Pregnancy Sex, Pooping While Pushing, & More // Juicy Pregnancy Q&A
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- Опубликовано: 3 июн 2021
- I promise not all of these questions are about sex 😂 I tried to pick a good mix of everything and today I'm answering all the hot questions you all are dying to know.
*all answers are based off my own experience and everyone is different!*
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#thetruthaboutpregnancy
you’re so pretty delilah
she truly is!
I will whole heartedly agree with that :)
After going through recurrent miscarriages and dealing with infertility I really appreciate your mindfulness around these topics. Love how honest, open and caring you are when it comes to these topics. Thank you ❤️
Mmm not sure I agree that pregnant women need to not complain about that they are going through whether it be pain, happiness or emotional exhaustion. Women need to remember that they are entitled to feel what they are feeling no matter what someone else is going through. People are so hyper sensitive about what they are going through that it’s projected onto other women. Feel your feelings and feel what you are going through, it’s okay! just know that someone else’s situation is their own. People/women need to recognize that.
Amen👏
Wow written so well!
This!! We didn't actually choose to be the sex that carries children, so it's not really fair to say that just because we chose to have children we shouldn't express pain and trauma around pregnancy. Men don't have to make that choice to have kids. We can simultaneously be glad for the chance to make our own reproductive choices and experience pregnancy and also have complex feelings around it. Of course be sensitive when you don't know someone else's history around pregnancy, but it's upsetting to feel like gratitude is the tax we pay on the basic right to freely choose to be pregnant.
Louder Sister, Louder facts only, thank you
Well said!!!
i'm 17 and far away from being a mom but your videos are just so addictive:) i love learning about motherhood and pregnancy and see the reality of it
Samee
Same
Had my first at 19 we were married at 18 might not be too far off 😏😉
@@Craftsandcats1 well i cant wait to be a mom, but i personally want to wait until after 25 or something, i'd like to study medicine and a baby is hard work:)
@@ralusa6970 yes hun... take your time! Enjoy your young adult life & enjoy the alone time your partner before bringing a baby into it! I promise you won't regret it.
I met my husband at 17. We married at 21 & 22 years old. We're now 25 & 26 years old. We've already bought our first house & we've been financially good for a few years now... but we just started trying to conceive this year 😊 Still no luck... so throw me some baby dust! 👶🥰
But let me tell you.... its SO much more exciting when you're mentally ready for a baby. Even though we've been extremely careful at preventing pregnancy in the past... I still always imagined I'd accidentally get pregnant & that terrified me tbh... I've always dreamed of happily planning our baby & dreamed of telling our family & them be over the moon happy... not worried & mad. Now that I'm at this point in my life... it's SO SO exciting & SO worth the wait ❤
I've never seen you so open and sincere, you seem so happy and light. I am very happy for you and everything you are conquering. it's really fun to see you like this.
My toddler ran over as soon as he heard your voice! (I think he has a crush on eloise♡)
Skin tags form in any areas of increased skin friction. In a lot of people the armpits, groin, around the necks from shirts constantly rubbing, etc. Luckily if you remove them before they get bigger they stay away. A nuisance but it happens ☺️.
Love your videos! Excited to see your new little one soon
You are so inspiring, I'm twenty now and I can't get over how you've achieved so much and your only four years older than me! God has really blessed you with such strength☺️
@@AliceRoche-ii2ke she got married, has a career, a beautiful house, AND kids
@@AliceRoche-ii2ke I think it is an achievement to have a happy marriage regardless of age, that takes alot of work. But besides that she has a house and a career at only 24! She is also financially stable with soon to be three healthy babies, these are achievements. Most people don't have all of this untill they are in their mid thirtys.
@@AliceRoche-ii2keif you think you can do better by the age of 24 by all means go right ahead 😘
@@AliceRoche-ii2keme too
Achieved what? Finished high school, got married, started having babies. Not really an achievement. No education, no traveling, no career. YouTubing is not sustainable in the long run- you need to keep producing sellable content, which means your life is driven by it- keep moving houses, keep having babies. You aren’t really living your life. Think about it.
We've been diagnosed with secondly infertility & your videos are what's keeping me peaceful. I am so excited to see your third babe & what new adventures are to come 💛
Thank you for the video! Also I just want to say I love how this was shot… your face is crystal clear and the background being blurred out makes it easier to focus on you and what you’re saying 😌
Thank you for being so open! I'm currently 33 weeks pregnant and dealing with a lot of the same things!
