Stalker Hides in Attic of OnlyFans "Talent" | Mauricio Guerrero Case Analysis
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- Опубликовано: 30 сен 2024
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There's lots of guys that give the family grocery money to a stripper because they think that's their girlfriend too.
It's sad really.
It's scary how many stories there are about people living in one's attic/closet/walls etc
there's a 1974 made-for-TV movie, Bad Ronald, about a family unknowingly living with a teen killer living in the walls, and a secret room, in their house. I only saw it once, when I was fifteen, so I really can't say if it was any good, other than that, again, as a fifteen year (boy) I enjoyed it.
I wanna try it. I wanna see if I could do it for months without being noticed 😂 now to pick my unsuspecting family, I mean my new family.
@@jasonmoore7223 👀 do keep us updated
Glad I ain’t “One”.
Im sure there arent that many. Our brain just cherry picks anything wild and creepy. It's the reason all those weird clickbaits articles work to get ur attention
Disturbing behavior from both. 2 train wrecks that will make news again.
I think Mauricio learned his lesson here. He seems intelligent and reasonable in court, and is aware he made mistakes and was duped by what he thought was what this girl he felt love for, wanted. Because she told him: I want someone to stalk me. And had sex with him... so...
@@kelsielovesbbu. Mauricio needed a lesson to figure out that Rachel was using him? I must say your standards for intelligence, and reasonableness are low.
People grow and change. We do it everyday. I would never make some of the foolish choices I made in my teens and twenties now. At some point, we were all idiots.
This was very interesting.. I'm usually the last to victim blame, but in this case it definetly appears he was the more vulnerable one in the relationship. I'm not excusing the crime, and agree there was a crime committed, and Rachel had a right to safety and privacy in her mother's home. But her actions in all of this I think should count as mitigating factors when it comes to sentencing.
Nothing you said was inaccurate. She seems like a contemptible user. She still has a right to her privacy.
@@thedarknessunderneathpodca6366 who cares about the girls rights????
you should have read more carefully before reacting. I quote 'She still has a right to her privacy.' She is unpleasant enough to where I don't particularly care about her personally, but everybody is entitled to their privacy in their domicile.
yeah . so literally what he just said *clap clap
I feel bad for Rachel’s son. Imagine your mom playing such games that put you in danger.
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Money > son’s safety
@@dejuhvu1793 right. Cause we have never seen someone with money get murdered or assassinated or assaulted, right? Any presidents or billionaires come to mind? Lol and she just making a little change on OF lol
@@dejuhvu1793 oh I apologize! I think I took that the wrong way as you saying she was making money so she could afford to protect her son lol think you meant it as in money was a greater priority. I agree!
She's got a kid? That dude was really going after a trophy, wasn't he? (no)
If Rachel keeps going with this, she may someday start messing with someone that is psychotic and extremely violent.
It has happened before to others, a cautionary tale.
Don’t think she’s gonna do it again this man was in her attic lol
She is an idiot. She has a YOUNG SON and is inviting random men to her address. Unfuckingbelievable.
Sex work is A-OK with me (obviously, consensually and safely) but for the love of God protect your damn kid from harm
@@BubbleGumBxtch yeah she definitely seems like someone with good judgment who learns from her mistakes
Many Hollywood actors have been stalked and some have been murdered.
Should everyone stay away from acting?
My mum always said that you shouldn't accept gifts from men in-case they get the wrong idea. She was obviously correct in this way of thinking, but boy has the world changed.
Maybe that's just for women. I give people gifts sometimes if I like them but would never expect anything in return or a response, I do it not for return but I just generally like them. 👍
That is a sad commentary on the state of our societies today. Decency has left the building, forever lost.
Okay so just focus on being the most decent person you can be
Yeah we live in a time where our ex president is going to jail for paying a sex worker while he was married
It never was internet exposing things that are hidden
@@kimmeex Not paying while single is ok
@@kimmeex Another ex-president used a cigar on a woman while in the oral office.
Rachel is definitely a very creepy, manipulative person. Its incredible to me that people purposefully seek out dangerous and sick situations for themselves and the internet makes it so easy. What he did was unacceptable, but it was what she said she wanted, an obsessive stalking situation.
They are both creepy and she is despicable. Obviously she still deserves a reasonable expectation of privacy. He needs to be in a clinic.
