Half these assumptions come from a place of BITTERNESS chileee. Yall need counselling!! Haters be rushing here before us loyal subscribers chileee. Ika we love you and don't let these negativity of some of these assumptions get to you. The real ones know who you are! Love from Trinidad🇹🇹 Sidenote: Plastic surgery isn't a reason to justify your unrealistic hate for someone, get off the internet and get help.
I sense envy and jealousy in most if not all these hateful assumptions. Ika live your best life with your Dem and ignore haters and envious people. I’m rooting for you ❤️❤️
Ika: “the moves that he’s making with me and for me.. are moves that some of your husbands are not making for you” PERIOD!! Ahhhhh !! I freaking love you Ika! Literal Savage! 🙌🏼😍 Gotta love it !!
Yasss! I feel like the people leaving these rude assumptions don’t know what confidence and self love look like so they feel threatened by Ika. Don’t feel threatened people just take notes! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Insecure people can’t handle strong personalities and confidence... especially when you’re smart and get everything you want! Ika, you’re an amazing, inspirational woman! That’s forsure!
Ika reading all the terrible mean things people say about her, and in the middle dem sends her a cute song that’s actually so cute 🥺 y’all are soulmates it’s like he knew without knowing that ika needed a pick me up 🥰😍
@@ThePltsweet To be honest, a lot of things are being projected from their assumptions but jealousy screams out loudly and for some reason I believe some reverse psychology is involved because this couple keeps a lot of things private.
I met you at the hair salon you are one of the most approachable, kind, real, funny and generous person I've randomly met 🥰. Keep your chip up high girl ❤️
The response to people thinking she has no self-worth and she's with a man who hasn't given her a ring yet, "The moves that he's making with me and for me are moves that some of your husbands are not making for you." - Ika 2022 🔥👏
Ika, from one Black woman to another, you deserve all the blessings and happiness that life has to offer. Don't worry about the haters: Misery loves company.
If she was a white woman you and be saying that because a grown man shows two black women and that's why you're hating on her find a find your own man have a man by your house I'm a man be faithful to you
You know what Ika? I have learned in life that when people make evil, mean , nasty assumptions, it's because they're unhappy, and are trying to make someone as miserable as themselves. You owe no explanation to anyone why you're not married, or whatever the case may be. One size doesn't fit all in relationships, and whatever works for you and Dem, as long as you guys are happy, at the end of the day, that's all that matters. Continue to do you, and to hell with those people!!!!!!
It’s crazy how my confidence and self worth has grown from just watching your videos and the way you carry and respect yourself. You are a definition of a true independent, strong focused woman. Those negative assumptions come from people who are projecting their insecurities on you. You inspire a lot of us sis. Continue doing what you doing
Right?? I feel like I am applying so many of her advices in my daily life and every time I watch a new video I just feel a new wave of wanting to be more confident. Her energy is amazing 🥰
Those assumptions are so crazy. Like who says these awful, mean things?! People need to learn how to be kind, stop being so jelly, and stop trying to bring others down. If someone is doing well, be happy for them. Either way, we should all be lifting each other up. Life is hard already, why make it more difficult? I don't understand. Also, Ika has some really good responses to all that negativity.
Wow, I’m in my feeling listening to these assumptions. I guess these assumptions says more about them than you. I don’t comment on videos often, but one of the main reasons why I follow you and Dem is because of positivity. I like to see people happy, successful and supportive especially in this climate. As an African American woman, I love to see WOC in successful relationships, while being independent and also you are raising two respectful sons. It’s a shame that people would have the balls to write this to you. But, hey at least they are thinking about you and consider your haters as fans. The more they watch your videos, the more money they put in your pocket. So take the time and say thank you for contributing to your coin.
The self worth comments are WILD and screaming insecure. Ika is one of the most confident yet humble RUclipsrs I watch. Some of these people leaving assumptions must not actually watch because those who have been here know how secure you have to be to as genuine, kind and down to earth as Ika is. It’s also ridiculous that other people project their timelines onto you. Anyway keep doing you boo! We Stan 💕💕
Libra gang!! Girl who’s asking these questions? I’ve never gotten negative vibes from you. Then again, you remind me of myself and I happen to love me lol. Maybe it’s a Libra thing. Keep enjoying your man, your money and your life sis! Cheers 🥂
Who are these people assuming these things about Ika? Have they never watched her? She seems like the sweetest, most beautiful soul. And it's clear that Dem loves her to death. She's answered all these questions a million times over. But I'm always here for an Ika upload!
I’ll never understand how someone’s energy can be so low and off that they have to put someone else down. Ika is so humble never met the woman but you can tell she has a damn good heart and she’s a good woman and mom.🖤 I hope you never let these assumptions get to you girl.
You know, some people are so rude and downright disrespectful. Some of those assumptions were so degrading and hurtful. Ika handle them with such grace like the queen she is. Thank you for always being so open and transparent with us Ika. Keep being just the way you are. Nuff ratings!!!
Personally I'm not looking forward for a part 2, because that's what the trolls want. Ika, we are now living in a world where our beauty is always questioned. **You are beautiful plastic surgery or not** I've seen many people with plastic surgery who can not even be compared with you honey, the disrespect. They're unhappy with themselves(trolls). There's a Caribbean saying "if you have nothing nice to say don't say nothing" they definitely missed that. Anyways... your response was lovely, continue to stay strong we love you, don't need to answerthe trolls. ❤ Since you did this video you owe us a good comment video 📹 🧘🏾♀️
Awww I would love a part 2 with nicer assumptions. Whoever wrote those assumptions are haters Ika. I promise you those people WISH with everything they have that they had your life. They are jealous and too much of a coward to admit it. Real bitches recognize real bitches. Don’t give these haters the time of day focus on the people who love you. Like me❤️❤️
I love how she didn't aggresively clap back at any of these people, that shows how much confidence she has in her self and her relationship 😍 I love these videos ika🔥🤗
Girl take it from me. A ring is not the biggest flex. A lot of married people are very unhappy. Yes I am patiently waiting for the ring. However, Dem loves you and you are right, some people in that struggle love and struggle marriage. Be happy for your blessings and don't let the haters get you down.
