Matt Damon Reveals How Jennifer Lopez Is DESTROYING Ben Affleck

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  • Matt Damon Reveals How Jennifer Lopez Is DESTROYING Ben Affleck
    The reunion of the Bennifer couple after two decades has sparked a fire of good gossip in the Hollywood industry. Well, why wouldn't it? When the popular star Jennifer Lopez rekindled her love with ex-finance Ben Affleck, people were obviously flabbergasted by the reconciliation of the couple.
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  • @CarlosCruz-ll5ez
    @CarlosCruz-ll5ez Год назад +714

    I am no Jenifer Lopez fan whatsoever but Ben Affleck has been destroying his own life with no one's help for over a decade now!

    • @thearodriguez8073
      @thearodriguez8073 Год назад +32

      Great point! 🍻

    • @JamusChristus
      @JamusChristus Год назад +6

      Destroying his life?

    • @CarlosCruz-ll5ez
      @CarlosCruz-ll5ez Год назад +25

      @@JamusChristus yes DESTROYING!

    • @JamusChristus
      @JamusChristus Год назад +12

      @@CarlosCruz-ll5ez he's rich, decorated and married to a woman just like him.

    • @TV-ob1if
      @TV-ob1if Год назад

      He destroyed it by marrying that b itch

  • @kgfes
    @kgfes Год назад +596

    Never go back to a relationship you once considered toxic

    • @user-go1px9kt1v
      @user-go1px9kt1v Год назад

      @Cold Fire 2.O🧊🔥 it was a Britney shitshow

    • @shannanbeaulieu
      @shannanbeaulieu Год назад +15

      I agree. Your ex is considered your “ex” for a reason. However, I always thought Jennifer was always trying to change Ben
      with her dominant nature.

    • @notevenalittle8363
      @notevenalittle8363 Год назад +7

      He considered it toxic or did the press have the yips because the media couldn't stand the pairing. It's hard for other people are trying to do you in. I wish them the best this time around and maybe we should all mind our business. Even Mr. Damon.

    • @why2874
      @why2874 Год назад +2

      Especially if one is just getting out a relationship that hasn’t been completely resolved, this seems like a joke, but on who.

    • @luckynblessed8696
      @luckynblessed8696 Год назад +1

      TRUE👍

  • @lmgrss
    @lmgrss Год назад +640

    JLo's first and only real love is and always will be the media. 📸

  • @ribbs13
    @ribbs13 Год назад +421

    Jen never gives herself time between hopping from gut to guy. There is something missing insider her. Finding yourself alone you learn a lot about yourself and that it’s ok to be in your own company. She needs to beat those demons inside her

    • @Leena20
      @Leena20 Год назад +19

      Yep it’s like she has a pattern that she can’t break

    • @thearodriguez8073
      @thearodriguez8073 Год назад +6

      You know her so well! lol You must speak regularly! 🙄

    • @nkenda5157
      @nkenda5157 Год назад +16

      @@Leena20The kids are introduced to several men

    • @andrimarbi
      @andrimarbi Год назад +27

      @@thearodriguez8073 I mean it’s literally what JLo does 😂 don’t need to know her well to notice her back to back relationships

    • @shonacole2124
      @shonacole2124 Год назад +9

      I so agree with you.

  • @PrincessReka
    @PrincessReka Год назад +55

    They deserve each other. BA was running around on his wife, who is just the nicest person, Jennifer Garner for years until she had enough and kicked him out for good. Jlo is all about Jlo, everyone in her life are just props for her image and selfies imo.

  • @renross5027
    @renross5027 2 года назад +414

    The wisdom of Matt Damon, if you can’t say anything nice…..best to zip it.

    • @sarmitesula5662
      @sarmitesula5662 Год назад +12

      Let them be ,, no-one else can say anything about them

    • @user-yk5lv8iw8x
      @user-yk5lv8iw8x Год назад +6

      Naah I remember Matt blabbering about the N word not too long ago

    • @annachounti4841
      @annachounti4841 Год назад +5

      He said...he refer to the word liker...hidden message underlining the problem with alcohol 🍸 of his friend!!! Great friends Ben has in his life...Jlo was right...

    • @juliegaristo-RoamAntics
      @juliegaristo-RoamAntics Год назад +7

      He didn't say it. We were clickbaited.

    • @beetleything1864
      @beetleything1864 Год назад

      well that's what your MUM taught you ---------

  • @Abastidas70
    @Abastidas70 Год назад +93

    The only positive thing that I see in this situation is that Jennifer Garner is happy .

    • @CynthiaMullinax
      @CynthiaMullinax Год назад +4

      right

    • @KingKull1971
      @KingKull1971 Год назад +1

      Is she? You can't just turn it off. You can't just stop loving someone overnight.

    • @theresajimenez8055
      @theresajimenez8055 Год назад +4

      Jennifer Garner was not happy with Ben. They argued a lot. He said he felt trapped with her. He probably feel the same with Jlo. Enough already. Everybody blames Jen like she's the cause of it. Jen. just leave him. He's not worthy. He's still a baby boy.

    • @ceiananunez1892
      @ceiananunez1892 Год назад +3

      She hasn't cut the "Umbilical Cord!" Her "Mommy- Ness" drives me "Crazy!" Ben is a "Grown Ass Man!" Let Him Go, Let Him Go, Let Him Go!
      He's missing the "Bottle Big Time!" Gone Baby Gone...

    • @vpom4774
      @vpom4774 Год назад +1

      Wins internet for this comment!!💯💯🤣🤣❤️❤️

  • @jandmvideos9051
    @jandmvideos9051 Год назад +162

    I have never seen a picture of them together where Ben looks happy before or after the marriage.

    • @flightofthebumblebee9529
      @flightofthebumblebee9529 Год назад

      That means nothing. Maybe he ate that delicious booty like groceries the night before.

    • @DarkLady13
      @DarkLady13 Год назад +1

      Both dysfunctional mental cases!

