Girls, Tell Me About a Time Where Your Quick Thinking Probably Saved Your Life (3 of 3)

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  • @enderponydragon6317
    @enderponydragon6317 2 года назад +3705

    While a lot of these stories are about creepy dudes, can we give it for the men(and woman) that went out of their way to save these poor girls? I mean, those are some awesome guys.

    • @crazybieberchic
      @crazybieberchic 2 года назад +75

      Yeah those guys are heroes

    • @umbridgesucks3695
      @umbridgesucks3695 2 года назад +38

      So are the women

    • @cow1844
      @cow1844 2 года назад +37

      Yessss they need a reward or something

    • @itsyogirlevieee3723
      @itsyogirlevieee3723 2 года назад +30

      @Lily Maynard "Guy" is a gender- neutral term for most people.

    • @umbridgesucks3695
      @umbridgesucks3695 2 года назад +21

      Yeah I know it was just the fact that the original commenter said (and woman) so I said and woman too I wasn't trying to sound rude

  • @jenniferwilliams9548
    @jenniferwilliams9548 2 года назад +2295

    So, criminal psychologists say if you're in a position where someone is trying to kidnap or assault you, start acting nuts and piss, vomit, shit on yourself if possible, eat grass, mumble nonsense, drool! Anything to make yourself unappealing and as nuts as possible. History shows that crazy people are pardoned, crazy people are unpredictable and your attacker will be thrown off guard along with you not fitting the type of victim they're looking for. I can write a lot more on this, but maybe just do some research on the subject, carry some type of weapon, try to travel in groups, always keep your head and shoulders up ( don't look meak or scared) and always keep your wits ( like do not walk around fucked up, your the best target inebriated) God gave you instincts, don't ignore them or feel bad for acting on them. Stay Safe Y'all 🙏

    • @sunnysunshine8897
      @sunnysunshine8897 2 года назад +226

      And if you are carrying a weapon, keep it concealed and don't let anyone know until it's time to bring it out. The element of surprise is a good thing.

    • @jenniferwilliams9548
      @jenniferwilliams9548 2 года назад +103

      @@sunnysunshine8897 So true, good advice!! Definitely don't want to hesitate and be fumbling with your gun or knife, the attacker can turn and use it on you.

    • @ReniTube
      @ReniTube 2 года назад +54

      Thanks I never thought about acting crazy. If I ever feel like I’m being followed or notice that I’m being followed I will do what you said in this comment. :)

    • @jenniferwilliams9548
      @jenniferwilliams9548 2 года назад +70

      @@ReniTube Well, I meant like once they get aggressive, like corner you, if they're trying to drag you into their car, etc. I'm not a criminal psychologist, but you know, as soon as you feel like you're in danger, and outmatched, like he's huge or there are 2-3 of them and you're outnumbered, this could be used as an option. Sometimes the struggle is what turns them on, so if you know you can not over power them, girl, go as bat- shit crazy as possible!!!!! I don't know if it was in this video, but there was a girl who said when the attacker jumped on her and tore off her clothes, she pretends to enjoy it, and moan, he stops immediately!!!! One, she threw him off guard, Two; she wasn't the victim he was wanting, he was hoping to dominate and scare, hurt her, but she shows the opposite and he like did a 180, completely flipped, he stops assaulting her, makes conversation, then asks if he could walk her home. Kudos to her for being so quick thinking and being able to pull it off. I'm glad you're concerned about your safety!!! Take care Honey 💪😘💜

    • @iflykaya
      @iflykaya 2 года назад +47

      When I’m old enough to go places by myself I am not going anywhere without a group of friends (hopefully my future friend group will include a tall intimidating dude lol) and pepper spray and crap. And not at night if I can help it

  • @ehrrow
    @ehrrow 2 года назад +817

    I love that story about the Syrian refugee who helped the two girls. So sweet!

  • @dreamerdoes_is_love8986
    @dreamerdoes_is_love8986 2 года назад +1343

    Susie is a real one.

  • @sekhmetttt
    @sekhmetttt 2 года назад +2762

    Like a dumb stupid young 21 year old, I was walking home alone from a party to my dorm room in NYC late at night, not thinking anything of it. I didn't even have the excuse of being drunk or anything. And a guy started walking behind me. I was relatively close to my dorm, which had a door man inside at all hours, so I thought I'd be fine so long as I made it there. He caught up with me first though, speeding up when I sped up, and he grabbed my arm, and I don't know what I was thinking, but I just remembered that you can sometimes scare dangerous people off by acting insane. I can't remember exactly what I said, but I know I SHRIEKED at the top of my lungs, something along the lines of like, "I am a disciple of the moth god! To touch me is to to harm him! He will rain fury upon you for this slight!" Something utterly wild. I think it was moth god. Maybe butterfly god. I don't know lol. But yeah, sure enough, dude dropped my arm and stumbled back a couple steps. I just gave another top of my lungs shriek, wordless this time, and leaned towards him and he just booked it. Sprinting away from me like I was the bad guy lmao. Of course, took the opportunity to turn around and do my own sprinting - to my dorm. Was terrified in the moment, but I can certainly laugh about it now.

    • @sierrat8023
      @sierrat8023 2 года назад +493

      you are a freaking genius!!

    • @babigirl9111
      @babigirl9111 2 года назад +309

      Omfg. You are so lucky you can scream, i effed up my voice as a child so i can’t do that anymore . Glad you are safe

    • @nataliak.5125
      @nataliak.5125 2 года назад +350

      I'm so sorry I couldn't help but laugh. You should've started chanting weird shit. That would surely send him flying 😭

    • @centexasphalt3554
      @centexasphalt3554 2 года назад +216

      BHAHAHA ITS NOT FUNNY WHAT THE MAN WAS GONNA DO BUT IT WAS FUNNY WHAT YOU SAID LOL

    • @kitkat6324
      @kitkat6324 2 года назад +98

      @@babigirl9111 same, one time two guys followed me and my friend, luckily it was during the day and there was a store nearby so we lost them and ran way so we didn't have to scream or anything, but I'm so fucking scared of getting in a situation that i need to scream cause i can't, it doesn't make a sound, i did a surgery when a kid, after that i couldn't scream anymore

  • @burntUmbra11
    @burntUmbra11 2 года назад +853

    I literally gasped at the Ivan Milat one. Her mum was so lucky, that was horrifying!

    • @lilscenechick1995
      @lilscenechick1995 2 года назад +65

      Seriously! I know people might not believe it because it involves a known serial killer. But there are confirmed stories out there of potential victims just barely escaping, it's scary.

    • @Melanie-ww4yk
      @Melanie-ww4yk 2 года назад +57

      Just looked him up and turns out their exact situation is how he committed all the murders. That's insane. So glad your story had a happy ending.

    • @drebugsita
      @drebugsita 2 года назад +11

      First and only one where my palms have gotten sweaty

    • @red0421
      @red0421 2 года назад +37

      This reminds of this one serial killer.
      Can't remember who, but they were a pretty famous one I think, in the USA.
      He was caught and when interviewed, one of the reporters asking him "Was there a time you came close to being caught?" and he spoke of a time when he had just killed someone/was disposing of a body at night in an area where people go hiking, and this couple came by and the guy either did or almost did trip over the body, either way the couple got bad vibes and left.
      The couple he talked about heard this interview and realised it was them several years before and were like "omg we almost died that night".
      It's uncanny how often something like this happens. Can't imagine it would be a pleasant realisation.

    • @burntUmbra11
      @burntUmbra11 2 года назад +20

      @@red0421 I think that was Ted Bundy. Terrifying

  • @Ladyofdeath777Weaversoftheweb
    @Ladyofdeath777Weaversoftheweb 2 года назад +234

    Notice that the op had a very open ended question... She asked, "Tell me about a time when your quick thinking probably saved your life." Out of all of these women in the 3 parts of this series... no one mentioned a hiking/camping incident and running into bad weather or a dangerous animal, having a mechanical issue, or anything else... However, THEY ALL RESPONDED with stories about MEN!!! And I do agree with Ender Ponydragon, the men who helped them and knew enough about the situation to stop them from getting hurt deserve massive respect!!! But the fact that every. single. woman. has AT LEAST one story like this... This is the problem!

    • @cooledcannon
      @cooledcannon 2 года назад

      > no one mentioned a hiking/camping incident and running into bad weather or a dangerous animal, having a mechanical issue, or anything else
      Probably cause then it would be men's quick thinking saving people's lives =P

    • @Ladyofdeath777Weaversoftheweb
      @Ladyofdeath777Weaversoftheweb 2 года назад +43

      @@cooledcannon You think that's funny. You are an example of why what I said stands true.

    • @cooledcannon
      @cooledcannon 2 года назад +1

      @@Ladyofdeath777Weaversoftheweb It's less that I think it's funny and more that we are more suited to survival situations

    • @Ladyofdeath777Weaversoftheweb
      @Ladyofdeath777Weaversoftheweb 2 года назад +38

      @@cooledcannon Hardly. Anyone can learn a skill. Survival skills, mechanical skills, etc. Women have worked in fields related to these skills forever. The last thing I'll say to you is check your misogyny.

