Very proud to listen and know of asian family values to carry on to respect Human life. do not forget your parents in taking care of each generation said beautifully..... its humanity building with peace and growth. love it, Indra Nooyi........keep going to educate us......you are our mentor. Godbless, Peace and LIght.
The system she mentioned with parent, grandparents, sisters, brother, uncle, neighbors is something I definitely appreciate. This is the way I grow up in central. I we still do it this way living in the US. It is a privilege to have that support, it makes a huge difference for all who is involved.
I am glad Ms.Nooyi brought this up. It is almost every Indian's story: I remember my mom telling me how her aunt had helped raise my sister during initial months after child-birth. And numerous other examples that I can think of.. Grandparents and relatives have a great share in raising us when our parents have to juggle with livelihood.To extend this notion to helpful co-sharing communities is a wonderful idea. That way, the world will realize the importance of people around them and gladly co-exist. Before the age of television and internet, next-door neighbours would gladly drop in to offer a helping hand when necessary. Nowadays, we are getting reclusive and that should probably change.
I can't expressed just how happy I am to have discovered this woman; literally 2 days ago! Especially during this pandemic, in my case, everything she has said regarding working mothers and wives is even more heightened. My spouse and I are still working (which I'm grateful for); the children are at home; thus that balances/coping mechanism/support systems she's been talking about is now more valuable to me than ever. The recognition that it takes all those different systems (including constant prayers) to make it as a working mother and wife is of great reassurance to me.
wow!! you said it!!! my heart bleeds for poor little babies growing up in Day Care & as well as for older generation living all alone by themselves, Asian Model should be implemented everywhere in the world ASAP!
That was yet another inspirational interview of Indra Nooyi - and what sensible, down-to-earth advice of how to keep life-work balance and taking care of family for young people.
Very, very true words about the difficulty in having a work-life balance in a young nuclear family. The Asian family model where the grandparents step-in to lend a helping hand with child rearing is a win-win for all the parties involved. It would in turn lead to a healthy and sustainable society.
Listening to Indra Nooyi speeches is inspirational and can be easily correlated to the situation today's working women are facing while trying to balance between family and career. The concept of creating new community living/ time sharing can be implemented provided we are interacting and practicing our traditional values and not selecting them whenever it suits us. Traditional Asian values & cultures are looked upon as taboo and hurdle in overall growth of individual career in today's globalised society. I do agree we need our older as well as younger generation to live together then only the values and traditions can be passed on and we will have healthy balance future generation. Today we come across young generation undergoing depression/ influenced and getting into habit of drugs, older generation undergoing dementia/alzheimer. For all this partially we are only responsible since we all want and like nuclear/urban lifestyle which not only damage our today's society but our future generation.
The African and Asian culture are similar. I hope we Africans can learn from the Asians who are leveraging on the multi-generational family model to keep a work-life balance especially for the Modern woman to have as much as "ALL". Thank you Indra
I was raised in a multigenerational family for part of my life and I raised my sons in a multigenerational family and I am so VERY grateful. I would never leave my aging mom in someone else’s hands. That’s not how we roll in the black community either; rich or poor.
If you have money, you can fly in the relatives and have nanny do all the work. In general, this extra work of extending hospitality falls on the women of the house.
Ms. Nooyi, you seem to forget about why we moved from a joint-family system to more of a nuclear family system. It was likely because living with over-bearing in-laws was very challenging for women. It takes special give and take between parents and children (with partners) to live together. I have found that in-laws are much too difficult to live with. In an ideal world, yours would be a perfect solution.
Works for my brother ( sister in law is a hospital administrator with odd working hours, grandparents take care of the kids). What you missed mentioning that is that you and I get to talk about our experiences, not the whole planet.
