How To Handle Body Shaming ft.
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- Опубликовано: 20 авг 2024
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Tanmay Bhat gives his take on body shaming and how should one tackle it. He also shares his childhood experiences about body shaming in the podcast. Tanmay Bhat has recently started a new podcast series known as Clueless on his new channel where he discusses personal finance and other concepts around it. Tanmay Bhat is known for this standup comedy, reactions, vlogs, etc.
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As an obese 22 year old boy, looks DO matter. Speaking from personal experiences, fat-shaming comes from people who you think are your good friends and well-wishers. Casually slipping it in during conversations might be a joke for someone but not for the one on the receiving end of it. Still suffering from it till date.
Try loosing weight man it'll definitely help
I am 17M 100kgs 5" 8 and It's so depressing how these so called "friends" (Toxic bastards) fat shame you and slip these things into group conversations with friends .... They call you fat, unhealthy, "tere pet mein bacha hai kya",
Man you fucking don't know what's going inside me while I am smiling at your cheap ass fat jokes ..... You don't k ow how much pain I am going through rn,
I want to die and live at the same moment...
@@salty_senpai_6969 rather than wanting to die why don’t u do something about it? Idk if you can’t lose weight because of medical reason, stop eating unhealthy diet. I’ve been skinny my whole life and body shamed but now that I’ve joined gym and started eating healthy I actually feel good about myself. Life is and will be unfair if u don’t like something change it
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@@addydoflamingo2312 You are the problem.
No matter how you look ... you deserve happiness 👼👼.
Who's got into bullying in school?
I've been for being short & skinny
I have ben because o my short height
Bcoz of being dark and over weight.
I have never been bullied in school
Just punch them as hard as u can and run
He is right.
He said a girl has an emotional boundary with u
She will never bully u for your weight or any aspect .
The problem is the guy friends
They are just born to bully you and that'll they can
Pray for me
I am in keto diet and intermediate diet
And a huge fan off Ranveer allahabadia 🙂
I am 17yrs old and my weight is 100kg
Best of luck Aditya! You're gonna achieve everything you've wanted. ☺️
tell us ur progress bro did u lose weight??
Hey man don't be so hard on yourself.. Just strive to lead a healthy lifestyle and have realistic goals.. Love yourself❤️
Best of luck Aditya we all have went through same faze
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My parents, friends always bully me, Sometimes I feel like putting acid on my body parts or just cut down that meat with knife.I feel measurable.I cry every day.I am doing what I can do to loss weight but I feel weak while doing all the workout and diet and I have to eat because I do have to study a lot for my UPSC exam and they believe that I just eat and sleep that's why I am fat. I have health issues but they never ask me about my health but while I went out of the room just to have anything to eat they just open their mouth and make me feel like shit and I come back to my room still crying while writing this comments.I even stop using social media because being body shamed.but how can I just ignore my own parents and brother.Idk what to do.I just so helpless.
He's fine now becoz he got Naveed
Hey you seeing this comment if you are overweight, dnt worry. Be proud of who you are as a person, rest will follow , do you know why bcoz you are jst AMAZING ❤
Booom yes 🙌🏻
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jaa ke gym kr lawde excuses kyaa dera ha
Should loose weight
But what about people who are try you to put down?
I was bulllied in college by a guy infront of others saying that i cant do anything in life as i was too skinny ,yes my life was diaster he even bullied me for wearing spectacles. he said i cant get anywhere in life my type of guy should not be in computer should be doing some odd bank jobs but today iam a software engineer gone to USA and many other countries. so guys please keep your mental state of happniess dont let others take over every one is created by god for certain purpose. in the end every one dies but why bullying this shoudls stop.
This is sooo freaking Relatable, i have been overweight since i was born. And as a kid it is really hard to be body shamed. I have been called a elephant and sucks. But now i have been on keto for 8 months now and its the best feeling. It really helps me feel self worthy. I was 110 kg when i started and now i am 88 kg. Still a long way to go, yet proud of how far i have come.
That's a good progress
Keep going ✌🤘
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What is your weight now after 3 years?
Really a Must Needed video😊
Even in the corporate world I face body shaming people laugh and tease me and judge me on that thanks for the motivation
i have seen the original podcast like 7times still if i see Tanmay Bhatt,i just click it anyway
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@@TheRanveerShowClips he was right to say " just cry it out" cuz we can't really do anything, even the gym trainers who's supposed to motivate you, end up body shaming you.
i love it how tanmay put it. he helped me understand the emotional and mental aspects of obesity. i love how diverse, interesting n thoughtful this person can be..
I'd like to weigh in an opinion here, its alright if you don't agree with it that's okay.
Body shaming any person is wrong. It hurts them mentally a lot. We should definitely discourage this. But on the flip side, encouraging people who are overweight or obese not due to any medical condition but due to their lifestyle and diet habits is wrong too. Being fat or obese may be beautiful, but it definitely is not healthy.