    • @adamfrost3139
      @adamfrost3139 Год назад +18

      She looks like she has a high maintenance kind of personality for him, he comes off a little more of the laid back casual type. She is basically "The Queen" and he is her lowly servant who should be grateful for being with her etc. (in her world.)

    • @kellyf5004
      @kellyf5004 Год назад +6

      Lol I thought it was just me that noticed that! So sad isn’t?

    • @sureyyaekinci4630
      @sureyyaekinci4630 Год назад +3

      Not true - jen is so in love with Ben and he chased her this time

  • @ceciliaj3300
    @ceciliaj3300 Год назад +26

    Ben Affleck seems so lost.. his eyes look empty and sad

  • @stanlyqbrick1621
    @stanlyqbrick1621 Год назад +47

    Narcisstic personality disorder is hell for the other partner.

    • @petersonlafollette3521
      @petersonlafollette3521 Год назад

      Check out the couple in Dunkin' commercial- now that's REAL character acting...

    • @txangel69
      @txangel69 Год назад +5

      It's hell for anyone that's in their lives

  • @cindyweir9645
    @cindyweir9645 Год назад +62

    It won’t work because he has to live in her world. He’ll be busting out of that. She’s a different type of narcissist than he is.

    • @katadam2186
      @katadam2186 Год назад +6

      He wants his way she wants hers ..the details don’t really matter with a narc It’s themselves first and only always

    • @Dhruv_Dogra
      @Dhruv_Dogra Год назад +1

      Exactly

    • @harryricochet8134
      @harryricochet8134 Год назад +6

      Two narcissists cannot exist together, every narcissist requires a person akin to a pet dog to affirm their narcissism FACTS

    • @Dhruv_Dogra
      @Dhruv_Dogra Год назад +3

      @@harryricochet8134 wrong! Dr Ramani Durvasula, America's premier narcissism expert has confirmed they can be a successful couple, albeit unhappily. But then all narcissists are inherently unhappy in the long term.

    • @harryricochet8134
      @harryricochet8134 Год назад

      @@Dhruv_Dogra Nup not wrong at all, you're just applying your own subjective interpretation of what I meant by the word 'exist' to claim that my comment was wrong. Any two personality types can co-exist 'successfully' (another subjective adjective) however if they are miserable that cannot by any rational metric be defined as a truly viable let alone 'successful' existence.

  • @kelyerose
    @kelyerose 2 года назад +184

    I saw this entire interview and they were trying to get info from Matt but he didn't fall for it. I wish people would stop making up ish about this couple and let them live thier life. It cost nothing to wish people well and if you don't like them together keep moving why put negative ish out there...smh I'm glad ben and jen learned from last time and are not letting the negative bs affect them.

    • @moochie5
      @moochie5 2 года назад +2

      Well said. .these trolls/haters are mostly fake getting paid to spread lies. Elon is dumping these BOTS out of tweeter. FAKE NEWS.

    • @msjade2817
      @msjade2817 2 года назад +12

      You are right. Its always the negative news that makes good money so these talk shows always need to bend things in the crookest possible way.

    • @toeareg100
      @toeareg100 Год назад +4

      Why should we leave JLo’s marriage alone while she never let other people’s marriages by sleeping with women’s husbands? JLo is a homewrecker and payback for her is around the corner.

    • @linrey3397
      @linrey3397 Год назад +3

      So agree!

    • @lucidshakti5178
      @lucidshakti5178 Год назад +3

      Because they have no life of they own

  • @naomilopez7802
    @naomilopez7802 2 года назад +138

    Why does everyone blame Jlo ? Ben has a mind and he can say what he doesn’t like ? He knew Jlo is Always dressed to the T always she is a t- shirt kinda women ? That was his ex wife the one he cheated on and supposedly didn’t love anymore ? He’s the one with Health Problems, Smoking , Drinking , Gambling ? Jlo just want us to live a Healthy Life what wrong with that ? Especially when she doesn’t smoke or drink ?

    • @adansanchez3509
      @adansanchez3509 2 года назад +4

      But Ben has no problems with poker

    • @naomilopez7802
      @naomilopez7802 2 года назад +7

      Jlo is not a T-shirt kinda Woman ? She dresses in designer clothing ?

    • @karids934
      @karids934 2 года назад +1

      Most women do not like such women as Jennifer Lopez beautiful, sexy, successful. They love nondescript simpletons like themselves. Rarely women are not jealous and can recognize the success of another woman especially latina women

    • @karinaurena7168
      @karinaurena7168 2 года назад +1

      Is true ok

    • @renross5027
      @renross5027 Год назад +7

      Yes, Ben certainly has a mind of his own. But he’s human and has weaknesses. This reminds me of the opening lyrics to the Eagles song, Lyin’ Eyes. “ City girls just seem to find out early how to open doors with just a smile”. Some men are weak, especially regarding matters of, shall we say, lust. And certain women can prey on those weaknesses in the same way some men are able to. We’re all human.

  • @deborahmclean8941
    @deborahmclean8941 Год назад +40

    When someone shows who they are the first time...believe them.

  • @PittsburghSportsFan43
    @PittsburghSportsFan43 Год назад +93

    Who could have predicted that a relationship that failed the first time would fail again? 🙄 When I heard they were back together I didn't think it'd last long.

  • @lancesfluidfusion
    @lancesfluidfusion Год назад +29

    Guess what?!!! Ben is a real adult man and Jennifer is a real adult woman. Their relationship is not for yours mine or anyone else’s viewing pleasure or judgment. What they do or feel is their business. These types of gossip driven videos are never accurate representations of someone’s actual life.

    • @harryricochet8134
      @harryricochet8134 Год назад +2

      🎶Oh Ben you are so perfect, so spectacular in every way,
      You bring light into my life Ben,
      You almost make me forget all about tacooooos,
      Oh tacos so good in my tummy, yummy, yummy give me more,
      I love you Ben, you almost make me forget about tacos🎶

    • @jflo2023
      @jflo2023 Год назад +3

      Um, so why are YOU watching this video?