No. Learn to listen. He admitted that she never said she wanted to be stalked. It was not what she wanted.
@@KatherineLaura6564 Incel sympathizer.
@@KatherineLaura6564 well that is speculative since she might have chosen a nut cracker even worse than her to be the father, in which case he didn't run, she had to.
@@j.m.8545 take your own advice.
I watched the trial. Chats between them showed she drank a lot n also said she wanted n likes him stalking her. She would ask him to come over 5 hours away then get mad if he did or mad if he didn’t. He tried to get away and said he wasn’t talking to her. She would say she missed him. Was very mean to him. It could have turned out very very badly. He said he knew he was not good looking while in the stand. Broke my heart. She used him like a yo yo. One time she asked him to come. After he drove like 6 hours, she told him to go back then changed her mind again. She made him wait over an hour or two in the car. Was with him 30 mins or so then said he had to leave. She was so hurtful. Doubt he will ever fully recover mentally. Everyone has the desire to be loved. Some are just blind.
I don't think he's physically unattractive. Like if I saw that kid in highschool as he looked in the courtroom, I'd think he was cute. It's often about a hygiene, a good haircut, and the right glasses (if you need them) imo.
Same here. He appeared to be embarrassed and genuinely sorry for his actions. I hope the judge is lenient with him so he can get the help he needs and make better decisions in the future.
@todayisnotreal yea, I don't think he's unattractive 🤷🏾♀️.
Nah, he looks fine. He is just creepy.
@@melistasy with his hair cut. Maybe he will read these some day n build his confidence. Not let a woman treat him like that. He doesn’t need to act as he did. A real woman, tho few out there…. Lol, wouldn’t treat him like that.
Re: Attic Occupying. I once read an article in a medical journal about a case where an older female consistently reported noises in her house, items being moved and food being stolen from the fridge. She was a solitary woman with no family. Neighbours dismissed what she said and the Police wrote it off as her being ‘old and confused’. She finally was admitted to a hospital when she became very distressed. That was when the homeless lad who had walked into her house and took up residence in her roof space became apparent and was arrested. The article highlighted the flaws of assuming that older females are disorientated or incorrect when giving a history of unusual phenomena occurring at home.
It could also be that most incidences in dwellings perceived as ''supernatural'' may actually be the result of such uninvited, secret roommates.
So he was stalking her, but Rachel admitted she gave him oral sex in his truck. This is one weird story.
Actually if you look into stalking cases it’s not at all unusual
@@willnill7946 I'm gonna call BS on that one
Irregardless, it's important to focus on the fact he's a cis het man. There's a lot of danger involved with folk like that.
I don't care what you do, people can't just stalk you. I've dealt with this on two occasions. One with a guy I was romantically involved with and another guy who I didn't even know his name! He just lived in the same apartment complex. Unless it's happened to you, you cannot understand how invasive it feels. Even if these people don't come across as violent, you never know for sure. I had so many weird things happen up to my welcome mats being stolen. I caught dude sitting at my door multiple times just listening to me and my sister talk. It's scary... It's creepy... You're never really sure how much danger you're really in .. and your privacy just constantly feels invaded.
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Yuck, I just finished the video... This woman encouraged this... Wow
@@justthatgirl-ct4jo lol. Awesome to read. And then that ps. Lol
Just a reminder, I"m not diagnosing anybody in this video; only speculating about an Attic Dweller like this.
Gotta love the disclaimers! 😂
I think the poor judgment reference belongs to both parties.
I feel nothing. My only comment is that the girl was lucky the man was not more psychotic. Giving out addresses is to get the victim to buy you stuff is not only immoral, but its clinical stupidity (I am sure its in the manual somewhere). Yes, I agree with those that believe a woman should be able to do as she pleases, but if you run around naked at night in certain parts of a city the chance of something bad happening increases by multiples. Embrace reality before you become a statistic.
Man, if you’re going to provide a service like Only Fans you need better boundaries than Rachel had. He shouldn’t have done what he did, but what she did was dishonest and dangerous. Thanks Dr. Grande.
Especially telling him she thought it was hot to be stalked and then seeking him back out when he disengaged. It sounds like this guy was on the spectrum and I'm sure Rachel picked up on this too and used it to manipulate and extract money from him.
