So true my brother hits me and calls me names and is always so rude to me and my mom basically all the girls in my family but he’s been really nice to me until, I grew up he started being rough so I stopped hanging out with him but as a young girl I didn’t know what abuse was until all the comments on an other vid
My dad was an abuser but he ended up dieing in jail then my mom tried to sell me for drugs and then I got adopted and those parents were abusing me every day so my adoption got over turned and now I’m about to be adopted again by someone who really loves me and someone who I really love
Ahhh that's fantastic, I'm really happy that your now happy! Remember, always pity the abusers and never yourself because you are brilliant and nothing less. Your a survivor! I wish you the absolute best for your future x
Damn girl I'm sorry you had to go through all that and happy to hear all is good. Everyone deserves good parents and good parents don't have to be blood. Good luck and be happy. If you keep a strong mind you can overcome anything and keep it from taking you down a dark path.
That means u urself are strong enough to protect urself not in every situation people are there for u!!just learn to stand for ur ownself dont depend on others Fight for urself
@@SAMI_ZAYN_FANPAGE excuse you? you don’t have nearly enough information to make that judgement. i’m a *minor.* YOU watch your words before speaking to me like that. i was a little child when the abuse happened to me and it’s none of your business so keep your opinions to yourself.
THAT was my Daughters Ex. HE DIDN'T let the Kid's STOP him from beating her either - If THEY got in the way, THEY got it Too! Tg SHE FINALLY got rid of him, after a Struggle. At LEAST POPS had the Decency to put his Head in His hands in SHAME!!! My daughters EX Didn't, Just turned it around and acted like Nothing happened. Even abused her when she was going through Cancer. Just HOPE she picks a Better Guy next Time!
This was my mother. She was a huge abuser. My dad is going through a super complicated divorce and my mom wrongly accused my dad of abusing me and my siblings. We all had to go to a foster home because of it. Thankfully my dad fought for us and we are back home 😀
Good to hear ❤️ Honestly, I think men should stop being portrayed as the only potential abusers, as it diverts the attention from women who do, too. But I’m glad you’re good!
Well it wouldn’t happen so often if children would open their mouths and not let their parents basically fool them into choosing side and lying and stuff.
@@AndrewKidd14145 oh no no no, if children open their mouths.. ANYTHING CAN HAPPEN, they can get themselves taken into foster. You do know, if kids do speak up, it can create problems for the parents and themselves aswell.
Hopefully someone who needs to see this message will learn from it. You as a family are wonderful. You make us laugh and then you make us stop.and think. Thank you for everything you do. ❤
My father abused my mother HORRIBLY in every way you can think of and some you can't imagine. Of the four sons and three daughters in our family, none of us grew up to abuse others in any way (thank God), because we will forever remember the suffering of our precious Mama.
@@barty38ify i mean imagine living with someone like that, and you do everything to please them, you take care of them, do their laundry, cook food for them, etc. But it's never enough for them so they keep treating you like shit no matter what you do. You're not even getting paid to do things for them or deal with their shit, but you do it anyway and they're always aggressive towards you. Imagine living in fear every day thinking that this person could hurt you anytime. it would all feel like mental torture when dealing with this every single day. Idk about you, but to me it looks like that this could possibly be a factor of mental abuse.
@@greg2601 there's no lesson here. This won't change wife beaters anywhere. You think the guy is going to magically apologize to his family for being an asshole to them? I don't think so. People know that, and most aren't like the wife beater s out there, and stuff like this is taken seriously. Why not talk about how divorced women take advantage of the bias family court to to get all the money his ex husband makes to go on vacations, to pay for massages, spa and other unnecessary stuff while staying at the house that her ex is paying. But no, let's all talk keep on talking about wife beaters for the millionth fucking time so that, you know, didn't get the memo.
@@ResolvedMC it might not change any abuser. But it raises awareness for the people around the ones being abused. A lot of people Don’t see the signs, while the people that surround someone That’s being abused usually are the ones that help them get out. Why do you think abusers try to cut contacts?
@@leya2215 so why keep beating over the head? Most people are aware of that, they don't need to a daily reminder of that. If anything, people should be aware how biased the family court is towards women. How many divorced men have to keep paying absurds amounts of money to a woman so that she can go out and have fun, while the men lose the house and custody of their kids. And if you care about victims of abuse, then you should consider how much kids are abused by their single moms.
My dad looks tough but is a teddy bear, we ended up adopting my friend who was disowned form an abusive family, she was taken advantage of by her cousin and she was also beat by her dad etc. she is so scared of even hugging my dad because of these things unless I’m there. No one should go through this. My friend helped me right this and is thankful that you are spreading awareness!!
@@rue2599 God bless you and your family love. I pray that you don't have to be in that environment anymore and I pray for blessings and coverings over you and your family. I pray that Jesus comes in and heals your broken heart from that. In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, Amen! 😘😘😘😘
I have been in a cycle of abuse for all 16 years of my life. When I was 8, my father beat my mom to death. I got upset and hit my father with a bat and he started hitting me constantly with his belt and I kept bleeding until u was knocked out unconscious. By the time I woke up, my father had killed my sister and was in jail. I had a similar instance with my second family but it wasn’t a severe. My second family cyber bullied me offline and ending up leaving me multiple times when they went on vacation. I am now living with my 2nd cousin’s family who really love me, I am so grateful to have a loving family🥰
God bless you! also no one should have to go through that😭 I hear about that stuff and it makes me cry and hope that people who get abused end up living a happy life and the people who abused then end up in jail where they belong for hurting people that were just trying to do what they thought was right or doing nothing bad
Omg really that JUST LIKE GACHA LOGIC. thats HORRIBLE! really why did your father do that😭😭😭Thats the most sad thing i've never heard! (first time hearing something like this! 😟😟
My father was a dedicated family man, an educator, a protector, a counselor, a hero to our mom and his 2 children. I know nothing else but this. I pray that ppl can get a chance to experience this type of love and support. Abuse is wrong.