    • @r.a.contreras174
      @r.a.contreras174 4 месяца назад

      Ours is not to reason why?

  • @ParahSalin
    @ParahSalin Год назад +63

    Ben loves the sauce more than he loves anyone named Jennifer: Garner or Lopez

  • @Theomite
    @Theomite Год назад +114

    I saw that photo of her basically scolding him like an angry mom in a store in Italy, getting her finger in his face despite being half his size and I was like "Wow, THAT is NOT a healthy situation." Ben hasn't had a good time since 2002 or so.

    • @markuss4133
      @markuss4133 Год назад +5

      So, who is responsible for that

    • @Theomite
      @Theomite Год назад +2

      @@markuss4133 Depends on how far back you want to go: a few months or a few years or a few decades.

    • @markuss4133
      @markuss4133 Год назад +1

      @@Theomite I guess it's him every time

    • @jjmcwill1881
      @jjmcwill1881 Год назад +2

      That is every relationship.. have any of you been in a relationship?

    • @1986Unlimited
      @1986Unlimited Год назад +3

      What are you trying to convey? That relationships are always harmonious and free of conflict? That arguments or fights should they happen are beautiful and immediately resolved? The tabloids get a picture of them fighting, and people like you leap to make assumptions about the nature of their relationship. Why do you people continue to indulge in this garbage and assume you know what's going on when you don't know either person? Back when I was in highschool like 20 years ago, people were doing the same crap. Fast forward today and still, people are doing this. Ya'll really don't learn. Maybe there are some serious issues there or maybe there isn't any serious issues in their relationship, but one photo isn't enough for you to conclude anything.

  • @podunkcitizen2562
    @podunkcitizen2562 Год назад +66

    I think Ben blew it big time when he wrecked his marriage to the other Jennifer.

    • @kellyf5004
      @kellyf5004 Год назад +10

      @podunkcitizen2562 you hit the nail right on the head! He blew it with such a beautiful talented woman, you can’t get much better than Jennifer Garner, not to mention she’s the mother of his babies, and what a good mother she is!

    • @Shy-807
      @Shy-807 Год назад +3

      Ben cheated on Jlo with Garner in 2004

    • @davyboy9397
      @davyboy9397 Год назад

      100%

    • @bch5513
      @bch5513 Год назад +1

      @@Shy-807 well. I guess he didn't have to remember what to call them on the phone

    • @cleanearth6238
      @cleanearth6238 Год назад

      I love how you sheep care about this crap..

  • @debfortier-arszyla7394
    @debfortier-arszyla7394 6 месяцев назад +18

    He had the GOOD Jennifer, during his 1st marriage. Now he has the EVIL Jennifer.

  • @shopperoo99
    @shopperoo99 Год назад +55

    When narc meet narc. Ben and jen are just another replay of Brad Angelina, Johnny Depp and Amber heard. Narcs need to get together and leave the rest of the normal population alone.

    • @armyparrot9353
      @armyparrot9353 Год назад +5

      I'm not sure he is a Narc though. Her yes.

    • @taliyahs1918
      @taliyahs1918 Год назад +6

      @@armyparrot9353 I agree. Doesnt seem narcissistic. He seems to be like bradd where they both seem a little lost without dominant women in their life. I think he sort of lives through jen but jens always independent. No one can love jen more than jen loves jen

    • @ThePossumone
      @ThePossumone Год назад +2

      Lol YEP - Jo lo definitely is

    • @deepblack2193
      @deepblack2193 Год назад +1

      @@taliyahs1918 that’s such a cop out he’s the alcoholic he needs a strong woman in his life infact he’s lucky anyone puts up with his alcoholism

    • @kateapple1
      @kateapple1 Год назад

      Ohhh NARCISSIST 😂 I thought you meant they ratted someone out! 😂

  • @Dreyden-
    @Dreyden- Год назад +47

    If they only knew what kind of person she is, maybe they would understand. All she does is blast actors saying they suck at acting like she some professor, she steals songs. Got a worker fired because she asked for an autograph, then she denied it even happened.

  • @ylnodnaenoeht
    @ylnodnaenoeht Год назад +14

    She is a perfectionist concerned with looks. No one is perfect. Hope she doesn't drive him to hurt himself commit suicide. Let him smoke, dress how he likes....free. the more she pressures him, the more anxiety he will feel ...until he snaps.

    • @Foreverzen88
      @Foreverzen88 Год назад

      You’re so ridiculous, he’s stronger than that. You’ve been watching too many movies.

    • @jayannakelley9051
      @jayannakelley9051 11 месяцев назад +1

      I agree! No guy is going to tell me how to dress or I can’t smoke my cig!

    • @maryanncarine2075
      @maryanncarine2075 4 месяца назад

      @@Foreverzen88 No need to attack someone for an opinion. What she said is quite obvious !

  • @headlesschicken99
    @headlesschicken99 5 месяцев назад +6

    When you think the grass is greener on the other side but you get astro turf in reality...

  • @Uptownv
    @Uptownv 8 месяцев назад +3

    he really does give puppet. jen makes him drive her all over LA to run her errands like she cant hire a security detail to do that! He is literally an oscar winning director not her damn assistant. He is clearly medicated to be able to handle her shit in such a calm manner.

  • @beamillan93
    @beamillan93 Год назад +31

    I love how most of the comments on this video are by "source" or "fans" and we know how much they know about them, especially the fans 😂😂😂

    • @dominiqueyo9769
      @dominiqueyo9769 Год назад +2

      But often is true ......

    • @EasternRomeOrthodoxy
      @EasternRomeOrthodoxy Год назад

      🤺☦🇷🇺Yes wtf🤦‍♂️😅Those gossiping zombies are only jealous at JLO for loking young while they are rotting like slobs. The pathetic spoiled old bum should only say thanks to JLO for just agreeing to be seen with him wtf. JLO and Chuando Tan are inspiration as vamps, and I will be one too, just like them, not like Aflec and the old mummies😂🤣🤣

    • @beamillan93
      @beamillan93 Год назад

      @@dominiqueyo9769 yes Ashanti proved it by celebrating her Bday with her 😏😏😏

  • @Char-Williams
    @Char-Williams Год назад +8

    Jen needs to learn to be single for a while. For herself and future relationships. I hate to say this but I told you so. 😭

  • @t.e.8084
    @t.e.8084 Год назад +14

    Poor Jen. Wants a man to make her happy. Needs to find what makes her happy on her own.