@@1stcal11-b2 simp alert ‼️
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Well... we don't live in a perfect world, and it's best for people, both men and women, to minimize their potential risk of being victims.
@@ryballs4569
"Victim blaming" isn't a real thing
@@1stcal11-b2 what if this was a gay dude, like that dude that got beat to death by the Virginia tech football player
SHE is the real creep. It’s such a shame she’s raising a child. Definitely a terrifying example/influence at best. But her behavior says volumes about her character and I cannot imagine her being anything close to a good parent since she’s not a good person in general. Greedy, dishonest, manipulative, irresponsible, lazy, etc etc etc. I definitely wasn’t prepared for this story. It’s highly unusual in that the “victim” is much more the architect of the whole thing. She didn’t just fail to set clear boundaries. She asked for it. Period.
She is a despicable and creepy user but still has the right to a reasonable expectation of privacy from someone who is clearly unbalanced.
@@thedarknessunderneathpodca6366 Yea. She has done nothing wrong exept as usual men have twisted, distorted and sick exhibition of behaviour where some can't control their impulses... It its quite simple to not do what Mauricio did here....
@@mirandawalewska4841 if you think she hasn't done anything wrong then you are psycho.
@@mirandawalewska4841 yeah she did nothing wrong...except exploit, manipulate, and otherwise use an obviously desperate and unbalanced guy, and then manipulated him back for her own narcissistic purposes. He is unbalanced but she is despicable.
She lured him in, gave him her address, then played the victim… so tired of seeing this on a dailey basis on the news! I’m a woman and can’t fathom playing games with unknown men !!! Wow just wow! And now the kid is in prison hopefully he learned his lesson !!
Thanks for putting context to this case. I agree, creepy, weird inappropriate behaviour but almost was entrapment of the perpetrator into role play by the victim because of the erratic consensual physical relationship. Glad it ended before the situation escalated into something even weirder and more creepy.
Did this dude watch the old film "The Man in the Attic". Glad you picked Pennsylvania I thought we didn't have any weirdos here.
She just wanted his money. She knew he was vulnerable, and she went for all she could get. 15 years is way toooooooo long. IMO.
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Reasonable take. Agree. The girl didn't break the law but was an absolutely immoral scumbag.
It’s not a good idea to victim blame, even people who intentionally put themselves in danger is technically self trashing and should be empathized with. Don’t belittle someone further, instead help them do well.
@@JacksTestimony There's no victim in this, this is a case of a scandalous prostitute playing a very dangerous game to aquire money & gifts & she ended up playing with a clearly unstable psycho. Hopefully she grasp how easy she could have gotten tangled up with a murderer or rapist (& who knows, had this fellow not got caught he may very well became one) & either change her occupation or how she go about handling her business. The man is clearly sick but it's not victim blaming to say she invited that sickness into her life.
@@BegodeEx30 Like I said, she’s a victim of herself. She deserves the consequences of her actions, but Instead of double punishing her by victim blaming after she’s already degraded herself, we should show empathy for her so she doesn’t continue to hurt herself. By treating people with respect and dignity regardless of their mistakes either intentional or unintentional we simultaneously set a good example for others and her by letting them know people are also capable of caring about them and don’t just belittling them when they make mistakes since most people know no ones perfect (people with narcissistic tendencies unfortunately often forget this), so they might become proactive about changing their minds before they engage in self degrading behaviors and put themselves in danger.
@@JacksTestimony The problem is she refused to end the relationship because she wanted his $$ when he tried ending it so she did what she could by saying she loves him in order for the act to keep going. #1. Greed
They both had sex in the back of the truck (that prosecutors actually tried withholding and she lied about) while it was confirmed she said she wanted a male stalker. #2 Gluttony
He’s a criminal while she’s a scumbag.
The mom got it the worse.
@@JacksTestimony You clearly grew up under this dysfunctional "everybody get a prize", be politically correct because telling blunt truth hurts people's feelings, nonsense.
I grew up under "damn your feelings", it is what it is & this is a case of an older more sophisticated prostitute toying with her younger, extremely niave & clearly unstable "John", basically victimizing him via way of seduction who later want to play the damsel in distress when his instabilities came to surface & she realized she wasn't gone be able to continue to use him without drama she don't want in her life. If she felt he had plenty more money she could get out of him & kept their dealings away from her family she'll still be entertaining that psycho till she drained him dry.
