@@anthonym6119 Maybe. We all can be fooled. I have known and I have seen people that you absolutely couldn't imagine them doing something like that. There are also plenty of stories that people caught spouses cheating with zero red flags, on accident or someone informed them. That I can understand. But losing common sense, ignoring red flags, grovelling to stay after being cheated on because you don't like the idea of leaving, that I don't understand or respect. Life isn't about what you want. Life is about how you deal with it. Can be heartbreak, making mistakes, dealing with a cheater, or sickness. Face your reality and deal with it. It will be tough but let's not make it seem like you be crossing Normandy while the Nazis are shooting at you. I like Shaq story. He played a bad game because he was stressed out. His dad took him and made him see a homeless family living on the streets. He told him that's stress. You divorcing a cheating spouse or breaking up with your partner and co-parenting or not. That's not as stressful as many things out there. So get a grip and do what's right.
Talk about elite level gaslighting. If you are young & inexperienced and they are telling you “l swear on my parents life, l swear on my unborn children's life that l did not cheat on you” along with this level of gaslighting and it’s no wonder why a dude would be in this kinda situation. That’s why this content saves lives.
These stories are crucial to men's well being. We have to make sure our younglings hear these and learn from them. I can't stand 😠 to see these women get away with their dirt simply because guys like them.
OP, you bring back the memory of a song by The Doobie Brothers, ‘ WHAT A FOOL BELIEVES ‘. No matter what she does and subsequently tells you, you believe it. Wow, just wow.
And yeah she been getting her back broke, this dude just never found out. If she was that comfortable to do that on a trip he went on with her then she undoubtedly did that schit freely when she wasn't with him.
This guy is killing me “Wow that leprechaun is so cool!” This b saw all this guy’s desperate comments on all her desperate social media posts and knew she had a bridge to sell him
Honestly, what lesson is learned here from someone with common sense? The dude said he listens to red pill, and they all scream about how you shouldn't date anyone who is super involved in social media. That he took her back was astounding.
😂😂😂 She's not even close. OP just didn't take the hint when she started to ghost him. No one in this world owes anyone crap and that OP wasted his time is his just desserts. If he would have blown her off and moved on, she would have been all over him.
Most people do things “bad things” to themselves…Him crying for continuing to be a doormat…her being passed around and never being a wife (with the guys she wanted)….if ever becoming a wife…no sympathy for them.😂
I don't blame him. Every man was at some point in op shoes. He simply learn the hard way. I hope je now know that ha has to put himself first and never worship a woman again
Another thing i dont get is he got stood up 7 times and didnt think once to see with his own 👀 why she was doing what she did. You can't even feel sorry for this guy when he made himself the fool the entire time.
I can see hesitation in marriage because of kids, f-up family court system and rewarding cheaters with half your wealth and the house on a good day... But a girlfriend/fiance? 🤡
@@robertnoble6661 he wasn’t a Simp because Sims don’t get any action at all. They don’t get laid they just get used for attention and their money and other things. Now he was naïve that’s for damn sure very naïve.
Simps don’t get laid and so he wasn’t a Simp he was just very naïve and thirsty.. so she knew she could take advantage of the fact that he wanted her bad
I don't think you was a simp but you was naive like alot of us when we're young. Just learn from it and know women do test men but you have to be true to yourself. As soon as a women crosses your boundaries end it.
sorry OP but she was out of your league. the stalking day in the park. you tried to get on her radar but she clearly didn't notice you whereas she was instantly attracted to the airBnb host. you can't manufacture attraction.
Have to disagree, OP is definitely partially to blame. He might not be the issue but at some point he needed to realize that she was using him like ATM and not a boyfriend.
@@darkwolfe6286 I can see his faults, I have done the same things myself. But that is all before I took that red pill and see how it really is now. All I can hope is that OP does the same and does not let any woman pull this kind of crap on him again.
Simps have a million excuses to work it out and try again.
Couldn't have said it better myself 👍
@@anthonym6119 Maybe. We all can be fooled. I have known and I have seen people that you absolutely couldn't imagine them doing something like that. There are also plenty of stories that people caught spouses cheating with zero red flags, on accident or someone informed them. That I can understand. But losing common sense, ignoring red flags, grovelling to stay after being cheated on because you don't like the idea of leaving, that I don't understand or respect. Life isn't about what you want. Life is about how you deal with it. Can be heartbreak, making mistakes, dealing with a cheater, or sickness. Face your reality and deal with it. It will be tough but let's not make it seem like you be crossing Normandy while the Nazis are shooting at you. I like Shaq story. He played a bad game because he was stressed out. His dad took him and made him see a homeless family living on the streets. He told him that's stress. You divorcing a cheating spouse or breaking up with your partner and co-parenting or not. That's not as stressful as many things out there. So get a grip and do what's right.
Talk about elite level gaslighting. If you are young & inexperienced and they are telling you “l swear on my parents life, l swear on my unborn children's life that l did not cheat on you” along with this level of gaslighting and it’s no wonder why a dude would be in this kinda situation.
That’s why this content saves lives.
She’s definitely a sociopath
This was sooo painful to listen to. Good God, hopefully he learned something from this.
These stories are crucial to men's well being. We have to make sure our younglings hear these and learn from them. I can't stand 😠 to see these women get away with their dirt simply because guys like them.