  • @leonixfire
    @leonixfire Год назад +30

    If JLo has to act like a masculine it's because he isn't rising to the job.. especially if she's trying to help him beat addictions.. She is basically trying to get him into a healthier life style and it's starts with having a routine, dressing better to bring his self esteem up... People don't know what's really behind it all.... She has married an addict and his so called friends and brother see him as a puppet but what did they do for him throughout the years to help him with his addictions....

    • @Lovely_Mia087
      @Lovely_Mia087 Год назад +9

      @Nevin Reid I keep finding you on different comments calling her out her name like you PERSONALLY hate her smh If a person you never met, who doesn't even know you exist had that much power over your emotions to the point of HATE then that says a lot about the quality of your character as a person. You NEVER allow someone to bring you outta character no matter what UNLESS your already in your character capacity. BTW Never heard the pregnancy by LL rumors literally can't find one article on that and I fact checked using a few search engines. Completely made up story smh

    • @Lovely_Mia087
      @Lovely_Mia087 Год назад +4

      I said the same thing to a friend. He isn't use to someone telling him clean up after himself, iron your cloths so it doesn't look like you slept in your car for days. Every change I've heard so far is for his betterment as a individual who has a problem with routine and self control. She's really into health, what did he think she was just going to let him get lazy, let his health go down and be okay with him sitting on the couch eating pizza. I'm not getting at him he just needs structure and learn self discipline WHICH COMES from having and developing a healthy lifestyle. She's no Saint but I truly believe that if Ben can get himself in the best shape of his life mentally, emotionally and physically she would let him take the reins in their relationship because she would trust that he can lead their family. You cannot give control over to someone who's STILL struggling with addictions. If he can't control himself and have discipline over himself how can she trust him to be the head of their family.

    • @Lovely_Mia087
      @Lovely_Mia087 Год назад +3

      @Nevin Reid You focus too much on rumors and not on facts.. You keep say JHO which sounds like you have a personal hate for a person when you directly choose to call them out their name. Now personally I don't know her so I genuinely don't care I'm a fan of her work not a groupie or one of those people who lose their minds when they're around celebrities. If I did I wouldn't be any good at my job (deal with celebs daily) However I do find it unsettling that you're so wrapped up in the life of another individual that in no way effects the daily outcome of your life. As a person who's studying psychology I want to ask (because I find personal obsession fascinating) Why do you personally attack a person's character who doesn't know you AND why are you so interested in their personal life to the point where you seem to have a lot of aggression and dislike for someone you don't know personally? Btw, not attacking you personally I'm just genuinely curious because I don't understand the obsession with celebrities. I do security of an entertainment company and I never understand why people are so obsessed with them. I've met many and honestly the only difference between us and them is they have a huge bank account to by whatever tf they want. Outside of that they talk and have problems just like me and you so I don't get hating someone who doesn't even know you

    • @birdyjireh6391
      @birdyjireh6391 Год назад +3

      If you want a healthy life style, you don't marry an addict. If you do mary an addict, bossing them around ain't gonna help.

    • @Lovely_Mia087
      @Lovely_Mia087 Год назад +2

      @@birdyjireh6391You're right but unfortunately we can't help who we love and more times then not we believe that because we simply want what's best for them that we can change them. May not even be she's bossing him around it can be simply he doesn't like being told what to do or have things pointed out to him. Those who struggle with addiction rarely take criticism well. They are also very stubborn and resentful. The most you try to correct a behavior the more they dig their heels in and choose not to move. Can't make someone change unless they want to he has stated he's open to change so maybe that is what gives her hope but what a person says and what a person does is two very different things. You can say whatever but if your resisting the change and complaining every step of the way are you really looking to change..

  • @anthonyd507
    @anthonyd507 Год назад +48

    He and Ben just founded a movie studio together. Still best friends.

    • @melissademarco5271
      @melissademarco5271 Год назад +1

      or something more!🤫

    • @merricat3025
      @merricat3025 Год назад +7

      @@melissademarco5271 Matt's not interested in anything more from ben. He's been happily married for years. To a regular person.

    • @markuss4133
      @markuss4133 Год назад

      @@merricat3025 not in to sarcasm I guess

    • @eb4676
      @eb4676 Год назад

      @@melissademarco5271 There are distant cousins if you did not know.

    • @roundtwo3321
      @roundtwo3321 Год назад +1

      @@merricat3025 To a Southie barback?

  • @Domnita8
    @Domnita8 Год назад +28

    Some people never learn from their mistakes ...

  • @lynn2551
    @lynn2551 Год назад +94

    I wish them both happiness, whether they stay together or not.

    • @sheilatravers3307
      @sheilatravers3307 Год назад +4

      They look terrible with each other

    • @holland9199
      @holland9199 Год назад +1

      No such thing as happiness for either she is no Gloria Estefan 🤣 he is happy and married

    • @harryricochet8134
      @harryricochet8134 Год назад

      🎶Oh Ben you are so perfect, so spectacular in every way,
      You bring light into my life Ben,
      You almost make me forget all about tacooooos,
      Oh tacos so good in my tummy, yummy, yummy give me more,
      I love you Ben, you almost make me forget about tacos🎶

    • @lipcolorpink
      @lipcolorpink Год назад +1

      @@sheilatravers3307 yea the vibe that’s ozzing out is so negative and Toxic

  • @bluseastar2
    @bluseastar2 Год назад +21

    Ben is his own worst enemy and is hell bent to destroy himself all on his own.

