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  • The Whitlows are unhappy with Dr. Francis' analysis. Melody confronts Martell’s mom. Dr. Francis and Marsau have an intense conversation. Tune in to a new Love & Marriage: Huntsville on Saturdays at 9/8c, and catch up on the Watch OWN app: bit.ly/2hr1nX2.
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  • @OWN
    @OWN  Год назад +28

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  • @nousnous4361
    @nousnous4361 Год назад +741

    Martell's mom is so used to struggling with a 2 parent role that the idea of her son actually being a husband and Melody only doing half of the work that she may have done is a problem. An active husband is not a man who is being taken advantage of mama 😭

    • @SunsFlowerCreations
      @SunsFlowerCreations Год назад +96

      That's exactly what I got from it. She expected Melanie to never be allowed a break or help because she didn't have it.

    • @naomialves3269
      @naomialves3269 Год назад +21

      Exactly 💯💯💯💯💯💯

    • @sonyab2u974
      @sonyab2u974 Год назад +27

      Exactly! Those are his kids too plus he said a vow to his wife💯

    • @robbievalen4364
      @robbievalen4364 Год назад +20

      You told no lies...all facts.

    • @seemenomore8900
      @seemenomore8900 Год назад +11

      Snap Snap

  • @MsDrobertson522
    @MsDrobertson522 Год назад +428

    Martell mother is the root of where Martell narcissism began😒

  • @m2mj4
    @m2mj4 Год назад +506

    Dr Francis got them Whitlows together hunny 😂😂 I’ve watched this episode a few times and I am tickled.. they came on the show judging the other couples and now they can’t take it from a LICENSED therapist.. too funny.. P.S. OWN please give Dr Francis a show. Love him ❤

    • @e.l.c.4298
      @e.l.c.4298 Год назад +18

      I hope he gets tiffany together for a coming for his credentials

    • @gracedarlin3331
      @gracedarlin3331 Год назад +19

      @@e.l.c.4298
      I'd come for his credentials too. Watching him allow the other two couples to chime in, with their antagonistic comments. From the very beginning, he did not create nor maintain an environment where the Whitlows felt safe or supported. If he, which he did, missed or overlooked the get-back spirit of the Scott couples comments towards the Whitlows that's a problem. I'm not even trying to evaluate their relationship cause the setup was not conducive to building trust; which is required for a professional to be accepted into a relationship of any type. Tiffany was being defensive and it was a natural response in that made for tv counseling.

    • @neshalovinbrowneyes
      @neshalovinbrowneyes Год назад +1

      @@gracedarlin3331 exactly

    • @noneofyourbusiness731
      @noneofyourbusiness731 Год назад +4

      @@gracedarlin3331 omg...finally....someone that begs to differ.....the world needs more people like you.

    • @stephaniestone2283
      @stephaniestone2283 Год назад +6

      the Whitlows are arrogant, which means they are not in touch with their own marriage 🤔 😳.

  • @missdrgirlfriend
    @missdrgirlfriend Год назад +303

    "how does it feel to be professionally diagnosed as fake" I screamed

  • @quinnelmonte9435
    @quinnelmonte9435 Год назад +248

    I like the response Dr Francis gave Marsau be cause he is delusional. “One of the biggest mistakes ppl make is to Argue the truth when the truth stands by it self” 👌🏾

    • @estherbradley3218
      @estherbradley3218 Год назад +17

      🔨 🔨🔨🔨🔨 nailed it

    • @latoyajenkins7023
      @latoyajenkins7023 Год назад +14

      Yes! I liked that part! After seeing some of the episodes and situations regarding the marriage of Marsau and Tisha - I feel he is underlying manipulative who tries to portray something he/they aren't and Tisha is a true blind blonde.

    • @lovebug443229
      @lovebug443229 Год назад +3

      Dr. Francis sees RIGHT through him and have been for years.

    • @mamajoycewig3041
      @mamajoycewig3041 10 дней назад

      Right that was my favorite part

  • @m2mj4
    @m2mj4 Год назад +256

    “Professionally diagnosed as fake ” 😅😂😂 that Marsu is something else

    • @Swanky97
      @Swanky97 Год назад +13

      He was having a ball at that table 😂

    • @shannonthetherapist
      @shannonthetherapist Год назад +3

      He is a BIG AVOIDER use word salad often...but try to present as intelligent 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @latoyajenkins7023
      @latoyajenkins7023 Год назад +1

      @@shannonthetherapist yes and that would get on my ever loving nerves. If I was to ask him something and his response to me would be "I'm not going to" or "I can't answer that".

  • @MsPANTHER47
    @MsPANTHER47 Год назад +54

    "Have you considered that maybe a woman has the right to have the right over her body?"
    This question was asked.
    In 2022.
    That Is Incredible!

    • @jazznorelletv
      @jazznorelletv Год назад +9

      plus Maurice isn't saying anything about setting the mood, foreplay, or anything...all just what Kimmie is supposed to do. It almost seams like a setup as an excuse to cheat to give her an unrealistic expectation. yikes.

    • @lemonlemon7186
      @lemonlemon7186 10 месяцев назад +4

      It’s so draining how men believe they have ownership over our bodies but Maurice doesn’t even ATTEMPT to please his wife intimately. Pitiful.

