Avoid a bar girl at all cost And also the single mother from ESAN You not just married her alone. You actually married her entire family and relatives. 😢
@@ThaiThoughts You have Excellent Editing and Video Producing Skills and that's a Gift in it's self. Alot of RUclipsrs Don't have that skill or are struggling at learning it and you are doing an excellent job at it. You will easily make it to 50,000 subscribers in no time in the Future. Keep up the Great Work in providing us Men Tons of Great information and a Heads up on Thailand Dating and the Everyday LIVE Boots on the Ground Thai Culture 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾
going on a two week bender and spending spree is thinking with the wrong head. for whatever reason, these guys fall in love but the women are in business!
Makes me appreciate my Thai girlfriend. She is a nurse and never asks me for money. I do help her out with 3000 baht per month towards her student loan payments. When I am in Thailand I help with her living expenses. Forget bar girls, find yourself a shop assistant or a nurse,they are honest and hard working.
@@gundam0816yea mines a mechanical engineer and i aint goin she was offered to come to america we work together and save up and move to thailand - i help every now and then bout $100 every blue moon but i aint doin nutn every month she gotta come help me build i aint dishin out no chiccen she got her a real one but i aint triccin at all - im doin good but she gotta help elevate i be giving it to her real straight forward we work together or dont work at all
You have so many talents,Palm. Did you ever think of becoming a private detective,the 'side chick detective',write a novel and make it into a funny sitcom or TV series -comedy series😅
A Thai bar girl I know just broke up with her Taiwanese husband after he had invested over 1 million baht in her. They had a village wedding less than a year ago after only knowing each other for a few weeks. I considered warning him that he was being scammed but I couldn't do it. Some men can be blinded by love and I didn't know him. I'm sure he is suffering deeply from betrayal now. At least the Korean man can recover some of his money.
Really wild story. I was advised a while ago (when looking into expat life in Philippines) to think of your money as a nest. Make a nest to attract the beautiful bird. Small gestures such as paying for dinners or the occasional small gifts are, of course, fine, but no large expenditures directly to her. Even if not a scam, this is psychologically driving her away (to independence and a loss of respect for you) whereas trips together, a residence together, a vehicle together, etc., these are all pulling her into you. It improves her face to be with you while you are simultaneously worth more alive than dead. Romantic love is a poison for men. Do not do it. Women never think this way. At their genetic core they are hypergamous as trained through the eons.
I appreciate the video, but how is a bar girl gonna pay back 10 million baht? She obviously spent all the money. Waste of time. He will just spend more money on the lawyer. Better to just move on.
Thanks for sharing 🙏 The police can still trace where the money was transferred. Often, money is used to buy assets like land or cars, or sent to relatives. If they can track those transactions, they be able to seize the property, and anyone who received money from her could be required to pay it back. So, while it might not be the full amount, there's still a chance to get some of it back.
I learned it the hard way like him. So sad that these girls prey on whose are in love genuinely, and exploit that weakness to the bitter end. For me, It happened a few years ago (2018). It definitively destroyed any future possible relationships with women. I've never reported it to the police (so ashamed) but it's simmering and she'll get retribution for that one day, just don't know how yet.
I’m sorry you had to go through that. It’s tough when genuine feelings are taken advantage of. Don’t be hard on yourself, healing takes time. I hope you find peace moving forward.
Palm, I like what you do with your channel. And I think you're a good-hearted honest person, and this video is one of many attempts to share your culture and help people. Of course, this subject matter on RUclips has been done before... lots. But I wonder what kind of effect they have on Thailand as a whole. Yes, most of us know that only a very small percentage of Thai women are out to scam foreigners. But nonetheless, the stereotypes spread. Maybe not on this video yet, but it's not too hard to find comments on RUclips talking about how Thailand is a bad place because of bar girls scamming guys. But what no one ever asks in these videos or in the comments in how did the guy who got scammed get his money. Everyone just assumes that the guy made his money in an ethical way. Unfortunately, there's very little ethical production under capitalism. While they would likely need to be done in Thai, I don't know of any videos geared towards Thai ladies looking to marry foreigners warning Thai women to investigate how a potential husband makes his money, so that they don't end up marrying a Brian Thompson. I'm seriously thinking about making such a video myself once my Thai improves.