A ring is not the biggest flex, and people put a huge price on marriage while simultaneously not emphasizing the emotional maturity it requires to be in a position to commit the remainder of your life to another human being. That being said, from the outside it can seem equally immature, disrespectful or even unintentional (as in one person does not have a future planned or thought about with their partner) when one party seems to be more clearly desiring marriage, yet the other party may not seem as settled on the idea yet. Many women say that it’s just disrespectful and a waste of time for a man to “drag u along” for anything longer than 3 years, and they’re not wrong for feeling that way in your adulthood. Either way this not their relationship but that opinion isn’t so much judgmental as it is just women imposing their own relationship standards on someone else’s relationship. Because Dem clearly invested a LOT into this girl and their relationship that looks like a future investment and he said he fell in love at first sight, which if u knew them from BBCN then yeah it was obviously that. People ignored those investments and only focused on the ring, but if they look into all of that together, they’d probably change their minds, but most of the time those kind of opinions tend to be right, look at every other RUclips couple…
@@treeve13 Great response. Just for clarity, when I said I am patiently waiting for the ring. I meant that I am patiently waiting for Dem to marry Ika which I know is coming. Dem and Ika are clearly in love and invest in each other. I don't remember the video, but there is a video with Dem and Ika discussing why they have not gotten married as yet. Dem said he had a lot of growing up to do and back then if he married Ika it probably would not last because he was not ready I have been married for almost 11 years been with my husband about 13 years. If I could turn back the hands of time I would have never gotten married. I would have waited for him to know and understand who he is what he wanted. 11 years married and he is still not ready for marriage. So trust a believe. When Ika and Dem gets married. They will have a solid marriage because they have many if not all the fundamental blocks that are required to have a healthy marriage. I have only watched a few clips from Big brother with them and they have truly improved and grown together. Ika looks so beautiful and refined now and Dem looks so suave........lol. They have also matured a lot especially IKa and that attitude and anger she displayed seems under control. This is great, with some couples counseling they should be good. Take it from me, Dem and Ika are good. A lot of us women need to be more patient for that ring especially when we see that the man had the right intention shown through his actions. Dem clearly demonstrates this.
@@sali6522 I loved what u said. I’m also extremely sorry to hear about ur spouses position of not being ready. I think that’s the sad truth for probably most relationships. And that’s very interesting that he admitted that, I don’t watch too many of their videos only here and there, so hadn’t heard him say that, but self-awareness is a beautiful thing. Thanks for ur response it was extremely well-thought out and gives me a lot to consider in my own life.
@@treeve13 Thank you so much for being so kind. If you are not married as yet, please take your time. Better to take your time and marry the right person as oppose to rush to the altar and be unhappy. Either way work on you first, ensure you understand yourself and are clear about what you desire in a spouse and do not settle. People treat you how you allow them to and the moment you settle for less than you deserve, you get less than what you settled for. Marriage can be a beautiful thing but you have to align yourself with the right partner. Good luck.
Ika, you definitely handle that like a champ. You were very respectful and calm and polite. You did very well. By the way, I bet those people still watch you and Demetri channel and maybe even yours. Thanks, Ika.
Peops are so rude . Damn . Ika is such a strong woman . She has helped Dem be who he is , hes said it . These 2 are a beautiful couple and when they do get married I will be so happy for them . They have been so open and honest with each other and us . I respect them so very much . Go Dem and Ika .... make the haters hate
Let's be real. Ika KNOWS HER WORTH. Her money has nothing to do with her success. (Although she's made sure she's set in that department too.) She is GORGEOUS, something dozens of surgeries wouldn't make possible for most women in the world. She's intelligent, caring, compassionate, and so intimately in love with Dem. Her son is raised well and has the best manners. This one is winning and all you butter ninnies come out to dog on someone living their best life because you have no one who will listen to you and think she won't see these comments. Respectfully. Find something better to do with your bitter lives. Ika is a winner🏆
Ika for every hater you have thousands of people who support you! ❤️❤️ look at how well your channel is doing and all the love! Just know none of those things are true. You are strong beautiful and confident and people who aren’t sure of themselves are intimidated and choose to hate on you. LOVE LOVE LOVE YOU
Oh Ika, these people are nasty! You don’t deserve these assumptions. You’re beautiful, you have clear skin, lovely white smile, gorgeous sons, an amazing man and money in the bank.. girl! You are a walking dream to many! Don’t let those bitter Betty’s steal your shine. You inspire me to be better. Hugs hugs ❤️❤️❤️
People need to mind their own relationships. Everyone moves different and people need to respect that. Don't worry about these assumptions,as long as what anyone says doesn't add to your life, IT DOESN'T MATTER. Haters will always be there,butbas they hate you rise!!!🌸
Dear Ika, you are so beautiful,confident and respectful! I made my daughter keep up with yur every move because, in my sight you are a big deal well rounded and perfect……my son finds you super classy. It’s dead sad how people bad mind……they just want to be you Ika.