@@ravik007ggn Without access to any data on this topic, my sense is that my experience is probably in line with the majority's. May I ask you to try talking to your SIL about whether she is compromising or on top of the world with her current living arrangement. If we could come up with a system where the grandparents live nearby, but not in the same house, then I'd agree that Nooyi's solution would be closer to ideal. But that's not always feasible. Living near, but not too far away, would mean that there is no additional strain put on the couple's marriage, in the name of raising the couple's kids properly.
@@js-vs5ny Nah. Your sense doesn't align with almost everyone. Indians are Chinese rely upon grandparents and that's half the world. Europe and Americas are a small part of the world, population wise.
With all due respect---Also, in our context, in the context of joint families, you seem to forget karma and learning play an important part. May be it was the in-laws, but not in a void, with your own ego. As a part of asian family model, we learn that seniority matters and so age is revered. Even they are overbearing sometimes you can take it ---and yet learn not to do it to the next generation. Nuclear families can run a generation or two, after that, countries with nuclear families with have a higher rate of divorces and broken families. Facts.
A bit idealist. It’s a huge cultural change to bring about in an individualistic society. There are many factors that play into creating such interdependency. How many of these are manageable ?
I like and agree with a lot of what she is saying. However that family model is not specific to Asia or India. My family is West Indian, mixture of British, Portuguese, Indian, and African. When I look at the traditions and culture from each of them I saw many similarities, one of which was the extended family in the same house. On both sides of the family, in each of the “home country” there were multiple generations in the same house. We brought that to the US and continue it now. It’s not unique, it has been the culture in most ancient societies. It is a truest foundation of humanity.
Man, I once bought my kid a pink grand toy🎹 where she would play it and sing " I don't like daycare" I was single mom of two and working two-three jobs, it was horrible. My end goal was to work from home by the time they were in middle school. However, no financial or emotional support from anyone, no one
@@perincherigopinathan3586 . U spew with no brains..... Thats the concern.... Now... Being u a gay... How is life working, u puting the right question at the right time..
Asia & things have changed and every family and their system traditions are different. Girl’s family is sometimes not allowed to stay with her even for help .
??? What are you talking about??? There are many families which coopt each other. My family or even my friend's family that I see are exactly like that. Your microcosm is a mirror of your and your family member's value system. The concept of 'Society' I think is just over exploited to mask our own inability to do something to change.
@@saiya8615 It’s not microcosm but a reality for a lot many people .Agree many families Copt each other but it cannot be generalized as a key solution for success . Especially in western countries retired parents do love their kids but prefer to stay separately a relaxed life rather than doing chores errand for youngsters. Also living with parents is not only for taking help it’s a responsibility. May people give up good career opportunities in order to take care of their families. It’s their value system ☺️
scuttarockz She is already worth a fortune from selling cola and lays and trash dangerous foods fur years and figuring out ways to push more of it on more kids. Would love to hear somebody ask her how much of that stuff she consumes or her kids ?!
That Asian model is pretty much crashing in Asia. And it would be a bit vain to call it Asia model. Till a century back this was pretty much the model every part of the world. India is late to arrive on industrialization and hence the model still sticks around. But time will run out in this century especially so because the economic model itself will be West, nothing Indian or Asian about it. And Nooyi's case really is inorganic. Tearing seniors away from their organic fabric back home and importing them is like exploitation. In the Indian model it is more like "it takes a village to.." And for every good example there will be at least one bad or more in India. The family system can be terribly oppressive and obstructionist when it wants to be. All is not hunky dory. I would say there is a great deal of suffering and pain as well. The interview is more from the corporate strategy book on image building (and its important to do that to keep attracting labour) and less to present a truthful picture. The real question to ask and answer is whether the current economic model of which NYC is the vanguard - and Pepsico and Citi and other companies the poster girls - is going to by design place inordinate stress on work life balance. I would say in the Asian model you wouldn't even think of selling something like soda. All fizz and hollow, just pure marketing and exploitation of the weaknesses in human psyche, which has been perfected in NYC over a century. Completely inconsistent with Asian values and should I say universal values.