    • @denizkenger52
      @denizkenger52 2 года назад

      @@Ladyofdeath777Weaversoftheweb tbh i think men have weird moments were women touch them without their wanting but they obviously can protect themselves easier and they usually won’t say much even if it happens.
      Ik at the nightclub, a girl in the queue and her friend were touching male’s asses trying to talk with them for a bit and skip line. Did it to me as well and tried to talk and slowly move past and do it to next people after convo. I had the convo but I didn’t let them move past, didn’t complain about the touch even though I didn’t give consent or even know her when she did it, but yeah some women do that weird stuff they just cant escalate coz they dont have the physical means to withhold a man or force them for more stuff even if they wanted. But those small things are done and where a man would be shunned for touching a stranger woman’s ass, a woman usually won’t for doing it to a man.
      Btw one of the dudes said she had a bf, so she was touching dudes on their ass to skip a line and had a bf, thats so weird imo.

  • @qlol7747
    @qlol7747 2 года назад +436

    Shout out to the guy who said hey do you know this man? More guys need to stand up to creeps

    • @WynneL
      @WynneL 2 года назад +6

      Definitely. That guy seemed to ascribe to the line in Bloodywood's Dana Dan: "F*** every man for himself; it's every man for every man and everybody else!" A true hero.

    • @rustinstardust2094
      @rustinstardust2094 2 года назад

      Unfortunately, these days any time a man defends a woman, the rest of the men watching say he has "White Knight Syndrome." Which is their way of deflecting from their own LOBS (Lack of Balls Syndrome)

  • @trish8399
    @trish8399 2 года назад +731

    When I was 19 I was working at Subway and I was closing the store (alone) and then had to take the last bus home.
    The bus was pretty empty because it was so late, and this dude came and sat right beside me and started talking to me.
    He was very kind and we talked a bit and he rapped a song he had made for his mom, which I thought was sweet (and it was pretty good).
    Anyway, he got off the bus when I did and told me he was going to walk me to my door, which I thought was weird but he didn't give me any bad vibes so I was like, "Okay whatever." Though I was on alert just in case my intuition was wrong.
    It turns out that he had noticed a different man had been watching me and following me and so he just wanted to make sure that I got home safely.
    His name was Sagatay (I'm not sure how to spell it) and I appreciate that dude so much.

    • @larzaedandrea6499
      @larzaedandrea6499 2 года назад +53

      Or he just lied about a man looking at you 👀👀idk the story I’m js no hate

    • @sapirsolo7036
      @sapirsolo7036 2 года назад +19

      We stan himmm

    • @qq84
      @qq84 2 года назад +37

      If there would have been someone, why didn't he mentioned it earlier, as you could have checked for yourself?
      That story seems fishy, but I'm glad that you made it home.

    • @aj-sz8mu
      @aj-sz8mu 2 года назад +36

      @@qq84 honestly. being told about it would just make me think they're both in it.

    • @qq84
      @qq84 2 года назад +26

      @@aj-sz8mu Yes, that's also a common tactic. - next to making it up to get closer to you. Like "somebody put something in your drink that you just drank, better let be bring you home"
      ...and don't ask why I didn't told you before.

  • @katelizabeth7264
    @katelizabeth7264 2 года назад +620

    *This is in reference to the story of the 17-year-old girl who's car was low on gas and ended up going on E while she was driving around in circles in her neighborhood trying to get the dude to stop following her. A lot of people don't know this but almost all cars, especially all new cars, but most cars just in general, actually have backup miles. It depends on the car and the year of the car but you have typically anywhere from 10 to 20 back up miles of gas in your car, so obviously when you hit E you should get gas immediately as to not use those backup miles unless you absolutely have to, but your car is not going to just dead stop when you hit E because you do have those 10 to 20 back up miles of gas! Just some food for thought if anyone's ever in a situation like that, so keep that in mind!*

    • @peachycranberry
      @peachycranberry 2 года назад +16

      Thank you! I hope all is well and stay safe!

    • @qq84
      @qq84 2 года назад +23

      Furthermore, you should drive slowly to save fuel. They're scared about time, not about miles and you driving faster puts you in the victim category.
      And you should have your tank at least half full when you start driving. You never know for what you need the fuel.

    • @Tc-rn8lh
      @Tc-rn8lh 2 года назад +1

      Thank you!

    • @DubsTV93
      @DubsTV93 2 года назад +2

      It's 50 miles! You always have 50 miles after E!

    • @Danielalovesapril
      @Danielalovesapril 2 года назад +1

      Yea the reserve my hubby always tell me about this 😅 when my cars on e he tells me to pump gas so I don't use the reserve.

  • @akern333
    @akern333 2 года назад +885

    Can y’all keep doing this “series”- I’m finding so many more ways not to die. I usually rely on my taser that looks and works like a flashlight- which I highly suggest purchasing. Think I paid $11. You can get into concerts with those too but put washi tape around the on off button and some stickers or bedazzle it. Also memorize if yours is up for the light and down for taser or vice versa!

    • @peerless5560
      @peerless5560 2 года назад +13

      thanks for the suggestion! might buy this some day

    • @red0421
      @red0421 2 года назад +28

      Deoderant sprays are also really good if pepper sprays or other defensive sprays are not allowed where you are.
      You can also buy necklaces and bracelets that can be used as knuckle dusters (some even have spikes 😃) or are concealed knives for camping/defense.
      I saw one once that was a Swiss army knife bracelet/watch thing for camping, it had a compass, a knife and something or two other things, I don't remember, but I thought "If I get kidnapped that would be great to have".
      Portable phone charger, a lighter, spray deodorant and keys are handbag necessities far as I'm concerned.

    • @vanessavaughn3529
      @vanessavaughn3529 2 года назад +14

      All and any self defense weapons are illegal here. Hell, self defense is illegal here, you go to jail or pay hefty compensations to your attacker if you assault them more that what they ALREADY HAVE assaulted you!! No "they were gonna..."

    • @mary-lynnlaibhen2776
      @mary-lynnlaibhen2776 2 года назад +14

      @@vanessavaughn3529 I’m sorry but what country or state are you in? Cuz that’s just messed up

    • @barleyteaa
      @barleyteaa 2 года назад +7

      @@red0421 if pepper sprays aren’t allowed, get bear spray. It shoots further and is just as bad if not worse.

  • @j.schlagg
    @j.schlagg 2 года назад +262

    Ah, yes, reminds me of the time a Man claimed that my Mother sent him to pick me up from school.
    The kicker? I don't have a Mother. =D

    • @parashaahsas8308
      @parashaahsas8308 2 года назад +27

      Goddamn that’s scary 😳😳 hope you’re okay now

    • @fuegohobi6286
      @fuegohobi6286 2 года назад +7

      Had someone say that my grandma sent him to pick me up at the mall. I was like but my grandmas are dead😅 mind you I was already at our family's vehicle putting my stuff I just bought in the trunk lol.

    • @avah4455
      @avah4455 2 года назад +1

      @@fuegohobi6286 what the hell 🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @dream_walker9726
      @dream_walker9726 10 месяцев назад +1

      I’m speechless bro

  • @ErutaniaRose
    @ErutaniaRose 2 года назад +90

    I have said this before and I’ll say it again. Women don’t want to be saved-we want to feel safe. In a world where it is necessary to be protected (in groups, by other more intimidating friends, etc.) we appreciate it when someone helps us or comes to our rescue, but we would rather those situations that force us to need that help stop happening.
    As someone who didn’t have the help I needed till after, I know I have trust issues, I know I have problems, but I just wanna feel safe one day.

  • @herhoneyandmilk2294
    @herhoneyandmilk2294 2 года назад +188

    I was coming out from my gynecologist appointment. It was in the 5. floor or something. I went into the elevaitor where I was alone first. I pressed the button for the ground floor to make my way out of the building. Quickly it made a stop tho and a man entered too. I don't get scared quickly, but I directly knew that something is completely wrong. He started then to get furious and screaming while standing with me in the elevaitor blocking the way out. He screamed at me that he hates all women. The tension and aggression was at a maximum level. He continued screaming that women are all shit and other things about them which I forgot. During that he came as close to me as he could, standing directly in front of my face. Then he put his hand up like he was about to slap me in my face. I was sure he would beat me now since we were both alone in this elevaitor, the elevaitor still going down. My instinct was to give him right on everything he said. I picked up on my gut feeling really quick and started lying as good as I could reassuring him: "Yes!! You are completely right, it's really like that! I am so sorry for you!" And he looked at me still angry but he went out of my personal space. He put his hand down again and stepped back, looked on the floor for a second and then aggressively went out of the elevaitor because luckily it made it's next stop. I was alone now and frozen and after I finally reached my stop at the ground floor as well, I ran out of that building, my heart beating so fast. I was looking behind me if he was there but he wasn't. Since then I took the stairs and I didn't want to go in an elevaitor again for the next 2 years.

    • @autumnh5027
      @autumnh5027 2 года назад +7

      jesus fucking christ, some men are literally insane. i'm sorry that happened.

    • @red0421
      @red0421 2 года назад +16

      Can you use spray deodorants or hairspray or anything like that?
      If so, carry one. You can spray them in the eyes and use the can to hit them in the face if need be.
      You can also buy necklaces and bracelets online that can be used as knuckledusters or knives as they are made for defense or some camping supplies are actually wearable gear like compasses and knives for if you don't have time to grab one out of your bag you can just take your bracelet and, boom, knife!
      Look into what you're allowed where you are as some places you can have knives but others sprays are banned.
      RUclips has a lot of videos teaching techniques and tips by trained people if you can't do self defense classes in person. Like tutorials on how to break out of a hold from behind or what to do if you get pinned and don't know how to fight.
      Even if you never have to use these things, it can be incredibly reassuring to have them anyways.
      As someone with anxiety, I find having plans for hypothetical scenarios helps me keep a cool head, like "If I get followed on the street what do I do?" and just plan out a couple ideas like a fake phone call or something.
      Hope nothing like this ever happens to you again, but hope this helps you feel more safe.

