Bombshells From Britney Spears' New Memoir | The View
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- As bombshells from Britney Spears' new memoir come out, including claims she had an abortion while dating ex-boyfriend Justin Timberlake, The View co-hosts weigh in.
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It’s her time now. Everyone else has used her and had their say at her expense. She has every right to share her side of the story and her truth. Glad she finally is standing up for herself.
Amen
Britney deserves to speak her truth after being forced to be silent for so many years. I hope this book serves as a form of therapy for her - and she continues to get the help needed to undo all the trauma she had to deal with.
I Do too, I just want her to be okay.
Where did this his or her truth language come about???
@@truthbtold8697you are allowed to speak your LIES
@aperturesociety I guess so because EVERYONE in 2023 seems to have their own truth...there is no his truth her truth THERE IS ONLY THE TRUTH
Where is she I don’t see her doing interviews. She is wackos bird
Joy is all of us trying to figure out whatever Whoopi is saying
I wish the video hadn’t ended when it did because I wanted to know what Whoopi was trying to say, too. Was she talking about male masturbation in a roundabout way?
I think maybe she is talking about how there is pressure on women from the government to not have an abortion and what it would be like if it was the same for men. But maybe she was talking about vasectomy or masturbation because she said to take care or them self as man do. I don't know. But I An curious too.
Yesss!!!!
I think Whoopi meant that if women are being criminally charged for having abortions men should have the same type of repercussions if they coerce a woman to have one.
Haven’t a fuckin’ clue what she’s on about!
I'm actually happy that Britney is speaking out. She had her voice silenced for DECADES...
Their stylist team deserves a raise. I love that theyve been ensuring everyone's outfits compliment each other across the table. 😍
they are talking about abortion and this is your response....
yes they're always nicely put together. also beautiful hair and make up
Yes I’ve noticed their looks have all been on point lately
This is what you decide to comment …
You listened to that whole conversation and your take away is their style? God humanity is screwed
They need to have the conversation about the media dynamics at the time of how they treated Britney vs Justin and Justin's response and solo career after they broke up. Because Justin played into the media's hand as a victim and he did a few songs about Britney, basically calling her a "cheater" and a "liar"... That Dian Sawyer (sp) interview lives in my mind rent free with how horrible they treated BS.
Interesting how they media and industry elevated Justin while damaging the women around him. Britney, then the legendary Janet Jackson. Britney also talks about how the media would focus on her body but when interviewing Justin they spoke about his music and artistry
she didn't blame Justin. She takes responsibility too however, she said how he strongly didn't want the child and how everyone supported that she got the abortion instead of Justin to be the one person to be there for her to make her feel like she wasn't alone and she has every right to feel like she could keep the baby because he was willing to withstand the consequences even if he didn't wanna marry.
I agree. I don't think she's shading him. He was one of her most well-known boyfriends. She couldn't not talk about him. People have had it in for him since that superbowl with Janet Jackson...and the ending of Nsync.
Several years ago I got my gf pregnant, she was going to keep it but got an abortion without asking me. Not that she needed my permission, I'm fully "her body, her choice" and would've supported her either way, but I did feel hurt and somewhat betrayed that I wasn't even asked. It's her choice, but that's my kid too, I should've at least been asked how I'd feel about it.
That’s not right. I’m sorry that happened to you.
You should have been able to make that decision as a man and father. That's not right
ABSOLUTELY TRUE.🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
@@maildeliverysubsystemmaile9178 She did nothing wrong
If she would have had that kid you have no say to pay child support and I hope people see the hypocrisy
I bought the book and it was so good. I read it almost in 1 sitting
Her book was so sad. So many people betrayed her and used her. She didn’t have anyone solid to be there for her.
I was always behind her 100%, and I will always support her. Britney was someone very close to me even from afar. I wanted to be a dancer just like her growing up and thought she was one of the most beautiful women in the world with the prettiest smile. I'm so glad she's finally free and fighting for herself and her own life on her own terms. Finally. Obviously, I pre-ordered her book as soon as I found out about it. I cannot wait to read it! She always seemed very honest and sincere and she is finally letting all of her demons out. Rightfully so!
Joy not getting Whoopi’s point 🤣🤣
And neither did i??
