Recreating "outfits i'll wear when im skinny" Pinterest boards on a size 14
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as a mid sized person, i often hate myself for the way my body looks. i exercise, i eat well, but i just feel big all of the time. and every 👏 single 👏 time 👏 i watch your videos, i feel confident and inspired to wear whatever tf i want. ty for loving yourself and in doing so helping me learn to love me.
This!!! 💖
this!! love you susie!!! 😍❤️
Love this! Same❤❤
same
Oh this!! Me too! I regularly workout and try to watch what i eat, but i stay the same, i’m still trying whilst also making efforts to love my body the way it is now and enjoy the process
YOU'RE ONLY 21????? You seem so much older. Not physically, but in the way you carry yourself, the way you speak, just the way you are. You seem just so mature.
Thankyou honestly I’m just old gramma Susie at heart 👵❤️
Yeah she seems like a very mature lady
She really does! I had no idea she was close to my age! What a queen
I think that is the best compliment anyone has ever given,
like yeah, you could tell me I look nice today ✨or✨ you could tell me that I act mature and everything that goes with that
Not being sarcastic, I just think it’s true ❤️
Soo truee 😍
These pinterest boards should be titled what it is, "Outfits I'll wear when I have confidence". It doesn't matter what your size is, as long as you're confident you can wear whatever you want.
the funny thing is that wearing the styles you like usually makes you feel more confident! so really, they should be titled "outfits I'll wear now to feel more confidence" (or maybe "outfits I'll wear once I have enough money to actually buy cute clothes...")
yes!!
@@kyupin1075 yes lol
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my pintrest board is called “if i had money and confidence” ghdjfjg
I'm a psychology teacher in high school, and I had a lesson today on how social media impacts our self esteem. This video is a perfect example of how some trends can truly hurt, while others (such as your video) can truly help us on the way of accepting ourselves. Thank you so much for this video! I might have shouted you out in class today :)
That’s so great you can do that for your students! All schools should have these lessons.
This would be AMAZING to learn in school ! As a girl 👧 (:
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5 years ago a female coworker asked me… “you wear shorts with that size of legs and butt?” (I’m what i think it is a us size 16 with a really latina body) and my response was… “duh… of course, it’s summer and why i wouldn’t show my goodies”. So watching you makes me feel happy that not everybody is searching for the ig body (really toxic trend). My advice is, always take care of yourself so can enjoy your body and life. Big hugs to you!! ❤️❤️
One day an old lady told me not to buy a dress because its shows me my big legs so i laughed hard and bought it!!
I have worn different sizes throughout my life. I was overweight when I was a child, and then I have been put on a diet, since then I have never had a relaxed approach with food. Years ago I have left my country and I lost weight without dieting (which was amazing for once), I was about 52 KG 1.64 cm and I have been told I was too skinny. My weight increased and I reached about 58/60 up until 2020 when my weight...reached 68 LOL... I'm now dieting, my nutritionist (biologist and nutritionist) told me that most of the weight was due to bloat, I went through (and I'm still going through) a stressful period, I carry on other signs of somatoform stress like acute dermatitis, fatigue, sensory overload, anxiety. People are now saying that I look bloated, that I have changed... when I was 'too skinny' I guess I was size 8/10 now 12/14... I know for a fact that this body shape I'm in right now it's due to the CPTSD I'm experiencing... if you like yourself, do not listen to others...
@@marlen2746 that fossil needs to mind her business 🙄‼️☝🏼
You have no idea how many people aspire to be that "curvy 16". Work it, girl! I`m sure you looked fabulous that day.
I had a similar experience. A coworker at my job looked at me, pointed and said you're wearing shorts. I was like, what? I didn't get it. I still don't get it. I felt confused and hurt. I still feel that way years later. I am very curvy and about 30 lbs overweight now but I weighed less then. Even still it's my body to wear what I want.