@@vickiedavidson1230 absolutely! I thank God for blessing me and my sister. To me honest, all the men in out family including our uncle's are role models. My uncles have adopted several children and they now are fathers themselves. They are paying it forward. Domestic violence of any kind is wrong.
I-am 27 year old guy ended up leaving India and living in Canada due to abusive friends, family.here’s my story my parents are very strict, especially my father who used to beat me crazy and embarrass me in front of people for my small mistakes . For some reason I don’t know I always used to be target for bullies in my class. They all used to beat, harass ,treat me real bad but I never confronted them because if I do they would me beat me real bad (always 1 v 5,6)I never used to tell my parents about my problems because I was afraid that I would get beating. My father used to run a small restaurant whenever I am off my school he used to make me work in the restaurant. The workers who used to work in the restaurant also started bullying me and my father would never say anything to them and they took advantage of it. My father would never allowed me go to play with friends he always wanted me to work in the restaurant.One day when I was 16 year old my father beat me like real bad I was crying all day and was thinking about my life why am I target ?? for everybody and I came to a conclusion that I was born I like this and I will be like this from then on started staying from friend, cousins, everybody. From that day I never made friends and never spoke with my old friends. I stopped going to family events, used to enjoy my self company. I liked girls in my class but never spoke with them because I was afraid that if my father get to know any relationship i am dead.I only used to go to church and pray to god that please change my life and make me achieve great things in life.all these years my self esteem ,confidence was really low and I never believed in my self I only thought that Iam fit for nothing. After finishing under graduation I was so afraid and scared to apply for jobs because that feeling of iam fit for nothing was deeply rooted in my brain even though I used to get 70 percent on my studies I was afraid people would say something. One day when I was 22 (just finished under graduation)he gain beat me real bad in front of my relative I was depressed and thought I should leave the house so, I packed my stuff and went to Mumbai that was on 2016. The only thing that I was worried leaving home was about my mom I knew she would be in anguish. I was roaming streets in Mumbai. Spent one night in a hotel my sisters kept on calling, texting me all this time but I didn’t reply or answer them. That next day morning they texted me that mom was really worried about me and didn’t have food ever since I left the house so, I returned that evening to home. My mom spoke with a uncle and she requested them to let me stay in their house for 4 months.i was thinking all the time when I was at uncles home to stay away from my world and go to other country and start new life and do any job to live if even there they said i am fit for nothing I could easily change jobs because I don’t really care any job as long as they pay me. I can’t do that in India because people would judge you and embarrass you for the type of work you do.So here I am in Canada came on a student visa somehow managed to finish two years and got work permit. I work as security guard and I am very happy that my supervisor never said anything wrong about mr and I am always careful about my duties but I have still the fear of I am fit for nothing in my brain. I am still scared to apply for good jobs because i might do wrong and have to face embarrassment even I have the caliber to do it. There is always struggle in myself.I hope someday I will get the courage to change my brain and get self confidence. Edit : thank you every one who strengthened me with your words. This would really help me to build my self.
You sound like a great guy and I wish you the best. I think you should leave the ‘I’m fit for nothing’ mentality in India. You don’t deserve to feel that way! Your going to find people that love you for who you are and any one else can get lost
@@sebastienpasnin9826 you thought that was the right comment to reply Have some shame Can't someone share their experience? Remember RUclips was not to watch but also share Just say ur too lazy to read man Even if ur not having a heart then just stfu and go away
You should never abuse anyone even if you have to! It’s a sin! And it will not do you good in your life! So please do not abuse people, they may act like they don’t care on the outside but on the inside it really hurts!! That is an amazing family, finally realizing what the dad is doing and in the end when they all covered her up, it proves they care for her!!!
I'm glad I had a disciplinarian as a father. Never abusive, but when I crossed that line, an ass whopping, and a lecture came fast. Some people say that is abuse, but that man took care of me everyday, taught me valuable skills, and is a role model to me and my siblings.
@@19bendunk the mental toll is the main tag line of abuse so if in the child’s mind it is just a punishment it won’t usually affect them mentally, but as a child it’s hard to speak up so it is a risky line just because every child sees things differently and may not say anything or realize what they are feeling. So it can stray into the area of mental damage and a warped view of their parent as they can become scared of them and then most experiences have that base of fear built in, so it does have to be balanced between loving in a way that a child can see and discipline.(most of the time when they’re older they will see that it is from a place of love I know I did, but I don’t see much of a reason to not discipline when needs be and love them the rest of the time it helps them to keep that loving relationship in mind.)
These kids together can easily kick this dad's ass if he ever tries to be abusive towards their mom. Edit : to those who r telling me that this isn't real, this family isn't like that... Etc. I know.. they r acting. But they r portraying based on the real life issues.. maybe this is not happening in ur family.. but there are ppl who r facing these kinds of issues. Those victims should stand against such acts either by filing a complaint or defend themselves using violence if need be. And about this family, we r only witnessing what's shown on the youtube not what's going on in their real lives.
@@eisaalhammadi5368 what do you mean no law says you can't hit a family member in defense of others it is the same rules as if you were protecting somone on the street
Remember a real man never dominates and abuses his power over women, He should be grateful that he has a woman that can understand and let him express what he feels that no man can ever have.
I almost had to come to blows with my old man this morning, he threw a frying pan at my head for defending my sister then said "Next time it'll be your head." Family doesn't do that, we stand up for each other and defend one another, as well as support each other through thick and thin.
@@sckmindfrud it's not low effort or anything bad these people are trying to help raise awareness and show others that it's not okay and that you need to take action if this is happening to you.
This is my father. Finally, all of his children left him. During his old ages, he never experienced how other fathers like. Having family gathering.. surrounded by his children & grandchildren. At his final moment, none of his children was at his side except his wife. (our stepmother).
@@vickiedavidson1230 Yeah...that is how it is. That's why I always try to be the best for my children. I am their mom..sister & friend. I don't want them to go through like what I went through.
