Are Black Women The Least Desired But Most Imitated? | Ask a Black Woman Ep. 2
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Are Black Women The Least Desired But Most Imitated? | Ask a Black Woman Ep. 2
I love ASK A BLACK WOMAN however why isn't there any married woman on the panel, that would bring a different perspective into the conversation like it did in ask a black man
there are married women on the panel be sure to stay tuned for more episodes.
The reason why there aren't any married women on the panel is because the majority of black women today are not nubile women, point blank period. #HarshReality
Don't worry him! I hope you enjoy the rest of the episodes. I'll actually be featured in the fourth one. Hope you continue to tune in and support.
Francina Smith absolutely
Francina Smith how do they find and select women to be on the show??
MARRIED TO THE SAME BLACK WOAMN SINCE 1972 !! AND STILL MARRIED TODAY
🗣YESSIR🖤
My man 😎✊🏿👊🏿
My sister married going on over thirty years now and they are still going strong in sickness and in health.
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Because she's not women like these.
As a black man, I only care about who will do right by me and not about that individual woman's skin color.
And this is why #SYSBM is taking over
SCO23 me too brother
Naww u a bum marry within, u sound like a cotton candy type fruitier than welches
Same here
@@freeyourself7510 I own property out right meaning I have no mortgage I just paid of my car a month ago, and I don't have any kids so I'm doing alright for myself.
If i could roll my eyes any harder id be blind
I swear 😂😂 if anybody wanna know the real reason listen to blk men not blk women.
@robert Carroll why
I don't get it
Hahaha same!!
KEVIN SAMUELS IS RIGHT ABOUT BLACK WOMEN!
Not in my book! Black women, I love you, you're the most alluring, sexy, intelligent, sassy, stylish and attractive women walking the face of the Earth!!!
T'Challa simp
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😘😘😘
Simps be dying of thirst.
T'Challa Nigga stop lying.
How can black women say they're undesired when men like me walk the world adoring black beauty..this kills me. Black women, you are desired and adored by me for what its worth.
Prophet N2 you're just one of the few who say this you can't love all of us. And men always asking us what we bring into the tape that is always been the topic of discussion and then e barber shops what is she bringing to the table man that's what I heard him say. I've always had my own and every man that I dealt with as always live with women who have your own house or apartments
Aww thanks
Prophet N2 to a degree, this "we're not seen as desirable" thing is condescension toward Black men and an affinity for White Supremacy, because the opinion and favor of Black Men is dismissed as unimportant in their minds. They want the "mainstream" folks to adore them.
Black women and men need to start comminicating and understanding each other, quit letting the world and its hatred break you up! America has never respected black marriages and still dont, just another form of genocide!
Thank you king 😚😚😚😚 love you
You want 50/50, but you still want him to do other things, that you don't wanna do, the bald headed woman is conflicting herself.
She said “be okay with letting me lead, it won’t make you any less of a man” but is she even worried that it will make her less of a woman?
Alexia Mara my point was that by her wanting to be assertive and a leader, the man will look at her as being less womanly. No man wants to be bossed around by a woman. Women should work on being a warm, pleasant, and easy-going spirit instead of wanting to be the rulers of men. It’s almost on the spiritual level at this point.
Stay single.
She doesn't understand that it is not her role to lead. If she is more gifted in a certain area, the best she could do is counsel and advise, not LEAD.
@@sharkymcstevenson5141 Exactly! A woman risks being single for life, if she harbors that kind of mindset.
@@chillywilly3102 And refrain from activities designed only for married people!
My mom is black she had to cook clean do everything for my father he cheated with a white woman and the white woman did not have to cook or clean or do anything you can do everything by the books if the man wants you he will take you as you are if you cook clean or not
So not true... please don’t discount all brothers!
The real issue is that a lot of black women listen to men who put them down... meanwhile you have many blk men who love and respect blk wm.
I’ve always been under the opinion that people love what they can’t have and thus give that negative energy all the attention
Blk love still exist w blk mn not boys!!!
STOP COOKING AND CLEANING FOR THESE MEN
@Melanin Doll Fake has nothing to do with it
Marriage is dead period
Will that's just one situation in a bubble. I know white women who are used to pay rent cook clean etc...from men that seem them out to mooch off of...y'all know the type I'm talking bout. Don't act dumb.
*yawn*. ..this whole topic of undesirability is old, lame and outdated. Black women: keep doing you. This whole undesirability thing is nothing but propaganda to knock us down a notch so that we can go back to being the mules and doormats of society. To hell with anyone who believes we are undesirable. Leave them where they are (copying everything we do) and continue to prosper!
Sunshine Monroe ...yet and still ,there are beautiful black couples all around this world.
You outta to see the looks on white people faces when they see my black man come and pick me up for my lunch break...they cant stand to see black couples smiling and holding hands..lol
@Donald trick Trump Has STD's from Stormy D. those are stereotypes not every black woman is the same. because over here in Brazil we don't act like that. I'm pretty sure not everyone acts like that in the US either.
Sunshine Monroe To me my preference, black women are my only desired women..I love you black women, there's no woman that can compare to my women
Riley Harris
True Lady in Us they did something to brothers all ladies can be unruly but I don't even conduct myself in order to be
fighting in public all the B's.
All excuse why he wants to
swirl no one stop him but he
going to use excuse until he
is old grey sad part is that he
talk like that to white people
about his own..damn he let
DEVIL Rob him.. smh it's
mental I believe on purpose
intentional on culture.
Thank u!
The girl who said I like to cook and clean will be the first one married
And she'll be the only one who stays married.
No, she won't if she isn't up to his shallow standards...
@@LilDusty5528 People don't stay married, because most women don't act like women anymore. Men behave the same as we always have. What about this can you prove wrong?
Also I said if she wasn't up to his standards because cooking and cleaning dont mean shit you these men these days...a rich man dont give a fuck if his woman can cook or clean...all he cares about is her being arm candy to brag about to his friends etc.
@@LilDusty5528 You speak for a lot of people. And you sound miserable. You need to learn how to cook.