This video made me cry? I lost 36kgs and developed anorexia on the way which has been ruling my life for 4 years. I wish I heard this advice years ago. I was so happy when I was chubbier. Honestly, I didn't have a care in the world. Then it took 1 doctor and the tiny girls I followed on Instagram to spark my weight loss 'journey' which has been detrimental to my mental wellbeing. Getting to your goal weight doesn't equal happiness (not for me anyways). You just set a new number new things about yourself to 'fix' when really you're perfect just the way you are. Thank you for this video Susie. You have such an important role on social media, especially for your younger, more impressionable followers who need someone to look up to. What a role model you are ❤️ much love from South Australia xxx
This comment just made me teary Kate 🥺 if I had a dollar for every time a doctor told me I should lose weight to solve my problems I’d be Jeff bezoz rich 🙄 it’s horrible and so harmful! I’m so sorry to hear you went through that and wish I could give you the biggest hug 💕 thankyou for your lovely words and sending you so much love in this journey to get better x I can just tell by this message you are the sweetest thing Kate and I only wish the best for you 🤧❤️
well you know, if you did it right, you could have been happy
@@v1sheshagrawal super curious to know how to lose weight 'right' and how it differs from what I did? Because to me calorie counting and gently exercising each day under the guidance of a GP & dietician seems pretty 'right'. It's almost like some people are more predisposed to developing mental health conditions, with eating disorders being no exception? I am really not interested in having a petty internet discussion with a stranger who doesn't know me or my situation so I won't be replying to you. Cheers.
@@katewatchesyoutube so you saying women are just easily disposed for mental illnesses. Because ever girl I’ve talked to says the same thing
@@katewatchesyoutube i really dont care if you reply or not bud, im not the one with an ED
Unfortunately I think, in Australia, with the resurgence of the 90s trends, we're seeing a return of very thin bodies being the trend. I wish fashion trends didn't have to go hand in hand with body types
These trends don’t fit well or make us feel good so why would we wear them 🤣. Majority of us need a bra, for starters, and don’t want straps hanging out or to wear strapless 🤣🤣. Especially with the pandemic, comfort is key!
@@alisalaska1786 no one needs a bra. It’s just the fashion trends/other people making you feel like you do
aye man sucks to suck
Yees, and the chubby girls just started getting some recognition, noo😭
@@brib6046 yes, I need a bra. It’s insanely uncomfortable for me not to wear one. If you don’t want to wear a bra, awesome! But yes some people do need to.
You know what I really hate? Fashion isn't the only thing that goes in and out of style, body types/body parts go in and out of style too and it's so infuriating!! We can never win 😭 but this video gave me so much more confidence ❤️
Iived through the low rise jeans era as a kid: I HATE them. I also have a big butt, and these type of jeans are NOT IT, atleast not if you want to move! So, definitely will not be re- participating in this. Lol I'm just hoping the advent of low rise jeans doesn't mean the other types of jeans will disappear. I remember the first time I saw midrise jeans in store. It was transformational.
Right? I was thinking “dear goddess! No!! Not the low rise jeans!!!! 😱 “
I don’t think high rise is going anywhere for a long time thankfully! 😁 and right the butt is always so tight on them 🥲
@@SusieJTodd hoping so! 😂 The booty crack in low rise jeans; the literal genesis of the plummer/butt crack jokes!
really? thats so intresting. i have a big butt and wide hips and i love the old low rise jeans. i tried so hard to make this eras high waisted/mid size jeans work for me but as a midsize girl and having shorter legs it just does NOT look good on me but whenever i go to a thrift store and buy older jeans that have a lower rise and they are generally shorter they look AMAZING on me
@@darkfeather111 I wish! Did I wear them? Yeah, I had no choice, but I did not enjoy them or find them comfortable. To this day, I will look at the length of the crotch of pants to make sure my ass crack doesn't feel drafty lol.
honestly it's like when people see celebrities wearing sweats and doing the bare minimum with their outfits they call them "fashionable" or able to pull anything off just because they have a skinny figure, are famous and are rich, but when someone from a different size wears the exact same thing they are called "lazy" and "not even trying". plus sizes are already hard enough to find as it is I don't think oversized people or anyone of any size needs anyone telling them "when your this body shape you can wear this" or need to look at posts saying "outfits for when I'm skinny". just my opinion, and before I get attacked just wanted to say that I'm not blaming anyone or referring to anyone in particular this is just my opinion and what I think is happening around the world. so yeah pls don't come after me.
P.s all bodies are beautiful
I totally agree! I also think normal skinny people get a lot of “is she anorexic” or “she looks like a crack head” especially the second if they are in sweats. We have a false narrative that celebrities are so wonderful and great, so our brains automatically think their beautiful and their clothes are great. We also associate beauty with kindness and stuff even though that’s not really true.
All bodies are beautiful and we shouldn’t care so much what others wear.
I think celebrities get the extremes of judgement on clothes.
