My Husband Wants an Open Marriage? (It Didn't Go Well) | Kulinary Konversations with Victoria Lewis

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  • Опубликовано: 15 окт 2024
  • In this engaging episode, join Victoria and her co-creator and husband, Alex Lewis, as they delve deep into the intricacies of their remarkable 10-year relationship. Get ready for an honest exploration of their journey as they candidly share their experiences with attempting an Open Marriage (spoiler: it didn't quite go as planned).
    Tune in as we get real about the challenges they've faced - from the often unseen impacts of childhood trauma to the ongoing battle for personal growth and the courageous choice to break away from societal norms in pursuit of a thriving marriage.
    This episode serves as a testament to resilience, open communication, and the incredible power of healing from past wounds. Join us for an insightful discussion on love, growth, and the complexities of modern relationships.

Комментарии • 39

  • @je.mulannnn
    @je.mulannnn Год назад +2

    We really do have to hear people out! I listened to learn your "why" as a married couple that considered this to gain understanding. But oh my goodness, leading up to y'all explaining, I was a bit nervous! It's been disappointing hearing others stories of the destructive ends of their marriages after allowing other ppl in their marriages.
    Thank you for explaining how y'all navigated your curiosity! God bless y'all for turning to God's standards, wise counsel, intentionally deep-diving into how you both got there and doing the other necessary work! God bless those who gave you wise counsel!

    • @thevictorialewis
      @thevictorialewis  Год назад

      We love this! Thank you so much for taking the time to watch and provide us with these kind words. God bless you!!

  • @nasirasheartofgold
    @nasirasheartofgold Год назад +2

    Thank the Lord you were able to see your way thru! Having an open marriage goes against every biblical principal there is. Not to mention, it is a gateway for the enemy to creep in and take up residency in your home! Praise God for your deliverance! Stay blessed!

  • @relaxcalmnaturepeace
    @relaxcalmnaturepeace Год назад +2

    I’m happy Alex was willing to work on childhood trauma. Some people don’t see the value in revisit the childhood trauma which is really a present day ailment. Self sabotage is imminent. I learned in my marriage (only after separation) that I can’t do someone else’s inner work. They have to want that for themselves. Appreciate y’all!!❤

    • @thevictorialewis
      @thevictorialewis  Год назад +1

      Thank you so much and you are so right! When Alex wanted it for himself and went on that journey of self exploration and healing it was a positive turning point for our marriage!

    • @relaxcalmnaturepeace
      @relaxcalmnaturepeace Год назад

      @@thevictorialewis Amen Sister!❤️✨ Good for you guys! I’m happy that worked out. Too many times, including my situation, these things are only recognized in hindsight and often times there so much damage done why try to fix all the holes in the pipe, might as well replace it. You guys show it’s worth the repair and renovation, if both parties are willing to do their part!❤️✨

  • @mr.alexlewis
    @mr.alexlewis Год назад +5

    Thanks for having me at the table! ❤

  • @philw9787
    @philw9787 Год назад +1

    Family walks beautiful. Love part u say prioritize "ourselves" then the babies!!

  • @pilgrimspeaceofmind
    @pilgrimspeaceofmind Год назад +1

    Very vulnerable and open conversation! Thank you for sharing part of y’all story and for being an inspiration to young marriages ❤

  • @colacasados
    @colacasados Год назад +1

    This was SOOO good! I love the transparency and authenticity! Much needed! Thank you for sharing!

  • @melissawallace30
    @melissawallace30 Год назад +1

    Thank you for the transparency!! Marriage isn’t easy and sharing just this snippet is real and helpful insight!

    • @thevictorialewis
      @thevictorialewis  Год назад

      So true! That's why we think its important to share authentically

  • @breaunatownsend9877
    @breaunatownsend9877 Год назад +4

    I love the transparency of your marriage!

  • @dgthemoneycoach
    @dgthemoneycoach Год назад +2

    Great conversation! Communication is key in marriage. I like the transparency & how you all are able to address the childhood trauma. Jesus has to be the head. God, spouse, & then children.

    • @thevictorialewis
      @thevictorialewis  Год назад +1

      Thanks Dakota! Yes, Communication and keeping God first is a MAJOR KEY in marriage. Thanks so much for watching and engaging. Alex told me you apart of the ICS fam! We appreciate your support!

    • @dgthemoneycoach
      @dgthemoneycoach Год назад

      @@thevictorialewis - You're welcome, Victoria! You're welcome! Yes! My pleasure to support!

  • @dgthemoneycoach
    @dgthemoneycoach Год назад +1

    Date night is a must! Kudos to my wife for making it a priority. My mother-in-law is our babysitter.

  • @CueTheStage
    @CueTheStage 11 месяцев назад

    Whew this was a great conversation! Thank you for sharing, god bless 🙏🏾

  • @calandraervin457
    @calandraervin457 Год назад +1

    This was really good.

  • @izzye7307
    @izzye7307 3 месяца назад

    God is faithful. Thankful for Godly counsel. Love to see black love thrive. ❤
    Ace’s cameo at the end was adorable! lol 🤗

  • @sandersjones1577
    @sandersjones1577 Год назад +1

    Well you know that’s not for every body if it didn’t go well for you divorce it’s not for me

    • @thevictorialewis
      @thevictorialewis  Год назад

      Thanks for commenting. Did watch the full episode? 👀

  • @RealIdenityInChrist
    @RealIdenityInChrist Год назад +1

    Marriage is sexy and beautiful. I love the conversation very interesting ⭐ ⭐ ⭐ ⭐ ⭐

  • @dgthemoneycoach
    @dgthemoneycoach Год назад +1

    🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟

  • @Swervedaplumber
    @Swervedaplumber Год назад +1

    When a wmn says she wants to open the relationship she basically wants to sleep around and still have the security of a relationship....
    Guys gotta be smarter than this.. its 2023

  • @KayJoyKeepinItSimple
    @KayJoyKeepinItSimple Год назад +2

    Keeping it HOT!🔥 Honest, open, and transparent. Luv it, keep going! 🫶🏽

    • @thevictorialewis
      @thevictorialewis  Год назад

      That is the only way to be! Sharing is bigger than us, its about impacting others who may be going through the same thing. ❤️

  • @LazyAmericanWoman
    @LazyAmericanWoman Год назад +4

    when men say they want an open marriage, they mean they want to cheat without your nagging and divorcing them. they also don’t want you to be apart of it either, so the woman must stay faithful to him. when will y’all see?! 🫥

    • @thevictorialewis
      @thevictorialewis  Год назад +1

      Interesting perspective! Be sure to watch the full episode

    • @Swervedaplumber
      @Swervedaplumber Год назад +1

      Facts.. she usually already has somebody in mind... if a wmn even suggests it let it go

    • @jenniferjackson7054
      @jenniferjackson7054 Год назад +1

      ​@@thevictorialewisI think it's clear these two individuals just read the title and decided to go off 😔. Anyway, thank you both for the video! I know it will help a lot of people who are wanting to do life and marriage Yah's way but are not sure how. May you both be continually blessed!!! To Alex, my ICS brother, this is how curses are broken. I'm proud of both of you ❤❤❤️🤗🤗🤗!!!