Tus Zoo Tseem Muaj Ntau. 7/26/23
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I’m crying my heart out for this naim tsev here. 😭 a life I once know. I know exactly how this lady is going through. No words can describe the pain she went through and only those who walk in her path will only know.
😊😊😊
I won’t belittle you for enduring the abuse for so long because I was never in your situation. But I have to give you props for having the courage to leave that psycho ex husband of yours.
Not many women have the courage to do so and end up dying in the hands of their abuser.
Keep your head high and chin up, you got this!
Got me teary eyes listening to this story. It reminded me of my past. I feel the pain because i once was there. It took me 10 yrs to leave and 11 yrs to find myself and marry again. So proud of you for having the courage to leave.
Im proud of you sister. You're strong and brave. You made the right choice for you and your kids. Im happy for you. ❤
I truly understand you sister. My ex husband didn't abuse me as bad as you, but I've had black eyes and bruises and hair pulled. He even cut me off from all my family. One time he flushed my work key down the toilet. He'll take the car n go fishing all day and pick me up late from work. He never worked, but tend to his chickens which I provide for. One stupid about him like my cousin said, he allowed me to go to school and work and take care of everything which made me very independent. It took me 20 yrs, but I finally got the courage to take my kids and leave. I didn't want my kids growing up thinking this was the way of life. To this day my 26 yr old son still holds a grudge with his dad and still has ptsd from his dad.
I'm still single because i cant find a good man. I'm so happy for you sister to have found a new life n be happy. Life your life and enjoy every moment of it. ❤
Zoo mloog heev li o
Great job sister! Happy you were strong enough to get out of the abusive life. Not alot of our sisters are as strong as you.
We need more motivation stories like this instead of the H-Drama stories. ❤
@aaaa@a
Ladies, NEVER think that YOU can change an abusive man for the better. Only HE can change himself IF he wants to be a better person. DON'T stay in an abusive relationship by deluding yourself that he will change for you. EARLY in a relationship, if you recognize the tell-tale signs of an abusive man (overly jealous; controlling; verbally, emotionally, and/or physically abusive), you MUST end that relationship immediately before your fears get you stuck in a vicious cycle of abuse, and file a restraining order against him and report ALL threats he has made to harm/kill you and others! Whether you run or stay, you must involve the police for your own protection. I know that saying this is easier than done, but doing it is easier than you think! Don't let fears rule your life!
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niam laus koj hais yog tshaj li yog leej twg raug lub neej zoo li ko ces thiaj nkag siab kuv ces yog ib tug ntawm koj zaj neej neeg 👍👍👍👍
Wow hlub koj heev os cas koj tu txiv siab nyoo kawg nkaus.....li....
Txhob nyob tiv nw txoj kev tsim txom mog....av tsij nrhiav kev pab koj tu kheej mog muam....
What a sad story. It’s hard for those of us who aren’t in abusive relationships to understand how these women think, or why it takes so long for them to finally have the courage to leave, but I’m glad she did it in the end.
True. Most of us won't understand what it's like to be trap with a crazy person. Even some women are just as crazy.
This life story is exactly my 99% every days I am so misery. I don't know what to do. I crying inside no one knows. I put my face out everywhere I go that nothing happened. But the truth I am so hurt and crying that I have a abused husband no one believed me.
@@YaSiabplease seek help and leave if you can. It’s best for your safety and mental health
@TxoHwjChim please find help. You are worthy! I'm sure there is someone who can help you, sister. There is a lot of program that will help and protect you.
@@YaSiab please find help NOW!!!
Wow! If I was her father, i’m probably sitting in jail now.
OMG sister I'm so happy you finally had the courage to get away from that evil ex husband. It is hard to leave but I applaud you for your courage. God bless you and forget about all them rumors from Hmong people, do what makes you happy and safe
Nyog koj zoo siab sister koj tawm tau hauv lub qhov ntuj lawm .
Ab xav tia kuv thiaj ntsib lub neej li no xwb ca kuv hnov txoj no ce thooj li kuv lub neej dhau thiab os vim ncau
Koj nyiam nws tshaj qhov nws nyiam koj lawm ces koj thiaj li khiav tsis taus nws ntag lo mas koj thiaj nyob tiv qhov nws ntaus koj ne tus viv ncaus aw
Yog yom ib tug neeg yog nw phem npaum li ntawv na yus yuav khiav tu neeg ntawv xwb tsi nyuaj li o tab si tu niam tai no nw yeej nyiam nw tu txiv dhau nw tso tsi tau xwb os. Lub ntiaj teb no dav li dav yog xav khiav xwb tsi nyuaj tab si niag tseem xav nyb xb
Zoo qhov nws tsav tsheb nrau neeg tuag mus nyob nkuaj aw koj dim txoj kev phom sin os nrog koj zoo siab muaj lub neej zoo thiab kaj siab lawm os
As a man, I laughed at these abusive men. Why not f around with someone your own size.