So, we should neither fat shame anyone, nor should we tell them its okay to be fat. Instead, we should encourage them to lose weight and become healthier and fitter versions of themselves
Correct there is a proper way of telling things
@@rahulrichard1258 actually
That's ok. But for me, who have attempted suicide almost 2 times to get rid of bodyshaming. thats not applicable
Being fat or obese is not beautiful
Most affected mens are in mid 15s to 30s when men not only compete in profession studies but also with women. Let me tell you women have nasty opinions about obese mens ok on top they r being surrounded by cacophonies emanating from flirts by slim males.
I'm in category of Obese class 1 and it's very frustrating cz I've been athletic. I recieve comments on my body almost everyday and that too by my loved ones. I just want to say it's very very hard to deal with all these and to all those who are suffering from the same experience, stay strong.
When these so called friends fat shame you, you just keep smiling or put a straight face..... But deep inside you, you just want to die
@@salty_senpai_6969 i know man
Bhai pichle 2 month se exercise kr ra hu aur khane pr b control.. Aaj ek relative khti lgta h Tu ghr se bhr ni nklta..exercise kia kr patla hga. Usko yakeen hi ni hua ki mai exercise krta hu.. Kya kru yar.. Aur bt sirf uski ni dunia hi jaalim h.. Kaise patla ho jau yr ekdum se 😢
Best channel in the world as bro u have motivated me alot in my journey. .
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Just the start Aryan
Long way to goo♥️🙏🏻
I am a guy who is thin with body !!
But till 10th 1% call me thin or do body shaming..
But after 11th everything changed not because I gain weight I am still the same one but the diff. Is their is no one in my class who can defeat me in "PANJA" and pull ups....do no one tease me everyone just say don't go to his body he is more than it!
And I am telling you in my class their was a student fatty student around 68 kg but he is the one who did 61 push-ups in 60 sec and I am the one who did 60 😗😞
But that's why in my school life I never takeld these things!!
B I N O D
But about playing badminton.. you changed the meaning of the discussion..sometimes we dint want to discuss losing weight .. just plain conversation.. just someone to listen..
I am a 7th grader i am a bit overweight and there is a new pt teacher in our school and one of my bestie is quite skinny and whenever we have pt period he always body shames me like once we were playing kho kho he said to me turn around i didn't know what he said cause I was not hearing but he said " why do you eat this much if can't even move on time " then one day me and my classmates were sitting in the classroom and he came inside started talking and then said those students who want to have a lockdown raise their hands i raised my hand in fun and like 13-14 students did as well , my skinny bestie didn't then he came upto me and said " you want to stay at home because you don't do any chores that's why you are like this (he means fat) .
Then another day we were running and playing that's why me and all my classmates were all tired then period got over we all were walking slowly but he came upto me and said " how are you walking why do you eat so much look at your friend (my bestie) . He always say something in front of my classmates and body shame me
I don't know what to do about it
Told him that --- im not eating ur father food u are saying to me just yrr what the hell yrr aaj kal k logo ko hua ky h mtlb kuch bhi sida upar he char jate h
That was messed up for those people to say that to him. Dam wonder what went through his head
I also overweight n my husband is like I don’t wana be physical with you because I can’t find you attractive.. .. u don’t attract me because you are fat .. this sentence hits me so hard ..
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Stay Strong ❤️
Everybody call me patli in my school but I don't care about them but still it hurts hearing them 🙁🙁
Also I’m short height girl and in Nepal 🇳🇵 people call oh you are so short you are like child my 11 year old daughter also taller than you and people make it jokes and they don’t know what I’m go through and now I feel no one can hurt people inside only they can hurt with physical
My father still body shame me. He uses so much toxic words.
Make yourself better than
@@sigmachadtrillioniare6372 abey chup hoja bhai u are so freaking insensitive
@@sigmachadtrillioniare6372 Not everyone can.
Genetics, Bad relationship with Food, Insulin sensitivity.
Hey you
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Yes you
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Listen to me , You are the most amazing person of this world....
Let dog barks , Let the owl see ..... By this they are wasting their own time not yours ......
So be happy and stay positive..😊😊😊😘😘
Thanks 🥺
Sooo true .. every word touched here ❤️
Wow didn't see that coming 2:38 totally changed perspectives of life
Tanmay, you look so good, f for your haters.
I'm 20 and my weight is 58kg but still my family members critize me because I look too fat.. because except of me all my cousins are skinny and in their comparison I m fat.....I m really frustrated......even my own dad keep on criticizing me for being fat.....I eat less ,does exercise in morning and brisk walk in evening but still unable to loose weight.......I loose my all confidence......due to this I avoid all functions as possible.....I m just fed up of being judged everytime😭😭😭😭😭
No matter if you are skinny or fat people will bully and body shame you. You can only relate to the mental harrasment if you been to it.
Don't body shame anyone i know the pain they will suffer,as i being through it for being skinny. Still now i get body shame and its so torturing 😭. But i love my body.