Least desired isn't about the color of black women's skin but the content of their character in the public as well as in private!
Hard Barl content of Blackmen aswell in public and also in private we love our men but some of you are believable weak and foolish and think you are better than your own at the end of the day the man is only making a fool of himself who think that way and laugh at there is good and bad in every nation unity is strength and build together that is the key to a successful nation we are all coming from a far.
@@blessedpeace1532 black men aren't the ones complaining that they are least desired in the society but you are and therefore you can't have it both ways.
Hard Ball 🙌🏽 lol. Ive never had a lack of options challenge. Black women seem to be upset, hence single. I am married to a black woman.
Most of the black women on that stage
👉🏽marriage material
I’m a fool for white chicks!
But,
Just the sound of femininity in their voices
was a turn on
You’d be a fool
not to date one of those girls
I’m a fool for white women
But they had similar vibrations
I could fall in love with one
(2,3) of them easily
They are not the black women
👉🏽black men are talking about!
@@og-greenmachine8623 There is good and bad on both side of the fence none of us is perfect love, unity, and peace conquers all instead of crying each other down help to lift up the fallen ones dont pull them down further we all make mistakes one way or another, love build bridges hate destroy and kill.
Where are the panels of women in their 40's and 50's?
Some of them are 40s , you can tell
@@proph-od1bj they aren't! The age you can see in the beginng
Anyone notice they are talking about intimidation not imitation which are two different things... come on editors
LouLu they mentioned both. The imitated part is when they talked about how other races want to have (imitate) a black woman swag and atributes but not the burden which is true.
naebflyhottie ok cool, I switched off half way through, just feel like it's the same old topics when we talk about us so yawned off
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LouLu Hahaha😂 I caught that as I was reading the title.
Donald Trump is Affirmative Action for the GOP Absolute! 😂
Black women are beautiful, amazing, fantastic, wonderful. Super desirable and one of God’s amazing creations. This is coming from a black man!
Laith Wallace stop lying
Your comment made my day🥰
Where?
@WusPopN Mane? But white people don't do the same? I've seen multiple women of different varieties of races wear makeup and dress up! Yall don't control what we do, and I'm tired of us black women acting like we have to meet up to you idiot's standards! If you don't like the stuff WOMEN do then there's the door! We are no different than the rest of the living females!.. Also before you head out the door.. Yall get all that from us so
@@jaykinsella2946 Huh?! Last time I've checked you black men are the ones in jail mainly! Can never keep your hand out of trouble, the ones I've seen. Not saying every black man is as selfish, self absorbed, and unintelligent as you.. Any woman who sees your comment and still likes you are just as much of an idiot as you!
This interview was absolutely beautiful... Thank you!
I can date a black woman as long as she has a great attitude and a beautiful head on her shoulders. People act like white girls so perfect nope they got their ways too. Everyone does. I love black woman I just cant mess with the real disrespectful,bossy, controlling ones
Go date a Caucasian woman. Now!
right sir every skin tone can be be disrespectful
Larry Mandaville exactly !!!!!!! GREAT ATTITUDE !!!!! Act like a women not a man ....
💯💯👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽😍😘
@@chamillarobbins2275 right!!
In the media, yes. In real life, of course not! When you log off and look at what's really going on you clearly see Black women dating, getting married, being approached, etc.
StylistNtraining Thank you! That's the truth💕
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Thank you!! Not everyone I’ve dated was perfect and I’m not either but I’ve had a cool dating life, dated black men (American and non American) and outside my race. Could of married but wasn’t ready. Idk i think the more we focus on the negative the bigger it appears. Just live life and romantic love may come or not come. The world is so big and I refuse to spend my whole life worrying about who finds me attractive or not because of my skin color or culture. It’s draining 😩
The media is evil, fake and full of nothing but fairytales. I refuse to take any they say seriously because they are too toxic and they have too many people manipulated and brainwashed
fr that’s a very true statement
✨As black teen woman ✨ I used be so insecure in elementary school and in middle I hated my skin but learned that black is beautiful 🇲🇱I learned my culture and most i could about my black god and goddess ancestors 🤞🏽I love being black and we are the most desired race everyone wants our personality strength our natural curly hair, our beautiful shaped lips , skin and our natural curves they may surgically get but you’ll never achieve this beautiful blackness and soul don’t take the hood out me don’t take away my African voice this is my roots love it or hate it hunny😘 👑Queens at heart MY BLACK IS BEAUTIFUL .
This panel is so structured like it’s not a real conversation it’s more like an interview and giving all the “right” answers.
Perhaps the ladies should explore mates similar to them & their interests who may not be black men.
just like serena williams and zoe saldana both are happily married with kids lol black women need to move on, i've seen many in interracial relationships who are on cloud 9
Ediva75 we are way too loyal. I just can’t see myself with another race.
They do...no other races of men want them either........
@@tom11zz884 Yet you find them so interesting, you troll them. You have a thing for them.
Black women were made to believe that they could not date outside of their race. These black men often site slavery because they are only referring to Caucasian men. The world is changing and exposure to various ethnicities has opened up options. They can approach a black woman on their own now.
I loved it when that lady in the maroon dress and glasses said 'we are not willing to be with just anyone. We want someone who will add to you and not just take away'. I 100% agree. The days of dating just for the sake of being able to say 'I've got a man 'are behind us now and these men need to get with the program.
If a man comes to a relationship with nothing that is equal to you, whether it is education, money, aspirations, and, he has a history of not doing any better, Pass! I'm married and my husband agrees!
That is not the issue. The real issue is most successful Black men don't want to deal with your arrogance anymore
@ Aaliyah, oh hush up with that Black women education nonsense.
Most Black women have degrees from community colleges are their degrees are worthless Liberal Arts degrees...lol
tom11zz884 Last time I checked Michelle Obama had a Liberal Arts degree and she is doing amazingly *sips tea* so at least these women with the worthless Liberal Arts degrees can use them to get into law school and get law degrees or go to graduate school or even business school to increase their earning potential even more.
