Changing Perspective from Shame to Self-worth | Sue Bryce | TEDxPepperdineUniversity

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  • Опубликовано: 20 ноя 2024

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  • @thewisdom-monkey
    @thewisdom-monkey Год назад +37

    "You will become as successful as the amount of pain you’re willing to endure. And the faster you accept the pain, the faster you move through it." Wow.

  • @heyitsaradia
    @heyitsaradia Год назад +22

    "The shame isn't your enemy. It's your guiding light to self-worth."
    "Learn a new way to perceive yourself. Learn a new way to present yourself to the world."
    "Understanding and rewriting our greatest shame. Our weakness. Our failure of character. The parts we most hate about ourselves. And bring them to light."
    "I found no physical barrier to success that was not created by me. And i truly believed there was. I empowered my greatest shame and it became my superpower."
    "You will be as successful as the amount of pain you are willing to endure. And the faster you accept the pain, the faster you move through it."
    "Money is value to self." "Bad people make money."
    "How do you rewrite the story? Come back to the present." "Do not numb this pain."
    "The antonym of shame is honor."

  • @rebeccaobanion5053
    @rebeccaobanion5053 2 года назад +80

    "The antonym of shame is honor." Wow! That is reverberating through me. Beautiful talk!

  • @pamjohnston3219
    @pamjohnston3219 4 года назад +84

    "You are the poison and the antidote"....Sue, I love your heart. You are the first person I watched on Creative Live when I began my photography journey. I've watched your amazing journey... Lots of tears listening to this powerful, concise talk, full of wisdom. Thank you. Blessings from my heart to yours.

  • @maureen3621
    @maureen3621 2 года назад +25

    My shame as a child was that I was slow, female and came from Irish working class. In fact at the age of 8 my school report was the piece of paper that wrote me off. I agree with what you said “question fear itself”. When I was in my 30’s I stopped writing myself off and nothing has stopped me since. My worth is not seeking someone else’s approval.

  • @JordanPendragon
    @JordanPendragon 3 года назад +108

    When she said she did not finish high school I just wanted to cry. I too left high school at 16. I’m 26 now and i still let others shame me from not finishing. Especially being from a Salvadoran family. And the first born. They expected more of me. But I am working on getting my ged. Even if at slow pace. Still that’s enough…

    • @rachelsanders2314
      @rachelsanders2314 2 года назад +10

      You can do it…don’t give up!

    • @lifehackstv9721
      @lifehackstv9721 2 года назад +1

      God loves you brother, God so loved the world that He sent his only begotten son that whoesoever believeth on him should not perish but have everlasting life
      john 3:16 in the bible

    • @ednan1404
      @ednan1404 2 года назад +3

      You will succeed dear, don't give up, keep moving forward no matter the situation

    • @iXpress
      @iXpress 2 года назад +5

      You'll do it. Keep moving 👍

    • @baileystark7629
      @baileystark7629 2 года назад +4

      26 is young.

  • @buttercake5902
    @buttercake5902 9 месяцев назад +3

    she is so sincere and it is this that give impact

  • @babyboy1971
    @babyboy1971 3 года назад +44

    Sue Bryce is my my mentor, my friend, my teacher and my hero. Her work changed my life. I adore her and this talk is stunning. Quite possibly the best TED talk I’ve ever seen, and I’ve seen hundreds.

  • @TaylorMeadowSun
    @TaylorMeadowSun 10 месяцев назад +1

    That was incredible. So divine timing with my inner work happening right now!!! Thanks to this speaker- what a message!

  • @cynthiajones1461
    @cynthiajones1461 4 года назад +12

    One of the top 5 Ted talks ever. I will share with everyone!

  • @precious14stones
    @precious14stones Год назад +2

    This message was so powerful, i couldn't but take notes. And i really want to use this advice in my everyday life

  • @sdz4383
    @sdz4383 3 года назад +21

    She is someone who speaks from experience . Well - thought of speech !

  • @Sky-ui5cd
    @Sky-ui5cd 2 года назад +2

    Feel, observe, and ACCEPT emotions
    Analyze why it's there and move through

  • @katarzynalindner594
    @katarzynalindner594 2 года назад +3

    So honest. So direct. So beautiful. THANK YOU.