I'm proud of you Ika! I've seen you grow tremendously as a person over these last years. You inspire me to be a better person and to be my authentic self. I'm so thankful that you chose to share your life and journey with us, you didnt have to, you dont need the money yet you continue to fellowship with us and include us. I'm in tears writing this. Thank you for being REAL to me and treating me like family. I pray blessings and increase in your life always and I will be here to cheer you on all the way! I love you Queen! ❤❤❤
Ika, i’ll be completely honest! You know you’re a perfect stunning beauty and i can guarantee that these women critiquing your appearance are ugly because u never see a pretty person tear someone down. Secondly, u hit the nail on the head about the marriage subject. Half of the women pressing u are probably single and lonely themselves… whewww chileeeee. Stay blessed beloved ✨
I seriously was tearing up when ika was. I love you girl! You are so inspiring to women everywhere. You are beautiful confident yet humbling. And I love the vulnerability you showed in this video 🥺💗 makes us feel so much more connected and understand your story. You are such a sweet soul
I'm sorry you had to deal with those assumptions. You don't have to explain yourself to anyone. You seem like a good person. We love you. Keep being you.
That's how you know you're a beautiful human being....haters. It's the curse of being blessed. Its refreshing to see someone who loves and respects themselves Ika. Keep doing you.❤
OMG! The ugly things that people say or “assume” are just mind blowing! 😳 I feel like every mean assumption you received was obviously from people who are hating how their own lives are going🤷🏾♀️ All I see when I watch you is a woman who demands respect, knows her worth and is confident in the moves she makes for herself and her family. You know…. Queen 👸🏽 $hit! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Having work done or not doesn’t matter much(except for cases were the person wasn’t satisfied or whatnot) it’s the person’s character that master. Thanks for posting Ika🤗😃
Marry is nothing because some people that have already married are also divorced already ..don’t worry or care about the haters..why people like to go into other people life gosh ..Ika you are well put together point and period..🖤💚💛💯👀💕⭐️
Ok im only 3 mins into the video and I just wanted to comment that all these assumptions sound like just mean stuff and haterade because Ika is confident, beautiful and completely authentic. Don't mind those people and block certain words or people if necessary. Your happiness and peace should not be affected by these horrible comments. The people who wrote it have issues with themselves and are projecting. WE THE PEOPLE do not think this way. We love you and keep shining in 2022 👸🏾 👑 Queen Also I'm here for you giving back the energy you get. You don't have to answer the question nicely if it's asked rudely towards you. You're better than me, I like hurting feelings 😌 Also do a Part 2 with just nice assumptions. No more giving of breath and energy to negativity!!
I’m so sorry you have to deal with those assumptions. You don’t deserve that at all smh. So happy I found your channel(s) , you seem like a genuine person and your own woman 🤍
@@IkaWong love you so much Ika but i just want to remind you - you do not have to respond or make videos addressing haters! we don't want to even hear their nasty comments and they don't deserve a platform or that you even acknowledged them. we know none of it is true and is just simply what it is - a hater hating! 🤣😂🤣 you handled this maturely but still we don't want their negativity on your channel. let's try a PT 2 with just normal respectful assumptions. i guess when haters have the ability to attack you anonymously they all come out. it's giving mad insecure and aggressive jealousy. please they need to get therapy and stop trying to hurt others they envy. i use to ask why people were so cruel and mean to me and then i recognized it was extreme jealousy that turns into rage and bullying. from adult grown women... in Beyonces words "pretttyyy hurrtttttss" 🤣🤣🤣🤣 may Allah protect and shield you and your family from evil eye 🙏🏽
Why would anyone say that about ika🙄, she’s literally the nice and sweetest person. Wtf I’m literally mad right now I would just curse them out one by one for you ika.
Ika, Jamaican poem for you "People must talk, if you do good they talk, if you do bad they talk. People must talk" You're always going to have haters. These women making the assumption wants your man. They want what you have. You don't need to explain yourself. Oprah and Stedman are not married. Dem treats you like a queen. I think of Russel and Ciara when I watch you both.
Having a ring is material possessions, if you don’t have a strong foundation then it won’t last. Ika keep doing you, I wish you a good and healthy partnership with dem whether you decide to get married or not.
YOU have raised some amazing children on your own girl. We all know some people who grew up in 2 parent homes who dont have the character your kids have. You did good. You should be proud. We love you ad you inspire me and I know so many other people so much.
Everyone has there moments, you will never be confident every single time in your life. Growing up Jamaican also take a damper on your confidence. I can relate. I realized that growing up Jamaican made me feel like I had to accept anything that comes my way. I had to learn that I deserve more and not to settle. I am still a proud Jamaican. People think I am a bitch too but I am such a super nice person and can be awkward as hell. Love this vid.
The question about you not knowing your self worth made me laugh. I subscribed to your couple's channel because I saw you most definitely knew your self worth and wanted to get tips! The way you compose yourself and act shows security in who you are. You display such strong principles, that regardless of what is happening, you are always respectful and articulate yourself well whilst being very direct. I've learnt (and am still learning) a lot from you 💕
So many people on social media have ugly insides. A lot of times, no fault of theirs. They’ve probably struggled or are struggling with something in their lives and choose to express it violently or rudely, on other people. Ika’s definitely gorgeous, seems sweet spirited, and I loooove seeing women (especially black women) get treated like princesses 💕🥰 and get spoiled. Go Ika!