Me neither
She's talking about guys jerking off, but it's daytime TV she has to say it in code
what was her point...?
Exactly! What was the point? Ejaculating is not the same as abortion. Was that the point? PS I am 9TRILLION% prochoice...
Team Britney always ❤ Sending her so much love and support as she heals her lifelong wounds in ways only she can. This woman’s strength is admirable and she deserves all the grace the world has to offer her as she navigates through her healing process. The grace she always deserved to have from the very beginning. We stand with you Britney! 🌹
I agree with Joy, once a baby is born - society expects the woman to primarily take care of the child to begin with. Child-rearing most times is just not equal no matter how you try to slice it; even married women with great husbands will tell you that.
Then the man should not be held accountable financially if he says that he doesn't want the child..that's fair
@@truthbtold8697 The only way that would make sense legally is if the government subsidizes the child support that would from that man. Welfare is NOT that because it is meant to be a stepping stone for people to get off of - the government would have to literally step in financially to support that child.
…& with the way this country is trying to strip away the ability for women to get abortions, keep wishing cuz that’s not going to happen. They’re trying to incentivize women to continue having babies, making it so it’s even more harder than it already is on women - yea, keep dreaming 😂 but hey, if they step in for what would be child support, I’m all for men being able to opt out of it - we just all know that’s never gonna be a thing
Also for you to say “that’s fair” is quite funny seeing that you’re saying that in response to my comment stating child rearing is literally NOT fair for women to begin with 😭
@@truthbtold8697 No, in this context that would be the opposite of fair.
@@kerinwills no in this context its absolutely faid..a woman can decide to keep or delete a child no matter whether he wants to keep it or not...so a woman has 100% say even if that man doesnt want the child...so he should be able to sign over ALL FINANCIAL RESPONSIBILITY..we have made abortions more about convenience than health..its a deletion free for all at this point...
@@truthbtold8697 That has nothing to do with what the oc said, ie. the context.
Obviously the woman makes the “final” decision but if the father doesn’t want to step up and take responsibility then that is obviously probably the biggest factor in the women’s “decision”. Is it really a choice if the woman has to “choose” to be a single mom?
I am glad that Britney spoke out and shared her story! #TeamBritney all the way and I am glad that Justin Timberlake is going down!
Ppl talk about pregnancy like it can't kill you.
The more I find out about Timberlake, the more I pity Brittany - and every woman that's dated him - he sounds like the most narcissistic, selfish individual
As usual Sara on total point. Whoopie needs to spit out her point without tip toeing around
I hear what you are saying but she has to be careful about what she says because it's daytime tv and Standards and Practices will eat her alive if she mentions men masturbating directly.
Agreed. What the heck was her point??
Whoopie has no point
@@paja7647she was talking about masturbation and how they would feel if women tried to pass laws to police that.
@@mafxarr8776 Oh, okay.
ANY woman having sex with her boyfriend needs to make sure they discuss "what is the plan if I become pregnant?".
Yes, if you are in a committed relationship, it’s both of your decision on having children. If done right, this should be crystal clear in the dating phase. That way, there should be no issues when deciding who you sleep with.
Sara never makes any sense, she was talking about the opposite of what Britney went through…
Britney was fragile and immature. Justin took advantage of this and manipulated her. She didn't want to kill the baby. HE was the one who convinced her to do it. She regreted it immediately. I'm deeply sorry for this woman. She has been mistreated by the people who should care about her and she couldn't complain because people would say "well, you're super rich, why aren't you happy?" and has even lost her civil freedoms for thirteen years. It's a miracle that she's still alive and healthy.
They were young. I hardly think Justin had that mindset at that age.
@saramill2097 I'm not saying she isn't responsible but she wouldn't have done it if he hadn't put that much pressure on her.
sex is a basic need for most ppl, "so don't eat" ok brilliant point as usual sara *eye roll* @saramill2097
Her body, her choice
Now had it been reversed and he wrote a book about him wanting the baby and her not would she be criticized the same?
If he didn't want the baby he didn't want it. She still made the decision.
Now hopefully she can get peace with this decision. As despite my personal opinions on abortion I do recognize the emotional hardship involved.
