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  • sharing a life experience that i hope can help you if you are going through anything similar. it took a lot to film this and upload so i would appreciate if you don't judge me for this.
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  • @Gabi_DeMartino
    @Gabi_DeMartino  7 лет назад +8958

    This is a video I filmed back in February. my ex cheated on me our first 3 years together and I didn't come across Collin til the 5th year. This long storytime is throughout the course of the first 3 years of my ex and i's 5 year relationship. I have struggled to upload this because I'm scared of the exterior opinions. but that would be selfish to keep this to myself when I know it could help someone who is currently in the shoes I was once in. ❤️ and yes I am dating Collin this isn't about him!

    • @-lina8792
      @-lina8792 7 лет назад +43

      Fancy Vlogs By Gab I love you gabi.. Never thought someone like you would go through the same thing as me.. I love you so so much I can't explain it.. ❤️

    • @eya6763
      @eya6763 7 лет назад +8

      Fancy Vlogs By Gab please stay strong and NEVER let anyone let you down I love you peace ❤️💞🔝

    • @dailybbxo5589
      @dailybbxo5589 7 лет назад +3

      Fancy Vlogs By Gab u made me cry thank you for uploading this just remember we are always gunna support u all the way♥️🌸💕 I love you xxxxx

    • @HopeNicholas
      @HopeNicholas 7 лет назад +1

      Fancy Vlogs By Gab gab i'm so sorry that he did this to you. ilysm and thank you for sharing this video. you made me have a whole new outlook on life❤️

    • @briabney2062
      @briabney2062 7 лет назад

      Fancy Vlogs By Gab 💙

  • @ghidahamiyeh7768
    @ghidahamiyeh7768 7 лет назад +7289

    I WANT EVERY SINGLE GIRL TO READ THIS:
    The thing about US GIRLS is that once a guy shows interest in us (and we find him cute) we're willing to make things slide and our minds unconsciously doesn't even notice these warning sings the guy is giving us. When you're finally done with the guy or have the courage to stop talking to him or he hurts us, we FINALLY notice these signs, like "WAIT how was i such an idiot i didn't even know/notice what he was doing, i didn't notice these warning signs that were supposed to make me GET OUT OF THE SITUATION"!
    sooo many girls who are crushing on this guy or are in a relationship with their boyfriends tend to never notice these red flags that warn us that we shouldn't even be interacting with that person.
    ALSO we don't know our self worth enough, we don't love ourselves enough and we feel empty because we THINK that our missing pieces are found in that other person or people in general. THESE other people might make us feel good about ourselves and make us feel happy BUT WE fill in the emptiness from the feelings they give us. NEVER EVER FEEL LIKE YOU WONT FIND A BETTER GUY BECAUSE YOU WILL. NEVER EVER FEEL LIKE THERE ISN'T BETTER OUT THERE BECAUSE WHEN THAT BETTER PERSON/PEOPLE COME YOU'RE GOING TO FEEL LIKE SUCH A FOOL. NEVER FEEL IMPRISONED BY ONE PERSON OR A GROUP OF PEOPLE THINKING YOU WON'T FIND BETTER, BECAUSE THATS LABELING YOURSELF. i had a friend who was scared of breaking up with her boyfriend because she was scared she wouldn't find anyone who would accept and love her, but she was so wrong. these guys who text you, the one u put up with so much because you're scared no one else will talk to you or that you'll feel lonely, they should go somewhere they belong because they don't belong in YOUR life.

    • @joannaj1411
      @joannaj1411 7 лет назад +39

      G I'm so glad I don't want to get married because then I will have so much less drama because I wouldn't be dating

    • @livi_llamas_3396
      @livi_llamas_3396 7 лет назад +3

      G ii

    • @heyitschlo1819
      @heyitschlo1819 7 лет назад +63

      Girls probably think boys complete them because of how they are portrayed in fictional films and books

    • @elibjo01
      @elibjo01 7 лет назад +41

      This comment helped so so much❤️ this can sometimes apply to both genders too, like some people is really patient and kind and take ALOT of shit before they get tired. I can't stand fuckboys/girls because they act like douchebags to their friends too, not only those they are cheating on. They have NO empathy/sympathy, they just keep on hurting lots of people and then leaving without feeling bad for the damage they have done. It has something to do with self esteem too but there are someone out there for everyone and I know this too damn well now, I thought that my ex was a good person but he was so full of shit. Only lies, sex, cheating, chatting with other girls. You get blinded and can't see the warning signs because you have a so huge crush/in love with them.

    • @kelly897booo3
      @kelly897booo3 7 лет назад +18

      G It's not just US Girls lol 🤔

  • @hanakayali2068
    @hanakayali2068 7 лет назад +2513

    did she take back the macbook laptop tho...

  • @MariaSilva-lu4eu
    @MariaSilva-lu4eu 5 лет назад +841

    I am SOOOO glad that you met Colin and that he treats you like a princess, how you are supposed to be treated❤️

  • @elliejonesxx5222
    @elliejonesxx5222 7 лет назад +4191

    He lost a diamond well he was to busy collecting stones ❤️

    • @x_pinka_xstrudel4872
      @x_pinka_xstrudel4872 7 лет назад +40

      So true ♥️ she doesn't need a man to be happy, Gabi's amazing and she should be always happy and she deserves it

    • @bekahe7475
      @bekahe7475 7 лет назад +4

      Ellie Jones xx Yeah true

    • @amycutieismysister2
      @amycutieismysister2 7 лет назад +18

      I hate to be that bitch, but I am that bitch. It's *while not well.

    • @carolinerose9123
      @carolinerose9123 7 лет назад +11

      yaseen her you're the best person in this comment section LMAO

    • @rital8311
      @rital8311 7 лет назад +2

      Caroline Rose ikr

  • @andreaturcan9541
    @andreaturcan9541 7 лет назад +3843

    I know this is irrelevant to the story but...
    Gabi looks like a freaking goddess in this video

  • @HardHittingBass
    @HardHittingBass 7 лет назад +2322

    For anyone out there calling her an idiot or a dumbass, it's far more complicated for you to understand. This is not her making a stupid mistake. This is manipulation and abuse, which makes it extremely hard for the victim to control how they respond with their emotions and choices.

    • @cadencehoogmoed2254
      @cadencehoogmoed2254 7 лет назад +30

      Hard-Hitting Bass thank you for standing up for her because when people are hurt they do stupid shit and they can't blame her for that

    • @WithStyleForever
      @WithStyleForever 7 лет назад +35

      true.. love is great, but it's tricky too. It messes with your head and sometimes you do things you shouldn't have, and at the end, you hurt yourself more. What she did means she has a heart, and to be honest, it means she's a loyal girlfriend too. Not like others who just change a guy like t-shirts. The best thing is now that she's learnt from her mistakes and she's become a lot wiser.