Ika, you don't have give any of these people anyb explanation and the path you and Dem are taking in your life.Dem loves and respects you and that's all that matters. People will always hate and I am so proud how you answered these questions. I am a product of a teenage pregnancy and I so proud of my parents that choose my life and did not gave me up for adoption. You have done well,you have great self esteem and you are doing very well for yourself. Never let haters get to you.Love your channel. 💗
You are so right they want a man to take care of them and but when someone has it they are jealous. Yes Ika you do want rich peoples problems.. Dont you dear tell the universe that you don’t want rich peoples problems. You should read “The millionaire Mindset by T. Harv Ecker. Yes girl you want rich peoples problems not poor peoples problems. Poor people cant do anything for anyone because they are dam poor. Im so happy for you girl. Every woman needs a man to take care of them, that’s how God created the world. We all have a roll to play in the home. Stay blessed my girl. I’m totally happy for you on the behalf of the good women out here. The hating ones don’t count. Ika you a rich, and dam wealthy....congrats
Ika you are naturally beautiful and I just love the fact that you are so real. Your personality is banging and you make me laugh so much. Typical Jamaican spirits. Dem just jealous. Love you babygirl. Keep doing your thing Mama. 😊🙏😘😘
What haters are following you like that! You are right ppl say “goals” and really want to knock someone down! A mom who looks like you, a teen mom who grew as an influencer, and makes 6 figures, and such a great mom Rashaud and Elijah shows that, made a name for herself, and found a great guy! You truly are inspirational and are goals!!!!!!
The fact that they think that about you and still follow you on i.g n subscribe or come to "stalk you" on your yt channel 🥺some people need to have some individual cleansing?!! I love you Ika ,just continue being authentic .
Ok, so, in conclusion- people love making assumptions about people they have never met. I'd say this, if you're going to critique something or someone, do it nicely (for (example, "mi nu like how unu a mek d video sem su shawt") because you really don't know what other people are going through! I've been here from almost day one, more like day 2. And I've seen the growth, development and strides. If you've been here and part of "The People" for a long time you would not have those baseless assumptions. Ika should release the names so we can reach out to them and see what kind of stone lick dem Inna dem head fi a chat dem way de bout people. Disrespectful. Ika, wi love you an yu family nuff nuff.
I've been with my husband for 14 years now, had our first child 7 years in the relationship and just got married in 2020. So check that. You being together only 5 years and not married yet honey that's not a problem. I dont know why people tend to rush marriages.. its not running away. And I definitely don't want to rush into a marriage only to be divorce several years later, No.. once I'm married that's it for me, we in it together forever. So ppl take your time to get to know your partner .. any amount that you want to take ill advice before jumping that gun.
Ika you are doing your thing. A smart beautiful mom don't forget that. A Baeeee, jealousy a kill them. What kind of people watch your channel and leave these kind of comments. I feel like you're my daughter and I need to protect you.
Quote of the day: “Don’t worry about my self worth, Worry about your husband.” PERIOD! 😆🥰
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Absolutley! Say it again for the people in the back!! :)
Lolz tell them Ika!!
Periodddddd 🤧
Black people had these lips before plastic surgery became a thing 🤦🏾♀️ i cant stand people sometimes… Ika you are beautiful in every way!
Black people used to be made fun of for having big lips
@@yardiegyal86exactly and now everyone wants to have it 😂❤
My god. Comparing this video to other Caucasian youtubers really shows how much more black women are judged. You go, queen. Screw the haters.
All the time.
Facts!!!
“Moves that some of your husbands are even making for you” purrrrrr!!!!!👏🏾😭🤣
Half these assumptions come from a place of BITTERNESS chileee. Yall need counselling!! Haters be rushing here before us loyal subscribers chileee.
Ika we love you and don't let these negativity of some of these assumptions get to you.
The real ones know who you are!
Love from Trinidad🇹🇹
Sidenote: Plastic surgery isn't a reason to justify your unrealistic hate for someone, get off the internet and get help.
PREACH! I agree 100000% with this comment!
Some people just hate to see others win. Even when you’re living life and being happy someone’s still going to have something to say🤦🏽♀️
Yes you said a mouthful girl the haters beat you on here because they're jealous & miserable
Very well said!
I sense envy and jealousy in most if not all these hateful assumptions. Ika live your best life with your Dem and ignore haters and envious people. I’m rooting for you ❤️❤️
Ika: “the moves that he’s making with me and for me.. are moves that some of your husbands are not making for you” PERIOD!! Ahhhhh !! I freaking love you Ika! Literal Savage! 🙌🏼😍 Gotta love it !!
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Yasss! I feel like the people leaving these rude assumptions don’t know what confidence and self love look like so they feel threatened by Ika. Don’t feel threatened people just take notes! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
You go Ika.
Facts!
She was spot on when she said this comment in the video!
Note to self.... tell Ika it is AN emergency and she needs to call me back ASAP! lolol... truly a Natural Beauty, Real and SO funny ! xox Love you !
So many gems dropped today: money doesn’t equal your value.
Ika can never be ugly. Her heart and her physical appearance are gorgeous ❤️
Insecure people can’t handle strong personalities and confidence... especially when you’re smart and get everything you want! Ika, you’re an amazing, inspirational woman! That’s forsure!
totally!
That PART‼️‼️‼️‼️
YES!! so true. Healed people heal people. Wounded people wound people
Exactly!!
Right, they lowkey wish they had her confidence & self worth! So crazy to see how bitter some people are
All these people coming after a beautiful, strong woman. Ugh. You handled this beautifully, IKA!!!
Ika reading all the terrible mean things people say about her, and in the middle dem sends her a cute song that’s actually so cute 🥺 y’all are soulmates it’s like he knew without knowing that ika needed a pick me up 🥰😍
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Right?! It is like he knew!
Any high schooler can buy an “engagement ring”. Ika is right, Dem is in for the long run. He shows it every day with his actions.
Yep
We love you Ika! Don’t worry about these bad mind people 😤
Badmind indeed. Apart of me wonders if it's reverse psychology to encourage her to talk more about her business.
@@lilniggachin Hmmm interesting. I don't know about reverse psychology but definitely sounds like projection of insecurities.
@@ThePltsweet To be honest, a lot of things are being projected from their assumptions but jealousy screams out loudly and for some reason I believe some reverse psychology is involved because this couple keeps a lot of things private.