    • @briahthompson
      @briahthompson 4 месяца назад

      It’s crazy honestly like I know intimacy is needed but everyday?? Even when she was going through treatment the things he said were appalling

  • @marphilli
    @marphilli Год назад +474

    Dr. Francis peeped game fast. The Whitlows are a mess.

    • @jamaicanjoyh6883
      @jamaicanjoyh6883 Год назад +12

      Did you hear how Marsaul called them on the carpet and said about Dr Francis exposing them as fakes by a professional
      My mouf fell open...SMH.. 😲 RUDE..EVEN IF TRU😂😂😂 HE IS AN OPPORTUNITIST TO THE FULLEST

    • @preondagraham1788
      @preondagraham1788 Год назад +5

      The look 👀 on his face was so funny

    • @Cengine87
      @Cengine87 Год назад +1

      Girl I'm with you!!!!

    • @ChanelStar1
      @ChanelStar1 Год назад +1

      *I was going to say FOS but a mess is better lol*

    • @queenximora1097
      @queenximora1097 Год назад

      A whole mess

  • @Danny-os3up
    @Danny-os3up Год назад +378

    I want this dr to have a show ❤he is dropping Knowledge

    • @ArienMoon
      @ArienMoon Год назад +8

      I said the same thing!!! he needs his own show

    • @ashpooh1231456
      @ashpooh1231456 Год назад +4

      I would so enjoy his knowledge/teaching

    • @quentinadanile6897
      @quentinadanile6897 Год назад +7

      I like him he's helping my marriage lol

    • @t4t806
      @t4t806 Год назад

      Yes, yes

  • @ravenwhite9986
    @ravenwhite9986 Год назад +216

    I just know she didn’t call Mel lazy. You cannot have the accolades that she has and be lazy. That woman is a whole enabler and hater!

    • @siklysarkastik04
      @siklysarkastik04 Год назад +31

      that would have been the end of the conversation for me.

    • @harmonygoldengoddess4114
      @harmonygoldengoddess4114 Год назад +8

      She might be good in all errors in her life but marriage..it takes too..I can see melody has flaws too that she cover up very well.she is great at what she does..but marriage might not be something she's good at like she's making it seem..

    • @eyeswideshut2800
      @eyeswideshut2800 Год назад +10

      @@harmonygoldengoddess4114 His Mom is telling the truth, she's too caught up in trying to win regardless the kids present . The minute anyone disagrees she's tripping and exhibiting narcissistic behavior. I believe Montel is a better housekeeper and father and nothing wrong with that but own it.

    • @harmonygoldengoddess4114
      @harmonygoldengoddess4114 Год назад +4

      @@eyeswideshut2800 I agree but I always try to see all sides.

    • @chitchatwithcuetea
      @chitchatwithcuetea Год назад

      ‼️‼️‼️‼️

  • @jessepruitt5159
    @jessepruitt5159 Год назад +101

    It's funny how Maurice and Marsau can see everybody else's problem so clearly..But don't see their problems.

    • @latoyajenkins7023
      @latoyajenkins7023 Год назад

      For Maurice to say "we should have s** two times a day as a reward..." Like dude shut up you sound stupid 😆 ole milk dud head!

    • @p9782
      @p9782 Год назад +2

      Come thru like a mack truck💯

    • @Theeconvo
      @Theeconvo 6 месяцев назад +2

      The audacity....

  • @nicolesonatural5743
    @nicolesonatural5743 Год назад +109

    I'm just happy to see some actual "love and marriage " back in the the show I think the retreat was a great idea

  • @vivianrogers5069
    @vivianrogers5069 Год назад +248

    Tiffany is so emotionally detached and doesn't realize it.

    • @craftybrowngirl1843
      @craftybrowngirl1843 Год назад +18

      She’s cold 🥶

    • @Daniabre.
      @Daniabre. Год назад +9

      I mean her husband is a like a tree, gotta break him down to make him feel human

    • @kelleysaint8606
      @kelleysaint8606 Год назад +19

      I guess it could be due to her being given away from her parents, she may still be dealing with that

    • @gospel4303
      @gospel4303 Год назад +7

      @@kelleysaint8606 @ 37yrs old she should not be Still dealing with. Get therapy. She needs to invest her time using the advice she initially provided as it relates to the other couples

    • @somebody6907
      @somebody6907 Год назад +29

      @@gospel4303 You don't decide when someone "deals" with it. Everyone reacts to things differently.

  • @arqueillastallings5702
    @arqueillastallings5702 Год назад +97

    I think Martell mom was more jealous of the life him and Melody had that's why she was calling Melody spoiled but it was her work that really kept the family a float

    • @helena3631
      @helena3631 3 месяца назад

      Most black women in marriages are not applied they are mules working .. Melody was never a stay at home mom as most black women have to work

  • @meekcherry1173
    @meekcherry1173 Год назад +178

    The Whitlows: She runs him. Period. She’s not in love, she’s in Control.

    • @kesybaby5382
      @kesybaby5382 Год назад +15

      FACTS.... I def get that vibe from them...