    • @corneliahanimann2173
      @corneliahanimann2173 7 лет назад +23

      I didn't see anyone call her stupid?
      I mean, if anyone did, it just shows how ignorant people are.
      It's pretty normal stay with a guy because you don't know better and are scared of what that break up could mean for you.
      Everyone's been stupid before, everyone was young and stupid and had wrong expectations because their emotions led them to make wrong conclusions.
      While we shouldn't celebrate that she did stupid stuff, we also shouldn't abandon her for being less than us...
      She's just showing us how normal it is to have emotions

    • @foodlover2791
      @foodlover2791 7 лет назад +6

      That's why im waiting for the true love

    • @corneliahanimann2173
      @corneliahanimann2173 7 лет назад +1

      I find that concept of "true love" funny...
      What is true love to you guys?

  • @imsad7821
    @imsad7821 5 лет назад +2166

    Now I understand why my mom didn't want me to get a boyfriend till 18.

  • @elyssaj349
    @elyssaj349 7 лет назад +2046

    Damn this dude be dating the entire alphabet

    • @rubyc.6138
      @rubyc.6138 7 лет назад

      Elyssa's Vlogs 😂😂😂

    • @Lyricallure
      @Lyricallure 7 лет назад

      Lmao😂😂😂

    • @tetravw10
      @tetravw10 7 лет назад +1

      Elyssa's Vlogs 😂

    • @Natalie-zi5eu
      @Natalie-zi5eu 7 лет назад +22

      Pls don't copy either people's comments it just pisses me off

    • @sojo973
      @sojo973 7 лет назад

      Elyssa's Vlogs 😂😂😂

  • @Coffeewrld
    @Coffeewrld 7 лет назад +2568

    Ya all calling her stupid. But ya don’t understand this was her first boy friend her first everything she lost her v card to him and he made her feel unworthy so she consistently felt like she had to prove himself. This was a 15 year old girl who got her mind fucked with bc she didn’t know what an actual relationship looked like

    • @aamirahalam4309
      @aamirahalam4309 7 лет назад +28

      mizz nikki exactly girl 😔❤️

    • @andyskillet
      @andyskillet 7 лет назад +14

      i feel really bad cuz even if she was ignorant she said in the description to 'not judge her' and that's exactly what people are doing.

    • @nuyorknightsat18
      @nuyorknightsat18 7 лет назад +13

      mizz nikki THANK YOU FINALLY SOMEONE WHO ISN'T HATING ON HER PREACCHHH

    • @ChantelleTee
      @ChantelleTee 7 лет назад +16

      exactly, i been through this .. it teaches us to learn from our mistakes though.

    • @f.w.1318
      @f.w.1318 7 лет назад +7

      There's other things you can do sexually, and not go all the way, but minute she gave up the vcard it was over, seen this so many times it's almost predictable, that's why she begged him back, if she was that serious and he wasn't don't be take to the next step, so she won't have that attach emotion.

  • @lanaa123
    @lanaa123 7 лет назад +9538

    wtf he dated the whole alphabet

  • @ghaforkm2931
    @ghaforkm2931 5 лет назад +1517

    Oh gabi
    Put his name out loud.
    He's a jerk

  • @angelaya8403
    @angelaya8403 7 лет назад +2143

    Gabi you are like a big sister I don't have

    • @Gabi_DeMartino
      @Gabi_DeMartino  7 лет назад +176

      NOT TODAY SATAN NOT TODAY that's the point my love 💜

    • @lauren-ic5cg
      @lauren-ic5cg 7 лет назад +11

      Fancy Vlogs By Gab I love you so much! I hope you have a great day/night and hope this type of thing never happens to you again. Collin is a great guy and will treat you right and will love you.❤💛💚💙💜

    • @qamarasad6148
      @qamarasad6148 7 лет назад +3

      NOT TODAY SATAN NOT TODAY exol AYEEE WE GOING KOKOBOP

    • @angelaya8403
      @angelaya8403 7 лет назад +5

      Fancy Vlogs By Gab I love you😩❤️

    • @ikeamonkey2566
      @ikeamonkey2566 7 лет назад +1

      Fancy Vlogs By Gab + you are so pretty :3

  • @thebajababes
    @thebajababes 7 лет назад +2058

    Little did he know this beautiful women would become a shining star.

  • @kayleeelizabeth3873
    @kayleeelizabeth3873 7 лет назад +2214

    "You were born a single person for a reason" quote of the year

    • @rachelmccabe3124
      @rachelmccabe3124 7 лет назад +241

      Its funny though because she actually wasn't cause she's a twin 😂 lol x

    • @kelseychapman9491
      @kelseychapman9491 7 лет назад +21

      Rachel McCabe Haha bout to comment that. Love you gabi.

    • @letiiciavaltierra2863
      @letiiciavaltierra2863 7 лет назад +4

      Kaylee Elizabeth shes a twin

    • @marieg8608
      @marieg8608 7 лет назад +1

      And "You don't need someone to be you"

    • @karina2340
      @karina2340 7 лет назад +3

      Letiicia Valtierra she means single- not in a relationship

  • @ximena6928
    @ximena6928 6 лет назад +1448

    Gabi should never be cheated on . She didn't deserve it .

    • @georgiamarie2605
      @georgiamarie2605 5 лет назад +12

      @@steventopper9310 no she's not if you dont have anything nice to say dont say anything at all so shut up

    • @keeram4363
      @keeram4363 5 лет назад +44

      No one deserves to be

    • @madisonpaxson7829
      @madisonpaxson7829 5 лет назад +15

      @@steventopper9310 dont even go there she was a little girl in that story ur just rude and have nothing to do with ur life but leave rude comments and judging I have no right what so ever what if someone else called u a name u wouldn't be sooo happy so think about what u put next time

    • @sortedlife4332
      @sortedlife4332 5 лет назад +4

      @@keeram4363 exactly!

    • @sortedlife4332
      @sortedlife4332 5 лет назад +7

      No one deserves

  • @gracieneil3256
    @gracieneil3256 7 лет назад +1370

    I'm so glad she didn't say Collin was her "perfect man" and her "second half" it was awesome to hear how no matter her relationship status she is and independent girl who is always herself

  • @katievitiello3425
    @katievitiello3425 7 лет назад +357

    Seriously if a guy tells you he might end things because he wants to be single, end it. If you feel like you can't tell someone how you feel, end it. If someone cheats on you, end it and don't go back. If they love you they wouldn't want you to feel anxious or to feel like crap, or to feel jealous. I'm sorry you had to go through this :(

    • @Qbabe2448
      @Qbabe2448 7 лет назад +1

      The best comment.

  • @annieschmidt7301
    @annieschmidt7301 7 лет назад +264

    I love when you talk about your life struggles to us. Not many youtubers can do that.