I met you at the hair salon you are one of the most approachable, kind, real, funny and generous person I've randomly met 🥰. Keep your chip up high girl ❤️
The response to people thinking she has no self-worth and she's with a man who hasn't given her a ring yet, "The moves that he's making with me and for me are moves that some of your husbands are not making for you." - Ika 2022 🔥👏
#Facts
Talk about it that took the cake for me. That's the whole darn video 😁
Plus Ika makes silent moves. A lot of people out here moving and making so much damn noise 🤦🏻♀️
Exactly
People are jealous, you are with someone who loves you.
Ika, from one Black woman to another, you deserve all the blessings and happiness that life has to offer. Don't worry about the haters: Misery loves company.
Yes ma'am & it's sad people be miserable literally
If she was a white woman you and be saying that because a grown man shows two black women and that's why you're hating on her find a find your own man have a man by your house I'm a man be faithful to you
@@annemariebrown9096 First of all, your post makes absolutely no sense. You clearly did not read my post with comprehension.
Is Ika Blasian?
@@Ghost-un6oe shes fully black shes jamaican
‘He’s my person’ ❤️🥲
Ika is just an unproblematic human, beautiful inside and out, she is so honest, and funny 😆I love watching her grow
You know what Ika? I have learned in life that when people make evil, mean , nasty assumptions, it's because they're unhappy, and are trying to make someone as miserable as themselves. You owe no explanation to anyone why you're not married, or whatever the case may be. One size doesn't fit all in relationships, and whatever works for you and Dem, as long as you guys are happy, at the end of the day, that's all that matters. Continue to do you, and to hell with those people!!!!!!
LMAO they’re haters! We know your a humble, kind, respectful women who also has respect for herself. We’ve seen it through every video.
It’s crazy how my confidence and self worth has grown from just watching your videos and the way you carry and respect yourself. You are a definition of a true independent, strong focused woman. Those negative assumptions come from people who are projecting their insecurities on you.
You inspire a lot of us sis. Continue doing what you doing
Right?? I feel like I am applying so many of her advices in my daily life and every time I watch a new video I just feel a new wave of wanting to be more confident. Her energy is amazing 🥰
Yess!! Well put!! Nothing but projection!
You and Dem have a beautiful supportive relationship and anyone who can’t see that can stay mad, period.
no self-worth!? Ika, you literally embody self-worth and confidence. I love watching your videos because of how vibrant you are!
Those assumptions are so crazy. Like who says these awful, mean things?! People need to learn how to be kind, stop being so jelly, and stop trying to bring others down. If someone is doing well, be happy for them. Either way, we should all be lifting each other up. Life is hard already, why make it more difficult? I don't understand. Also, Ika has some really good responses to all that negativity.
Wow, I’m in my feeling listening to these assumptions. I guess these assumptions says more about them than you. I don’t comment on videos often, but one of the main reasons why I follow you and Dem is because of positivity. I like to see people happy, successful and supportive especially in this climate. As an African American woman, I love to see WOC in successful relationships, while being independent and also you are raising two respectful sons. It’s a shame that people would have the balls to write this to you. But, hey at least they are thinking about you and consider your haters as fans. The more they watch your videos, the more money they put in your pocket. So take the time and say thank you for contributing to your coin.
Haha Thank Those H.s for the Coins
Assumptions aren’t facts 🙄 some people need to learn that😮💨. Keep doing you Miss ma’am love from JA 🇯🇲
"Without Dem, I make six figures",, you gotttta love Ika's energy🥺❤
The self worth comments are WILD and screaming insecure. Ika is one of the most confident yet humble RUclipsrs I watch. Some of these people leaving assumptions must not actually watch because those who have been here know how secure you have to be to as genuine, kind and down to earth as Ika is. It’s also ridiculous that other people project their timelines onto you. Anyway keep doing you boo! We Stan 💕💕
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Yes, Ika is supermodel gorgeous of course the girls are pressed 😂
Libra gang!! Girl who’s asking these questions? I’ve never gotten negative vibes from you. Then again, you remind me of myself and I happen to love me lol. Maybe it’s a Libra thing. Keep enjoying your man, your money and your life sis! Cheers 🥂
Who are these people assuming these things about Ika? Have they never watched her? She seems like the sweetest, most beautiful soul. And it's clear that Dem loves her to death. She's answered all these questions a million times over. But I'm always here for an Ika upload!
I’ll never understand how someone’s energy can be so low and off that they have to put someone else down. Ika is so humble never met the woman but you can tell she has a damn good heart and she’s a good woman and mom.🖤 I hope you never let these assumptions get to you girl.
Ika is beautiful and amazing and values herself like the queen that she is. That’s my assumption🤩🤩🤩
I don’t know why people think you’ve had your lips done. You’re a black woman. Anyways great video Ika! Love that you’re posting more on your channel
This video made me love you 10x more than I already did. You're one of the most authentic people on here and those assumptions are ridiculous. ❤❤
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I feel like we’re watching a completely different person, low self worth? No confidence? Huh… y’all projecting & reaching 😩🤦🏾♀️
You know, some people are so rude and downright disrespectful. Some of those assumptions were so degrading and hurtful. Ika handle them with such grace like the queen she is. Thank you for always being so open and transparent with us Ika. Keep being just the way you are. Nuff ratings!!!
