my Thai husband left me in Bangkok with our three children
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Hi my name is Lilly and I am an American expat living on the island of Koh Samui in the gulf of Thailand for the last 9 years. My husband is Thai and his name is Wat. We have two boys named Luke and Leon and a new baby girl named Lyla. Nam is our Nanny and she is like family to us. She is from Myanmar and has worked for us for over 7 years.
Thank you for your prayers. Im praying for you all as well. Please share this video with a friend.🙏
God Blessing you and your fam.Donation help orphan children.That's the good things that we did.😁👌👌👌👍👍👍👏👏👏👏🙏🙏🙏🙏☝🤲🤲💪💪✌✌✌✌
@@BilliStatus what?
my best bro & my best sis thank you for your huge respect against cpec friendship countries lot of love from your cousin viki 💙
Thank u Lilly 🙏🤲
@@BilliStatus ...how is she selling her soul? We as Christians are to go out into the world and proclaim the Word of God...whether it's in charity, deed, or word of mouth...we show the blind the Light [Jesus]. 🙏😇💜
Hello Lily. I enjoy your videos but never commented. But this time I feel compelled to do it. I’m 45, lose my dad at 21, lose my mom and older sister at 41. Grief is despairingly painful. I’m thankful I have a loving husband who supports me.
One thing we did to cope with grief was getting out of the big unsafe city for some peace and quiet. We can now take long walks in the woods whenever I need to clear my head. Most importantly, my faith gives me hope, comfort and grounds me. It’s going to take lots of time for Wat to grieve and this can inevitably affect you and the kids. Maybe reconsider moving back to his hometown near the beach and family and his mom. Speaking from personal experience big cities are fun to visit but not ideal to live and raise kids. Please send my sympathy and sincere condolences to Wat, his mom and family.
During counseling after the death of my Father I was advised not to make any major life changes for the next year. Lilly, please consider going back to Ko Samui or wherever Wat is to support him during this time. He needs his families support now more than ever. Praying for you both.
I was just getting ready to say the same❤ Lily your husband is grieving and needs your support. I understand how challenging it is to deal with someone who goes through depression no matter the reason, but I feel this is your first ministry your husband and your children.
@@hisforever4937 - I agree!
Hi Lilly. Please take care of your husband, the father of your children during this very sensitive, sad, dark period of his life. He needs love, patience, compassion and empathy. He needs to be near his family and blood relatives to heal. Grief is a very long road. I’m speaking from personal experience.
In agreement!!. Grieving is a very personal touching feelings of the heart. It's a process n with God's grace, time will heal the.heart. I lost my beloved husband, mother,daughter,aunt n a cousin all in one year. Only through prayers n God's strength helped me to ENDURED. That is my faith. It's a process but I stayed mediating on God's Word. God's blessings n prayers to husband n family. ✝️👑🕊🙏🔥🧎♀️❣
I think Wat needed to be with his Mom, she lost her husband and then her son went away. Wat was feeling her sadness. He is a wonderful man. Wat will work it all out. God Bless Wat and all of you. 🙏💗
Honest comment straight from my heart .. Dint enjoy your video much today was missing Wat .. I thought for once that you were joking when you said he left in the start to get attention but somewhere I also saw that coming. What made me watch your videos was the fact that I felt you were different .. though I found it a lil' odd in the beginning that you picked and married a simple man from humble origins and you accepted him for who he is and where he comes from .. but then in time you made me believe through your videos that you cared for him enough. I was so touched every time I would see Wat running around doing errands, taking care of the kids and you, getting you your coffee, food, driving you places. I am sure you were the one paying for it all but still he dint have to do all of that but because he loves you and he feels grateful and also he isn't that privileged to show in other ways, that was the only way he felt he could contribute by making you feel important and special.
I also understand that you want to live your life, travel places do this and that, I am sure more so after getting recognition and fan following from your youtube channel but then I also feel you are changing, I liked and respected you for other reasons not because you make all these fancy food and shopping mall videos.
Its your life you know better but let me tell you in my professional life I have received my share of fame but it doesn't last long.. there soon would come someone else, some one better, someone making nicer videos, someone genuinely touching lives but in the end family is everything, its all that matters and in Wat's testing times you should have been there by his side. Joy of being around kids would have also helped him heal fast. You know the real worth of people in bad times not in good times. I truly believe in that!
and by the way just noticed your caption, its misleading! He dint leave you and your three kids .. poor guy don't give him a bad name instead it seems like you left him and are depriving him of his children.
Agreed. So beautifully spoken, and written 🙏
You could definitely tell Wat was trying but you could see his sadness. He did not look happy past few videos. The loss of a father is heavy to go through, I loss mine as well and couldn't imagine a big move on top of that so I pray for Wat to find his happiness again. I pray for your whole family for strength and wellness. 🙏
Prayers for strength!
Lilly think about what you are doing you are putting exciting content before bringing up your children.What your children need now is a stable home with the love of both parents.Your followers will watch you wherever you are.You are blessed with three of the most beautiful children.Please do some reflecting on your life
Cut her some slack! She’s spoken in the past about how hard it is to put out content but it’s the only financial support the family has. Wat didn’t work and barely contributed to looking after the family. She will do what she has to to provide for her kids.
@@kiwigirljacks What do you mean Wat never contributed to the family? They had a restaurant before covid hit...See Lilly, this how you portray Wat and dopes like above are rubbishing Wat..Don't you think he will read this?..You should be ashamed of yourself making him out to be a cad...I think you have ruined your marriage by embarrassing him..All you had to do was say he had to go back home for a bit to help his mother..I don't think Wat will want to appear in your videos anymore.
@@funkysouldancer1 people here are rubbish Lily!! So I’m providing some perspective. Since the restaurant closed Lily has been the sole provider as she has stated in videos (not in a way to show Wat up but to explain why she has been doing videos). Wat HAS seemed uninterested in just about everything in lots of videos, I don’t think my saying that will come as a shock to anyone. But here you are blaming Lily for how Wat has portrayed HIMSELF. Typical. It takes two so no one is saying either of them is perfect. I’m just saying cut her some slack…
@@kiwigirljacks I think you got uninterested mixed up..He seems shy..Some people aren't comfortable being filmed every day..What choice does he have..I like Lilly...I just don't like how she made it public that he went home and said he abandoned them..That's just spiteful..Asian men are different to Western men.. So making him lose face is a big deal.
What an absurd take! Luke isn't the clever, caring little boy who tells his mother that he Loves her every chance he gets bc of neglect or staying put in a slow-moving Island playing in the sand!
How disrespectful to just assume she's doin it for the content! But I know Lilly's bigger than this bc her initial viral video (which actually introduced me) was her leaving for America & there were 10x as many of you judgemental gossipers then crying in the comments.. & all that happened was Luke got to experience the world & he is who he is due to his mom.