Love you and your content! 💕
Thank you so much for sharing your experience with us. I love hearing positive moms talk about pregnancy and motherhood. 💖
I appreciate you and your channel a lot! You’re very inspiring and watching your vlogs while my baby naps just calms me down! 🙂
I sooooo wish someone had told me things like this before giving birth! Love your content. 🥰
I'm literally watching this video on a Saturday afternoon after waking up from a nap while my 18 month old is also napping (and I hear my husband snoring in his chair in the livingroom). I don't know how you get through your day without naps in those first few months 😭 I still enjoy them
On the topic of body hair, making my own sugar paste at home made things so much simpler and easier. There are good recipes on youtube to follow. You only need one cup of sugar, 2tbsp of lemon juice, 4 tbsp of water and a tsp of salt. It's quick to make, easy to use once you get used to it, it is more painful than shaving, but the hairs seem to grow back less and less with time, and overall you need to do it way less times. No itching at all... ingrown hair can happen, but I feel like it happens less so than after shaving. It is pretty much free, all natural ingredients, dissolves in water... I even did it in late pregnancy. I love it so much and had to share. Affordable, natural, efficient, lasts longer, and reduces hair growth.
This is great, Delilah. 🌼 Thank you for being open with us. 🌼
Totally with you on smell sensitivity during pregnancy. I noticed it's been much worse with this second pregnancy and it's definitely affected kissing :( Hopefully it gets better in the third trimester or after birth
Thank you for being so honest with us. I am in 11 weeks and wishing more open statements like yours ❤
Really loved the questions you picked and your answers to them... your peaceful energy is inspiring to pregnant ladies like me :-)
Hey! You’ve been in my prayers. Hope you are doing well💕
Totally having the congestion issue. I snore so bad I get headaches. I found using the breath right strips when I sleep make a world of difference.
I would be interested about the topic "friendships as an aduld and introvert. :) :) "
you’re name is so pretty!
@@hannahsofia4828 this is a fake name for youtube. Actually i have a prettier name . Hannah. Like you
You have such a calming voice. I love listening to you!
I'm always so excited to see new video from you 🙂 you're the Best youtuber and such an inspiration! Greetings from Slovakia 💓
You are so genuine and intelligent! Love your videos. They are so positive and interesting! Have an amazing day ✨✨
This was great!!! So excited for you ❤️❤️
Thanks for answering these questions it gives me a lot of peace of mind 💕 Also, just wanted to say that while my pregnancy was 100% planned and I am excited about having my baby, I DO NOT like being pregnant! It has been very hard on my physical and mental health. I dont want to go through it again for another baby though of course I dont regret the baby I have right now. I think it's ok to say pregnancy is difficult and totally unpleasant for some people because it certainly can be!
I just wanted to thank you Delilah, your videos leading up to the birth of my son have really helped me except what childbirth is. I was very fearful and it was even my number one fear to have child. But because of the way that you normalize things it’s no longer fear of mine. I just had a Theodore of my own, my husband and I have decided the name before we found out that your son was Theodore as well. I just wanted to say thank you.
You're amazing, I love watching your videos, & you're such an inspiration to women!
Keeping hair down there during pregnancy is super beneficial to mum and bubs and shaving disrupts the microbiome/germs that are good for bubs via vaginal delivery
Your honest and sweet! Congratulations to yall, and hope you have a wonderful labor a delivery of baby #3.
I'm not far behind you on baby #2, at 31 weeks. Here we go!
And hit nail on the head with what you were talking about with pregnancy. There are really hard parts, its all beautiful and a blessing, but sometimes hardships even with it. And some women have very very hard pregnancies and deliveries. It happens. And women who struggle with infertility and child loss are loved and respected. That is a mountain some folks have to face and its a very hard climb. And on both side folks need to be loving and compassionate towards one another.
Can’t wait for the baby to be here i think it’s a girl. :)💗 Praying for the rest of the pregnancy & delivery to go smoothly.
Yes!!! 🙌🏻 The congestion was one of the most annoying symptoms. My husband had to wear earplugs because of the snoring, and I hate breathing through my mouth when I sleep. I'm 9 days postpartum now though, and I think that's all back to normal now. 💤
Can't wait to watch! I've been off of Instagram for the last 9 months (since my son was born) but had to create an account just to stay updated on baby #3 🤦♀️😂) I love your content and am totally inspired by you as a mother and creator!