    • @qq84
      @qq84 2 года назад +3

      He obviously is doing that constantly, you should have reported him.

    • @barleyteaa
      @barleyteaa 2 года назад +5

      Carry bear spray. Like pepper spray but legal.

    • @herhoneyandmilk2294
      @herhoneyandmilk2294 2 года назад +3

      Thank you for all your suggestions and concerns btw, I appreciate it:)

  • @alanavaz_11
    @alanavaz_11 2 года назад +217

    13:02 something like this happened but a little kids mother drove me home, I'm so thankful for her she saved my life.

    • @non-binaryduck
      @non-binaryduck 2 года назад +12

      That's horrible stay safe out there

  • @emmmmmm8938
    @emmmmmm8938 2 года назад +39

    It’s crazy how most men don’t actually know that like 80% of girls go through this COMMONLY

  • @jurassicpork8944
    @jurassicpork8944 2 года назад +54

    That Syrian refugee in the last story really is a hero! God bless him and the 2 girls

  • @LaDimplez91
    @LaDimplez91 2 года назад +37

    It just sucks that men know they're naturally stronger than us and that's why they feel brave enough to do sick shit to us

  • @drkmlk
    @drkmlk 2 года назад +11

    When I was 11 (I'm 13 now) I was at my friend's for a sleepover. She started throwing up overnight so her dad asked me to go with him to get medicine.
    Her dad was shady. His breath reeked of alcohol and his clothes stained with the smell of smoke. I said I wanted to stay home, but he ignored me and practically dragged me to his car.
    When we got in the car, I noticed he had a lot of weapons in a bag, knives, tazers, etc.
    When we got to the chemist, he gave me $20 and ordered me to go in. Thank God there was a deaf woman in the store.
    She was signing to her daughter when I walked in front of her, and did the AUSLAN (Australian sign language) sign for help behind my back.
    She saw me and tapped my shoulder, asking if I was ok, and I signalled to her that I'm in danger and need help.
    She took me to the receptionist and I explained what was happening.
    The deaf woman and her daughter took me to my friend's father's car, and I said that the deaf woman is my aunt, and she had told me it's better if I go home.
    My friends father agreed, unreluctantly, and I drove home with the deaf woman.
    When I told my parents, they called the police and the man was arrested. He is still currently in jail, not only for my attempted rape/murder, but he had raped 3 other girls aged 12-16.
    I'm endlessly thankful to the woman and her daughter, as who knows what would have happened if they didn't help.
    I'm also glad I know sign language, because if I didn't, I could be dead now.
    STAY SAFE LADIES

  • @kassier4388
    @kassier4388 2 года назад +240

    This has probably saved my life without me knowing it. If someone ever walked up to you and starts a conversation like ‘Hey girl o haven’t seen you in a while!’ /always/ play along (unless it’s one of those sketchy people) and of course never walk alone! Just don’t, /especially/ at night. And for those of you who have dogs (big or small) if someone tries to break in or approach’s you Act as if your dog is aggressive and tightens the leash tell them leave it and warn the approacher, this one has personally saved me when I was younger. Another thing is when your living in a neighborhood and have the chance of being alone /always/ have houses in that street that you will run too, I have 4 and each depends on the situation, if I’m being chased we go for the one across the street or the two houses next to me. If I have gotten out of the house and the person inside is searching we bolt for the end of the street where a family that I know pretty well lives, and if I’m in danger I go to the end of the street to another neighbor I know well, they also have a (Akita) dog so if I am in danger she is trained to attack. Hope this can save lives!

    • @naomicultra6748
      @naomicultra6748 2 года назад +16

      Yeah, if someone ever tries to break in my house, I am glad I have a big dog. He's a real wuss but his bark sounds agressive. Whenever there is someone at the door he barks very aggressively. I really hope I never have to take advantage of that to save my life.

    • @SexyButCurious
      @SexyButCurious 2 года назад +6

      My uncle had two Japanese Akitas when I was a teen and they were so sweet but very protective!!

  • @jaythekiller1424
    @jaythekiller1424 2 года назад +270

    I was about 11 or 12 and I was playing at my local park at around 7pm with a few friends on a summer night (friends as in the local highschoolers and older kids so I was pretty safe There was like 3 freshman guys and 2 8th grader girls because those were the neighborhood kids)
    And there was an older guy around 19/20 who was very obviously drunk and on something. He started talking to us and said something along the lines of "don't tell anyone I'm here ok, I'm not supposed to be here" and the older kids were very obviously put of by this and they stood in front of me. One of the guys I was with suggested that we walk to his house to get like a basket ball or something so we started walking. (This house was really close to the park basically across from the street , other houses were sort of like a longer walk away) the drunk guy started following us and we told him that we were going to pick up snack from 7-11 (sorry the so many notes but there was lots of corner stores around my neighborhood because I lived in a really busy place) and he started walking there and we booked it to my friends house and stayed there for a bit until like around 8:30 and they walked me back to my house (my house was the farthest from the park)

    • @jaythekiller1424
      @jaythekiller1424 2 года назад +45

      Still friends with 2 of those kids :)

    • @shesaidshesaidshesfromhawa2191
      @shesaidshesaidshesfromhawa2191 2 года назад +37

      @@jaythekiller1424 glad ur older friends could sense was something was wrong and didn't left u alone.

    • @jaythekiller1424
      @jaythekiller1424 2 года назад +18

      @@shesaidshesaidshesfromhawa2191 me too obviously but i was stupid and couldn't tell that this was a dangerous situation ive learned the hard way tho and im much smarter when it comes to this

    • @iflykaya
      @iflykaya 2 года назад +20

      I’m glad to live in an area where crusty old weirdos don’t really do that kind of thing. But I hate it when there’s like a single tall dude in his 30s is hanging out at the park at 7 am while I’m walking to school like wtf bro

    • @jaythekiller1424
      @jaythekiller1424 2 года назад +5

      @@iflykaya i live in auch better place thank god

  • @haleynic
    @haleynic 2 года назад +33

    praise Jesus these women are okay 🙏🏻

  • @LM-tm5df
    @LM-tm5df 2 года назад +28

    One day, two of my friends, my sister and I went to shop to Walmart. We were walking around, talking, joking, when my sister comes close to me and whispers “someone is following us.” Naturally, I turn around and see this dude behind us in the beginning of the aisle, and when he sees me looking at him, he turns around and leaves. Then we notice that two more guys keep glaring at us, walking around, not really buying anything. I told the same to my friends and we are all alert at this point. We decide to keep walking to confirm we were being followed, and we were. It was several guys, around 4. At that point, I thought they were a group of traffickers or something of the kind. I tell my friends to stop and send our live location to our family members and friends, so we did. Then we went to one of the Walmart workers and let him know the situation, who then took it to the manager and then another manager. They asked the men to leave and we asked one male worker to walk us to our car. We get to our car and drive to another store, to make sure we were not followed. We stayed there, checked the car for any signs of a tracking device and when we were sure we were safe, went home

  • @mercedesamoree1234
    @mercedesamoree1234 2 года назад +27

    My mom had a friend who was on a date or something like that with Ted Bundy. She was in his car and he was driving slowly up the mountain. She had a really bad feeling and decided she needed to open the door and jump out of the car and run away. That story has proved to me that you always need to trust your instincts, because those are thoughts sent to you to save you.

    • @avah4455
      @avah4455 2 года назад

      My grandma’s brother got a ride to him sister’s home in Florida from Ted buddy who was running from the law at the time, my great uncle also running from the law at the time, had decided to hitchhike bake home. Petty theft. And my uncle saw him on the news a while later and told his dad about it that his family was like “so you led a serial killer to your sister and her kids?” And thankfully he wasn’t interested in her, not sure if she met him or they even saw each other. I’ve never been able to ask. I believe he had been given a ride from somewhere in Georgia, to Florida. It was like a ten hour ride and he said that he was going that way anyway so it was cool if my great uncle tagged along.

    • @avah4455
      @avah4455 2 года назад

      *Bundy

  • @evie7490
    @evie7490 2 года назад +94

    My story. I used to live on a very sketchy road. Me and my friend where meeting half way down the road. I had a gut feeling to keep going. I walk towards this one house and this guy is "getting his mail" he sees my friend and crosses where she is. As the polite person she is she crosses to avoid him (also bc of covid) He proceeds to run towards her. He was probably 50+. She runs and starts crying. I run toward her and he sees me and runs inside his gate. 3 days later he gets a bigger gate and darkens his windows. If I wasn't there what would've happened. He probably would've grabbed her.

    • @Tijopi11
      @Tijopi11 2 года назад +27

      You might want to report that to the police if you haven't already... that won't be his last offense

    • @Ekkoisgecko
      @Ekkoisgecko 2 года назад +9

      Most predators are the opportunist kind. If an opportunity presents itself, and they think they can get away with it, they will take it.

    • @qq84
      @qq84 2 года назад +6

      It's important that you report that to the Police.

    • @tammv2306
      @tammv2306 2 года назад +7

      Please tell me you reported this? This is creepy as hell.

  • @dumpster-ratt
    @dumpster-ratt 2 года назад +27

    If you ever get a gut feeling, telling you to do something, *do it.* Your gut feeling is real. Safety is so important, whether you are a man, woman, or other, you should understand how much your life means. Stay safe everyone, and be careful!