I used to consider her eccentric, but now she's been given the chance to author her own book, sharing her side of the story.
Sexual encounters carry the risk of pregnancy. If you absolutely don't want a baby, then maybe one should not be having sex. People just feel like everyone should be having sex these days. I heard a man say, if he isn't getting sex by the third date, he is moving on to the next girl. Their is so much pressure to have sex on dates. My mom had me out of wed lock. The man left her to raise me alone. She could have aborted me, but she didn't and once told me that I was the best mistake she ever made. The pain tho, of my biological father not claiming me effected her until the end of her life. at age 85.
I don't think she said she was "pressured." Certainly, it's 100% her choice. However, in this instance I would say Justin was the voice of reason. They were too young, and not ready. It's her business, but I don't think she was even ready when she had her first child a few years later. I think Britney's parents did a number on her. When she was ready to have a child years later, her father who controlled her life, wouldn't allow her to remove her birth control. Britney's had a tough, messed up relationship with her parents, the world, and her body. Don't judge her. She deserves understanding. Give her a break.
well she had her first child after she was already screwed up....I think her and justin would have made it work
@@darkmercury_19 I don't think so. Having a baby, too young, in a relationship that is already shaky, never works out for anyone. I think if they were older, and hadn't had the pressure and scrutiny of the entire world, they may have made it. However, the fact that Justin has been married for years with two children indicates that he's with the person he should be with. Not to be overly dramatic, but I think Britney will find her soul mate after she's had time figure out who she is, and what she wants without someone else having control of her life.
Interesting fact: Herschel Walker reacted the same way, (as Justin) when of Herschel’s “girlfriends” got pregnant. And even paid for the abortion. But they are treating a Justin, with “kid gloves” in this identical situation.
@MikeCee7 REALLY?! That's because Justin Timberlake is not running for public office and is not pretending to be something he's not. Justin Timberlake is pro-choice. Herschel Walker pretended that he was "Christian" and "pro-life" when he was actually cheating and paying for abortions. GET IT NOW?
Britney is an icon! Let her be free and herself. Whatever that looks like
@saramill2097 yes, with her knives.
I broke up with my boyfriand I didn't know that I was pregnant decide to keep it and now 9 years later, I have a beautiful son love from Belgium.❤
If she was pressured into it that’s not good, but also Britney was in a position financially that most women are not that if she wanted a child at that time she could have done so with hired help, with or without Justin.
her family controlled her finances or did you miss the entire scandal with her family?
@@LucienWhite-fb5qk ok…I’m not that invested in her life story but to my knowledge Ms smarty pants, her family didn’t get involved in her affairs until she broke up with Justin and shaved her head and everything else that followed. But again I’m not that invested in the life story of a celebrity.
@@LucienWhite-fb5qk Lynx2cross was trying to say: that Britney and her family, could afford & support a baby, without needing help from the baby’s daddy (regardless of if her family controlled her money)
If Britney was pregnant way back, they’re not gonna hold back money and punish Britney and her baby.
Britney made more money than 99% of the American public, so financially, she did not need to have the father of the baby in the picture or not. (most Americans don’t have that luxury) (that’s the point he was trying to make)
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The point Lynx2cross was making, had nothing to do with Brittany conservatory scandal. It’s one thing if she wanted to buy a Porsche or Lamborghini at age 18, and then her parents could withhold the money for that. But if she had a baby, her parents were not going to withhold money, to raise and support her baby.
I'm sure the final decision was more fear based on the idea of doing it all alone potentially.
Also, calm down ppl it should not be that serious in these chats...
For a panel of women, they did not understand the assignment of the topic. It was geared more towards Justin versus a 19 year old Britney and a young woman and reviewing it from the lens of an entertainer and young woman in the industry. They totally fumbled on the topic. HORRIBLE.
justin manipulated and coerced britney on killing their baby because he didnt want to be a father. britney said if left alone, she would have kept the baby
I agree with Joy. Whether to keep or end the pregnancy should ultimately be up to the person that is pregnant. The impregnator's responsibility/choice is before the deed is done. For an impregnator to decide afterwards is like giving a gift to someone and then telling the receiver what to do with it. The gift belongs to the person that received it now. It's not for the giver to decide anymore.
