This man was so delusional. You had the nerve to be cheating on your pregnant girlfriend but then want your brother’s future wife??? Wanted to collect women like Pokémon I see… There’s a special place in hell for people like that😒
Dude was cheating on his girlfriend with his office's HR lady while trying to get into his middle school crush's pants... yeah, this guy is completely unhinged. He who wants everything loses everything, I guess...
To correct you when you are talking about a man then you should say "trying to get into HER school crushs pants" however if you are talking about a woman just like you did its "trying to get into HIS school crush between her legs" you are welcome
Imagine having your entire life set out and ready to run til retirement. Only for your wildest fantasy and desire to play your mind into doing stupid shit. Now he lost everything. His job, his girl and child, his family, and his home. All cause he couldn’t put his ego aside for the greater good.
No Jane doesn’t get out Scott free she’s in HR breaking company rules!! That’s the office equivalent of a dirty cop and it doesn’t just get brushed under the rug
@ the only acceptable explanation for how she gets out of this is nepotism which isn’t as common as Reddit stories would have you believe but even the if it’s nepotism how did that not shame the higher up into resigning it’s not like it would look good to keep her.
Jake is just never level scum. He wanted to sabotage his brother's wedding so he could get his fianceé WHILE having a pregnant gf himself who he in turn was cheating on...
It's a bit hilarious that, even though the girlfriend isn't married to the brother, she's still taking everything from him in the separation, on top of the future child support.
Geez Louise, Jake has too many screws loose in his head. He was already cheating on his pregnant gf with a HR representative at the company he works at knowing theres a no dating within the company policy, but to come to his brother's wedding and claim that he's in love with his brother's fiancee despite them only ever having 10 interactions is just insane. Jake needs psychiatric help because that's just pure lunacy.
Bro "loves" and impregnated one lady; cheated on her with a coworker; and still has the audacity to think that his brother's wife is into him. Main character syndrome at peak 💀💀
I am just SOOOO happy this wasnt an AITA story. Loool imagine that “AITA for kicking my brother out of my wedding after he and my gold digging Ex (who he brought) tried to ruin the celebration?”
The fact that Ruth wouldn't take on chores when she was unemployed???? My fiance and I ALWAYS cover housework when one of us is between jobs...that's a fucking GIVING if I have nothing to do all day, folding the laundry and cooking dinner won't leave me with so little time I can't relax after. Real talk I loved being a house-spouse 😂❤ it was much easier than my job...and I knew how much I was taking off my fiance ❤ just by handling wash, cleaning, sweeping and cooking--i grew so fond of cooking ❤❤❤
My husband and I have always done this. Essentially, 'if you see something that needs to be done, do it'. There have been times where I had a job and he didn't and he took over the household chores and had dinner waiting for me when I came home and vice versa. It's what being in a partnership is all about.
"At the end of the day, he's my brother, and I don't want to cause more problems for him." Just as I was about to praise this story for finally not being an AITA/doormat story. You cannot be serious.
@@TripnotizeVM He’s a remorseless, entitled POS who refused to even take accountability for his own circumstances. He literally did it to himself. What's there to feel sorry for?
@@crowfather0249 In my opinion there is no satisfaction to be had to kick a man that's already down. We also don't know what their life was before Zara was in the picture so we can't discredit his sorrow for him with our limited pov. OP moved on to a better life with no regrets so imo he did it the best way
It's not your fault it's your brother's fault because he had a secret crush on his brother's wife and he brought his ex to his wedding to stop marrying Zara and he was cheating on her with his HR worker and he started to blame him for ruining his life and that's not right and he should pay for his actions and go to hell for what he has done to him and if you guys can't see that then you guys are delusional and he doesn't deserve anything for he had a secret crush with his brother's wife and he brought his brother's ex to the wedding to stop him from marrying Zara and he was cheating on her with his HR worker and you don't have to apologize for anything it's his brother's fault not yours.