    • @ChildOfTheOneTrueAlmightyGod
      @ChildOfTheOneTrueAlmightyGod Год назад

      Good advice, but there are only men or women.

    • @dumpster-ratt
      @dumpster-ratt Год назад

      @@ChildOfTheOneTrueAlmightyGod Well, technically no. Men, women, or intersex. There are about 6 biological sexes. But you can identify as whatever you want.
      Edit: I see you've deleted your comment, or RUclips deleted it for you, nice. I also edited this under the wrong comment, even better lol.

    • @ChildOfTheOneTrueAlmightyGod
      @ChildOfTheOneTrueAlmightyGod Год назад

      @@dumpster-ratt Well, technically, no. The Lord Jesus Christ who created mankind said there are two sexes: man and woman. Science agrees with Him. There are only two chromosomes, x and y, that determine each individual’s biological sexual makeup. You’re either xx, which makes you a female, or xy, which makes you a male. You cannot change reality. You cannot change the truth. Believing in a lie will cause great problems in your life.

    • @dumpster-ratt
      @dumpster-ratt Год назад

      @@ChildOfTheOneTrueAlmightyGod Intersex is where you have male and female organs. Doctors have to give a say whether they are male or female based on which on they have more of.
      These are the chromosomes you can be born with:
      X - 1 in 2000
      XX - Most common form of female
      XXY - 1 in 500 to 1 in 1000
      XY - Most common form of male
      XYY - 1 in 1000
      XXXY - 1 in 18000 to 1 in 50000
      Even though you want to bring religion into this, I must say, religion is not science. We have no evidence that God's exist, but we simply believe they do. You as well can not simply change reality, you are unable to change this truth. Your brain believes in that, which is why you think it's true. At least search it up, so I don't have to do this stupid conversation anymore.

    • @ChildOfTheOneTrueAlmightyGod
      @ChildOfTheOneTrueAlmightyGod Год назад

      @@dumpster-ratt okay, let me bring it to you this way. Doctors have no say in who is male or female. That’s on God alone. He determined your sex too, whether you accept that or not. Your beliefs don’t make the truth null and void. You’ll find out soon enough.
      Just please remember this conversation in the near future when things on this earth will be more horrible than they have ever been. Jesus has told us about it all thousands of years ago. First, all of the true born again Christians will disappear suddenly. No matter what lie the leaders of this world come up with, we were taken home to be with the Lord Jesus. He actually came and got us! Those of you left behind will have very little time to get saved. God’s wrath is going to pour out onto this earth and most of the people will die. It’s all outlined in the Bible, with most of it being explained in the books of Revelation and Daniel. All you have to do to be saved is believe in the gospel of Jesus Christ. Know that you are a sinner who deserves to go to hell, but God made a way for us to be saved from His wrath in hell through the sacrifice of His Son, Jesus Christ. Believe that the Son of almighty God, who was born of a virgin and lived a perfect sinless life, died the horrible death that we deserved on the cross, was buried according to scriptures, and arose on the third day according to the scriptures holding the keys to death and hell as King of kings and Lord of lords. Believe that and be saved from eternity in the lake of fire suffering God’s wrath.
      Do not let them put ANYTHING into your forehead or hands! That will immediately damn you, making it impossible for you to ever be saved! And never reject or deny Jesus Christ, even if your life is threatened. Denying Him in front of men will cause Him to deny you before His Father in heaven. So many horrors are about to happen on earth, do not ever give up! Read a true KJV/NKJV Bible and hide them in many places because it will educate you on the amazing plan of God from the beginning and teach you about who He is, what He expects of us, who our true enemy is (hint: it’s not you and me), and how you can protect yourself and those you care about!
      I love you all and don’t wish to argue with you. We aren’t enemies. Satan is. He hates us more than we can ever understand! His goal is the hurt God, and He thinks he can do that by taking as many of us with him and his minions to hell as possible. Unfortunately, he’s been very successful at doing that. I see that you don’t believe in God right now, but I ask you to ask Him to show you the truth. What do you have to lose if He doesn’t exist? I don’t have any problems speaking to anyone with questions about this stuff, as long as the conversation is respectful.
      Satan has been causing confusion in the world amongst people about who they are and who God, their creator, is. It’s sad. I am in the medical field and understand the biological science behind human development. There is only man and woman. Male and female.

  • @21hairgirl
    @21hairgirl 2 года назад +5

    I’m glad all of these women are ok! I just really regret watching this so late at night before bed. I’m so creeped out now.

  • @ChildOfTheOneTrueAlmightyGod
    @ChildOfTheOneTrueAlmightyGod Год назад +3

    God is so GOOD! It wasn’t YOUR quick thinking that saved you, it was the good Lord protecting you! Hallelujah and to God goes ALL glory!

    • @Brittneyandgravey
      @Brittneyandgravey Год назад +2

      Preach

    • @Da_bear-ij9gm
      @Da_bear-ij9gm 22 дня назад

      If that was true it would also mean it was god’s decision for every girl and woman that didn’t make it home and got horribly violated in her last moments, crying out to him with your god knowing all along he wouldn’t save her

  • @Vqmprrss
    @Vqmprrss 2 года назад +43

    Yo the fact there are so many of these ...

    • @gashii.lejlaa
      @gashii.lejlaa 2 года назад +9

      Yeah...... and there are a lot more stories like these that people dont tell!

  • @mxtionse6386
    @mxtionse6386 2 года назад +18

    when i was about 15, i was sneaking out to go to my boyfriend house at the time. my plan was to steal my parents car to get there. while walking outside of my house, i saw about 4-6 guys outside, on beach chairs drinking beer. i didn’t think much of it and just went ahead to open my garage. one of the guys started walking up to my car, of course i started to get pretty nervous. luckily, in this situation i looked at least 17-19. not much younger than them. the guy got to my car and knocked on the window, i rolled down the window and he asked where i was heading, what i was doing, my name, ect. I came up with the name “Kayla” (my real name is Candy) and i said i was waiting for my boyfriend to get out the house so we can go to a party. the guys got kinda worried about the fact i had a boyfriend, and left. i’m so happy i was able to come up with believable lies, even as a VERY naive and stupid teenager who at the time had no common sense. please, don’t sneak out and stay safe :)

  • @eduardacecchet1954
    @eduardacecchet1954 2 года назад +59

    So I have one LONG story -sorry, that was half quick thinking, half pure luck.
    It was my first time living alone, (far)away from my parents and I was 18 at the time. I lived in an apartment that was on the 1st floor of the building and there was a terrace that connected to my apartment, so anyone that had access to the terrace could enter my apartment. Before anyone says I'm nuts for living there, the neighborhood was kinda safe and the terrace was monitored by cameras, so for the first 10 months living there I didn't really feel scared.
    It was a Friday, I only had classes in the evening so when my 8AM alarm rang I gave myself another hour just to be lazy. I didn't sleep but I was inside my room with the door closed when I heard a strange sound coming from my living room. At first I thought "Nah, it must be nothing" but my paranoia said "It can be some electrical malfunctioning, go see just to be sure" (that was what I was most worried about, my house catching fire due to electrical issues). Here I'm going to put some really important information: I wear glasses and I can see only blurs without them. My glasses were inside the bathroom (my room was a suite), but I didn't take them (I really thought it was nothing). So I opened my room door and I saw a person in my living room, I couldn't recognize his face, I couldn't identify what he was wearing, but I knew it was a person and I could figure that was a GUY. I closed the door, locked it (all my doors had keys) and freaked out. After calling my father (that could do nothing because he lived 3 hour away by plane) and calling the police (that couldn't do anything because they didn't want to), I exited my room to see if the guy was still there.
    First thing: I went to the kitchen, grabbed a knife, then I looked through the whole apartment. I didn't see anyone and I found some footprints heading out to the terrace so I was sure I was alone. Now, remember I was being lazy after my 8AM alarm? Now my 9AM alarm was ringing, so I knew that this had happened between 8:30 and 9:00, keep this info. I then heard someone in the hall cleaning it, I opened my door really scared and and saw the cleaning lady there. I told her what had happened and she asked me if I saw the guy, I said 'No, I wasn't wearing my glasses' and she told me she would call the janitor to see if he had seen something through the cameras. The Janitor appeared 5 minutes later, asked me what happened, looked at the footprints, calmed me down, said that he would show me the cameras to see if there was someone in the terrace by the time it happened.
    After he left, I did the things I had to do and got ready to meet a friend that would take me to a precinct only to waste my time - no hate to police officers in general, but the ones in this story were worthless. So when I was leaving my building I stopped by the security room. The Janitor was there and I asked him if he could show me the footage like he "promised" earlier. So he started showing footage, from 8AM, then from 8:10, then from 8:20... and then he stopped and said "well there wasn't anyone there by this time". In my mind I was like "well, I said that I probably saw the guy between 8:30 and 9AM, but you are only showing me footage from before, obviously nobody will be there", however I had a feeling I shoudn't confront him so I played dumb, thanked him for the help and left with a weird sensation.
    I will just jump to Saturday night so the story won't be too long. We had two security guards that worked the night shift, they would take turns working and the one I was most close with didn't work Friday, only Saturday, that's why the jump. I arrived home and when I saw him I had a feeling I could trust him, so I told what happened the day before and asked if we could see the security cameras. He showed exactly what I asked for and we saw the Janitor at the terrace by 8:40 (we couldn't see him entering the apartment, only that he was there) then the footage went black and he saw that someone had deleted it. The only person who knew the password to delete the footage was... I don't need to say right. This guard even landed me a taser so I could feel more secure, and even taught how to use it. Summing up, I didn't feel more secure, I freaked out alone at home, I couldn't sleep at all, however I was really grateful that he helped me. The next day I packed my things and went to a distant cousin's house that lived nearby and my father took the first flight Monday to see me and help me solve the situation.
    So, I'm sure it was the Janitor. The apartment manager (that was out of town during all of this), recovered all the footage and like I said the camera didn't catch him entering my house, but we later saw the janitor running down the stairs at like 8:50AM looking really worried like something had happened, him putting on a jacket (to look different) before going to talk to me, staring in a creepy way when I was walking the street leaving the building after seeing the footage w/ him, and other things I won't remember. The whole staff was changed (I lost the guard I was fond of) and things were somewhat solved.
    And after all this ended I kept thinking how not wearing my glasses when opening the door, playing dumb when he didn't showed me the footage and relying in the guard I felt most confortable with were the best choices I could have made, because I don't know if he would have done something with me if he knew that I recognized him or that I was suspicious of him.