I love being pregnant!!! I miss it. But I’m not sure I want anymore. So hard to make that decision!
Ah, "sleep when the baby sleeps" drove me nuts!! It's actually listed as "the worst advice I received" in my daughter's baby journal!
I never could sleep when my kids were sleeping either...🤦🏻♀️
I disagree. I think sleep when the baby sleeps is helpful and doable if you're a first time SAHM. It helped me recognize just how much sleep I actually as a first time mom, and that I NEEDED naps in the first 3 months of the baby's life. Honestly though, sleeping when the baby sleeps in general is not very practical for those with multiple kids unless u have a sitter/nanny. Also preparing food ahead of time allows for you to eat when the baby is eating, and you can have people bring food to you.
@@sketchergirl7 it's only doable if your specific biology allows it. mine and many others' doesn't. 🤷
@@haldouglas4773 Or if you have a healthy baby that actually sleeps longer then 10 minutes at a time.
@@sketchergirl7 yes I just commented this I needed to nap at least once a day not all day not every day but getting a nap in where you can when you are a solo parent especially if you don’t have night help us very important
Yes! Thank you about not napping! I can't do that either. When baby sleeps is when I work on my online business/spend time with the other kids, too! I just go to bed WAY early in the evening and call that good 😅
Tips for hair removal: Modest Brazilian Wax! Little to no itching in between treatments and lasts about 4 weeks. So worth it - especially when pregnant!
YESSS about the "sleep when the baby sleeps" comment. I love the suggestion, it's great if you can, but I have trouble napping. It does sometimes get annoying. I'm glad I'm not the only one!! 😅
"feeling like I should be".... I feel this!!
This video and your other pregnancy related ones are coming at a great time for me. Me and my partner are in that life stage where things about children and such are being discussed far more intently than ever because they are such a REAL thing that could happen if ew wanted it to. It's nice to have someone who talks about pregnancy in a raw way that doesn't hide how hard it can actually be!
Keep doing what you're doing; you're doing it so so well!
Omg I'm so glad to hear of someone else who cant nap, I'm so sick of people telling me to nap, I cant nap I barely sleep at night, I didnt even in first trimester 😅😂😭
Same here! My FIL called the house one day and my husband was napping, but I was up doing nesting things and my FIL was like you're the pregnant one, why aren't you napping? I was like ...? I don't nap!
Commenting as early as possible sending all my love your way ❤❤
Loved this! You're doing amazing gal
I am 19 years old.... no where near being pregnant or having a family but I will always watch a Delilah video! Love you girl 🌈🌈❤️🧚🏻
16 weeks today with #2 sooooooo excited for your baby to be born and know weather it’s a boy or girl
God Bless your growing family! It’s crazy to know that God loves our children more than we do. Like how much higher and pure are his ways than ours- wow .
Knowing that is so motivating and freeing simultaneously as parents.
Even the kids that are trafficked?
💕always love a new video from Delilah 💕
Super interesting, I have a mild deviated septum and use Breathe right at night and nose spray during the day. It seems to help.
Speaking of weird pregnancy symptoms my eye has started twitching (19 weeks) the second it started I thought about you haha
Wow I definitely didn’t shave once I got super pregnant! I highly recommend it lol
Same! I let what's naturally supposed to be there just be! lol
Hi!! Yay answers! Enjoy hearing your perspective. I didn’t see the link about the baby names you and Zach watched? 🙂
You are amazing! So thoughtful and kind.
Am two months pregnant this is my first video I watched.already like you. You are natural.
I've never heard your Canadian accent as much as when you said skin taaags! Haha, I love it
And figure! Oh and produce in another video I watched! I love it too hahah
It’s definitely more of a west Canadian accent because here in Ontario we don’t say it like that
I’ve been told we pronounce it the same way here in Ontario as well! My American family however says it completely different
Yay!!!! New video!
skin tags during pregnancy - when my mom was pregnant with me, she suddenly got a tiny mole on her bottom eye waterline LMAO and i have a matching one!!
Me not even being pregnant nor ever being pregnant still super interested in this video 😂
I was adopted by a woman who couldn't have children (she's an absolutely amazing mom, 12/10), and I'm getting ready for a family planning appointment tomorrow. My husband and I are both nervous.