Personally I'm not looking forward for a part 2, because that's what the trolls want. Ika, we are now living in a world where our beauty is always questioned. **You are beautiful plastic surgery or not** I've seen many people with plastic surgery who can not even be compared with you honey, the disrespect. They're unhappy with themselves(trolls). There's a Caribbean saying "if you have nothing nice to say don't say nothing" they definitely missed that. Anyways... your response was lovely, continue to stay strong we love you, don't need to answerthe trolls. ❤
Since you did this video you owe us a good comment video 📹 🧘🏾♀️
Awww I would love a part 2 with nicer assumptions. Whoever wrote those assumptions are haters Ika. I promise you those people WISH with everything they have that they had your life. They are jealous and too much of a coward to admit it. Real bitches recognize real bitches. Don’t give these haters the time of day focus on the people who love you. Like me❤️❤️
I love how she didn't aggresively clap back at any of these people, that shows how much confidence she has in her self and her relationship 😍 I love these videos ika🔥🤗
Girl take it from me. A ring is not the biggest flex. A lot of married people are very unhappy. Yes I am patiently waiting for the ring. However, Dem loves you and you are right, some people in that struggle love and struggle marriage. Be happy for your blessings and don't let the haters get you down.
A ring is not the biggest flex, and people put a huge price on marriage while simultaneously not emphasizing the emotional maturity it requires to be in a position to commit the remainder of your life to another human being.
That being said, from the outside it can seem equally immature, disrespectful or even unintentional (as in one person does not have a future planned or thought about with their partner) when one party seems to be more clearly desiring marriage, yet the other party may not seem as settled on the idea yet.
Many women say that it’s just disrespectful and a waste of time for a man to “drag u along” for anything longer than 3 years, and they’re not wrong for feeling that way in your adulthood. Either way this not their relationship but that opinion isn’t so much judgmental as it is just women imposing their own relationship standards on someone else’s relationship.
Because Dem clearly invested a LOT into this girl and their relationship that looks like a future investment and he said he fell in love at first sight, which if u knew them from BBCN then yeah it was obviously that. People ignored those investments and only focused on the ring, but if they look into all of that together, they’d probably change their minds, but most of the time those kind of opinions tend to be right, look at every other RUclips couple…
@@treeve13 Great response. Just for clarity, when I said I am patiently waiting for the ring. I meant that I am patiently waiting for Dem to marry Ika which I know is coming. Dem and Ika are clearly in love and invest in each other.
I don't remember the video, but there is a video with Dem and Ika discussing why they have not gotten married as yet. Dem said he had a lot of growing up to do and back then if he married Ika it probably would not last because he was not ready
I have been married for almost 11 years been with my husband about 13 years. If I could turn back the hands of time I would have never gotten married. I would have waited for him to know and understand who he is what he wanted. 11 years married and he is still not ready for marriage. So trust a believe. When Ika and Dem gets married. They will have a solid marriage because they have many if not all the fundamental blocks that are required to have a healthy marriage.
I have only watched a few clips from Big brother with them and they have truly improved and grown together. Ika looks so beautiful and refined now and Dem looks so suave........lol. They have also matured a lot especially IKa and that attitude and anger she displayed seems under control. This is great, with some couples counseling they should be good.
Take it from me, Dem and Ika are good. A lot of us women need to be more patient for that ring especially when we see that the man had the right intention shown through his actions. Dem clearly demonstrates this.
@@sali6522 I loved what u said. I’m also extremely sorry to hear about ur spouses position of not being ready. I think that’s the sad truth for probably most relationships.
And that’s very interesting that he admitted that, I don’t watch too many of their videos only here and there, so hadn’t heard him say that, but self-awareness is a beautiful thing.
Thanks for ur response it was extremely well-thought out and gives me a lot to consider in my own life.
@@treeve13 Thank you so much for being so kind. If you are not married as yet, please take your time. Better to take your time and marry the right person as oppose to rush to the altar and be unhappy. Either way work on you first, ensure you understand yourself and are clear about what you desire in a spouse and do not settle. People treat you how you allow them to and the moment you settle for less than you deserve, you get less than what you settled for.
Marriage can be a beautiful thing but you have to align yourself with the right partner. Good luck.
@@sali6522 Thanks for the advice, it has been noted!! nd you too
Marriage should not be rushed into! So take your time. Ika is happy. Jamaicans are confident ppl. Ika me love how you ansa the haters dem
I already know that these assumptions are wild because ika is very open towards us🥰
Ika, you definitely handle that like a champ. You were very respectful and calm and polite. You did very well. By the way, I bet those people still watch you and Demetri channel and maybe even yours. Thanks, Ika.
Peops are so rude . Damn . Ika is such a strong woman . She has helped Dem be who he is , hes said it . These 2 are a beautiful couple and when they do get married I will be so happy for them . They have been so open and honest with each other and us . I respect them so very much . Go Dem and Ika .... make the haters hate
I absolutely feel if I saw you in public you would gladly take a pic with me , You are such a sweet person but I absolutely love your sassy side too
@@pattykittenguru8296 💯 I def would
@@IkaWong ❤
Let's be real. Ika KNOWS HER WORTH. Her money has nothing to do with her success. (Although she's made sure she's set in that department too.) She is GORGEOUS, something dozens of surgeries wouldn't make possible for most women in the world. She's intelligent, caring, compassionate, and so intimately in love with Dem. Her son is raised well and has the best manners. This one is winning and all you butter ninnies come out to dog on someone living their best life because you have no one who will listen to you and think she won't see these comments. Respectfully. Find something better to do with your bitter lives. Ika is a winner🏆
Ika for every hater you have thousands of people who support you! ❤️❤️ look at how well your channel is doing and all the love! Just know none of those things are true. You are strong beautiful and confident and people who aren’t sure of themselves are intimidated and choose to hate on you. LOVE LOVE LOVE YOU
Ika is the type of friend that will be there for you, she's super loyal and generous with her time and tingz.