  • @zenbuns1582
    @zenbuns1582 5 лет назад +363

    *Look where you are right now!*
    *Collin has helped you a lot!*
    *he’s awesome And and Caring to you and everyone!*
    *I can see you were almost going to cry..*
    *Its ok to cry..Everyone cries..*
    *Ily Gabi ❤️😪❤️*
    *and take back that Mac book! Lol 😂 ILYYYY ❤️❤️❤️*

  • @Jessie-pc3co
    @Jessie-pc3co 7 лет назад +320

    Gabi... you've truly touched my heart. You have made me realise I don't need a boy to be happy or feel pretty. I love you Gabi, thank u a million for making me realise I don't need anyone to make me feel happy. I'm extremely sorry for what has happened to you and I'm glad it's over. Xxx

    • @dankmemes8840
      @dankmemes8840 7 лет назад

      Jess Daffodil I

    • @kaylawaters6751
      @kaylawaters6751 7 лет назад +4

      Jess Daffodil Gabi is a amazing person she made me realize that I don't need a boy to make me feel proud of myself and i don't need anyone but GOD😙😙😙

    • @casevarcadipane3502
      @casevarcadipane3502 7 лет назад

      Jess Daffodil I

  • @annacochran3926
    @annacochran3926 7 лет назад +1497

    he dated the whole damn alphabet

  • @kennad3604
    @kennad3604 7 лет назад +499

    Very sorry about this situation, I think it happened for a reason so that you could share this story and help others who are going through the same thing ! Thanks so much for being the role model you are , it's truly changed my perspective watching this video , just understanding that everybody goes through hard things but in the end it's so cool that we have these platforms to help eachother out. Thanks so much gabi , seriously this is what separates you from the other RUclipsrs , because you are just yourself and you really care about your fans, thanks for everything❤️and I hope you feel better because you are beautiful and strong .

  • @tarakiran06
    @tarakiran06 5 лет назад +66

    this is honestly when i started stanning gabi. because i love honest ppl.

  • @justjoseline4217
    @justjoseline4217 7 лет назад +345

    Omg Gab you don't understand how much I needed this video it really opened my eyes... I've been chasing my ex for months and now that I look back at our relationship it was just toxic. You're so right we don't need anybody especially a guy. Thank you so much ❤️

    • @litzivelasquez1663
      @litzivelasquez1663 7 лет назад +5

      Just Joseline same😭😭

    • @EM-os8cp
      @EM-os8cp 7 лет назад +5

      Just Joseline you go girll

    • @ZoeAlexa11
      @ZoeAlexa11 7 лет назад +3

      Just Joseline same holy shit I loved him so much but he was so controlling

  • @LucyandCece
    @LucyandCece 7 лет назад +2900

    you got this gabi, you are stronger than ever ! don't let anyone stop you, we all love you

    • @brookestark17
      @brookestark17 7 лет назад +7

      Love your channel

    • @madelynkathleen5521
      @madelynkathleen5521 7 лет назад +3

      Lucy and Cece Love you guys

    • @mariegrace5903
      @mariegrace5903 7 лет назад +10

      Lucy and Cece yess

    • @eli-ska
      @eli-ska 7 лет назад +14

      Lucy and Cece i dont get why the comment thats talkinv about soda and popcorn has way more likes than thks one. Also, gabi we r with u. GIRL POWER!

    • @keniadiaz3549
      @keniadiaz3549 6 лет назад +1

      you are so right!

  • @Anoukvs91
    @Anoukvs91 7 лет назад +438

    I think everyones first real love when it ends it feels like the world is ending.. But then you fall in love with someone else and you realize you can find love somewhere else. You don't have to be with someone if you're not happy. It's a lesson we all have to learn in life. Love is a funny thing..

    • @SingingAsianBarbie
      @SingingAsianBarbie 7 лет назад +6

      Anouk i recently just had a break up with my first real love and it does feel like my world is ending

    • @TheSoftballchamp
      @TheSoftballchamp 7 лет назад +6

      jae ann i can also vouch for that cause i broke up with my boyfriend a week ago and he's my first real love and it feels like i can't breathe half the time but i'll be ok

    • @SingingAsianBarbie
      @SingingAsianBarbie 7 лет назад +5

      swaqqy it's ok baby! we will be all right.

    • @KerlineBayDeb
      @KerlineBayDeb 7 лет назад +2

      Anouk I agree with you so much 💕

    • @cookiejar111
      @cookiejar111 7 лет назад

      Anouk Yes.....

  • @dearlocket4471
    @dearlocket4471 5 лет назад +50

    THAT PLAYER!! HE DOESN'T DESERVE YOU, EVERYTHING ABOUT YOU IS SO BEAUTIFUL AND YOU DESERVE THE BEST!!! I'm so srry that happened to you. You pushed thru it you are so strong boo🙂😢 You are so amazing. I love u so much and we all are always here for you!!!!
    I almost started to cry for you, I am so srry...
    Also srry that I'm rlly late...

  • @lyledavid_
    @lyledavid_ 7 лет назад +136

    GIRL PREACH
    "U DONT NEED ANYONE. U DONT NEED ANYBODY. U WERE U BEFORE U MET THIS PERSON, UR CAPABLE OF BEING U FOR MANY MORE YEARS WITHOUT THAT PERSON"

  • @anastacialeahey2787
    @anastacialeahey2787 7 лет назад +427

    Oh my gabi thank you for being strong enough to upload this. So many of us need to see this and hear this. I love you so much

  • @yaraa9351
    @yaraa9351 7 лет назад +1750

    you should've broke up with him the first time you found out he was cheating

    • @izabellacervantes2926
      @izabellacervantes2926 7 лет назад +46

      Yara Alawi because she felt like she needed him

    • @tw1g999
      @tw1g999 7 лет назад +105

      Yara Alawi it's more difficult than that. emotionally abusive or abusive relationships as is are difficult to get out of. she may think that she should've left him the moment she found out he cheated but at the moment, she felt like she didn't have the ability to. basically blinded by love. i'm glad she managed to finally get rid of him. ✨

    • @sydneyelise7260
      @sydneyelise7260 7 лет назад +23

      Yara Alawi Trust me it isn't that easy. I know this from experience.

    • @cassiASMR
      @cassiASMR 7 лет назад +8

      I think she knows that now that was the whole point of the video lol

    • @z33sh4n
      @z33sh4n 7 лет назад +12

      Fr I swear to god once your partner cheats on you all trust is lost. Cheating is crossing the line for your trust in your partner. Cross the line and all trust is gone.

  • @ReinaBRamos
    @ReinaBRamos 6 лет назад +491

    He will someday meet someone and truly fall in love and he will try to make things right and she will completely destroys him because there is something out there called karma and it backfires in the worst possible way. And then he will remember all the harm he did to you ...

