Dr. Burke Harris and Oprah Winfrey discuss Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) for NumberStory.org

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  • Опубликовано: 14 окт 2021
  • What happens when two dynamic, knowledgeable, powerhouse leaders team up to address a pressing issue that impacts us all?
    Dr. Burke Harris and Ms. Winfrey discuss Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs), connecting over their decades of helping people impacted by childhood adversity, from San Francisco to South Africa! We love this helpful breakdown of ACEs and how they can lead to toxic stress. By asking ourselves the critical question posed in Ms. Winfrey and Dr. Perry's new book, "What Happened to You?," and checking out the resources on NumberStory.org, we can learn about our ACEs, work on our healing, and shift how we view ourselves, each other, and the world.
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Комментарии • 87

  • @Itsandinicole
    @Itsandinicole 2 года назад +47

    Trauma is the silent pandemic!! Thank you so much for this video!!

  • @BlancaMoraMartinez
    @BlancaMoraMartinez 2 года назад +12

    3k views? Come on this is what needs to go viral

  • @jenniferbecker7127
    @jenniferbecker7127 Год назад +13

    I truly am obsessed with this myself. Your Ted talk opened the doorway for me figuring out what was going on with me. I have an aces score of 9 and a residency score of 2 I believe. I'm in counseling and a recovering drug addict. I didn't become an addict until age 28 I'm 33 now and it's very hard. I have to constantly work at things. I wish I would have discovered this before I allowed my trauma to effect my own children. I'm always having trauma responses conscious and unconscious. It effects everything in my life right now.. the tone of voice someone speaks to me in triggers my fight or flight response simply because as a child my mother was so emotionally abusive my survival instinct became doing anything to prevent her from speaking to me that way. So when it happens I can't breathe I panic and it has held me back in life.

  • @bakeembakeem9852
    @bakeembakeem9852 2 года назад +51

    Childhood trauma is like traveling through life with a permanent hole in your heart, of which never closes, even on your very best day

  • @daviddooley2759
    @daviddooley2759 2 года назад +20

    Alas. So much discussion about healing and recovery and so little about the primary prevention of unsupportive and harmful parenting. A new kind of parenting education that reaches everyone, everywhere would be a powerful form of prevention.

    • @redbhdfw104
      @redbhdfw104 2 года назад +1

      This must happen.

    • @bmg2507
      @bmg2507 2 года назад +1

      Oprah monetising on child abuse... Its all celeb fodder to the elite who lack of 6 -8 years of intense,professional training. Soundbites are empty and leave those who need professional information, as empty as before.

  • @Lynette_Shine
    @Lynette_Shine 5 месяцев назад

    I would Love to work with both of you 😊! Thank you, Thank you, Thank you!! God Bless your contributions, care and Love for all people!

  • @GodsChild321
    @GodsChild321 6 месяцев назад

    I love Oprah, she is so wise and she is changing the world, I heal a little bit more every time I hear her..Blessing to all watching!

  • @angelalouisecobb5832
    @angelalouisecobb5832 Год назад +2

    I'm learning, I'm healing, and making connections from my past trauma. I want to heal, and make a difference in my community.

  • @annabanana377
    @annabanana377 2 года назад +7

    Thankyou so much for your wonderful work in this area Dr. Nadine and Oprah for talking about this! I agree it is a public health crisis. I have been stuck in the trauma response state for so long since I had an A.C. E. score of 10 by the time I was 7 years old and have been re traumatized as an adult on several occasions I ended up on disability in my 40's with no appeal! when I was finally diagnosed with complex ptsd and now I am in the process of applying for death with dignity in another country because my health issues are so severe and continue to worsen. Why are we so behind in the midwest here on this issue? Why can't we see that prevention is key?! The widespread ignorance is unacceptable, it drives me batty!

    • @hannagrace55
      @hannagrace55 Год назад

      Anna banana Jesus loves you He is the way the truth and the life and the heart healer... He is the one who eventually will wipe away every tear 💛

  • @kiraanastasiaandersen1145
    @kiraanastasiaandersen1145 Год назад +3

    This definitely passed the Bechdel test. God its inspirational seeing two fucking awesome women doing such big amazing things. Learning about the ACE study was my ‘last straw’ watching my younger siblings being abused. The fact that you statistically carry it with u was just not ok to me, and I do what i can to destress my little boys now❤️ When theyre teens theyre moving in with me to start healing asap.

  • @BloggerMusicMan
    @BloggerMusicMan 2 года назад +6

    I'm not always a big Oprah Winfrey fan from a TV perspective, but she's a really good person to talk about this. She went through a helluva lot when she was a child and came through not just with career success, that's not really the point, but she seems to have come through her experiences quite well-adjusted and empathetic.

  • @Jordanosantrio
    @Jordanosantrio 8 месяцев назад

    8 unless jail counts as prison, and my mom leaving a few times and coming back counts as "separation". If these two count than it would be 10. Ive been suicidal, depressed, completely messed up in the head. Not going anywhere in life. I felt validated by this test and i am ready to go and start my healing journey. ACE and trauma survivors we got this! 🎉.