  • @sanjeevbains690
    @sanjeevbains690 5 месяцев назад +1

    The faster you accept the pain, the faster you will move through it. Stay present, observe, soothe. Power = Emotional Mastery. Find your value & attract it.

  • @rosaline9220
    @rosaline9220 4 года назад +4

    The best TED Talk so far- honor yourself

  • @spiritrealminvestigations
    @spiritrealminvestigations 2 месяца назад +1

    This was so amazing, thank you so much

  • @sandhiyabeharee9146
    @sandhiyabeharee9146 2 года назад +15

    This has got to be the most profound talk on self worth I have ever heard! The beauty of it is in the simplicity of your words. Thank you, Sue, for these words of wisdom!! 👏🏼🙏🏼

  • @nevillesteer326
    @nevillesteer326 3 года назад +11

    Such an insightful talk Sue with so much honesty and understanding of our human condition. As part of your Sue Bryce Education community, this increases my already enormous respect I have for your work and generosity.

  • @hellopanda1664
    @hellopanda1664 Год назад +1

    my goodness ! i heard so many powerful truth experiences !

  • @JulieUlstrup
    @JulieUlstrup 4 года назад +13

    Incredible TED Talk Sue! You continue to inspire and share your passion, thank you for being a shining example of living our best lives.

  • @thompsd3
    @thompsd3 4 года назад +4

    This person and this message changed my life thank you Sue

  • @Nati_lifestylemedicine
    @Nati_lifestylemedicine 3 года назад +4

    She owns it🔥 beautiful powerful Sue! Thank you so much!

  • @christina7561
    @christina7561 9 месяцев назад

    Amazingly inspiring. Just the reminder I needed. 💖🙏

  • @marielegare1073
    @marielegare1073 3 года назад +3

    Wow! what an amazing talk! Sue, you are for me my greatest inspiration, you talked from your heart and are so generous in sharing your story and passion. I found you on youtube and became a member of your educational program right away. I started my business and followed your guidance. You changed my life!
    The best talk ever!

  • @khamilarahim3779
    @khamilarahim3779 Год назад

    Wow ❤ the sincerity and humilty is mind blowing.Listened to this at just the right time in my life.

  • @rawsomephotographybyoksana276
    @rawsomephotographybyoksana276 4 года назад +4

    So much love and respect to you Sue!!!

  • @fandreia5428
    @fandreia5428 4 года назад +3

    Sue you are so inspirational. You are amazing.

  • @sadekamullings269
    @sadekamullings269 2 года назад +2

    Very heartfelt speech. Thank you’

  • @ashk504
    @ashk504 2 года назад

    Sue Bryce has been such a huge influence on me through photography for so many years !!! She is truly amazing!

  • @mihyunchoi1397
    @mihyunchoi1397 3 года назад +3

    She is such an inspiration. Thanks for sharing your story.

  • @Mexicotravelltd.
    @Mexicotravelltd. 3 года назад +5

    i never saw her before , she is an amazing inspiror

  • @ninahickey7157
    @ninahickey7157 4 года назад +1

    Excellent speech given by a true trailblazer.

  • @monicadart4070
    @monicadart4070 3 года назад +6

    Such an is inspiration, Sue. The light you have shone into your darkest places, is now shining bright on your students. You have changed my life and business beyond anything I could ever have imagined. Thank you. This is a talk I’ll go back to watching, again and again.

  • @justask1564
    @justask1564 3 года назад +1

    Wow, your words have echoed within my soul. Thank you for sharing and for doing it so elegantly.

  • @maeaghili9321
    @maeaghili9321 4 года назад +3

    amazing talk. thanks for sharing your wisdom and your journey

  • @soulwisdom82
    @soulwisdom82 Год назад

    Wow! So very powerful and relatable! I feel this within myself; thank you for articulating this inspiringly.