My mom's told me to just be honest with how I feel, physically and emotionally. She's absolutely been my rock during all of this, and my husband and I are grateful for her experience with kids and as a nurse. She learned about pregnancy from her mom, who was called home by God some years ago, and she's been passing that knowledge on to me.
Kissing not being fun because of smells! YES! Not necessarily that they have bad breath but you’re just extra sensitive to their smell! I feel that
I also got a skin tag there! And it’s sooooo itchy!
Thank you for this video! Where is your outfit from? I need it 🥰
Yessss the kissing thing! I see my partner around two days a week but sometimes I can’t kiss him, because of the smell. It’s so confusing because I want to kiss him but when he’s close I really don’t want to kiss him anymore. It was worst in the first trimester, especially if he had had a beer somewhere in the last hours (could’ve been the evening before even). So relatable, thanks for sharing.
the sweatsuit is a great color on you🧡
The most annoying thing with a newborn was not being able to complain how tired I was. Because everybody said "if you tired, sleep when the baby sleeps". And I couldnt. I am not a nap person!!! So I felt guilty to complain about it. Its good to know I am not the only one!
I didn't poop. I peed while pushing! The nurse had emptied my bladder but didn't get it all. When I was asked to push I peed all over the doctors arm!
When you do Q & A, would you please do time stamps, so we can skip to the Q's we want to know?
Thanks for your video!!!
I have mixed feelings being pregnant. The first trimester was so incredibly hard, I described it to my husband as a miserable existence 😂 Now I'm 21 weeks I'm feeling much more myself and enjoying feeling the baby move and kick. It feels magical.
I had the exact same thing. I had 2 vaginal births before and it was wonderful. So, about 3 weeks before my due date I woke up to a blood covered bed. As my son was coming down, the placenta broke. They rushed me for a C section. I was given a ultra sound every week. My doc was watching closely but it didn't make any difference. My son was born healthy 6lbs 9ozs.
I have gotten so many skin tags in both my pregnancies!! It’s so weird. And usually always in my arm pits too
Low key wanted to punch everyone who told me to “sleep when the baby sleeps” 😅😆
Literally everyone at my baby shower
😂 yes
My first was special needs and never slept longer then 5 to 10 mins at a time and people still quoted this to me.
Honestly I’m the only caretaker of baby husband never helped (when he was here) I needed to nap with baby just once a day if I could squeeze it in I desperately needed it
I prefer "eat when the baby eats" 😂
I hated all my pregnancies but I'm still grateful that my body was able to grow my beautiful girls. Also, my first pregnancy ended in miscarriage which added additional anxiety to my full term pregnancies.
I had an episiotomy and my first poop was ok. I guess my body felt the pain could not be any worse than labour or the cut or the stiches.
You look amazing, and so does the house 😍
Skin tags! I have two right in the exact spot! Never heard anything about this and was weirded out. Also have like two tiny ones on my eye lid 😂😂 I keep trying to rip the ones on my armpits off but it's painful 😂
Always love your videos! Hopeful we will be pregnant with our third soon as well!
My second pregnancy is 100% different. I never spotted and never had breast soreness. I started to have nipple tenderness later in the pregnancy (followed up with leaking milk?!) but that's it. My first trimester made me basically bed ridden, I was so miserable. Luckily, I have a great partner and his family to help with the baby so I could rest when needed. As soon as second trimester hit, I felt like a different women soooooo much better compared to the 1st trimester. I'm very grateful to have another child, but this pregnancy been really hard on me. I can't wait to meet the little one, will be worth everything.
I’d never heard about the skin tag thing! I’m 32 weeks pregnant and like 3 months ago, got two little bumps in the exact same place as you, right at the front of the underarm. It makes total sense that that’s what they are! I can’t pick mine off so I’m hoping they will go away, they aren’t really possible to hide in the summer when I’m wearing tank tops 99% of the time 😅
You don't need to be perfect person, you need to be balanced person, mentioning pros and cons. Be blessed.
You should get a good buzzer for your lady parts. It’s not obviously as smooth as a razor but it’s definitely worth it with how sensitive you are now!
What’s hardest from an intimacy POV (not sexual) is practicality of bump but also smell sensitive as well, which means no kissing, which is such an intimate thing to lose.