And there you go anti man
Except that the man is the father, not just a "gift giver." That has to be the dumbest analogy to this ever.
Awful analogy, the man is the father not a "gift giver". By that logic would any man be a father or just the designated sperm donor?
@@tiffanyblue1938 Not really. I think it's a good analogy. A gift belongs to the gift giver, just like the sperm belongs to the impregnator. Before they give the gift or sperm to the other person, they have every right to decide whether or not to give it to the other person. Once both give it to the other person, it is no longer something they have control or say over.
What you are talking about is when the child is developed and is born. That is parenthood. However the sperm inside the woman is part of the woman's body and its functions, so she decides whether or not to let it develop or to discontinue the development.
@@jaysgamingcorner8539 The gift is sperm. Men are not the father to sperm or sperm connected to an egg. Men are the father to babies/children. If a man has sex with a woman, and she takes plan B, it would be crazy for the man to yell out "My child!"
Thank you Alyssa for bringing the actual topic back. These heffas were waffling off subject. Justice for Britney.
Difference is he took the moment to victimize himself while she sat and took all the judgement.
If Joy wants the man to have absolutely no say on the pregnancy and child then why should he pay child support
Feminist will never agree to this because it's not about equality...
A man always has a say. It’s called a vasectomy.
That was already previously the case smart guy. Then the govt realized men were running around planting seeds everywhere with no consequences and causing taxpayers to foot the bill for all these fatherless kids, so the men needed to be forced to deal with their own mess. Men get a 100% say in their part of causing the pregnancy as Sunny pointed out. If he doesn't want a kid, he gets to say no to making a deposit.
In her book, Britney says this decision still haunts her because she was in love with Justin and she wanted to have his baby. Because of her celebrity, she couldn't even go to a clinic. She took pills at home and waited for the labor pains to start. She said it was excruciating. And all Justin did was sit nearby and play his guitar. On top of all that, after they broke up, he painted her as a harlot in that Cry Me a River video. 😔 I've always been told that a man makes a decision whether or not to have a child, when he slips inside of a woman unprotected. Whatever happens after that is up to the woman.
OMG😢, Britney is definitely misunderstood. She was dealing with a lot behind the scenes and broke; she was alone with no safe place. The one time she lashed out, showed vulnerability and reacted, like we would typically when put in her position!!!, we judged her too quickly, we couldn’t give her the benefit of the doubt, we all caused her conservatorship. Omg!!! We owe her a Big Apology.
Crush gone… I know there are two sides to every story but that is disappointing
They weren't labor pains. You don't go into labor and experience repeated contractions when you take the abortion pill. The abortion pill will only end a pregnancy if you take it very early on in your pregnancy - when the fetus is less than 3.5cm. It releases a chemical that stops the pregnancy from progressing and causes your uterus to empty. The symptoms are cramps and blood to come out. Totally different than labor when you experience contractions and a human body comes out. (And no, I've never had an abortion - but I think it's important for people reading this and weighing their options to understand that the abortion pill doesn't look or feel anything like giving birth.)
And in her book, these were her exact words about what Justin did while she was cramping: "At some point he thought maybe music would help, so he got his guitar and he lay there with me, strumming it."
So sad to hear her saying that she lost her faith, I and many others have been praying for her, be STRONG Britney! Jesus is the way the truth and the LIFE. I'm too polite to mention what this poor girl had to endure when she was young, she has been a cash factory for greedy preds her whole life, at any cost! At any cost.. Pray for my friend Amanda Bynes when you can. Reject Hollywood!
I feel like they all missed the point of she didn’t want an abortion, she wanted the baby- but Justin not wanting the baby made her feel like the had to have an abortion for Justin
I feel like there is way more pressure from guys this age to push you toward abortion rather than them pushing you toward birth
Exactly. The conservatives always paint the man like he wants to be a great dad, but in this case and a lot of cases, it's the man who doesn't want a child. What right does he have to make that medical decision for her? He, who will suffer nothing, and with total ignorance of pregnancy and what going through a home abortion/miscarriage even entails, gets to decide? Justin's sitting there playing a song while she's in so much pain she can't move and bleeding profusely. God, what an idiot boyfriend. What right does anyone have to ***someone else's*** medical condition, either insisting they continue it or end it, when only the patient bears all the sacrifice and lifelong consequences? This should be a no-brainer question: none! Pressuring/forcing a woman to do anything with her body is a violation. Even if a man hires a surrogate to carry his baby and pays her, signs a contract, he still doesn't have any right to overrule any of her decisions about her own body.
