I assume given the context this was obvious, but the person in the video is not me. Just to be sure before there is a misunderstanding, this was the video: ruclips.net/video/CPt2CRl7fK4/видео.html
Even in a long-lasting relationship, you don't wanna emotionally depend on your partner like you explained. You need more than them as a healthy outlet, because it can get extremely hard for everyone if you have a big argument or if something happens to them. It leaves you without an outlet and, in the moment, can make you feel alienated with your issues. I've had friends who were in that situation, and it became too much to them to deal with. I'm not gonna go into details, but I will encourage people to find more than one person to "vent" to, even go see a therapist if needed, because it can help immensely in the long run.
100%. My partner and I realised during Covid that we became very dependent on each other for everything, and have taken steps to changing this. Our relationship has never been better since addressing this. We're coming up on 8 years together.
I think as far as honesty goes, it depends upon how deep you are into the relationship or friendship. You want to be as honest as possible but you don't want to dump everything on them at the beginning. And as the relationship grows you can reveal more and more. It's true you don't want to keep secrets forever, but I feel like there are some things you should keep to yourself until you're sure of how strong the bond is.
I always come for the Vampire Survivors, but whenever we get to the 'controversial' stuff I never shy away, I am a 17-year-old and am unsure on certain topics and the way that you word things and make them concise and understandable really helps, especially when I don't feel fully confident with talking to others in a general context. Anyways, great video, I love what you do, thankyou for everything.
I discovered you a couple days ago and I've been a compulsive VS player as well, trying to break the game in all possible ways, and I just wanted to tell you how much I love your content, especially the life advice/discussion, I find them really interesting and they made me think about the topics you've discussed a lot. All this to say you've earned a new sub, looking forward your next videos!
Occasionally seeing you comment on Shady's videos is a nice thing to see. Also his cat is very fluffy indeed. She's a siberian something something & they get very big too.
I don't see why would you pick Boogaloo in this case. The beams got to max area really fast either way and once they hit the pierce limit there is no point in more area. Getting more beams is a pure dps increase EDIT: Not trying to hate. Just feels unreasonable to me. The therapy talk was interesting.
Talking honestly about sensitive topics without appearing to be someone else is very important between friends and close people. I had good friends in the past but now I don't feel the same way about them. I stopped talking about some things with those friends and they felt more and more distant. Friendship is not eternal and at some point it can end but, unlike a romantic relationship, friendship can be maintained almost throughout your life if you do not neglect those beautiful conversations. My motto: quality over quantity.
Re Honesty/Openness: I have experience with the opposite approach "not truthfully sharing who you are out of fear for being judged" and this has soooo many downsides. Sure it might seem attractive to not be repulsive to half of the people on first sight but it is hell of a loz of energy being wasted on projecting a persona you are not really inside. Being able to share who you are is sooo freeing on the other hand and possibly an absolute necessity for wellbeing and sanity. I love your gequassel and hope other viewers appreciate it as much so that you feel compelled to keep it up.
Dex if you stand in the spot with the Torrona's Box you spawn frequently mini guardians and mobs around you and not just from 1 or 2 spots, not sure, maybe if you read this and checked it? im sure it works there, on the spot-ish with Torrona's Box
I think your talk about honesty is right on point. the best idea is to always be honest about the real you, whats the point of fooling someone into liking a false version of yourself? also, baby bird me daddy dex :O
I appreciate honesty, but I have no problem lying if I don't want to answer something and feel pressured to give an answer, since being honest and not answering would create unwanted assumptions and whatnot. Of course this is in regards to people that I don't feel I can be entirely honest with. But... when it comes to people that I do feel I can be honest with, they never tend to ask me and contact eventually fades, so... ultimately it doesn't really matter. I'm pretty honest about things with family I guess and I would be honest with someone I consider close.
I'm probably an odd ball, but to me people should be more open. I have no shame telling someone when I had a good poop for example, why? 'Cause we all poop and it has a significant impact on our day to day lives. This should (to me) be normal. That said, Jungian Psychology is a real thing.