Way too many times, and too many wives and children got abused by their husband.
Domestic violence doesn't choose race or gender. Say no to violence and leave. I feel every single second of your fear. I had been there too. A big fact in our hmong community is that we don't leave cuz we are scared and we don't want to make our kids sad and our parents lose face, so we stay.
But we need to change that. What is good to stay when your kids are witnessing the violence each and every day. It's not healthy for them neither for you. As hard as it is, please just leave. Big hugs and love for you sister. You did the right thing for you and your kid's safety.
Nyob zoo os viv ncaus sib pab os
Such a traumatic story. I use to live this life and so glad i left. Happy you have found happiness.
naim laus kj za dag neej tub saib heev li os
Limhiam tiag tiag.
Domestic abuse i😊s a everyday problem. 1 out of 5 relationships or marriages. Seek help and get out. There is help and programs that will help you.
Do not live like this sister. Glad she finally got away from him. It took years of abused for her to finally see the lights and mustered up enough courage to leave him.
Glad you are safe and finally found love, peace and happiness
Let’s look at the big picture….thank goodness we live in America! We have protection resource to help us. However that doesn’t mean that we won’t be killed or hurt by our abuser. At least we have something out there helping us escape from toxic abusive relationships.
I feel you sister. You’re very bless to have your supportive parents. You’re so brave to leave your abusive ex. I am a parent myself and I’ll never forgive myself if I have a son like your ex. We need to educate our children better as far as treating their life partner or humans in general.
My daddy always say love your husband but don't love him too much...learn to love yourself first because your the only one who can make yourself happy...
Wow koj tu qub txiv txaus tshai tiag2 kv mloog xb kv twb pab kj tshai heev li od tu sister ,nrog kj zoo siab ua koh mu tau tu txiv zoo hlub kj lm
I'm glad you got away from that devil. You are a survivor!
Some are too quick to pick and love someone. Nowadays stay single as long as you can and know someone in and out before marrying or you’ll end up marrying a monster like this lowlife.
👍👍👍👍👍👍strong woman 🥺🥺🥺🥺. Tu siab ua luaj li
Pab koj tus siab os
Omg! This story reminds me of my past life with that thing. No one knows the things you are going through behind closed doors. The fear is real. Only when a person is ready, they will take all risk to leave and realize there's help out there and that there is a light at the end of the tunnel.
I'm so glad this sister found the courage to leave him and found a better life. No more walking on egg shells.
Tu tu siab kawg hais tsis taus ib lo li os niam ntsuab teev 😭😭😭
ช่างเป็นผู้หญิงที่ไร้เดียงสาอะไรขนาดนี้ คุณจะเล่นบทเหยื่อไปอีกนานแค่ไหน หวังว่าคุณจะคิดได้และหันมารักตัวเองให้มากๆ ขอให้โชคดี
Koj ntsib tus dab lawm
I'm so glad you got out sister. I know it's hard to leave at first and no one understands unless they are in your shoes. I've been there, alot of us has been there.
I was in the same situation for 25 years. It comes to an end when he hit one of my children and cps got involved. I choose my children. He ends in jail. I finally got the courage to divorce that shit. I feel your pain, sister. If anyone experienced this type of abuse. Please go to the authorities they will protect you. Don't be afraid of death stand up to yourself.
eb cas zoo nkaus li kv lub neej thiab 😢😢😢
I am so glad to hear that you finally left that relationship. I applaud you for having the courage to finally leave. I am proud of you for putting you first and realizing that your life matters. May God continue to bless and protect you and your children.
Mi niam hlus awd kuv ces raug koj txoj kev os koj muaj hmoo es koj dim nawb kuv ces laj2😢dimli
Yog kawg Los lus ko muaj tseeb vim kuv twb uv thiab tos li ko los tau 40 lub xyoos Los lawm os peb poj niam mas thiaj txawj tiam tiag tiag li os.
Thank you for sharing your story. I hope that anyone in an abusive toxic relationship will listen to this and find the courage like you did to leave.