I’ve also noticed how close you and Nam got. So thankful she’s there to help you and be a sister through this life journey. It would be awesome if you all can make a trip out to her hometown and see what her life was like growing up. And go see her reunite with her family. Would be a great surprise. Praying for your husband to heal and find inner peace with his father’s grieving. 🙏🏽
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I don’t think it’s safe to visit there at the moment !
That would be great! I enjoy these videos if Nam is in them otherwise I don't watch ❤
Hi Lily, I am a Muslim and really appreciate the humble donations and visit the Muslim orphanage. Bless your heart ♥ I'm so sorry to hear about Watt's father. I pray for you and your family ❤️
I'm Muslim too. Thank you so much Lilly Naam and children for visiting our brothers and sisters in Islam. We are one brotherhood. Wat may God heal you.
@@ParisMeetsKathmandu lol, you do know that following Jesus is what makes you a christian right?
Christians are opposite of Islam
@@ParisMeetsKathmandu I didn't know so many were not open to all cultures and faiths, being that America is founded on this idea, everywhere you turn there are Mosques, Temples, Churches, Synagogues - may you continue to find blessings at every step
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The move to Bangkok was all too soon after the passing of his father. He needs time to be with his family and please give him time to grieve. Praying for Wat.
Westerners dont care about that.
@@chinaboss6683 actually we do very much. That’s a bad generalization of us. We are not a monolith. I am still grieving my father and he died suddenly in 2017.
@@chinaboss6683 You have gossipy bitter comments only on Lilly Expat videos, are you that jealous of this beautiful blessed independent family.... Shame you must be a lonely poor sod, you have no-one to care for you that you must spend so much time being bitter on Lilly Expat videos. Some people are so poor in their lives it shows in their bitterness towards others. Maybe get rich China debt-stressed Boss then some woman will feel sorry for you so you don't have to be so bitter.
@Monique Maqungo They probably had started to make arrangements already when his Dad passed suddenly . Unfortunately we don't know the entire story of their lives. Only the things that get shared. So yes indeed prayer changes things.
@@chinaboss6683 the man could speak for himself. If he wasn’t ready he could’ve told her . 🤷🏻♀️
Once upon a time the videos used to be real life experience, now the title act as a Click Bait where you spent 10 seconds talking about the title of the video, and the rest was about visiting the Orphanage. Very misleading, I guess it’s all about the number of subscribers now a day.
Yup, it's like the newspaper "HEADLINES TITLE" method.
It’s a job. There is a lot of competition on RUclips. What do you want?
Yup!
I notice that, I will be disconnecting soon. I don’t like to be baited like that.
funny to heard somebody preached about click bait when they should get used to it
I'm so sorry that Wat left. It will be a good idea that you rent the house so he can stay home and work around the yard or prepare food for you guys when you guys come back. He's not a kind of guy that like to go shopping every day.
He goes to the market every day in the videos to get breakfast and veggies. Also he doesnt work, just helps with kids. Whose going to pay the second rent.
Lily, I love your videos but this one made me so sad. Please don’t encourage people to visit orphanages. Making donations is wonderful but should be done without visiting the children. The children in orphanages are so vulnerable and visiting them just adds to their trauma. I am in Chiang Mai and would love to talk to you more about this issue if you want to talk more about it. There is so much research about this issue and around volunteer tourism with orphans. Also, these children’s faces should be blurred out to protect their privacy. You showing them on RUclips within it their permission is so sad Lily. Please look into this more.
I agree. I hope Lily notice this.
I totally agree, it's not right to the orphan children to be shown up for visitors. I also think that Lily shouldn't bring her own children there as it was some kind of amusement park 😔 Donations great, but not visiting.
I'm in Cambodia and I agree. 💯
However there has been many scam orphanages! Just to donate to an orphanage that you truly don’t know if it exists or not isn’t the way anymore!
@@Iceyfire12 what I mean is that you can take a donation to the orphanage office without requiring to see and spend time with the children. Until we are able to change the way that the system works there will be orphanages and they need support to care for the children. We should be empowering those who work with them not feeling like the children owe us something because we donate.
I love this channel. But I could see Wat's unhappiness in the videos so this isn't surprising. Wat is grieving he needs his wife and children in my opinion. Don't let you tube separate your family. Be safe . Loved the orphanage.
I think Wat saw the writing on the wall when you left for a few months with Luke. He was left to take care of the Baby/Leon with Nams help. Nothing wrong with taking a trip...but I often could not fathom leaving the baby Leon for months. I know he was in good hands but I would never have left my child for that long of a period of time just to vacation. I am sure it was wonderful for you to see your family also. I guess it was something you needed to do. It probably renewed something of wanting to go home. Your channel has been very entertaining with seeing all the beautiful hotels and properties. It also seemed like you had a nice family home on the island. The place your living looks more like a family suite at an hotel. I'm sure anyone could get used to it if that was a desire in their heart. I enjoyed watching the simple pleasures of island life. Though I probably don't have the wanderlust you have in traveling. I know this sounds so judgy but you have invited the world into your life on this channel. So many of us will give our thoughts about your family situation. Obviously we have enjoyed what you have presented in the past videos that's why we watch. I do hope with sometime that your family will be reunited for a place of well being and family unity. I know life isn't perfect ...one can hope for the happiness of your family unit. Be Well!
The common denominator in this show is ‘This is Lilly’s life’
And left alone with the nanny all those months. And when she came back Watt looked sadder. Very sad situation.
It was about time Wat picked up some of the slack. Lily has been the main provider and Wat has been totally uninterested in past videos in doing anything for his family! So maybe stop your judgement and look at it from both sides. Lily was exhausting herself from the new baby and constantly putting out content in order to financially support the family. If she needed a break, she can take it and the FATHER can pick up some slack. Now that Wat wants his time away, he can take it. I don’t think people realise how Much responsibility for this family fell solely on Lily! (Thank god for Nam). So for the person saying it’s the “Lily show” … it had to be! Wat didn’t want to really be in videos but he was happy for his wife to be the only financial provider. So she was doing everything she could to make the vlogs work.
@@veronikagigi Even when she was in another country she was taking care of him financially
Encourage Wat to go learn a skill to take care of his family,if he wants to wear the pants ,be a man
@@kiwigirljacks I don’t think a lot of Thai women will be with a Thai man who didn’t bring the money home
(No money,No love ❤️)smile
Out of all your videos, the happiest I've ever seen Wat was riding the horses on the beach before you arrived at the Bangkok Air B&B. Wat calls the condo a hotel. He will never be happy living out of a hotel. But you & Wat could come to a sensible compromise to live on the beach close enough to visit Bangkok once in a while.
That's true he looked so happy in Hua Hin-especially riding horses with his sons. I miss Thailand as well so much....and also love Hua Hin.
Praying for your family and for your husband to get over his sadness due to the loss of his dear father.