  • @pekotunes
    @pekotunes 2 года назад +11

    Why are some men such scum bags?! I just can't believe it... thank you all these brave women for sharing your stories. You are also saving other women with your stories.

  • @yunorotten
    @yunorotten 2 года назад +26

    This reminds me if the time i got stalked. I was 20 and lived In skechty part of town with my partner, it was our first rental apartment together so we didn't know any better, the rent was okay and the apartment was roomy, little did we know that the front door had issues where it would just open by itself randomly, even when locked it would just open sometimes. One time i was coming home after work and shopping with my friend. We used the bus, the last one of the evening, we shared the same stop and talked for a while on the bus stop, when we noticed a man with hood on his head pacing the street accross from us. We both tensed up and knew there where something wrong. We decided to try wait it out, and just be together, the man continued pacing along the street smoking from time to time until he hid behind a carrage, we thought he left, but noticed his shadow and were more worried. We were sure he was waiting for us to move and follow one us, being an geberally scary looking person because of my aesthethic, we kinda thought he would go after my friend who is classically beautiful, decided that she would get her hairspay out just in case and a lighter. I told her to text me when she gets home and call her partner if he follow her. We start to go our different ways and looking after ourselves to see if the man follows. I got like 30 meters on my way and I noticed the man started following me,i was happy that my friemd was safe, but confused why on earth would he pick me, until I noticed that the look I was wearing on the outside wasn't as scary as usually, more cutesy since I was wearing winter clothes and pink long hair, also I am 5 f tall and weeks worth of crogeries on to hold. I tried speeding up my walking and the man macthed my speed but kept the distance and everytime I would look over my shoulder he would try to hude or look occupied. I was terrified, thinking all the possible worst case scenarious in my head, fearing for my safety. I speed walked as fast as my little legs would go with all the crogery bags on my arms. I got to our building, I needed to open the building door with my keys and the time it took me to do that the creep hid in the trash bin area. I ran up to our apartment and didn't put the lights on so the creep wouldn't see where I lived. After I got inside our home, I let go of the croseries, checked that the door was locked and just crumpled on the floor crying and shaking. I checked out of a dark window and the creep was still there on the trash area looking for lights In the apartments. This was the first time and it happened couple more times. After that I would carpool to work, wear more masculine style out, always have hairspay, lighter and other things with me, leave with other people if I could. We found a New place to rent couple of miles away, and it stopped after that. The worst part was not knowing if would be safe or not, I had nightmares where I would get killed and my body scattered In the woods and playground In front of our building,and that's not the worst fate,but I still get random images of my pink hair tuffts and bodypieces scattered there. Also the people around me whom I told about this where either supportive or like my therapist at the time horrible, she said it was not a concern since he didn't do anything to me, like stalking isn't a real thing with reprecussions In real life,also only questions she asked was what color of his skin was, to justify her own racist ass bulshit about people of color, needles to say that therapist was trash and is an ex therapist for a reason.

    • @starseedlightworker6539
      @starseedlightworker6539 2 года назад +3

      Back in the days, stalking wasn't a crime so police wasn't concerned when that happened. Even if they were stalking children. Thankfully things have changed

  • @boi1der21
    @boi1der21 2 года назад +19

    I swear.... This makes me afraid to do anything or go anywhere

  • @theycallmesunshine7159
    @theycallmesunshine7159 2 года назад +15

    My friend and I were in a very busy mall when we were maybe 14-15 years old. This mall had a reputation for shady things and SA cases.
    My mom, being an EMT, was very wary of letting us go to the mall because she would hear and respond to calls of really messed up incidents that were never reported publicly because the local government didn't want to lose revenue from a mall that was deemed dangerous. So my friend and I were approached by a short, heavy, 40- something year old bald man. I don't know why we carried out a conversation with this man, but something didn't feel right especially when he wanted us to leave the busy area we were at to join him on the roof. My friend and I looked at each other, sharing the same gut feeling that something was wrong, and we both pulled our phones out-she was going to call the cops and I tried to take a picture of the man. This short fat man turned away so fast, his head looked like a bowling ball as he ran through the crowd and disappeared. That same month we heard stories of girls getting drugged and assaulted on the roof, and a woman who was brutally attacked in the parking garage. We still would go to that mall as teenagers, but now as an adult I hate it.

  • @phaesiareese4393
    @phaesiareese4393 2 года назад +58

    This is scary, your doing a great job.

  • @terrybeasley5931
    @terrybeasley5931 2 года назад +15

    I walked up to a covenience store one block from my home. Noticed a creepy guy following me around store. Followed me out trying to look unobtrusive. Saw a friend with a car and whispered to him I needed a ride home. He was confused as I lived only a block away, but he said ok. I explained the situation.We rode around for a while and he took me home. I still get the creeps. Never had alarm bells go off like that in my life.

  • @analiseferguson3191
    @analiseferguson3191 2 года назад +34

    The Australian story though 😳

  • @Sunflowergrram
    @Sunflowergrram 2 года назад +6

    I used to work until 10pm and I had a friend who literally would walk me half way home now he lived in Halifax so he needed to get the train home and then a bus but he always insisted on walking me home and I’m forever thankful to him ❤️

  • @kendraphic87
    @kendraphic87 2 года назад +22

    I got kicked out of a bar because I got into it with my friends boyfriend. My boyfriend(her brother)knocked her boyfriend out. I remember throwing my food at him and getting kicked out. I got mad and flagged down the police. They dropped me off at a gas station a few blocks from my house.
    While I’m walking home.. cars are honking at me. I saying F you and middle fingering men driving pass. Before I turn on my block (this is how I know God is real) something inside of me is like, “call cinnamon” It was like a tiny voice inside of me. I called my sister all drunk and hung up. She was on her way downstairs as I turned onto my block.
    My heart dropped instantly because a man that just drove pass, trying to get my attention was just now on foot! It was dark and I was scared af. I played it off and was like hey! Where’s your car I didn’t even think you would stop. As soon as he was walking up on me, my sister opened the door to out apartment building and I ran inside.
    Idk what his intent was but I know it wasn’t good. It was 3 am, late at night and I live in Chicago. No telling what he could’ve done to me.

  • @emilyjordan107
    @emilyjordan107 2 года назад +25

    Y‘all I have a similar story
    I grew up in a relatively small town in Central Europe. Like really small (abt. 3000 people). I was 12 years old and I had just gotten off the bus at my stop after my piano lessons that day. I notice this car come up to me and stop and like so many other girls I got a terrible feeling in my gut. This guy with sunglasses on asked me to get in his car and show me where some kind of address was. He was middle aged and he just made me feel so uncomfortable and gave me the creeps.I pretended that I wasn’t from there and preceded to run towards my house and I was actually screaming internally. Luckily my house was only a couple of meters away from the bus stop. But seriously, what middle aged man would ask a child to get in his freaking car like wtf there had to be something wrong with that, right? I actually hesitated, even though my instincts where telling me to bolt. I never expected that something like that would happen to me, in such a small, rural town. I guess I am really lucky because it could have been way worse like some of these other stories from other girls. Seriously, stay safe. If you feel like something isn’t right, don’t hesitate and run as fast as you can.

  • @rcctpms6687
    @rcctpms6687 2 года назад +7

    My first thought was push the bed against the door and when she said that's what they did, I'm lying here in bed saying "Right! Right! Right!" like I'm talking to her now and encouraging her 🙃. Wow!

  • @barleyteaa
    @barleyteaa 2 года назад +25

    A few months ago, my friend and I were outside my home. There are stairs that lead up to the lobby next to the second set of stairs we stood by, many people came and went so we didn’t pay attention. I heard a guy talking but couldn’t make out what he was saying, assumed he’s just talking to his friend or whatever while walking up to the lobby. I noticed he didn’t follow the pathway up the stairs but instead was headed toward the side of the stairwell platform that connects to us. It didn’t feel right, I just knew he’s not one of my neighbours. I grabbed my friends arm, bolted up the stairs. While we ran, we noticed he was running toward the stairs we were sprinting up with something shiny in his hands and shouting something perverted about us “little girls.” I managed to get my keys out in time and get us in but I’ve learned to just have my keys on a retractable key chain, ready for use. Also, carry bear spray. It’s basically legal pepper spray.