  • @21sashalee
    @21sashalee 7 лет назад +87

    I know HOW MUCH it takes to regain confidence after what you've been through with that ex and the bullying. but look where you are now! how successful you are, how far you've come, how many people adore you, how many people you help and inspire every day. i will always suppory you, you deserve everything. ❤

  • @autumnchristy2631
    @autumnchristy2631 6 лет назад +2179

    😭...Gurl look where u are now
    a.k.a. Collin😁

    • @rengaaka
      @rengaaka 6 лет назад +2

      Alexandria C ye

    • @katiesilkett4751
      @katiesilkett4751 5 лет назад +19

      Yeah, he so much better and treats her so good.. They are so goals

    • @omeraali7993
      @omeraali7993 5 лет назад +1

      autumn chris she’s right Collin could do that to her and I would not be surprised

    • @maryanmohamed8654
      @maryanmohamed8654 5 лет назад

      autumn The kid ahlie

    • @happylittletree4932
      @happylittletree4932 5 лет назад

      Collin is so much better

  • @roxc453
    @roxc453 7 лет назад +260

    Why would anyone f***ing dislike this? Tf OMG i luv you gab. YOU AND YOUR SIS are truly inspirational
    EDIT: OMG thanks so much for 200 likes!!!!

    • @dancerocks9481
      @dancerocks9481 7 лет назад +5

      Master Dawn his girlfriends have multiple acounts

    • @alexisw.683
      @alexisw.683 7 лет назад +1

      Master Dawn it's all his other girlfriends

    • @roxc453
      @roxc453 7 лет назад +1

      Who's girlfriends?

    • @gracie4062
      @gracie4062 7 лет назад

      Master Dawn Gabi's ex

  • @toriassise
    @toriassise 4 года назад +119

    why is the 15 yr old story exactly what happened to me

    • @wufkwqc
      @wufkwqc 3 года назад +2

      Do not be sad 🥺

  • @LifeWithKristen
    @LifeWithKristen 7 лет назад +527

    This was extremely brave of you to share and honestly nobody should ever have to go through what you did💜

  • @jeonconnie4308
    @jeonconnie4308 7 лет назад +42

    She's so pretty , her ex is probably regretting losing gabi. She's rich ,she's gorgeous , he is probably nothing . Gabi and Collin suit each other plus she was young no one can blame her . We will all support you !!!!!!

  • @TheSarahAndKris
    @TheSarahAndKris 7 лет назад +671

    And I bet he treated you like shit because of the Collin thing, like yeah you made a mistake but you owned up to cheating and even asked him if you could take a break to figure out your feelings mean while he was messing around through your whole relationship and he just kept leading you on and he would've kept leading you it sucks that this happened but I think you're a stronger person because of it, you know everything happens for a reason?

    • @Gabi_DeMartino
      @Gabi_DeMartino  7 лет назад +183

      Nik exactly ❤️

    • @elalarcon
      @elalarcon 7 лет назад +7

      Nikki Otero exactly but he got what he deserved. Karma is a bitch

  • @cutecarolina1990
    @cutecarolina1990 5 лет назад +21

    Sadly I was abused for over a year and it was so beyond hard to let him go and I still struggle even though he's finally out of my life. I'm still grieving but I'm glad I'm no longer in that abusive relationship and God has given me a man who is a million times better than him.

  • @christinagio3077
    @christinagio3077 7 лет назад +34

    the fact that you said you don't need colin honestly made me have such a realization that no matter how much you love someone you only need yourself and i love that

  • @tellyheatley123
    @tellyheatley123 7 лет назад +851

    sis you should've snapped that laptop and burned all that shit in front of his house and be done with him 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @stupidharrygirl
    @stupidharrygirl 7 лет назад +172

    The amount I related to this story makes me sick to my stomach. I am so incredibly sorry you had to go through this. You're so strong and I'm so proud you got out of such a toxic, toxic situation.

  • @jane6477
    @jane6477 4 года назад +120

    I'm so happy you met Collins and left that other guy.

  • @XOoMinnie
    @XOoMinnie 7 лет назад +72

    This video would've helped me a few weeks ago when I felt hurt and heartbroken because of a guy. But now when I think about the guy, I laugh realizing that I could do way better. Thank you for sharing this Gabi. It'll definitely help in the future.

  • @-lina8792
    @-lina8792 7 лет назад +313

    I've watch two minutes and I'm crying just thinking about the same situation I was in at 14-15 years. We were on&Off, he cheated , and wanted me to do it w. Him. Gladly I didn't let him. We broke up . Now I'm Happy than ever I LOVE YOU GABI IM GLAD YOU SPOKE ABOUT IT! ❤️❤️I kept it to myself.. this is the first time I spoke in public about it..

    • @FaughnillaExtract
      @FaughnillaExtract 7 лет назад +7

      Okayylinaa my comment was my first time saying anything publicly too. You're very strong, and gorgeous. Comments like yours and this video help me feel less alone.

    • @lucianamagallanes2073
      @lucianamagallanes2073 7 лет назад +4

      Okayylinaa your such a strong woman❤️

    • @-lina8792
      @-lina8792 7 лет назад +1

      FaughnillaExtract Thank you ! Same goes to you. It's hard but we both are strong! & Don't feel lonely.. we're here !❤️❤️❤️

    • @-lina8792
      @-lina8792 7 лет назад

      Luciana Magallanes thank you so much, it means a lot! 😭💓

    • @-lina8792
      @-lina8792 7 лет назад

      Anne Louis Todd thank you 💓 I'm here you too !🤞🏼😭

  • @michellep2285
    @michellep2285 7 лет назад +1661

    I've always seen your videos in recommended and never clicked on them because i thought I would never relate to you because you're "fancy" and "boujee" and usually people like that tend to brag about their expensive stuff 🙈😬😅 but watching your videos for the first time, you seem so sweet and down to earth 💕 you shouldn't really judge a book by it's cover. You just earned a subscriber 👋🏻😊

    • @aliyamanns4721
      @aliyamanns4721 7 лет назад +28

      I'm glad you gave her a chance, she's awesome!!

    • @tyannasmith8400
      @tyannasmith8400 7 лет назад +7

      Michelle P you should work on your self esteem

    • @zarapoole1053
      @zarapoole1053 7 лет назад +2

      That's so sweet

    • @emieow
      @emieow 7 лет назад +2

      Yeah shes so so sweet

    • @davidkiley9858
      @davidkiley9858 7 лет назад +3

      You are a beautiful girl, YOU can get ANY guy you want. Remember that! Don't settle and put your heart into guys that are players. Your worth so much more than you have settled for!!!!

  • @darraghcollins1374
    @darraghcollins1374 5 лет назад +121

    And then she lands a role in the "THANKYOUNEXT" mv, so who rreally won here !

  • @lylahmads2203
    @lylahmads2203 7 лет назад +53

    Good job gab 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼takes so much guts to post something like this and NOT wanna ruin the guy who did this to you. Girl, I got you. This family's got you. We are just one giant entourage that has your back. Don't forget it.

  • @G.T_666
    @G.T_666 7 лет назад +1365

    This kept being suggested to me thru YT, and I'm not even subscribed. I finally watched his because RUclips just rlly wanted me to see this video.

  • @gobabygogo
    @gobabygogo 7 лет назад +32

    Pain is the kind of pressure that can either crush you or turn you into a diamond. We can all see you turned into a diamond Gabi💗. Stay strong and keep inspiring 💫.