Father looking new whites chck
Lily, I pray 🙏 you Nom and the kids move back to be with Wat. Bangkok what a culture shock and so soon after the passing of his father. 💖
The visit to the orphanage was a good gesture but if my husband had left I would be trying to repair our relationship. I don’t see how Lilly could be so jolly with Wats sudden departure 🤷♀️
Kinda weird , I would be trying to keep my family together..
I supposed Lily and Watt both decided to live in Bangkok for a while. Lily is not either happy when Watt left, but she needs to do what was planned for her blogging routine. Without Watt is not a complete show. Let us pray Watt conquers his loneliness and be back together with wife and children. To God be the glory.
If it's not in your own reality then you should not assume anything 😉
Let's pray instead of judge or speculate
She's a full blown narcissist
Just realized this is 3 months ago, so I guess your husband is back now. I was meant to watch this video today as it just confirmed to me that being a Christian isn't just about going to church, it's about reaching out and being willing to do something outside of you're comfort zone.
Christian cuck all religion is BS by the JEWS
Liliy if I were you , go back to Koi Samui , where Wat is rooted because he was not happy in Bangkok, GODBLESS you and your children .
Why did you go to Bangkok in the first place
I like all ur videos, fr. Germany, but some years in Malaysia as Ass. of UN/WHO/MOH. Wat likes more village life, like Koh Samui, Bangkok too modern, too big, and not family life. He needs some time to grieve, ask him to come back to guide his family and move to a more familiar place! Wish you a united further life with your cute kids.
Go back to husband lilly,,,God will not bless you until your back with your husband,,
A Wise woman builds her house...dear Lily you are a woman of God please love your husbandy dear and please dear Lily i know you are a woman of great understanding,do not make your maid substitute in the place of your husband .your husband is your better half,you are one with your husband,your kids will later miss their dad..
Will definitely do something like this next time we visit. I have to say even though your family is beautiful there is something that little bit extra special about Nam. Everyone needs a Nam in their life, you are very lucky to have her
I could tell Wat has not been enjoying Bangkok, it is probably very overwhelming to him after living on a small island. He is such a wonderful father, I can't see him staying away too long! Perhaps a smaller city but larger than Koh Samui is the answer! Praying for a resolution for the family 🤗
Ohhhh good idea Lilly !! I went to Haiti and opened an orphanage there ! After I began helping orphans in 2016, my whole life got better . I’m a midwife in the states but I manage to run an orphanage in Haiti too . All 6 of my grown children came to the Lord on one day after I started work there .. it’s amazing !!!! James 1:27
I would love to do the same as you!!! So inspiring !🙏🙏🙏
It would be interesting to see Nam gives your family a tour of her place.
Yes ! I would like that too! 🤗🤗🤗🤞✌️
it will be nice if Lilly can give Nam a wonderful surprise to reunite & spend time with her family in Myanmar.
Lily appears to do what is good for Lily 1st and Wat and Nam just follow and raise the kids.
You're 100% correct. She's spoiled and self-centered
I have to ask you why you feel this way.....I thought she was quite kind person .....I did get a umm strange reply when asking after wats well being .....I would like to know how he is .....but I think my opinion of her is changing
@@YlvaBjarnson You know her ..? Or just judging her from a 15 minute video?
The orphanage kid's face should be blurred out Lily to protect their privacy
Yes I thought it was horrible the atmosphere there felt uncomfortable too.
It was no place for Nam or the children and should not have been a theme for a vlog IMO
Lily , grieving is a journey and you must remember that your husband has loss is like those orphans feel . I have heard people describe the loss of there parents to the likeness of being a orphan! He needs time and the love of his family ❤️🩹
I have lost both of my parents.My mother at 16, and my father at 29. To make it even harder I am also an only child.. However, I would never leave my son and husband due to my grief .That is the time that you lean on your spouse for support and prayers..I am not trying to be disrespectful but our children need us and we need to be positive,and stable role models for them ..My prayers are with your family Lily,and I know things will work out in a positive way..
My cousin lost both her parents one year after the next an she is so fragile her only sibling a brother lives in England,she's married tho no kids I check on her from time to time cause she needs time to herself but she also knows she have all the support she needs she's not alone her Dad passed in 2020 and her Mom passed 2021 I cannot begin to imagine how she's handling double grief let alone Wat's grief I think lily and the kids should be with him ,he needs there support as well a grief of a parent/parents at any age is very traumatic I wish wat all the best 🙏🏽
@@judyholiday1794 But you have a different up bringing and belief to Wat and you can’t judge how people handle things to you…
@@happydays241 I am not judging my prayers are going up on behalf of Wat..I just have a gut feeling that there is more to the situation I could hear it in Lily's voice..I just believe that when you become a parent you have to put on your happy face and be there for them ...I am praying that Wat finds his inner peace and that their family will become stronger than ever..
I lost my mom and dad too unfortunately I am an only child. Sometimes I do feel lost and an orphan, after all they were my whole world but never did I think of leaving my husband and children. I also suffer from depression and have panic attacks but if you don't lean on your loved ones who can you?? Family is everything.🙏❤️
Just an observation, but Wat is a simple guy. He was a fisherman and happy in his surroundings in Koh Samui. Taking him to Bangkok where life is totally different, he is like a fish out of water. He has been taken out of his environment. You may want to think which is more important, your marriage, or having adventures outside of his comfort zone.
This is not a criticism just an observation.
I agree
I think her kids are more important. To be able to provide for them and give them the best possible life and future.
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Missed your last couple of posts but sorry your marriage is having big problems. TBH when you first said you were moving and never liked island life, I was amazed, you certainly didn't seem to be unhappy? But to move to a city just after Wat had lost his father and friend, maybe it was a little fast? Not critiscising but when you put your life out there, there will be many different opinions. I hope that things work out for you all. X
I am from Saudi Arabia and it’s so nice seeing our youth representing KSA in a good way 💕💕
Lilly I am thankful for your posts. I simply like sharing your experiences
I'm so sorry to hear about Wat losing his dad. I can imagine how hard that would be and him wanting to go home for awhile. I'll be keeping you all in my prayers and I pray that the Lord brings Wat comfort and peace during this time. ✝️
Hopefully in the funeral memorial service for wat's dad wouldn't have altered Lilly's trust in her religious believe.Wat's dad had been back to God in heaven in lieu of passing away.Wat should be back to have his kids to substitute his dad's lost.Kids still are needing the complete parents to be their paternity and maternity.