Tom11zz884 is clearly a BBB (Bitter Black Boy) he's on every black woman platform on RUclips spending so much time and energy on discussing women he apparently don't like 😂😂
Yeah Just Like That, Refreshing Introspective, Who Produced & Directed this Great Job 👊🏾👊🏾
People will not understand other person's personal situation or troubles, but always ready to judge them.
So true.
In my opinion Chivalry is just kindness and politeness, and who doesn't want that.
American BW
@@RaiderRSupastar hell yeah. I cant tell the number of times I was rejected for a nigga with _swag_ now im making 6 figures and they will cry under the sun if me and my friends play in the snow.
No internet I say screw it. You should play in as much snow as you want. No one says anything when they do it.
Plenty people appreciate it, but that doesn’t change the fact that it is rooted in patriarchy and sexism. Some like it and some don’t; both have that right
@@Babysuggs-holy it isn’t rooted in sexism foolish statement it’s called been a gentleman women don’t like it tho
I truly believe that a Black Woman's beauty is the most profound and unique. Black Women are one of most unique in that our woman can come in variety of skin tones, hair textures, lip sizes, body shapes and national groups and cultures, and still be considered Black Women. Their beauty is the most enduring. Tell me: How many crows feet do you see on a 60 year old Black Woman's face? While there can be some improvement when it comes to diet and weight issues (with proper lifestyle and dietary choices they can improve) our women maintain their beauty well into their golden years.
There is improvement needed in white women and other races as well when it comes to weight. Black men seem to complain about the weight of a black woman but still choose to date fat overweight white women.
It is the most profound, thats why most of us are hated the most!!!!! Black men fail to understand, ugly, fat unnatractive, and not classy runs in all races
sglant
You obviously haven't seen many documentaries about poverty stricken rural Africans
@@BlackGeoRUclips
So true
Stop biging there heads up, you tursty simp?
Great discussion 👏🏿✊🏾👊🏾🤛🏾
Say "Black women least desired in United States only"! The mess in the US isn't everywhere around the world.
Thank you!
@Cham pagne have you ever heard black women in Europe, South America or Asia complaining that they are least desired? And if not, then why how is your comment relevant to my comment?
@akshay satish it's not looks or attitude every race has unattractive and attractive people every race has people with bad attitudes and no bad attitudes you are just generalizing black women for your experience and that's your problem .
@Ana Mariathere are ethnic groups within black race and so do white race.
@Cupid Stupid you brought up Europe not me and if you knew there weren't black women in Europe then why say anything about Europe in the first place?
Do a panel on how the pushing of "Black Love" is a disservice to black women. If black men can marry out at a rate of 25%, WHY are black women in this day and age, not seeking eligible, quality men of other races for love and companionship? It just seems to me that "Black Love" is only pushed on black women. Why not address the societal pressures and conditioning that are teaching black women, literally from birth, that they HAVE to be with a black man?
Bellefleur Here's a thing. How about stop talking about love and go actually experience it? All you all do is talk about dating. No other group of women talks constantly about this.
Only black people who hate there blackness say that bs, the lack of black love is why we stay at the bottom
You sound silly, if y'all actually care about black love we would get somewhere as a people and that goes for black men as well
I think white women are more compatible to educated black men than most black women. Most white men dont like black women
KingCetshwayo because they cannot.
Be a gentleman when it suits me. Don’t be one when it doesn’t.
Selective feminism
Well not every woman is a feminist. Yes we share some values just wanting plain respect and equality in the work force. Feminism was never meant for black women
Clarese
You’re one of the great ones😊
I still prefer white women
Women like you are rare
@@og-greenmachine8623 😂 you got to be kidding me...you can't make this stuff up...😂
@@k.s6321 i know right? Smh
They want it both ways
2021...all are still single. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
It’s crazy how right Kevin Samuels is. This was back in 2017.
i know right ???!!!
What he say?
@@laradara7175 do men have to be a 10 to bring value to the world? No
@Anastasia's Secret don't be bitter now
@Anastasia's Secret just like your love life.... but those videos aint tho
Black men need economic power to put us in our rightful place.
we are 400 years behind in a race of economics which was built by somebody else
what does that mean
Antonio ASAP. If bm get economic power i can guarantee bw will not benefit they will exchange bw at the drop of a hat for ww and non bw just like the trusting moors, can't wait to take massas place
At the rate blk men are going, they will never catch up.
That's the real issue. Message. Women submit to power. Black men lacking in that department
This topic is sooooo TIREDT! Who cares if ppl don't find us desirable...I hardly find alot of men attractive ...black women are out here choosing too!
Alot of men attractive*
Findoutaboutme I never singled out black men but a hit dog shall holler...boy bye! 😂😂😂😴😴
Findoutaboutme 💤
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There more women than men alot of lonely women out here
Such interesting perspectives ladies!
Black women in my opinion are the most beautiful worldwide, way better than any other race
Thank you!
but their attitudes stink..
@@rangariraikunedzimwe2780 And your opinion is irrelevant, but here we are
🤣🤣🤣🤣
They are the most beautiful until they open their mouths 🤷♂️
This wasn't long enough! I feel like Black women looks are most desired, but their personalities (portrayed in media) aren't desired.
yup
But when anyone else acts like them it’s cute smh .
This is a sensitive subject, but it's one worth looking into. The claim that black women are supposedly the 'least desired' is not only harsh, but one has to ask "They are the least desired to who, exactly? Non-black men?" Black men 'still' do date and marry black women in the U.S. today. If 70 percent of black women are single, then the glass is 30 percent full for black women. In addition, some black women date and marry outside of their race, which makes many black men uncomfortable, but oh well. I am a white man, and when I was in college a number of my professors were 'black women' and I addressed them as 'doctor' or 'professor.' In addition, one of my medical doctors is a black woman, and she has prescribed 'life saving' medicine for me that I could only get with a blue script approved by an MD. In addition she has 'remained' at the doctor's office I go to for over 4 years, while many 'non-black doctors' have left that office because they were 'too overwhelmed' to deal with the large volume of patients and their challenges. My doctor is a 'strong black woman' in the best sense of the word. Another strong black woman is Condolleezza Rice, a member of MENSA, who speaks 5 languages, and who in my opinion 'should run' for President of the United States. Although Ms. Rice said she didn't feel that she would make a good President, I 'respectfully disagree' with her. I think that while she may have become a bit jaded from the exhaustive challenges she encountered working for the Bush administration, that she nonetheless has the tools for the job. Condolleeza Rice would be more of a uniter than a divider. In addition to being 'extremely intelligent', Ms. Rice is 'very modest' about her own capabilities and qualifications to be the 'leader of the free world'. Among 'every demographic' of Americans regardless of race or gender there are the good, the bad, the competent, and the incompetent. Well, that's my 2 cents on black women in the United States.