    • @Michelle-yc2kh
      @Michelle-yc2kh Год назад +13

      @@kesybaby5382 I believe she is with him so as not to be alone-convenience

    • @kesybaby5382
      @kesybaby5382 Год назад +12

      @@Michelle-yc2kh Yeah... Totally. She's a bit of an ice queen... lol lol lol Emotionally vacant.

    • @seducedbyskb
      @seducedbyskb Год назад +7

      I actually like big lew! I think Tiffany can become likable but she needs some help.

    • @comealongwithceceadverture1544
      @comealongwithceceadverture1544 Год назад

      I knew that I felt that as well !

  • @jrenee8303
    @jrenee8303 Год назад +259

    Martells mother is the EXACT reason he is the narcissist he is today. She enables him and defends him no matter the proof of his behavior

    • @ashpooh1231456
      @ashpooh1231456 Год назад +4

      Fractured

    • @docdt3968
      @docdt3968 Год назад +11

      My exact opinion. She's hurting him more than either of them realize, which, in turn hurts his children.

    • @alp.comedian6314
      @alp.comedian6314 Год назад +3

      That’s family. They mean well but they’re not relationship therapists. First instinct is to protect. 😮

    • @kikib7310
      @kikib7310 Год назад +9

      Yes you shouldn't uphold anyone in their wrongdoing child or not! Cause Martell is definitely a narcissist his mother helped to create! Narcissists are created not born that way

  • @queenximora1097
    @queenximora1097 Год назад +179

    Martell mom is just as Jealous as Tishas mom. Lady go sat down somewhere a husband is supposed to SPOIL his WIFE as she SPOIL him🙄🤷‍♀️

    • @helena3631
      @helena3631 Год назад +7

      she was a baby momma she doesnt know nothing about that

    • @TheodoreBakes
      @TheodoreBakes Год назад

      Exactly! Sadly she doesn't know what that actually looks like so of course she's going to take up for him saying he's doing too much she never had a n**** do too much for her

    • @TellyTellsIt
      @TellyTellsIt Год назад +3

      @@consciousanfesiashapsnikof8688 shut up Marhell

    • @sista_widloxxx5786
      @sista_widloxxx5786 Год назад +2

      They grew old lonely with no companionship so they both hating on their in laws, it’s sad

  • @ArienMoon
    @ArienMoon Год назад +101

    give Dr Francis his own show! 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾

    • @ArienMoon
      @ArienMoon Год назад +1

      @T T I think it's so positive to see a black man in his position especially because he's been able to penetrate his teachings successfully to these black men. it's beautiful

    • @abeaut81
      @abeaut81 2 месяца назад

      The new Iyanala

  • @kindware6323
    @kindware6323 Год назад +230

    This season is so juicy. Please keep Dr. Francis in rotation -he plays no games!🫡✊🏾❤️

  • @ChanelStar1
    @ChanelStar1 Год назад +201

    *I feel like Martell's mom was jealous that Mel had a husband that would wait hand and foot over her because as she expressed it's something that she never had. The fact that she acknowledged that yes, it was after she had a baby that she witnessed this and in the same breath stated I said what I said was ridiculous.*

    • @craftybrowngirl1843
      @craftybrowngirl1843 Год назад +26

      I agree she was and is jealous of Mel.

    • @originaleverythingelseisca5977
      @originaleverythingelseisca5977 Год назад +27

      I agree!! Melody does sooo much, and had all 4 of his kids. So he should wait on her hand and foot!! Its sad because the world wants us to everything and on top of that, we don't get no sympathy from other black women in America. We have been taught to be work horses, mules, and mammys. I'm done with that. Giving something up in less then 2 more years

    • @frankwright1571
      @frankwright1571 Год назад +14

      I don't think she was jealous. I think it is generational. I have heard women around her age who are married say that younger women are lazy in the house. I think they were taught to believe that it was a woman place to work that hard.

    • @ChanelStar1
      @ChanelStar1 Год назад +21

      @@frankwright1571 I disagree. She clarified that Mel wasn't lazy around the house, just being lazy in those moments. I think it was more of her experiencing motherhood and not having anyone there for her and having to do everything on her own. So when she sees her son who just got off of work waiting on his wife she was triggered because she had to work and take care of her child alone. When you don't have support from your partner, parenting is HARD.

    • @sharonpope1737
      @sharonpope1737 Год назад +5

      @@craftybrowngirl1843 I don’t see jealousy I think she loves Melody but spoke on what she saw

  • @monique_dannigirl7111
    @monique_dannigirl7111 Год назад +40

    Melody handled Ms. Marlene very well. So Classy.🥰

  • @ruthvasquez6748
    @ruthvasquez6748 Год назад +118

    Tiffany don't want them to be transparent. When Big Lou was crying her eyes seems very cold and annoyed like boy stop. I think She even had a smirk. Dr.Francis see's what all of us see. They both get very defensive.

    • @aieshaharris5340
      @aieshaharris5340 Год назад +10

      I notice that in her allllllll the time!!! I consider that to be evil!

    • @deliciaperry4684
      @deliciaperry4684 Год назад +1

      He’s caused her some pain that they’re not mentioning. That’s the only way a woman acts like that with her man.