Yeah, I think they missed the point, too. They were still in a relationship. He could've told her that they're too young to have a child now, but they will have children in the future. That's not a hard concept. She was in love and trusted him and felt betrayed when he broke up with her. That would be extremely difficult for anyone.
In a perfect world it would be a joint decision, but we live in a world that hurls all the blame and responsibility of a pregnancy and child rearing on women so the choice is part of the package. As for the man's decision in this imperfect world, his choice ended as soon as he made his nonreturnable deposit. Surrendering his decision on whether or not he gets to be a father is part of having sex irresponsibly, I agree with Sunny's father in law, a man should never have sex with a woman he cant see being the mother of his children. If more boys were taught just that, we'd have a lot less abortions.
Exactly
It's fine not giving the man a choice as long as the woman is willing to waive her rights to child support payments.
I guess (??) that Whoopie was referring to men getting vasectomies since abortion is no longer a given in our country. Not sure why she wouldn't just state it unless she was afraid of pushback.
Whoopie making it up as she goes along
04:50 Alyssa’s face said Huh??
Let’s put this in a very graphic perspective…. She is like every other woman who has been wronged. Probably sitting there looking at him with his current family and feeling very bitter that he didn’t have the same emotions and love towards her and their child as he does now. There are men who go through this as well. No matter how long she lives, she will NEVER understand why. Even though I lost my two kids in a different way, I FEEL her loss and heartbreak in her words describing how her baby left her in such a horrible way. Then she had to see her baby that had been expelled from her body. She’s traumatized. PERIOD. She has PTSD. Facts!!!
From the articles I read, I was under the impression that Britney wasn't necessarily forced/pressured by Justin to get an abortion, she just said that he wasn't ready for a child while she was fine with it. But ultimately, got the abortion. Did I miss something that said Justin pressured her?
Yes you didn’t choose to read her book, only articles on the world wide web that are written by random people not involved.
@@jacobcourson9038so you did ?
Justin pressured her to get an abortion. Meanwhile after ingesting the abortion pills and being in pain on the bathroom floor, JT was strumming on his guitar thinking music would "help."
That's what was said
Whoopi with the weird analogy again? It must be Wednesday ...
she's not allowed to say "MASTURBATE" on live air - what part of that do y'all not get?? if women outlawed men MASTURBATING then things would be different - Whoopi's point
@@LucienWhite-fb5qk
What we don't get is how that is an equivalent to abortion. Care to explain to us simpletons?
@@LucienWhite-fb5qk I suspected she was alluding to masterbation. What I didn't understand was its relevance to this topic. It was illogical - hence the confusion.
What the heck was Whoopie saying towards end? @4:26. "Take care of themselves?" What's that about? Swimmers and eggs?
Some people are easy to judge others when their not in that situation. Caring starts by making unselfish decisions on what's best for the child/the life you created and what risks and sacrifices your willing to take before moving forward with keeping the pregnancy. I've been in that situation, giving up college or be a good mother/parent to my unplanned pregnancy. I have no regrets keeping my now 13yr old son. I've sacrifices and gave up my supposedly fun 20s life. But instead I was a full time mother, full time college student, and a mother. Motherhood at 22 years old changed my whole perspective of life. It taught me patience, hard work, unconditional love for my kids, being a provider, responsibility, and most of all enjoying every moment with them as we all experience the journey of life. You just need to trust yourself that only you have the power to stand on your ground and be strong for the people you have reasons to live for. ❤😊 I stand with Britney until this day she chooses to endure pain to show love for her kids. That's what makes a mother and a strong woman. May God bless you in all aspect of your life. Everyone hungers to be loved. ❤ you don't need the world to feel loved as long as you have a few that truly loves you back ❤😊. Like Britney said, this book is not to stir or cause any drama, she's simply want to voice the truth and tell her story and be inspired or not. Yet, media is doing what it did 20 years ago, judging and pointing fingers like were so perfect. Show compassion and humility is what makes us human. Don't feed the world with negative remarks. Inspire or be inspired. 😊 ✌️ ❤
I heard that Brittany’s song “Every time” was actually about this. Going back and hearing the lyrics and watching the video, the baby jingle throughout the song, it sounds like it could be about the abortion. Do y’all think this rumor is true?