For the most part I agree with you that the joint family model bears many disadvantages, as well. The awareness how a joint family culture should ideally be has to also be understood by in-laws, grand parents etc. Suppressions and even sexual abuse also happens withing families. Let's admit that Ms Noori was granted many priviledges. And this is not to be held against her. The rest of us we have to decide what we want and can manage in our own lives. Living in Europe I see everyday what a burden the nuclear family structure mean for families. I wonder why everyone feels the urgent need to have children in an overpopulated world. Our current economic framework is not at all conducive for reproduction. Let's face the truth and act accordingly.
First of all I like to talk about this subject that Asian family, as a family member specially for the parents if it is small family it is easy to live with them but in some many cases there is a big family it is very difficult to maintain its When a child growing up, up to 15 years parents must have to care for them but up to 15 years many events comes in their lives some time good days some time not, but in any condition parents care for them it is very difficult in modern life, so many aspects and demand for living life, so up to 15 years child must get education it is most important part of life in growing because of after 15 years of child Life he or she can understand what is life and real paths of life starts from this age of life also for the carrier I think our latest position in India The education is totally failed, even parents can't care for their child you can see in the UP of India more than 150 child died in fever in the hospital no care about it, you can see the policy of the government how can died hey are in the hospital? so this is a example, you can imagine now.
But my position to this is most western family are small barely 1 or 2 children per household. Unlike Asians we have big extended family members which is an advantage. Am thinking about assisted living community set up
You are talking such nonsense! This is quintessential exploitation that you are talking about! You want to import low-cost labor on the pretext of love and lure your "FAMILY" with the glitters of a foreign land! We Asian love our FAMILY and not use them. Did not expect this from you!
I feel pity on your thinking and mentality. Mom's and relatives to take care of their grandchildren ..seems to be a labour to you ?? Grandchildren grow better that's the last desire of the grandparents and you comparing them with servant. A daughter like Indira Nooyi takes care of her parents too ...She takes care of her every needs nad desires and learns from her. She quotes her mother in her Every Interview that's what a parent dream for. You telling them servant !! You are an Indian with western mind.
Hats off to this lady speaking about not just problems but giving possible valuable solutions ..respecting women
Very proud to listen and know of asian family values to carry on to respect Human life. do not forget your parents in taking care of each generation said beautifully..... its humanity building with peace and growth. love it, Indra Nooyi........keep going to educate us......you are our mentor. Godbless, Peace and LIght.
The system she mentioned with parent, grandparents, sisters, brother, uncle, neighbors is something I definitely appreciate. This is the way I grow up in central. I we still do it this way living in the US. It is a privilege to have that support, it makes a huge difference for all who is involved.
I am glad Ms.Nooyi brought this up. It is almost every Indian's story: I remember my mom telling me how her aunt had helped raise my sister during initial months after child-birth. And numerous other examples that I can think of.. Grandparents and relatives have a great share in raising us when our parents have to juggle with livelihood.To extend this notion to helpful co-sharing communities is a wonderful idea. That way, the world will realize the importance of people around them and gladly co-exist. Before the age of television and internet, next-door neighbours would gladly drop in to offer a helping hand when necessary. Nowadays, we are getting reclusive and that should probably change.
She is emotionally intelligent. I wish more women start thinking like her.
@Akarosh kaur whats ABC ..? Yes I agree she is smart women,however she has realistic approach to life and problem solving skills.
I enjoy listening to Indra Nooyi, she is very clear and motivational.
Love this woman. Speaks so much truth. If woman are going to work we need support!!
This is fantastic, proud of her and Indian value system. May it live eternally
I can't expressed just how happy I am to have discovered this woman; literally 2 days ago! Especially during this pandemic, in my case, everything she has said regarding working mothers and wives is even more heightened. My spouse and I are still working (which I'm grateful for); the children are at home; thus that balances/coping mechanism/support systems she's been talking about is now more valuable to me than ever. The recognition that it takes all those different systems (including constant prayers) to make it as a working mother and wife is of great reassurance to me.