Yes, a prostitute (bar girl or freelancer) is much more likely to be a scammer than lets say a college girl or office lady. That being said however the vast majority of bar girls are not scammers. Furthermore, you are ten times more likely to be targeted by scammers in online dating sites than you would be hanging out in a bar in Thailand. But of course. scams aside, there are a still a whole boatload of reasons why you should probably avoid getting romantically involved with a prostitute. Not that its entirely impossible to have a good relationship with one. In fact, I know of at least two very nice bar girls who ended up married to very nice young American guys. Still, why on earth would you not just go out with normal Thai women with normal jobs? As for romance scams you either have a psychological make-up which renders you susceptible to these kinds of scams or you do not. And if you are one of these susceptible types you are going to let yourself get scammed no matter how much people try to educate you to the dangers ahead of time. On the other hand, if you are not one of these types you are going to see the scam coming from a mile away even if you had no prior knowledge of these scams and even if you feel you are falling in love with the girl. Basically, what I’m saying is that getting scammed rarely ever has anything to do with one's lack of knowledge concerning scams and it has everything to do with one's psychological makeup.
I don't feel sorry for them at all. They think with their lower anatomy rather than their brains. These people do what they won't do back in their home country!
That's great that the authorities will hold these females accountable...however, wouldn't it help if the police knew the full legal name of the scammer and the physical address of where they live? Now a days, scammers use a lot of techniques to conceal their true identities...
😂 Someone needs to invent an anti-stupidity vaccine and make it compulsory for vaccinations. Even though If he is innocent enough to believe everything she says but always listens to mum, who says to keep away from people with bad luck because their negative energy will spread,…
Dear Ling noi, thank you for the lesson, and the laughter. Usually, you save a lot of money if your wife or relatives die early. This is the counter example. 😮 Btw, this is international, not restricted to Thailand. Bitter conclusion: If you love of the universe begins to tell these stories it's a clear advice to say goodbye. The earlier the better. Have a nice weekend and see you soon online. Santa the K
Thanks for the thoughts! It’s true, this kind of situation can happen anywhere, not just in Thailand. Definitely a tough lesson, but hopefully, it helps others avoid similar pitfalls. Have a great weekend too 😊🙏
@@klzi7109 No bother at all. I checked, and I haven’t received any Super Thanks. If there’s an issue, maybe try reaching out to RUclips support to see if there was an issue? Let me know if you need help. Thank you so much for thinking of supporting me, though! 🙏😊
Strange. Got 3 emails with buy and payment confirmation. There's a display in the comments of super thanks of another supporter. Maybe, they censored my wicked comment? Sorry for your inconvenience @@ThaiThoughts
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It's always the man's fault. If a man is not able to protect his heart and wallet, he needs to learn it the hard way. Sounds harsh? Maybe, but I have no symphaty for simps.
It might be a bit costly, but once he reports to the police and they gather enough evidence, they can track the money and take action. If everything checks out, she could definitely face legal consequences.
My ex ,😂 has a good business and has a good income, One day, ask me for 170 000bath ,of course she had good excuses to ask,3 weeks later start arguing with me, than she block all contacts with me😂 My first thai girl, we meet in italy, we start live together in italy in my house , after 17 months I pick up her phone ,and there was calling her Italian husband, about who I didn't have idea 😂 My suggestion, pay one time ,and go away ,thai girl have different mentality, They don't have problems to lied. And "freelance"ing ,is normal for them even they have normal jub !!!