  • @shoogasweet5847
    @shoogasweet5847 Год назад +91

    Louis has a condescending tone. He and his wife some how think that they are 'better' than everyone else. It seems like a defense to their hurt from divorce and their past hurts. They need to face their issues and be transparent to self first. They put on facades with each other, therefore they put off the same thing onto others.

    • @daniellecoleman5120
      @daniellecoleman5120 Год назад +6

      Correct.

    • @QueenBluntdanae
      @QueenBluntdanae Год назад

      Yup that perfect image type act or energy like stop I’m happy they broke down & acted human not like robots

  • @llove1012
    @llove1012 Год назад +38

    As a single mother, Martell's mama really can't relate or understand how a 2 parent household works... and maybe even how a relationship works well.

  • @nyaj754
    @nyaj754 Год назад +54

    Argue the truth when the truth stands by itself! Doc is preaching now, Come on Somebody 🙌🏽

    • @sunnygibbs925
      @sunnygibbs925 Год назад +5

      i think he was speaking directly to Marsau and telling him - there's no need to argue the truth, cuz the truth stands by itself...all the while Marsau arguing his "perfect position". He can see something off with Marsau😆

    • @nyaj754
      @nyaj754 Год назад +4

      @@sunnygibbs925 Exactly! He was speaking to the both of them because they are always over explaining, When the truth don’t need NO support

  • @justIvy98
    @justIvy98 Год назад +72

    The Whitlow's can go. Dr. Francis is on point as usual! He needs to be made permanent or his own therapy show for black people!

  • @mocamocam2258
    @mocamocam2258 Год назад +66

    I love Dr. Francis he's the realist on the show!

  • @Colormetat
    @Colormetat Год назад +111

    It’s shameful how messy things tend to get on this show. You can’t tell if they’re all friends or enemies.

    • @pamelataylor8947
      @pamelataylor8947 Год назад +3

      So true i use to like it when it 1st came on starting to get rachet like the other reality shows love n hip hop 😂 😂

    • @tonyamorgan-moore5484
      @tonyamorgan-moore5484 Год назад +2

      That’s why I’ve stop watching it. I’m sick of these Reality shows. All they do is team up on one another and drag each other. It’s sickening and pathetic.

  • @lauryjerry1566
    @lauryjerry1566 Год назад +106

    This episodes was so informative and beneficial for all married couple and singles who want to be in..Thank you OWN and above all Thank you Tisha for coming up with this story line and Dr Francis 's and the wife wisdom was priceless and valued !!!

  • @chatteachattea
    @chatteachattea Год назад +260

    "Mama Holt is definitely a character" and I agree with Mel. Martel is not just Miss Marlene's son he is her emotional husband. She harbors resentment towards Mel even from that angle. Any gifts Martel gave Mel, any husbandly chores he performed would be viewed by her as undeserved or he was doing too much. Aka "she was trying to kill my boy" SMH. Unreasonable, unrealistic and a bit delusional. The reality was Marlene's boy was tryin to kill Mel! Hmmm!

    • @craftybrowngirl1843
      @craftybrowngirl1843 Год назад +17

      Well said, I do sense some jealousy from Mama Holt towards Mel.

    • @tammieg4250
      @tammieg4250 Год назад +18

      She is going to kill him, but he is able to run around for five years.

    • @docdt3968
      @docdt3968 Год назад +13

      @@tammieg4250, you hit the nail on the head. And no one can tell me that Mama Holt did not know about the extra marital affair...That's putting himself, Mel, & those children at risk in multiple ways.

    • @thefemininefoodie8132
      @thefemininefoodie8132 Год назад +8

      Y’all fans are CRAZY!!!! 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣. Y’all act like the mother doesn’t know Melody.

    • @DrTLKillens
      @DrTLKillens Год назад

      Agreed.

  • @hazeleyesgreengrey8438
    @hazeleyesgreengrey8438 Год назад +42

    Martell's mom is like so many mothers who don't hold there sons accountable for nothing. She called melody lazy 🤣🤣🤣 she has successful businesses lazy people don't build businesses. Everyone seen from the show who was the business savvy one in the relationship.

  • @nycgirltee
    @nycgirltee Год назад +35

    The Holts are the reason I started watching this show and now I'm still watching solely for Melody! Her text to the mother in law is so me lol I'm gonna say my peace and block you we're done.

    • @JBM-hv7xz
      @JBM-hv7xz Год назад

      It was so disrespectful though…

    • @dreamkitty
      @dreamkitty Год назад +6

      @@JBM-hv7xz nope. long gone are the days where “respect your elders” apply to to talking reckless.

    • @Yae391
      @Yae391 Год назад +1

      His mother deserved to be blocked!

    • @nycgirltee
      @nycgirltee Год назад +3

      @@Yae391 sure did she's also the reason her son treats women the way he does

    • @LisaLisaCJ
      @LisaLisaCJ Год назад +4

      @@JBM-hv7xzthose days are gone. Adults are adults

  • @jadeexpressions4833
    @jadeexpressions4833 Год назад +49

    The way Mel turned her head when Tesha said she hadn't experienced any cheating in her marriage 💀 😂 🤣

  • @elfowlkes
    @elfowlkes Год назад +99

    Tiffany needs to do individual therapy to heal from hurt and trauma, even the previous divorce. She feels attacked because they are both hurting.