Scorch1028 yes, it's rare that non black men find black women attractive. If you ask them they'll lie. Only time you really see a not black man with a black woman she either light with the good hair or he ugly af and just dated the first girl who gave him attention
@@ewoktok73 The cold hard truth that people aren't ready for.
@@ewoktok73 not true white men like black females. Black females prefer to not date outside there own race.
@@pixieaka2893 I'm an African American woman and I date outside my race
@@ewoktok73 actually want men before dark skin women this is usually attractive it's black men who date overweight fat white women and below average looking white women they're all around
I can't wait!!!
Nice convo need more of those conversations beautiful women by the way and handsome host
To black men: don't believe he hype, get back to having standards and values to rightfully and effectively lead your household!
Black girls are the most beautiful, by far the best in my book, they're in a league of their own!
Peakhelliw that's why people across the nation, especially white women, are so jealous of us. They want our Afro, our lips,our butts, out culture, and our personality. That's why all these people talk shit about us, because they are jealous!
T MI serious question, do black women love gingers?
Donald Trump is Affirmative Action for the GOP lol that's the thing men don't see. Black women are starting to become natural. I'm starting to see black women with their Afros and black men don't seem to care. To tell you the truth, white men compliment the black girls with Afros. In my college, I see a lot of black girls with their Afros. But I do see a lot of white girls starting to look like blacks girls. So apparently being black is a new trend lol.
Micheal Johnson they do.
joe haze they are left there... minding their business.
Come thru green skirt!!! I'm old school too! I like Gender roles!! I want my man to protect us and work to provide for his family and I want to make him feel Good when he comes back home after fighting the world all day!
Are their more like you ma’am?
You're lazy to go earn your own money sweetheart.
Means I want to stay home and not work and let the man take care of you. Forget all that! Go out and get yours also and help the damn family..!
@@AlphaSigmA1 real talk
C C Who is this comment directed to?
i really love the last comment of the lady in the middle...it was the best punch line to me....relationship/ marriage is life school that never end. both party must come together with a learning attitude. (self has to die and it should be about us). You should build each other up..
What’s ironic is that you have a good man approach a black woman and come at her correct she belittles him because he don’t have a nice car a good paying job or he’s not the height I’m looking for or he’s too dark or too light or he’s too nice. I had past experience of approaching black women that I thought were attractive but were turned down because of complexion I was too dark or too skinny or he’s not a thug. When I went to the clubs they didn’t want to slow dance nothing in that nature because I didn’t have what they was looking for, but white girls in my high school gave me hugs showed crazy love, so as of being a adolescent Into a man I learn to not approach a black woman and I thought I was the only black man that been through that or felt that way! My brother had a conversation on dating a black woman and he would not date one! Till this day he married to a Armenian female and the experience are totally different being married to a lot of black women. I just think good black men are just fed up and are saying forget it
You are not alone
I'm sorry but not dating a whole race of women cause you got rejected by a few that was more than likely out of your league don't make you a "good blkm" what-so-ever! You dudes need to understand that every women you approach isn't going to be attracted to you period! Thats ok cause everyone has a right to their preference! But I've noticed that when blkm are rejected, by a blkw they will automatically assume she wants a thug or whatever other sorry-ass niccas they can think of, Instead of just accepting that fact that she's just not into you and move on🙄! I swear self-hating blkm will make any excuse to date out while disguising themselves as "good brothas" who's just fed up with their "oh so horrible women😒" The truth is that alot of you are just bitter and entitled men, who was programmed to think any women other than blk is better! So when blkm get with a blkw they have a tendency to half-ass everything they do in the relatipnship Which in turn creates independent, angry, work mules overtime who will not submit or respect you! And why should they? I mean for example; Look at how some of you approach blkw...it's usually when you're broke, and life has kicked you in the dariear! Then blkm will say "why y'all can't hold a brotha down" but when blkw do and end up knocked up and stuck in a rut "helping out a brotha" they get bashed for not choosing better🙄! Smart Blkw that are familiar with and know the signs of this type of blkm and will usually reject on sight! Blkm be thinking that just cause they approached a women she supposed to give them her time regardless of her preference, and when they can't get her then they insult and belittle blkw as a whole just so they can date and uplift non-blkw out of spite! What gets me is how blkm sit up there and brag, like they got something better once they get a non-blkw, knowing damn well they aren't escaping anything cause non-blkw have their own set of issues too, and no matter how much BBC and blkw wealth they spread through non-blk communities, they still end up as hashtags with mostly blkw (not their preferred women) caping for them in the end. SMH...ain't that some shit🙄?
@@keiracarmichael9430 We not dating black women because black women be having ready made families by Pookie and Ray Ray. We can care less about your masters degree or how much money you have (which is not much in the first place) and what’s crazy you females down bad paying off student loan debt, and other money black women owe. You actually wrote this paragraph to deflect and the stats are proving how wrong black women are. And beside black women need to take time and reflect because other groups of women are winning big time they taking your successful black men, white women are the highest in education compare to black women, but once us black men become educated, we know now we have options, you see we been around Caucasian and Latina women, so we figure we can build with them because they were raised to be feminine and more family structured. If you go to any black Manosphere RUclips channel they actually commercialized getting a Passport and going to Thailand, Brazil and Europe. Black women so arrogant to the point they don’t realize they are competing for their men lol! As for rejection the ladies that did rejected me I wish them the best and thank them because looking at them years later, that’s a bullet I’ve dodged and I’m sure other black men feel that was as well
@@keiracarmichael9430 Oh and as advice see how thick a lot of them women of other ethnicity are getting? See how they are in videos with black men? Them women are actually saying through their actions “If black women don’t want them we’ll take them.”