I think you're right. She was playing with this man and it caused him to think that the things he was doing were appropriate. She took advantage of him.
He still should go to jail. Else he will think that stalking behavior is ok. But she should be punished as well.
Or he could be like my stalker ex and use money to have others stalk her while he bravely hides out in background.
And her account closed , she be sued @@johnnyearp52
She went down on him and told him she thought him stalking her was "hot"???
She manipulated him 100%. No sympathy for her. She got what she deserved.
The only victims are the people unfortunate to love her and that sad little boy.
Remember she gave him her address.
And sucked him off. And told him how hot being stalked was. And told him she loved him.
I know the US has harsh punishments but I think 15 years would be far too much considering sex offenders in the US seen to sometimes get off pretty easy. I understand his behaviour is concerning but I don’t think he should be receive a prison sentence. She instigated some of this behaviour.
I agree with your final analysis.
To be fair when you hear that someone is facing up to X # of years, what that realistically means is that a repeat offender who shows no remorse, might get that long. Most defendants will get
a fraction of that.
@@KS-PNW Plus in some states, offenders typically only have to spend a certain percentage of their sentences in prison before being released to spend the rest of their sentences on probation or parole. I think the average in these cases is around 5% - 30% of the sentence spent in prison, with the rest spent on probation\parole.
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I felt bad when I watched him testify. He was so embarrassed. She may have been his first experience. I also believe he got confused by how she manipulated him. I hope he gets counseling and his record expunged.
Unless the possibility of expungement is included in his sentence, getting something expunged in the state of NH is difficult.
Don't feel too sorry for him. Something is way off with him and I will be very surprised if he doesn't just become a better criminal.
I felt sorry for him too.i hope the judge is lenient. She was his first "relationship".
@@melistasy I don't feel sorry for him anymore than I feel sorry for the Golden State Killer. It starts out like this then the next thing you see are more terrorized women then dead women.
You people are delusional incels omg
OnlyFans and its consequences have been disastrous for society.
Not really. I have friends who have made millions and are doing great.
Survivorship bias
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But the guys are the ones who suffer along with the women because of all the dangerous guys they attract.
@@Raccon_Detective. Incel.
@@j.m.8545
I'm not, I don't hate women but I do hate people that take advantage of other people especially those who are suffering from undiagnosed mental illnesses like depression, social anxiety or neurological disorders like autism which are the male onlyfans buyers are men who suffer from undiagnosed mental illnesses like social anxiety
These same mental conditions cause these males to be isolated for year and years so much that they buy only fans to get some kind of human connection.
Male loneliness is a problem that only grows bigger and stuff like this highlights how badly mental health is handled.
The reason why I said "people" is because if a guy were doing this it wouldn't change anything which is why I hate Andrew Tate and his Hustler's university.
From the parents basement to the girls attic 🙄😬
I knew Mauricio growing up. He was always a quirky somewhat of a loner kid, but frankly harmless. His home life wasn't that great and at school he was often bullied and excluded. He dealt with his pain and loneliness by withdrawing into a world of fantasy (and the internet apparently.) He developed psychological issues over time and his physical health also worsened, it's just unfortunate and sad. There are others like Muaricio because I think life is tragic sometimes. Some compassion for those who aren't privileged to be normal and valued is in order. THis is my belief. We're rooting for you, Mauricio. Your friend, Marco.
Well if he had or has any sort of mental disability he should have had an advocate. Being the sibling of a disabled person, who, if not protected could be exploited, it is easy to understand why his sentence is so harsh, and R received no fine or sentence for the tv bj exchange...this is a sad case. She exploited a possible vulnerable individual in sense of the ADA. Always a fine line...
Please be a good friend to him, and let him know I (as a woman who has had boyfriends and is nearing her 30s etc) don't find him unattractive at all ! To clarify I don't wanna date him or anything but I would think he was cute if I saw him on the street or whatever. Please let him know that confidence is key, and he deserves the best. I felt horrible for him watching this case unfold. He was duped by an older alcoholic lady who only cared about money and power and abusing people around her. Sick.
Give him my best, please. I hope he has a future he is happy with.
I take big issue with your “privileged” comment! It’s warped as people choose their behavior and it’s not influenced by their life as a kid as even the most awkward kids don’t commit crimes or get sexually sadist and weird like that to go on sex suggested websites thinking they could get sex or romance! He is a whack who needs psyche therapy badly! Very bad parenting for sure!
