuuge. I have very heavy flow from day 1 to day 3. Thay 2 is the worst and I pass many period clots with considerable amounts of blood. Sometimes I have to change my pads every hour (I only use the thickest type for nights). I can't wear tampons because of the clots during my heavy days... I have to plan my life according to my periods. It's exhausting...
Me planning for my period. Need to take a road trip but if the period gets going(like day 2 or 3) then I gotta be by the bathroom nonstop. I need lots of fluids so I can pee non stop to pass the clots. It’s such a job! We really should get days off from work.
You just described it perfectly😢
Same
@@atlfun08we need at least free 3 days ,this is worse than flu for me ,it truly is horrible suffering through all this period stuff EVERY month
And here I thought 'period poop' was going to refer to that brown discharge you get toward the end of your period... glad I tuned in! I used to get cysts on my ovaries that made my period so much worse than normal! Including rectal cramps (SOOOO painful!) and actual period poops! Although, any kind of abdominal issue would do the same thing, like bladder problems... I thought it was because of the cramping and swelling.
I hope periods will get more and more normalized. I grew up without a mum but I think that might have helped with openly talking about stuff like this (with my dad etc.). Now I have a friend (we're both late twienties) and she keeps telling me how glad she is to have someone to talk to about these things because she can't even ask her own mum or sister, they both feel uncomfortable (at the moment she's learning how to use tampons since she never had before and I've been using them since my teens, giving her tips and tricks on how to use them, just today she sent me a message that she managed to put one in and she was so happy and I'm happy for her) and I'm just as glad. It's so freeing being able to talk about bodily functions without fear and embarrassment.
I use pads ,I could never use tampons ha ha they scare me
Thank you for the video. Last year I had massive period clot and regular bleeding (changed sanitary pad every 2 or 3 hours) on 2nd day of period. Happened for 3 menstrual cycles. Went to see ob/gy after reading few articles online. It turned out I had fibroid in my uterus. Got them removed and now period is back to normal.
If you feel period is different, go see ob/gy
My only problem with my periods are passing huge blood clots, they never hurt coming out but some of them were really big. I asked my OB=GYN about it and she told me that I was losing parts of my uterus. My periods would always last me 7 to 9 days with the first 5 days were very heavy. I appreciate this video so much and the great information you have given us. Thank you and God Bless..
The larger mine got the worse the pain when I would pass them.
@@Shayvideos1 that's because you have to go into labor pass them 😭
I feel your menstruation trauma on that. I had to a have a surgery young and found out at 15 I have 2 uterus. I'm going through menopause now. Every month has been irregular I'll have 4-5 days of period for one uterus. And a day to day and half of just cramping but no blood. Then another 5-7 days of. At least they came at the same time eventually as a kid there would be months I'd have 2 periods and doctor would just be like your pattern is changing. Ignoring they were shorter periods3-5 days Vs 5 to 9. The bleeding all of last October wasn't fun though either. I fear having 2 distinct uterus that have own cycles menopause will never end
Mine were very painful
I have period clots every month. Is it okay or should I consult a doctor? ( Mine are not 2.5 cm long though )
I'll show this to my doctor. I've had symptoms of infections while on my period for several months and I was concerned, and she's basically told me that it has nothing to do with my period and didn't even prescribe me something. Wth
Wow!! This wasn't information wasn't available when I had mine!! Thank you for informing the younger generation!! Beautiful!! Wish you were here 40 years ago!!!!❤️❤️❤️
I've never paid attention to my bowel movements during my periods, but now that you mentioned it, yep I do go more often and softer.... this was very informative, I wish society would normalize talking about our bodies, it shouldn't be taboo, for both men and women...thanks so much for this video, so glad I stumbled upon it
There should be a time and place for this kind of talk. I don't want to talk about this with everyone, so no thanks I don't want it to be normalised like talking about the weather.
@@DiamondsRexpensive for sure theres a time and place to have certain conversations, I just meant that no one should feel awkward or ashamed to talk about the body or functions, not interested in talking about it is totally different
How do urs get softer😭mine always get hard like bricks and hurt like crazy to come out
I genuinely have never heard or seen mention of the butt cramps I generally experience until I saw this video moments ago. I am happy to finally have an understanding why this happens to me.