  • @grannykiduniya2860
    @grannykiduniya2860 5 лет назад +91

    Who came here and immediately scrolled thru comments coz -
    *We need to know the tea*

  • @MaiaPosternack
    @MaiaPosternack 7 лет назад +119

    I feel so bad because I judged Gabi when she came out about cheating on Brandon with Collin but now I understand the full story and understand how abusive their relationship was... I love you Gabi ! I hope you are forever happy with Collin

    • @misslilmeliss
      @misslilmeliss 7 лет назад +1

      MaiaPosternack wait but it's ok for her to cheat on Brandon but not on Brandon to cheat on her? 🤔

    • @beckycrawford654
      @beckycrawford654 7 лет назад +5

      Brandon cheated multiple times and dated another girl for 9 months! I'm not saying it was right for Gabi to cheat, but it's understandable, and either way it was no where near as bad as Brandon

    • @Yusra-xh1mf
      @Yusra-xh1mf 7 лет назад

      meli mel she tried to break up with him but she couldn't so that's why she cheated on him

    • @em-635
      @em-635 6 лет назад

      Everyone makes mistakes. Gabi should have ended things first but she probably was feeling very lost and alone.

  • @mjn0tfound612
    @mjn0tfound612 7 лет назад +173

    I'm not very old and I've had zero experience with dating and relationships (I'm 14) but I have a very strong opinion on all of this that as girls we are strong and we should all be confident in ourselves and love ourselves because we deserve it and you don't need a guy to make you feel like you belong in the world especially if he's treating you badly. If your in a difficult relationship and you feel trapped, be strong you can get through it you have enough power to leave him and be happy because that's what you deserve. I've never had a boyfriend so I can't speak from personal experience but I know that there are a lot of people out there struggling to get out of toxic relationships. Just know that if you are going through a bad time in your life whoever you are girl or boy, young or old just know that you have control over your own life and you shouldn't let anybody stop you from being happy

    • @AllstarFPS
      @AllstarFPS 7 лет назад +7

      for a damn 14 year old, you hit the nail on the head lol. that's true

    • @abbyh.7340
      @abbyh.7340 7 лет назад +20

      AllstarFPS people need to realize 12-13 year olds know things and can be real mature - if their parents tell them things. My mom told me and gave me excellent relationship advice and morals & values. So as a 13 year old I wasn't stupid. Don't underestimate them.

    • @nuyorknightsat18
      @nuyorknightsat18 7 лет назад +1

      Magic Margo PREACH GIRL PREACCHHH

    • @midnightat3am
      @midnightat3am 7 лет назад

      Magic Margo hey I'm the exact same ( 14 too ) all of my friends are girls and I know no guys which I think is a relief though because I'll never get distracted by guys who won't stay

    • @syprachu
      @syprachu 6 лет назад

      Magic Margo your gonna live a happy life with that mindset so young.

  • @careymattic1315
    @careymattic1315 7 лет назад +1378

    if Alissa Violet and Ariana Grande had a child....Gabi you are a beautiful, strong, independent woman, you don't need a stupid guy to make you feel that way

    • @ummm2899
      @ummm2899 7 лет назад +30

      carey mattic I love Alissa Voilet

    • @AmyaBourgeois
      @AmyaBourgeois 7 лет назад +5

      carey mattic yesssss honestly

    • @summerglitter1831
      @summerglitter1831 7 лет назад +5

      carey mattic follow my fan account @alissavioletisaprincess on Instagram

    • @christinamariemoney
      @christinamariemoney 7 лет назад +25

      she is so strong! And so sweet!

    • @Sam-si3qx
      @Sam-si3qx 7 лет назад +4

      carey mattic yessss

  • @brittanyross5290
    @brittanyross5290 5 лет назад +38

    Anyone out here from 2019?
    So gutted for you Gabi!!

  • @rachelerickson347
    @rachelerickson347 7 лет назад +38

    I so glad you posted this. You are such a loving person and I know that many people are going through stuff like this.

  • @BeautyGlamx
    @BeautyGlamx 7 лет назад +32

    Girl look at your success. Look at the amazing relationship you have NOW. Now you know what real love and happiness is. God has a reason for everything. And now your so much stronger and have a better outlook on life❤️

  • @sydney8363
    @sydney8363 7 лет назад +38

    You had tears forming in my eyes. GIRL, I went through the exact same bs. I ended it at 2 years so I have no idea how you had the strength to put up with his shit as long as you did. Another reason I love watching your channel is because I've always been a HUGE girly girl. I was with someone who was constantly comparing me to other girls and asking if I would try ___ hairstyle/clothing/makeup like "the girl I saw ____". I was constantly trying new things to appease him and he constantly found something else to "help" me. He said I owned too much florals LOL. Too much blush in my closet, my hair would look better short, why did I bring winnie the pooh to my college dorm? He equated me being girly to me being not woman enough for him and always tried to find a "real woman" elsewhere. I even gained weight because he liked "thick" girls and my 105 lb ass was allll of the booty but little to no hips/bust AT ALL 😂😂 People ask us why we stayed so long... but the truth is that this can happen to anyone. You can be the smartest, prettiest, kindest, funniest person he has ever known, and it still wouldn't be enough because it is NOT YOU. It was always THEM and their own issues. I knew there was something more to the cheating video you made than you had let on. Applauding tf out of you Gabi 👏👏👏👏👏 Thank you for sharing this all too common tale.

  • @unknown-ig8hw
    @unknown-ig8hw 5 лет назад +23

    Hahaha, that guy is missing out! The princess is on top of the hill, and her ex is under the ground! Love u gab! You're so beautiful and strong!❤️❤️ We're always gonna be here for u!💕💗💜

  • @Azatulumbemenepitaj
    @Azatulumbemenepitaj 6 лет назад +542

    she's beautifulll oh my gosh!!! gaby is queen.

    • @lisa.z6653
      @lisa.z6653 5 лет назад +7

      Its gabi ur a fake fann

    • @sortedlife4332
      @sortedlife4332 5 лет назад +2

      Or....makeup is the queen! U can see it all

    • @Rebecca-ns1wr
      @Rebecca-ns1wr 5 лет назад +4

      *Gabi*

    • @karleehill8817
      @karleehill8817 5 лет назад +1

      lisa .z it’s ok when I started watching her and loved her I spelled her name Gabby it Gaby

    • @betsyleague9662
      @betsyleague9662 5 лет назад +2

      Booga gabi

  • @emamstutz
    @emamstutz 7 лет назад +2120

    This is one of the reasons I'm scared to date. I'm 14 and I'm not ready.

    • @hannahrachelxo2281
      @hannahrachelxo2281 7 лет назад +37

      Zoozie • Enjoy being young!! Wait as long as you can,, don't get too serious with anyone until you're out of high school. Just have fun!

    • @shelbylopez97
      @shelbylopez97 7 лет назад +26

      Things happen for a reason wether it's bad or not. But you learn your lessons from your mistakes... I was a freshman and dated a senior. Now we're married, have a house with a baby on the way 💖.