I was looking at Wat in your videos and I can see that he is bored not happy but will pray for him to simmer all the things he is undergoing in life but God will protect your family and just continue life as planned and enjoy it…God blesss lucky you got Nam to help you out
Sorry but have felt these videos have been somewhat weird lately. I don’t understand selling everything to move to an exciting but big, crowded, noisy, inconvenient city environment with 3 young children. Food videos are fun but making coffee & some meals at home is ok too. And now Wat has left for whatever reasons, it’s sad. I think Wat needs something to do for himself as well- not just shop & eat out with Lilly. The kids need him. If he is suffering with grief and the loss of his peaceful life, then maybe his partner should understand that and give him comfort instead of pursuing her adventure right now. It seems selfish to me. Yes, I am being judgmental but their life has been made public & Is out there for all to see. I really hope the family can get back together soon. And thank god for Nam! She is a blessing.
A RUclips video is 20-30 min of someone’s day, sometimes week. What’s going on behind the camera and what really happened only Lilly and wat knows. We have no right to judge or make assumptions. Everyone on here seem to think they are lilly and Wat experts, or some kind of relationship experts. It’s both amusing and sad to watch.
Very weird ,no compassion for Wat at all just video after video even the funeral was filmed ,she needs to imagine she's just lost a parent it's so cold hearted poor Wat
@@liverpoollass9915 Wat gave Lilly permission to video tape the funeral their culture is to take pictures at funerals as you can see (it is a Buddhist ceremony)
His father was 85yrs old,it is sad but he had a good long life,four children a wife and many friends and family
Wat is a 48yrs old man with 3 young children,he has to ‘man up’ and take care of his family,emotionally,financially ect. It is called the circle of life.
Little ones are depending on him
He just checks out emotionally,did that when Lilly was in labor at the hospital with Luke,he just wanted to go to sleep
It is called emotionally immature
@@Stc2311-q5r you are not kind. Please this is a real family
@@Stc2311-q5r man up ? He's just lost his father and friend I think he needs to grieve and rest from all the videos I see he does most of the work with the kids the food the driving along with Nam ,I know Lily is making a hell of a lot of money from you tube but that is now thier income and someone needs to hold it all together
Lilly I am in my 60's, married for 44 years..My thought is he needs to be a part of your RUclips production, maybe the camera guy..it would make him feel like he is also earning money for the family too..just a thought.
I somehow knew that Wat was still grieving a tremendous amount. I know how much I grieved loosing my Mama. The grief and the major move had to be incredibly hard for Wat.
Lily I am praying for all of you. 🕊🙏🏻🕊
I was wondering how come he went on traveling just a couple of weeks after his dad passed away, he needs your support now more than ever, don't let go
I hope that your nanny gets to have her own life as a wife and mother. She cannot be part of your family for ever. She needs to live her own. I hope that she doesn't lose her boyfriend from being away so long.
The nanny has to be here working to support her child in her own country. If she was in her country with her child, she probably has no money to do that. I know a lot of Burmeses who do that. It’s THEIR choice to be in Thailand and Nan’s living conditions are a lot better than other Burmeses out there. Lily seems to treat her much better than many Thai bosses out there.
I’m more worried about Nam when Lilly and Wat move to the U.S. and she might not be able to find a great bosses like Lilly and Wat.
Maybe the whole world should stop taking in nannies. And they can rest at home and let money drop by itself from the sky! And the son can go to school for free and get things for free. Where’s your logic?!
@@factisfact9426 Where, may I ask is yours? What happened to bringing up your own children? Nam isn't from the States and I'm thankful about that. I hope that she never goes there to live. Or Wat. Re read my comment. Nam should be free to marry. Have the financial support of a husband, bring up her own children, before she gets too old to give birth!
spoken like someone that's never left their little town.. Yeaah, Lily the tyrant should totally unchain Nam's shackles & let her free! 🤦
Yes I see a look on Nam's face that seems to possibly reflect she really wants her own home and family....
Oh my goodness when Luke told Lilly not to leave me !!! It made me upset when you think of how she is totally fine in leaving her children and husband !!! They are not her RUclips props !!!
Lilly ❤️🙏
My heart breaks for Wat and I could see he wasn't happy in Bangkok.He seems a quiet and humble man who is not bitten by the brave new world. You, on the other hand, are get up and go and would be in Saudi next week if the opportunity arose. If he is depressed he needs his family around him while he grieves. Bless your family,
The children will make him see the light
@Jamison Gee, I agree, Wat did not seem happy in Bangkok. Many, many years ago, when I lived in Germany, I remember my German mother-in-law saying, “you cannot uproot and old tree”. She is long gone but those words have stayed with me after 45 years. I think that not only is Wat grieving for his dad but he’s been taken out of his own environment. I’ve been in Bangkok; it’s a huge, metropolitan city, a fast and vibrant city. Wat, being a humble, ex-fisherman living on an island would find city life hard to get accustomed to. I’m thinking he also feels out of sorts being that Lilly is the sole provider for the family. Lilly needed to expand and provide more context to her channel and made the move to Bangkok and it’s understandable. It’s a difficult situation but I hope things will work out for both eventually.
My Thai daughter-in-law wants to come to America but I have doubts whether she’ll be happy here. Her family are humble villagers living a simple life and she comes from that environment. I’m afraid the culture shock would be too much for her. Not only that but she’ll be coming from a tropical, paradise setting to a dry, desert city in west Texas. 🌞🌵. Life is not easy.
Saudi is not open country
Totally admire you Lily, im a muslim and to see you go into all these places and give them charity, a true blessing for you and your sweet family...
Lily, I have followed you for some time. I was an expat at one time. Lived in Italy.
Honestly, when I heard that you all were moving, I thought you would be moving close to Wat's Mother. My husband lost his Mom. Men grieve differently. My personal feelings are you all moved to soon. Wat needs time to process his grief.
In watching your videos. I had noticed the change in Wat's countenance. When you all moved to Bangkok. I'd recommend you go and watch them. You can see an obvious change. I noticed You said YOU needed a change. But what about your husband?! I say this from a place of good intentions. Also, from a place where I was present with my husband with his mother's death. You have to walk a mile in someone's shoes to understand them. I think you are more of a gypsy at heart and like to move. I don't see Wat, as being that way. I'm not a city person myself. I hope that you can reconcile this with your husband.
I also know people joke more when they are dealing with stress. I don't think you meant it in a wrong way. But Joking about Not having a husband.. it's not a laughing matter. He still is your husband. But he is going through something and you need to be there for him.
I think you are over stepping your boundary aprileenna. Very judgemental.
@@user-ym9ds1ox3u absolutely I Am not. She made it public, she made a joke about "not having husband". I am telling it like it is. PERIOD end of story. If you put yourself out there and all your business and COMMIT yourself as being a Christian then you open yourself for scrutiny. If you read a large portion of the comments. There are many here that agree with me.
In Christianity marriage is a sacred union. It is nothing to be made a joke about.
On multiple occasions she has spoke of HER unhappiness. And reiterated recently how unhappy (SHE) was. People need time to cope with a death of a loved one.
Wat needs the support of His wife. A marriage is a partnership, it takes 2 to make a marriage work. As I am married to a man that puts my happiness before his. I ALWAYS TAKE HIM INTO CONSIDERATION IN EVERYTHING.