    • @rahla53
      @rahla53 Год назад

      Unfortunately-

  • @caramontana4948
    @caramontana4948 Год назад +37

    The only person JEN is able to love is herself.

  • @Vamanaswastika
    @Vamanaswastika Год назад +11

    Jlo ran out of options out there being middle aged, rich and wanting to turn back the clock. She did the young guys and baby sitting them, so she decided to reconnect with Benny.

  • @MIKEDIAMONDZ
    @MIKEDIAMONDZ Год назад +9

    JLo is a promoter of lust not love ... Ben is under a dark spell

  • @Lovely_Mia087
    @Lovely_Mia087 Год назад +40

    I said the same thing to a friend. He isn't use to someone telling him clean up after himself, iron your cloths so it doesn't look like you slept in your car for days. Every change I've heard so far is for his betterment as a individual who has a problem with routine and self control. She's really into health, what did he think she was just going to let him get lazy, let his health go down and be okay with him sitting on the couch eating pizza. I'm not getting at him he just needs structure and learn self discipline WHICH COMES from having and developing a healthy lifestyle. She's no Saint but I truly believe that if Ben can get himself in the best shape of his life mentally, emotionally and physically she would let him take the reins in their relationship because she would trust that he can lead their family.. He doesn't realize the power he has over her because he's not in a position to know whats best for himself. You cannot give complete control over to someone who's STILL struggling with addictions. If he can't control himself and have discipline over himself how can she trust that he can lead and be the head of their family. It takes a strong man to lead, you have to be in complete control over yourself and your emotions. He has neither sets of skills BUT doesn't mean he can't learn them with the right discipline and lifestyle.

    • @melissapereira9879
      @melissapereira9879 Год назад +12

      I agree 100% so was it not best for them both to be sensible and say "Ben you sort your issues out first" then in 1 year will decide to get married.
      Anyway i wish them lots of luck.

    • @gabbd.2795
      @gabbd.2795 Год назад +3

      Yeah.. I agree with everything.. the only extra thing I'd say is that he is the one who needs to see the need to make the changes happen.... In life it's really hard to change bad habits and he is not a teenager to change for someone else when he already got a good position even with his terrible lifestyle.... I really wish them the best... Specially to JLo

    • @fallon7616
      @fallon7616 Год назад +3

      Talk about being a complete control freak of your own husband. Nah.
      Should have never been married 👍💯

    • @reneedaniel2881
      @reneedaniel2881 Год назад +6

      Rather than being stuck on
      "Who Leads" a family, try focusing
      on leading TOGETHER 👀
      Men and their man boxes 🙄

    • @dreamingrightnow1174
      @dreamingrightnow1174 Год назад +1

      Why does anybody have to "take the reins"?

  • @kathyolney4083
    @kathyolney4083 2 года назад +17

    Right.. she's gonna make him start drinking again..just like his ex....he needs to put on his big boy pants and take responsibility for his own problems...quit blaming women.

    • @adansanchez3509
      @adansanchez3509 2 года назад +5

      Ben never blamed Garner for anything, can you stop ignoring these filthy fake channels with a demon?! 🤦💢!!!

    • @kelyerose
      @kelyerose 2 года назад +6

      @@adansanchez3509 I have said b4 people that say ben blamed jen g for drinking either didn't see the interview or have severe comprehension issues.

    • @adansanchez3509
      @adansanchez3509 2 года назад +4

      @@kelyerose I know... especially the people who follow these types of channels

    • @adansanchez3509
      @adansanchez3509 2 года назад +3

      AND I REPEAT! the "HOLY" didn't even complain when she said that

  • @CrixusHeart
    @CrixusHeart Год назад +33

    Tears, huh? I guess he understands a bit better all the tears he made Jennifer Garner shed.

  • @mynameonly579
    @mynameonly579 Год назад +14

    He is an addict, that’s a lot to deal with, addiction is a family disease and the person is always sick….sometimes with the inability to feel genuine emotions

    • @kathyshore1004
      @kathyshore1004 Год назад

      She seems very controlling and smothering. It sounds as though her love of the media attention and paparrazi is why they broke up before. Back off Jennifer, and cool your jets. Maybe take a look at hourself, and your demands, and quit acting like such a diva. And maybe think about why none of your relationships last. For a new marriage, your husband looks pretty unhappy.

  • @karids934
    @karids934 2 года назад +23

    Matt was visiting Ben and Jen two days ago on charity event. Maybe before that he was against their love, but now Ben will not listen to anyone, he made his choice that he wanted to make long before

    • @moochie5
      @moochie5 2 года назад +13

      Bennifer just raised millions the other day foe charity event and Matt was there happy of course he's on videos. THESE HATERS ARE PAID TO SPREAD FAKE NEWS..DELETE

    • @karids934
      @karids934 2 года назад +1

      @@moochie5 you are right

  • @rtun9866
    @rtun9866 Год назад +2

    "Trying the same thing over and over and expecting a diffrent result is the definition of stupidity " Albert einstein

  • @beachblond1968
    @beachblond1968 Год назад +34

    Imagine thinking either of them would be some sort of catch.

    • @clareshaughnessy2745
      @clareshaughnessy2745 Год назад

      Oh am I not supposed to think I would sleep with ol’ Ben? Because I’d force myself to, you know, if I had to

  • @Goshawk2317
    @Goshawk2317 Год назад +1

    Lost some respect for Affleck after seeing him on Bill Maher with Sam Harris. He made no salient points and was either not listening or unable to follow the conversation, and at the same time, he was cocky and hot-headed about it!

  • @ondreajwesley
    @ondreajwesley Год назад +36

    Seems like Jennifer’s been taking notes from Jada.

    • @TheReg1da
      @TheReg1da Год назад +2

      Or from Meghan🤣

  • @JVL171
    @JVL171 6 месяцев назад +2

    A-Rod should be happy he didnt married JLo.