    • @iikou3925
      @iikou3925 7 лет назад +6

      Shelby Castro congrats. hope you live a happy life

    • @beccaparker7100
      @beccaparker7100 7 лет назад +14

      Zoozie • Wait until you're mature and ready. Many people regret the things they do when they are young and very vulnerable. Live a very healthy and happy childhood of what you have left! Best wishes.❤

    • @lilibeth6288
      @lilibeth6288 7 лет назад +11

      Honestly, wait until you're ready. Things will be presented to you when you are actually ready. Don't try to rush into things because in the end, you'll only be hurting yourself. I'm twenty and I've never had a boyfriend or my first kiss, so don't worry about being ready. Your time will come. I promise.

  • @mollypegg5935
    @mollypegg5935 7 лет назад +50

    Gabi you are so beautiful, and so is everyone reading this if someone is treating you badly get away from them even if you not even dating trust me I know what it's like to want to keep a toxic relationship

  • @itsmeceleste1301
    @itsmeceleste1301 5 лет назад +252

    Gabi: Entire story time in one
    Gabi: so grab ur popcorn or ur coke or whatever
    Me: *looks at video time ( or whatever it is )
    Me: BOI ITS 8 MINUTES LONG

    • @astrotrash-9554
      @astrotrash-9554 5 лет назад +6

      Omg I did that too 😂

    • @kennidywilkins6513
      @kennidywilkins6513 5 лет назад +2

      lol same

    • @minathii6695
      @minathii6695 5 лет назад +10

      When she said “so grab ur popcorn or ur coke”I thought this video was like 15-30 minutes

    • @thatloudsari8271
      @thatloudsari8271 5 лет назад +1

      I did the same thing!! 😂😂

    • @chixoos
      @chixoos 4 года назад

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @mariag15
    @mariag15 7 лет назад +196

    That's crazy I'm not subscribed to you ,but this was on my recommended I went through something similar my freshman year. Worst time of my life that changed everything. That was about 9 years ago... I am now happily married to my husband and we been together for 7 years now. The right guy will come you just have to be patient!

    • @mariag15
      @mariag15 7 лет назад

      Mark Hu What part of my comment do you find offensive ? Never said anything rude ?

    • @dahliaganz5026
      @dahliaganz5026 7 лет назад

      Maria Garcia they probably think that because you said you weren't subscribed to Gabi. THB i don't think that was rude.

    • @vloggingwithaleshamiarose6667
      @vloggingwithaleshamiarose6667 7 лет назад

      Maria Garcia you just shut your mouth she is probably sad so how would you like it if that was you

    • @mariag15
      @mariag15 7 лет назад

      This is my last comment here because people obviously don't understand what I wrote and are taking it the wrong way. I was trying to spread good vibes and support to people that went through something similar to her because I'm sure alot of people been through it before myself included! My comment was directed to others going through something similar not her directly . People have to stop making assumptions and being so negative. Just wanted to give my advice and not offend anyone from the start .

    • @clairehamilton4437
      @clairehamilton4437 6 лет назад

      Maria Garcia we can tell by your profile pic that you've gotten married but please don't take this as a hate comment I MEAN WELL
      . Congrats for making it so long my parents got separated after 16 years when I was 8. Good luck in future.

  • @lilyhart9216
    @lilyhart9216 7 лет назад +31

    You are so inspirational and strong. You are like the older sister I never had, I so happy for you now. I hop that you and Collin will continue having a happy relationship💜
    It is so terrible that people can do such bad things. But we learn from the bad things and now you could help others. Thank you for being so strong.
    "You were born a single person for a reason"
    💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜

  • @thekillstar8149
    @thekillstar8149 7 лет назад +25

    I've always wanted someone in my life I can look up to, like a sister or mom... gabi you have become this person. I love you, and you're such an inspiration. You have such potential❤️

  • @gfhhtfjyfvgghttfghgf8377
    @gfhhtfjyfvgghttfghgf8377 5 лет назад +247

    Omg you did _that_ with him and then he cheated on you 😭
    That's so tuff and sad 😢

  • @ellacole3796
    @ellacole3796 7 лет назад +335

    Am i the only one who loves these kind of videos🙋💓💓💓💓

    • @bethanyalisha6055
      @bethanyalisha6055 7 лет назад +2

      Ella Cole no. I love them too🙂

    • @ellarenee1310
      @ellarenee1310 7 лет назад +13

      Ella Cole I love them too it makes you feel like you are just talking to her and you're there in the room

    • @Simplymaryam22
      @Simplymaryam22 7 лет назад +2

      Ella Cole meeee

  • @channelforanartlover1293
    @channelforanartlover1293 7 лет назад +712

    Wait...
    So how MANY girlfriends did he have?

  • @AiyanaPlantarddeSaintClair
    @AiyanaPlantarddeSaintClair 7 лет назад +378

    Once a cheater, always a cheater :( I hope you’re ok. I’m going through the same thing

    • @deejeff8846
      @deejeff8846 7 лет назад +1

      Aiyana Plantard de Saint-Clair always

    • @KellBell-oz3cu
      @KellBell-oz3cu 6 лет назад +1

      Aiyana Plantard de Saint-Clair same girl 😓😥😣 hope you're doing okay!

    • @seculair2446
      @seculair2446 6 лет назад

      Whats wrong with cheating if you do it sometimes?

    • @crystaledson
      @crystaledson 6 лет назад +5

      not always
      most of the men/women yes, BUT
      there is 1 out of every 1000 that decides to stop cheating = cuz the 1 sees wut the fuck he/she's been doing to others
      that its fucked up
      and then end that stupidity ;)

    • @msgirly6827
      @msgirly6827 6 лет назад +1

      seculair 2 😂😂😂wauw

  • @grannykiduniya2860
    @grannykiduniya2860 5 лет назад +67

    Gabi : so this is gonna be pretty long
    Me : Okay cool
    Gabi : ....so if you wanna grab some soda or ...
    Me : Nope gOrL I can hear you all day
    Gabi : So....back when I was 15
    *Me : * oh boi * okay I'll go grab some oxygen*

    • @Shelby5f
      @Shelby5f 5 лет назад +2

      SEM Noor Associate OML that’s how I felt

  • @KacieJoy
    @KacieJoy 7 лет назад +30

    I love how she is so comfortable talking to us... not many youtubers can do stuff like this💕💕 Love you Gab!! Stay strong, we're here for you, xoxo

  • @artsyamy73
    @artsyamy73 7 лет назад +808

    neverrr say "promise you wont leave me" to a guy..only shows a girls weakness-not her worth..guys are not ever worth that! be powerful,girls!💃🏼💪🏻💞

    • @savannahduvenage9144
      @savannahduvenage9144 7 лет назад +9

      Amen to that 🖒

    • @mcgil8891
      @mcgil8891 7 лет назад +7

      Preach

    • @KellBell-oz3cu
      @KellBell-oz3cu 6 лет назад +1

      Amy what if the guy says "I'd like it if you never left me alone" hmm just hurts to know I fell for his words and he turned it around and leaves me alone..😣😓