You do realize that women from all races carry this behavior right?
as a black man with no kids a business owner no STDs not gay and in his thirties do not care about your education or how much money you make that does not impress me
Angry Black Man I'm going to agree. I'm a firefighter and making just below 6 figures, no kid's and it's not I don't find black women physically attractive. It's they simply don't know how to stfu, or be feminine not submissive FEMINITY is lacking even on this panel. Feminity is a personality trait. I'll bet a year's salary all these hefers will remain single. What man other than a simp, thug or yes man would date these women. I did not say they aren't sexually attractive. But none are worth hitching your life to if you have your own career, money and life. You can still do better than these women by dating other races of non amercianized women who are just as educated.
M and the sad part is I love black women... but they can be hard to get along with
Angry Black Man I stop dealing with them. I absolutely ignore all of them and don't make eye contact.
M so move on, don't comment on here.
M same goes for me to u blk men. Am tired.😓 of supporting u when I get nothing in return. So don't think u are the only one who is fed up. We blk women are fed up too.
I asked my wife once when I was dating her., she said Black women knows black men shit. I respect black men who dated black women. Black women are strong, intelligent, challenging, sexy n caring. I married one of 30 years. The best and blessing of my life. I’m Asian. Most black women are angry because black men are immature of responsibility .
You made the right choice and your wife is smart
How can I be on the show? I would love to learn and give tips as well!
Biased as there are no married women on the panel. Dont take relationship advice from anyone who calls themself 'the modern woman'.
LOL Well alright now!
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exactly but women love this and will end up just like them lol
But dear sometimes marriage isn't always the goal. What these women are doing is patiently and methodically searching for someone who will add to them not just looking for someone who will give them the title of 'married' or wife. The title isn't always the goal. They are searching for wholeness in their own way. It may differ from yours but it should still be respected.
x5xGirl But that is the modern representation of most black women. This makes since like at least one should have been married but that's all.
Sisters keep doing your thing, learning and growing!!
Brothers it's not that complicated!!
You are right, it is not that complicated, which is Why many Black men are dating White women and other races of women...lol
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tom11zz884 Interracial dating won't stop the police from killing you though lol
Lexxon -- you are EXACTLY the problem.... You aren't telling them the things they need to hear.
lexxon11 yeah they are. To black women they are. To white girls it's not because white girls are getting praised from black men. So of course it's easy for them to get a black man.
The most talked about for sure. #relevant
Ugh I love this 😊💗💗💗💗
There are some black women who are happy being single. Not all black women are miserable and nothing without a man. I tire of that narrative, too. I'm also tired of people blaming black women. Men are the ones who propose marriage. Why aren't black men getting married, either? Why are the black men who are successful taking the time to ask black women for marriage? That's the real story. Stop blaming black women for being successful and for doing everything right---look at the men and hold them accountable for failing to do their part.
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SportsFan_9630 "Doing everything right..." Ummm, not sure if that is the slightest bit true. STDs, obesity, unwed pregnancy, multiple baby daddies, fake hair, most masculine, etc, etc... But maybe you think those things are "right" hence our community predicament.
@@Silkravage last I checked white people had STDs, were obese, had unwanted pregnancies ...
@@skarbuskreska That's unfortunate... But we are talking about black women, on this video. Secondly, black women coming in first in all the categories. Thirdly, when a problem is had what good is it going to do you to talk about others? But sadly, your response shows why most of you are in the situation you are in. If that is _living your best life_ then proceed...
Exactly
I desire black women. Black women are very high on my list of desirable women.
I desire to hit and bounce bye!
I'm a 60 year old white male and have dated black females since the mid 80s...their beauty is unsurpassed and can't be compared to any other race of female..Of course intelligence,personality,ambition and a sense of humor is a big plus as well...Beauty isn't just blonde and blue
Simp!!!!!
I see you haven’t married one! Haha
Knowledge isn't just Blond and blue either. I think you already know that.
@@kevinwilmore3604 agreed! Like all men, we just want better.
@@johnbuckeye9590 Once you realize that Black Woman are USELESS when it comes to relationships... Then you are free!!!
So to me, sounds like a lot of them are scared of relationships. They cling to their accomplishments and careers as a replacement. Some of these ladies talk as thou as they never seen a healthy marriage between a man and woman and this shows. When they say men are intimidated by them, it sounds like, “I’m doing what you do so you can’t handle it”.
Here’s the thing ladies, men just want a easy going, soft, feminine woman, that compliments his life with no unnecessary stress. No man wants to come home to a debate and argumentative woman after working.
This is very interesting. Can I just say how beautiful black women are though.
Rilo Robinson i understand you have your preferences but DAMN...
See how jealous people are towards black women? Makes me laugh so hard
Rilo Robinson Lol the hate is real, you sound like a jealous ass female😂😂😂
Beautiful!? LMBO 😂
@@rilorobinson7685 Black Women are the most beautifulest women on the planet, because Black Women have natural beauty, that every other race of women want! End of discussion!
Bs I'm Hispanic and I'm sooo attracted to black women.
you are black with a italian spanish accent
+Yellow Synth wtf
Raffiki Tacos mmm si papi
Donald Trump is Affirmative Action for the GOP so first you talk shit about black women and now you say you love them??? Dude stop trolling lol
Sure you are Hispanic...just sure.....lol
Gotta love how intimidation is mistaken for rejection
Facts
Lol 😅😅
I don't get why blk women are so concerned about being the least desired when they themselves claim to be "strong, independent and don't need a man".
What we put out in the universe. .. If we keep telling ourselves and the world, we are least desired, guess what happens? Black women are the most confident woman. I hate these topics of conversation. Let's embrace, discuss how desired we ARE.
Soooooo.....we just gonna ignore the statistics? Okaaaaaay......