Can we talk about the increased sex drive, like why 😅 it's so random and I only noticed it as ive hit my 30's. I appreciate this lady so much... We all needed someone like you growing up. Detail is important. Thank you 😂
My sex drive is totally insane before and sometimes after. It’s nutz!!!!!! How many times in a day you make wonder like…. 3 or 4 times in the morning…then like 3 times in the afternoon. Maybe I can get to rest tonight….😅😅😅😅😅😅😅 I can’t get anything done! Is this cause I don’t have kids?? Cause this isn’t really funny anymore…😂😂😂😂😂😂LOL
Omg I am not gonna lie, you had me crying when you said... This ain't funny no more 😂😂😂... I can't relate on the kids front but it is slightly ridiculous how it creeps up on you and how many times your mind is wandering throughout the day.
@@shank3524 😂😂😂😂. I’m tired…You can too much a good thing!! Even too much broccoli will make you sick and it’s healthy!! 😂😂😂😂
I crave hugs and kisses and the cravings
Mine too but can't do anything about it. Lol
I wish these type of videos existed back in my day! My daughter will have so much more info and confidence about this part of life than I ever did! Thank you
Great information! Can you do a video about Peri-menopause and Menopause. I'm at that certain age, early 50's and my period still makes an appearance. And I'm sure I'm not alone at this new/end stage of the reproductive process. It's a LOT to manage and understand. We need more information for the next generation coming. Thanks in advance. 🙂
Now I know why my hips hurt during my period. It’s been happening for the past few months and I never connected the two. Thank you!
I had really bad endo and PCOS(before it was a common diagnosis...early 90s). I had just moved out on my own for the first time and had never had noticeable blood clots before. I seriously thought that I was dying and had passed my liver out of me. I had a clot that was the size of my palm. I called my mom crying because I was convinced I was dying. So, when my daughter started her period I made sure she knew that clots can be various sizes and that no question is off limits...and I won't laugh at you if you think you are dying.
Wow..mine were getting large too..not that large tho but when I'd pass mine I would cramping sooo bad..that's usually how I knew a clot was coming. Like early on labor pains is what it felt like..once I passed it I would feel so much relief until the next one was coming.
@@Shayvideos1 I am the same way.
@@Shayvideos1 well if that is what early labor pains feel like I guess that it was good thing I have never once had the pleasure to experience them. lol...I mean I know labor is obviously painful that is common knowledge but I don't personally know. Now hot flashes....I know what those feel like....those suck a**!
I wish I had this information when I was menstruating. I had almost all of the issues. I am so glad you are here with this information. Thank you. ❤️
Last year my mom hit sixty. She hadn't yet had menopause and was still having her period off and on. All her life she's had irregular periods. She went into her Dr to get checked and they thought it might be uterine fibroids so they did an ultrasound and ran other tests. Turns out she had uterine cancer! She immediately went on some low dose chemo pills while she went through all the pre surgery tests and paperwork. A month later they did a full hysterectomy and sent it in for testing. Thankfully the results came back with no spreading and that they got it all ! Tomorrow she's going in to make sure she's still ok.
So ladies if any of this fits you? TALK TO YOUR DR BEFORE ITS TOO LATE !!!!
My mom has irregular and heavy periods, but she's only 46. I have no idea if she's supposed to hit menopause soon.
Yes, it is not normal to be menstruating at 60. I had my last period age 50 - best thing ever. So glad your mums ok.
So glad that they caught it! Thank you for sharing
@@rosiebottom3870 Some people have delayed menopause. I'm 53 and still having periods and I've never had a hot flash. I like it though, because it means that my body is still producing good levels of hormones and it keeps my skin smooth.
@@Maw0 Women can have those perimenopause symptoms for years.
Being on the pill has been an absolute lifesaver. It regulates my hormones and stops my period. I went from needing nearly a week off due to heavy bleeding, vomiting, intense depression, pooping my brains out, and pain to having light occasional periods, less intense depression due to pms, and being able to actually exist without insanity.
What about ovulation cramps? If they're not PCOS what could be their cause and how can they be treated?
Finally!! Someone who explains why we feel all this stuff!
Thank you for explaining some symptoms that I've always wanted answers to! I experience all except the infections
Thank you for talking so openly about some of these things. We need to normalize topics like this so people aren't freaked out when they happen to them. It's totally normal!!
This info is so important and invaluable to navigating life as a woman. Unfortunately, my mother was not the kind of mum I could talk to about anything below my bellybutton, which meant for years and many periods I was overwhelmed with anxiety, fear and embarrassment. Perhaps you could explain a few hormonal side effects & why sometimes, not all, I was overcome with uncontrollable/inexplicable anger/rage towards one person - a work colleague, friend or partner. It didn't matter, it was awful and I'd have apologise when I was back to normal. ThQ so much 🥰
I love learning more about my body and how it works with these types of videos. Not really related to this but I recently learned that estrogen is a natural anti epileptic and epilepsy is more common in AFAB people due to the monthly spikes in these hormones
I'm here for bleeding Barbie :D
Thank you so much for these honest, factual, scientific, fun videos! I always learn something golden 🔥
You've got beautiful skin Dr! I'm just as open and appreciate your straight talking and humour. I've experienced all these issues you've covered just not infections etc. I'm late forties so becoming peri menopausal!