  • @itsbriirenae
    @itsbriirenae Год назад +41

    why Martell always tryna pretend like he busy 🤣…shuffling around them papers with nothing on them

    • @sunnygibbs925
      @sunnygibbs925 Год назад +3

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @dulcieself8426
    @dulcieself8426 Год назад +37

    Omg! I love love love this Dr Francis. Wisdom. Experience. Tenacity. All of this shines through his sessions but what I love the most is what my daughter calls "the face, Mummy, your face says it all". When he is listening, you can actually see him processing in the expressions on his face. Amazing!

  • @ginalove7448
    @ginalove7448 Год назад +16

    Dr. Francis needs his own show period.

  • @aran08504
    @aran08504 Год назад +59

    Marsau is a piece of work my goodness. I don't know how Tisha deals with him daily.

    • @TellyTellsIt
      @TellyTellsIt Год назад +18

      It's crazy. He just babbles on and talks his way out of everything.

    • @sharonpope1737
      @sharonpope1737 Год назад +8

      By lying to herself poor thing

  • @thegoddessinitiative
    @thegoddessinitiative Год назад +28

    omg!!!! Tisha's friend who died was married to my HS friend! They had such a beautiful marriage!

  • @vondamiller5463
    @vondamiller5463 Год назад +95

    @29:20 Tiffany silently checked her husband. I think she may be upset that he let his guard down in front of people.

    • @bossK78
      @bossK78 Год назад +18

      He's weak anyway. She not attracted to him really.

    • @tai4short
      @tai4short Год назад +9

      Yes because it Validates everyone’s “THEY’RE FAKE” observation

    • @shanisejackson2252
      @shanisejackson2252 Год назад +14

      Facts - it’s unfortunate that Lou doesn’t seem to have a shoulder to cry on or a soft place to be vulnerable

    • @michaelasmith8424
      @michaelasmith8424 Год назад +8

      Wildddd analysis!!!! If she did that, she is so wrong for that! She should’ve been there for him instead of passing judgement.

    • @charlaingram226
      @charlaingram226 Год назад +8

      Thank you there is a lot of us can see if she really is not attracted to him I don’t know what’s going on she just wanted to be married or wanted to financial support or something but that woman really is not feeling her husband anyone can see that I was married for 25 years and I love that man to death so you can see you can see I’m sorry that is so true she is not feeling him

  • @tonyabryant6878
    @tonyabryant6878 Год назад +47

    Marsau has brainwashed that poor woman, his wife. SAD!! Dr. Francis can also see right through him. I don't think Tisha is slow I think she's just a fool in love they mimic each other.

  • @aubriellemorgan
    @aubriellemorgan Год назад +75

    Its obvious Tiffany doesn’t want to be in this marriage. And Louis is in denial and holding on. Smh

  • @a.devega9717
    @a.devega9717 Год назад +48

    Martel and his Mama Both need therapy. I sense addiction, Narcissist, and Guilt. They both have alot of mess with them- we see why he's who he is

  • @QueenBluntdanae
    @QueenBluntdanae Год назад +27

    The marriage counselor was spot on ! He is great at what he does !!! They was just mad he called them out & they weren’t the only ones they just didn’t like being put on front street

  • @Missrhane
    @Missrhane Год назад +59

    When tisha said “be obedient submissive to him “… dr Francis face was like 😕🫣

    • @darlenesmith5086
      @darlenesmith5086 Год назад +12

      Tisha annoys me so fake

    • @lisaroddy4275
      @lisaroddy4275 Год назад +14

      I was screaming!! Dr. Francis knows BS before you even finish your statement 😂😂

    • @docdt3968
      @docdt3968 Год назад +2

      I saw that! Tisha stayed on that track though.

    • @tanishawilson9850
      @tanishawilson9850 Год назад +1

      Girl!

    • @JBM-hv7xz
      @JBM-hv7xz Год назад +1

      There is nothing wrong about wanting to be obedient and submissive to your husband

  • @latoshiadavis6181
    @latoshiadavis6181 Год назад +14

    Dr Francis needs a SHOW ALREADY.. THANKS IN ADVANCE OWN💯💯

  • @hopesdaughter5947
    @hopesdaughter5947 Год назад +48

    🙋🏽‍♀️ Ahhh, I divorced a covert narc just like Martell. And just like my former mother-in-law is regarding my ex, Martell's mother is an enabler and part of why Martell is who he is besides any other childhood traumas he experienced. And Dr. Francis 🙌🏽✊🏽🫶🏽 is the truth! Everybody needs a Dr. Francis in their lives. God bless him and his wife. ☮️

  • @tinawalker5335
    @tinawalker5335 Год назад +33

    Man I love Marsau! That’s just how I like a man. Lol. When he said “now that Dr Francis pulled a Louis on Louis…” 😂😂

    • @beautybyteal6422
      @beautybyteal6422 Год назад +1

      I love him to 😂😂😂😂

    • @Salma-yo6ns
      @Salma-yo6ns Год назад

      Don’t forget when he called them “professionally fake” 😂

  • @CaughtSlippin94
    @CaughtSlippin94 Год назад +51

    “We’re all just str… Doing our best” 😂😂Tisha almost told the truth and said Struggling

  • @pinkcashmeres
    @pinkcashmeres Год назад +13

    It’s hilarious how Tiffany & Louis play Marriage/Family therapist for everybody else but can’t handle a legitimate one giving them critiques.