  • @heatherramsey4777
    @heatherramsey4777 Год назад +38

    Honestly there are some men who like being the passive spouse of a "strong" woman. My grandfather was like that. My grandmother had all the say and he so casually went along with it. That was their marital style.
    These men don't want the stress as a main decisionmaker in a marriage. Thus, they are laid back and calm in their submissiveness.

    • @soph5669
      @soph5669 Год назад +2

      💯

    • @soph5669
      @soph5669 Год назад +3

      Spot on

    • @dilpickles5928
      @dilpickles5928 Год назад +3

      Yes, and thier wives resent them for it. Wether you want to lead or make decisions as a man is largely irrelevant. That is your obligation. If you shirk that responsibility, the price of having your pride, authority and self respect trampled over is a very high price to pay.

    • @courtneycoley8487
      @courtneycoley8487 Год назад +2

      My husband is this way too. He even wanted me to order his food for him

    • @soph5669
      @soph5669 Год назад +1

      @@courtneycoley8487 same. A special kind of man and I say it’s better than a controlling, demanding, confrontational type of man. They gave grace and that’s a rare trait ♥️

  • @coffeepeachesplans
    @coffeepeachesplans 9 месяцев назад +1

    So Matt blamed the media and they say he's talking about Jenny

  • @marareyes1956
    @marareyes1956 Год назад +7

    Yes, the marriage is "doomed" to fail!
    JLo is calling the shots.
    How can she change Ben Affleck into the "perfect man that he wants him to be"?
    Impossible, yah.
    She is only looking a man to fill the gaps, and to compliment her career,
    IT IS MORE OF A, CAREER MOVE, TO MAKE SURE THAT HER POPULARITY IS SUSTAINED.
    BUT LOVE?
    FOR JLO, IT IS MORE OF A "CAREER MOVE",
    THIS WOMAN IS A MASTER OF THE GAME, KIND OF WOMAN...
    HER WEALTH AND HER BEING A CELEBRITY, IS THE MOST IMPORTANT THING TO HER.......
    SHE DOES NOT KNOW "WHAT LOVE IS"!
    FOR JLO, YOU NEED TO PLAY HER GAME, IF NOT......SHE WILL GET RID OF YOU!
    LOOK AT ALL THESE MEN, WHO WERE HER PAST RELATIONS......THEY ARE SO HAPPY AND RELIEVED.......BEING DONE WITH HER.....
    MEN FOR HER......ARE JUST ORNAMENTS AND DECORATIONS, AND PUPPETS, TOO......

    • @46foryounger
      @46foryounger Год назад

      It’s good that her career is important to her; it’s a stabilizing force in her life. Good for her. Woman shouldn’t drop everything for a man. That’s why her marriage with Marc ended because she put her career on the side and she struggled with her confidence because her one stabilizer and constant was placed aside. If a man loves you, he needs to be confident to allow you to do what you love and that goes both ways but more so for women because once you give up everything for a man he gets bored and thinks he has you and the chase is over. Men need the chase whether they know it or not.

  • @mommygarcia9137
    @mommygarcia9137 Год назад +13

    Jennifer is so hard up to be married than she would take back a guy that broke off their engagement then marry another Jennifer a few months later ! Lopez he dumped you then married another woman ! You are so desperate !

  • @charliekane135
    @charliekane135 Год назад +10

    Lopez must be 95 by now, she's been around forEVER

    • @yvetteseda3911
      @yvetteseda3911 2 месяца назад

      👑 Jlo most beautiful woman in the world 🌎

  • @twozup1098
    @twozup1098 Год назад +1

    This is the worst “journalism” I’ve ever had the misfortune to witness.
    “A fan said” “another fan said”
    And the classic line: “Jennifer threw away his motorbikes” had me in stitches. I’d love to know how to “throw away” heavy machinery like motorbikes.
    Shockingly poor reportage and editing.

  • @MissWeezeyUSA
    @MissWeezeyUSA Год назад +11

    🙄 Ben always looks like a hostage with her ⛓️(obviously she’s a nightmare 😱)

  • @mariejo7408
    @mariejo7408 4 месяца назад +2

    Ben Affleck had a good relationship with Ana de Armas. He went back to jlo that was a big mistake we see. Jeniffer Garner is still a good Friend and Ben is a great Father. I wish him back with Ana de Armas or an other good woman. ❤🎉🎉Don't go back to jlo you deserve better ❤🎉

  • @luckynblessed8696
    @luckynblessed8696 Год назад +27

    I had said this before, and I will say it again. These relationships ain't going to last very long.🤷‍♀

    • @nadiatelounts2680
      @nadiatelounts2680 Год назад

      It’s not Jen’s fault he is s alcoholic.
      Ol

    • @inolvidable.
      @inolvidable. Год назад

      @@nadiatelounts2680 And she is just another narcissist, bun in a different way; that's why, she cannot keep any man. The both have issues, and not made for each other. It will be a disaster.

  • @wendyfrench8042
    @wendyfrench8042 7 месяцев назад +1

    I don’t recognize Matt Damon. What a sad premise of a marriage - a power couple packaged deal

  • @Calmontheoutside
    @Calmontheoutside Год назад +39

    Having things in common with your partner isn’t always a good thing . . .

    • @markuse3472
      @markuse3472 Год назад +2

      Intellectually, it's the best foundation.
      Problems tend to arise, when they do, during the remaining of the building process (friends and family and what and how they think, things the couple never really knew about each other, how to deal with the differences now showing up [which dynamics can be vast] and much more). The obvious commons are substantially important, the commons which were not present during the black and whites but in the then blank spaces are what tear many relationships apart. The common I refer to as most important are the Core ones: spiritual and character first and foremost.

    • @mrfake675
      @mrfake675 Год назад

      And be aware of cluster b so you don't get addicted to chaos

    • @willowtree5267
      @willowtree5267 Год назад

      @@mrfake675 Cluster b?