Nrog koj zoo siab os tus viv ncau aw
Kuv lub neej zoo ib yamli koj dab neeg ntawm koj los kuv twb nrauj tsis tau os moges kuv lam ua lub neej kom mus laus tuag xwb os mog
The story of my life!!😢😢 wish i was strong like you sister. ❤❤
kuv lub neej ces zoo kiag li koj lub thb os tus me viv ncaus aw... Thaum kawg kuv kuj tawm tau ntawm nws lub neej mus lawm thb. Ib tug txiv phem zoo li no txhob yuav zoo dua
laj ua neej nrog
Wow sister! Are you me? Kuv quaj tshaj plawm mloog koj zaj nov. Kuv rau koj txhais khau los lawm mas nws yog ib qhov tu siab, mob siab thiab txaus ntshaig kawg li os. Muaj tej zaug kuv tseem saws ceeb tag vim muaj PTSD.😢 Zoo siab tias koj mus taus lub neej zoo lawm os. ❤
Hug. Your safe now.
Nej cov niam tsev siab zoo cas yuav tsis los ua peb tej poj niam es saib lub neej yuav zoo npaum thiab yuav tshav ntuj npaum twg kuv ntshaws ib tus zoo niam tsev los txhawb kuv lub neej ua luaj es puas muaj tus ntawd lawm.
I understand her feeling. Been in an abusive relationship for 9 yrs. Finally left in 2015.
Omg my god! I feel so bad for her. Shame on the in-law for taking their son sides! I hope you will heal sis. There are many others good people out there.
I feeling very2 badly for the women who's not controlling herself.
And letting others men hurting her everyday grills ????
Wow!! What a sad life story. 😢😢😢 so proud of yourself got out from your ex.
Zoo siab koj dim lawm tsuav kuv o
They Say,” Once He Puts His Hands On You Once, He’ll Do It Again … It’s A Naracisstic & Toxic Man! I Don’t Know How Anyone Can Date Again!
I’ll Be Like,”Nope, That’s It … I’m Drained & Tired & Traumatized! I Wouldn’t See Myself Dating Again If I Had This Much Abuse, I Wouldn’t Even Married To A Hmong Family Again! With These Dads Cheating & Gone Crazy, Might As Well Be SINGLE For Life! 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😮😢😢😢😢😢😢 All Those Abuse Would Be Loving Me As I Get Older!! No More Men Even Tho It’s Better But No, I’d Be Happier Alone & Doing Me!!
😱🤯
Cas yuav mag ntsim libkv thia os nrauj tag los tseem ntshai nqee
This is very true if you have been in an abusive relationship.
A man is a man! Nothing to loose.
Zoo siab uas koj dim plaws niag dab ntxw nyoo ntawd lub voj hlua lawm os
kv tus tsis ntaus kv tab sis dag22 kv ces kv tag kev cia siab qhov nws yuav hloov lawm ces cia nyias mus nyias zoo tshaj qhov koj kom nws hloov nws tus kheej os sister aw...rau qhov nws cia li zoo li tus neeg yus tsis paub li lawm qhov yus paub yg nws lub suab lawm xwb es thiaj nrog ua neej tsis taus lawm ua siab tso
Sister may aws...kuv mloog koj hais neej neeg mad zoo li koj cov lus rov qab rov quav tag li lawm os...😮😮😮
Sister, I am so proud of you for finally having the courage to leave that psychopath! Being in an abuse marriage is so sad. Wish you the best.
Leaving is the hardest and I am glad you left that abuser!
Omg sister you need to get out n help urself b4 something bad happened to you. Don't let his threats scared you. Be strong and love urself.
I still have ptsd till this day even after 10 years since I left my abusive exboyfriend.. since ive escaped from him now when I dream.. all my dreams are about him coming to take me back home. Wake up in fear, shrivering, and sweat
Omg I'm so sorry. I can only imagine how scary it is. Hope everything is okay now.
I’m glad you survived to live such a sad abusive life. Glad for you sister that you left and making a life. Hope he gets what’s coming to him.
I can't stand to hear all of your story because its very sad. Sister, he don't love you but I know how dedicated you are to him even though he doesn't deserve it . Your parents raised you well. He just needed someone to tell him it's wrong. Most guys get that way cuz they feel guilty for the wrong they did. Wrong is wrong not matter who's fault. I've seen it when I was younger but didn't know because people covered it up. No one should be treated like that.
I’m saddened to hear this story. I cannot relate to this story but a friend of mine is going through exactly the same. But instead of her ex husband it’s her now boyfriend. I really hope one day my friend will have the courage to leave his broke sorry A** too.