“Met her in a bar”
Ok, nothing more to see here 😂
Thanks
Thank you so much for the Super Thanks! 😊
Avoid a bar girl at all cost
And also the single mother from ESAN
You not just married her alone. You actually married her entire family and relatives. 😢
Very Good Video. Keep up the Great Work Homegirl 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾
Thank you! I really appreciate your support. I’ll definitely keep up the good work! 😊
@@ThaiThoughts You have Excellent Editing and Video Producing Skills and that's a Gift in it's self. Alot of RUclipsrs Don't have that skill or are struggling at learning it and you are doing an excellent job at it. You will easily make it to 50,000 subscribers in no time in the Future. Keep up the Great Work in providing us Men Tons of Great information and a Heads up on Thailand Dating and the Everyday LIVE Boots on the Ground Thai Culture 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾
I enjoyed this video, and look forward to the next
Thank you! I’m glad you enjoyed the video 😊
Classic example of "Thinking with the wrong head!" 🤯
going on a two week bender and spending spree is thinking with the wrong head. for whatever reason, these guys fall in love but the women are in business!
Great vid again. I’m very impressed with your english understanding.
Thank you! I'm glad you enjoyed the video and appreciate the compliment on my English!
Makes me appreciate my Thai girlfriend. She is a nurse and never asks me for money. I do help her out with 3000 baht per month towards her student loan payments. When I am in Thailand I help with her living expenses. Forget bar girls, find yourself a shop assistant or a nurse,they are honest and hard working.
That’s great to hear! Sounds like you’ve got a solid relationship, wishing you both the best!
Lol, listen to youself. You paying off her expenses just like the dude in the video...
@@gundam0816😂
There is a difference between helping out with 100$ a month and 280000 US$ dollars. I guess u too d@mb to see the difference @@gundam0816
@@gundam0816yea mines a mechanical engineer and i aint goin she was offered to come to america we work together and save up and move to thailand - i help every now and then bout $100 every blue moon but i aint doin nutn every month she gotta come help me build i aint dishin out no chiccen she got her a real one but i aint triccin at all - im doin good but she gotta help elevate i be giving it to her real straight forward we work together or dont work at all
Hi Palm thanks for your content ❤have a great day 🇨🇦
Thank you! Wishing you a wonderful day as well! 🇨🇦😊
OMG this story is really shocking Na !!! .... Getting scam from bar girl !!!
Great subject, when dealing with freelancers or bar girls anywhere in the world it must be a business transaction and nothing more.
You're absolutely right. 👍
100% so.
The only thing missing from this story is the sick water buffalo.😂😮
That would definitely add another twist to the story! 😅
There was a famous entertainer in the USA back in the day...and the saying was. "There's a sucker born every day".
Sadly, it often feels true, especially in situations like these. Some people just don’t see the red flags until it’s too late.
You have so many talents,Palm.
Did you ever think of becoming a private detective,the 'side chick detective',write a novel and make it into a funny sitcom or TV series -comedy series😅
Wow!.....Just W O W!!! Thanks Palm🙏
You're very welcome! 😄 I'm glad you enjoyed it!
A Thai bar girl I know just broke up with her Taiwanese husband after he had invested over 1 million baht in her. They had a village wedding less than a year ago after only knowing each other for a few weeks. I considered warning him that he was being scammed but I couldn't do it. Some men can be blinded by love and I didn't know him. I'm sure he is suffering deeply from betrayal now. At least the Korean man can recover some of his money.
That's a sad situation. Love can blind people, and it’s hard to intervene, especially if you don’t know the person. Thanks for sharing 🙏
Point of correction. He didn't invest 1M THB on her. He WASTED 1M THB on her. He wasn't in love. He was deluded and foolish.
He wouldn't have listened even if you did warn him.
No greater spell than the charm of a beautiful woman
Really wild story.
I was advised a while ago (when looking into expat life in Philippines) to think of your money as a nest. Make a nest to attract the beautiful bird. Small gestures such as paying for dinners or the occasional small gifts are, of course, fine, but no large expenditures directly to her. Even if not a scam, this is psychologically driving her away (to independence and a loss of respect for you) whereas trips together, a residence together, a vehicle together, etc., these are all pulling her into you. It improves her face to be with you while you are simultaneously worth more alive than dead.