Farther: *tries to hit wife * Rest of family: *group hug mother * Farther: *puts hands on face * "im so disappointed with these kinds trying to act like women aren't property
My dad disowned my big brother who is 19 after protecting me so my dad could not give me a black eye, now my brother had custody of me and my other brother Edit: I know people find edits annoying but I just wanted to say thank you to all of the kind, caring people in my comments ❤️ you guys are so very sweet and I hope you all have an amazing day, stay sweet ☺️❤️
The holy prophet Muhammad Peace be upon him said "Never abuse ur wife mentally or physically " He said "if u have a daughter and son and if u treat them equal U will go to jannah " He in his deadbed Requested his followers for 2 things 1.perform 5 daily prayers 2.always respect women He said "fear God in regards to deal with women " And still he is called a women abuser Bruh Proud to be a muslim Proud to be a follower of him
The idiots who don’t understand Islam or are easily intimidated by it are the ones who are quick to insult it. Only the educated ones know that our beloved Prophet was the image of strength, nobility and a real man ❤️
Thats because he married and slept with a 9 year old, struck his wife at least once, and wrote the book that allows terrorists, bigots, and sexists to be...well...terrorists, bigots, and sexists. Yeah, Islam is great if you're a guy. I'm sure its easy for you to praise Allah, after all, you don't have to wonder if you're allowed can drive a car in any Islamic country. You don't have to cover your hair for your entire life. You don't have to cover every inch of your skin. You don't need a male escourt to go out in public. And if you go out in public alone and get raped, it isn't your fault. Tell me, how does Islam deal with a gay man? How about a woman who doesn't want to marry the man her dad picked? How about a woman who admits she's not a virgin before the wedding? Islam is the sexist, abusive father of religions.
...and that's why I like the father of this family. I never saw him being abusive towards any familymember. So nice to see him being a good father and husband.
Yes,i am girl and i watched my dad abuse my mother with only 4 years of my life,i cryed every time,now im 14 years old and im waiting for perfect age to get him back,thank God they are divorced and my mother found very nice husband that isnt abusive to me or her ❤
I grew up with abusive parents, using fear and threats to control. They also took pleasure in my pain in order to make themselves feel powerful. I still am in therapy today to deal with all their mental manipulations and their aggressive volatile explosions during my youth. My body keeps the score.
I'm sorry that you had to endure this awful and cruel treatment. Some people should not be allowed to have children. I'm glad to see that you're seeking help to heal from the abuse and neglect from your parents. Sending a big hug.
As a child who grew up with an abusive father, I can confirm that any boy who grew up in such environment could turn up to be the same, like my grandfather (R.I.P Grandpa, despite what you did you were such a great man) who abused my late grandmother to the point that it had caused her to get really sick and unfortunately, die. And my grandmother told my mother that she'll just end up like her with an abusive husband and my mom didn't seem to get it until she ended up the same, yesterday my dad broke her arm and she we could only just listen to their loud 'discussion' with my sister crying beside me.. "Violence is never the answer, until it's the only answer. Victory attained by violence is tantamount to a defeat, for it is momentary." - MARTIN LUTHER KING, JR. I don't encourage kids to stand up for their abused parent like I did with my mother because it always makes things worse and instead talk to their parents against it, it might be hard but it's not impossible.
You must be CRAZY! IF YOU LOVE YOUR PARENTS YOU STICK UP FOR THEM NO MATTER WHAT!! I'm gonna go down fighting if a man EVER put his hands on my mom....EVER!!
It's a struggle to come back up after being with an abusive man. Nine years I never thought he would be the way he was. I get scared to be in a new relationship. Scared it may happen again. My kids don't need that in their life.
Been going through it for 22 years..can testify. Product of it of both parents. Don't fool with them. When you get free of them, lock your access from them. You deserve the BEST!
@@FreespiritedqueenI've been happily single for three years both myself and my kids are doing great without the ex. I've met a wonderful friend who loves my kids and me and enjoys everything we do together as friends.
Can I just say that the part where all the bothers protected their mother was the most beautiful thing I’ve ever seen about a family who cares for each other ✊🏾😭❤️
I agree that was the most beautiful part, I got a little teary, 5 boys must have been a handful to raise. I feel sorry for anyone who would really try mom, I have a feeling those boys would be more then protective 🥰
My 14 years old save my life.... his father hit me so bed left me unconscious in the floor, my son pull me out the house and ask for help, while his father was looking for his gun, my poor son , I feel so guilty , that he has to go through that trauma, thank God we are now free and save.... ..... abuse will take you at the end with permanent injuries physically and psychological or dead.....
I understand your story my father made me an alcoholic in a drug user and then he came crying back to me asking me for forgiveness but I didn't give him the satisfaction of hurting me again
@John Jones It was the son's choice wasn't it? Risking your life for another's I dare say not many people would do that. I'm sorry if you can't understand that the son did a wonderful thing.
@John Jones what 😳 a terrible thing to say. You blame the mother who is being abused instead of the bastard dad that was doing the abusing. It's obvious that you have never been in this hell of a relationship. To say the mother almost got the son killed is very warped thinking. Shame on you!!!!
That is why we love this family. It is not only fun and silly things..it conveys moral values some have definitely forgotten or not even know.
I love you guys !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
No its cringe and dumb
i don't want to be a hater but I have to agree with Eadwin in this case
@@giuseppemartin9135 how?
@@FullWreck how?
Mother: gives paper
Dad: and I took that personally
Gsgsggs😭I feel like a bad person laughing at this
🤣🤣 right like why
@@maatmelanin1159 its fake
@@teamebrhane7222 i know it’s fake it’s just silly
@@maatmelanin1159 ok good🖒
Violence is horrible and not acceptable! Let’s be more aware!
I couldn’t agree more
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You guys are right
Agreed and keep up the great work 🔥👍
So true father should be a role model to there children I agree with you 💯
I almost cried at the end 😭😭
Mothers gave us their love we also need to give them our love 😢
"He may not have been the world's greatest dad, but maybe we weren't the world's greatest kids."
