A lovely vlog! I also enjoy a routine. Building skills in the kitchen is awesome, keep up the good work! Thank you for sharing and your honesty! Never mind the negative folks, just be yourself and enjoy your life. I look forward to the next vlog!
@@Ben-mv9jt just break the routine regularly - go clubbing on a weeknight, volunteer at a homeless hostel, take a ten mile walk in no particular direction, visit India, just let go of rigidity a bit and actually live
I agree with your statement. Even though routines can help someone with anxiety and stress, they feel monotonous and controlled. The control/management helps our brain to process everything easier and better. However, you only live really if you heart/your emotions are touched by your life. Often, the heart and brain are too disconnected and it's very difficult to figure out how to really live. Exposing yourself to new experiences is a good way - it helps to grow and be confronted with other experiences in life. Also, therapy should be considered in order to better understand what causes the emotional stress and how to accept it and live with it. It takes time! (you can also use meditation techniques/self-acceptance breaks to loosen up a bit).
@@mister_beee I like self-development/self-discipline/productivity too, but at the same time I feel like we're all increasingly being programmed to WORK/CONSUME/SLEEP/REPEAT and seek nothing more from life. When I was young, travel & adventure were a huge thing but I guess you can do it virtually now, and also most countries look and feel homogenous now compared with 20 years ago
As far as I know, the money you spend on the videos can be business expenses against your income from ad revenue or sponsorships! #betaxefficient If no real income yet, then your business is making a loss, which still isn't a bad thing!
Learn as many new skills - Household DIY/musical instrument/READ Philosophy/Write/volunteer at hospitals/schools. Get off your phone and don't watch TV
Great to watch but the bloody music is awful and beneath the quality of you and of this programme. Just a thought. I had to turn the sound done and read the subtitles.
@@Edmund30s Dear Friend, Thank you for your response.I am a composer so I know the value of having some nice classy music to enhance one's production. Remember, you are offering something a little different with added quality. Adding some cheap music does not compliment your video at all. Following the trend of this kind of electronic noise garbage makes you like others and you don't stand out. Just a tip for you. Keep up the good work and I wish you well.
@gezbo66 this is a constructive feedback rather than your first comment with strong language without clear explanation. And I genuinely appreciate your follow-up comment as it tells me how I could possibly enhance my video quality. Could you kindly suggest/recommend me a reliable music platform for my vlogs? also, a few names of artists and their pieces for me to taste would be immensely appreciated. Then, I can gauge my own yardstick to choose music - thanks again and please leave comment on how to improve quality of my video anytime!
@@Edmund30s thanks for your reply. Yes your right about my first comment it was a bit rude and I apologize. Just wrote it without thinking. Too sensitive to music so I always react harshly when it rubs me up the wrong way. Let me get back to you with suggestions. I am busy this eve but will think about something to help you . 👍
For me, I don't want to set relationship itself as a goal. When I chase after relationship itself, the result was not as pleasant as I expected. If I value myself, I believe that right person will come at right timing - I have a firm belief in law of attraction:)
A lovely vlog! I also enjoy a routine. Building skills in the kitchen is awesome, keep up the good work! Thank you for sharing and your honesty! Never mind the negative folks, just be yourself and enjoy your life. I look forward to the next vlog!
Hello, Cynthia?:) thanks for encouraging me to be myself🥰 I can’t agree more with you!! Hope to see you again in my vlog🤗
My advice - don’t let ten years slip by like this (like I did) - easy to do and sometimes you gotta disrupt the pattern
How do you stop this from happening?
@@Ben-mv9jt just break the routine regularly - go clubbing on a weeknight, volunteer at a homeless hostel, take a ten mile walk in no particular direction, visit India, just let go of rigidity a bit and actually live
Thanks for sharing your valuable experience, @CrocPit! I will give a shot:)
I agree with your statement. Even though routines can help someone with anxiety and stress, they feel monotonous and controlled. The control/management helps our brain to process everything easier and better. However, you only live really if you heart/your emotions are touched by your life. Often, the heart and brain are too disconnected and it's very difficult to figure out how to really live. Exposing yourself to new experiences is a good way - it helps to grow and be confronted with other experiences in life. Also, therapy should be considered in order to better understand what causes the emotional stress and how to accept it and live with it. It takes time! (you can also use meditation techniques/self-acceptance breaks to loosen up a bit).
@@mister_beee I like self-development/self-discipline/productivity too, but at the same time I feel like we're all increasingly being programmed to WORK/CONSUME/SLEEP/REPEAT and seek nothing more from life. When I was young, travel & adventure were a huge thing but I guess you can do it virtually now, and also most countries look and feel homogenous now compared with 20 years ago
I fairly enjoyed myself watching this little snippet of your life! :) Keep up the good work!
Thanks a lot. Hope that you enjoyed my video:)
What iPhone are you using in this video? Looks like an iPhone SE from 2016?
It is SE 2nd generation (yes, so most likely from 2016)
How much do you pay for a room in central london?
patrick bateman vibes
Thanks for watching my video - I hope that it is a compliment🙈😊
Depends, how many crunches can you do?
@@Edmund30slol your meticulous routine reminds him of Patrick Bateman from American psycho. You should watch/read it
@@rse3560 Now I see. Thanks for making me understood:)
@@rse3560 Now I see! thanks for making me understood:)
This depressed me
Please tell me more why
@@Edmund30s just seems like a life of solitude and monotony.
As far as I know, the money you spend on the videos can be business expenses against your income from ad revenue or sponsorships! #betaxefficient If no real income yet, then your business is making a loss, which still isn't a bad thing!
Learn as many new skills - Household DIY/musical instrument/READ Philosophy/Write/volunteer at hospitals/schools. Get off your phone and don't watch TV
Great to watch but the bloody music is awful and beneath the quality of you and of this programme. Just a thought. I had to turn the sound done and read the subtitles.
Thanks for providing feedback - well noted;)
@@Edmund30s Dear Friend, Thank you for your response.I am a composer so I know the value of having some nice classy music to enhance one's production. Remember, you are offering something a little different with added quality. Adding some cheap music does not compliment your video at all. Following the trend of this kind of electronic noise garbage makes you like others and you don't stand out. Just a tip for you. Keep up the good work and I wish you well.
@gezbo66 this is a constructive feedback rather than your first comment with strong language without clear explanation. And I genuinely appreciate your follow-up comment as it tells me how I could possibly enhance my video quality. Could you kindly suggest/recommend me a reliable music platform for my vlogs? also, a few names of artists and their pieces for me to taste would be immensely appreciated. Then, I can gauge my own yardstick to choose music - thanks again and please leave comment on how to improve quality of my video anytime!
@@Edmund30s thanks for your reply. Yes your right about my first comment it was a bit rude and I apologize. Just wrote it without thinking. Too sensitive to music so I always react harshly when it rubs me up the wrong way. Let me get back to you with suggestions. I am busy this eve but will think about something to help you . 👍
Thanks:) keen to hear from you
You need a relationship lad
For me, I don't want to set relationship itself as a goal. When I chase after relationship itself, the result was not as pleasant as I expected. If I value myself, I believe that right person will come at right timing - I have a firm belief in law of attraction:)
Look at this geez trying to tell me how to be better.