    • @jacm.2994
      @jacm.2994 2 года назад +1

      Wait, pepper spray is not legal??

    • @hopedfutur20rosingtea57
      @hopedfutur20rosingtea57 2 года назад +2

      @@jacm.2994 It is legal, but there are restrictions and laws regarding the size, purchase, and strength of said pepper sprays. So yes and no.

  • @emerald9194
    @emerald9194 2 года назад +8

    I still don’t know what this guy’s intentions actually were, but one day when I was like 16 or 17 I was walking around my neighborhood and I noticed this guy walking while reading a book. At one point he ended up super close behind me, like just outside of my peripheral (I was walking alone the curb with him on the sidewalk because I didn’t want him directly behind me), and every time I glanced over he just had his nose in this book. I’m not sure if he was actually reading or was just trying to look distracted while getting close. Eventually I decided I didn’t want him so close, so I crossed the street, but then I noticed him crossing with me so I stopped in the middle of the street and ran back. At that point he either realized he was scaring me or just knew the jig the was up because he walked a different way and I went home immediately after that.

  • @guessan154
    @guessan154 2 года назад +29

    The fact that ANYONE has ever participated in any side of hitchhiking is a god damned wonder to me.

    • @rioryzure
      @rioryzure 2 года назад +3

      My grandparents met hitchhiking, the story goes that my grandmother was driving to babysit someone and my grandfather needed a ride to a pub. Long story short they got along well and met up later, and apparently my grandmother never slept in her old bed again.

    • @guessan154
      @guessan154 2 года назад +3

      @@rioryzure incredible. The world was safer once.

    • @msk-qp6fn
      @msk-qp6fn 2 года назад

      Same seriously why do people do this??

  • @Rene_MyBae
    @Rene_MyBae 2 года назад +1

    “Now I’m terrified of men” that reminded me of Irene from (REDVELVET) who knows reveluvs she probably went through something with a creep and that’s why she isn’t comfortable with men.

  • @ela19537
    @ela19537 2 года назад +41

    I was selling a double bed frame on fb marketplace to a lady and when she showed up she had her partner with her ( bed was heavy so expected her to bring someone) as soon as I opened the door I got a horrible feeling in the pit of my stomach ,the lady was holding a plastic bag that clearly had stuff in it which I was immediately suspicious of cuz why would she bring it out of her car to collect the bed . As soon as they came in they started speaking in their own language which I couldn't understand , the guy kept looking round the room and went out of his way to look under the stairs , pretty sure he was looking for the dog as all its things were all sitting by the door he also asked what type of dog I said a rottweiler. ( it's not ) then she asked to go to the toilet as she needed to go badly , which is upstairs I made my excuses so she couldn't go , they spoke between themselves for a minute and then said they just had to go back to car to get the money , there's a little cafe beside my house and I rang and got the owner to come up and stand with me , the couple came back up got the bed and I locked the door behind them , they sat in their car for over an hour outside my house even reversed round the side so I couldn't see them for a while , I did say to the lady on her way out that there was a toilet in the cafe she could use but she said no it was ok. when I rang cops they said that the names they had given me where fake as well as the cars plates .

    • @qq84
      @qq84 2 года назад

      The cops should have caught them if they waited there for an hour. - Why didn't you called?

    • @lukhonalufuta7096
      @lukhonalufuta7096 2 года назад +1

      Dis they pay for and take the bed though?! Did the cafe owner come through ?! Tell a full story

  • @karmabiitch26
    @karmabiitch26 2 года назад +10

    The girl with black n red hair is beautiful n her makeup.. bomb asf !! 🔥 💥

  • @catherinemckenzie8485
    @catherinemckenzie8485 2 года назад +81

    these are really good! please do more of this series 🥺🥺🥺

  • @krystalg.9802
    @krystalg.9802 2 года назад +1

    Always walk fast and act like you have somewhere to be. People are less inclined to bother you if you appear to be busy.

  • @nicelydone31
    @nicelydone31 Месяц назад

    it's terrible that all these situations involve predatory, evil men.

  • @EmEm12297
    @EmEm12297 2 года назад

    Who else has binge watched these types of videos and never wants to go to sleep again??

  • @1MoOnChild3
    @1MoOnChild3 2 года назад +7

    The sad thing is....I'm actually learning survival tips...just in case...This shouldn't be happening 😤

  • @thefinalgirl6907
    @thefinalgirl6907 2 года назад +5

    I don't have a TikTok so here's my story here:
    When I was about about 11 I was outside watching my two younger cousins play in the playground by grandma's apartment building. All of the sudden I get this really bad feeling like we're being watched. I look behind me and this old man is kind of hiding behind a tree and watching us. So I immediately just kind of guided my little cousins (at the time the boy was 7 and the girl was 4) safely and slowly out of the park without letting on that we were leaving because of him. My cousins and I talked and laughed the whole way back to the apartment acting like we didn't see him. When we got inside I explained to the oldest one (7) what just happened and he understood not to play outside for the rest of the weekend. Idk what that man would've done but I didn't wanna stick around to test it.

  • @JennyG.COW5
    @JennyG.COW5 2 года назад +4

    First story: Yikes!😲
    Glad you had a coworker there and active police. 👍
    Second Story: Great thinking about using your car horn! 👍
    # 3: Holy Crap!
    It's a good thing your Mom and her friend decided to keep talking!
    #4: Great tip! Glad you knew how to switch vehicles.
    #5: Glad you thought about baring the door with your beds and could get out of there before any trouble!
    6#: It's a good thing you had enough Gas and the guys grew tired of the chase!
    #7: Thank you for All the great Men out there who are truly trying to help us!
    Let us know how we can help you.
    Thanks. 😊
    #8: Dang! It's a good thing you were so familiar with your vehicle! 👍
    #9: Yay for the couple!
    I'm glad you followed your gut and was safe!
    Safety in numbers!
    #10: So grateful that you and your sister had someone who could understand you and help you. Truly there are angels around us that God will send! 😊❤️🕊️
    #11: So glad your friend had the courage and insight to take action and run after you and that guy!

  • @serenakoruba740
    @serenakoruba740 2 года назад +13

    I watched 3 of those so far- WHY ARE THERE SO MANY WTF CAN THIS JUST STOP HAPPENING THANKS

  • @HaleThePanda
    @HaleThePanda 2 года назад +5

    I had an incident 2 and a half years ago where I was walking down a street at 6ish in the morning while it was still dark, and a car started matching my speed and calling out to me, asking things like if I was single. I initially looked over in response to being called, but quickly realized what was going on and kept walking. The guy pulled a ways down the road, stopped his car, got out to pretend to use someone's garbage can, and waited for me to come down the sidewalk. I realized that this was happening, realized I was short enough to wear he couldn't see me behing the other cars parked along the road, and then I just dove behind someone's hedges and waited for them to leave. The road was a one way so I knew he wouldn't have been able to back up to see where I was, and eventually he just left. Once he did, I just sped walked all the way down the road until I got to the most lit up part of the area. Even though in that time I was in a very emotional state and had other things causing me to not think clearly, I was glad that I was able to put that aside for instinct to kick in to save my life.

    • @wiccangirl3625
      @wiccangirl3625 2 года назад +1

      Ohmyyyy, glad you are safe. I hope you'll be safe forever ♾️

  • @nanda105
    @nanda105 2 года назад +17

    *does anybody know if there is a podcast with this vibe?* Like women sharing these really creepy true stories.
    edit: I found these on spotify:
    - Women and Crime
    - Female killers
    (they only talk about women related cases, but if anyone's interested I know many podcasts with female narrators talking about crimes in general)

    • @Moon4110_
      @Moon4110_ 2 года назад +2

      Can you list the names???? 😅

    • @saramashruwala8579
      @saramashruwala8579 2 года назад

      rotten mango by stephanie soo is so good

  • @dis_gracie6348
    @dis_gracie6348 2 года назад +1

    Anybody else noticing a pattern with cars driving parallel with people?

  • @Bo-OoOoOop
    @Bo-OoOoOop 2 года назад

    It’s really sad to see how many women ( and men mind you ) who go through these disgusting experiences.

  • @LeynaraLarwenarenel
    @LeynaraLarwenarenel Год назад +1

    My escape method defaults to acting insane. People are wary if they don't think they can predict you

  • @OfficialAngelDust.
    @OfficialAngelDust. 2 года назад +61

    Ok I'm not a gonna share my gender but, let me tell you my story. One time some guy started following me. I was kinda scared and surprised. I started thinking of a plan to get him to leave me alone. I got the idea to call my boy bsf in the next isle (we were at the store) I ran over to him and hugged him really tight he got the memo and grabbed me pretending he was my boyfriend.
    After the man saw him kiss my forehead he ran off. Like booked it if his life was on the Line. I thanked my bsf so much but he does that for me when that stuff happens. ✋️🥺

    • @r0saas_
      @r0saas_ 2 года назад +6

      that's a great friendship omg:') i'm glad ur ok

    • @OfficialAngelDust.
      @OfficialAngelDust. 2 года назад +5

      @@r0saas_ I know and thank you

  • @WVgrl59
    @WVgrl59 2 года назад +1

    I never allowed men to buy me drinks After learning that they almost always expect something in return.

  • @piaaadah
    @piaaadah 2 года назад +2

    I was almost kidnapped when I was 7. My gut instinct told me to run so I did even though I had hip dysplasia so I really couldn't go fast. I got away through a pedestrian area since he chased me in his car.