She is a role model for many of us, We proud to have her.
Being indian, I never realised how fortunate I am for being born in multi-generational family, but I do now.
Readiness to leave the crown makes you always have it glittering over your head.
A lot to learn. Thank you madam nooy.
Im a married women, just about to start my career. Im happy I heard her advice in this stage of my life! Such an honor to listen to her.
wow!! you said it!!! my heart bleeds for poor little babies growing up in Day Care & as well as for older generation living all alone by themselves, Asian Model should be implemented everywhere in the world ASAP!
That was yet another inspirational interview of Indra Nooyi - and what sensible, down-to-earth advice of how to keep life-work balance and taking care of family for young people.
Mam, you are the roll model for all of us. We are proud of you.
Very, very true words about the difficulty in having a work-life balance in a young nuclear family. The Asian family model where the grandparents step-in to lend a helping hand with child rearing is a win-win for all the parties involved. It would in turn lead to a healthy and sustainable society.
@Subha Grandparents step-in? It is more a system of exploitation. If grandparents cared enough for their life, they would say no.
exploitation? wow , My mother exploited my aunts and grand parents!!! what a shame.
Exudes so much of earthy charm and confidence. Hats off to Indira Nooyi!!!!
Amazing!!! No CEO airs, just down to earth human being . Best wishes for a happy healthy retirement
Listening to Indra Nooyi speeches is inspirational and can be easily correlated to the situation today's working women are facing while trying to balance between family and career. The concept of creating new community living/ time sharing can be implemented provided we are interacting and practicing our traditional values and not selecting them whenever it suits us. Traditional Asian values & cultures are looked upon as taboo and hurdle in overall growth of individual career in today's globalised society. I do agree we need our older as well as younger generation to live together then only the values and traditions can be passed on and we will have healthy balance future generation.
Today we come across young generation undergoing depression/ influenced and getting into habit of drugs, older generation undergoing dementia/alzheimer. For all this partially we are only responsible since we all want and like nuclear/urban lifestyle which not only damage our today's society but our future generation.
The African and Asian culture are similar. I hope we Africans can learn from the Asians who are leveraging on the multi-generational family model to keep a work-life balance especially for the Modern woman to have as much as "ALL". Thank you Indra
Indra is just amazing !!!! SUCH an inspiration in all walks of life !!!!
Very true , without my parents and in laws visiting and taking care of kids we could not work the way we worked ... and helps the family structure
It's also like that in Nigeria . Children take care of their parents
One of multiple reasons I feel proud to be INDIAN everyday !! Jai Hind
I was raised in a multigenerational family for part of my life and I raised my sons in a multigenerational family and I am so VERY grateful. I would never leave my aging mom in someone else’s hands. That’s not how we roll in the black community either; rich or poor.
Something to ponder. There is hope if communities are willing to take an approach to be of service to one another.
what a wonderful interview. I am from India settled in London. such a broader viewpoint and would be great if implemented
Her body language is changed and she looks older and relaxed post PepsiCo. I have immense respect for her.
I love her "Hmm", and that of Geralt of Rivia too. Lol. Well, an amazing lady and it's worth listening to her.
She mesmerized me
She is a role model for everyone
wonderful to hear her thoughts for living together
Family members take care very good.
If you have money, you can fly in the relatives and have nanny do all the work. In general, this extra work of extending hospitality falls on the women of the house.
Rajesh Kaveti it takes 12 hrs of planning and preparing for calling 20 to your house .
Simple and a beautiful talk by Indra nooyi ma'am.
Ms. Nooyi, you seem to forget about why we moved from a joint-family system to more of a nuclear family system. It was likely because living with over-bearing in-laws was very challenging for women. It takes special give and take between parents and children (with partners) to live together. I have found that in-laws are much too difficult to live with. In an ideal world, yours would be a perfect solution.
Works for my brother ( sister in law is a hospital administrator with odd working hours, grandparents take care of the kids). What you missed mentioning that is that you and I get to talk about our experiences, not the whole planet.