Geraldo S She’s delusional and in denial like the rest of the panel. These women haven’t realized that Men aren’t on the planet to serve and support a woman who’s living as masculine as a Man.
@Lula Delphine blaming everything on the white people.
Highly agreed! We are certainly NOT least desired. Where do these comments come from? We are MOST desired. Men love the melanin, the curves, the zest and beauty. Soooo many men love ebony women. I hear it all the time.
@Black Pride great post
There are always misogynistic men lurking in comment sections of videos like this. I feel so sorry for men who have low self-esteem that try to bring women down. This world is hard enough as it is to add insult to injury is diabolical. Bottom line other peoples opinions about you dont matter and this goes for anyone, you cant let spirits of peoples hatred and bigotry dictate who you are, nor do you have anything to prove. There is one man who loves you as you are and will direct you to be better if you let Him. God says youre beautiful, God says youre fearfully and wonderfully made. His words and thoughts about you trumps everyone else's!
I think your just not listening carefully when the men you want are speaking
Angela's Travel Adventures You heard God say that? Oh and you believe in the white mans Bible lol. Amazing
YouHateMe I believe in God, yes unapologetically so. Have a fabulous day! 😄
Angela's Travel Adventures Why would anyone want to put anyone down. Its crazy that people hate people for nothing. SMH!
Bob H its obvious you haven't read the dialog of this post I posted 3 months ago. It is BEYOND being critical, so yes misogynistic is appropriate, anyway.
How are they the most imitated when 95% of black women straighten their natural hair and get weaves?
Lip injections, lip plumping products, over lined lips to appear fuller, butt implants, BBL cosmetic surgery to appear curvier, tanning multiple times a month, cornrows, blackfishing, stolen tik tok dances, culture
Curves are not exclusive to black women. 95 of white women don't get injections but 95 percent of black women straighten their hair. Cornrows on white girls are also rare.
Are we complaining about tiktok dances now? Foreal?
I have no idea why I’m addicted to watching black women round table talk. I’m a married Hispanic guy. But this is so entertaining.
Bc of fetish 😂😂 you don’t like em
@@Brown597 you are a weirdo go away
Stop talking about your fetishes on a public platform go somewhere else with that shit.
@@mtithewoodentank4817 😂😂😂
Because you are intrigued by us & our Natiral beauty & femininity
This guy is asking all the right questions
No settling for me!!! Interesting video, opinions and views. They all respected each other 😁👌.
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There going to be alone for sure
They will live longer.
The looks on their faces when they where told they are the least desirable on the dating market is priceless 😂 truth shatters all b.s
Their looks was more like "who told you that lie" and "yeah fcking right😏."
so bitter, lol. what do you gain from this? it makes you feel better?
@@sighhdee The thing is that the Hispanic women are trooping and taking over the hearts of dateable black men.
@@karlmax6031 who cares about “dateable” black men. let them have them, black men aren’t the only ones out there. these same “dateable” black men are the ones that bashes you to hell and back. fuck that
@@karlmax6031 and by all means, i could care less about interracial dating or “divesting”.
Just because you don't want to be the most unattractive doesn't mean you have to go the other extreme and say your the most hot. That's kind of delusional.
loved that last lady's closing remarks
Men aren't intimidated by black american women. Men look for a more feminine female. And most black american women are too masculine. You noticed African women don't have this problem or women from the islands and Latin America.
Stfu you black males are not Masculine so stfu .
They hate to be outshined by us, jealousy and self hatred😬
thats beautiful that black women love their men, and black men should love black women. Wish our women are more like you ladies.
I'm a blackman that loves blackwomen. That love this show. To understand what black women want.
I like the host questions. He did a great job.
can you do a black women abroad series?
Jezzan Elliott i like that idea
me too
Mmm yeah Come to the UK
To Rome with Love is a series on Bravo. African American women go to Italy for dating and love.
Jezzan Elliott How? Black women are too busy with fashion & Reality T.V. oh!! don't forget "FACEBOOK"
For myself Black Woman is my only desire and never found one to be intimidated but just more zealous from knowing whom they are and they want....and I love that
‘’If the bag is heavy, you gone carry the bag’’. Makes sense why she’s single.
These woman are very well spoken, beautiful and seems like they know who they are #they make me proud
I have been married for over 17 years. We are very different and it's challenging but I took a long look at what was really important during our two year separation in 2014 and this is what I discovered.
1-Does he truly love me?Yep
2-Can I trust him?Yep
3-Do I feel safe with him?Yep
4-Does he have my back?yep
This is why we are back together, I don't care that I make more than him or have more book knowledge. At the end of the day I love him and I'm willing to work on the other stuff and learn to accept our differences as we grow old together. All the money and education in the world won't keep you warm at night or hold your hand when you're sick or help you to remember where you put your glasses when you grow old. We're focusing on the wrong things. Peace and love
I still prefer to be alone its much better
Smart man
@Tyler Is that what your wife's boyfriend told you to say? Lmao
I think the black relationships are dead or dieing, because the blackwomen don't want or respect the blackmen.
@Tyler you can get a fat white one or a blow average looking white one
@@robeltoburrows3768 agree
She said, let her lead sometimes."
Ain't no woman leading me no where.
Lol but you want to lead her though?
@@xpxscalsxpx You're a woman. You're unfit to lead a child, let alone a man.
InfoZone well here’s hoping you can find a woman or a man that is willing to lead your future or current children. Loving that people are outing themselves as having the characteristics that I find undesirable. Live your best life and thank you :)
@@xpxscalsxpx You're a foolish woman who thinks she can lead others. Only a fool would glance your way.
InfoZone based on your statement it seems there are many fools in this world 🤷🏾♀️ but all things considered I am glad you are not 😁🙏🏾
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Salute from KENYA! 🇰🇪
Having a partner is not everything, being married is not everything and having a child is not everything. There's more to life than these and I think it's fruitless for women to spend their time fixating on such trivial things. You can have a full and abundant life loving just yourself and focused on your goals and getting money and serving God.