Do you think the game would be better if it allowed you to set up caps for your states? Character speed is very hard to deal with when it gets too high, for example.
Hmm I'd say its not big enough of an issue that it's worth sacrificing other development for it, but yes I'd like a cap on movement speed. Golden Egg movement speed can be removed, but some chars skyrocket since they gain it per lvl up
One problem I see here in the states is that openness or being open minded is leaning towards being apathetic. Unless you are a NPC, you are going to have some set of code or values that are mutually exclusive with other ideas that opponents will have. You will of course want to have those conversations civilly, and often being civil with someone you disagree with is going to be the most challenging part in our generation. Still "acceptance" can be another way of not engaging in a clash of ideas. And if neither side challenges the other then iron never sharpens iron. But as for judging, I don't think anyone will escape that. I will admit 100% I will judge anyone I first see that dyes their hair pink or some other unnatural color. I see it as a sign of low emotional intelligence. Now, my internal prejudice may be entirely unfounded and by no means would I write someone off from being my friend for having pink hair. But yeah, I am totally judging and I would never encourage someone do to it. That is not something I am "accepting" on, but I still would "care" for them by engaging in that dialogue. Because it is easy to "accept" someone and just walk away and not have the conversation. It is difficult to clash ideas and it takes both time and effort. But if you are my friend, I would want him/her to be comfortable challenging me on my ideas and vice versa.
I think true acceptance takes making the effort to understand the other person's perspective that gave rise to the difference in opinion. It is only apathy if you don't care to understand the other person. That ideal is good on paper but hard to achieve. Ideals are like that. They are the standard you aim for hoping you get close. Reasonable people will admit it is impossible to meet ideals. So really all you can do is your best.
I love how the gameplay got so boring that he went off on deep, serious topics, lol. Once the video went solid blue/white gradients, the deep topics kept it interesting and enjoyable. Thanks for the wise words while we wait, lol.
I feel I have to comment on your discussion regarding the utility of diversity (31:00) No, it is not "always" good to have a "very strong diversity" in "society". A military force, for instance, cannot tollerate a diversity of loyalty, if some of the men are fighting for Germany, and others are fighting for Syria and others yet for Russia, then you have a rioting mob, not an army (unless German, Syrian, and Russian interests all happen to allign, and even then this only works for as long as interests remain alligned). You need Unity for any collaborative endeavour (be it a project team, a household, or a nation) to work. Imagine a movie shoot where the costume department wants to make a horror film, the sound team are making a musical, the actors are making a comedy, and the cinematographer is making an action film, all while the director was imagining the project to be a drama. It would be an absolute mess, and this is exactly due to diversity... diversity of vision in this case. A team of amateurs who've never been involved in making a movie at all, but who all share a vision can probably produce a better (or at least more coherent) movie using their phone cameras than the discordant mess I described above (especially if they happen to be making found footage horror) Diversity can only work if encapsulated within a wider Unity.
I think "Really getting to know" people is overrated. People are individuals, not perfect matches. Everyone has things they are not proud of and will never be okay with sharing. Everyone has done something they are ashamed of, no matter how big or small. Shame exists for a reason. Without shame, we wouldn't be alive. Obviously some people are too introverted when maybe they shouldn't be and that's sad, but most people have a good reason for keeping things to themselves.
Dex been perfectly explaining why Damascus Syria has been known as Damascus Syria since 10,000 bc and Europeans are becoming minorities in their own countries lol 😂😂😂😂
I was under the impression it was to do with autism and how people tend to mask to "fit in", but I guess that's just cognitive/confirmation bias on my part
I assume given the context this was obvious, but the person in the video is not me. Just to be sure before there is a misunderstanding, this was the video: ruclips.net/video/CPt2CRl7fK4/видео.html
ITS Shady bunny, one of the best battlegrounds players and content creators. :)
I was excited. Anyway, face reveal when?
But what if it is a double fakeout and was actually Dex all along...