Get some Breathe Right strips! I had a stuffy nose all throughout my pregnancy, and the strips made it WAY easier to sleep :)
Thank you for your honestly! May God bless you!
Experiencing the vericose veins down there as well definately by far my worst symptom. Currently 33 weeks pregnant
Yes, this. I have these and they're debilitating. It's not just aesthetic and I'm actually getting surgery after this pregnancy. It's effectively made me bedridden. Only like 4% of pregnant women get them so not many people talk about these.
Oh girl I agree sleep when baby sleeps that saying just gets under my skin. In theory it should work but real life application it is a no for multiple reasons.
Do the dishes when baby does the dishes, I’ve heard is a good rebuttal
Especially if you have a micronapper. As soon as you lay your head to the pillow they wake up.
With my first my hormones pud us both to sleep with every feeding for the first few weeks... i'm surprised it was the opposite for someone, because oxytocin and prolactin usually is very relaxing
I had nasal congestion during all my second pregnancy and it was gone right after baby was born!
I’m the same way!!! I’m so much more confident when I’m pregnant!!!!! It’s a crazy thing.
I absolutely hated both pregnancies… omg I really struggled and some days I had to go to the maternity ward for IV fluids and other big issues. The fact that other women cannot get pregnant doesn’t diminish the problems other women have during their pregnancies. I suffered a miscarriage and that made me realise that even though I’m fortunate about being able to get pregnant, women are still scared of talking about things cause they don’t want to hurt others.
could you please comment where your outfits from? looking for some cute maternity outfits! 😍
“Go in blind and hope for the best” 🤣🤣
Hy!!!! 😊💕 love your content. Your kids are adorable 🥰
Just think of yourself as “Sexy Eve,” bet she had pubic hair and was a good lookin gal who could catch Adam’s gaze any time she wanted. Seriously, expecting yourself to be hairless is v modern and IMO twisted and letting go can be liberating, in many ways. Please understand hair is not inherently dirty. I understand preferences... but this one is mostly steeped in sexist cultural norms, and when you’re so pregnant? 💗
Early into dating my current partner I complained about the razor bumps and itchiness and he said 'stop shaving it if you don't like it, i like it natural' and ever since I've just been trimming it with an electric razor. It still looks tidy but it's much more comfortable for me.
Yes! My husband told me guys don't care. Im glad someone said something. Obviously it's a personal preference but I think a lot of women do it because they feel obligated. Trim it and call it a day it's soooo not worth the hassle or discomfort.
@@aisling8308 same! Just trimm it and it's so much better
I love this comment. To the hair tho, some people really just hate the feeling of hair on their body, or just down there.
Where did you get your glasses??? LUVV THEM😎😘
Hey From The Uk! I love your honesty, but you're giving me MASSIVE baby fever!
Omg I’m currently 6 months with my 2nd and I totally feel you with the sensitive smell.. and it affecting kissing🙃
This is so true
i’m not pregnant and not planning to have kids ANY time soon but i just really love you for some reason??? so here i am
So, what do I do?! My husband won't help me with our second baby who is 7 weeks old. I'm the one up at nite and have been for 7 weeks now. He refuses to help in the way I need to b helped. (Such as he won't let me nap during the day despite me nagging him for weeks about this!) What do I do? This is a deal breaker I'm to tired for this crap!
You look amazing! My sons middle name is Vincent, it’s a great name, it’s okay for Zach to have wrong opinions 😂😂😂
This is an old video, but I just had to comment. The I feel more confident when I'm pregnant part! 100 %! I've never felt as beautiful as now during pregnancy. And for the first time in my Life, I don't care If other people find me attractive
I felt the same way!!
Love this - I’m pregnant with nr 2 and feel you on several things here 😂 BUT how do you deal with having sex when your libido is down? With everything being more sensitive down there and life being more busy, I just cant get in the mood mentally and physically is just uncomfortable...
I had the opposite problem. I was RARING to go my entire pregnancy and my husband didn't want to have sex for MONTHS. 😅
Having just had my second baby, I totally get this. My approach was that intimacy was important for my marriage and relationship so if I wasn’t in the mood, I just focused on his pleasure (aka just give a blow or hand job 🤷🏻♀️). Sometimes just the act would get me in the mood, but sometimes it was just about doing something for my husband without expecting or wanting anything for myself.