Like they wear the basics and it's all "wow what amazing style!!" "so fashionable!" "new trend!"(as if no ones worn a white shirt tucked in jeans before)
But then they wear something that shows a bra strap and it's all "what a sl*t" "is she looking for a new man?" "is she cheating on her bf?" "super inappropriate for a mother" etc etc
or any clothes which don't flatter the stomach they start going
"is X pregnant?" "who is Xs babby daddy?"
and it's like, the hell is this??
I was kind of thinking the same thing. Like most of these outfits, except the last one, were pretty basic. Especially the first one. And these girls don't feel comfortable with their body in a sweatshirt and yoga pants? That's really sad.
There is also a race aspect to it. Street wear, wearing shoelaces as belts, sneakers, wearing clothes with big bold logos, big butts... Were all "trashy" and "ghetto" when POC had them, but now they are trendy and in style because blackfish rich white people wear them.
@@miaposamarie226 Yes, race and class are very much intertwined in the US (and many other countries too, of course).
I was a teenager in the 2000s and it destroyed my body image. Now that I'm about to be 35 I am finally starting to accept my body and it really helps that society is coming around. You look amazing in all these outfits.
I remember wanting to be Kate Moss in the 00s. At 33, it honestly still bothers me to not be a size zero, but I’d rather have energy, and the foods I enjoy, and a stable body temperature.
unfortunately in the region i live in that trend never left, there's no more than 2 overweight people in each younger generation (i'm talking like sub 50 years old) in my town and even if there are more most of them manage to lose a lot of weight and end up average or underweight. and you still get shamed even if you aren't overweight, especially as a kid. i used to be severely underweight and then when i finally got to that healthy weight zone i was told that i should lose all the extra weight i've put on and i was considered fat. i was 168cm tall and weighed 60kg at one point and i've been told by many people including doctors that i had to lose at least 5 kilogrammes. it really ruins your mind when you grow up like that
@@ukrivu it’s crazy how many girls were around 90lbs as a teen. That’s not right, I was very bony at 118, and 5’5”.
I feel like mid 30s is where it's at. I'm in the exact same boat! Happier now!
36 here. Same story. Sending you hugs.
Wow, this is a really insightful video. I’m pretty secretive about my eating disorder, but I remember when I was 13, I made my phones lock screen the Roman numeral digits of my weight so that I could remind myself always how much I weighed, and why I don’t deserve to eat. I’ve never told anybody that before, because I just thought it was the most fucked up thing ever. I really appreciate you sharing your own experience with something similar, it really makes me feel a little bit more normal.
I hope you're doiing so much better mentally now!
hope you’re doing better, I wish you well !
I understand that feeling. It's so hard to look back on painful or destructive parts of our pasts. I hope you're better and happier now. You don't just deserve to eat, you deserve to be happy - with yourself and your life.
Prayed for you!
@@ev_green_ that's so sweet omg :( i'm not religious but hearing someone else include a stranger in their prayers and wish them happiness is such a sweet thing to do :( may you always live a happy and healthy life
This video made me cry so many times. I've been bulimic since I was 10 and I really hate my body. I started following you on IG and YT maybe 6 month ago to try to change the wish/need to be skinny. Even though I have a long way to go I'd like to thank you for helping me to start loving myself and my body. I decided to stop looking at the scale and just listen to my own body and eat what I feel like. I feel so so so much better.
Thank you so much for being you and keep doing these videos. We need more people like you to show young girls that the goal in life isn't being skinny or having a specific body type, but just being happy. ❤️
I’m so sorry you went through that ☹️❤️ EDs can feel so lonely but you are not alone! X I wish you so much love in this journey and hearing that my videos have helped even just a little bit makes my whole week 🥲 I hope that you have someone you can talk to in person that you trust? It’s a lot to bear that all on your shoulders 💕 you will get through this I promise xx
thank you for this. clothes are made to fit you, you are so much more than just appearance so you shouldn’t put pressure on yourself to fit some damn fabric! wear whatever you want at any size you are!
this! 🙌
I looked back at my highschool photos with my coworker and we showed pictures to each other of times we thought we were super overweight and ugly but were SKINNY and pretty and wondered who hurt us to make us think so poorly of ourselves. I'm not 100% over my body insecurities, but also despite being bigger than I was in school I am loads more confident now
For someone who had anorexia and then gaining a lot of weight in a short amount of time i started to hate myself, so much that i developed agoraphobia. I m on my journey to love my body and to accept that i am so much more than what todays "beauty standards" tells me that i am. You are such an inspiration, i wish someday to be like you
Maybe you think you are big, but in reality you have reached a healthier weight (meaning more sustainable)... I'm now dieting and my nutritionist (biologist and nutritionist) told me that a good weight for is 60 kg (I'm only 1.64) I was shocked! I think beauty standards and medical standards differ quite a lot then...