  • @Poet3lively
    @Poet3lively Год назад +21

    This was an AWESOME episode. Therapy is POWERFUL!

  • @rosalyndee7707
    @rosalyndee7707 Год назад +18

    I’m just surprised 😮to see Marsau cooking.

  • @kenyaepps4714
    @kenyaepps4714 Год назад +19

    Interesting how much push back Dr. Francis received from the folks on screen even to the extent of questioning his educational background. Wondering would there be as much push back if Dr. Francis looked different?. We get enough resistance and lack of acceptance elsewhere. C'mon people!

    • @lillybethford1915
      @lillybethford1915 Год назад +1

      Kenya, fantastic observation.👍 As it pertains to Tiffany, yes indeed, that’s my sentiment as well.

    • @QueenBluntdanae
      @QueenBluntdanae Год назад

      Exactly

  • @michellefreeman9886
    @michellefreeman9886 Год назад +5

    It's always easier to see the problems in someone else instead of dealing with your own. I hope they listen and learn and grow in love.

  • @jamaicanjoyh6883
    @jamaicanjoyh6883 Год назад +52

    LoL, even when Mel being mean(trying to vis text)😂☺️ she sweet..😂😂😂😂
    Lord I love how she maintains being lady..

    • @craftybrowngirl1843
      @craftybrowngirl1843 Год назад +10

      Mel does throw some shade sometimes…in sweet way of course. I love it!☺️

  • @lisawhitten8400
    @lisawhitten8400 Год назад +15

    I would definitely watch a show w/ Dr. Francis.

  • @jayoleary8655
    @jayoleary8655 Год назад +8

    Marsau always diverts the conversation he talks but never answers the question and Tisa needs to wake up !!

  • @thevoiceoftheimmigrant5732
    @thevoiceoftheimmigrant5732 Год назад +46

    I like how Martell’s mom trying to avoid Martell’s negativity about Mel. Maturity.

    • @kkw-pal1178
      @kkw-pal1178 Год назад +10

      She's messy mom.

    • @marketiadavis9040
      @marketiadavis9040 Год назад

      He was definitely pushing an agenda and she dodged being a part of it good for her

  • @Divinelyguided417
    @Divinelyguided417 Год назад +15

    Did y’all see the way Dr. was looking at Marceaux?! That’s how I’ve been looking at him all 5 seasons ❤😂😂😂

  • @djenkins39
    @djenkins39 Год назад +43

    I love me some Mel!!!!! So having multiple children, being a homemaker and uplifting your husband and his dreams was being lazy? Mel doesn't have a lazy bone in her body. His mother is a jealous mother that is mad she NEVER had a man to support her and when she saw her son/husband support this wife in that way it made her feel some kind of way. If she had been in a relationship or marriage she would understand that seasons change and roles changes based on the needs of the household.

    • @marlenewhite4252
      @marlenewhite4252 Год назад +2

      My MIL is the same way! Married four times and trying to judge.

  • @ybeckom
    @ybeckom Год назад +5

    Wait a min yall....I'm sorry, but I know dam well Marsau didn't think that bacon was done!!!😳😂😂😂😂

  • @Missrhane
    @Missrhane Год назад +50

    7:02 “I don’t think the whitlows earned a shirt” LMAO 🤣 the only thing marsau got a point about

    • @cjod7652
      @cjod7652 Год назад +8

      Oh! And "how does it feel to be professionally diagnosed as fake?" 😂😂😂😂

    • @Missrhane
      @Missrhane Год назад +3

      @@cjod7652 yoooo they was talking to them wild 😹😹

  • @VANITYISFARE
    @VANITYISFARE Год назад +41

    I still cant believe Tiffany is only 33

    • @Lollii_Popp
      @Lollii_Popp Год назад +3

      Any age in the 30s is hard to believe. Then I watch her maturity level and I'm like, "okay, I see it."

    • @jodeemapoe9032
      @jodeemapoe9032 Год назад +12

      She looks so old! And she dress older.

    • @jaszlatrice3860
      @jaszlatrice3860 Год назад +4

      She can’t be that young. When she went looking for information on her birth parents with Mel wasn’t she saying it was not ok for a black man to get a white woman pregnant in that time. They were in Alabama and it def wasn’t ‘89 time frame

    • @VANITYISFARE
      @VANITYISFARE Год назад +4

      @@jaszlatrice3860 in alabama its never the right time for a black man to be with a white woman . They still have sun down towns in alabama to this day. Shes 33

    • @angelasimsgray3259
      @angelasimsgray3259 Год назад +2

      Stop lying!

  • @ForeverLuckyLika
    @ForeverLuckyLika Год назад +30

    I like the Whitlows. Especially when they open up and allow themselves to be vulnerable. Her hubby is a big teddy bear with a sweet tender heart. I hope Tiffany cherishes that.

    • @craftybrowngirl1843
      @craftybrowngirl1843 Год назад +6

      Tiffany is a cold 🥶 rock. She’s doesn’t like or love big Lou.