- Young Sheldon
So true my brother hits me and calls me names and is always so rude to me and my mom basically all the girls in my family but he’s been really nice to me until, I grew up he started being rough so I stopped hanging out with him but as a young girl I didn’t know what abuse was until all the comments on an other vid
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My dad was an abuser but he ended up dieing in jail then my mom tried to sell me for drugs and then I got adopted and those parents were abusing me every day so my adoption got over turned and now I’m about to be adopted again by someone who really loves me and someone who I really love
Ahhh that's fantastic, I'm really happy that your now happy! Remember, always pity the abusers and never yourself because you are brilliant and nothing less. Your a survivor! I wish you the absolute best for your future x
Wooooow I’m sorry that happened to you 🥺🥺🥺 always be strong
Always be brave
Don’t let anything stop you
@@kelhudson5423 thank you so much you don’t know how much this means to me you are such an amazing person
@@imonthenextlevel1364 thank you so much it means a lot to me that you care
Damn girl I'm sorry you had to go through all that and happy to hear all is good. Everyone deserves good parents and good parents don't have to be blood. Good luck and be happy. If you keep a strong mind you can overcome anything and keep it from taking you down a dark path.
As someone who’s been abused and no one stood up for me, I cried when the boys protected their mother.
That means u urself are strong enough to protect urself
not in every situation people are there for u!!just learn to stand for ur ownself dont depend on others
Fight for urself
If i was there i will protect you
@@Chocolatexoxo Lol thanks, but people who've said that just ended up standing and watching.
@@Tennn-vu4fn you could have save yourself its your own fault that you dont stand up for yourself so watch your words before speaking
@@SAMI_ZAYN_FANPAGE excuse you? you don’t have nearly enough information to make that judgement. i’m a *minor.* YOU watch your words before speaking to me like that. i was a little child when the abuse happened to me and it’s none of your business so keep your opinions to yourself.
Congratulations for portraying another message that domestic abuse not being acceptable 👏
THAT was my Daughters Ex. HE DIDN'T let the Kid's STOP him from beating her either - If THEY got in the way, THEY got it Too! Tg SHE FINALLY got rid of him, after a Struggle. At LEAST POPS had the Decency to put his Head in His hands in SHAME!!! My daughters EX Didn't, Just turned it around and acted like Nothing happened. Even abused her when she was going through Cancer. Just HOPE she picks a Better Guy next Time!
This was my mother. She was a huge abuser. My dad is going through a super complicated divorce and my mom wrongly accused my dad of abusing me and my siblings. We all had to go to a foster home because of it. Thankfully my dad fought for us and we are back home 😀
Good to hear ❤️ Honestly, I think men should stop being portrayed as the only potential abusers, as it diverts the attention from women who do, too. But I’m glad you’re good!
Well it wouldn’t happen so often if children would open their mouths and not let their parents basically fool them into choosing side and lying and stuff.
I’m glad you are with your dad, and I’m so sorry about that. I hope everything is going well.
Yikes.. I'm really sorry for what happened to you, hope your happy now!! 😁❤
@@AndrewKidd14145 oh no no no, if children open their mouths.. ANYTHING CAN HAPPEN, they can get themselves taken into foster. You do know, if kids do speak up, it can create problems for the parents and themselves aswell.
A Father needs to be the pillar of strength that everyone can rely on, not a tyrant everyone fears. 💪
Wow..very well said
Yup
Dad..i wish u saw this😔
@@devikrishna9962 I understand. I am still going through it😞
Agree 💯
Hopefully someone who needs to see this message will learn from it. You as a family are wonderful. You make us laugh and then you make us stop.and think. Thank you for everything you do. ❤
Team kick abuse father out
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“Acting was invented in 1806”
Acting in 1805:
😂LMAO
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Funny but still the video is still trying to teach some people that abuse is wrong
Just appreciate the message and stfu 💀
I’m just saying these words in saying are coming from a 10 year old
This is true💔...
But just a reminder, anyone, including women, can abuse💔
Ahhhh 😢er😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
Exactly a father should be a role model
My father abused my mother HORRIBLY in every way you can think of and some you can't imagine. Of the four sons and three daughters in our family, none of us grew up to abuse others in any way (thank God), because we will forever remember the suffering of our precious Mama.
I am so sorry i hope you have a great life i am sorry about ur mother
Im so sorry about ur mom and I hope she is having a better life 🤞😭😔
Im sorry. I hope all seven of you lead a great and happy family
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@@rissoldecarne5360 yasss
If the word “cringe” was in physical form.
Family is literal aids
@@voltron42o
Cmon that's a bit too far fetched... It's okay you don't like their content but calling someone aids? That's not done man
Its cringe but that maximillianmus shit is so much more cringe
Yes
So someone telling sending a very good message and you're saying its cringe? Wowwwww
aww the way the boys protected their mom from the dad was soo cute ❤❤❤
A husband or brother should never hit a girl
Ah yes, the abusive father who randomly un-does laundry and starves himself for no reason.
Lol
He's complaining about the food
Lol
His just like my big sis son his so pike about food
@@barty38ify i mean imagine living with someone like that, and you do everything to please them, you take care of them, do their laundry, cook food for them, etc. But it's never enough for them so they keep treating you like shit no matter what you do. You're not even getting paid to do things for them or deal with their shit, but you do it anyway and they're always aggressive towards you. Imagine living in fear every day thinking that this person could hurt you anytime. it would all feel like mental torture when dealing with this every single day. Idk about you, but to me it looks like that this could possibly be a factor of mental abuse.
Meanwhile people actually dealing with this suffering
These people : $$$
it may not be happening to them but they tryna teach you a lesson damn
@@greg2601 there's no lesson here. This won't change wife beaters anywhere. You think the guy is going to magically apologize to his family for being an asshole to them? I don't think so. People know that, and most aren't like the wife beater s out there, and stuff like this is taken seriously. Why not talk about how divorced women take advantage of the bias family court to to get all the money his ex husband makes to go on vacations, to pay for massages, spa and other unnecessary stuff while staying at the house that her ex is paying. But no, let's all talk keep on talking about wife beaters for the millionth fucking time so that, you know, didn't get the memo.