@@blueyedmermaid1447 You haven't overstepped your boundary ..You are correct..Lilly put it out there so she has to expect and respect our opinions...What i didn't like was her headline that Wat left her with three children, making him look like a cad, with no explanation..How about respecting her mother in law who needs her children at this time?...If she doesn't understand Wats needs when it was only recently since he lost his dad, then Lilly needs to figure out what would happen if Wat did the same if her mother died..Bangkok is ok for a holiday but like i said before, it has no soul...Let's not forget she has taken her kids away from a stable situation..You can see Leon is hitting out at her too..She is having so much fun with Nam but poor Wat is miserable.
@@funkysouldancer1 Do you forget that Lilly LEFT HER MOTHERLAND, HER BLOOD FAMILY, HER CULTURE AND MOVED ACROSS THE WORLD TO LIVE WITH HIM IN THE COUNTRY THAT SHE COULDN’T SPEAK THE LANGUAGE NOR HAVE ANY FRIEND?
@@blueyedmermaid1447 Do you forget that Lilly LEFT HER MOTHERLAND, HER BLOOD FAMILY, HER CULTURE AND MOVED ACROSS THE WORLD TO LIVE WITH HIM IN THE COUNTRY THAT SHE COULDN’T SPEAK THE LANGUAGE NOR HAVE ANY FRIEND?
Wat’s father’s passing is 1 huge piece of stress! Leaving his birthplace to go to Bangkok (a move) is another big piece of stress!
He needs to go home to his preferred home birthplace to grieve!! You can help him by allowing him to freely share his feelings. You don’t have to do anything but listen. For someone like him who’s basically quiet, and being Asian, it will take a lot to get him to start opening up!
After losing my mom, I never would or could have left my family, my familiar place so soon after . The move was just way too soon. And observing Wat for a while now, I could tell he’s not a city person. He’s very quiet and likes his quiet space. Right now he needs his space in his safe space. His home town, his island life. Be patient and all will be well again. Time heals all. I have no doubt. Peace and love.❤️😁
I'm from city in Los Angeles moved to, Tacoma, WA. Now in small Southern desert town in Nevada I like it small and quiet so I understand what Wats going through
Well said.
Agreed 100%
And maybe he is thinking of her mother that alone now..
You are so kind.
I'm saying this from a place of love but I find your titles too "clickbaity".
As to you and Nam growing old together, I want to believe she has plans to have her own family or maybe reunite with her son? She's a great Nanny, but for how long?
I appreciated that Sis Lily come to orphanange house for donation....❤️👍🏽
Thanks a lot...
Does anyone feel that the tittle to this blog is disrespectful to wat....I mean he didn't just take off....Lilly I'm sure wanted to stay....
I agree Jackie!! Very disrespectful, but she has been many times, making sure she says in front of him that it is her and HER ALONE THAT SUPPORTS THE FAMILY.
I wonder about the balances in this relationship…. We want them all to be happy and secure. They have both had big challenges bin their lives and now have three children to raise. I’m sure the cultural differences have been more difficult since the children and addition of a nanny. I think….. lily was one of a very few whites/ farang on the island ? I often felt she was lonely, no one her age or outlook. Anyhow I hope they can be together again
Yes.....I think she is a very verbal person....wat isn't.....perhaps this is why she enjoys what she does she prob doesn't get alot of convo from wat ...but also he prob feels bad about his English which I think is good ....I feel tho that this difference is a problem....
@@arnicepernice8656 My friend married a Thai and lived there for 20 years. She had many American friends there.
@@maggiemmoore that is good to hear. Thank you.
We only see one friend,the lady from Germany.
I think Lily relies heavily on her family for company still.
It was a genuine concern. Not critical ❤️
I sincerely hope that you guys can be together again. Wat seems to be a good partner and great father something I admire about him .Children need to grow with a father like that. I am not sure whether there could be more to why he has decided to leave besides what you have shared. Please help him through this dark period of his life, if him leaving you guys for a while is one solution then its ok.I would be very sad if your family fail apart like that. You gave me hope that people can be happy with each other and make marriage work as long as they love each other, respect each other and understand all differences in culture and backgrounds .Your kids are lucky and blessed to have Wat as their dad. He may not have all the education and experiences but he is rich in wisdom and Love which is important to pass on to the children. Few men have got the time for their children and family.Sending my love to your family
She meant him leaving Bangkok the city, not the marriage.
Separation makes only worse. Wat needs support in his difficult time for whatever reason....and so, that commitment for 2 months in Bangkok it doesn't matter at this point.... What matters is that both are hurt emotionally and they need to get back together to fix it as ADULTS. Put aside negative feelings, hopes and expectation "for the moment", because nothing more count but this matter and the longer is postpone the harder is to fix it.....
????? They have not separated. He lost his father recently and has gone back home
Christable....wasted comment. This is why you should listen carefully to your teachers when you were in high school.
I agree. I know this is personal but then this is also a public post so sharing my comment. I love this family and the one silent but strong core is Wat, in my view. It is indeed about leaving to be alone in grief but my sense is that it may lead to more without his family by his side. If that happens will really feel sad for the children. Wish you all happiness.
That poor man lost his father, it is too soon for him to be traveling, he is sad and mourning that death. He is not use to all that traveling. It is too soon, he is still too sad.
I agree, way too soon to be travelling after the loss of his father
Life is uncertain. Death is certain.
- the Buddha
Sometimes we need to give people space for emotional recovery. Wish Watt gets better soon. It’s so lucky to have nam as your best friend to accompany you as needed.
Oh wow they have made application for hajj. Will use it in the future 🤩 in sha allah ❤️ thank you lily for these videos i am really enjoying your videos. I even watch them at work whenever i am free 💖
One of my sons was adopted from that orphanage40 years ago. Such an interesting video for me
That’s amazing!
@@lillyslife be strong Lilly. Wat will be back. Yes the death of his father would be affecting him but the pull of those beautiful kids and wonderful wife will bring him back. You have a unique personality I admire you immensely as a person and a mother
I could really feel the deep connection between you and Nam and it's so amazing. I'm praying that everything will work out for your best 🙏💜
It's a nice friendship foresure but wat should have the deeper connection
@@jackieanderson4108 You can’t force the style of affection onto someone else. To each their own.
Yes ...I agree but you make vows to your husband not your friend.....grief can be quite serious and can lead to depression
Wat needs your support! It was really hard when you lose your parent. I was there before! It does can hit you very badly on those feelings….trust me Lily!! ;)
With due respect... Wat is suffering silently... It shows on be face n yes he needs all the support
Still water runs deep
Wow that was very nice Lily. Faith and helping others in need has no religion. Thank you and may God bless you and your family.