  • @cynthiakoch3122
    @cynthiakoch3122 Год назад +1

    OMG, I knew Ms. O would seek you out. I waited and waited for it. I was happy, she will catapult this cause farther than I could have ever hoped/imagined. God bless you Nadine

  • @celesteadelle
    @celesteadelle 2 года назад +12

    This is so true . Why aren’t we having mandatory psychology 101 before dating years so at least we know our role titles in dysfunctional families and have a change to not date cluster B types . I wish I would have known

    • @kiraanastasiaandersen1145
      @kiraanastasiaandersen1145 Год назад +4

      Sex education should be a quick talk about what sex is, and then a fucking long and thorough talk about relationships, consent, marriage and partnership.

    • @kirstieb8025
      @kirstieb8025 Год назад

      !

  • @Esi153
    @Esi153 2 года назад +7

    I love this so much. As someone from the UK who trained originally as a psychoanalytic psychotherapist, I've always asked this question; however after several years, I realised that it was important to be systemic in my approach, so I also trained as a systemic psychotherapist. I applaud you for highlighting this 👏🏾

  • @ACEsMatter
    @ACEsMatter Год назад +1

    Sending love to this thread! We are the chain breakers

  • @billsmith182
    @billsmith182 Год назад

    I've had 7. As I have gotten older my behaviors have gotten worse. I do see a therapist every week. I'm hoping one day I'll heal.

  • @anika14149
    @anika14149 2 месяца назад

    I have learned this hard way, one of my coworker was " mean" I thought until I learned the life situation.

  • @l.3038
    @l.3038 2 года назад +4

    Yes, we need to recognize & take action early!!!

  • @deborahriley1166
    @deborahriley1166 Год назад

    Extremely important!!!
    It’s the core issue for everyone 🙏🥰🙏

  • @lovenoteswithjackie
    @lovenoteswithjackie Год назад

    This was awesome! I look forward to reading Dr. Perry and Oprah’s book!

  • @hannatuameh3553
    @hannatuameh3553 Год назад

    this knowledge has changed my perspective in life, it help me tp see things in different light.

  • @DA-vp3rq
    @DA-vp3rq 2 года назад +1

    Why does structural Violence keep us in #Chains? Thanks for your help Opraha and Attorney General!

  • @robynnedavidson6364
    @robynnedavidson6364 Год назад

    So thankful that u guys are bringing attention to this issue. I’m a 45+ years RN, my dau lost her 19 year old brother at 12. Horrible at any time, but terrible at pre-puberty. I was a small voice, but u r drawing specific attention to this. Comfort, caring, love acceptance, and tolerance, and many other efforts are needed. Finally, u who are powerful in ur arena, will put effort and resources to create healing. My daughter enjoyed resources, others are not so fortunate. Please don’t give up ur efforts. ,

  • @energyandjoy
    @energyandjoy 2 года назад +2

    Dr. Harris, loved this interview and information. Would it be possible to add the word "trauma" and even "stress" to this video? It may show up in more searches, to help more souls. I am researching to including trauma informed or trauma sensitive elements in yoga teacher training. Thank you!

  • @with2ees
    @with2ees 2 года назад +2

    How can we get permission to repost this?

  • @mrmoonlight9668
    @mrmoonlight9668 Год назад

    Top my dear NADINE 👍👏🌏❤🧡🙏👍🌎

  • @saaddabelkhir2843
    @saaddabelkhir2843 Год назад

    إملين و أبناءها على ما أظن هم ليس هنا

  • @deborahriley1166
    @deborahriley1166 Год назад +1

    It’s 2023 and this information has not been absorbed by the medical professionals I know.
    My doctor is an MD she has never heard of this 🤨😢😵‍💫😖
    So frustrating!

  • @tinaanderson200
    @tinaanderson200 Год назад +1

    They were on going after even after it's very bad

  • @DA-vp3rq
    @DA-vp3rq 2 года назад

    #BackToGod pray for relief

  • @DA-vp3rq
    @DA-vp3rq 2 года назад +1

    Public health is all #Gatekeepers

  • @margaretek5350
    @margaretek5350 2 года назад

    🙏🙏🙏🌻🌻🌻🤗🤗🤗

  • @jenniferbecker7127
    @jenniferbecker7127 Год назад

    I'm also pretty sure my heart has been effected by this but alot of drs dismiss every concern I have because I'm a drug addict recovering or not that's what they always focus on

    • @ddavis4730
      @ddavis4730 Год назад

      The study did look at those with and without healthy behaviors, it still showed The Who didn’t drink or smoke 3 times more likely to develop lung cancer and kidney problems. Heart disease was almost 12 times more likely
      That was definitely factored in. Watch eat Ted Talk

  • @saaddabelkhir2843
    @saaddabelkhir2843 Год назад

    Le nom de le chat cristale أريد إرساله لفرنسا لا تتركوه وحده أرجوكم

  • @DA-vp3rq
    @DA-vp3rq 2 года назад

    When did systematic Violence get overlooked?