Ik body positivity is important but leading a healthy and life and maintaining weight is very important. I have been naturally gifted with a skinny body so growing up i would always want to gain some weight. I tried everything but nothing worked when finally i started drinking way too much alcohol to increase my weight. My tummy size increased and then i had to run to the gym to reduce my weight.
I've never seen the problem articulated so well. I don't know if this is still the case in schools, but overweight kids are treated like filth. Boys in particular will target the overweight kid to make themselves feel better. As a kid, I felt helpless and growing up, my issues with self worth are pretty much permanent. Even if I hear a compliment now decades later I think that the person is just saying it for the sake of it because there's no way anyone could think of me in a good light.
The sad truth is that if you're good looking, every aspect of your life is better. You could put a rapist/murderer next to a kind fat person and people will still treat the criminal better (Ted Bundy on death row still had women throwing themselves at him). To the kids being bullied, I have only one bit of advise...make a conscious effort to get fitter and stronger. Looks matter, sorry. But reinforce your self worth right now and do not hesitate to verbally/physically mess someone up if they think they can use you as a punching bag for their insecurity. I don't care if you get reprimanded by a teacher/parent for it. Stand your ground and let bullies know that there will be consequences. No stupid stop bullying campaign will stop a piece of shit from being a piece of shit.
Finally someone said it ,I am fed up of people saying looks don’t matter but they are the only ones who always go for the looks .Looks do matter ,people are judged for their appearance ,many people suffer from depression, anxiety because they are not able to match the beauty standards of the society.Moreover thin or thick ,health should be the priority and not the physical aspect of it .So it is better if we politely tell the other person to live a healthy lifestyle other than bullying them .
Yeah natural is cruel and we're just victims of natural selection . Almost everything in life is arbitrary and is based on how much hits of dopamine you'll get through the bs day to day activities that you do .
By exercising?
Just because more boys are bullies doesn't mean that all boys have the emotional range of a teaspoon. If you have a true guy friend and you tell him about your feelings they WILL RESPECT IT. And if they don't they aren't true friends. Can you go and dump your feelings on any random girl and expect them to listen?
I think he was not trying to generalize but talking about his own experience.
And yeah for me ,i have been bullied by girls too!
Shouldn't there be an episode with dolly singh on this?
I hve been body shamed a lot sometimes by strangers sometimes by friends but most of the time by my own parents and relatives and it sucks.....Even when i try to say tht it hurts me a lot then they b like we are just kidding along with u.....we r nt making fun of u infront of other people u can't take a joke as a joke....things like these comes from them😢😢
Guys my classmates are so bad like i have healthy bmi but the thing is im curvy they tease me too much please help me ,now i cant taje ir more
After listening to tanmay....I think my bodyshaming is like nothing...I am short 5 ft...and severely underweight...so many guys told me that you are bpl...you r short...sometime some girl show their strength on me..as they knew that I am not really good at defending myself....and the most humiliating for me was...when my own friends make joke about my height and weight...I felt bad...and if I tell them to stop these...they are like its a joke...take it as a joke...I can't change my figure I want to but I can't....how can this be a joke for you...they thought I am just too serious...why don't you understand that you r breaking me inside...its mentally tormenting...but I just have to laugh...thats the only thing I can do...otherwise they will blame me
You're lazy, start working out at home, have a good diet. Anyone can change their body if they have it
I Am currently 16
Too obesed , I don't get bullied or whatsoever cause I am the tall guy (6'4)
Still my friends crack jokes on me...
If he sits on him he will die , He would need all of our tshirts as one t-shirts to wear and all that bullsh8
I don't like it , but they do
Instead of hating them and defending myself I have chosen to loose weight and show them what I am capable of , so Stop crying and hit the gym !!
Agree bro same here😢
Guys just work hard and transform actually in my case your friends and society are making you stronger on emotional espect its up to you yu have to live in that body for you whole live so guys start thinking Today .
Bro I'm seeing your workout videos, shall I start by doing 5 reps per set
thats too low,recommended rep range is between 8-12
Yes,even one rep is enough.... Just start doing
In my case I am way to skiny I have ectomorph body but I don't care now I just try to be far away from mob psychology I focus on creativity now I don't care what manufactured people say to me
Bhai op
May be it's too much when even your relatives are involved in this body shaming shit....
So true.
His life gonna so painfull after 40
teaspoon walla accha tha.
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I have been body shamed becuase of small pp in pants 😔😔😔 feels sucidal u can't do anything
That feeling when u get bodyshamed by ur spouse when you r newly married 🙂💔
leave that shit as soooon
Tanmay bhat op
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I am short.... So short 4'10 😞
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I get body shamed
Do you die? No? Or get harmed? Every fkin one gets body shamed sometime of their life but not everyone mentions it too often because they're not sympathy dogs
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now he is bullying everyone .. hypocrisy
Okay need to get your facts checked
He has made fine people like ritviz
he saw tik tokers being bullied after his live stream on tik tok. In the next stream, he addressed the issue, and asked everyone not to do that. And dedicated an entire section to appreciate tik tok.
Now, what were you saying again?
Sahi kaha
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