It seems likely. The music video has a whole scene where there’s a pregnant woman giving birth.
@@philiplieu3889 right! Watching that years ago I never understood the meaning behind it. But definitely seems like she was grieving during that time.
@@King-dp7cm and the lyrics “I make believe, that you are here, it’s the only way, I see clear”
@@philiplieu3889 yes!
It’s about reincarnation, she dies in the music video and comes back as baby in the hospital
Like Joy, I have no idea what Whoopi is saying?😂
Can he voice his opinion? Sure, does he have a say? No! My body, my choice.
To be responsible you should consider these things in advance when choosing a sexual partner (or else you, they, and the potential future child must live with the consequences). Once she's pregnant then it is sensible to discuss the options and for both parties to voice their preferences. The woman must not be coerced, threatened, or manipulated during this discussion. Ultimately the woman makes the final decision.
For those stuck on that final point, here is why. Biologically there are stages to having a child. The biological stage for the man ends on conception. For the woman this is where it begins. The man had full control of his options right up to the moment that his stage ended. However, biologically, the woman still has time to make a decision.
I have no idea what Whoopi was talking about. Sara you had it right the first time, a baby. Does the fetus/baby change cause the parents are teenagers or does it have different rights if the parents are married with careers?
she's not allowed to say "MASTURBATE" on live air - what part of that do y'all not get?? if women outlawed men MASTURBATING then things would be different - Whoopi's point
@@LucienWhite-fb5qkI’m sorry what the heck does that have to do with deciding to get an abortion or not?
I am as confused as Joy was. What was the point Whoopie was trying to make at 4:25?
It looks like they explain it to Joy during the break, but, I didn’t catch it.
Waiting for Streisand’s Memoir November 7th! Hope she’s going to Promote it!
Interesting fact: Herschel Walker reacted the same way, (as Justin) when one of Herschel’s “girlfriends” got pregnant. And even paid for the abortion. But they are treating a Justin, with “kid gloves” in this identical situation.
I am as confused as Joy was. What was the point Whoopie was trying to make at 4:25?
It looks like they explain it to Joy during the break, but, I didn’t catch it.
Joy totally missed it😂😂😂
They just needed to say MASTURBATE!!! 😂😂
Oh that was Whoopie’s point
I missed it too 😂😂
I was lost too!! Lol 😂😂😂
That wasn't a point because Whoopi never makes any sense...if the woman should have 100% of the decision of deletion the man should have 100% say over whether he financially takes care of the child...THAT IS EQUALITY
WHOOPI WHAT TF ARE YOU TRYING TO SAY?!? Somebody at the network pay her off to leave the show already!
Joy and the prostate massage 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 i picked the joke immediately
Sunny was right on in this discussion!
No she wasn't. She's raising a 21 year old man and she even said so.
Right about what? She missed the part where Justin didn't want to be a dad and went to "but what if he wants to be father?" Um, he didn't. So he had a right to order her abortion? What if she blacked out and died as a result of this home termination? Why should a man with zero education in maternal fetal medicine and who will suffer zero of the physical consequences or pain get to dictate which medical risks she must take? No, his "say" is over his own baby making material while it's in his body. When he transfers ownership, it's then hers until it leaves her body.
The question Sonny asked was a good one. Wish they answered it.
Sarah answered it. Men can have a say to an extent but ultimately, it should be the woman's decision. It's their body.
Whoopi made ZERO sense - as always lol
yet people critize Sunny as not being a true conservative catholic woman, here's an example of how she thinks people should act but doesn't impose her views vs alyssa who believes everyone should be subject to her xtian faith regardless if you are part of that religion, r religion it's for u to follow, not to be impose, since the usa it's not a theocracy
I don't agree with Joy.