People are so rude, hater stay away from Ika please 🙄, we love you queen 👑 ❤️
Oh Ika, these people are nasty! You don’t deserve these assumptions. You’re beautiful, you have clear skin, lovely white smile, gorgeous sons, an amazing man and money in the bank.. girl! You are a walking dream to many! Don’t let those bitter Betty’s steal your shine. You inspire me to be better. Hugs hugs ❤️❤️❤️
People need to mind their own relationships. Everyone moves different and people need to respect that. Don't worry about these assumptions,as long as what anyone says doesn't add to your life, IT DOESN'T MATTER. Haters will always be there,butbas they hate you rise!!!🌸
Dear Ika, you are so beautiful,confident and respectful! I made my daughter keep up with yur every move because, in my sight you are a big deal well rounded and perfect……my son finds you super classy.
It’s dead sad how people bad mind……they just want to be you Ika.
Hey Ika, I really look up to you a lot and please don't ever let the haters get to you because you're amazing
Lot's of love❤️❤️❤️
Exactly, none of the assumptions are from people who actually support her
I'm proud of you Ika! I've seen you grow tremendously as a person over these last years. You inspire me to be a better person and to be my authentic self. I'm so thankful that you chose to share your life and journey with us, you didnt have to, you dont need the money yet you continue to fellowship with us and include us. I'm in tears writing this. Thank you for being REAL to me and treating me like family. I pray blessings and increase in your life always and I will be here to cheer you on all the way! I love you Queen! ❤❤❤
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Beautifully said🙌🏾
Ika, i’ll be completely honest! You know you’re a perfect stunning beauty and i can guarantee that these women critiquing your appearance are ugly because u never see a pretty person tear someone down. Secondly, u hit the nail on the head about the marriage subject. Half of the women pressing u are probably single and lonely themselves… whewww chileeeee. Stay blessed beloved ✨
Ika is literally the cutest and kind person i really don't understand why people hate.. love you ika 💓🇰🇪
I seriously was tearing up when ika was. I love you girl! You are so inspiring to women everywhere. You are beautiful confident yet humbling. And I love the vulnerability you showed in this video 🥺💗 makes us feel so much more connected and understand your story. You are such a sweet soul
You dont owe nobody an explanation Ika... ❤️.. they wish to live your life sh'em
I'm sorry you had to deal with those assumptions. You don't have to explain yourself to anyone. You seem like a good person. We love you. Keep being you.
That's how you know you're a beautiful human being....haters. It's the curse of being blessed.
Its refreshing to see someone who loves and respects themselves Ika. Keep doing you.❤
OMG! The ugly things that people say or “assume” are just mind blowing! 😳
I feel like every mean assumption you received was obviously from people who are hating how their own lives are going🤷🏾♀️
All I see when I watch you is a woman who demands respect, knows her worth and is confident in the moves she makes for herself and her family. You know…. Queen 👸🏽 $hit! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Puuuuur 💅🏾 name on every purchase yes ika tell them !
Having work done or not doesn’t matter much(except for cases were the person wasn’t satisfied or whatnot) it’s the person’s character that master. Thanks for posting Ika🤗😃
Marry is nothing because some people that have already married are also divorced already ..don’t worry or care about the haters..why people like to go into other people life gosh ..Ika you are well put together point and period..🖤💚💛💯👀💕⭐️
Ika has so much wisdom. Beauty and brains. ❤❤
Ok im only 3 mins into the video and I just wanted to comment that all these assumptions sound like just mean stuff and haterade because Ika is confident, beautiful and completely authentic. Don't mind those people and block certain words or people if necessary. Your happiness and peace should not be affected by these horrible comments. The people who wrote it have issues with themselves and are projecting. WE THE PEOPLE do not think this way. We love you and keep shining in 2022 👸🏾 👑 Queen
Also I'm here for you giving back the energy you get. You don't have to answer the question nicely if it's asked rudely towards you. You're better than me, I like hurting feelings 😌
Also do a Part 2 with just nice assumptions. No more giving of breath and energy to negativity!!
I’m so sorry you have to deal with those assumptions. You don’t deserve that at all smh. So happy I found your channel(s) , you seem like a genuine person and your own woman 🤍
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@@IkaWong love you so much Ika but i just want to remind you - you do not have to respond or make videos addressing haters!
we don't want to even hear their nasty comments and they don't deserve a platform or that you even acknowledged them. we know none of it is true and is just simply what it is - a hater hating! 🤣😂🤣
you handled this maturely but still we don't want their negativity on your channel. let's try a PT 2 with just normal respectful assumptions.
i guess when haters have the ability to attack you anonymously they all come out. it's giving mad insecure and aggressive jealousy.
please they need to get therapy and stop trying to hurt others they envy.
i use to ask why people were so cruel and mean to me and then i recognized it was extreme jealousy that turns into rage and bullying. from adult grown women...
in Beyonces words "pretttyyy hurrtttttss" 🤣🤣🤣🤣
may Allah protect and shield you and your family from evil eye 🙏🏽
Anyone else loving how consistent ika been on both channels. She Ain’t messing around 2022. 🤩🤩
Why would anyone say that about ika🙄, she’s literally the nice and sweetest person. Wtf I’m literally mad right now I would just curse them out one by one for you ika.
SAMEEEE.....
GIRL SAME.
Same, you can tell Ika is a VERY sweet person. She’s down to earth, funny and sweet.
Jeez people have bile!!! I have always seen Ika as this Sweet, beautiful inside and out, who minds her business and so should the haters! 🇰🇪
Ika, Jamaican poem for you "People must talk, if you do good they talk, if you do bad they talk. People must talk"
You're always going to have haters. These women making the assumption wants your man. They want what you have. You don't need to explain yourself. Oprah and Stedman are not married.
Dem treats you like a queen. I think of Russel and Ciara when I watch you both.
I love this !!!
Having a ring is material possessions, if you don’t have a strong foundation then it won’t last. Ika keep doing you, I wish you a good and healthy partnership with dem whether you decide to get married or not.