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I think a big problem also is that many of this outfits are only seen as beautiful because of the body wearing them. I saw a video about this topic called "is it an outfit or is she just skinny?" and it's true - you can wear an outfit because you think the clothes are looking good or you can wear an outfit because you think the clothes make YOU look good. Doesn't necessarily mean you like the clothes, just what they are doing for you and I've also seen this on myself too. Even if I don't really like the colour or the style of a piece, if it makes me look skinny or shows off my body in a flattering way I'll probably wear it even tho I don't actually like it
this video means so much to me!! I gained a lot of weight during quarantine and none of my old stuff fits me as well anymore. This helped show me that CLOTHES should fit me, not the other way around !!!
Yes, clothes should be made for you, not that you should change to fit clothes. I've been learning how to make my own stuff, and it makes a huge difference since I actually can make things for me and my unpopular body shape that won't fit into most mainstream clothes (like physically I don't fit, mostly my shoulders), but when I have stuff that fits right, I don't notice how wide my shoulders are because I can still move my arms and do what I want to, and I can make pants long enough for my legs so I don't feel insecure about stuff being too short. I know people with the opposite problems, and even a simple tweak like taking something in a bit in the right places can make a huge difference!
Exactly! Preach
You are Right
I’m midsized and always feel guilty for the way my body looks. What’s crazy though is: When you showed the comparison pictures, I honestly didn’t even prefer the ‚skinny‘ ones. I either liked both or preferred your look. So: It’s not that I only like the way skinny bodies look, it’s just the only thing I see... So then I‘m ashamed for not being „the norm“. Thanks for making me love my belly ❤️
Me too
For anyone that also has problems with chafing- baby powder works wonders 😌 use it in the morning and it’ll last a whole hot , stuffy summer day in shorts 😌🤝 (this may be common knowledge for some people but hope it helps)
From a girl who’s parents told her growing up that “leggings and crop tops are a privilege not a right” when we would see a larger person wearing them and “Remember! A moment on the lips a lifetime on the hips” when I was eating sweets, thank you for this video. ♥️
As a teen with hairy legs, and seeing every Pinterest, Instagram and whatever have shaved legs made me feel so insecure about my own legs which I now realize it's stupid, watching this video really taught me that I don't have to torture myself or worry about not having shaved legs 💕 and just love myself😊
I’m so happy for you and slightly jealous that you’ve gotten to this point with your body image so young. It makes me sad to think of how many years I lost feeling bad about my body and feeling like I needed to hide myself away because I wasn’t “perfect”. I’m in my thirties now and still coming to terms with accepting my body and loving it for all the amazing things it does to keep me healthy. Love your vids ❤️❤️
shes got so much body positivity i love it
i’m so glad you made a video on this, i really needed some body positivity reassurance lately and you always remind us how beautiful we all are :)
So glad you like it beautiful 🥰
I’m a size 12-14 tall and long legs and feel the struggle on denim shorts! I’ve fallen in love with Rollas dusters shorts good solid denim and generous room around the legs and Wrangler hi bells, Stretch and room to move aswell!!
Thanks for the suggestion! Looking these up 😯
I've given up on shorts (I have to wear compression socks which aren't always the nicest), but discovered that baggy pants in a thin fabric are amazing for warmer weather! Most are too short, but I plan to buy a bolt of thin cotton fabric and make a bunch, then dye them. So for those who may not feel comfortable in shorts, those baggier pants styles are great, and often have elastic so they fit better.
The fact that she was serious and sincere, girl you’re the positive definition of influencer 💛
Usually the people who tell others “you’re too big for those type of clothes” or “lose some weight” are insecure about their own body! Let’s ignore them all and love ourselves 💗
ive been feeling awful about my body and how clothes looked and i genuinely cried when you reassured that i dont need to lose weight to feel worthy of wearing something i like. thank you so much.
I recommend the Levi’s 501 mid thigh shorts, because they are the only ones who don’t chafe for me! They’re also super high waisted and flattering 😍
I’ve been in the process of losing weight and developing a *•healthy lifestyle•*, so my “outfits for when I lose weight” board has become much more excited inspo than self-shaming. I also am not working mooching off my boyfriend at the moment so I have no money for the new clothes I want. Thank you for making this video and reminding me to keep my mind right ❤️
6:08 i just started crying. thank you for making this, these kind of videos help me a lot :( i'm currently in a very bad mental state because of my body and the way i look at it right now, so this makes me feel empowered. love you!!