Both are involved during conception.
In reality, both are ultimately responsible for the new life, so both should make the decision about how it is going to go.
The first consideration should be what's best for the child.
The second consideration is for the parents, understanding that they are in this spot due to their own irresponsibility.
Both of these decisions should be discussed and rationally concluded for the best overall outcome.
The decision should be made together. Saying that it's only up to the woman, is damaging to women because that leaves them all alone in this process...it takes two to make a new life, not one.
The first consideration should be what is best for the mother.
Well said. Unfortunately, even if the woman refuses to involve the father in the decision, the law still holds the man responsible for taking care of his child... at least financially.
Well said Rob 👏. Some people are easy to judge others when their not in that situation. Caring starts by making unselfish decisions on what's best for the child/the life you created and what risks and sacrifices your willing to take before moving forward with keeping the pregnancy. I've been in that situation, giving up college or be a good mother/parent to my unplanned pregnancy. I have no regrets keeping my now 13yr old son. I've sacrifices and gave up my supposedly fun 20s life. But instead I was a full time mother, full time college student, and a mother. Motherhood at 22 years old changed my whole perspective of life. It taught me patience, hard work, unconditional love for my kids, being a provider, and most of all enjoying every moment with them as we all experience the journey of life. You just need to trust yourself that only you have the power to stand on your ground and be strong for the people you have reasons to live for. ❤😊 I stand with Britney until this day she chooses to endure pain to show love for her kids. That's what makes a mother and a strong woman. May God bless you in all aspect of your life. Everyone hungers to be loved. ❤ you don't need the world to feel loved as long as you have a few that truly loves you back. ❤😊
Both are not always involved willingly in conception, and it's too late for the man to "make decisions" once the pregnancy is created. He already decided. Now she will suffer 100% of the medical consequences of pregnancy, miscarriage, birth or abortion and he will suffer 0%, so women are already alone in that sense. And the more that a man tries to tell a woman what to do with her body after he's already had his "say" (when he transferred ownership of his baby making material) the more the results are damaging to her, and she feels violated. Make the choice BEFORE pregnancy.
My husband never tried to tell me anything about how to handle my pregnancies. Because he has the respect to realize I know my body better than him, and I know more about pregnancy and birth than he ever will in this lifetime. All kinds of complications can happen in a pregnancy, and all of them put my life at risk and not his. Instead of trying to take control of my body, he deferred to me and trusted me to handle it. Now, if we are deciding whether or not to try for a child, yes, he has 100% power over his own baby making material and I don't have a right to demand it. But once it's in my uterus, he does not get to make demands.
What should never happen is that a man tells a women to have an abortion when she doesn't want one, or he tells her to have a baby when she doesn't want one. The uterus is in her body, and she's not property like this is the 1800's. Ending up with preeclampsia or placenta increta is not something he can understand, so he needs to step back and support her as the authority of the pregnancy.
I've actually attended the birth of a mom who didn't want a child, but the husband pressured her because he wanted to be a dad. She was a SA survivor. It was horrific and she went into shock during the birth, depression and disconnection thereafter. There really is no difference between forcing a women to abort/birth, and forcing her to have sex. Do better. Men and boys really need better education on this topic. Too many think they are experts and it causes profound dehumanization of women.
The end of Whoopi saying what she said with grandeur yet it meant nothing is killing me. I’m like Joy, say what you mean mama, I didn’t get her point and 5 minutes is so short. Overall I’m 100% with Sara, always on point!
Love Alyssa’s sweater! ✨
Best thing about her
Theres whoopi again not making any sense.
I usually can always figure out what whoppi means but this time I’m a a total utter lost
I was forced into doing an LRT at the age of 30 years! I had No choice. I was crying on my way to the hospital but didn’t have a say!
If he didn't want tbe baby and she did, she should be able to keep the baby. He should be able to relinquish rights, responsibilities, and any financial burden on parenting...
I am Joy, WTH was Whoopi talking about lmao
100% with Britney in this one
Joy not getting Whoopi’s point and Sunny making a fool out of herself 😂
Tired of her talking about herself
They do put owness on the men..ITS CALLED CHILD SUPPORT, IF HE DOESN'T DO IT ITS CALLED JAIL..they never make sense with the argument and Whoopi didn't even make sense that's why they "went to break"😂😂😂
I'm stuck on a cruise right now... I want to buy her book soooooooooo bad
Download it to Ur phone. I got in on Google Books.