    • @morganmock4337
      @morganmock4337 6 лет назад

      Amy u

    • @prettyluhhnay0694
      @prettyluhhnay0694 6 лет назад +4

      Alan Brincat Nobody is worth saying things they don't mean but Amy is right not just about girls but guys to. So she isn't sexist she just didn't add about guys andbshe is a girl so you never know what goes through her head. So don't say rude things

  • @shawtyuwu8018
    @shawtyuwu8018 7 лет назад +599

    #GABIDESERVEDBETTER
    you are such a sweetheart gabi, and you did'nt deserve this. youre a role model and I'm so happy you stayed strong and used your voice to help out all the little girls that needed to hear this

    • @rhun4832
      @rhun4832 7 лет назад +6

      Creative Retards so. The shocking part is how long she lead the "perfect relationship" narrative by taking photoshoots and all of those videos. Toward the beginning of the Niki and Gabi beauty channel, she made a anniversary video and asked subscribers to send in clips gushing about how everyone wants a boyfriend like Brandon and how they're "relationship goals" I have a younger cousin who actually made it in the anniversary video (just search: gabi and brandon anniversary and itll pop up) my cousin was pretty young at the time, maybe 13 or 14.
      Had to have a solid conversation recently about how people do things to look good. Just because it looks healthy doesn't mean it is. Sort of annoyed to find out all this was going on and she allowed a platform for her viewers to praise him on his behavior. Eh.

    • @karinacirmaci
      @karinacirmaci 7 лет назад +6

      Creative Retards WAIT.. BUT LIKE STOP SAYING THIS!!! EVERYTHING HAPPENS WITH A REASON, YOU KNOW?!!! SHE HAD TO LEAR SOMETHING FROM THIS! MAYBE IF THIS DIDNT HAPPENED TO HER, SHE WOULDN'T KNOW HOW IMPORTANT IS TO LOVE YOURSELF!

    • @shawtyuwu8018
      @shawtyuwu8018 7 лет назад +8

      of course she learned something. but she didn't deserve what happened to her at all.

    • @asruluveira
      @asruluveira 7 лет назад

      Creative Retards lol. she is weak. brandon use her again and again. one day she will found out what brandon did to a woman in her family. brandon dont wanna break up to stay close to that person for money..

    • @shawtyuwu8018
      @shawtyuwu8018 7 лет назад +3

      brandons in the past. gabi is over him. and getting over your first true love that you lost your virginity to, is so fucking hard, if you consider gabi weak for this then wtf is strong.

  • @jeniferjackson8247
    @jeniferjackson8247 5 лет назад +37

    At least you have collin... I truly believe that collin is going to be your #1 fav

  • @oliviathomas547
    @oliviathomas547 7 лет назад +359

    This is why I don't have a boyfriend

  • @Sarapharos20202
    @Sarapharos20202 7 лет назад +62

    You are such a polite and innocent girl I swear ! you posted a video with your new bf you said you cheated on him and you felt like you blamed yourself over this and you said sorry and he did all this to you !!!. You learned alot for sure and those experiences make us stronger ! Keep slaying 😉

  • @lauriekeshishian2272
    @lauriekeshishian2272 7 лет назад +23

    OMG Thank you so much! I'm going through something like that right now, and this really made me feel better about it. I'm feeling very lost and alone. And I have no one to talk to about it. And my parents love him too, and they're not siding with me on this, even though he toyed with me for 4 years, and hurt my feelings a billion times. I got him a 1050$ guitar, and a car. I helped him get into college and there he met this other girl. And after that he just started being mean to me, and he physically and emotionally abused me. Like it got to a point where I can't even watch movies anymore because I can't handle being hurt. I'm depressed and I'm seeing a therapist. This was a few months ago but I'm still hurting. And I finally can talk to someone about it.

    • @SharlenesJourney
      @SharlenesJourney 6 лет назад

      SharonColinBenedict Addict how are you doing now I can relate to your comment so much ive done so much for this one person and gave him a lot of money but he just left me and said he doesn’t have feelings for me I feel so sad and have no one to talk to 😔

  • @Jasmine-oz4rs
    @Jasmine-oz4rs 5 лет назад +92

    A queen has spoken

  • @shitdown4097
    @shitdown4097 7 лет назад +141

    you and collin deserve each other i love you gab stay strong

  • @shrika82
    @shrika82 7 лет назад +1643

    this reminds me of how alissa was in love with jake but he just treated her like trash

  • @deergreentea2847
    @deergreentea2847 7 лет назад +35

    i went through this for three years. emotionally abused by a guy. he has used me so much and made me feel so incredibly worthless and stupid. he made talked down to me and made me feel like what i had to say was unimportant. i am finally in such a better place and know that i do have a voice. thank you Gabi this video really helped me so much. im legit crying so hard like i completely understand everything you are saying. its so fucked up how someone could legit fuck up ur mind so hard and ruin ur life. so happy you got through this. we are here for you just like u said ur here for us. thank you so much Gabi. love you. 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖

  • @jaaeshim
    @jaaeshim 5 лет назад +5

    You’re my favorite youtuber bc you’re so real with your subscribers. You never deserved any of that but I’m so glad that you’re happy now. 💘

  • @marrrrr347
    @marrrrr347 7 лет назад +453

    Wow gabi i don't know if you'll reply to this but i'm going through this right now me and my bf have broken up so many times but i've begged for him back so many times at times i think i'm crazy for him or desperate but i find myself thinking i can't be without him i've been with him for almost 3 years and i don't like the thought of being without him

    • @kristinayev681
      @kristinayev681 7 лет назад +48

      Hey girl, he doesn't define you. Period.

    • @charliecybill9398
      @charliecybill9398 7 лет назад +21

      you are in a toxic relationship..

    • @littlemissyyy
      @littlemissyyy 7 лет назад +8

      Mari Malok love is blind gurlll!!!

    • @avvvendermj8702
      @avvvendermj8702 7 лет назад +23

      Listen to me love, if your significant other is showing someone else the attention you deserve, no matter how much you think you love them, that person does NOT deserve you. I am guessing you are quite young & cheating can mean more than just having sex with someone else. You can emotionally cheat as well as thats damn near worse. Both hurt just as bad, and neither are okay. Please please please take my advice love and leave them behind. Trust me when I say one day when youre real love comes to you, you will thank me.

    • @yktv985
      @yktv985 7 лет назад +2

      debbie cakes good advice

  • @amy2104
    @amy2104 7 лет назад +392

    we accept the love we think we deserve.

    • @azuradawn5683
      @azuradawn5683 7 лет назад +8

      Amy - Love that book; love that quote; love you for posting this.