I knew I wasn't crazy when I thought there MUST be a connection between my period and frequent diarrhea, but I never researched it. Mystery solved...thanks Doc! 😊👍🏾🙏🏽❤️👏🏽
You’re welcome! 😊
Thanks for this video. So I noticed if I eat too many processed foods and too much caffeine before period that my breast are sensitive and my cramps are horrible. But if I cut caffeine, eat more veggies, drink water and certain hot teas it’s not as bad. I’ve noticed that as I’ve gotten older my period is so different, not on time and lasting 8-9 days but not heavy but with small clots. But I just pay attention to my body and bring any concerns to my doctor.
I've waited my entire life to no longer have periods, life is awesome now.
Waiting for this day too ! I’m 41 hope I don’t have to wait too much longer 😅
lucky!
Love you. Your accent doesn't offend my American ears. Also, your information is delivered with such continuity and clinical tones until even as a male, I find this info fascinating. 🎉 Thanks for this public service
not a lady, but watching this to be informed for people that get their periods
You should consider doing the educational videos for schools, your much more relatable than the ones I had a school who were quite preechy and technical
Very educative . Thank you !
You’re welcome! 😊
I now know all this I can finally understand. I feel so much better knowing all this. I’m half way over my period now. Thank you
Firstly, soooo thankful I've never experienced anal cramps 🙌🏽😂. My period started when I was 9 and was very irregular in that it didn't always come every month and some months it came multiple times. But it was ALWAYS just 3 days, with cramps the 1st day and no PMS. After I had my son at 21, it extended to 5 days, cramps went away and I got the worst PMS 😫. I'm 47 now and I'd say within the last 5 years it's between 5-7 days, got cramps again and they can be on any day of my period, and still have PMS but not as bad. And the period finally decided to start coming every month, only once a month and on time like a clock. Now within the last 6 months, the dang thing is all over the place again. I guess I'm entering menopause and she wants to go out like she came in 🤦🏾♀️.
You are so blessed. Mine feel like a knife is being inserted into my anus and the pain grows and decreases repeatedly over a period of like 5-10min at a time. Luckily it doesn't last the whole period, but when it comes... it is unforgiving and unpredictable😥
Anal cramps are hell 🤣 😭 and one has to hide the pain 😂
I am very glad that videos like this are available for people who want to understand what they are experiencing. I would have given anything to have access to this type of information when I was experiencing these types of issues. A 45 minute class at ten years old over something I didn't understand and wasn't experiencing, and a mother who was raised in a home where "that type of thing" wasn't discussed were my guides through this entire process. What I wouldn't have given.....
I haven't had my period in months and I'm so relieved. I've never had a period without pain, Diarrhea and dizziness.
How did you stop getting periods,this diarrhea is driving me crazy ,I feel dizzy and weak
Had such heavy periods I ended up getting a blood transfusion and periodic iron transfusions. Was told I had an extremely "fleshy" uterus. Got on the depo shot and it saved me❤
Thats what I have done. Although this round the depo shot (I think that's what I got) hasn't saved me. 5 blood transfusions and cannot keep my iron up in the past year.
My concern is lately I've noticed that my private part hurts during my period. I always had cramps that were around my uterus but lately I also feel pain in what feels like inside the V but far up (maybe close to the cervix). It's the worst, and I also get clots
Have you done to the doctor
@@sarahkapustic1881 nope, I thought maybe there's a reasonable explanation for it
Try and visit your doctor whenever you discover something unusual about your body when you have your period.
@@marybenedict2135 ♥️ I'll raise it on my next doctor's appointment
Dr Simi
I just wanted to say the biggest THANK YOU for these types of videos. I'm 25 turning 26(F)
I never had proper 'sex ed' - from my parents nor school. Trying to find ANY USEFUL AND FACTUAL information regarding womanly functions has been incredibly difficult over the last 13 yrs since starting my 'womanhood'
Thank you so very very much for explaining these types of things as they are regarded as normal and natural.
I've experienced almost everything you spoke about in this video when it comes to the M cycle but have never had it explained to me nor what to look out for.