@@Juke582 sounds like you’re projecting a lot. Did you investigate the court case itself whatsoever? Plenty of proof rachel literally messed him up so badly and told him to stalk her, invited him to come see her, had sex with him, and honestly she emotionally abused him. He tried to cut contact multiple times but she wanted more money and so pretended to love him. That can really do a number on someone.
Viewing things as psychotic because you don’t understand them is not wise. If he was psychotic, Dr. Grande would’ve said so.
He does need major counseling and probation with behavior monitoring. But she’s no victim here. Her mom and kid are, however.
@@kelsielovesbbu very well said and I completely agree with both of you comments completely. As far as that comment about how wrong Mauricio was the persons picture looks like he probably had and has all the same problems so he probably doesn’t want anyone to sympathize with Mauricio. Haters got to Hate
Yesss king go off
There's a documentary on youtube about a guy who lived in someone else's attic for over 30 years, carrying on an affair with the wife and doing all the cooking and cleaning. He lived rent free and could read all the books he wanted. He moved with them when they moved to a new house. Wish I could remember the name.
I remember that one! Didn't the husband end up dead? Or was it the guy in the attic?
@@krazeelety Yes, he was eventually discovered by the husband and one ended up shooting the other. Can't remember which.
@@krazeelety I think I found it. Sounds like the Dolly Oesterreich case.
I remember that one!
I believe your thinking of Dolly and Otto, aka the cuckhold killers.
Dear Dr Grande, thank you for your exquisite analysis of this case. Mauricio exhibited some really stupid and dangerous behaviours, but i think Rachel was cynically manipulative, and, watching the trial, i ended up feeling so sorry for this young man. I fear he won't fare well in prison 😢
Same here. He appeared to be embarrassed and genuinely sorry for his actions. I hope the judge is lenient on him so he can get the help he needs and make better decisions in the future.
This is creepy as hell!!!!
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Didn’t this happen in a Gary.Busey movie? Or I dunno maybe that was Gary Busey real life.
This behavior on both sides is extremely dangerous.
She legit said she was trying to mess with his head and wanted him to stalk her… hard to feel bad for her
Yeah but it was probably more of a fantasy than anything
no she didn't. she wanted to use him and have sex. telling someone about a consensual sexual fantasy doesn't mean you want to be the victim of a crime
@@Sputterbugshe should been wiser and giving address to customer ! She nuts or what ?!her account should've been closed ! She might do it another guy who a psychopath and get her killed
Is life ever going to get better? Less insanity is "better."
Asking for a friend from NJ
"Who possess poor judgment" yes 👍
😂😂
To me this is the case of "toxic femininity". I'm not saying he's not guilty of stalking, but she really created the circumstances for this to happen, but she bares no responsibility for being manipulative and taking advantage of people.
There are a lot of ways to be a complete jerk that aren’t illegal.. and it is anything but simple to figure out what behaviors should be legislated against. I also wonder what needs of her were not met, that led her to looking for this kind type of attention. I think it is easy to imagine being a lonely, horny, easily manipulated guy. Or at least it is for me. It is harder to relate to what a beautiful young woman was looking for here.. or at least it is for me.
I hope that judges, lawyers, and prosecutors listen and take your advice to heart Dr. Grande. But, frequently, positions of power attract narcissists, which means no introspection.
"And receive payments from customers who possess poor judgement", nice one Dr. Grande. Extreme high level dry wit.
Definitely…
Thank God no one was murdered in this one.
My God would have had her tossed off the roof. She was evil. Poor guy so manipulated by this POS.
They sound like a perfect couple 💑.
I know this I'm going to get attacked for saying this but here it goes. WTH is wrong with people? I'm talking about this woman here. Your career is basically legal online "prostitution" for anyone who will pay you? What kind of people do you think are going to be watching your videos? CREEPS. No matter their line of profession and "status" And then to give him her address because she wanted him to buy her a Tv and a fire place? AND for her to converse with him and let him in her house for a few hours? Oh so she wanted him to buy her body and then buy her gifts but when he wanted more she thought she could just kick him to the curb. Was this AFTER she got her fireplace from him and new TV? And God only knows what else? I can see his confusion I mean she's butt naked doing God knows what for the world. All is good as long as he BUYS her things. But Then when he gets wacko on her now she wants help? No woman help YOURSELF. You put yourself in that position playing with people's affections you get what you get. No sympathy here. I'm in no way taking up for this creep. But to me? She asked for it. When you put yourself out there like that you put yourself out there like that.