After an almost fatal car accident in August, I broke my back. I’ve been unable to exercise since then and gained quite a lot of weight. Been feeling really insecure about my body but this video helps. You’re beautiful 💕
You’re beautiful and you went through some shit a lot of people couldn’t handle. Our bodies protect our beautiful souls so let’s be kind to them❤️
This was recommended to me at the perfect time- I’ve had a lot of weight loss and then a lot of weight gain throughout the pandemic and I feel like I’ve lost myself along the way, your confidence is shining through me, hopefully I’ll feel more like myself soon enough :)
as a mid size person i just want to say thank you for this video. Its hard feeling represented in media but the way you carry and respect yourself and your body is so inspiring. Thank you again
I must admit finding you has really helped me come along, I’m also 21 and midsized but I’m scared of wearing clothes that reveal my arms or legs or even my neck/collarbones but seeing you rock all of these outfits and your confidence 😩✨idk gives me a new view of the world
thank you for being the best influencer ever and actually doing what an influencer should do!!! i hope u are doing well and i wish u the best susie !!
im midsized/curvy and im dealing with a lot of body issues since i was a child, esp with my chest and legs, and seeing a fashion youtuber who looks like me is so comforting! i still feel the need to lose weight and become skinny but channels like yours help me a lot to not get too deep into that mindset :)
p.s. you’re super beautiful and your voice is so fancy!
This video came out at the perfect time! I was just watching your last recent vid whilst feeling very self conscious about my weight, wishing I was as small as I used to be. So thank you for making this video and for making me feel beautiful :)
You’re so welcome Emily ❤️🥺
I love your message!
When I was midsize I thought I was fat and I hated how I looked so I dieted myself into being overweight by ruining my metabolism with calorie reduction diets and exercising and then I got really depressed and gorged myself into obesity. It’s taken me genuinely accepting my body to be able to get healthier. I’m still overweight but I’m so much happier with myself than I was when I was midsize. I wish I could’ve learned this earlier but it took me actually living it. I hope it won’t take that for anyone who reads this. If you hate your weight when you’re midsize… honey, you don’t know what fat is but if you continue self hating you’ll find out! Good luck!
P.S. Deodorant doesn’t work as anti chaffe balm but you can buy them in Walgreens or cvs. It is cheaper to do it at home though by using coconut oil and starch. Just mix those two until when it’s rubbed in it feels like velvet on the skin, usually 2 parts starch and 1 part oil. I love it because it smells great and makes my skin so soft!
the thighs and denim shorts thing!!!! ive always been petite but my hips are super narrow which means my thighs will ALWAYS touch no matter how thin i happen to be! remember y’all, no thigh gap does not equal fat or unattractive, it’s literally just your genetics and bone structure !!!
As a plus sized woman it isn’t that I’m “too scared” to wear the clothes it’s that it isn’t made in my size at ANY store.
Susie thank you SO MUCH for making this video and talking about this. For someone with long time disordered eating and body dysmorphia it means so so much to see this and to see a body type similar to mine represented! you're incredible and I can't thank you enough for doing this video - it's so important for all of us to see and notice that we can all wear what we want regardless of our clothes size.
i keep thinking about how we've been so conditioned to think stick thin girls are the only ones who should even try to dress fashionably becayse they're the only ones who pull it off, but seeing you and seeing how literally everything you wore looked absolutely amazing on you really widens my perspective. love you ❤
Why do you have to call them stick though? That is body shaming
You can like "stick" thin girls or ball fat girls, you go
You're so mature and wholesome for someone so young. Like your words made me feel warm and hopeful, I hope you can share some tips and methods on how you eventually started accepting yourself as you are (btw you're such a vibe) because it really do be a real struggle. Love your videoss, keep doing you xx
I always thought "Susie looks like me!" I'm a size 8 American sizing and I just like watching your videos because you are funny and you are very body positive on your videos which helps me feel better about myself
Okay so I have just started watching your videos about a month ago and since then I have been looking at my body completely differently! I finally bought some clothes that I love but was too scared to wear. And it’s crazy to say but when a store has a size 14 that is actually a size 14 I am so relieved. Usually stores will have a size 14 that is still too small and that’s the highest they go. My body feels so much more comfortable being able to breathe. So thank you Susie!