OP, you bring back the memory of a song by The Doobie Brothers, ‘ WHAT A FOOL BELIEVES ‘. No matter what she does and subsequently tells you, you believe it. Wow, just wow.
And yeah she been getting her back broke, this dude just never found out. If she was that comfortable to do that on a trip he went on with her then she undoubtedly did that schit freely when she wasn't with him.
This guy is killing me “Wow that leprechaun is so cool!” This b saw all this guy’s desperate comments on all her desperate social media posts and knew she had a bridge to sell him
Jesus man it took him long enough
Ooohhh yeah. This guy got a masters degree in RP knowledge with this girl
Ah again and again yeah don't feel bad for you. But hey lesson for others to learn
Honestly, what lesson is learned here from someone with common sense? The dude said he listens to red pill, and they all scream about how you shouldn't date anyone who is super involved in social media. That he took her back was astounding.
@@KurlanAank18 don't be gullible and have standards and boundaries.
@@Alucard-yb6fq Fair. Forgot that common sense isn't that common anymore.
Facts@@Alucard-yb6fq
This woman is a psychopath. If you think she's cheating, replace her... and never take her back.
She's not a psychopath. This dude was too trusting and naive
😂😂😂 She's not even close. OP just didn't take the hint when she started to ghost him. No one in this world owes anyone crap and that OP wasted his time is his just desserts. If he would have blown her off and moved on, she would have been all over him.
Try narcissistic person. probably a narcissist. cheaters usually are.
@@anthonym6119 Like a psychopath.
Most people do things “bad things” to themselves…Him crying for continuing to be a doormat…her being passed around and never being a wife (with the guys she wanted)….if ever becoming a wife…no sympathy for them.😂
I would have gone to the bathroom at Denny's, then left. No way she pulling shenanigans like that on Salty.
I don't blame him. Every man was at some point in op shoes. He simply learn the hard way. I hope je now know that ha has to put himself first and never worship a woman again
This is embarrassing; the guy was being led a merry dance and knew it. He definitely needed to grow a pair.
So many red flags that you ignored! This predicament is partly your fault.
dude 7 times she's blown you off, what are you a human punching bag. 😮💨 Smdh!
He dealt w/ the devils minion [modern XX's].....this 304 was always a 304 ~~~ thus 100% HIS fault.
What she ment was you can back up plan.
NEVER EVER TAKE SERIOUSLY AN IG GIRL. Trust me, they been "flown out"
If they mention anything about being in Dubai, then… you know.
Another thing i dont get is he got stood up 7 times and didnt think once to see with his own 👀 why she was doing what she did. You can't even feel sorry for this guy when he made himself the fool the entire time.
The only thing this fool did right was leave her stranded with affair host
I can see hesitation in marriage because of kids, f-up family court system and rewarding cheaters with half your wealth and the house on a good day... But a girlfriend/fiance? 🤡
🤣 this guy, smh
I really don't care much for how OP meets his cheating gf/wife, just get to the point.
How they meet, in this case was important. He was the simp that slid in her DMs and chased her.
@@danielbain3613 Yeah but I hate simp stories
@@robertnoble6661 "learning from the mistakes of others". I can admit I do not know everything, so I listen to the entire story every time.
@@danielbain3613 Fair enough, I guess I could just skip the video.
@@robertnoble6661 he wasn’t a Simp because Sims don’t get any action at all. They don’t get laid they just get used for attention and their money and other things. Now he was naïve that’s for damn sure very naïve.
Redpill doesn't recruit.
" I forgot my wallet". Lol
Dude needs to file. Air bnb complaint about the other guys behavior if he’s hosting a room
She kept punishing this SIMP
Man's slower thsn s snail 😂
22:30
Who the heck is Wilson?
/click/block
That's how that should have gone.
A little naive.
The former poster child for simping and being a doormat :
Former : Here you go OP ( passes Crown & Scepter) You earned this .
OP : 🤷😭🤡
Simp 😂
Simps don’t get laid and so he wasn’t a Simp he was just very naïve and thirsty.. so she knew she could take advantage of the fact that he wanted her bad
This story is poorly composed. Pathetic story.
What a horrible story. And another story were there are no repercussions for the cheater. I feel bad for the guy.
This story can't be real.
Good video
I don't think you was a simp but you was naive like alot of us when we're young. Just learn from it and know women do test men but you have to be true to yourself. As soon as a women crosses your boundaries end it.
Nah he was definitely a simp.
@@El_FonzoEveryone acts differently until they learn how to be more Alpha. Hate using words like beta and alpha but there are no words like that.
@@linkros7434 you don't have to be 'Alpha' to stand up for yourself and not let people push you around...
sorry OP but she was out of your league. the stalking day in the park. you tried to get on her radar but she clearly didn't notice you whereas she was instantly attracted to the airBnb host. you can't manufacture attraction.
You're not to blame for shit so don't think that. Hopefully you learned a lesson.
Have to disagree, OP is definitely partially to blame. He might not be the issue but at some point he needed to realize that she was using him like ATM and not a boyfriend.
@@darkwolfe6286 I can see his faults, I have done the same things myself. But that is all before I took that red pill and see how it really is now.
All I can hope is that OP does the same and does not let any woman pull this kind of crap on him again.
Simp... click!