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Donald Trump is Affirmative Action for the GOP I'm neither single nor lonely and I don't love thugs but nice try
+Donald Trump is Affirmative Action for the GOP I'm not American but judging from your manners I'm sure you are. Imagine thinking it's okay to call people black bitches. smh, you are so juvenile
Mongie Esihle Zangwa Absolute! That's why Im bullshitting thru life cause nothing matters but your spirit.
Mongie Esihle Zangwa "yeah baby u keep telling urself that"
I LOVE Amber's style and make up .
This topic is so old, black women have always been desired, the men of the community have perpetuated other wise, but once we travel and educate ourselves, it shows women are desired in many different places. I know from experience.
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8:40 is the key. We are a team working on a common and agreed goal.
Black Women are desired --- as long as they are Light Skin, have Good Hair, and a Hour Glass Body. That's not me talking, but that is how a lot of dudes feel. FACE IT --- the issue isn't whether or not Black Women are desired. The question is why are CERTAIN TYPES not desired.
Also, if we are being honest...most MEN...I talk to don't care about a woman's accomplishments...they care about her BEAUTY, secondly her ATTITUDE/CHEMISTRY, and finally her BAGGAGE (children, baby daddy drama, getting over previous relationship woes etc...)
Now I can't help you with the BEAUTY portion. Either they find you physically attractive or they don't. You can try to make yourself more presentable (diet, exercise, sleep, make up etc...) Being "presentable" at least gives you --- more options in men. With that said all men won't be physically attracted to you, but the ones that are interested will gravitate towards you MORE because of your presentation. But the other 2 categories you DO HAVE MORE CONTROL OVER (ie Attitude/Chemistry and Baggage).
UnnamedAssailant only black males care about light skin and having "good hair" non bm are the ones who are better at choosing quality women.With bm as long as you a redbone wit a fat ass...you're good.
There are tons of non black men who also chase after light skin women or other races of women with fair skin complexions. I think East Asian women are ranked even above White Women when it comes to who gets contacted on dating apps. I think the ideology that black women will be more desired outside the black community just isn't true. The research doesn't hold up. Especially when they have studies of white children associating bad and evil things with black people as opposed to their white counterparts. They literally have case studies of non black kids disassociating themselves from black people, but you think non black men will seek out black women as companions ---especially dark skinned women with natural hair...I don't see it. The fact is...as black people we live in a western country...and even if you don't live in a western country the western ideal of beauty IS GLOBAL.
What Black Women need is to realize that they need mainstream dark skin natural hair prompt ion in Movies and Media in order to counter act the western beauty standard. Black Women aren't going to be find themselves in a time where their beauty is appreciated unless they start handling their image like Olivia Pope from Scandal --- YOU HAVE TO BE STRATEGIC LIKE A POLITICIAN. Stop supporting media/ people that doesn't promote your beauty standard EXCLUSIVELY.
Also you need to put the BEST REPRESENTATION of dark skin natural hair beauty out there. That way dark skin black beauty begins to be associated with class and grace instead of weave and booty shaking. It's all about the PR (Public Relations). I'm talking about JET BEAUTY OF THE WEEK, DARK SKIN FASHION SHOWS, DARK SKIN LOVE INTEREST IN BLACK MOVIES EXCLUSIVELY.
PrincessLeah187 xx stop hating on light skin black women
PrincessLeah187 xx lol if non black men are better at choosing women why haven't they choose you..Black men ain't stopping nobody from approaching y'all..
UnnamedAssailant true
I love the black woman, its the colour of power and perfection of beauty. Just rock your femininity the best way you understand it. Be you and you will always be desired..
Least desirable: yes;
Most imitated: no
I like this conversation
Defining modern black women as independent is one of the key factors men run away. Relationship is about inter-dependncy. If you are independent you don't need us and we'll look for people who appear to be open for this inter-dependency.
Herlex Success there is a certain truth to that, but that happens over time. We all previous to a relationship, have the ability to survive and go about our life's independent of a spouse, boyfriend or girlfriend. Overtime with trust, discussion and experience it could be a possibility to be a cohesive unit but to discount a woman because she is able to currently handle life well is a problematic and nonpositive . Also on the flipside to that there are many men who dislike it when their partner is too dependent on them and less independent. They feel used, taken advantage of and a bit disillusioned. So to state that the fact they are too independent and therefore less desirable or worthy of a relationship seems to be more on the negative side, is quite confusing, and bit nonsensical as the opposite is often used as a deterrent as well.
Wow incredible what just said. I totally agree.
DaMayorOfNewYork Although I can understand that everyone's different experiences impact their view of the world, I find it fascinating and a bit disheartening that somehow an entire demographic of women is being encompassed in such persistent and negative generalization. The majority of people in this world relied upon at one point or rely on people who care for them. Take that away that emotional and financial contribution and many would not fit your definition of independent. (Going to the doctors few can affored to go sans insurance or govt influence)
Not everyone will know or be able to do everything immediately. One can learn, (books/youtube/classes)and failing that utilize others experience. Technically no one is truly independent based on the way you are utilizing the definition. Many people don't physically build their home, do their own surgery or sew their own clothes but rely on those who can to do it for them. So if a woman or a man wants to employ the help of someone to help them get a car, plumbing, ac, computer etc. fixed I do not see what the issue is.
All that aside as a point of clarification as it seems important to you... if you gave me a jack, a lug wrench and a tire, I as a Black woman can and have changed a tire before.
I don’t see why that’s such a problem I wouldn’t want a women that’s lazy and spoiled I’d gladly take a independent woman over a bum ass mooch
Personally I don't know how to depend on others. I only trust myself and God
This was the typical black conversation. Black women being addressed and black men not being addressed. Black women please move on and flee from this sunken ship.
RWS#ExPosed -single mother
Like most black women?
Donald Trump is Affirmative Action for the GOP I'm a black woman and I've never dated a Thug... But I'm pretty sure I'm still a black woman... Maybe you just never met any black women.
The thug fabel is useless in this conversation.
A trap for black men by the white man, to hate his own women!!!! I believe the white man push his own white women into black men, so the white man can have black women!!!!!! They constantly talk shit and obsess over blacks!!!!!!