  • @britneehedgepeth9848
    @britneehedgepeth9848 3 месяца назад

    When I was 11, I lived in a tiny town. One school for all grades, 3-4 bus drivers. My bus driver lived down the road from me, and also drove the bus for the bigger church in town. During vacation Bible school, ( a summer church program for kids) I asked to be dropped off first as everyone except me lived way far down the rural route (main road with more traffic) he said no, you go last. My gut sank. Then I asked again please drop me off first, he got angry and yelled at me saying I was going to sit down and shut up and he’ll take me home when he’s done… we are still in the church parking lot at this point. I got a sinking feeling in my gut and yelled let me off. He said no. I said let me off, and he refused. I reached for the emergency release door and he stopped and let me off. I was shaking and scared and ran back into the church where I knew no one as I had just moved there a few mos. Before. The most kind woman found me in front of the church curled up and crying and shaking and asked what happened. She then took me inside to call my gran. As she drove me home she said “don’t you ever not listen to that voice in your body. The one that tells you to run or to fight or to stay still. Always listen.” My gran said the same.
    I moved back to the big city I was from a year later and then when I was about 20 I found out that bus driver was arrested for SA of a young girl. Trust your fucking gut.

  • @gaia7240
    @gaia7240 2 года назад +3

    When I was 12/13 some men tried to kidnap me literally in front of my school with the police station across the street, I swear I'm not making this up

    • @Ekkoisgecko
      @Ekkoisgecko 2 года назад +1

      Dude, I've seen guys high or drunk, literally try to steal cops bikes from the rack right in front of the station. Crazy people out there.

  • @anoushaadvitiya4001
    @anoushaadvitiya4001 2 года назад +18

    I've Been watching these videos and I Also have a story to tell well it's not THAT bad but it could've ended badly.
    So I was in the 8th grade and me and my little sister who was in 1st grade were walking home as we got off the bus from school.
    It was monsoon time and the road we had to walk down was filled with puddles so I walked in the sidelines.
    I wasn't so far from home at this point
    And suddenly a man looking like 40-50 years old stopped his motorcycle right in front me and said "Sit on my motorcycle I'll drive you home I know your father"
    And I in return said "uncle Luckily I have a pair of legs so don't worry I can walk home you leave please"
    Thankfully he didn't do anything else and drove off.
    But it was really scary for me because the road was also empty and I couldn't see anybody I can scream to for help also I had my little sister with me I was more worried for her.

  • @Kristin.Lyn-LineDance
    @Kristin.Lyn-LineDance 2 года назад +1

    This wasn’t a quick thinking moment, but more of an accident that probably saved me. I was walking back from class one night, I think it was 9 or 10pm, and I’m in the parking lot of my college, it’s not well lit, and there aren’t too many people or cars around. I usually have a keen 6th sense to things around me, but I had no alarm bells going off at all, just had my eyes on my car and was power walking to my car. I had my keys in my hand and my purse tucked under my arm close to me and my keys in my right hand. Well I have a terrible habit of dropping things. I accidentally drop my keys and so I have to stop abruptly to pick them up - when I do that, I hear “oh!” And I get startled because I’m like, I thought I was alone, and I look and there was this girl who must have been right on my tail for who knows how long.. she doesn’t have any books or a purse or keys… just wearing workout clothes… and she doesn’t apologize. She just says “oh!” When she almost ran into me and starts walking diagonally away from me. It’s possible she was out for a run and wanted to be close to someone for her own safety.. but I have a feeling her intentions were probably a bit more ominous. But I think the part of it that scares me the most, is like I said I have a pretty keen 6th sense and I truly had no idea, no strange feeling, nothing alerting my spidey sense that someone was behind me, and that closely behind me. Gives me chills to this day.

  • @lillystar4029
    @lillystar4029 2 года назад +3

    I swear most of these stories are night shifts at subway. 😂

  • @highvibrationalwoman4435
    @highvibrationalwoman4435 2 года назад +9

    There was this one time, I was about 18-19 and I was coming from my boyfriend’s house. I had just gotten off the train and was going to walk home, maybe like a 15 minute walk. I could have taken the bus, but it was around 10-11 and summertime, and this was a relatively busy street but it was kind of deserted at this time, So I start walking, there’s a little viaduct you have to pass under and I don’t know, I started feeling weird. I looked back and there’s a guy walking fast on the other side of the street. I mean, he’s walking FAST and he’s crossing the street to my side. I turned and did a 180 so fast, he stopped, I walked back to the bus stop and waited 15 minutes for the bus with other people around.

  • @orochicrazy
    @orochicrazy 2 года назад +1

    I'm writing this to remind women that you don't have to be polite to strangers and people just because they bought you a drink or that havent done anything yet but getting waaaaaaaaaay to close to you.
    Be honest and agressive if you must. I've had to do this in more than one ocasion. DO NOT feel captive by social politeness. It's better to be safe and being seen as crazy lady than ending up in a trunk of a car. Your instint doesn't lie to you. If you feel in danger, YOU ARE IN DANGER. BE AGRESSIVE.

  • @dream_walker9726
    @dream_walker9726 10 месяцев назад

    My grandmother gave me advice that I’ll always keep in mind, if there’s someone following you while you’re driving, beeline for the nearest police station. Ain’t no way in *hell* a bad guy would be stupid enough to follow you there.

  • @DameDarcy999
    @DameDarcy999 2 года назад +6

    My friend was on Hollywood blvd as a teen standing on the corner waiting to score coke from her dealer.
    A big pimp car drove up and she got in and started to hand him money…
    Just as he started to hand her money.
    They both looked at each other super confused then she realized he thought she was a prostitute and she jumped back out of the car.

  • @lish4816
    @lish4816 2 года назад

    Ladies, Gents, Others. U have to SING!!!
    S = Solarplexis (breadbasket, diaphragm etc) middle of torso, just below ribs.
    I = Instep (top of foot)
    N = Nose (preferably in upwards motion with palm of hand)
    G = Groin (even if u miss & land hit on inner thigh, where artery runs, its enough to slow them down)
    Also, a chop or punch to the throat works too.

  • @MissLovely42
    @MissLovely42 2 года назад +1

    idk how much i saved my own life but here goes: i live in a state where cannabis is illegal. when we were teenagers my friends and i would go to the local park to smoke joints. there was a river that ran through this park. over the river in one spot was a beaver dam, and therefore, a giant tree that was fallen over the water. We would climb out onto this tree and smoke while enjoying the sounds of nature. One day we were out there we saw some random dude in a dark blue like, car machanic looking jumpsuit. He passed us on the path away from our hangout, no problem, but it was a strange thing to wear on a summer day. Then up aways we saw a bright blue shirt and someone else coming down the path. We got paranoid because we thought they were older people (we were teens, and were in a public place). We climbed down the tree and headed the other direction. The path we were on was a teardrop path, and after we crossed the fork a little ways, an older man walks up from behind us. Hes wearing that bright blue shirt.
    He begins to tell us that whatever we were doin back there, someone else was watching us.
    We were like, what?
    As hes talking his walking partner comes up the path behind him and stands with us. It was me and my best girlfriend, and two guys in the park that day.
    So the man starts telling us about how some person in a blue mechanic outfit was in the bushes watching us, and that they were flushing him away from us. But they got worried because we went down the same path he did. So they hustled to turn around to cut us off. As he is talking his buddy is like, nodding. These were men in their 50s or something, a couple grandpas with t shirts and ballcaps and high socks. We felt like they were honest.
    They said they would walk us back to our cars if we felt like we needed protection, but that they just wanted us to know, that guy was watching us hang out.
    the two guys we were with felt like they could handle him if they needed to, so we just booked it back to my car. Crazy is after we got in the seats and was pulling out of the dip where we park, we saw that dude walk past the trail we were just on and keep going down the path, not turning toward our car.
    No joke, later that night on tv there was news about how someone had escaped from the county jail, and described this dude! nuts.

  • @liastorm795
    @liastorm795 2 года назад +22

    Sooooo you took the guy to your house Ms. Subway girl!?!?

  • @iq_arii7753
    @iq_arii7753 2 года назад +16

    Your videos are amazing and very interesting keep it up!!

  • @zoerobinson1003
    @zoerobinson1003 2 года назад +3

    Lemme do mine. (Not a time when I was doing quick thinking, but a creepy time I wanted to share). When I was twelve, I was in a supermarket while my mom was using the bathroom. I was waiting outside with my two younger brothers. This guy walks up (He literally smelled like beer) and starts talking in a baby voice to them. Im moving behind the cart, trying to get away from him. A store attendant walks by, but I don't do anything because I wanted to be polite. I was literally praying for my mom to come out of the bathroom. When she finally did, we made eye contact and she could tell I was nervous. This guy keeps talking, and says he's from Seattle. Then he said he supported the "two moms thing." I WAS TWELVE. (I mean, I was really tall for my age, but I did not look like I was old enough to have KIDS). My mom then told him that I was her twelve year old daughter, and we walked away and checked out. I was shaking so hard. Now I'm distrustful of literally whenever ANY man comes near me. (Exept for family and close friends.)

  • @wafajamal3720
    @wafajamal3720 2 года назад

    3:57 her voice is so beautiful

  • @SunBunz
    @SunBunz 3 месяца назад

    11:51 that gesture always makes me sick to my stomach because a car full of adult men (20s or 30s) did that to me when I was walking home from school when I was 11-years old. _Eleven._ And I’m short, so I looked even younger than that. I’d like to know who raises these monsters and why they’re like that.