@@ResolvedMC it might not change any abuser. But it raises awareness for the people around the ones being abused. A lot of people Don’t see the signs, while the people that surround someone That’s being abused usually are the ones that help them get out. Why do you think abusers try to cut contacts?
@@leya2215 so why keep beating over the head? Most people are aware of that, they don't need to a daily reminder of that. If anything, people should be aware how biased the family court is towards women. How many divorced men have to keep paying absurds amounts of money to a woman so that she can go out and have fun, while the men lose the house and custody of their kids. And if you care about victims of abuse, then you should consider how much kids are abused by their single moms.
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Im happy the sons protected their mum because the dad was horrible and the mum deserves better
My dad looks tough but is a teddy bear, we ended up adopting my friend who was disowned form an abusive family, she was taken advantage of by her cousin and she was also beat by her dad etc. she is so scared of even hugging my dad because of these things unless I’m there. No one should go through this. My friend helped me right this and is thankful that you are spreading awareness!!
You're an awesome friend for protecting your friend from her nasty parents and your parents deserve a medal. Wish you all the best
Thank you so much!
@@Shadow-ty9oz write not right
@@sauceyboi9831 You had to say it -_-
This is like my family but my dad threatens all the girls in the house he threatens me and my sister sometimes my mother
The way they all protected her is beautiful ❤️❤️
When I was six, my toddler and preteen sisters and I defended our mother against our father that way.
@@rue2599 God bless you and your family love. I pray that you don't have to be in that environment anymore and I pray for blessings and coverings over you and your family. I pray that Jesus comes in and heals your broken heart from that. In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, Amen!
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@@lexis2660 Amen!
@@rue2599 🥰💖💞💓
They honestly could gang up on him and beat him up
Pops is a great role model and he would never be an abuser. Thank you Pops for putting the word out that it is not OK. We love you.
That is why you should have a great family that loves so that if a situation like that happens you have people there to help you
I have been in a cycle of abuse for all 16 years of my life. When I was 8, my father beat my mom to death. I got upset and hit my father with a bat and he started hitting me constantly with his belt and I kept bleeding until u was knocked out unconscious. By the time I woke up, my father had killed my sister and was in jail. I had a similar instance with my second family but it wasn’t a severe. My second family cyber bullied me offline and ending up leaving me multiple times when they went on vacation. I am now living with my 2nd cousin’s family who really love me, I am so grateful to have a loving family🥰
You deserve the best I hope u live the best life
If feel so bad for you God Bless you and I hope you have a great life
God bless you! also no one should have to go through that😭 I hear about that stuff and it makes me cry and hope that people who get abused end up living a happy life and the people who abused then end up in jail where they belong for hurting people that were just trying to do what they thought was right or doing nothing bad
No one should have to go through something like that!! I’m so happy that ur happy now and I’m sorry for u losses and i wish u all the best.
Omg really that JUST LIKE GACHA LOGIC. thats HORRIBLE! really why did your father do that😭😭😭Thats the most sad thing i've never heard! (first time hearing something like this! 😟😟
My father was a dedicated family man, an educator, a protector, a counselor, a hero to our mom and his 2 children. I know nothing else but this. I pray that ppl can get a chance to experience this type of love and support. Abuse is wrong.
❤
@@vickiedavidson1230 absolutely! I thank God for blessing me and my sister. To me honest, all the men in out family including our uncle's are role models. My uncles have adopted several children and they now are fathers themselves. They are paying it forward. Domestic violence of any kind is wrong.
Davidson promise 🤗
@@chrissychris1360
The end almost made me 😭😭😭😭😭😭😢😢😢😢😢😢
Like if you love your mother
Agreed no father should be abusive father need to be a role model for thier kids 💯💯💯
IM SORRY BUT THE END BIT I CANT STOP LAUGHING I CANT
It’s a blessing to have a good dad but a blessing not many get…
You sure about that? I see many happy kids spending their time with their father
@@samuelhenryguzman-santamar5258 not all father's r good.. They may act to be good in public but r abusers in private
I-am 27 year old guy ended up leaving India and living in Canada due to abusive friends, family.here’s my story my parents are very strict, especially my father who used to beat me crazy and embarrass me in front of people for my small mistakes . For some reason I don’t know I always used to be target for bullies in my class. They all used to beat, harass ,treat me real bad but I never confronted them because if I do they would me beat me real bad (always 1 v 5,6)I never used to tell my parents about my problems because I was afraid that I would get beating. My father used to run a small restaurant whenever I am off my school he used to make me work in the restaurant. The workers who used to work in the restaurant also started bullying me and my father would never say anything to them and they took advantage of it. My father would never allowed me go to play with friends he always wanted me to work in the restaurant.One day when I was 16 year old my father beat me like real bad I was crying all day and was thinking about my life why am I target ?? for everybody and I came to a conclusion that I was born I like this and I will be like this from then on started staying from friend, cousins, everybody. From that day I never made friends and never spoke with my old friends. I stopped going to family events, used to enjoy my self company. I liked girls in my class but never spoke with them because I was afraid that if my father get to know any relationship i am dead.I only used to go to church and pray to god that please change my life and make me achieve great things in life.all these years my self esteem ,confidence was really low and I never believed in my self I only thought that Iam fit for nothing. After finishing under graduation I was so afraid and scared to apply for jobs because that feeling of iam fit for nothing was deeply rooted in my brain even though I used to get 70 percent on my studies I was afraid people would say something. One day when I was 22 (just finished under graduation)he gain beat me real bad in front of my relative I was depressed and thought I should leave the house so, I packed my stuff and went to Mumbai that was on 2016. The only thing that I was worried leaving home was about my mom I knew she would be in anguish. I was roaming streets in Mumbai. Spent one night in a hotel my sisters kept on calling, texting me all this time but I didn’t reply or answer them. That next day morning they texted me that mom was really worried about me and didn’t have food ever since I left the house so, I returned that evening to home. My mom spoke with a uncle and she requested them to let me stay in their house for 4 months.i was thinking all the time when I was at uncles home to stay away from my world and go to other country and start new life and do any job to live if even there they said i am fit for nothing I could easily change jobs because I don’t really care any job as long as they pay me. I can’t do that in India because people would judge you and embarrass you for the type of work you do.So here I am in Canada came on a student visa somehow managed to finish two years and got work permit. I work as security guard and I am very happy that my supervisor never said anything wrong about mr and I am always careful about my duties but I have still the fear of I am fit for nothing in my brain. I am still scared to apply for good jobs because i might do wrong and have to face embarrassment even I have the caliber to do it. There is always struggle in myself.I hope someday I will get the courage to change my brain and get self confidence.