My prayers are with You, Wat, and the family. May God put his blessings on all of you! As for going out and seeing some kids, buying them all food, and learning a little about Islam really touched my heart. God bless you Lilly 🙏
If you both have some misunderstanding, communicate with each other and clear it. Lilly, your poor little children need their father.
she even doesn't mention of him. Clearly "communicate with him" means for her "to submit himself to her". Wat is poor has no money and place to leave....what choice he has? he will have to comeback to her. She know that + he will miss his children
Lilly let me tell you that even when people seem calm and not crying, after a lost of a loved one the worst days are the months after. The only thing you want on those months is spending time with people that feel the same way as you do. I’m telling you this because I lost my mom and did not like to spend time with people who seem to be enjoying life ignoring the pain you are having inside, try to understand him a little more and focus a little more on him. Do thinks that he enjoy and later on things that you enjoy!
Poor baby boy Wat,whose father has had a long fruitful life
Destroy your own life and family,because that is what your father would want. Yes!!
Beautiful I forgot. his Father and Best friend. Makes sense
Bruh. Wat is a grown man in his mid 40s who lost his father to oldage.. & If you can't stand to see others happy, especially your family then that's on you! Even worse when you're in your 40s and a man! Save the tissues for the orphans!
I strongly agree. Grieving is forever. We just need time to learn how to live with the death of our love ones.
@@gigievanmerza exactly 👍🏻sorry if you’re grieving a loved one! God bless you
Why you let Wat go home alone...as a family u should go w/ Wat & the children so that sorrows & pain will fade away...
I’m so sorry that your husband is going through sadness right now 😞🙏🏼 I pray that he finds the strength to heal and come back to you all with a clear mind. God bless your family xx
You all a beautiful family. You all in my prayers. Love you all and God gives Wat blessings to return to you all.♥️🙏♥️🙏
I feel very sad for Wat. In my opinion he has looked extremely sad and overwhelmed. He’s grieving for his father and the move to Bangkok was probably to quick for him even regardless of his loss. I also feel telling everyone your husband has left you makes it look like he has just up and abandoned you and your children.
Yes I'm quite disgusted how it makes wat look like he just buggered off.....my first reaction to that choice of tittle was....it's dishonest....disrespectful and a way to attract more viewers.....not impressed when wat does soooo much work for those kids.....more than what I see Lilly do
@@jackieanderson4108 Totally with you on this
@@irenekegel5988 Totally agree with you
Guys, stop judging someone you barely know. This is a business for her in addition to her import business. The titles of most youtube videos are created to entice more viewers who will click and subscribe, thus creating more revenue. She's doing the same thing everyone else does.
@@lkbarrett39 Total BS, And wipe the tip of your nose.
You are a strong lady miss lily and having Nam by your side is definitely a blessing. I hope wat feels better soon. Yall need to be together ❤️🥰
Love and Hugs from America 💛
Praying for you and Watt. Hope he heals soon. God Bless Nam for being there for you and the kids.
Well.. Lilly I hope u and wat work things out , everything happened for reasons, God bless you and ur family! Prayers for you reunite with wat sooner then later .. 🙏😊❤️
Wat hasn’t look happy for a few week I think he misses his old life hopefully he’ll return to you soon x
🙏 Wat is a strong Thai man, they dont show emotions !
I am a revert muslim from uk and i have been muslim 22 years, was nice to watch what muslims are doing in other countrys Masha'Allaah
Thank you!
lol, the “revert” thing. So basically every human beings are born muslim even Jesus is a muslim. Do you see how demonic your religion is. well the “satanic verses’ says it all.
Remember that your husband was once a little boy who looked up to his father.
And your little boys will one day be men like their father.
This is the my fav out of all your vids.. so wholesome, full of joy and your editing + song choices for the moments are just perfect! Shame it got ruined by the over sensitive commentators!
So much culture within Thailand that only a few that are brave enough to wander are privileged to witness..!
Oversensitive? Please. It was very unethical and insensitive of Lily to be filming this video in the first place. She should have known better. Lily is a useless person, big ego and insensitive. Dont waste your time watching her....
@@jeromestavrosyeo lol @ you watching & commenting on all her vids..🤦😂
Nam is so joyful. She is exactly what the family needed.
Prayers for Wat. He just needs time.🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
I mean this with the utmost respect I enjoy your channel and watch all the videos. I`m married a long time I don`t know much about your life or marriage, but one thing I do know if your husband is in pain and unhappy you should try to be with him to comfort him and try to make things work. The children need their father too. maybe a few days alone will help him clear his head . Usually I find a wife and children to be a mans comfort. Being apart from your husband for a long time is not the best option for a marriage. I feel for Wat.
I have lived in Bangkok area and now in rural Thailand. I do know Thais that are from villages ( seaside or farm) find large cities a “different planet”. Bangkok’s Western choices / conveniences for foreigners may seem like a “no brainer” but this is not a priority for Thais from rural Thailand.
I think Lilly will have to focus on her husband’s well being also.
On a previous video she said, “I have never been so happy in my life!!!” And I thought, og nooo. This is trouble.
That is the Best Advice, I have heard! The Lord doesn’t not want Husbands and Wives to be Separate no matter what. When we get Married we become one! I have left My Husband and Children a couple of times, because of things I was going through Mentally,Spiritually and Physically. It was the worse thing I could do. It brought so much pain and hurt to my family. Many consequences to me! The Lord opened my eyes to things I needed to ask for forgiveness for and repent! Also how I needed to Respect and Be By Husband’s side. So Many things I needed to change in being the Wife and Mom the Lord calls me to be. I have been thinking lately how as Husbands and Wives we need to have Very Selfless Love for One Another. Not having Our Way and Thinking about what we want or the way we think things should go!
Please change this tittle Lilly....we know wat didn't just leave you like that.....you would be destrought....you are enjoying yourself.....be more respectful to wat who is in alot of emotional pain
She did write “my husband left me in Bangkok” that doesn’t insinuate Wat really left her so the title is fine. This is how RUclips works. You write tittles and make thumbnails that give good click rate. If you don’t you won’t get views and RUclips is Lilly’s income. 🤷♀️😊
@@TimezoneJunkies yes but this is a worldly way of dealing with something that should be intensely private l it’s a family not for clicks
@@arnicepernice8656 that might be true but you still watched it right?
@@TimezoneJunkies I want to support them BOTH . Lily is fragile and especially so now. She needs to be aware of the reaction of her viewers. It was not said in malice and I watch all her vlogs. I will continue to pray for Gods protection for all the family,and especially wisdom for Lilly.
