I think the statement “it’s ok not to be ok” isn’t supposed to be a green light to sulk and just be negative all the time. It’s supposed to be a reminder to people that it’s normal that negative things can happen and everyone goes through it. And by acknowledging it, people can figure out what to work on and get better. Whether that’s faith, learning new skills, etc. Overall support people in growth but people need to know where to start to effectively grow.
16:03 you talked about people being stuck in a cycle of literal self sabotage when they don't break away from doing the same old things that bring the same old results, whether in relationships or not and i think it becomes your fault when your soul (for the lack of a better word) tells you that whatever you're continuing now, is a sign of weakness but you still keep on doing it, ignoring that voice. like no, you're not being this selfless person bc of that amazing trait of yours, you don't have it in you to stand up for yourself! there's always a moment (or more) of weakness to trace back to.
I'm in school to be a psychologist and I would never say that. Yes embrace your emotions but deal them head on. Don't let them affect you to the point you can't keep pushing and move on...
It's a such a treat to watch your podcast and learn from it. I love your words May Allah keep blessing you more and more with wisdom, grace and gratitude ❤
I love your videos gives me so much clarity and I love having these conversations I have so much input, but I can’t speak upon them because some won’t understand whether their in a different journey or in a unbreakable cycle. You also speak everything that’s in my mind In a “harsh” reality check or controversial way. I also really appreciate you garden deen on duniya struggles I want to be surrounded with people like you in’sha’Allah ❤️ one more praise you don’t steer away from the topic like you don’t just yap to yap you have points of views but it’s centered educated BarakAllah feek, okay now I’m done lol okay well I’m not done third time editing should be a crime but I wanna dua for you May Allah forgive your sins without punishment and the generations before you also with the people you hang out with May you all get to have jannat al fardos with ease and May Allah stay in your center always May you never get any nazaar of the people around you or you Ameen
Thank you for reminding us that we are all a walking testimony of God's Grace and Mercy, this is so relatable and true but I do not agree with you when you say that depression does not exist...it does, it's not just about sad thoughts, sometimes it's a hormonal imbalance that leads to depression and anxiety ...so maybe shrinks should work more on efficient diagnosis instead of just prescribing antidepressants, as you mention on your last podcast a good "healer" or "shrink" will give you tools to really feel better and heal and not come back every time to him/her. Thank you again, I really appreciate your podcast, actually it's the only one I listen to these days...
I admire and love your work but I go through a skin condition which i didnt go through b4 how would you deal with it personally i think a girl would get depressed as I can see you take good care of yourself workout put shorts on etc but imagine having a skin condition that will mean you have discoloration marks everywhere and itching would you still say same?
I think the statement “it’s ok not to be ok” isn’t supposed to be a green light to sulk and just be negative all the time. It’s supposed to be a reminder to people that it’s normal that negative things can happen and everyone goes through it. And by acknowledging it, people can figure out what to work on and get better. Whether that’s faith, learning new skills, etc. Overall support people in growth but people need to know where to start to effectively grow.
i feel like this woman heals me and my relationship w God
16:03 you talked about people being stuck in a cycle of literal self sabotage when they don't break away from doing the same old things that bring the same old results, whether in relationships or not and i think it becomes your fault when your soul (for the lack of a better word) tells you that whatever you're continuing now, is a sign of weakness but you still keep on doing it, ignoring that voice. like no, you're not being this selfless person bc of that amazing trait of yours, you don't have it in you to stand up for yourself! there's always a moment (or more) of weakness to trace back to.
Changed my perspective about depression a lot Layla!
You’re a gem ♥️
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oh layla, I loved this episode so much. it's like you talked about the things I wanted to hear and re-affirm.
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i need to listen to this on repeat until i get it in my brain your exact mindset on victim mentality 😭😭😭
I'm in school to be a psychologist and I would never say that. Yes embrace your emotions but deal them head on. Don't let them affect you to the point you can't keep pushing and move on...
This was so good. Soo so good! Will be replaying 🫶🏾
It's a such a treat to watch your podcast and learn from it.
I love your words
May Allah keep blessing you more and more with wisdom, grace and gratitude ❤
Second time watching the video and I absolutely love this! Happy you’re back 🫶
I love your videos gives me so much clarity and I love having these conversations I have so much input, but I can’t speak upon them because some won’t understand whether their in a different journey or in a unbreakable cycle. You also speak everything that’s in my mind In a “harsh” reality check or controversial way. I also really appreciate you garden deen on duniya struggles I want to be surrounded with people like you in’sha’Allah ❤️ one more praise you don’t steer away from the topic like you don’t just yap to yap you have points of views but it’s centered educated BarakAllah feek, okay now I’m done lol okay well I’m not done third time editing should be a crime but I wanna dua for you May Allah forgive your sins without punishment and the generations before you also with the people you hang out with May you all get to have jannat al fardos with ease and May Allah stay in your center always May you never get any nazaar of the people around you or you Ameen
I feel you so much women❤ my July - all you are talking I feel it so much in my heart. How is this possible 🙏🏻
I love your videos! Free therapy! ❤❤❤
Thank you for reminding us that we are all a walking testimony of God's Grace and Mercy, this is so relatable and true but I do not agree with you when you say that depression does not exist...it does, it's not just about sad thoughts, sometimes it's a hormonal imbalance that leads to depression and anxiety ...so maybe shrinks should work more on efficient diagnosis instead of just prescribing antidepressants, as you mention on your last podcast a good "healer" or "shrink" will give you tools to really feel better and heal and not come back every time to him/her.
Thank you again, I really appreciate your podcast, actually it's the only one I listen to these days...
Amazing ❤
Love love from South Africa
Please make more videos on this topic with focus on childhood traumas, attachment issues with parents, and this victim mentality
I like her accent. That's why i love to watch her videos.
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I though Layla was talking here to me 😅 O my God!
Amazing
Welcome back
Happy to be back! ❤️
السلام علیکم
Layla, can you please discuss it in your next podcast on how to get default setting to trust Allah?😊
Girl we need a new video
I missed you two❤
❤️❤️❤️ we missed you!
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MashaAllah young sister
I admire and love your work but I go through a skin condition which i didnt go through b4 how would you deal with it personally i think a girl would get depressed as I can see you take good care of yourself workout put shorts on etc but imagine having a skin condition that will mean you have discoloration marks everywhere and itching would you still say same?
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