My kink is hearing Dex say BOOOGALOOO OF ILLUSIOOOONS
Same
Your therapist section in this video actually helps me thanks
Even in a long-lasting relationship, you don't wanna emotionally depend on your partner like you explained. You need more than them as a healthy outlet, because it can get extremely hard for everyone if you have a big argument or if something happens to them. It leaves you without an outlet and, in the moment, can make you feel alienated with your issues. I've had friends who were in that situation, and it became too much to them to deal with. I'm not gonna go into details, but I will encourage people to find more than one person to "vent" to, even go see a therapist if needed, because it can help immensely in the long run.
100%. My partner and I realised during Covid that we became very dependent on each other for everything, and have taken steps to changing this. Our relationship has never been better since addressing this. We're coming up on 8 years together.
I vent to my goldfish. He’s a good listener.
I love it when you Amounted all over the screen
I think as far as honesty goes, it depends upon how deep you are into the relationship or friendship. You want to be as honest as possible but you don't want to dump everything on them at the beginning. And as the relationship grows you can reveal more and more. It's true you don't want to keep secrets forever, but I feel like there are some things you should keep to yourself until you're sure of how strong the bond is.
Dex, thank you for always starting with Wicked Season. Very entertaining.
I always come for the Vampire Survivors, but whenever we get to the 'controversial' stuff I never shy away, I am a 17-year-old and am unsure on certain topics and the way that you word things and make them concise and understandable really helps, especially when I don't feel fully confident with talking to others in a general context.
Anyways, great video, I love what you do, thankyou for everything.
I like this times at video where u talk about random things, it's good to have this kind of conversations sometimes
I zoned out because of Phieraggi and when I got conscious again, I suddenly was listening to a therapy podcast lol. Great vid
I discovered you a couple days ago and I've been a compulsive VS player as well, trying to break the game in all possible ways, and I just wanted to tell you how much I love your content, especially the life advice/discussion, I find them really interesting and they made me think about the topics you've discussed a lot.
All this to say you've earned a new sub, looking forward your next videos!
Occasionally seeing you comment on Shady's videos is a nice thing to see. Also his cat is very fluffy indeed. She's a siberian something something & they get very big too.
Recently started vampire survivors and been addicted to watching your channel!
Your new computer runs Vampire Survivors like a freaking champ! Holy! Great video Dex!
I don't see why would you pick Boogaloo in this case. The beams got to max area really fast either way and once they hit the pierce limit there is no point in more area. Getting more beams is a pure dps increase
EDIT: Not trying to hate. Just feels unreasonable to me. The therapy talk was interesting.
But... the meme...
Meme > Optimality
He didnt pick boogaloo though..
@@karenamyx2205 Dex was saying he should've picked boogaloo in the video, which is what OP was addressing.
I really love hearing your thoughts on living and life. Great stuff in there.
Ooh I’m so looking forward to seeing Dex’s giant Bone
And finding the hole🕳👀
Talking honestly about sensitive topics without appearing to be someone else is very important between friends and close people. I had good friends in the past but now I don't feel the same way about them. I stopped talking about some things with those friends and they felt more and more distant.
Friendship is not eternal and at some point it can end but, unlike a romantic relationship, friendship can be maintained almost throughout your life if you do not neglect those beautiful conversations.
My motto: quality over quantity.
I'm enjoying these new limit breaks
You helped me get into vampire survivors thank you so much
I like when you talk about these harder topics because it feels like I'm more here watching this video for you as a person and not for the game
Re Honesty/Openness:
I have experience with the opposite approach "not truthfully sharing who you are out of fear for being judged" and this has soooo many downsides. Sure it might seem attractive to not be repulsive to half of the people on first sight but it is hell of a loz of energy being wasted on projecting a persona you are not really inside. Being able to share who you are is sooo freeing on the other hand and possibly an absolute necessity for wellbeing and sanity.
I love your gequassel and hope other viewers appreciate it as much so that you feel compelled to keep it up.