Nam doing mauy Thai... love it! I am enjoying watching your Bangkok life! Prayers going out to Wat 🙏
I laughed so much when Nam was doing the situps!! She is such a wonderful beautiful spirit! Yes, you are lucky to have her, just as she is lucky to have you!!prayers for you and your family!🦋😀🙏
Dear Lily, I pray that the Lord bring peace back to your family and with the good news that Wat reconcile his grief and see the brighter day as a dear husband and daddy of three beautiful children
I noticed something in one of your very recent vlogs in Thailand where you were out and about at night on a specific street with your family. You and Wat were walking together side by side and all of a sudden you started talking about being the sole breadwinner for your family. I saw the change in Wat’s face immediately and within a few seconds your
husband was following behind you by 2-3 feet, as though he didn’t want to be seen.
Yeaah, Wat totally knows what a 'breadwinner' is!
@@onlyone664 she has said many times in front of him that she is the only one who supports the family financially. Roles are sometimes reversed... she forgets that he is the one who cares for the kids 95% of the time.
Her thumbnail is just another example of how she tried to throw him under the bus. The way she makes him feel small, not a real man is just bad. I can only imagine how she talks to him when not filming. WE ALL KNOW WHO WEARS THE PANTS.
@ Mary Miller 💯🙌
@@debbiewenckowski4670 I agree completely on both of your great comments, truthful facts.
Thankyou Lily for your life stories . I like your honesty about your life ❤️ and everything. You have ❤️ beautiful ❤️ children 😘 and a loving kind 😘❤️ and faithful ❤️😘 good husband. You are a beautiful ❤️ kind girl. GOD BLESS 🙏 🙏❤️ You and your family.
Dear Lilly: You have a heart of gold. Teaching your children kindness and giving to others is one of the best lessons you can teach your children. I send my deepest prayers to Watt. When we lose a loved one we all grieve in our own way. Wishing him strength to get through his grief and move forward when he is ready. You and Nam are a great team!! I can certainly see how you both have bonded even closer.
You are a true warrior Lilly. You always find the light no matter how dark it seems. Big hugs and kisses.💛💛🥰🥰
@@irenekegel5988 Irene, not everyone's a desperate gossiper judging people via little clips, letalone clips posted by the very same person.. We're all viewing the same video, not everybody stoops to your level. Please leave the well-meaning comments alone.. you aren't enlightened to anything more than the rest of us are!
@@onlyone664 Now who being nasty, no need to attack Irene kegal for having an opinion on this vlog like everybody else is. It may not be what you want to hear but this is for commenting.
...."have a heart of gold" for money. Show me one singular video where Lilly REALLY teach her children kindness and so that would be a great example for others who have children............Weird, "Nam and Lilly are great team " - shouldn't that be Wat and Lilly...? The truth is that Nam eventually will go her own life and that is where the story will end. For now Lilly keeps Nam as long as she can because she is not really into take full responsibilities for her children. Wat is gone, so she has still for that job Nam. Lol, certainly Lilly is "warrior"
@@happydays241 Erm no.. do you know how to look at a person's comment history?? Irene isn't just 'everybody else' but 1 of a few that's leaving negativity I'm every video whether it be about preaching about God whatever else.. they then seek out other comments alike & start gossiping & attacking Lilly!
@@marmar7255 Good observation, Sherlock! what a pleasant comment history you have, you've been added to the usual suspects!
Lilly, you have to go back to Wat! If as you said he's having depression, he is really suffering and he needs you by his side. Being far away from his children and his wife will only make things worst. Bangkok is not gonna disappear anytime soon, but you could loose your husband... try to understand him and go back to home with him, help him heal!
I love this video you made. I'm an American expat living in Dubai, UAE with my husband and 4 children for almost 16 years. The Arab culture is amazing.
I am so sorry for his loss i will be praying for him. You have a wonderful husband
Aww my heart goes out to watt I lost my dad in January and I still get days when grief overwhelmes me. So it’s still raw for watt. 🙋🏾♀️🙏🏾
Wats had a lot of loss from his father and his best friend. Sometimes time away is the best medicine. There's no doubt of the love you both have. Let this be time of growth for both of you.
I also asked God what should I do today, All the love.
I agree, but he’s a marry man with kids. You endure it, you grieve with your family by your side. You talk it out or communicate. If you want time you’re there and your family explores and you grieve secluded in private time but a man of God should not abandone his family period. I love Wat but is too weak of a stand
@@indigosamuel8344 Everybody is different and who made the rules that you have to grieve with your family - obviously you. At least Wat didn’t announce there family problems to the world, Lilly should learn to keep private life in there little family not tell the world….
Sad to hear that your husband Wat left you in Bangkok But I Thank God Nam is there to help you with the kids. Thank you NAM! I pray for your protection and safety out there in bangkok.
Poor Wat, hope he is Ok, the kids will miss their daddy, he has not looked happy for a long time, and obviously when his dad died he hasnt been able to recover properly from that, he needs you and the kids Lilly, you and him need time together, he needs help and support, you have Nam, I have always thought Wat has looked so unhappy for sometime. xxx
Nigel Williams I like you
Lily I love you and your amazing faith May GOD wrap you in his amazing Grace and fill you with peace that surpasses all understanding.God bless your sweet family. I’m praying for you all.
Wat is missing his island life in Koh Samui, his family and his old friends. Bangkok is alien and no personal touch . Wat, literally, can't breath in the city. Wat will missed his wife and children surely. He knows Nam will keep his family safe in his absence . Don't be sad, Lily, give his space. When he returns then, talk it over peacefully. Everyone here pray for the well-being on your family and remember God will always protect little children because they're innocent.
I totally agree.
He's also don't have job , depends money from wife is not good
I agree 💯.
Dont be selfish.Go and support your husband, he needs you more then ever.
Oh God do you know the insights to talk about being selfish? One should be more respectful about other peoples live.
i aggree she should go back too the village with him unless of course he said he doesnt want her as his partner anymore then thats different
@@nhru0708 then she shouldn't have made an announcement about her personal family issues on here. Wat not only lost his father but just before that lost his best friend. Death and grief are horrible things to go through especially the loss of a parent. Lily has multiple times proclaimed about how- miserable- she is!.. It was in reference to herself, NOT about her family. It's different if you're single or if you're a couple without children. It's not about her selfish needs anymore it's about her FAMILY.
She can't make a headline about her personal business and put her personal business out in the wide world of RUclips and not expect a clap back.
@@nhru0708 100%.. I like how it's all the usual suspects liking each others comments.. alot of 30-midlife women w/ little worldy experiences!
@@blueyedmermaid1447 get a life and let the other live. i am sure you have enough in your own plate
I love to see Nam’s joy throughout this video.
my advice to you is get out of BKK take the children.....HOME
She is making lots of money and now wants the big city, bye Wat. Really sad , she can't make it without her Nanny. Bye Wat fast lane and money 1st.
I would agree but Wat should have talked to liliy and together make a decision. Additionally liliy is the breadwinner of the family. Wat needs to get a job. We all have responsibilities. Wat should have put at least yhe children first. I am very sorry liliy but I have lost respect for Wat.
@@dilkycorteling2586 you don't know if they talked or not Lilly did not say. Please don't be so judgemental. It's not your place, only God's.