Edit : thank you every one who strengthened me with your words. This would really help me to build my self.
Well your father is a freaking coward then
You sound like a great guy and I wish you the best. I think you should leave the ‘I’m fit for nothing’ mentality in India. You don’t deserve to feel that way! Your going to find people that love you for who you are and any one else can get lost
@@seamussmyth120 Iam trying to
Me trying to figure out who tf asked
@@sebastienpasnin9826 you thought that was the right comment to reply
Have some shame
Can't someone share their experience?
Remember
RUclips was not to watch but also share
Just say ur too lazy to read man
Even if ur not having a heart then just stfu and go away
You should never abuse anyone even if you have to! It’s a sin! And it will not do you good in your life! So please do not abuse people, they may act like they don’t care on the outside but on the inside it really hurts!! That is an amazing family, finally realizing what the dad is doing and in the end when they all covered her up, it proves they care for her!!!
I'm glad I had a disciplinarian as a father. Never abusive, but when I crossed that line, an ass whopping, and a lecture came fast. Some people say that is abuse, but that man took care of me everyday, taught me valuable skills, and is a role model to me and my siblings.
If you not feel abuse that what matters my friend, people knows very well when its not from love and care believe me
@@19bendunk the mental toll is the main tag line of abuse so if in the child’s mind it is just a punishment it won’t usually affect them mentally, but as a child it’s hard to speak up so it is a risky line just because every child sees things differently and may not say anything or realize what they are feeling. So it can stray into the area of mental damage and a warped view of their parent as they can become scared of them and then most experiences have that base of fear built in, so it does have to be balanced between loving in a way that a child can see and discipline.(most of the time when they’re older they will see that it is from a place of love I know I did, but I don’t see much of a reason to not discipline when needs be and love them the rest of the time it helps them to keep that loving relationship in mind.)
@@19bendunk its not abuse, just good discipline or tough love, now if its like everyday constantly and on purpose then thats when you gotta speak up
Y'all got some Stockholm smh
@@Equinox-rq3ig I think some people do lol my dad did spankings once every blue moon
I love how the boys protected their mother
Yeah
There was 1 girl too
Same
😬🤬😬😬😬😬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬
@@jessicaenriquez4644 Whats wrong
If only people said the same thing to women that's not okay to abuse men
The dad has been an amazing role model for his boys and has set the bar extremely high for his girls. The love he shares with mom shows in his family
It’s not okay to be abusive
What an idea, why didn’t I think of that.
Underrated
I was thinking the same thing lol
on the bright side in the end you get the attetion when you say somthing the power of snicthing
Yes
Its ok to be a little abusive. If a wife gets too high up on her horse, its fair game to knock her down a few pegs. Keeps the household even.
“it’s not okay to be abusive”
*we’ve been tricked, we’ve been backstabbed, and we’ve been quite possibly, bamboozled.*
Buaaahahahahgahahahahahahagagaga
Lol 😂
That's Sarge's quote from RvB, haha
😢😟☹🙁🤕😭➡️👧,😈😡👺👹➡️👦
@@Angrymonkey2489 Tell me the name of the movie and where I can find it...this is not a question,it is a demand.
My dumb ahh reading "it's okay to be abusive" 💀
Who else cried👇
"it's not okay to be abusive"
"it's illegal to kill"
Racism is bad
Sexism is not good!
Bad beink bad omajgodd
Oh hi L...
The water is liquid
These kids together can easily kick this dad's ass if he ever tries to be abusive towards their mom.
Edit : to those who r telling me that this isn't real, this family isn't like that... Etc.
I know.. they r acting. But they r portraying based on the real life issues.. maybe this is not happening in ur family.. but there are ppl who r facing these kinds of issues. Those victims should stand against such acts either by filing a complaint or defend themselves using violence if need be.
And about this family, we r only witnessing what's shown on the youtube not what's going on in their real lives.
Indeed, but when they're like 12 they got very little chance without weapons
They can’t hit the dad whatever happens they still can’t hit him and this is acting not real
It's just a message , fking understand that
@@real_smilegamez lol the oldest is like 20 bro none of them are 12
@@eisaalhammadi5368 what do you mean no law says you can't hit a family member in defense of others it is the same rules as if you were protecting somone on the street
In real life Pops isn't abusive he is a fun and caring dad😊
Am happy that his children are not bitter like him
Remember a real man never dominates and abuses his power over women, He should be grateful that he has a woman that can understand and let him express what he feels that no man can ever have.
I love how boys protected their mom in the end
Same.
I would do the same thing
Ikr beautiful family
It was so sweet
There's the girl to
Seeing all the sons get up to protect their mother genuinely made me smile 😢❤
Yeah, me too❤❤❤
Y’all can’t be believing this there’s a camera man behind the camera it’s fake
Animal they say are those men that abuse women 😢
I almost had to come to blows with my old man this morning, he threw a frying pan at my head for defending my sister then said "Next time it'll be your head." Family doesn't do that, we stand up for each other and defend one another, as well as support each other through thick and thin.
It hurts to know that this is actually happening somewhere right now.
Then it’ll hurt if you knew me
🙋🙋
@@isay379 same here haha
Yeah y me.
Awwww 😢 hope y'all find peace ❤️❤️❤️❤️
"Mom can we have acting?"
"We already have acting at home."