27:00 bro wtf i was eating cake and gagged on my food, anyways good video dex love the 50% vampire survivors and 50% feelings talk
Dex being so addicted to bones that he just forgets about the (i think) first video he did on limit-break with the scan
Love uoy vampire survivor podcast😊❤
Phieraggi's revival bonuses maxes out at 10 revives for a maximum of +100% damage and 10 beams only.
Yes. the cat is floof. Persian, Himalayan or Ragdoll from the looks of it. (I have ragdolls and they are major floof). Plus very affectionate.
Die Stelle wo du Deutsch sprichst hat mich gekilled xDDD
Just like I thought, you look exactly like your thumbnail.
😂
Dex if you stand in the spot with the Torrona's Box you spawn frequently mini guardians and mobs around you and not just from 1 or 2 spots, not sure, maybe if you read this and checked it? im sure it works there, on the spot-ish with Torrona's Box
We all knew the gun would destroy everything eventually. Merica🦅🦅🇺🇲
I think your talk about honesty is right on point. the best idea is to always be honest about the real you, whats the point of fooling someone into liking a false version of yourself? also, baby bird me daddy dex :O
Ohh, here it is. Also, woah, I'm in a video You defiantly should have gone boogalo.
Dex went full ultrabased mode with his commentary this time
I appreciate honesty, but I have no problem lying if I don't want to answer something and feel pressured to give an answer, since being honest and not answering would create unwanted assumptions and whatnot. Of course this is in regards to people that I don't feel I can be entirely honest with. But... when it comes to people that I do feel I can be honest with, they never tend to ask me and contact eventually fades, so... ultimately it doesn't really matter. I'm pretty honest about things with family I guess and I would be honest with someone I consider close.
A German gentleman talking about kink, it tracks with my experience hahaha
Still, not what I was expecting on the Phieraggi video🤣🤣🤣
the usual proverb: "if you assume you make an ass out of u and me"
the wise dex: "assuming is bad. assuming is how you die"
That's a lotta beans!
dex could you do a video using the paranormal scan as dps weapon? i think this gonna be crayzy
Getting epilepsy from watching youtube speedrun any%
Instructions unclear, my illusions do not boogaloo.
Someone send help
You ought to try Carréllo with Paranormal Scan, maybe it will finally be a reliable weapon...
You would make a great Ramble with DarkViperAu
Dex confirmed puppy dog furry, hense why he love bones and balls so much
Doesn't the Amount stat cap at +10? And then for Phieraggi the Revival stat caps at +10 also. That's how the wiki has it at least
The beams looked like they were bending!!
Requesting cosmo life sign scanner please! Solo limit break of it
Or trouser life sign scan with sarabande of healing + disco of gold
i would rather request cosmo pavone with Impostongue. Since Cosmo has insane regeneration-scaling
@@Drigallski also we’ve seen enough pants and I can’t remember the last time I’ve seen anyone use cosmo
Hypnosis complete. Time to talk to strangers about my kinks
Will not stop asking for cosmo with lifesign scanner limit break!
You always want to level up before going in the hole.
I'm probably an odd ball, but to me people should be more open. I have no shame telling someone when I had a good poop for example, why? 'Cause we all poop and it has a significant impact on our day to day lives. This should (to me) be normal. That said, Jungian Psychology is a real thing.
How do you evolve your weapon so soon?
Do you think the game would be better if it allowed you to set up caps for your states? Character speed is very hard to deal with when it gets too high, for example.
Hmm I'd say its not big enough of an issue that it's worth sacrificing other development for it, but yes I'd like a cap on movement speed. Golden Egg movement speed can be removed, but some chars skyrocket since they gain it per lvl up
perhaps they should also do what Holocure did and add attack transparency.
@@Mernom yea, the QOL mod had that already over a year ago, I really hope it will finally get added...
People sometimes are too afraid to show off being not perfect
You ever get vertigo from watching a video before?
You want to try?