I was 10 in 2000 (and yes you saying you're only 21 has made me feel ancient) and can absolutely remember people dressing like you did in the last outfit, you absolutely nailed the look 🙌
you genuinely look SO GOOD in the low/mid rise jeans!!! like they fit you PERFECTLY
I'm not even gonna lie, but when you said that we are beautiful just the way we are and that we don't need to lose weight, I was almost crying. I had no idea that I needed to hear that, and it just felt, I don't know, relieving? Thank you. This means a lot to me.
Susie thank you so much for making your videos!! One year ago i had this weird phase when i wanted to be super skinny like skinnier than bella and kendall. I was never chubby but i never looked how i wanted to. You helped me so much with loving myself i actually for the first time in my life love my body. Tbh what also helped is my sweet sister who made me realise that ALL bodies are beautiful + doja cat and megan thee stallion getting popular and them getting lots of positive comments on their bodies haha
Thank you Suzie. I'm an aussie 12, 40 years old, had birth 5 children naturally and breastfed all of them.
I was upset with my weight as I'm usually an 8 or 10. But recently I have been having a change in attitude. I don't like looking in the mirror because I feel smaller in my head than I am in the mirror.
Because I am learning to love and thank my body for being so amazing I have started wearing things like cropped tops and tights and it's helping me feel even better.
Punishing myself by refusing to buy a few new bras that fit me just made me feel worse; since buying nice new bras I am happier with how I look.
I realized I can't get healthy if my mind harbours the sickness of disappointment or rejection of my bodies appearance.
I absolutely love this video and you look amazing in everything!! I remember at the beginning of the very first lockdown I bought loads of new clothes that I loved but were around 2 sizes too small - I used them as a goal by telling myself that I could finally wear them when I was 'skinny'. Fast forward to around 6 months later, I had lost 10kg and could finally fit into all these beautiful clothes. After putting them on, I realised that I still didn't like the way I looked in them and I began to pick out even more flaws in myself and reasons that I couldn't wear them. This is when I realised that it's not my weight that I need to 'fix', but that I need to work on my mindset instead. Ever since then I've just been wearing what I want and trying to ignore these negative thoughts I have about myself and my body, because at the end of the day, self-love is one of the most important things!
Wow, girl! You literally pulled off every single outfit with the same vibe as the picture. This is definitely so inspiring to try out!
Your healthy outlook on body image is so refreshing! Thank you for sharing such positive content, we are all so beautiful and worthy. Size does not define! 💜
The thing is: people wish they would look like these girls on Pinterest, but even IF they’d loose weight, they probably wouldn’t look like these women, because they have very particular body proportions, which are very rare. When I was younger I always wanted to look like these girls, too, but this is never gonna happen, cause I am a completely body different type…so girls: try to learn how to like the way u look and maybe also search for people who already look a bit like you!
ok but why did her pep & emotional talk in the beginning of the video make me cry. omg ily & ty.
Ikr?? I love Susie
6:34 aww this made me tear up, I'm not at a very good space mentally these few weeks and your comments really made my day. Susie you have no idea how many people you impact positively with your videos
I feel like one thing that often isn't acknowledged in this conversation or something these people might not even be aware of is that a lot of the stuff on these inspo boards could be stuff that genuinely doesn't look good on these people, but not because of their weight, but because of their body type. Certain cuts flatter some body shapes more than others and the tricky thing is finding stuff that actually accentuates your body in a way you like, no matter your weight. There's a lot of aesthetics I absolutely adore that just never looked good on me, not now and not when I was skinnier.
My "out of the box" fashion moment was wearing a crop top. I took the risk and wore one with sweats and a flannel, and it changed my life cause I looked *chefs kiss* and now I wear sweatpants and crop tops out of the house on a regular basis. I'm no longer "scared" of having the shape of my belly show (size US 14). Like we all have em, they exist. I feel cute as heck and I'm comfy. I still got other things I'm working on, but that was my main thing this year.
You are rocking all of these outfits 🤩 I love how positive you are and how much you are out here to help people develop better connections with themselves and their bodies. Yes every body has a body and that body is here to serve and nourish us, as well as let us serve some f*king cute ass outfits no matter what size we are. Let’s start dressing for ourselves, not for others 👏🏼👏🏼
Loved every bit of this video! ♥️ Thank you for showing us that we can wear whatever we want to wear no matter what our body looks like.