The description of OF was spot on. 😅
Sounds like she was playing with fire and then complained when she got burned.
U may be right- but iMO he crossed the line when he started living in her attic🤷🏻♀️
Yea, like most girls do . She could ditch him but had sex with him ....she crazy but just as him ....she lucky she didn't do this another person ....she might be dead
And she a mother ....
Well I looked for her pictures, its not to clear who she is. But in searching I found a charming story of a model from the same site that ended up living in the same -town- well actually -neighborhood- house as her #1 fan. It's her step-dad. The paper quoted her as saying "oowoowoo. What are you doing step dad?"
That quote may not have happened but the story is real
To be young and dumb .... with the internet.
If Mauricio would redirect his ingenuity and energy to something legit, he'd be gold.
Fool’s gold
@@brittraegrantham4385 😂
From NH - I’ve been waiting for you to cover this since the trial ended. So excited. Thank you!
I too am from the beautiful 603. Hello fellow granite stater. Isn't it wonderful not living in Massachusetts?
Only Fans really brings out the worst in people on both sides of the transaction
Well simply put you play with fire you get burned in this case both parties got burned just one more than the other.
Customers who have poor judgement. Awesome line! Lottery tickets would have a higher probability of a payout.
Please make a video of a missing husband's case / possible murder of Don Lewis aka ex-husband of Carol Baskin
Cold case. Unsolved mystery,.
@@vettetchell6106They're probably never going to find him, sadly.
Rachel put her child in danger….maybe the state should take her kid away from her. She is probably glamorizing being stalked after watching a few seasons of the Netflix show “you”. She seems like the type to think that way.
In the begining i was rooting for prison for him...by the end im rooting for prison for her
So like an attic Santa Claus? 🎅 🏘️
An attic Jinx/OIC!
😂
@@maxw5900 - LMAO
There's plenty of people who would find him attractive. That was a bit harsh.
She's gonna find out someday she is playing a dangerous game like this, she's lucky this was just a kid that thought he was in love. Mind you we have no idea how he could have escalated his behavior over time if he wasn't caught so early on. This story definitely has a Red Tree crime video vibe to it.
I think she is the criminal and he appears to be on the spectrum.
Women who live by the Simp can some times Die by the Simp. She got lucky this time.
This is basically identical to the plot of the 1989 film "Hider in the House" starring Gary Busey.
A masterpiece of a film, and worth checking out for anyone interested in the genre of "creepy dude stalking a victim and hiding in their attic."
I'm interested in anything Gary Busey is in
He was more of a victim than a “customer.”
I agree. I watched the whole trial and felt so sorry for this silly young man
Same I did as well. Poor dude. Can’t stand these women.
Mauricio definitely shouldn’t have done what he did, but I wholeheartedly agree that he needs therapy, not prison. He’s only nineteen - & again I’m not excusing his behavior - but I do agree it’s another mitigating factor. She sounds quite manipulative & I wonder if the s*x**l encounters were somewhat coercive on her part. Although I suppose he would’ve been happy to have her too. I don’t know. It’s a *VERY* situation. I feel like both are at fault, but he still went too far. She needs to accountability for her part, however, too. She didn’t exactly make the boundaries clear & she took advantage of a young man. How old is she too? Nineteen is young af… I’d she’s much older, that’s creepy, whether legal or not. She indeed treated him like a commodity & he did so back as he learned from the best. Stalking & phrogging (staying hidden in someone’s house) is super creepy too… yick.
There is no justification for intruding someone's house, but otherwise this has important question of victimhood, as you described. In modern feminist society love and sex are more and more merchandise, in which seller is a woman and buyer is a man. Earlier this was seen as men exploitating women, but in many cases man is the victim, who is exploited. Insecure and weak men, who look for love and/or sex, are used by women, who take their money. It is easy to say that men do it on their free will, but this is more like addicted gambler offered a chance to play roulette in Casino. In feminist society some so called liberated women see the easy money. Earlier they were called prostitutes, but now they are enterpreneurs.