Acting at home:
Dude what? What do you mean? The acting was completely fine. At least for the point they are conveying here. C’mon man
@@linuschristensen6181 exactly! Some people just don’t understand smh
we know they are acting it’s just showing people to not be abusive
I think their acting is actually decent...idk wtf you talking about
@@ikramharon6687 theyre moving like the guys in those mofia ads
The way the boys helped her mom❤
That’s why I love friends they protect me and know who I need
"Abuse is bad"
Holy crap why didnt i think of such thing?
Right😭 wth is going on with this low effort tik toks, and look at everyone eating them up too
@@sckmindfrud exactly it pisses me off
😳😳🤔
@@osamawalkk me2
@@sckmindfrud it's not low effort or anything bad these people are trying to help raise awareness and show others that it's not okay and that you need to take action if this is happening to you.
This is my father. Finally, all of his children left him. During his old ages, he never experienced how other fathers like. Having family gathering.. surrounded by his children & grandchildren. At his final moment, none of his children was at his side except his wife. (our stepmother).
*Children, not childs
Sorry
@@ms.fandoms811
Noted. Thanks.
English is not my 1st language so Im not good at it.
😊😊😊
@@gradin6615 No prob man
Yo shut up fam who tf asked for your story g
@@vickiedavidson1230
Yeah...that is how it is.
That's why I always try to be the best for my children. I am their mom..sister & friend. I don't want them to go through like what I went through.
😭😭😭😭😭😱😱😱 people who love their family
👇
I don’t get protected and I get beaten the shit out of
Farther: *tries to hit wife *
Rest of family: *group hug mother *
Farther: *puts hands on face * "im so disappointed with these kinds trying to act like women aren't property
Lmaoo
It be like that sometimes 😭
@@Chan-zb7my and guess how much of a shit they’d give
Like: " I can't believe I raised such simps"
@@Rise_Of_The_Me *Sweet Home Alabama*
Remember that abuse isn’t just physical, there are many different types especially ones that go “unseen”
EXACTLY!
Yep
Yes
My dad mentally abuse me and my sister all the time and he doesn't even realize it.
Yep
The ending is so wholesome
Likeeeeeeee
But in this generation the MOTHER is the boss of the house
Father: Imma hit this women
Boys: PROTECTION MODE ACTIVATED
Father: emotional breakdown
Father : Imma hit this woman.
Boys : Imma end this man's whole career
Proceeds to become a megazord
Boys: Simp mode activated
@Marsdyn WATERHOUSE YEEEE
I’m so glad this was made. I had no idea you should treat, not only your family but people in general, with respect and kindness.
Ikr? Man i sure am grateful for tiktoc for teaching me being a wife-beater is wrong! I never would have knew
Yeah! If TikTok didn't exist I would've never known hitting my wife is bad
(This is a joke, TikTok is garbage, I learnt this shit from my parents)
Tiktok really stopped me from being racist, abusive and homophobic thanks tiktok for everything 😢🙏🙏
My mind was blown 🤯
If that was my dad and my mum.
My dad would be dead.
All kids just treat their mothers even if they're being abused or not
And so you see, his wife now carries around an uno reverse card
Hahahaha lol
It’s acting
🤣🔃
Iol
@@zay3850 ok and?
My dad disowned my big brother who is 19 after protecting me so my dad could not give me a black eye, now my brother had custody of me and my other brother
Edit: I know people find edits annoying but I just wanted to say thank you to all of the kind, caring people in my comments ❤️ you guys are so very sweet and I hope you all have an amazing day, stay sweet ☺️❤️
Strength to your brother and you
Very good. And let this motivate you and your to become one of the best dads in the world. Your dad has lost two good sons then. Very sad..
Grow beyond the smallness of those around you and keep going
Good on your brother
Thank you guys
It is so heart warming that the last one all the kids came to protect her ❤😊
This just proves that your mother works so hard for you
Me: mom can we get acting?
Mom: we have acting at home
Acting at home:
😂😂😂😂
The holy prophet Muhammad
Peace be upon him said
"Never abuse ur wife mentally or physically "
He said "if u have a daughter and son and if u treat them equal
U will go to jannah "
He in his deadbed
Requested his followers for 2 things
1.perform 5 daily prayers
2.always respect women
He said "fear God in regards to deal with women "
And still he is called a women abuser
Bruh
Proud to be a muslim
Proud to be a follower of him
The idiots who don’t understand Islam or are easily intimidated by it are the ones who are quick to insult it. Only the educated ones know that our beloved Prophet was the image of strength, nobility and a real man ❤️
Thats because he married and slept with a 9 year old, struck his wife at least once, and wrote the book that allows terrorists, bigots, and sexists to be...well...terrorists, bigots, and sexists. Yeah, Islam is great if you're a guy. I'm sure its easy for you to praise Allah, after all, you don't have to wonder if you're allowed can drive a car in any Islamic country. You don't have to cover your hair for your entire life. You don't have to cover every inch of your skin. You don't need a male escourt to go out in public. And if you go out in public alone and get raped, it isn't your fault. Tell me, how does Islam deal with a gay man? How about a woman who doesn't want to marry the man her dad picked? How about a woman who admits she's not a virgin before the wedding?
Islam is the sexist, abusive father of religions.
@@natevic1867 So either people agree with you or they're uneducated? Lol great logic 🤣
@@bspitler0 people who don’t understand the true beauty and essence of Islam are uneducated
They teach us lessons better than what our school teaches. Amazing
...and that's why I like the father of this family. I never saw him being abusive towards any familymember. So nice to see him being a good father and husband.
Yes,i am girl and i watched my dad abuse my mother with only 4 years of my life,i cryed every time,now im 14 years old and im waiting for perfect age to get him back,thank God they are divorced and my mother found very nice husband that isnt abusive to me or her ❤
I'm very sorry to hear that especially since I'm your age. 🥺
I am also a girl I am Aakuleena and I am 9 years old I am 5 years smaller than you and me and my family is a very good and a very happy family ☺️
@@strawxberry_9815 ❤
@@LaRraa_ 😊
I'm 13 and thankfully I don't have to deal with that, I'm praying for you
I grew up with abusive parents, using fear and threats to control. They also took pleasure in my pain in order to make themselves feel powerful. I still am in therapy today to deal with all their mental manipulations and their aggressive volatile explosions during my youth. My body keeps the score.