  • @saaddabelkhir2843
    @saaddabelkhir2843 Год назад

    سأهاجر على الساعة الخامسة صباحا لتونس لا أريد صعوبة في العمل و المساعدة أنا متشرف ببلدي تونس يعمل من أجل الديمقراطية و تشكيل أمة تونسية لهاذا أنا أتشرف بهاذا العمل العظيم في تاريخ تونس

  • @4444Jules
    @4444Jules 7 месяцев назад

    What happened to this person, and then what does this person need in order to get back into balance and alignment with their highest good, and what support systems need review or more assistance in this person's area and is it needed on an even wider scale. Where do we need to future invest or reinvest our societal resources, attention, energy and use of the word in order to nourish change.

  • @josephnjogu9341
    @josephnjogu9341 7 дней назад

    Caning and bratalizing kids is systemic practice in all schools especially in Kenya despite its being criminal. They say its not possible to train another persons child if you cannot humiliate. Its quite disturbing

  • @4estdweller4ever
    @4estdweller4ever 10 месяцев назад

    My number is 9

  • @saaddabelkhir2843
    @saaddabelkhir2843 Год назад

    أنا في عملي رغم أنني لاعب كرة القدم سأحاول دراسة كيف يجب الطريقة لتشكيل أمة تونسية بدايتها حكم تونسي مشرف لهم و الأرض أرض الرب أنا طيب موم أفريكا المئة تهزم الكل

  • @saaddabelkhir2843
    @saaddabelkhir2843 Год назад

    الشعب التونسي متفاءل قليلا به لديهم السياحة معناه لديهم خبرة في الحياة من المفروض

  • @saaddabelkhir2843
    @saaddabelkhir2843 Год назад

    إسمه كريستال

  • @saaddabelkhir2843
    @saaddabelkhir2843 Год назад

    إملين قالت لي لا تتركه سعد هنا إذا رحلت

  • @saaddabelkhir2843
    @saaddabelkhir2843 Год назад

    ماكرون قال إنه يعرف و يستطيع يجب نشجعه نؤمن به و الدليل أمامكم صدق ماكرون

  • @saaddabelkhir2843
    @saaddabelkhir2843 Год назад

    مرحبا سيداتي

  • @DA-vp3rq
    @DA-vp3rq 2 года назад +2

    What happrned to you? #SystemicViolence

  • @DA-vp3rq
    @DA-vp3rq 2 года назад +2

    Public health emergency #Pandemic2022

  • @cynthiakoch3122
    @cynthiakoch3122 Год назад

    9 aces... AND, if the gun would not have misfired when mommy-dearest tried to blow my stepdads head off, I could be the proud owner of a 10 (said with cynicism)

  • @saaddabelkhir2843
    @saaddabelkhir2843 Год назад

    لا أدري عمل النازا الآن في السماء أم الرب أو السماء خرجت وجدة إشارات لي من السماء أنني مراقب و نعلم مكانك نازا أنتم طبعا

  • @DA-vp3rq
    @DA-vp3rq 2 года назад +1

    What happened to a poor person ##SystemicViolence Adverse Actions

  • @DA-vp3rq
    @DA-vp3rq 2 года назад +2

    Public health failed the people

  • @SaaadDjablkhir
    @SaaadDjablkhir Год назад

    لازلت أخبئ الهدايا القبعة و ماسك الشعر

  • @saaddabelkhir2843
    @saaddabelkhir2843 Год назад

    إنقطعت القطط و تركت قطها هنا أخاف يقتلونه هم يقتلون القطط

  • @leeelms4080
    @leeelms4080 2 года назад

    Stop on change ways we do things put more spins on things in schools teaching money school create business in Public School help give different skills help fund there own schools whole interlock system is everything flip the script.
    System were we dont have one teacher for 30 /40 kids more military veterans be used in schools helps give some confidence skills set more change ups

  • @saaddabelkhir2843
    @saaddabelkhir2843 Год назад

    كان يوجد الكثير من القطط لم أجدهم ربما قتلوهم

  • @saaddabelkhir2843
    @saaddabelkhir2843 Год назад

    وعدة أمي سأكافح و أكن أحسن تربية و لا أتكلم كلام سيء كأنني في أوروبا مع الأوروبيين

  • @DA-vp3rq
    @DA-vp3rq 2 года назад +2

    We live in a shit show

  • @saaddabelkhir2843
    @saaddabelkhir2843 Год назад

    البلاد كلها رائحة كريهة لا تستطيعون تحملها أنتم حتى الماء حتى مواد الغسيل العادية لا يطاق البلد أصبح نهاية رائحة خطيرة تثبت شخصيتهم لا يحتمل

  • @saaddabelkhir2843
    @saaddabelkhir2843 Год назад

    متأكد سهل كل شيء عندكم أرجوكم بعد قليل سأرحل أريده يذهب لفرنسا هم قتلو كل الحيوانات و الكلاب و القطط

  • @kirstieb8025
    @kirstieb8025 Год назад +2

    i feel like that’s why oprah has her weight issues. her childhood trauma.

    • @toddparry6568
      @toddparry6568 Год назад

      The initial ACE study was targeted with Obesity clinc

  • @sealife13
    @sealife13 10 дней назад

    Can't they affort a broadband connection. The quality of this video is awful and distracing