    • @amy2104
      @amy2104 7 лет назад +7

      thank you i was hoping someone knew! :)

    • @linaparker5514
      @linaparker5514 7 лет назад +5

      Amy the perks of being a walliflower

    • @Joy-rg2nt
      @Joy-rg2nt 7 лет назад +1

      nice one ❤️

    • @nataliek-r4455
      @nataliek-r4455 7 лет назад +1

      eeyyy. I loved that book. the perks of being a wallflower

  • @Layla-sv7hb
    @Layla-sv7hb 7 лет назад +129

    You're amazing❤️I hope you know how much people love, respect and admire you❤️we are all so proud of our queen👑💗

  • @tiffanyroseangeles7517
    @tiffanyroseangeles7517 5 лет назад +23

    So glad your in a happy relationship currently ❤️

  • @CL0UD143
    @CL0UD143 7 лет назад +319

    Why is this on my recommendation?

  • @bamt4022
    @bamt4022 7 лет назад +239

    Be that chick that his gf gonna hate, that his mother is gonna miss and that he will always be thinking about.

    • @corneliahanimann2173
      @corneliahanimann2173 7 лет назад +33

      Tamara B uyes, because life is truly a competition for mens attention and if a guy cheats on you, you make it your life purpose to prove to him that you're better than him.
      And if his new girl is a great girl with a great personality and great looks, you lost because you're not pretty enough or nice enough in his eyes, you lose because his opinion of you matters more than your own opinion about yourself and we females are never good enough to just let go of people that don't truly deserve us...
      Sarcasm intended.

    • @corneliahanimann2173
      @corneliahanimann2173 7 лет назад +1

      fofiax ya that's what I meant in -non sarcasm,-ish.
      The mentality that females like to prove eachother their better worth, measured by a guys attention, is bullshit.
      So many girls think when a guy takes the other woman: "am I not pretty enough?", "am I not funny enough?" , "am I not good enough?" , "is she better than me?"
      Why aren't we realistic and say, "hey, sometimes atraction doesn't work both ways, maybe they fit better and maybe it's a good thing for us to move on"
      It's not natural to feel this way, but to keep a grudge against a girl that eventually did nothing because you measure yourself by the opinion of a man- who obviously doesn't even know what he wants aswell,
      We should be past this...
      This isn't a competition, y'all are much more than just worth a guys attention, you're a person!!
      You don't need to prove yourself to anyone, especially not someone that doesn't respect you.
      We're both females, I don't know you, but we're sisters and I'd wish you the best in life and if a guy plays games with me and you- I'll stand up for you.
      If I see someone touch you when you don't want it- I'm here for you.
      True empowerment comes from within, not from competition.
      Maybe we should start loving our own gender and support eachother in our struggles than focus around men...
      With that said- I have no grudge against men. I love them. I just hate that mentality that promotes women to hate eachother.

    • @deynasaur0510
      @deynasaur0510 6 лет назад

      Tamara B Sshe probably already is because she’s PERFECT !! 😍❤️

  • @bggzxzbggzxz3251
    @bggzxzbggzxz3251 6 лет назад +1409

    TAKE THE MAC BOOK FROM HIM!!!!

    • @rengaaka
      @rengaaka 6 лет назад +8

      I wouldn’t do that that’s mean gabi doesn’t want to be put in that angle anymore; any longer.

    • @alexiemetcalf940
      @alexiemetcalf940 6 лет назад +2

      ZGamingWithVanessaZ me to!!

    • @devyanisegan5673
      @devyanisegan5673 6 лет назад +2

      Chhaya Mahajan yes she is right ...take it back

    • @rengaaka
      @rengaaka 6 лет назад

      devyani segan no! What is wrong with u peeps! U don’t have the right to do or say that! Gabi doesn’t want anymore harm- she’s happy now and she doesn’t want to be not happy.

    • @xxmnlightlunaxx2893
      @xxmnlightlunaxx2893 6 лет назад +2

      YASSSSS

  • @wawwwa9542
    @wawwwa9542 Год назад +3

    Narcissism does that to you.
    The shit they do to you makes you wanna get an approval.
    Feel like you're not enough.
    They actually plant this in your head and feelings.
    Really glad you got rid og him.

  • @ebycutiewashere4284
    @ebycutiewashere4284 7 лет назад +157

    Me and my boyfriend broke up but im good😜💙YOU DONT NEED A GUY BECAUSE YOU'RE BEAUTIFUL AND BE BRAVE HAVE POSITIVE THOUGHTS WE GIRLS NEED TO BE STRONG LOVE EVERYONE EVEN IF I DONT KNOW YOU❤

  • @miarose3465
    @miarose3465 7 лет назад +1018

    1:05
    CAUSE WHEN YOUR 15 AND SOMEBODY TELLS YOU THEY LOVE YOU YOURE GONNA BELIEVE THEM!!
    sorry i had to
    edit: thank you for all of the likes

    • @andreaclarke1397
      @andreaclarke1397 7 лет назад +7

      Mia Brown you're* and yes when people are inlove they do anything! Obviously you haven't experienced that, love does things to people, she didn't know he would do that, she thought they would be together forever like every "young couple" thinks they will be

    • @miarose3465
      @miarose3465 7 лет назад +6

      Andrea Clarke it's a song

    • @jaidyramirez2996
      @jaidyramirez2996 7 лет назад +6

      Andrea Clarke it's a song chill

    • @openwirelab
      @openwirelab 7 лет назад

      Mia Brown x

    • @kaylaalonzo6868
      @kaylaalonzo6868 7 лет назад +4

      Mia Brown ok Taylor swift

  • @gippygamer1844
    @gippygamer1844 7 лет назад +53

    Gabi u are so so strong going through this we are all here to love and support u xxxx 💕💕💕💕💕💕

  • @julie-tx6ql
    @julie-tx6ql 5 лет назад +141

    now we know her ex's name is brandon:) watch her bday vlog if confused lol

  • @jynxx8339
    @jynxx8339 7 лет назад +191

    What do u mean I don't need anybody, i need my mom

  • @ForeverMakeupGirl
    @ForeverMakeupGirl 7 лет назад +23

    Thanks for posting this Gabi. It's nice to know that this kind of thing happens to our favorite youtubers too. Makes us feel less alone, especially in dark times.

  • @janabijou150
    @janabijou150 7 лет назад +2491

    Gabi. I am so sorry 😭

    • @anarios129
      @anarios129 7 лет назад

      Jana Bijouno i

    • @kathleensworld1152
      @kathleensworld1152 7 лет назад

      Jana Bijou sis , sub to sub?

    • @savannahduvenage9144
      @savannahduvenage9144 7 лет назад +9

      This made me cry bringing back the memories from what I've been through.. We need to stay strong together because no one should make you feel inferior.

    • @geoffreymourish5827
      @geoffreymourish5827 7 лет назад +1

      Jana Bijou O

    • @misa4534
      @misa4534 7 лет назад +1

      Jana Bijou me to

  • @stxrgxrl0
    @stxrgxrl0 5 лет назад +46

    i would have broken up with him the first time messed up oh my lord