The audacity of this guy. How you gonna say that op's wife and you are ment to be together but you out hear cheating on your pregnant girlfriend with the HR lady. Now he became jobless,homeless without a girlfriend and even the girl he was cheating with wont take him,probably gonna have to pay child support if he doesn't skip town and everyone hates him. All of that for simping for your brothers girl who wasn't even interested in you in the first place 🤦♂️
Jake clearly thought he was some casanova that deserved all these woman. What a POS. Cheats on his pregnant gf with HR assistant yet thinks him and Zara have something special and she should be with him as well. That man was beyond delusional.
It's unfortunate the brother suddenly flipped a switch when OP revealed he is marrying the brother's crush, but sadly, yes, people can just pull a 180 seemingly out of nowhere and completely change. I can get circumstances may not favor you, but if a relationship is not to be, it's hard, but you have to let it go. However, lacking the maturity to accept reality is what I think broke the brother, hence him turning this unhinged and deluded. He definitely needs psychiatric help to get over the crush that never was, but as the old saying goes "you can bring the cow to the river, but you can't make it drink". If he refuses to help himself, there is nothing we can do.
Zara sounds awesome, I’m glad that op and Zara are doing well. Jake is a weirdo for trying to ruin op and Zara’s relationship all because he couldn’t get over the middle school crush that he had on her. Jake is delusional for saying that him and Zara are meant to be together, even though he cheated on his pregnant gf with the HR lady.
This man really thought op’s wife would leave to be with him. When this man fell in love with a woman he seen 10 times, cheated on his pregnant girlfriend. lied to the other woman about being single. He’s not loyal at all. anyone that is willing going to date him knowing is past is stupid.
My parents are 14 years apart, how does that make someone a creep for simply loving your one and only? My mom and dad loved each other until the day My dad died, yet my mom kept loving him (True)
What was he expecting to happen? He had a pregnant girlfriend and a side chick who thought she was the girlfriend. He thought he could get a third one by getting OP's ex to persuade the OP into leaving Zara. 😂 I don't get some people when they cheat. Plus what was is thinking was going to happen when his gf finds out why she apparently wasn't invited.
pretty sure the brother only wanted Zara because shes, his brothers wife. feeling like he can have anyone he wanted. as soon as he gets her, he'll toss her aside.
So why doesnt jake sue his old job for just firing him n not his ap in HR??? Yeah Jake has a screw loose but he does hold a case for the workplace thing... Jake needs therapy.
"Jake" is trying to be a Chad, but is delusional beyond words. But then, "Ruth" was as well. But then, narcissistic sociopaths tend to be like that. I am so not surprised that "Ruth" resorted to the stereotypical "TikTok feminist meltdown" script in her accusations before the broke up. "Zara" and the OP are completely right for each other. "Jake" never had a shot with "Zara", and that is the facts. "Jack" being interesting doesn't mean "Zara" would go out with him, and that is precisely why everything made her getting snippy. "Jack's" biggest mistake was bringing "Ruth" and of course it didn't work or go well. The OP and "Zara" did precisely what needed and deserved to be done, and it is that simple. "Violet" and the child are the only ones who are any kinds of victims, and I really am sorry they got hurt. The last thing is this: "Jake" and "Ruth" are examples of people born that way. They both really believe that societal rules/laws/mores "do not apply to them. They genuinely believe that "reality will bend to their will". I also feel that "Jane" isn't a victim, but she deserved to get "Jake" fired. She can plead she was lied to, while "Jake" deliberately broke all the rules. "Ruth" most likely will end up like "Jake" and that is just poetic justice.
Jake is definitely crazy but Violet got on my damn nerves…once I showed her the messages and she still called me a liar I would have so ok and moved on with my damn life
Is it weird for me to actually think he makes a valid point about how if she is home and he works he should have the right to his own money and she should do most of the houework? I think he should only have to clean up after himself if he made the mess, and do the shores he is better at or enjoy doing more, she should do the rest. (I´m female, since that seems to mather to feminists).