  • @aliciabrankovic4320
    @aliciabrankovic4320 5 месяцев назад +2

    BEN NEEDS TO SHINE WITH JENEFER LOPEZ OR WITHOUT HER!
    SO HE COULD LOVE❤ HIM SELF AGAIN!
    YOU CAN NOT LIVE FOR SOMEONE ELSE?'S!
    YOU HAVE TO LIVE FOR YOUR SELF FIRST!❤

  • @gumamell
    @gumamell Год назад +7

    Yes Ben looks bored!!!!

  • @angelanicolehenry2301
    @angelanicolehenry2301 Год назад +4

    Ben probably always looks pissed off because he knows the press are always hanging around

  • @catrinahartz944
    @catrinahartz944 6 месяцев назад +1

    Speaks volumes when your best friend is against jlo

  • @LoveandGrace
    @LoveandGrace Год назад +6

    Videos and fake/gossip news like these destroy couples and families. Leave people in peace 🙏🏻Whatever you spread you will reap. Whatever you do to others you do to yourself.

    • @toeareg100
      @toeareg100 Год назад

      Whatever you spread, you will reap. You mean that the hurt JLo has caused married women by sleeping with their husbands will come back to her?

  • @widlyneraymond5679
    @widlyneraymond5679 Год назад +12

    She likes being in control as always. Jennifer always said she doesn’t like being alone.

    • @rr7firefly
      @rr7firefly Год назад

      J-Lo should be placed in a lock-up with wall-to-wall mirrors. A small window to see how the rest of the world is doing without her: perfectly fine.

    • @macarenam2069
      @macarenam2069 Год назад

      She is insecure and pathetic.

    • @maryanncarine2075
      @maryanncarine2075 4 месяца назад

      When you have 2 children-especially under 18, you are never alone !

  • @DanyDants
    @DanyDants Год назад +11

    These ppl are so weak! They want to be happy but they care more about their images, gossips and "friends" who are married living their lifes but has bunch of criticals and rates about their lifes that they take for granted and end up alone full of alcohol!

  • @teresadragstream8648
    @teresadragstream8648 10 месяцев назад +1

    She’s missing selflove. Once you find it, you don’t need their drama anymore.

  • @AnnaBolster-dq7ml
    @AnnaBolster-dq7ml 5 месяцев назад +3

    This didn’t work the first time why would it now

  • @CinnamonCinder
    @CinnamonCinder 5 месяцев назад +1

    How you think, feel and do at 30 is very different than at 50 years old.

  • @maryfirebaugh3069
    @maryfirebaugh3069 Год назад +7

    When the river makes noise, it's carrying water 😬

  • @kellywagner2482
    @kellywagner2482 9 месяцев назад +1

    Pretty sure Ben is responsible for Ben. He’s the epitome of a dry drunk.

  • @skyeblu1722
    @skyeblu1722 Год назад +3

    This is amusing on so many levels…gossip and witch burning! Leave Jen and Ben alone as truly it’s none of anyones business!

  • @estellamcgowen4023
    @estellamcgowen4023 4 месяца назад +1

    Theres no relationship with an addict his first love will always be the poison he puts in his body addiction destroys relationship and anything in its path.

  • @esthermariarobles9171
    @esthermariarobles9171 Год назад +8

    If he's soo concerned about his friend, tell him to get therapy and MEDICATION !!!

    • @deew7014
      @deew7014 Год назад +1

      Probably has but honestly , Ben has to actually want the help or it doesn’t work

  • @DH-kl5rx
    @DH-kl5rx 5 месяцев назад +1

    I am no fan of JLO but the alleged downfall of Affleck had nothing to do with JLO. We all watched his sloppy personal life and issues during and following his marriage to Jennifer Garner. Garner seemed stable while he was erratic and miserable and following his divorce entered to numerous brief and failed relationships with a variety of women. As for JLO, anyone entering into a relationship with her should know what it is your entering into with her. And her cancellation is coming via the very same people who were once her fans and skyrocketed her fame. Fickle and erratic fans are quite another issue.

  • @TG-fq6vy
    @TG-fq6vy Год назад +5

    He will never do better than Jennifer Garner. He blew it.

  • @clairebear1808
    @clairebear1808 7 месяцев назад +1

    Yea she’s petty too bad . Who saw this coming?🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @danisho730
    @danisho730 Год назад +4

    All these MEN, that have come and go in her life..... Is it them or is it her 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @conishkee
    @conishkee 8 месяцев назад +1

    Controlling, domineering, jealous and severely outspoken -- and that's the way she was with Mark (and others) too! I feel for Ben. People like Jennifer have a hard time changing the way they are, and she's too old to do so at this point. She LOVES to wear the pants in all her relationships, but it gets old after a while before the guy says I can't take it anymore!

  • @Accomandoc
    @Accomandoc Год назад +13

    Jennifer is insane

  • @dabzprincess92
    @dabzprincess92 Год назад +4

    I don't know what the hell Ben was thinking but he did Jennifer Garner so wrong on this... And worse he failed his kids

  • @XanderShiller
    @XanderShiller Год назад +14

    "And the winner of this year's Oscar for best slap goes to - Ben Affleck!"

  • @indrabisram6367
    @indrabisram6367 Год назад +4

    This is slander as Matt Damon never said what you are claiming. This is an example of the disease in this world today. Get a life and make the world a better place.

  • @tailrj
    @tailrj Год назад +37

    Yes, Matt helped split them the first time

    • @SamanthaSweetAnne
      @SamanthaSweetAnne Год назад +5

      Yup he's always been one of those guys that is a watcher, waiter, hater.

  • @RuthMorales-jm5nh
    @RuthMorales-jm5nh 5 месяцев назад +1

    I'm not famous and rich, but I certainly would never marry a man that smokes and has drinking problems. he has unresolved issues and JLo is very needy and seamlessly moves from one relationship to the next without taking a breather for herself with her twins. She has this energy like she's his mother. YUCK!!!

  • @ClaudeS39
    @ClaudeS39 Год назад +5

    The prettier on the outside the more rotten on the inside. I don’t know why she hops from bed to bed! She needs to chill and focus on being a mom!