@@ravik007ggn Without access to any data on this topic, my sense is that my experience is probably in line with the majority's. May I ask you to try talking to your SIL about whether she is compromising or on top of the world with her current living arrangement.
If we could come up with a system where the grandparents live nearby, but not in the same house, then I'd agree that Nooyi's solution would be closer to ideal. But that's not always feasible. Living near, but not too far away, would mean that there is no additional strain put on the couple's marriage, in the name of raising the couple's kids properly.
@@js-vs5ny Nah. Your sense doesn't align with almost everyone. Indians are Chinese rely upon grandparents and that's half the world. Europe and Americas are a small part of the world, population wise.
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With all due respect---Also, in our context, in the context of joint families, you seem to forget karma and learning play an important part. May be it was the in-laws, but not in a void, with your own ego. As a part of asian family model, we learn that seniority matters and so age is revered. Even they are overbearing sometimes you can take it ---and yet learn not to do it to the next generation. Nuclear families can run a generation or two, after that, countries with nuclear families with have a higher rate of divorces and broken families. Facts.
"My mother said I fast until I die"
Just Asian thing!😅
"Leave that 👑 in the garage" 👍
i love this chat...so relevant! We need to have the whole ecosystem of family helping & supporting each other
A bit idealist. It’s a huge cultural change to bring about in an individualistic society. There are many factors that play into creating such interdependency. How many of these are manageable ?
IIT Madras
Mam American diamond in gold ai wear okay?
Nice Vedio ! If read & think seriously people will reach top of the world .
I like and agree with a lot of what she is saying. However that family model is not specific to Asia or India. My family is West Indian, mixture of British, Portuguese, Indian, and African. When I look at the traditions and culture from each of them I saw many similarities, one of which was the extended family in the same house. On both sides of the family, in each of the “home country” there were multiple generations in the same house. We brought that to the US and continue it now. It’s not unique, it has been the culture in most ancient societies. It is a truest foundation of humanity.
that necklace brushing against the microphone.
They put it off and gave her a hand mike .. that was smart
Why can't large companies and business complexes let creches be run near the work places?
not everybody has had the privileged start to life that she has
Broke the fast after 24h 😂😂😂
Man, I once bought my kid a pink grand toy🎹 where she would play it and sing " I don't like daycare" I was single mom of two and working two-three jobs, it was horrible. My end goal was to work from home by the time they were in middle school. However, no financial or emotional support from anyone, no one
Airtkt to?
Write a book on smriti? Send to prannoy? I don't know. Dsd
you have the ex-CEO of PepsiCo and only asking questions around being a woman!!!!!!
PepsiCo was saved because they removed her at the right time
FP Piroozia
@@perincherigopinathan3586 . U spew with no brains..... Thats the concern.... Now... Being u a gay... How is life working, u puting the right question at the right time..
Did you miss the part where they say that SHE chose to speak about this topic.
Luv u ❤️
Asia & things have changed and every family and their system traditions are different. Girl’s family is sometimes not allowed to stay with her even for help .
??? What are you talking about??? There are many families which coopt each other. My family or even my friend's family that I see are exactly like that. Your microcosm is a mirror of your and your family member's value system. The concept of 'Society' I think is just over exploited to mask our own inability to do something to change.
@@saiya8615
It’s not microcosm but a reality for a lot many people .Agree many families Copt each other but it cannot be generalized as a key solution for success .
Especially in western countries retired parents do love their kids but prefer to stay separately a relaxed life rather than doing chores errand for youngsters.
Also living with parents is not only for taking help it’s a responsibility.
May people give up good career opportunities in order to take care of their families. It’s their value system ☺️
I just had some Lays as a thank you note :)
scuttarockz
She is already worth a fortune from selling cola and lays and trash dangerous foods fur years and figuring out ways to push more of it on more kids.
Would love to hear somebody ask her how much of that stuff she consumes or her kids ?!