  • @marabudd4670
    @marabudd4670 2 года назад +1

    Thank you! You are an angel 😇

  • @marwanqannam9400
    @marwanqannam9400 2 года назад

    To be an worthy person deserve the respect it's your choice

  • @GazSimo-n1p
    @GazSimo-n1p 7 месяцев назад

    So brave and inspiring. Thankyou

  • @aterezamusic
    @aterezamusic Год назад

    I could feel her pain. Moving

  • @aniaphotouk
    @aniaphotouk 3 года назад +4

    Love Sue. I had a chance to see her speaking live, she is incredible

    • @KarriePorterBond
      @KarriePorterBond 3 года назад +2

      I never cried so hard as listening to her keynote at WPPI. She changed my life and my sense of self confidence forever.

  • @randichilds1922
    @randichilds1922 4 года назад +2

    Amazing TEDx Talk Sue!!!!!!

  • @tampagirl7533
    @tampagirl7533 Год назад

    Absolutely amazing!!! Inspirational and providing a roadmap to honoring thyself

  • @reginah2656
    @reginah2656 3 года назад

    What a humble human being!

  • @michaelgross5719
    @michaelgross5719 3 года назад +1

    I'm impressed! You inspire me to think that, I too, can turn failure into success.

  • @jenniferabbott1980
    @jenniferabbott1980 3 года назад +2

    ❤️💪🏼 beautiful! Just what I needed to hear, thank you for sharing and inspiring!

  • @juliedipietro2147
    @juliedipietro2147 2 года назад

    wow! thank you so much for sharing...You will never attract more than what You believe you're worth! I have work to do now!!!!!

  • @brandnaqua
    @brandnaqua 3 года назад +1

    from doing portraits in her Garage to Creative Live to a TED Talk! AMAZING 🤍🙌🙏🙏

  • @allcalmsoothing9443
    @allcalmsoothing9443 2 года назад +1

    Wow, such an awesome speech and great explanations of self-worth.

  • @simmee3782
    @simmee3782 8 месяцев назад

    Incredibly powerful

  • @ValerieSunshine
    @ValerieSunshine Месяц назад

    Amazing insight

  • @TeekaZTowns
    @TeekaZTowns 2 года назад +1

    So eye opening and inspiring 💗 Thank you for sharing your experience, in order to help/inspire others.

  • @erindarruci1015
    @erindarruci1015 4 года назад +5

    She has style!

  • @rababshahzad
    @rababshahzad 5 месяцев назад

    I just relate so much to what she is saying

  • @esmeraldaborregophotograph464
    @esmeraldaborregophotograph464 2 года назад

    She is a inspiration ,thank you for you for share your work !

  • @buddhaneosiddhananda8499
    @buddhaneosiddhananda8499 3 года назад +4

    All the answers lie in spirituality...

  • @Larry21924
    @Larry21924 9 месяцев назад

    This is genius at its best. I read a book with a similar theme, and it was truly remarkable. "Your Body Your Temple" by Sophia Wintergreen

  • @brianmunce2592
    @brianmunce2592 4 года назад +2

    Incredible, Sue

  • @LahoriyaLegacy
    @LahoriyaLegacy 4 года назад +2

    I feel connection

  • @NewOldObsession
    @NewOldObsession Год назад

    pain comes from resistance and non-acceptance of yourself
    abundance is a metric for worthy and worthless, not good and bad. success follows self-worth
    "the faster you accept the pain, the faster you move through it"
    "you are the poison and you are the antidote"
    disable avoidance
    fear is your old story talking, don't listen to it!
    declare what you want and obsessively focus on it EVERY SINGLE DAY
    the antonym of shame is honor
    you will never attract more than what you believe you are worth

  • @batman1820.
    @batman1820. 9 месяцев назад

    Thank you for this lesson ❤

  • @movingforwardfco1587
    @movingforwardfco1587 9 месяцев назад

    Thank you beautiful lady!

  • @anaisabel907
    @anaisabel907 4 года назад +4

    Amazing as always Sue! Thank you for teaching us so much and bringing us some much value. Congratulations. Well deserved

  • @epizykloid
    @epizykloid 3 года назад

    Thank you very much for your inspiration Sue!

  • @GregtheGrey6969
    @GregtheGrey6969 Год назад

    Brilliant...thank you

  • @rebeccaveal7528
    @rebeccaveal7528 3 года назад +1

    Thank you!!!!!!!💞

  • @maurogarces7337
    @maurogarces7337 3 года назад +1

    Thank you for this

  • @marthajohnson3250
    @marthajohnson3250 3 года назад

    Just amazing, really. So relatable to me. So practical, so useful and insightful talk. Thank you for this.

