It doesn’t matter what type of friend it is if I’m uncomfortable I’m out. it’s not fair to make anyone change for you. You can’t change people, but you can change people.
Makes me uncomfortable? No. But my partner would need to make sure he still considers my feelings as well as his friend's because I don't mind walking away from people I don't fool with. Now, if my partner's friend is the one being disrespectful and inappropriate and it has been shown, yes, either that friend goes or I go. I don't think you need to put anyone above anyone necessarily, but all parties need to be respected and respectful or they are a descension lol. Now, exes as friends, you would need to explain the relationship and the friendship to me so I can determine if they are actually just friends or not or if there could be an issue from someone's residual feelings. Friends you have sex with, that's a no for me. If you do that single, who cares. But in a relationship, no. Gotta go for many reasons and I don't think that's unfair What do you think?
I could never ask someone to separate from their friend(s) on my behalf. I’d rather remove myself if i notice I’m not compatible with what’s going on.
It doesn’t matter what type of friend it is if I’m uncomfortable I’m out. it’s not fair to make anyone change for you. You can’t change people, but you can change people.
I would talk with my partner and express my feelings and concerns and allow my partner to decide.
No. Its easier to leave her G
Damn, true
Makes me uncomfortable? No. But my partner would need to make sure he still considers my feelings as well as his friend's because I don't mind walking away from people I don't fool with. Now, if my partner's friend is the one being disrespectful and inappropriate and it has been shown, yes, either that friend goes or I go.
I don't think you need to put anyone above anyone necessarily, but all parties need to be respected and respectful or they are a descension lol. Now, exes as friends, you would need to explain the relationship and the friendship to me so I can determine if they are actually just friends or not or if there could be an issue from someone's residual feelings. Friends you have sex with, that's a no for me. If you do that single, who cares. But in a relationship, no. Gotta go for many reasons and I don't think that's unfair
What do you think?