I love the sister in the head wrap
As a Black Man I date interracialy and same race. All races of Women are Beautiful. I am a Black Man that has dating options when it comes to Women. I am an Equal Opportunity Lover of All races of Women. I choose the right Woman for me. It doesn’t matter if she is White, Latina, Asian, Polynesian, Mixed, Indian, etc.....👸🏼🤴🏿❤ 👸🏻🤴🏿❤ 👸🤴🏿❤
Pascal and I are in the same boat. I can cook but I hate it. I believe in partnership and I dont want to do it all. I need an equal and a man who has a modern idea of who a woman is. I love these women. Black Women just make me proud!!!!!
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How can you hate cooking
@M Please elaborate on Recalcitrant and "Heifer"... Because one dislikes cooking, likes cleaning and is willing to work with someone's strengths and weaknesses?
That aside you are right men have options if they have good careers and many black women get an education so that they can have more options as well. I am sure many of us (and by us I mean men and women of all races colors and creeds) were told that in order to escape poverty, to have more options that education is the key. So why fault them for trying to secure themselves financially. On another note some men want to be a provider, others do not want to feel like the only contributor and sometimes when this happens feel as if they are being taken advantage of or feel as if they can run the relationship/home like a dictatorship. Some men and women prefer a relationship where the man's word is the last word or is the only head of the household and others prefer a partnership and a form of equality/ back and forth with the last word. There are positive and negatives to both sides for the people in them but that is the choice they make. It seems that these women prefer to have a partnership, and be financially capable. The want a man that is ok with that as some men may not be.
Random thought: there is no way to make everyone happy but it's interesting to see how the response to some women who are trying to expand their options are pushed back against. Why are the men they are looking for a fantasy? Why is a partner a fantasy? It seem that if anything they are looking for men that bring similar or equivalent things to the table to what they bring, how and why is that problematic?
Shoot for the moon and if you miss you at least land among the stars, be the change you wish to see and so on as the sayings go. If you have no standards then anyone will do and if that is not what you want, need or are looking for then you will suffer this goes for men and women. If a woman decides to become educated, wait for a guy that meets their standards and build with them all while being opinionated why does the response evoke such a negative response?
xpxscalsxpx Simply, I've never said, I don't find black women physically attractive. But not one of these women,is worth giving up a single lifestyle of freedom. I have zero kid's or stds. I'm saying having physically traveled to other countries, I've met many female friends who are as or more attractive. That offer a more feminine and traditional gender identity. I know female judge's, cop's, firefighters in Brazil and they are not anything like this. And it's not about cooking or cleaning or being submissive. I said feminine and know when to stfu, it's obvious all these women are beautiful but who they want, will bed them, but none are married and if you are a black man making just 40k with no kid's you will have more options than everyone of these women even if they make 100k. Yes the American black woman is not marriage material, add a single black mom they are worth nothing to a man without kid's. All this research is available from multiple government agencies and non profit think tanks. I prefer afro Brazilian women. Brazilian women are 90%,black from Africa.
Quick point of clarification I never said that you said that you did not find the ladies on the panel or black women in general physically attractive. At the end of the day who you are attracted to is your prerogative. You prefer afro Brazillian women, I prefer a men, who seem to have enough tact/try to respectfully phrase stfu as know when to drop an issue. (Same point less inflammatory, more likely to be absorbed/considered)
I agreed with you that men, especially black men, who are educated, good job/prospects, no children have options. I tell that to my brother all the time. Ya'll have options... yes more than us. (Though I disagree with the 100K vs 40K aspect lol) But if we want to look into our options whats the issue? I would hope that if you had a daughter and a man was telling her that she should accept less than she what she deserves and know when to stfu just because he feels he has options that you would look at the child you raised and tell her to tell him to keep it moving. That she has options, that she has value and even though that one particular man or woman (happens in all types of relationships) could not see it is #1 not the end of the world or her fault, #2 not the end of her options and #3 definitely not the person she should be dealing with.
All that aside what I replied to and inquired about was the recalcitrant heifer comment, why women looking for a partner who brings what they bring to the table and meets their criteria is such an issue? You may not believe that they are worth it but there will be people who do. Also the point isn't just to be married especially if you are married to some one who does not respect or appreciate you (I am talking in regards to both women and men). Some women are not marriage material and that is across all races. The statement that the american black woman is not marriage material is incorrect as there are black women getting married... "marriage material" is a subjective phrase with the qualifier that if you are or were married you at one point were technically marriage material. Ok I'm getting nit picky lol but if you could link some of your sources I would be more than happy to peruse. :)
The bald women is going to die single.
She is the “I’m a career woman and I don’t need no man”.
Such a turn off
Rand Ballance unfortunately that’s true
Everyone dies alone I've never seen a couple die at the same time.
I agree
They all have an attitude of "men are in my way " . listen to them,regardless of their looks ,their personalities suck.They don't respect men. I don't know. IF you meet them,you might have a different reaction.But the way these women come across is a turn off to me.
There's someone for everybody. Some men will appreciate her spicey-ness. Just not you. I can guarantee she won't be lacking in that department.
Black is beauty , love from SA
Damn we love you!!!
Yea one of the most imitated women are least desired? That's a first!
yk__lisa Don’t bother. Kev KK sounds a hurt bitter troll that probably forced himself to go MGTOW lol 😂
im a somali man but, black women never get appreciated for what they are; beautiful, smart, caring, passionate and sexy queens. u should know there are many african men out there, who adore and love u!
Exactly!!!!!!! We r never appreciated for who we really are.
I adore African men too.
In all honesty.. Black woman are the most beautiful races... Absolutely.
Then why are they not desired and have the highest count of not being married. Let me guess it's because the European standard of beauty or men being intimated by them.
@@R.O.T.C._SEEM hello I I'm sorry. I wanted to respond to you but I don't have the time to waste. However, I just want to say have a good and beautiful day signed the Queen of Sheba.
I keep hearing put all your eggs in one basket but how can you go from dating to marriage if you don't, at what time period do you make the transition, always was curious.