  • @fernandablonski
    @fernandablonski Год назад

    Outstanding 👏👏👏

  • @neeld.6649
    @neeld.6649 2 года назад

    Beautiful!

  • @charlesegbulefu7709
    @charlesegbulefu7709 2 года назад

    Thank you

  • @CharlesSantiagoRE
    @CharlesSantiagoRE 2 года назад +1

    My eyes are sweating

  • @allbis
    @allbis 2 года назад

    Thanks for this

  • @sarahcooper3960
    @sarahcooper3960 3 года назад

    Fantastically inspiring - thank you!

  • @evanlinford6256
    @evanlinford6256 3 года назад

    Awesome Ted Talk 👏

  • @Thunderactionsports
    @Thunderactionsports 4 года назад +1

    Superb!

  • @andrejakardelis8377
    @andrejakardelis8377 3 года назад

    best talk I watched...

  • @marwanqannam9400
    @marwanqannam9400 2 года назад

    You are responsible for make progress . Nobody will gives you the success if you didn't know the importance of your existence .

  • @allyjoyce
    @allyjoyce 3 года назад +1

    Yay a Kiwi 😀

  • @aitch365
    @aitch365 3 года назад +1

    Brilliant :O

  • @samuelmitchell5408
    @samuelmitchell5408 Год назад

    Find your value.

  • @JohnnyFive626
    @JohnnyFive626 2 года назад +1

    6:26 grew up poor and was not fed dinner most nights bc my mother was Too Proud to apply for food stamps/govt aid.

  • @brandnaqua
    @brandnaqua 3 года назад

    WOW THIS IS AMAZING!!!! :D

  • @ro55reel5
    @ro55reel5 2 года назад

    Wise

  • @nathansurrett2088
    @nathansurrett2088 3 года назад +2

    Sure, that is well and good. Where is the 'HOW'?

    • @CentaurPress
      @CentaurPress Год назад

      I thought a “how” was to stay with your feelings. Don’t avoid them. I know that I have often numbed my pain instead of being with them.
      It is like the saying, the only way to get over something is through it .
      That’s what I got out of it🤷.

  • @Sky-ui5cd
    @Sky-ui5cd 2 года назад +1

    numbing is kind of like avoidance

  • @shekeliasmith5103
    @shekeliasmith5103 Год назад

  • @marwanqannam9400
    @marwanqannam9400 2 года назад +1

    Worthlessness is your choice it's up to you how do you see yourself with others . It's not an optional decision it's your accomplish vision .

  • @lifehackstv9721
    @lifehackstv9721 2 года назад

    God so loved the world that HE sent His only begotten Son that whoesoever believeth on Him should not perish but have everlasting life

  • @nellyymessy
    @nellyymessy 2 года назад

    💗😊

  • @darinherrick9224
    @darinherrick9224 19 дней назад

    I was the only person in my family to graduate college. I’m paid like a high school grad.

  • @davidwhitcher1972
    @davidwhitcher1972 2 года назад

    Her story literally puts me to shame.

  • @MS-ns4ki
    @MS-ns4ki Год назад

    No one talks to me feels great 😂

  • @Akilathegorilla
    @Akilathegorilla Месяц назад

    Don’t say that

  • @432hzLoveFrequency-TruthInside
    @432hzLoveFrequency-TruthInside 2 года назад

    Theoretical perspectives are the basic assumptions about how society functions, the role of sociology, and the application of a specific set theories in studying social life.
    -- Society is a unified whole that seeks equilibrium
    -- Society is composed of groups competing for scare resources
    -- Social life can be measured through observing daily interactions
    -- Sociology should be used to enact social change
    -- Sociology should be value free

  • @Cindy-gb3ms
    @Cindy-gb3ms 2 года назад

    10:30

  • @sitizanariahmohamad5688
    @sitizanariahmohamad5688 3 года назад

    I am Alive Now.

  • @charlesthompson9889
    @charlesthompson9889 2 года назад

    what a shame

  • @happynappy3.0
    @happynappy3.0 5 месяцев назад

    🟰