Love you Ika. You are a wonderful partner, mom and human being in general and it shows.❤
Girl! I’m in it with you. You handled yourself VERY well in dealing with antagonists! 👏🏾😊
YOU have raised some amazing children on your own girl. We all know some people who grew up in 2 parent homes who dont have the character your kids have. You did good. You should be proud. We love you ad you inspire me and I know so many other people so much.
People are so ridiculous for sending her this type of shit. Good for her for not letting it change her
Everyone has there moments, you will never be confident every single time in your life. Growing up Jamaican also take a damper on your confidence. I can relate. I realized that growing up Jamaican made me feel like I had to accept anything that comes my way. I had to learn that I deserve more and not to settle. I am still a proud Jamaican. People think I am a bitch too but I am such a super nice person and can be awkward as hell. Love this vid.
The nerve.....Ika is drop dead gorgeous. She deserves to be with someone who loves and supports her. I love Ika and Dem together ❤
The question about you not knowing your self worth made me laugh. I subscribed to your couple's channel because I saw you most definitely knew your self worth and wanted to get tips!
The way you compose yourself and act shows security in who you are. You display such strong principles, that regardless of what is happening, you are always respectful and articulate yourself well whilst being very direct. I've learnt (and am still learning) a lot from you 💕
So many people on social media have ugly insides. A lot of times, no fault of theirs. They’ve probably struggled or are struggling with something in their lives and choose to express it violently or rudely, on other people. Ika’s definitely gorgeous, seems sweet spirited, and I loooove seeing women (especially black women) get treated like princesses 💕🥰 and get spoiled. Go Ika!
Ika, you don't have give any of these people anyb explanation and the path you and Dem are taking in your life.Dem loves and respects you and that's all that matters.
People will always hate and I am so proud how you answered these questions.
I am a product of a teenage pregnancy and I so proud of my parents that choose my life and did not gave me up for adoption.
You have done well,you have great self esteem and you are doing very well for yourself. Never let haters get to you.Love your channel. 💗
Ika’s my RUclips bestie!!!! Bring on Tuesday’s video!! 🥰😍😘
I was just thinking I would love an advise video from you and I think this is a little with that type of vibe. Welcome to: IkAdvise 😂💁🏻♀️
We miss you, Queen. ❤️❤️❤️
You are so right they want a man to take care of them and but when someone has it they are jealous. Yes Ika you do want rich peoples problems.. Dont you dear tell the universe that you don’t want rich peoples problems. You should read “The millionaire Mindset by T. Harv Ecker. Yes girl you want rich peoples problems not poor peoples problems. Poor people cant do anything for anyone because they are dam poor. Im so happy for you girl. Every woman needs a man to take care of them, that’s how God created the world. We all have a roll to play in the home. Stay blessed my girl. I’m totally happy for you on the behalf of the good women out here. The hating ones don’t count. Ika you a rich, and dam wealthy....congrats
Ika you are naturally beautiful and I just love the fact that you are so real. Your personality is banging and you make me laugh so much. Typical Jamaican spirits. Dem just jealous. Love you babygirl. Keep doing your thing Mama. 😊🙏😘😘
Hey Ika! I''m a libra and you are totally on point when it comes to responding to text and phone calls! Never realized it was a libra thing. lol
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Libra squaaadddd
yes i'm a Libra and everyone who knows me knows my messages are coming weeks/month later 🤭🤣
Me tooo, that is so funny 😂 😂😂
@@oromtitiwbo5078 we get distracted and forget to message back.
Big up yuh nice clean self Ika! Haters just wanna be! 😄 No part 2 is necessary!
You’re so beautiful naturally, whoever thinks otherwise is hating. Keep doing your thing queen 👑❤️ we love you!
We ADORE DRUNK IKA😍😂❤️❤️❤️👏💯👑
What haters are following you like that! You are right ppl say “goals” and really want to knock someone down! A mom who looks like you, a teen mom who grew as an influencer, and makes 6 figures, and such a great mom Rashaud and Elijah shows that, made a name for herself, and found a great guy! You truly are inspirational and are goals!!!!!!
The fact that they think that about you and still follow you on i.g n subscribe or come to "stalk you" on your yt channel 🥺some people need to have some individual cleansing?!! I love you Ika ,just continue being authentic .
Ok, so, in conclusion- people love making assumptions about people they have never met. I'd say this, if you're going to critique something or someone, do it nicely (for (example, "mi nu like how unu a mek d video sem su shawt") because you really don't know what other people are going through!
I've been here from almost day one, more like day 2. And I've seen the growth, development and strides. If you've been here and part of "The People" for a long time you would not have those baseless assumptions. Ika should release the names so we can reach out to them and see what kind of stone lick dem Inna dem head fi a chat dem way de bout people. Disrespectful.
Ika, wi love you an yu family nuff nuff.
I loveeeee you 💕💕 but mek dem stay lol. We’re over here thriving with clear skin lol
@@IkaWong mi de ya Inna BC and winter a dry out my skin- so Fenty a save mi. Yu need to tell dem fi gu n... s...!
I've been with my husband for 14 years now, had our first child 7 years in the relationship and just got married in 2020. So check that. You being together only 5 years and not married yet honey that's not a problem. I dont know why people tend to rush marriages.. its not running away. And I definitely don't want to rush into a marriage only to be divorce several years later, No.. once I'm married that's it for me, we in it together forever. So ppl take your time to get to know your partner .. any amount that you want to take ill advice before jumping that gun.
Love your consistency on this channel! 💖
Ika you are doing your thing. A smart beautiful mom don't forget that. A Baeeee, jealousy a kill them. What kind of people watch your channel and leave these kind of comments. I feel like you're my daughter and I need to protect you.
An Ika Advise Video Is Needed!!!
I LITERALLY just discovered your channel. It made my day thank you!!