Same here
I'm sorry that you had to endure this awful and cruel treatment. Some people should not be allowed to have children. I'm glad to see that you're seeking help to heal from the abuse and neglect from your parents. Sending a big hug.
I pray for all of you 🙏🏽
@@marcustuuhetoka1340 thank you for having us in your thoughts and prayers.
@@Mtz2604 , you're very welcome. 🙂
I will pray for the man for his sins and his abusiveness
My father wasn't even a father to me he was an abuser and he will never be
a real father.
As a child who grew up with an abusive father, I can confirm that any boy who grew up in such environment could turn up to be the same, like my grandfather (R.I.P Grandpa, despite what you did you were such a great man) who abused my late grandmother to the point that it had caused her to get really sick and unfortunately, die. And my grandmother told my mother that she'll just end up like her with an abusive husband and my mom didn't seem to get it until she ended up the same, yesterday my dad broke her arm and she we could only just listen to their loud 'discussion' with my sister crying beside me..
"Violence is never the answer, until it's the only answer. Victory attained by violence is tantamount to a defeat, for it is momentary." - MARTIN LUTHER KING, JR.
I don't encourage kids to stand up for their abused parent like I did with my mother because it always makes things worse and instead talk to their parents against it, it might be hard but it's not impossible.
Yeah my dad verbally abuses my mom and he broke her foot to the point she needed surgery...
But I think we should stand up for them 😶
Ait i read halfway through i advise you see a witch doctor for your family has been cursed👌
You must be CRAZY! IF YOU LOVE YOUR PARENTS YOU STICK UP FOR THEM NO MATTER WHAT!! I'm gonna go down fighting if a man EVER put his hands on my mom....EVER!!
.
It's a struggle to come back up after being with an abusive man. Nine years I never thought he would be the way he was. I get scared to be in a new relationship. Scared it may happen again. My kids don't need that in their life.
Been going through it for 22 years..can testify. Product of it of both parents. Don't fool with them. When you get free of them, lock your access from them. You deserve the BEST!
Keep your kids safe from potentially harmful stepdads...just focus on kids they will love you for it.❤️
@@KingsCrossVIP and abusive stepmoms too! Agreed.
@@FreespiritedqueenI've been happily single for three years both myself and my kids are doing great without the ex. I've met a wonderful friend who loves my kids and me and enjoys everything we do together as friends.
At LAST,
POPS has shown his true colours.
The end is so heartwarming always be there for your dad and mom❤
The way all the kids protected the mom made me cry
Its fake don't worry
It doesn't matter if its fake its a lesson for us all
@@hi-hg7yw aight
I love the end when the boys protect their mom🥰
Rohadjon meg az olyan ember aki a feleséged bátyja hogy a
sgvyh bbhzikzjvjcvb
The dad is not actually like that ok
@Dashi run run run 😩 i was telling the people who didn't.
Yeah me too!
My dad did not listen I still have to protect my mom hes really abusive...
I am so glad this was put up. To show awareness for women no man should ever abuse them know matter what.
Why did I read this as "it's okay to be abusive" and I was like: 👁👄👁⁉️
Same 😳😭✋
Sameee omg
@@kaede7221 uhhhh jhw
That was me too
Same !!
Linda up stairs: "what is happening down there?"
Lol😂
Daddy dearest !please don't !please don't! that's what Linda saying upstairs!😱🤣
Mom: *Folds clothes*
Dad: "And i took that personally."
I left him ages ago best thing I did for myself and kids great message ❤️🏴
Can I just say that the part where all the bothers protected their mother was the most beautiful thing I’ve ever seen about a family who cares for each other ✊🏾😭❤️
I agree that was the most beautiful part, I got a little teary, 5 boys must have been a handful to raise. I feel sorry for anyone who would really try mom, I have a feeling those boys would be more then protective 🥰
@@tyrannyblackthorn5023 agreed. Gurl I cried the whole video that’s so beautiful to see something like that
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It’s NOT OK to ABUSE! Don’t do this!
The sons shielding the mum and protecting her ❤
What happened to Dad ? Its disgusting to see his rude behavior !!!!
“It’s not okay to be abusive!!”
Abusers: *understandable have a great day*
Where is the last line from
@@kira2646 a meme template
This man is very eveil and she's people are good kids a don't know what's it is put is good people
@@M1nastan What?? -☠️
@@M1nastan r/ihadastroke
i like the way boys saving their mumma ❤️❤️❤️
Yea i respect that.
There's always a rainbow trust I god trust in him to quide you through the storm god bless you
@@jollytaatiatia4579yes god definitely helps you in your abusive situation:/
It's not okay they did the right thing to protect her❤
I love the way the boys protected their mother
My 14 years old save my life.... his father hit me so bed left me unconscious in the floor, my son pull me out the house and ask for help, while his father was looking for his gun, my poor son , I feel so guilty , that he has to go through that trauma, thank God we are now free and save.... .....
abuse will take you at the end with permanent injuries physically and psychological or dead.....
I understand your story my father made me an alcoholic in a drug user and then he came crying back to me asking me for forgiveness but I didn't give him the satisfaction of hurting me again
You can tell this is not fake because some of the words are wrong. [Edit] I feel so bad for you, hope your safe now.
@John Jones It was the son's choice wasn't it? Risking your life for another's I dare say not many people would do that.
I'm sorry if you can't understand that the son did a wonderful thing.
Hello, I'm also 14. I hope you and your son are okay. Best of luck.
@John Jones what 😳 a terrible thing to say. You blame the mother who is being abused instead of the bastard dad that was doing the abusing. It's obvious that you have never been in this hell of a relationship. To say the mother almost got the son killed is very warped thinking. Shame on you!!!!