One problem I see here in the states is that openness or being open minded is leaning towards being apathetic. Unless you are a NPC, you are going to have some set of code or values that are mutually exclusive with other ideas that opponents will have. You will of course want to have those conversations civilly, and often being civil with someone you disagree with is going to be the most challenging part in our generation. Still "acceptance" can be another way of not engaging in a clash of ideas. And if neither side challenges the other then iron never sharpens iron.
But as for judging, I don't think anyone will escape that. I will admit 100% I will judge anyone I first see that dyes their hair pink or some other unnatural color. I see it as a sign of low emotional intelligence. Now, my internal prejudice may be entirely unfounded and by no means would I write someone off from being my friend for having pink hair. But yeah, I am totally judging and I would never encourage someone do to it. That is not something I am "accepting" on, but I still would "care" for them by engaging in that dialogue. Because it is easy to "accept" someone and just walk away and not have the conversation. It is difficult to clash ideas and it takes both time and effort. But if you are my friend, I would want him/her to be comfortable challenging me on my ideas and vice versa.
I think true acceptance takes making the effort to understand the other person's perspective that gave rise to the difference in opinion. It is only apathy if you don't care to understand the other person.
That ideal is good on paper but hard to achieve. Ideals are like that. They are the standard you aim for hoping you get close. Reasonable people will admit it is impossible to meet ideals. So really all you can do is your best.
I love how the gameplay got so boring that he went off on deep, serious topics, lol. Once the video went solid blue/white gradients, the deep topics kept it interesting and enjoyable. Thanks for the wise words while we wait, lol.
why taking the revival arcana since it gives bonuses if you CONSUME a revival?
That's not how Phieraggi works though
@@DexTag thanks for the answer bro and thanks for all your videos!
you already made the bone video with paranormal scan, buuuuuut i wouldnt mind watching you boning 'round again
Ayy Shady Bunny
I feel I have to comment on your discussion regarding the utility of diversity (31:00)
No, it is not "always" good to have a "very strong diversity" in "society".
A military force, for instance, cannot tollerate a diversity of loyalty, if some of the men are fighting for Germany, and others are fighting for Syria and others yet for Russia, then you have a rioting mob, not an army (unless German, Syrian, and Russian interests all happen to allign, and even then this only works for as long as interests remain alligned).
You need Unity for any collaborative endeavour (be it a project team, a household, or a nation) to work.
Imagine a movie shoot where the costume department wants to make a horror film, the sound team are making a musical, the actors are making a comedy, and the cinematographer is making an action film, all while the director was imagining the project to be a drama. It would be an absolute mess, and this is exactly due to diversity... diversity of vision in this case.
A team of amateurs who've never been involved in making a movie at all, but who all share a vision can probably produce a better (or at least more coherent) movie using their phone cameras than the discordant mess I described above (especially if they happen to be making found footage horror)
Diversity can only work if encapsulated within a wider Unity.
I think "Really getting to know" people is overrated. People are individuals, not perfect matches. Everyone has things they are not proud of and will never be okay with sharing. Everyone has done something they are ashamed of, no matter how big or small. Shame exists for a reason. Without shame, we wouldn't be alive. Obviously some people are too introverted when maybe they shouldn't be and that's sad, but most people have a good reason for keeping things to themselves.
Um, by the end the beams started looking like a certain symbol from germanys past
What stage is this?
Abyss Foscari
Do this with bracelet xD
Now i just want to tell you secrets
plz mouth feed us more videos Dex :)
img, dex you dingus
Dex been perfectly explaining why Damascus Syria has been known as Damascus Syria since 10,000 bc and Europeans are becoming minorities in their own countries lol 😂😂😂😂
Dex face reveal????
a bit to early eh?
26:00 Did somebody close to you come out as trans, because it sure sounds like it.
Na, though I guess it would equally apply to that, but this is more about someone hiding things out of fear
I was under the impression it was to do with autism and how people tend to mask to "fit in", but I guess that's just cognitive/confirmation bias on my part
PSA: PHOTOSENSITIVITY WARNIG! Phieraggi build!