Romantic love is a poison for men. Do not do it. Women never think this way. At their genetic core they are hypergamous as trained through the eons.
correct
Good video
I appreciate the video, but how is a bar girl gonna pay back 10 million baht? She obviously spent all the money. Waste of time. He will just spend more money on the lawyer. Better to just move on.
Thanks for sharing 🙏 The police can still trace where the money was transferred. Often, money is used to buy assets like land or cars, or sent to relatives. If they can track those transactions, they be able to seize the property, and anyone who received money from her could be required to pay it back. So, while it might not be the full amount, there's still a chance to get some of it back.
Her husband prob bought a Ford Ranger with money and built a house in Isaan.
I learned it the hard way like him. So sad that these girls prey on whose are in love genuinely, and exploit that weakness to the bitter end. For me, It happened a few years ago (2018). It definitively destroyed any future possible relationships with women. I've never reported it to the police (so ashamed) but it's simmering and she'll get retribution for that one day, just don't know how yet.
I’m sorry you had to go through that. It’s tough when genuine feelings are taken advantage of. Don’t be hard on yourself, healing takes time. I hope you find peace moving forward.
Palm, I like what you do with your channel. And I think you're a good-hearted honest person, and this video is one of many attempts to share your culture and help people.
Of course, this subject matter on RUclips has been done before... lots.
But I wonder what kind of effect they have on Thailand as a whole. Yes, most of us know that only a very small percentage of Thai women are out to scam foreigners. But nonetheless, the stereotypes spread. Maybe not on this video yet, but it's not too hard to find comments on RUclips talking about how Thailand is a bad place because of bar girls scamming guys.
But what no one ever asks in these videos or in the comments in how did the guy who got scammed get his money.
Everyone just assumes that the guy made his money in an ethical way. Unfortunately, there's very little ethical production under capitalism.
While they would likely need to be done in Thai, I don't know of any videos geared towards Thai ladies looking to marry foreigners warning Thai women to investigate how a potential husband makes his money, so that they don't end up marrying a Brian Thompson. I'm seriously thinking about making such a video myself once my Thai improves.
I told girls my country cut off international money transfers 😂😂
I do the same.i have strict rule.no transfer money only meet and give money. Eventually mostly run away
First of all he met her in a bar! That's a nono!
Agreed 👍
Yes, a prostitute (bar girl or freelancer) is much more likely to be a scammer than lets say a college girl or office lady. That being said however the vast majority of bar girls are not scammers. Furthermore, you are ten times more likely to be targeted by scammers in online dating sites than you would be hanging out in a bar in Thailand. But of course. scams aside, there are a still a whole boatload of reasons why you should probably avoid getting romantically involved with a prostitute. Not that its entirely impossible to have a good relationship with one. In fact, I know of at least two very nice bar girls who ended up married to very nice young American guys. Still, why on earth would you not just go out with normal Thai women with normal jobs?
As for romance scams you either have a psychological make-up which renders you susceptible to these kinds of scams or you do not. And if you are one of these susceptible types you are going to let yourself get scammed no matter how much people try to educate you to the dangers ahead of time. On the other hand, if you are not one of these types you are going to see the scam coming from a mile away even if you had no prior knowledge of these scams and even if you feel you are falling in love with the girl. Basically, what I’m saying is that getting scammed rarely ever has anything to do with one's lack of knowledge concerning scams and it has everything to do with one's psychological makeup.
I feel sorry for Everyone, who gets screwed, because they really love Someone !.
Yeah, when people genuinely love someone, it’s hard to see the red flags.
I don't feel sorry for them at all. They think with their lower anatomy rather than their brains. These people do what they won't do back in their home country!
No symphaty for simps.