    • @laurenmay2098
      @laurenmay2098 Год назад +1

      She probably suffers from borderline and anxiety. Can’t stay alone, feel rejected and in need of company of a man. This is a very bad condition. Hope she find help with a good therapist.

    • @mariecohen3052
      @mariecohen3052 Год назад +1

      @@laurenmay2098 therapy for both and just saying “nothing last forever”

    • @laurenmay2098
      @laurenmay2098 Год назад +1

      @@mariecohen3052 oh gosh, he is an recovered alcoholic, if he is not in therapy, he is in more trouble than her. Because she gets married and divorces, but he play dirty games and it is shameful, more for him than for her. His first marriage wasn’t supposed to end if he kept himself in therapy.

    • @mariecohen3052
      @mariecohen3052 Год назад +1

      @@laurenmay2098 yes He should be in therapy and stay in it OR he is gonna be a very heavy task for her to keep lifting him
      Up

  • @rgrateful
    @rgrateful 5 месяцев назад +1

    Ben was never fake about Jlo, 1 year later and I so knew it was all full of problems. Jlo withered Ben. Ben looks EXHAUSTED BY JLO THE JEZEZBEL.

  • @ArtByHazel
    @ArtByHazel Год назад +29

    Let’s wish them all the best the second time around. ❤

  • @aliciabrankovic4320
    @aliciabrankovic4320 5 месяцев назад +1

    Ben AFLEX Needs To SHINE Again!

  • @joerogan5462
    @joerogan5462 Год назад +8

    It's not that Ben is upset at JLo. He is upset at the cage he is in with the paparazzi following every move they make. When he left JLO in 04 suddenly the paps left him alone and he went back to breathing in peace. Now he is back with her because he loves her and is back in that media chokehold. That's all. She feels that pressure too. But, women are usually better at hiding their emotions as a celebrity.

  • @CynthiaMullinax
    @CynthiaMullinax Год назад +1

    That relationship won't last.

  • @tamarajacksonpeanut5256
    @tamarajacksonpeanut5256 2 года назад +10

    Matt Damon had somethimg to say about Bens ex wife too .Y is he so concerned about Bens relationships...

    • @adansanchez3509
      @adansanchez3509 2 года назад +8

      He's his best friend for life, he is for a reason 😑. Furthermore, Garner kept Ben away from Matt for years just like Kevin Smith

    • @46foryounger
      @46foryounger Год назад +1

      He’s possessive and jealous

  • @missdeon4907
    @missdeon4907 Год назад +2

    Jennifer and Ben are both TOXIC

  • @KittyLabelle
    @KittyLabelle Год назад +19

    She's so vain, it's nauseating. He needs to go back to his wife,
    who loves him unconditionally. The only person JLo loves that
    much is herself.

    • @adansanchez3509
      @adansanchez3509 Год назад +2

      NO!

    • @naomilopez7802
      @naomilopez7802 Год назад +5

      Do you remember he had an affair with the Nanny while he married to his wife you say he Loved Unconditionally and blamed her for his drinking ?

    • @adansanchez3509
      @adansanchez3509 Год назад +1

      @Nevin Reid No naomi lopez

    • @adansanchez3509
      @adansanchez3509 Год назад +1

      @Nevin Reid Without proof, I don't believe anything that I was pregnant

    • @adansanchez3509
      @adansanchez3509 Год назад +1

      @Nevin Reid 🙄

  • @childofgod067
    @childofgod067 Год назад +1

    I liked Jennifer Lopez in the past but the last few months, I saw several video's of them where she's acting like she's his mother. At one party, she's picking up his glass and took a sip just to check if there's no alcohol in it, how embarrasing!
    At the Grammy's he told her something? (Probably that he didn't liked it there) and she responded annoyed to him to be friendly and to act motivated while the cameraman filmed them. When she noticed that she was caught on camera her whole face said 'guilty' and then she Acted very nice 🙈.
    Jennifer is always dragging him to parties he clearly doesn't want to be. They both need to fix themselves before jumping in a new relationship/ marriage.

  • @thierrymarcellus9082
    @thierrymarcellus9082 5 месяцев назад +4

    People don’t realize that Ben sees her 99% of the time WITHOUT makeup (physically and psychologically)

  • @louisejohnson6057
    @louisejohnson6057 Год назад +2

    What a ridiculous story. It should say "How the media destroyed...", but that's not as saleable as blaming Ms Lopez. Those who put stories like this together are pathetic.

  • @PKP1
    @PKP1 Год назад +12

    Jenny went all the way round the block.

    • @toeareg100
      @toeareg100 Год назад +2

      She has been around the block more often than the women from the streets.

    • @charliekane135
      @charliekane135 Год назад

      and then some 😆

    • @yvetteseda3911
      @yvetteseda3911 2 месяца назад +1

      👑 Jlo

    • @yvetteseda3911
      @yvetteseda3911 2 месяца назад +1

      @@toeareg100Jealous of a 👑 a Queen , get out , sit down

    • @yvetteseda3911
      @yvetteseda3911 2 месяца назад +1

      Sit down, jealous , 👑 Jlo

  • @2034916
    @2034916 5 месяцев назад +1

    I feel sorry for the kids. They bond with the children of whoever their parent become involved and/or married and when the parental relationship breaks up, the kids lose out.
    What happens with the kids and their new friendships? Through no fault of their own, they’re ripped apart from the friendships they’ve been establishing.
    Ben knew she loved the limelight and being the star.

  • @miggs80
    @miggs80 Год назад +3

    It won’t last. They’ll divorce and within a month she’ll be engaged to another new boyfriend and he’ll already be in her children’s lives unfortunately. Rinse and repeat.

  • @dirkcooney7920
    @dirkcooney7920 Год назад +1

    I see jenifer lopez as a sociopath. she's bad news and Ben is addicted and seems trapped. Grow a pair Ben and walk away. She wants Control and Money.

  • @sylviabrown1112
    @sylviabrown1112 Год назад +7

    So many marriages fail. One big reason for that is one person is trying to change the other to make themselves happy.