This is some bit of education Society Should be learning so we as young adults understand what is going on with our own bodies and what to even look out for when it comes to medical issues in the future and to be informed.
I cannot say THANK YOU enough!
I wish you a lovely 2023 as well as i wish you were my life skills teacher cause that 30 min sex ed lesson we received in high school.... did NOT prepare me for what i was going to expect in the years following adolescent .
I’ve gotten clots since I could remember this gave me some relief 😭
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This is the most well-explained scientific video on periods I’ve seen. Thank you 🙏
Hi, thanks so much for enlightening us on various topics of mensturation especially on heavy periods, clots and discharge! A lot of times many people including gyneas treat these questions like a taboo or brushing it off as "normal". One question I'd like to ask, covid-19 has affected period badly even after 3 months on. Extremely heavy, painful than it used to, lots of larger clots, and lasts longer than it did prior. Treatment to manage it is typical, ibuprofen for pain, etc 😩. Will it ever return to normal? Is there anything else that should we look out for?
A couple people I know started birth control to help this... I'm not sure how you feel about birth control, but it might be something to look into 😘 best of luck hun 🤞🏼💕💞
I learnt more about my own body from your video, than I did in 2 years worth of Health Modules in High School
Thanks for the information about the infections. I thought it was something I was doing wrong in the hygiene department during that time. Thank you, thank you, thank you.
You’re welcome! 😊
Thank you so much for these videos! Health class could be more thorough at my daughter's middle school, so needless to say, your videos help when we need to have more in-depth discussions about periods, girly parts, etc. Your videos help normalize it for them or at the very least stop them from saying "MOM" when I say something they think they should not discuss Lol!
Great video ! I'm glad to know it's actually normal to poop more on your period and experience sharp pain when needing / using the bathroom. Also feels good to be aware that weird pains and clots aren't that weird after all.
Only thing I don't understand is, how can anyone feel more aroused when on their period? Idk, I'm just dead on my period, I don't want to deal with anything sexual in that state 😂
same!!!
Me too I feel disgusting those days lol
This was really informative, and I don't even get my periods anymore. My daughter's, however, struggle quite a bit with theirs, so I really appreciate having this as a great resource and opportunity to learn.
Thank you for all your great information! Much appreciated 🥰
Thank you so much for watching and supporting! ❤😊
Tks a ton for this video..I go through all this in my periods n my behaviour is crazy as I cant bear the pain...n i used to think its not normal..I m glad I found this video...
To be honest I hate getting a period every month.....it's the most annoying and unnecessary thing to go through. I want a hysterectomy and insurance doesn't cover it unless it's an emergency. Any other ways to get rid of it permanently?
I hate my period also 😢
Thank you VERY VERY informative. I wish I new about all these woman’s problems when I got my period 60 yrs ago.
Dr Simi you are glowing ❤️ Thank you!
You’re welcome! 😊 ❤️
Short,precise and on time,thanks Doc, i thought i was dying or sick with a serious condition until you explained,blesdings, keep soaring!
Oh. My. Freaking. Word! #3 #3 #3 #3 #3 #3 #3 Thank you for explaining this because I was about to lose my mind and talk to my doctor. I swear, the older I get, the more infections during period time I get. I was almost to the point where I thought something was wrong with me. Thank you for plainly clearing this up!
Great video. More if this should be taught in schools. Some things actually now make sense at my age if 50! Loving the infections element descriptions - partying anatomy and bugs!
Hi Dr Simi, great to see you and another video 😊 when is testosterone highest in the monthly cycle?
2 years ago I had a blood clot so big it make me scream, it just fell to the ground when I was going to take a shower. Mind you, this never happened to me before so I went to hospital right away. When the doctors saw the photo of it they all thought I had a miscarriage because of how big it was (with the timing it would impossible to be pregnant).
Worst night of my life for sure, the end of my birthday, hearing babies first cries and thinking I had something wrong, needed surgery/something removed and would never experience hearing my own baby one day.
Thank you for this video!!
Very informative and cleary explained. The amount of hardworking she put into it, really appreciated😊. Thank you Dr Simi ❤
Thank you Leone. I’m glad that you enjoyed this video! I do try my hardest to make the explanations as clear as possible and I’m pleased that you appreciate that. Thank you! ❤️😊
I've experienced all of these, to varying degrees, over the years. It's a crying shame how little we are taught about our bodies. If I had a daughter, I would tell her everything that I know instead of leaving her to figure it out on her own. I'll share this video with my sister to help her teach her girls when the time comes.