We should help young men to grow up, but feminist society doesn't care about them. This guy needs to make up what he did, but in better world this could have been prevented not to happen. Societal problems don't explain everything bad and stupid things people do, but sometimes they are part of the equation.
Thank you
Lovely comment 👌 ❤
Thank you Will and Margaret. 👍 Here in Finland media (tabloids and TV) are full of stories of OnlyFans, it is clearly an attempt to normalize it, like any job. It is wrong both towards young women and men. I believe that family is the basic unit of society, and it is almost totally destroyed in few decades.
Well said ty for sharing
@Mika Hamari I agree with you. It is so sad to see what is going on, in young people. Youth is such a vulnerable time, and so many impressionable youngsters are being cynically manipulated by older folk who should know better. I love your comments about family 👪 ❤️
I am in full agreement with you.
I knew Mauricio in middle school. He was a simp, he would give out his lunch money to whatever girl that talked to him. He was really a sweet guy and not at all a threat. Rachel is evil and she should be the one in jail. She set this all up for attention. She knew Mauricio was vulnerable and she took him for everything, to the point Mauricio got a second job because of her to “pay” for her “needs”, despite the fact Mauricio was living in a weekly motel and all his money went to her, when she already had a house and comfortable life. Rachel even convinced him to put his only possession his truck in to her name. And unsurprisingly when he was arrested she sold it. So sad.
And can receive payments, from those with poor judgment… My soda came out my nose! 😂
Rachel, for financial gain, knowingly and wittingly engaged in systematic psychological and emotional abuse against a vulnerable individual. Mauricio should get a strong female attorney to sue Rachel for damages that could go into a trust for his re-entry to society after his prison sentence.
I had a stalker in college. My reaction to realizing i was being stalked was to hide and try to ignore it and finally, after my friends expressed concern, to go to the police and get them to help me. They had a conversation with him and i never saw him again and was relieved and happy to be left alone. Nothing about her behavior in this case is like the way i felt and acted in response to being stalked. She definitely led him on and encouraged his behavior.
I don't mean to minimize it, but if that guy was stalking you, he wouldn't have given up after the police conversation.
@@SirenaSpades he was absolutely stalking me. We had one study seminar together and after that he started following me everywhere. Within a few weeks he knew my entire class schedule and was sitting outside each class when i arrived. He didn't try to talk to me, just stared directly at me until i went inside the classroom. He would then wait outside the classroom for a while looking in the glass window at me occasionally, then he would leave but next class he'd do the same thing again. He tried to get on my computer in the computer lab when i went to get some print outs. He even started hanging out in the cafeteria whenever i usually went there for food. I kept changing my routine to avoid him so he'd go from place to place checking which of my regular spots i was in. My friends were very worried and started walking with me everywhere on campus to make sure he never caught me alone. If that's not stalking, i don't know what is. I have no idea what the police said to him, but i think he completely left the college, or had never been a student there and was just there to stalk me, because he just wasn't around at all after that.
I would have to disagree somewhat on this one. Was she a horrible and maniuplative person only out to get his money, of course. She is morally a sick person that needs mental help herself. Still had they had a, "real" relationship where she used him for money. He, a full grown adult needs to be able control himself from breaking into her house and hiding in the attic. You can't break into your ex-girlfriends house and take naked pictures without her consent. He should get a light prison sentence with mental therapy or counsel. I don't feel bad for either, she is going to get hurt or killed and he will continue to get in legal trouble if he cannot keep his sexual desires in the realm of reality. She was a service provider and he was a customer, no one asked him to find love on onlyfans.
man, u didn't have to call him unattractive... i honestly see the potential for a glow up there
Only fans: A place where people create adult content online and receive payment by other people who possess poor judgement. 😂 Well said, sir.
Grande can you talk about "bike Karen" and the media response?
Yeah, that story really took a turn, didn't it? Now she's suing all tv and newspapers for defamation. She'll probably win, too, as she has receipts for the bike. They don't know who the 5 kids are, yet.
Sensible commentary. Maybe English needs a new word or distinction between 'fantasies I find hot and want to experience' and 'fantasies I find hot but if actually happened would be terrifying', one word for the same thing feels like it could lead to situations like this
This is the risk of having a career in prostitution.