    • @QueenBluntdanae
      @QueenBluntdanae Год назад

      Yes he’s like a big teddy bear it’s so sad

  • @triciaglorianabaye
    @triciaglorianabaye Год назад +20

    :How does it feel to be proffessionally diagnosed as fake?" Marsau!!!!!! 😂😂😂

  • @themost8310
    @themost8310 Год назад +21

    I would love to see the Scott brothers' parents- especially their father.

  • @tish347
    @tish347 Год назад +9

    lol that Southern shade be thick as a mug... mel n Marleen convo 😂 Mz. Marleen like hush dat fuss. I said it and it's a new day. no apologies just hush... lls

    • @madefromguyaneselove
      @madefromguyaneselove Год назад

      She just want u to get over it just like Martell!!!! She was hurt and lied to by so many people in her circle, I see why she blocked her too!! Love she said Marlene was a casualty of war. But she kinds put her self in the war by trying to make martel feel good by putting melody down!!!! All of these people have done it!!

  • @kathygdoe
    @kathygdoe Год назад +12

    I love Martell's mom. Sorry. She's the least messy and confrontational out of all the mothers on this show.

    • @gospel4303
      @gospel4303 Год назад +2

      Don’t be sorry, I like her also

  • @biancarenee
    @biancarenee Год назад +3

    Did Martel's mother say she got a lil comfortable in her marriage!??? I hope I am comfortable in my marriage and not uncomfortable. They were in a MARRIAGE not a 9-5 clock in and clock out relationship.

  • @quinnelmonte9435
    @quinnelmonte9435 Год назад +17

    I observe Tiffany is emotionally disconnected, and this could be because of her past. Individual counseling may help with this if she isn’t engaging already. She may not even be aware of how much emotional support her Husband truly yearns for. Very sad. I do think they love each other they just don’t have the tools to be as great as they can be.

  • @kainaildit
    @kainaildit Год назад +66

    Dr Frances called it like he saw it but what's funny was the couples Trip to Vegas I think I'm not sure but that's all Tiffany and her husband did was judge that's all they do is unlicense council couples like they know everything but can't be transparent and get overly defensive

    • @sharitastinson109
      @sharitastinson109 Год назад +5

      I was gonna say that. Now its all coming out, how full of junk their marriage/dynamic is.

  • @TRAVELPRENUER0830
    @TRAVELPRENUER0830 Год назад +6

    Instead of sitting at the table picking at what everycouple needs to do .. they need to put that same energy in worrying about they own relationship..you ALL ain't at a retreat for fun 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🙄🙄🙄

  • @Lollii_Popp
    @Lollii_Popp Год назад +25

    Marsau is a slick talker.

  • @KNickole
    @KNickole Год назад +14

    The way Dr. Francis looked at Marsau is the way Marsau usually looks at Tisha when she’s not making sense😂

  • @valeriedix9686
    @valeriedix9686 Год назад +11

    I think Dr.Francis would be great for Put a ring on it show or Family or Fiance

  • @lillybethford1915
    @lillybethford1915 Год назад +10

    Tiffany is inauthentic and ‘a know it all.’ She Carries an ‘air of superiority’, absolutely annoying.

  • @amour9027
    @amour9027 Год назад +39

    Martell's mom is out of line. She's mad because Mel didn't have to do it alone like her.

  • @jamaicanjoyh6883
    @jamaicanjoyh6883 Год назад +88

    17:06 the manifestation of this woman's ENVY.....SMH..she has a root of bitterness, she don't like u Mel, she is F A K E .
    🧐🧐🧐🧐🧐🧐🧐🧐🧐🧐

    • @selenat264
      @selenat264 Год назад +3

      Yep cause her son is expected to be a man from Mel. And this why some of them wanted Mel to stay in this marriage.

    • @Jasmine-ot8br
      @Jasmine-ot8br Год назад +1

      Lol no she's just of a particular age and she will not be disrespected. Also she peeped the shade that Mel kept throwing. She's trying to get this woman who is her children's grandmother to say that she was wrong, and she wasn't. Let's be honest a person can say whatever they want to their son about their ex, but she really didn't say anything super disrespectful just felt like Mel was lazy, and she's allowed to feel that way

    • @chanelchanel3228
      @chanelchanel3228 Год назад +2

      She think Mel suppose to work hard because that’s all she knows from being a single parent. She don’t seem like she’s ever been married and have someone do things for her. Keep her blocked she negative asf

  • @ciandahebe5692
    @ciandahebe5692 Год назад +9

    Melody leave Mama Holt alone, she said what she said and meant it but u still insist on wanting her to say Martel planted the seed... stop giving u r over with him recreate the bridge to co-parenting

  • @123NopeNotMe
    @123NopeNotMe Год назад +39

    If my husband is sitting there being vulnerable and emotional, I would GO TO HIM and let him know that I hear him, value him, see him, and I'm HERE in THIS moment for him... Maybe even embrace him, hold his hand and not just wipe his face like a toddler 👀 👀 but that's just me speaking frm the perspective of a wife who has a man that hides behind his "manliness" and lacks ANY of those moments of vulnerability. 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @wonderfulmee
      @wonderfulmee Год назад +8

      Yes I noticed that part in the room as well a partner a wife that was the time to hold hug embrace your husband
      Maybe Lewis was looking for his wife to embrace him
      and now he may never show that side again .