This man was so delusional. You had the nerve to be cheating on your pregnant girlfriend but then want your brother’s future wife??? Wanted to collect women like Pokémon I see… There’s a special place in hell for people like that😒
hola, cómo estás
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Violet/Jake's gf deserved him. She was a gullible fool. She's about as delusional as he is. ;-)
Dude was cheating on his girlfriend with his office's HR lady while trying to get into his middle school crush's pants... yeah, this guy is completely unhinged.
He who wants everything loses everything, I guess...
Oh, you're always messaging here, I was wondering, if you knew other channels that are good as these
Like your pfp DarkEinherjar
To correct you when you are talking about a man then you should say "trying to get into HER school crushs pants" however if you are talking about a woman just like you did its "trying to get into HIS school crush between her legs" you are welcome
Haven't even finished the video yet, but i had to pop in just to say, Zara ate with that slap, and blowing Ruth a kiss, cherry on top. You go girl!!
Yea she did!!!
YES 😭😭
For real, I had to stop to congratulate her too 😂
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Damn right ! What a Queen 🔥🎀💅❤️👑
Imagine having your entire life set out and ready to run til retirement. Only for your wildest fantasy and desire to play your mind into doing stupid shit. Now he lost everything. His job, his girl and child, his family, and his home. All cause he couldn’t put his ego aside for the greater good.
And because he couldn't keep it in his pants😅
No Jane doesn’t get out Scott free she’s in HR breaking company rules!! That’s the office equivalent of a dirty cop and it doesn’t just get brushed under the rug
Like OP said, she has connections with higher ups in the company, and you know how that goes.
@ the only acceptable explanation for how she gets out of this is nepotism which isn’t as common as Reddit stories would have you believe but even the if it’s nepotism how did that not shame the higher up into resigning it’s not like it would look good to keep her.
Not a fan of his, but Jake should have sued for wrongful termination if they both committed the same offense and she didn't get fired.
@@cheshiredjconsidering jake’s actions. He’s either not smart enough or not sane enough to consider that.
Jake is just never level scum. He wanted to sabotage his brother's wedding so he could get his fianceé WHILE having a pregnant gf himself who he in turn was cheating on...
Yep he has a pregnant gf and a side woman and still wanted to take his brothers fiance now wife. He's psychotic.
It's a bit hilarious that, even though the girlfriend isn't married to the brother, she's still taking everything from him in the separation, on top of the future child support.
depending on the state if you live together long enough you are treated as if you are married even if your aren't.
Geez Louise, Jake has too many screws loose in his head. He was already cheating on his pregnant gf with a HR representative at the company he works at knowing theres a no dating within the company policy, but to come to his brother's wedding and claim that he's in love with his brother's fiancee despite them only ever having 10 interactions is just insane. Jake needs psychiatric help because that's just pure lunacy.
11:22 QUEEN 👑 LOL
No shit...she is a god damn boss
Bro "loves" and impregnated one lady; cheated on her with a coworker; and still has the audacity to think that his brother's wife is into him. Main character syndrome at peak 💀💀
Jake must have been dating a HR employee to get promotions
Zara queen! I don’t want to hear anything, she nailed it with that slap and kiss 😘 😂
I am just SOOOO happy this wasnt an AITA story.
Loool imagine that “AITA for kicking my brother out of my wedding after he and my gold digging Ex (who he brought) tried to ruin the celebration?”
so Jake is in love with Zara, dating Violet, and cheating with Jane?!!! Buddy next you'll be dating your mom or something
The fact that Ruth wouldn't take on chores when she was unemployed???? My fiance and I ALWAYS cover housework when one of us is between jobs...that's a fucking GIVING if I have nothing to do all day, folding the laundry and cooking dinner won't leave me with so little time I can't relax after. Real talk I loved being a house-spouse 😂❤ it was much easier than my job...and I knew how much I was taking off my fiance ❤ just by handling wash, cleaning, sweeping and cooking--i grew so fond of cooking ❤❤❤
My husband and I have always done this. Essentially, 'if you see something that needs to be done, do it'. There have been times where I had a job and he didn't and he took over the household chores and had dinner waiting for me when I came home and vice versa. It's what being in a partnership is all about.