@@dilkycorteling2586 Very wrong that you should say "I have lost respect for Wat"
According to scripture Wat is the head of the family. Yes husbands and wives should make decisions together but the final say should be the husband's. They very probably made the decision together to come to Bangkok but now it very much seems he is unable to make the huge adjustment to a very soplisticated city lifestyle. Lilly married a Thai man from a very simple and unsophisticated background which has been very evident all along particularly when they visited his family ( well before his father's death) and we saw the very basic lifestyle and conditions he had been raised in and continued living in at Koh Samoy. All along he has been an exceptionally devoted father and a supportive husband ( looking after Leon while Lily visited her family in America for three months) I believe he has played an important role in helping Lilly keep the u tube channel going. I believe the best thing for the family is that they should be together in a place he can cope with.
I believe I speak for many of us when I say I have enormous respect for Wat and deep compassion for him in his present predicament.
Wat is a loving man a good father to his beautiful children
He loves that simple life he cannot change,he would be so unhappy,hates being on Ytube,and he doesn’t have to be
You are very good at what you do Compromise, you have Nam and Sonia to assist you
Wat doesn’t have to be in your shows,find a place where you both like and can live together ,also for the sake of the children,they love their father.
You are the bread winner,this is the 21st century,one can’t live on wind pies and nothing chops.One has to have a substantial income to provide for the family
So!! work it out,too much to loose
🙏🏾 praying for you all
Love you Lilly ❤
I'm so sorry Wat left you and the kids, but I'm not surprised. Too many changes, too fast. The loss of his father, leaving his island all all his friends and family and moving to a big city prove to be too much. He's a simple man accustomed to a simple life. How he's is going to fair without his children by his side? Luke and Leon will miss him so much. The both of you want different lives. Lily, gird yourself and be careful. Nam is a blessing to have with you but someday she may want to go back to her boyfriend. She's entitled to her own life and not living vicariously through yours. Lily, think about your future and that of your children. Carefully plan your future. I'm so concerned for you. I am concerned for Wat. Mostly, I'm concerned about Luke, Leon and Lyla. 😳🥺
@ Mitzi Alamo Totally agree with what you have said. There is children involved in this marriage and Wat did quite a lot for those children like feed Lyla through the night that’s why he looked so tied the next day. Wat also took the children to school. Lilly has very little to do with the children without Nams assistance it’s very sad for the children…
@@happydays241 What's sad is that big grown adults like you think this CAPITALIST CREATED WORLD WORKS ON FAIRY DUST! You cannot be that cognitively backwards, that you think that Lilly Expat has a magic wand that makes these videos while running her online boutique for her family's income. Lilly is still very much American, and with that she is required to pay taxes, the more she earns, the more taxes she is required to pay the United States government. Not everyone is like you living off government grants in your first world privileges while you play dolly house as a burden to your government. Get financial education so you can know how this capitalist created world works for the sake of your children's lives. Currently the United States has an over $30 trillion federal debt with galloping inflation, very sad for the millions of American children being raised by debt-stressed parents while you think everything is about fairy dust!
i think your far to concerned about another persons Life who you don't know personaly...watching videos is different to reality...too much worrying for things that haven't happened and for a person you'v never met...Liley and Wat are both mature intelligent people who know how to handle their personal life situations when they arise
We should be concerned for your self first,!!
Well said, Mitzi Alamo. I totally agree with you.
Sending prayers to your family !! Much love to y’all 🙏🏻🙏🏻♥️♥️
Lilly I believe you could have gone to a more worthy orphanage than this one. They have so may things there for the orphans e.g. library. This has nothing to do with religion but how poor the orphanage's are and this one certainly is not poor with been aligned to Saudi Arabia. Also I feel as though you have not thought enough about Wat and the impact all of this is having on him. You are a lovely woman and very generous and I know you love Bangkok, I do too but your husband needs your helping hand at the moment. Nam will leave you at some stage as she will want a life of her own after all this jet setting and what will you do then. Think of your family first Lilly. Keep well and love watching you all.
Luke probably needs a bit of taming and probably needs to be put in a proper school environment.
Schooling is so important for him now and he needs to learn to play with other children and not want to stay home all the time. You and Wat need to be firm when it comes to schooling. Please dont take this as been harsh but as a mother of 4, I believe you need to do more in the education and socialising for Luke with other people and not let him have his own way all the time.
Do you realize millions of children are home school,who gives you the right to tell these parents what to do
Good grief !! So rude
@@Stc2311-q5r I have the right to reply like you do. Home schooling is rubbish and makes children unable to function properly in society for most of the children who go through home schooling. If you don't like what I say don't read it. Simple as that.
I feel sorry for Wat , it’s hard to absorb the shock of losing parents. He need your support in this difficult time.
I do sympathize with Wat but you must remember he is a grown man of 46 years.In the midst of life there’s death,our parents ,friends will die that is inevitable,you grieve and move on,because you have a family,children to think about,it is called the circle of life
He needs to man up.
@@Stc2311-q5r shut your mouth.. you must remember youre not him and got no idea about his life you know it all…
I can't understand why Lilly wouldn't want to be by his side...and the tittle sounds terrible on wats side.....my husband left me in Bangkok with three kids......she can film at home or take a break....and travel later on ..poor wat
@@Stc2311-q5r Wow oh wow .
@@jackieanderson4108 I agree . It seems its all about what one wants and blow what the other one wants . Very sad .
I could've told told you that Wat wasn't going to like living in Bangkok...Bangkok is a big city and you can tell he was raised and has lived in a different environment. Becareful with neglecting your marriage and family for this RUclips stuff; all money isn't good money.
She isn't neglecting anyone. You people need to cut this lady some slack, geez
@@user-ym9ds1ox3u I said what the fuck I said! Her husband just lost a loved one and here she is posting and being inconsiderate of his feelings....bye
Yes....and Bangkok doesn't even really show us much culture....I mean big city....is big city ...everywhere.....wat is the main culture advisor....now he needs a break that's totally ok ....it really is cringy watching when he really doesn't want to be filmed ....and I am starting to wonder are we really doing the rght thing by watching children being filmed ....I've seen Leon hit the camera.....I hope as the children go that this isn't too unatural for them.....personally I just want to learn the culture
Do you forget that Lilly LEFT HER MOTHERLAND, HER BLOOD FAMILY, HER CULTURE AND MOVED ACROSS THE WORLD TO LIVE WITH HIM IN THE COUNTRY THAT SHE COULDN’T SPEAK THE LANGUAGE NOR HAVE ANY FRIEND?
@@user-ym9ds1ox3u These people just have kept jealousy inside and now it came out.
I'd really like to know why some people on here think men should just suck it up? Grief is grief and not everyone handles grief the same way. It depends on how close you are with your parents or others I guess.
It's the title of the vlog for me,poor Wat