I’ve also seen a trend called “Is it a ‘fit or is she just skinny?” But I just think that people should just wear what they want and what they think looks good on them. We all have different styles so the ‘fit might be for some people and not others. No hate for anyone or what they wear, no matter their body shape.
i can relate so much and i’m finally well into recovery with ED and i’m at my most fit in my life and most confident (sizing doesn’t help with body dysmorphia as there’s so much fluctuations and discrepancies) love the content you’re putting out there
"Life is too short to stop yourself from experiencing things because of the body that you're in." Wow, that hit hard. I'm going to have to start thinking about things in that way instead.
Your personality, just the way you think and put those ideas into reality, makes people feel comfortable. I really think you are so genuine and that we need more people like you in this world.
Gonna think of old grandma Susie too when I'm not feeling good about my body 🥰 👵😂
She’s always watching 👵
I absolutely hate seeing people drag other people down for wearing whatever they want when they don’t have the “ideal body weight” like, can’t you just let them feel good about themself? I don’t see why some people feel the need to judge others like their life depended on it. We should all just be happy and proud of one another! Especially in this day and age where we all need uplifting 🤍
I just finished having a conversation with a friend of how I wish I saw more mid-sized people creating videos in regards to clothing, since I have no idea how to dress myself, and then I came upon this gem. thank you so much
First of all: Love this video! Second: not sure what shipping from Hollister is like for you in Australia but in the UK they do a range called Hollister curve, for people with wider hips compared to waist ratio, and with thicker thighs. I get all my jeans, denim shorts and skirts from there now as they actually fit without me having to get the size up so they fit my thighs and having a big gap on my waist! So if anyone is looking for shorts, jeans or skirts recommendation for thicker thighs, would highly recommend :) love you Susie you’re just fab x
The "curvy" lines at Target do the same thing for me! Hate that waist gap, or pants with straight cut hips. Even if theyre technically my size they fall right down throughout the day.
Omg, Free People’s CRVY Vintage style Shorts are a dream! The CRVY line is perfect for babes with a bigger hip to waist ratio (no gaping waistline) and have a little stretch to them so they more comfortable. My sister is a personal trainer (tinier waist and bigger hips/bum) and she LOVES them, and they are slightly longer in the back so it’s a little more modest. FP’s whole CRVY line is honesty super comfy and there’s more styles there too.
Can I just say that you and your content were hugely important to me recovering from my ED as I saw you were bigger but also absolutely stunning which my dumb brain previously didn’t think was possible, thank you so much girl ❤️
I can't explain to you how badly I needed this video. I used you as an inspiration when I was heavier (a US size 16 due to excessive drinking and depression) to remind myself that you don't have to be rail thin to be beautiful. I admire your confidence and you are helping me now battle my eating disorder. I know that isn't what you signed up for, but it is so nice to see my body type represented in a positive way because we are HOT and I'm sick of being told otherwise. 😅 Not only that, but the normalization of body types that aren't dangerously underweight is incredibly important. Seeing you wear these styles that I desperately want to emulate and look flawless doing it makes me feel way better about myself and inspires me to wear exactly what I want to wear and make it work for myself. Thank you. 💜
Tbh even Through i am very skinny i relate with many things you said in your video. I rly just don't understand why people have to make a certain type of Body the ideal. There is 7.7 billion people on this planet and everyone of us have a different bodies, heights and over all characteristics. Everyone should be comfortable in their own body❤️
I love your midsize representation. It makes me feel really really good.
when i saw her with the low rise jeans i audibly gasped, she's so beautiful in them
ok i accidentally brought low rise jeans they arent super tight but omg i feel so confident (even though they always fall down) but like they really highlight my curves and i love them
I'm 36 now and spent all my 20s thinking I was fat being a size 12/14. Now I'm a size 18/20 and happier with myself because I've worked on myself and gone to therapy. Yep, want to loose weight but I'm not like "I'll do this or I'll wear this when I loose weight". Too old to be mad and hating myself all the time. So it's really awesome at 21 that you're a that point, never leave that and never forget it. You are beautiful and enough the way you are if you are in a larger body or smaller body.
Thank you so much for this, i really needed it.
I’ve had muscly calves since I was young and they’ve been my biggest insecurity. Up until my early 20s i never wore anything short, following rude comments and resulting self confidence issues. This past year I slowly started coming out of my shell wearing whatever made me feel good and finally started wearing skirts (which i LOVE) but the other day a new coworker pointed out my “huge calves” and I immediately felt so embarrassed, searched “calf reduction surgery” and stopped wearing skirts. Watching this and your mindset on this has helped me realise that all of that doesn’t matter and you’ve given me confidence just to say screw you all and wear whatever i want, muscly calves and all. Thanks again, really made a difference in my life.