    • @iPhone-rg1of
      @iPhone-rg1of Год назад +4

      She was adopted. She doesn’t know how.

    • @wonderfulmee
      @wonderfulmee Год назад +3

      @@iPhone-rg1of to love is a feeling to be concerned is an action her adoptparents did not have to teach her that
      your heart does
      It's who you become as a person .

    • @lmichelle80sbaby
      @lmichelle80sbaby Год назад

      Same. I hate it for him

  • @umadox41
    @umadox41 Год назад +8

    Mel is too good. It would not be me. I don't have to make any effort to hold on to or keep going a relationship in which the other party acts as the chief enabler to someone abusing me. No thank you mam. That's an easy pass. Bye Ms Marlene, with your shady, hypocritical, enabling self. She doesn't need Mel in the picture to have a relationship with her grandkids.

    • @goodmeasure777
      @goodmeasure777 Год назад

      @U Madox, Well except for the time, even Martell wasn't able to see them. Hell now, sure, they have joint custody. Or visitation worked out.

  • @JuleneSings
    @JuleneSings Год назад +48

    She would’ve been kept BLOCKED so you hear me???? WOW! The audacity of that woman.

  • @bosslady5211
    @bosslady5211 Год назад +6

    Melody has 4 children and a builder’s license 🤷🏽‍♀️.

  • @beedabee1221
    @beedabee1221 Год назад +7

    Dr. Francis is dropping gems!!!

  • @vetgirl71
    @vetgirl71 Год назад +8

    I agree with Dr Francis concerning the Whitlows, but why isn’t he also dealing with the other couples?!! 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @lillybethford1915
      @lillybethford1915 Год назад +1

      I think it’s because of their denial, inauthenticity and their willingness to project perfection. Perhaps, they should leave.

  • @legal_beagle5294
    @legal_beagle5294 Год назад +6

    When will Mama Holt finally tell her son the truth about his disrespectful, deplorable behavior to the mother of her grandchildren?!!!

  • @robertamontgomery4549
    @robertamontgomery4549 Год назад +20

    all I got to say is Dr Francis needs his own show

  • @sunnygibbs925
    @sunnygibbs925 Год назад +10

    The look on Dr Francis face listening to Marsau @32:32 🤣🤣🤣

    • @najaiwilson3414
      @najaiwilson3414 Месяц назад

      And his face at 34:42 listening to Tisha😂

    • @najaiwilson3414
      @najaiwilson3414 Месяц назад

      Matter of fact, his face the whole session😂

  • @silvainatkins5550
    @silvainatkins5550 Год назад +6

    Marsau had that snip snip with out Tisha knowing what was going on.Dr Francis looked at him like oh really.

  • @beautiful-butterfly
    @beautiful-butterfly Год назад +13

    His momma shady 😂😂😂

  • @marymathis3519
    @marymathis3519 Год назад +5

    This episode was so good and informative

  • @adryprincess5069
    @adryprincess5069 Год назад +12

    Dr Francis is so wise!

    • @bellaapple2166
      @bellaapple2166 Год назад

      Yes they should really take the opportunity to soak up all the lessons from him.

  • @hennisisyimon
    @hennisisyimon Год назад +22

    Tasha looks sooo beautiful with that hairstyle and those lovely earrings and she's literally the best dress female on this show. I'm rooting for her, she doesn't get enough credit for all she has accomplished.

  • @natoyaclayton6922
    @natoyaclayton6922 Год назад +18

    She was jealous of the way her son was treating his wife. He wasn't complaining.

  • @aprildouglas9261
    @aprildouglas9261 8 месяцев назад +2

    Beautiful. Love and respect Mel and Mama H

  • @SweetNSpicy700
    @SweetNSpicy700 Год назад +48

    "Idk if it's being submissive or obedient it..." The therapist knew how ABSURD she sounded. Look at his face 🤔🤔😂😂😂 As if she's trying to trick her mind into believing a LIE. Like she's trying to deal with being LIED to and deceived.

    • @traciescott1871
      @traciescott1871 Год назад +2

      But, she has 2 degrees. 🤷🏽🙈

    • @babytash1369
      @babytash1369 Год назад +4

      Sounds about true. It's almost like she's trying to protect the facade she has been putting up all this time. I think if she accepts the things that has been said about Marsau it would break her.

  • @cindythefootwasher2900
    @cindythefootwasher2900 Год назад +5

    Tisha and Marsua can't give no one any advice and neither can Maurice and Kimmie. They're still stuck on the fact that Big Lou & Tiff called them out! Marsau, Tisha, Maurice and Kimmie need to kick rocks.

  • @lanetas3910
    @lanetas3910 Год назад +9

    I noticed when I mans mother is single they don't like to see there son spoiling a women. Think it's jealousy cause they don't have it

  • @lynellsmith1576
    @lynellsmith1576 Год назад +7

    Marlene has no husband and doesn't know how marriage and family household work. At times the man will do more vice verse. Mel was the brains so she handle the business and martel handle the house. Marlene, please have several seats and let your trifling son grow up. She is a prime example of raising a poor immature grown boy.