Step aside the issue of society normalizing online prostitution, this girl must have been trying to become a murder victim. I just assume everyone watches true crime or something, but the end result of these situations seems obvious to me. Frankly, she's lucky he didn't kill her. Hopefully, this doesn't influence future behavior of his and he's able to live without this hanging over him his whole life.
Creepy! Ugh, I would have not been able to feel secure after that. Sad.
she referred to his stalking behavior as “little hot” 👀🤣🤣 wtf with this chic and this poor naive unexperienced soul 😬💀
Thanks for the upload, Dr. Grande.
I have no doubt she 100% encouraged him. Fine them both for being idiots and call it a day.
Rachel is scarier than Mauricio.
My adolescent brain is laughing at Dr.Grande saying "panties"😂
A female narcissist who manipulates a man?...Shocking!
I know I am in the minority here but I don't feel sorry for this guy. People don't camp in attics and stalk people for love or sex. It's not normal, period. I think he's a potential rapist and getting caught now is a good thing. His immature external image is a false facade to hide a deeply desperate and disturbed man.
I agree.
Well that's just as arbitrary a position as saying she wanted all this. Based on her behaviour along and the things she said, she clearly egged this on. Correct?
@@John-tl6vp Nah, women with low self esteem like this all the time... it's a front. Just play along... buy her things. She might be doing it to three other guys though so dont catch feelings... or should I say, take it personal. She used him as a piggy bank pretty much. She maybe felt sorry or hurt for him even, and gave him that rough love lol. I'd say he betrayed her trust and endangered her family, ultimately. Over his embarrassment inside... people need to get over themselves. You just can't win the hearts and minds of everyone; especially with a vindictive mindset.
@@haroldcampos9661 it doesn't matter. She communicated to him that she liked that kind of weird attention. When it comes to the law he might have to pay the price but in reality she invited him to be weird, and he obliged.
@@John-tl6vp She might have said that but that does not give him license to do that, nor is it entrapment. Do you believe in date-rape or something???
Why is a woman who makes Only Fans videos (assumed to be sexual in nature) living in her mother's house? Does the mom have no boundaries regarding her daughter?
This is why , stoopid people exist posting “adult “ content and then complain the dogs they attract try to take a bite. Don’t tease an animal and not expect to get retaliation, and for anybody who thinks I’m asbackwards , it doesn’t matter how scually liberated you are, your setting yourself up for stalking and or other bodily harm.
You are calling men animals?
@@johnnyearp52
I think she only means the mentally unstable ones because OF attract the wrong kind of people, like a moth being attracted to a flashlight.
@@johnnyearp52 not like that, but if u took it that way, I can’t help u!
I'm not judging guilt or innocence but I dont like this woman very much.
There was that case in the 40s of a guy hiding in the attic ended up with a few unsolved murders
You talking about the Denver Spiderman?
Will you please analyze what caused para-social behavior in the Taylor Swift fandom, re: swift fans feeling upset (even betrayed ) b/c she is allegedly dating lead singer in the British band The 1975, Matty Healy ??
I totally agree with your take on this Dr. Grande!
This was all "business" to this woman. I feel, she should be accountable for putting her Mother *and most importantly her young son* in danger of a future criminal act. There should be a Law, terms/condition that clearly states 'boundaries.' Like, for this particular site - if content creator, 'tangles up' in something that goes to court - then, there could be some 'restriction(s)' placed, for that Content Creator?
Poor guy doesn’t deserve a prison time. There is no legal punishment for being naive and immature.
And most importantly mentally ill one of the most vulnerable states a person can be in no wonder why she was able to play him like a fiddle.
Play with fire you might get burned 👀 stay safe out there
I agree. Wise analysis.
Don’t be a wah wah Grande, this is a form of capitalism
Kind of sad Rachel exposed her Mother to all of this dangerous nonsense.
And her helpless little boy.
@@sherrydmyterko-tramp8654 Especially the little boy. But people like her have no consideration for those around her.
Please do Bike Karen!
That story sure took a turn, didn't it? 😅
@@LDiamondz To be honest, I never bought the original story. The idea that a small woman off a hospital shift was attempting to rob a group of young men was just really dumb.
@@SinclairPoppins Same here. It wasn't the typical Karen video. I couldn't see her going after them, either, especially pregnant. I hope Dr.Grande covers this one.