"At the end of the day, he's my brother, and I don't want to cause more problems for him." Just as I was about to praise this story for finally not being an AITA/doormat story. You cannot be serious.
The dude lost everything, why would you want to cause more suffering? They're going no contact with him, he's not been a doormat at all.
@@TripnotizeVM He’s a remorseless, entitled POS who refused to even take accountability for his own circumstances. He literally did it to himself. What's there to feel sorry for?
@@crowfather0249 In my opinion there is no satisfaction to be had to kick a man that's already down. We also don't know what their life was before Zara was in the picture so we can't discredit his sorrow for him with our limited pov. OP moved on to a better life with no regrets so imo he did it the best way
as always the real victim is the future child that will be without a father
Honestly, that child is better off without a father than having such a horrible man for a father...
I guess. I feel like “the real victim” is a bit of a weird way of wording it though
Less of a victim better to have no dad and a great set of grandparents, uncle and aunt than have Jake in the kids life
THAT is actually a blessing.
It's not your fault it's your brother's fault because he had a secret crush on his brother's wife and he brought his ex to his wedding to stop marrying Zara and he was cheating on her with his HR worker and he started to blame him for ruining his life and that's not right and he should pay for his actions and go to hell for what he has done to him and if you guys can't see that then you guys are delusional and he doesn't deserve anything for he had a secret crush with his brother's wife and he brought his brother's ex to the wedding to stop him from marrying Zara and he was cheating on her with his HR worker and you don't have to apologize for anything it's his brother's fault not yours.
My grandma gave me a teddy bear and i called it zara since it was a zebra idk 😂
wow, never saw someone put make up on himself so much he became far beyond a clown.
lowk remember watching about a girl in love with her sister's fiance and brought her sister's ex to the wedding
Little nightmares gameplay 😢
That chump really has majority of his screw loose.
The audacity of this guy. How you gonna say that op's wife and you are ment to be together but you out hear cheating on your pregnant girlfriend with the HR lady. Now he became jobless,homeless without a girlfriend and even the girl he was cheating with wont take him,probably gonna have to pay child support if he doesn't skip town and everyone hates him. All of that for simping for your brothers girl who wasn't even interested in you in the first place 🤦♂️
I hope that HR lady was fired also, because if she wasn't that's fucked up.
given the fact that HR lady had connections to the higher ups, i doubt she was fired.
Jake clearly thought he was some casanova that deserved all these woman. What a POS. Cheats on his pregnant gf with HR assistant yet thinks him and Zara have something special and she should be with him as well. That man was beyond delusional.
It's unfortunate the brother suddenly flipped a switch when OP revealed he is marrying the brother's crush, but sadly, yes, people can just pull a 180 seemingly out of nowhere and completely change. I can get circumstances may not favor you, but if a relationship is not to be, it's hard, but you have to let it go. However, lacking the maturity to accept reality is what I think broke the brother, hence him turning this unhinged and deluded. He definitely needs psychiatric help to get over the crush that never was, but as the old saying goes "you can bring the cow to the river, but you can't make it drink". If he refuses to help himself, there is nothing we can do.
18:40 that's not an excuse family or not you get attacked call the police cause these people will escalate
Zara sounds awesome, I’m glad that op and Zara are doing well. Jake is a weirdo for trying to ruin op and Zara’s relationship all because he couldn’t get over the middle school crush that he had on her. Jake is delusional for saying that him and Zara are meant to be together, even though he cheated on his pregnant gf with the HR lady.
Zara was an icon for that slap😂😂😂
This man really thought op’s wife would leave to be with him. When this man fell in love with a woman he seen 10 times, cheated on his pregnant girlfriend. lied to the other woman about being single. He’s not loyal at all. anyone that is willing going to date him knowing is past is stupid.
I wonder if the HR lady got fired, too? She violated company policy as well as he did.
My parents are 14 years apart, how does that make someone a creep for simply loving your one and only? My mom and dad loved each other until the day My dad died, yet my mom kept loving him (True)
When people who don't work out of laziness think others are taking advantage of them!