Dianne Sawyer owes her an apology, and so did Barbara Walters.
I don’t think Brittany or Justin were mature enough to make a decision. Certainly Brittany wasn’t mentally capable
Justin had every right to have his say he didn’t realize Brittany wasn’t capable of making a mature decision She just did what someone told her to do
I think they made the right choice at that time in their life! 😊
His "say" ended at depositing his material in her body. He transferred possession of it, and once that was done, his body is no longer involved at all so his say is over. Then all the health risks and suffering are hers to bear, and he's got zero education on maternal fetal medicine to be telling her anything. He can only choose at that point if he wants to support her choice or leave.
What did Wendy Williams say. Please i now agree to with her 😂😂😂😂
Having seen a lot of older footage recently Justin was a total ahole when they broke up. Zero empathy for him.
The final say lies with the woman especially when they are not married. When married, both couple should decide while puting the next person into consideration.
It is ALWAYS up to the woman only. This is reality. As a result of this, men need to take Gab’s grandfather’s advice and think about who they have sex w.
Many people say that they have books for you to buy any read.I have my own recommended books for enjoyment/ reading.I am not the author of any of them.
For many generations no legislation has been made if a man made a woman pregnant without her consent. When the woman then finds out that she is pregnant, it should be a criminal act and sexual assault if the man has not learned to protect both from precisely making the woman pregnant. Men should learn that it is a crime to make women pregnant and should understand the seriousness of this type of crime which can have serious consequences. Men were to be threatened with imprisonment for impregnating women without their knowledge and consent. It can have traumatic consequences.
I think it should be the woman’s choice. However I also think if the father does not want a child and the mother wants to keep it then he shouldn’t have to pay for it.
You don’t know the details no one does. I don’t trust Britney’s “truth”. She has all the power with this BOOK
I'm with Joy, I didn't understand Whoopi's point. lol
It’s the woman’s decision. Britney should be left alone. Good for her to write a book bless
Whoppie is spot on. All the men who vote against abortion.
What the heck was Whoopi talking about at the end? I’m with joy I had no idea what she was saying
Joy is too old for this show, maybe she needs to run for congress
Lol. Not crazy enough for congress
If the man doesn't want it, he should lose parenting rights and have no obligation to raise it.
Even though he participated in making the child? 50/50
@@laflaca1530 that's anti choice language, a fetus is not a child.
Plus, not every sexual encounter is done with the intention of reproduction. And birth control methods are not 100% guarantee to work.
@@laflaca1530 I was raised by my mom and my father barely was in our lives, but there was this expectation for there to be of love between us. I wish he was never involved at all. If a man doesn't want the kid, than its better if he is out completely.
There’s really no excusing Justin Timberlake’s behavior, IMO. If what Britney says in her book is true…and I think she is telling the truth.
Every indication appears he did intentionally manipulate media/popular view on Britney by accusing her of causing the break up by cheating when he had cheated multiple times…and they’d worked things out. He knew what he was doing by blindsiding her. He knew what game he was playing and he was fine with the collateral damage.
Their narrative seems to falter when a woman regrets what they keep saying empowers them. Go Britney!
They were both under 20 yrs old, and neither one of them were ready for children. This is a non story, Brittany should of kept this one private or at minimum got JT's approval.
There shouldn't be an option. If you have sex you need to realize you may end up pregnant. Grow up take responsibility. If you don't want a baby don't have sex.
I don’t get Whoopi’s point at all!…so confused 😵💫
I’m confused like Joy.
I don’t understand Whoopi’s point either???
Did Joy really say a man doesn’t have the right to know they have a biological child???
Ridiculous
Why won't Joy let the other women talk when making their point? She always interrupts them. That has gotten annoying.
The HAND!
"Well, not a baby... But pregnant" so what would she be pregnant with a fish? 😂
Wtffffff??? Joy doesn’t think the dad should have a right to now he’s going to have a child?!?!
What was the point......?