  • @axthrial_3857
    @axthrial_3857 Год назад +1

    i'm learning solid survival skills from these videos. i shouldnt have to but

  • @ENFPerspectives
    @ENFPerspectives Год назад

    6:00 🤜🤛🙌🙌👏👏👏👏 grab ALL the weapons!!! And smart moving the bed in front of the door!!! Just ThinK if you had not had the bed there when he tried to get into the "bathroom"!!!

  • @Lp-AAA
    @Lp-AAA 2 года назад +3

    I've been one of the people who probably saved someone's life, because one evening I was walking with another friend, but they were way ahead of me. Apparently someone was getting followed by a creep, and I heard her cursing her head off. So I stop and when she gets up next to me I walk at her speed, which was pretty fast for a girl in heels. She went and smiled and said, "I walked out of the coffee shop down that way, and this dude started following me. I didn't think anything of it but he kept following me. So I started walking in and out of stores with multiple exits, and he followed me every time. The dude hasn't left." She started crying, and I knew I had to help. So I said, "Hey, I have a friend who can help, we're going to the beach. You should be safe with us okay?" She nodded frantically and followed me to where my friend had ran off to. I introduced my friend and she gave her name. Her name was Hailey, and I asked for her phone number, not to be weird, just because I wanted to make sure after I left she was safe. And we've been friends ever since.
    Stick together girls, you might just save someone's life. If someone seems scared go check to see if they're in danger and need help.

    • @qq84
      @qq84 2 года назад

      So you let that guy go?

  • @idk-YS
    @idk-YS 2 года назад +6

    Okay so my friend and I went to the mall to just hang out. And my parents were there too but they were in a different restaurant while we just walked around and talked. And while we r walking I noticed this guy wearing a red shirt like he was always there wherever we went and at one point he walked real close to us. We just laughed it off. But after a while I notice that guy right behind us AGAIN. My stomach dropped and I immediately knew we need to find my parents. And I didn’t know where that restaurant was, so I stopped and my friend stopped as well. I tried asking her where that restaurant is and I think my panic was showing cuz I was fumbling- and this genius friend of mine on the top of her voice is like “ YOU ARE ACTING AS IF WE R GETTING FOLLOWED” while that red shirt guy was like still close by and I start laughing (maybe it was the panic that made me start laughing) and I say “ that is cuz we are getting followed” and then we went to my parents. But my friend looked back at one pint and said she saw him laughing...so yeah

  • @brookejurjens1964
    @brookejurjens1964 2 года назад +2

    14:31 her eyes are sooo pretty

  • @transfelixfelicis
    @transfelixfelicis 2 года назад +5

    This is why I carry a lighter most of the time, & scissors at all times. I don’t care how young I am, I’m going to keep myself safe.
    Also, if a girl (or a guy) comes up to you and pretends they know you, PLAY. ALONG.

    • @ankiitaaa
      @ankiitaaa 2 года назад +1

      And I carry a big sharp kitchen knife coz I am not afraid to stab ✨

    • @transfelixfelicis
      @transfelixfelicis 2 года назад +1

      @@ankiitaaa slay

  • @user-nn8fm3qv1e
    @user-nn8fm3qv1e 2 года назад

    I can't watch these videos anymore because they always trigger my panic attacks. Not sure why, but every damn time... 😕

  • @mbtd2011
    @mbtd2011 2 года назад +7

    oh boy do i have a story. when i was about 9, me, a friend(my friend was a guy, that’s gonna come in handy soon), our mom’s, and our two dogs went on a walk together. me and my friend were on our bikes and we got to a point where there were two paths, one that went straight ahead and one that curved to the left and it was called the nature trail, me and my friend being the little 9 and 8 year olds we were, we thought “oh they are just going to take the straight path so let’s just go that way.” about 15 minutes later we had gotten to a hill and had been waiting for our parents for about 10 minutes and that’s when we started to freak out. i tell my friend that i’ll ride my bike back to where the path divided into two. so i’m riding my bike and i get there and i don’t see them so as i’m riding back to my friend to tell him that they aren’t there, this car with all the windows tinted, pulls up next to me and roll’s down the window. this older lady starts talking to me and i am freaking out but i was acting like nothing was wrong, and she’s like “hey do you a ride or something, you look like you need help” and i’m like “no thanks, i’m fine, i’m just waiting for my mom” and she keeps asking me over and over and i finally say “trust me, i don’t need a ride” and finally she’s like “ok, i just saw your brother standing on a hill with his bike and thought that you might need a ride” and eventually she drove away. about and hour later everyone is safe and sound at home and everything is ok. i still wonder about that older lady sometimes, i don’t know if she was just being nice…or there was something else that was going on🤷‍♀️

  • @jobertoli256
    @jobertoli256 2 года назад +1

    Angels are Real.

  • @rustinstardust2094
    @rustinstardust2094 2 года назад +1

    That Uber thing/changing the destination was fucking smart.

  • @Hellle89
    @Hellle89 2 года назад +1

    Note how this whole series are only about men being the biggest threat to women. No other near death situations based on natur disasters, traffic or animals....just men.

  • @Itswhtv
    @Itswhtv 2 года назад

    When i was still a baby, my mom was walking in the streets at night and the streets were completely empty except for this one guy. (And let me tell you that my mom would dress up all nice just for the fun of it). So she was crossing a whole bunch of streets and this guy was following her, so she started thinking abt what to do. Eventually she came across a Food4Less and she went towards it. She found a police officer who drove her all the way home. Without this officer my mom and i could have been dead rn. So thank you to all people like this, you guys are real heros ♡

  • @Mox__
    @Mox__ 2 года назад +1

    I remember one time, when me and my sister lived in Nebraska, we were playing in our front yard (this was when I was about 6-8 and she was about 7-9) and this guy pulled up asking if we knew directions to this school that his daughter went to, so we told him "yeah we think it's like just over that way, we can ask our mom if you want" and at that moment our mom, who had been watching us play, just burst out the front door, came and grabbed me and my sister's arms, and we were like "mom this guy is wondering where this school is, where is it?" And he had this really panicked expression on when he saw our mom, and so then she said "yeah I think it's just over there." At the point I'm pretty sure our mom had told me and my sis to go back inside so we did, and we just saw that guy speed away after we went inside.
    At that age I didn't realize we were probably about to get kidnapped until our mom noticed 😀

  • @Ur_Moth3r
    @Ur_Moth3r 2 года назад +3

    So this happened a year ago.
    I’m at Walmart shopping with my mom. When we get there and my dad parked the car he said I’ll wait for you guys here, so me and my mom get off and go inside. There is this dude at the subway (there is a subway inside the Walmart in which I go to) and he’s sitting there. Then he gets up and goes to the fruit section which is where me and my mom are at. So we are getting meat and cereal when I notice this guy by us. He’s been following us for the past 30 minutes. I had a bad feeling something bad was happening. I comment my mom about this and we finish shopping. There was a long line since that day there was lots of people. Just beige the 4th of July. So I call my dad to come inside and I tell him what’s happening. My dad comes inside and the dude goes to a different lane (he was right behind us and he did have a couple things with him, also I speak Spanish so I called my dad and told him everything in Spanish which I think is a good thing that I speak Spanish and so do my parents) well my dad comes and the dude leaves to self check out. I was so creeped out that day and I feel like if I didn’t call my dad then something bad could have happened.
    We’ve been going to Mijers since and honestly I feel safer there because most people at my school go there so in case this happens again I can find a person that goes to my school and talk to them. I hope this never happens again

  • @amichaels8346
    @amichaels8346 Год назад

    Do your best NOT to go ANYPLACE FAMILIAR OR WHERE YOU LIVE but
    DO GO to the MOST CROWDED PUBLIC
    PLACE you can find. 💙

  • @80bbygrl
    @80bbygrl 2 года назад

    That first girl who worked at Subway is so pretty. So glad she wasn't hurt.

  • @isabellamadlin5420
    @isabellamadlin5420 2 года назад +1

    Tip for ppl, pretend ur on the phone! Say stuff like ya dad I see u or, is that u at the corner if the black or just pretend someone is meeting u there

  • @SassyStrawberry1
    @SassyStrawberry1 2 года назад

    When I was 10 I was going to the woods on my bike (a nice neighborhood and I went to the woods often). That day a van was driving next to me. I was confused because the speed limit was faster than my bike was.
    For no reason, on instinct, I decided to take a turn down a dead end street (only street b4 woods) where my friend lived.
    I drop my bike in front of her house and bang on her door. The entire time the van is waiting in front of the house to see if someone will answer.
    My friend let's me in. We wait a moment watching the van sit out front for a moment before it drove off.
    5 kids disappeared that summer.

  • @SuperCrazybumblebee
    @SuperCrazybumblebee 2 года назад

    Ivan Mallat stories are for real in Australia. In the late 80's he was camping behind our house.😬

  • @centexasphalt3554
    @centexasphalt3554 2 года назад +5

    ok so I was with my mom and me and my aunt and my cousin and my mom aunt was drunk and very venerable and so this drunk man was walking behind us with a cigarette cat calling all of us even me and my cousin who were 10-11 saying how all of us had a nice ass and messed up stuff like that my mom looked back and started puking in the bushes the man looked grossed out and started walking the other way (mind you we were at the basically back of the casino and it was night and cold with no one around and he looked homeless) I cried the whole night and my granny had to comfort me
    girls always beware no mater if your with a group or not there are peverts everywhere you go