Very informative and wake up video, keep it up home girl
Thank you! I’m glad you found it informative. 😊
Long game. Farang ATM. Remember, it's just your turn. Use 1 day rule . Or else
Police will do very little she pay the police first
That's great that the authorities will hold these females accountable...however, wouldn't it help if the police knew the full legal name of the scammer and the physical address of where they live?
Now a days, scammers use a lot of techniques to conceal their true identities...
😂 Someone needs to invent an anti-stupidity vaccine and make it compulsory for vaccinations. Even though If he is innocent enough to believe everything she says but always listens to mum, who says to keep away from people with bad luck because their negative energy will spread,…
That would definitely save a lot of trouble!
Dear Ling noi, thank you for the lesson, and the laughter. Usually, you save a lot of money if your wife or relatives die early. This is the counter example. 😮 Btw, this is international, not restricted to Thailand. Bitter conclusion: If you love of the universe begins to tell these stories it's a clear advice to say goodbye. The earlier the better. Have a nice weekend and see you soon online. Santa the K
Thanks for the thoughts! It’s true, this kind of situation can happen anywhere, not just in Thailand. Definitely a tough lesson, but hopefully, it helps others avoid similar pitfalls. Have a great weekend too 😊🙏
Sorry to bother you but it seems my super thanks got lost. Haven't you received anything? No display 😢
@@klzi7109 No bother at all. I checked, and I haven’t received any Super Thanks. If there’s an issue, maybe try reaching out to RUclips support to see if there was an issue? Let me know if you need help. Thank you so much for thinking of supporting me, though! 🙏😊
Strange. Got 3 emails with buy and payment confirmation. There's a display in the comments of super thanks of another supporter. Maybe, they censored my wicked comment? Sorry for your inconvenience @@ThaiThoughts
@@klzi7109 That’s strange! I checked, and it doesn't seem to be censored either. It might be best to contact RUclips support to figure out what happened. Thanks for your patience, and I appreciate your support! 🙏😊
Sawasdee khrap Palm 🙏 you tell a story the same was as kon ang grit. When we tell a sad story we always laugh and joke about while telling it too 😂😂😂
Thank you 🙏 I think adding some humor helps make tough stories easier to tell and connect with others. Glad you enjoyed it! 😊
@ completely agree 🙏😂
Crazy story.
They crooks never give
I like these stories so much :) i noticed it never happens with russian guys :)
It's always the man's fault.
If a man is not able to protect his heart and wallet, he needs to learn it the hard way. Sounds harsh? Maybe, but I have no symphaty for simps.
Can't these guys just hire private investigators?
It might be a bit costly, but once he reports to the police and they gather enough evidence, they can track the money and take action. If everything checks out, she could definitely face legal consequences.
They are too blinded to even think of doing so. Remember, some of these people are not necessarily with things intellectually.
I blame the hearts
My ex ,😂 has a good business and has a good income,
One day, ask me for 170 000bath ,of course she had good excuses to ask,3 weeks later start arguing with me, than she block all contacts with me😂
My first thai girl, we meet in italy, we start live together in italy in my house , after 17 months I pick up her phone ,and there was calling her Italian husband, about who I didn't have idea 😂
My suggestion, pay one time ,and go away ,thai girl have different mentality,
They don't have problems to lied.
And "freelance"ing ,is normal for them even they have normal jub !!!
Sounds like you're choosing the wrong women, my guy.
I need his number , he seems like a nice person 😅. Jk
How old was the foreigner? she was 25 and he was 90!
From what I saw, he looks about 35-45 years old.
Stupidity and gullibility isn't always about age.
I hope he gets his money back
🙏
@@ThaiThoughts 🙏
Very unlikely.
The dumbest story I ever heard. It certainly is fake.
he deserves it to be scammed if he was so stupid enough.
He should have said that he would only pay if she 'died' at least 3 times or get his own doctor to examine her.😅
Silly man.
I want to get scammed by a Thai woman.
Please help...
That won't be difficult to arrange. A Lady boy will do that for you readily.