when I was younger I fell depressed because I felt invisible in my clothes. true story. I feel like I can do more and be seen. at the time, I can't afford to buy my own clothes. so the struggle was real. it's the lack of self-expression, visibility, and presence that made me feel dissociated from my body. I feel like I wasn't being intentional or I wasn't aligned with who I am and who I want to be in those situations. when an RU (or LU) can't make a statement, it's very unfulfilling. some people might think it's vain or superficial or even narcissistic. but sometimes, one has to take space to feel present. 🤍 to feel like you don't exist or have no voice or personality, that's harsh man. it is very important to feel like an INDIVIDUAL with a personal brand and identity! never tell an RU or anyone that they should just "blend in". 💅
Wanting to contribute in a leadership and service role is so true for me. For a long time, I tried to suppress my desire to lead and to stand out because I viewed it as a negative trait, but I think I’m meant to embrace it. Not everyone has the desire or ability to lead, and someone needs to step up, so why not me? What I really want to convey with my style is a sense of reliability and benevolent strength, like a knight or a wise queen.
I know I'm up but I wonder if it's possible to hover between the right and left. I resonate with both. I feel an affinity for the lady heretic and the power archetypes.
I still struggle with the recommendation of not buying one piece at a time but going for a complete outfit. I always buy one item at a time in my colour palette and then mix it with other pieces I already have.
I think if you have a wardrobe where you have a defined color palette and it already functions really well together, then that’s great to buy one piece at a time. You probably can envision multiple ways to wear each piece with the items you have at home when you decide to buy it? Someone who feels like their wardrobe isn’t working for them, and they buy stuff they like but never end up wearing it, probably could buy complete outfits for a while and then once they have many whole outfits they like can mix up the pieces and more easily start adding one item at a time?
The Sapphire key seems to me the closest approach to my usual life, but I'm not sure if this is my option, since I have more problems similar to the Moonstone, and visually I like the images on the left more🙈
when I was younger I fell depressed because I felt invisible in my clothes. true story. I feel like I can do more and be seen. at the time, I can't afford to buy my own clothes. so the struggle was real. it's the lack of self-expression, visibility, and presence that made me feel dissociated from my body. I feel like I wasn't being intentional or I wasn't aligned with who I am and who I want to be in those situations.
when an RU (or LU) can't make a statement, it's very unfulfilling.
some people might think it's vain or superficial or even narcissistic. but sometimes, one has to take space to feel present. 🤍
to feel like you don't exist or have no voice or personality, that's harsh man. it is very important to feel like an INDIVIDUAL with a personal brand and identity!
never tell an RU or anyone that they should just "blend in". 💅
Wanting to contribute in a leadership and service role is so true for me. For a long time, I tried to suppress my desire to lead and to stand out because I viewed it as a negative trait, but I think I’m meant to embrace it. Not everyone has the desire or ability to lead, and someone needs to step up, so why not me? What I really want to convey with my style is a sense of reliability and benevolent strength, like a knight or a wise queen.
You described my struggles very well! Boring and invisible is unfortunately where I've found myself.
Hope you find your way out 🌸
Yay!💙I was wondering what the thumbnail mantra for Sapphire would be. "Style for your best life" is so perfect!
Yay! So happy to see this video today! Thank you Rita!
i love you
i love your channel
my outfit is boring as heck today
i need to go to the tailor
Hope you get to wear something fun this weekend!
I know I'm up but I wonder if it's possible to hover between the right and left. I resonate with both. I feel an affinity for the lady heretic and the power archetypes.
same!!
Hopefully the next video can help!
Really looking forward to the next video!
Finally 😊
I still struggle with the recommendation of not buying one piece at a time but going for a complete outfit. I always buy one item at a time in my colour palette and then mix it with other pieces I already have.
I think if you have a wardrobe where you have a defined color palette and it already functions really well together, then that’s great to buy one piece at a time. You probably can envision multiple ways to wear each piece with the items you have at home when you decide to buy it?
Someone who feels like their wardrobe isn’t working for them, and they buy stuff they like but never end up wearing it, probably could buy complete outfits for a while and then once they have many whole outfits they like can mix up the pieces and more easily start adding one item at a time?
@@twobluestripes yes, that’s it ~ I know there will be clothes at home the new piece will go with 😊
If something works for you, of course you should just continue with that! I just describe the typical patterns I see for each Quadrant
Awesome video series, can't wait for the next video in the series!
can you give an example of one outfit, very plain, decided on by the gemstone types and how they'd arrive to it?
Thank you, I would like to do more videos with the style key examples in the future
The Sapphire key seems to me the closest approach to my usual life, but I'm not sure if this is my option, since I have more problems similar to the Moonstone, and visually I like the images on the left more🙈
Sounds confusing!
You are always so spot on 🎉❤
Thank you 💜
I can def see why you put me in r+d but further up in the quandrant