Omg, I think about the "big butt" thing being in now and you said it perfect (used to not be a good thing to have 20 years ago)! Love when you said society changes their mind all the time so who cares what they say. You are the best! 💜
I’m in the mindset you’re in now, but it took me 26 years ! So proud of you for forgiving yourself out at such a young age, BRAVO!
Ahh I have a body goals board and I would sit there and obsess with how I wish I looked. I do it a lot less know but I still go back from time to time. It sucks bc I can see the beauty in everyone else but myself ❤️
You’re confidence has always given me confidence and you always keep it real 💖 keep gettin girl!
Can we please please please keep the "here's some I prepared earlier" line going in videos? Absolutely cracked me up remembering how well prepared you were in the tiktok cooking video. Love you Susie!
Heheheheh glad u got the reference, I can’t stop saying it now 🤪 love you gal!
The low rise really suits you! So cute. It makes your hips look incredibleeeeee. Love that outfit
Besides all of the outfits looking super cute, I love your attitude towards everything! I'm happy I rediscovered you recently as you've helped me to be more positive and focus on taking care of myself physically and mentally and not caring what anyone else thinks. Keep on being awesome and funny!
you are so right about not feeling good no matter what, i used to be borderline overweight and hate myself, now i've lost 40 pounds and still feel fat a lot. it's all about mindset 100 percent! and you also showed how gorgeous you look not being super skinny in the same outfit. im so glad you're confidence is improving, and confidence is the most gorgeous thing ever, more gorgeous than any body. i wish u more confidence to come an guilt free eating
These outfits look so good on you 😍 I have a similar body type and seeing you in these clothes makes me think I might look good in them too 🥺
Highly recommend looking into what your kibbe body type is and learning to appreciate your body for what it is. It teaches you how to style yourself for your body, your essence, and not to just go off trends. Wear whatever you want, but if you wanna look your best, feel most confident, dress for your lines!
it starts at 8:15 if you want to skip the lecture about loving yourself.
I was watching your video as my parents walked in and they had the blooming audacity to ask "what s** are you watching now?", and i managed to say "a person that's given me more confidence in 5 minutes than I've had in 5 years", appreciate you Susie, you're helping me a lot
I love your channel its so wholesome 💕 I liked all the outfits too even the low rise. I personally hate wearing lowrise pants bc thats all I had as a kid and the amount of butt crack was not fun for me. But just bc I don't like wearing something doesn't mean others can't enjoy it. Hope you're having a great day
Omg I definitely can remember my buttcrack popping out a few times as a kid in the 2000s 🤣 thanku i am girl hope you are too xo
this makes me so happyyyy, maddie is one of my favorite youtubers and the fact that you know her is so nice to me
Love me some Susie 💜 Always feel so confident after watching your videos 🌞
I’m so happy you do 🥺❤️
I clicked expecting to trigger my ED, but this did the opposite. I needed this. Thank you. ❤️
I get shamed for being to skinny... I always hide in my baggy clothes but I want to challage myself and try to wear a cute skirt with warm thighs and boots tomorrow. Thank you for caring and helping ❤️ this video really motivated me to try again and not let others opinions decide what I am allowed to wear or not..
I know this is late but that would be such a cute outfit! I’m sorry you get shamed for your body and hope everything is going well
I miss being skinny. I am working on myself to get down to a healthy size I had let go of myself.
I'm obsessed with the beige jeans + flannel outfit and the outfit with the low/mid rise jeans!!!
Thank you for the confidence boost💪it's so funny to hear you say that you're gonna wear those denim short all summer while we almost have snow in canada😂
i love when influencers actually use their platforms for good. ik theres so many people, including myself, who need more people like susie
clickbait title considering most viewers will think you mean american size 14 which is a size XL when in reality you're a 10 in american sizing which is a medium. you can still wear practically any outfit you want at your size whereas people who are actually plus size truly can't fit these outfits appropriately
anything over 8 is considered plus size. You don't have to be so bitter about it, gosh. Stop invalidating 12/14/16 size because they are not your view of "plus size".
@@witchingbrew3 12-16 IS plus size in u.s. sizing but not australia. she is an australia 14, u.s. 10 which is a medium. she's not even plus size and she's doing this video as if she is one of those overweight people who wouldn't be able to fit these "outfits i'll wear when im skinny" when that's clearly not true
Thank you so much for your chat at the beginning of this video. Such an important reminder and SO TRUE. Everything you said really touched my heart because I've been struggling so much with all of this recently. 🥺❤