That Asian model is pretty much crashing in Asia. And it would be a bit vain to call it Asia model. Till a century back this was pretty much the model every part of the world. India is late to arrive on industrialization and hence the model still sticks around. But time will run out in this century especially so because the economic model itself will be West, nothing Indian or Asian about it.
And Nooyi's case really is inorganic. Tearing seniors away from their organic fabric back home and importing them is like exploitation. In the Indian model it is more like "it takes a village to.." And for every good example there will be at least one bad or more in India. The family system can be terribly oppressive and obstructionist when it wants to be. All is not hunky dory. I would say there is a great deal of suffering and pain as well. The interview is more from the corporate strategy book on image building (and its important to do that to keep attracting labour) and less to present a truthful picture.
The real question to ask and answer is whether the current economic model of which NYC is the vanguard - and Pepsico and Citi and other companies the poster girls - is going to by design place inordinate stress on work life balance. I would say in the Asian model you wouldn't even think of selling something like soda. All fizz and hollow, just pure marketing and exploitation of the weaknesses in human psyche, which has been perfected in NYC over a century. Completely inconsistent with Asian values and should I say universal values.
For the most part I agree with you that the joint family model bears many disadvantages, as well. The awareness how a joint family culture should ideally be has to also be understood by in-laws, grand parents etc. Suppressions and even sexual abuse also happens withing families.
Let's admit that Ms Noori was granted many priviledges. And this is not to be held against her. The rest of us we have to decide what we want and can manage in our own lives.
Living in Europe I see everyday what a burden the nuclear family structure mean for families.
I wonder why everyone feels the urgent need to have children in an overpopulated world. Our current economic framework is not at all conducive for reproduction. Let's face the truth and act accordingly.
Don't agree at all.I still see families lending support out of love. It's a derogatory comment only partially true.
Abimuhammed Muhammed al hamdu lillah thanks everyone
Oh you don’t sleep...😂😂😂
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What if you don’t have such family who anyone willing to help in such way
First of all I like to talk about this subject that Asian family, as a family member specially for the parents if it is small family it is easy to live with them but in some many cases there is a big family it is very difficult to maintain its
When a child growing up, up to 15 years parents must have to care for them but up to 15 years many events comes in their lives some time good days some time not, but in any condition parents care for them it is very difficult in modern life, so many aspects and demand for living life, so up to 15 years child must get education it is most important part of life in growing because of after 15 years of child Life he or she can understand what is life and real paths of life starts from this age of life also for the carrier I think our latest position in India The education is totally failed, even parents can't care for their child you can see in the UP of India more than 150 child died in fever in the hospital no care about it, you can see the policy of the government how can died hey are in the hospital? so this is a example, you can imagine now.
What’s with the crackling on the paper it’s so distracting I can’t even concentrate on what she’s saying
Cl need
But my position to this is most western family are small barely 1 or 2 children per household. Unlike Asians we have big extended family members which is an advantage. Am thinking about assisted living community set up
G8. Older generation helping younger generation , that is getting degraded.
Stone me sold:y
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You are talking such nonsense! This is quintessential exploitation that you are talking about! You want to import low-cost labor on the pretext of love and lure your "FAMILY" with the glitters of a foreign land! We Asian love our FAMILY and not use them. Did not expect this from you!
I feel pity on your thinking and mentality. Mom's and relatives to take care of their grandchildren ..seems to be a labour to you ?? Grandchildren grow better that's the last desire of the grandparents and you comparing them with servant.
A daughter like Indira Nooyi takes care of her parents too ...She takes care of her every needs nad desires and learns from her. She quotes her mother in her Every Interview that's what a parent dream for. You telling them servant !!
You are an Indian with western mind.
@@musafiramit4u Agree with you. Akash baruah Must have been raised on 'economic m model' where everything has a price and nothing has a value.
White washed idiot!
So she just wants to go back to be a family woman. It could have been said 5 min.