Tf?!?! 😂
Bro was ready to destroy his entire life because of a small middle school crush he never got over with 💀
A moocher for two years? Dude, stop being a simp and kick her out. Brother or not, get tough with the idiot brother. Poor Violet.
What was he expecting to happen? He had a pregnant girlfriend and a side chick who thought she was the girlfriend. He thought he could get a third one by getting OP's ex to persuade the OP into leaving Zara. 😂 I don't get some people when they cheat. Plus what was is thinking was going to happen when his gf finds out why she apparently wasn't invited.
pretty sure the brother only wanted Zara because shes, his brothers wife. feeling like he can have anyone he wanted. as soon as he gets her, he'll toss her aside.
Everything you see and desire, doesn't belong to you.
A good one after a long time
So why doesnt jake sue his old job for just firing him n not his ap in HR??? Yeah Jake has a screw loose but he does hold a case for the workplace thing... Jake needs therapy.
I hope the girlfriend will make him pay for child support.
What your brother did was absolutely disgusting
He destroyed his own life. You didn't cause the cheating or the manipulations.
Now that was a story!
Stand down lil bro.
Did the HR girlfriend get fired 2? Didn't she also sign that "no dating" contract?
HR lady had connections to higher ups, so at most she got suspended for a bit of time.
Zara ate 😆😆😆😆
"Jake" is trying to be a Chad, but is delusional beyond words. But then, "Ruth" was as well. But then, narcissistic sociopaths tend to be like that. I am so not surprised that "Ruth" resorted to the stereotypical "TikTok feminist meltdown" script in her accusations before the broke up. "Zara" and the OP are completely right for each other. "Jake" never had a shot with "Zara", and that is the facts. "Jack" being interesting doesn't mean "Zara" would go out with him, and that is precisely why everything made her getting snippy. "Jack's" biggest mistake was bringing "Ruth" and of course it didn't work or go well.
The OP and "Zara" did precisely what needed and deserved to be done, and it is that simple. "Violet" and the child are the only ones who are any kinds of victims, and I really am sorry they got hurt.
The last thing is this: "Jake" and "Ruth" are examples of people born that way. They both really believe that societal rules/laws/mores "do not apply to them. They genuinely believe that "reality will bend to their will". I also feel that "Jane" isn't a victim, but she deserved to get "Jake" fired. She can plead she was lied to, while "Jake" deliberately broke all the rules. "Ruth" most likely will end up like "Jake" and that is just poetic justice.
The other woman should've been fired
sadly having connections to people higher up the ladder can help prevent that.
Magnífica historia ❤❤🧡💛
Jake is definitely crazy but Violet got on my damn nerves…once I showed her the messages and she still called me a liar I would have so ok and moved on with my damn life
Lmao she slapped her and blew her a kiss? Can the AI at least try to make it sound real 😩😂
To be honest. I may see this with a dominant woman.
I don't think this one is AI, if it were it would've ended with the "AITA"
59 seconds ago is crazy
don’t hate on me it’s my first time being on a vid this early
@@pancakeplayz1964well atleast you re not one of those "ThIs CoMmEnT iS oLdEr ThAn ThIs ViDeO" so i dont think people will hate you for it
@@jlabouchlik-glichlabouk i agree
Zara is an icon
11:20 GOLDEN
Is it weird for me to actually think he makes a valid point about how if she is home and he works he should have the right to his own money and she should do most of the houework? I think he should only have to clean up after himself if he made the mess, and do the shores he is better at or enjoy doing more, she should do the rest. (I´m female, since that seems to mather to feminists).
What's with hr chick, she ain't got fired, she had relationship with a coworker?
doesn't matter, having connections with people higher up the ladder can prevent a protentional firing.
I don't really like Ruth.
YTA
That’s gay
Your Gay
@@TheHolyCheesus Your Gay
What did I walk in on 😂
@@frost3193 real
@@TheHolyCheesusshould I call you mistah?
Jake must have been dating a HR employee to get promotions
Jake must have been dating a HR employee to get promotions