I’m so sorry you have to endure all these pain
This abuser is illusional. Pure evil and a time bomber. This predator trapped its prey in a web with no way out. I am so glad this victim got away from this abuser. May God watch over your family and protect you all. I hope he rots in jail.
I'm so proud of you for leaving your ex, I was hoping for that the whole time I was listening. Glad you had the support of your Dad. Not all Hmong Dad's are that supportive.
I think a lot of Hmong dads are supportive. Just that we usually hear the bad ones because they draw the loudest attention.
Why does she let her husband continue to torture her in every way he wants. I’m glad she escaped that evilness. She did an amazing escape, I give her props.
Eb cas nim zoo li kv tus thiab niaj nub no kv tseem uv
Glad you got out alive and your parents are ok too. It’s easier said then done. I know someone who was once in that same situation.
So sorry you had to go through such an abusive relationship. I'm so glad you had the courage to leave and move on. You deserve to be happy and feel safe. Remember to be strong and brave!
Tej niam tej txiv txoj Kev cob qhia tej tub tej ntxhais nrhiav txij nrhiav nkawm yeej muaj tab sis tej tub tej ntxhais yeej tsis mloog.
Tim koj xav xav nrog Nws nyob vim koj twb nyiam qhov Nws ntaus ntaus koj ntag lis. Tsis li ces koj yeej kam nrauj Nws ntev lawm
He was a monster. I don't know why some men are so evil. I understand why you didn't leave him. Some women did try and got killed. So glad you finally got free.
If my daughter had to live like this, I will take the homie out myself.
Nrauj loma ! Ca yuav ntshaw ualuaj thiab koj nyob america los nplog teb na ?
Nrog koj zoo siab os uas koj dim ntawm tus neeg phem....
Tus niam hluas Aw tseem yog li ko es kuv thiaj tsis yuav txiv lawm os yeej muaj ib txhia thaub lawv tseem xav yuav yus es tsis kam yuav lawv mas lawv tseem cem2 yus thiab naw twb yog tu siab dhau lawm es thiaj tsis xav yuav lawm thiab yus ho Laus lawm ces ua ib siab Nyob twj ywm lawm xwb os!
Guys like him need to be locked up
I hate the part when he told her dad he paid the drowry and the daughter belonged to him. Hmong ces, ua wedding them tag los yuav tau 1 qho tsis zoo. Tsis ua los tsis zoo. Uhg!
Ntiajteb no txoj kev ruam ces sau tagnrho rau pojniam Hmoob.
So sad can't finish
Damn your ex is a narcissist pig! I know you were afraid for your life and your family’s that you felt stuck. He’s evil and controlling as well as abusive. I’m glad you were able to get away from him. He doesn’t deserve you at all but to rot in hell. God help the next woman he does it to. This evil monster should just rot in prison for life.
Niam ntsuab teev ua li cas koj hais tas zog « lub sij hawm dhau lawm zuj zus »
Koj tsis need hais heev ua luaj li ok
It's more terrifying when your own FIL is a cop and you don't know how to get help, but thankfully, other officers didn't care about his title cause they worried about my well being and safety. It's miserable even though I found a way out, but that last initial move to leave was scary. It's terrifying, I stayed single/divorcee for 5yrs because you fear of someone treating you the same.
vuag niam ntsuab teev awd kv lub neej ce zoo li tus viv ncau no zaj neej neeg no ntag os kuv xav tia ntshe kuv ib leeg thiaj tau lub neej lwj siab xwb no os ca ho muaj tej tug raug kev tsim txom li kuv thiab os
😢🫂
So glad you got away from him! Love yourself.
I am so proud of you for leaving. Even though you waited a little bit too long. But Not every woman have the courage to leave. Glad you made it!!! Good luck sister
Txhob maj zoo siab os txiv neej yuav ua phem rau koj thaum 45 xyoo rov sauv hnub twg koj muaj 70 xyoo lawm mas mam xam tau nawb
Qhov nws ntaus mas muaj kuv los yeej mag ib yam thiab los ma
😂😂😂😂
DV and SA is not a joke to be messing around and when they ask for help .. u should always help…
Ruam ruam ces tsuas paub tib qho tu tu siab xwb
Peb cov txiv neej siab phem siab phem siab lim tshaj plaws yog pauv tau peb yuav pauv mus yuav luag lwm haiv neeg xwb luag lwm txawj ntse luag sis siab phem li peb cov txiv neej hmoob siablim hiam hiam ntais ntuj thiab ruam tshaj plaws txhob los yuav nws ua qhevnawb mog