HOW MEN ARE BECOMING WEAK
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- Опубликовано: 14 окт 2024
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In this video, we will explore the concept of masculinity and the impact that gender stereotypes, school and education system have on men's and boy's lives. We discuss how society's expectations of men to be tough, successful and emotionally stoic can lead to mental health problems and which is not good for both men and those around them. we offer insights from books written by brooking institute's senior fellow Richard Reeves and Dr. Warren Farrell, into how we can redefine what it means to be a man in today's world. From promoting emotional vulnerability, reform in education system to rejecting old stereotypes, this video aims to inspire viewers to break free from limiting gender norms and embrace a more authentic and healthy form of masculinity.
इस वीडियो में, हम पुरुषत्व के अवधारणा को अन्वेषण करेंगे और उन पुरुषों और लड़कों के जीवन पर जातिवादी आकलनों, स्कूल और शिक्षा प्रणाली के प्रभाव को विस्तार से बताएंगे। हम चर्चा करेंगे कि समाज की पुरुषों से डुंगरदर्शिता, सफलता और भावनात्मक तौर पर स्थिर होने की उम्मीदों से कैसे मानसिक स्वास्थ्य समस्याएं उत्पन्न हो सकती हैं जो न केवल पुरुषों के लिए बल्कि उनके आस-पास के लोगों के लिए भी अच्छी नहीं होती। हम ब्रूकिंग इंस्टीट्यूट के वरिष्ठ फेलो रिचर्ड रीव्स और डॉ. वारेन फरेल द्वारा लिखी गई किताबों से अवलोकन प्रस्तुत करते हैं, जो हमें यह जानने में मदद करती हैं कि हम आज के विश्व में एक पुरुष का अर्थ क्या हो सकता है। भावनात्मक खुलापन को बढ़ावा देने, शिक्षा प्रणाली में सुधार करने, पुराने आकलनों को अस्वीकार करने जैसे मुद्दों से हम दूर होते जाने का उद्देश्य इस वीडियो का है। इस वीडियो का उद्देश्य
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#psychology #mentalhealth #sigma
*May be many girls don't know that millions of boys have already started rejecting the notion of marriage and romantic relationship. They are learning spiritually that staying a bachelor is not a problem but bliss in disguise* 😊😊
I'm one of them buddy.👍
AP supermacy❤
Mee too.
Accha hi hain. Waise bhi india mein kuch 40 million men jyada hain female se. Ladkiyon ko jyada fark nahi padega kyunki ek do million chale bhi gaye phir bhi numbers kam nahi honge unse. Cheers
@@lalopuza women ko vse b farak ni pdta ,tumhe kya lgta h apna ghar maa baap bhai bhen ko chordna asaan hota h...ladkiya sadiyo se krti arhi h ...janam ke sbse important rishto ko chordna ...itna sab kuch accept krti ayi h ...abhi 100 sal b ni hue unko azadi mile abhi toh shuruwaat h halat or buri hogi...women kbhi men ke lie 10%b crave ni krti jitna men krte h...or ladkiyo ko best chahiye average ni...vse b aaagg dono taraf same ni h...ladko ko bhav na mile toh vo pgl hojate h ladkiyo ko better ladko se bhav chahiye arey garey se ni..
My Rule : Never take society seriously...not even their laws...
Laws will help you when matter goes wrong
@@gaminglegend3313 yes laws are important , infact necessary to maintain order .
But one thing we have to remember is , Sabse bada rog , kya kahenge log 😂
@@Gdhdjejgfsbh then ppl need to change
As Osho and Socrates said the people are retarded thus democracy will fail
Bhai aise Attitude ke saath Jail jayega.
Only a grown up and matured brain can follow this.But.... by the time brain grows to understand this,we see the damage has already been done.Lucky are those boys,who have good parents.
Toxic Masculinity doesn't exist. Toxic byproduct of mishandling masculinity exists. Amazing statement.👍
ruclips.net/video/o8Omj03KIcs/видео.html
true
A man should be comfortable with his masculinity and s6xuality.
But , modern society are making their feel guilty for being masculine.
Fax
This logic can apply to practically anything.
1.Rape don't exist. Toxic byproduct of failure to control sexual urges leading to violation of someone exists.
2. Terrorism don't exist. Toxic byproduct of extreme views on a subject which insite violence exists.
3. Racism doesn't exist. Toxic byproduct of superiority complex on the basis of race exists.
And so on.
I have rejected society, I am a nihilist now. I don't care about anything anymore, and this is a bliss.
Same Bro .😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Same😂😂😢
Me too. I don't care who dies or lives, I have no empathy for humans
I hope you will maintain this bliss and motivate others to get this blessing. (◍•ᴗ•◍)❤
"unko mushkil se koi milta h "to
"unko shayad hi koi milta h " to
"nhi milta unko "
the more you realise how harsh it is 💔
It was deep it was so deep. It hurted me alot
A long time ago, I used to see myself as a failure, but now I feel that I am a rebel. Thank you for this video. My entire life I hated school for the useless thing we were taught, then came 12th, then engineering, and at the end of the day, you work in a corporate setting where most of the things which you were taught are not useful.
Follow brahmacharya for decipline and do meditation for mental clearity
@@pmssmp5876 these things actually make u weaker....thats y these things r so much promoted these days....a dysfunctional redundant monk is not a threat to rulers...
I'm 18... I FEEL PURPOSE LESS
When I try to study it's very hard to even raise my pen sand start solving a maths sum.
When I try to workout it's very hard to just start.
The only thing which is easy now is to watch RUclips......
I'm learning psychology since a very long time from Seeken Jigyaasa & I can understand that it's just a way to keep my brain busy.
I'm just consuming infotainment content from..
Seeken
Seeken Jigyaasa
Dhruv Rathee
Soch by mohak mangal
Get set fly fact
Get set fly science
Get set fly flearn
Gigl
Fundoo programming
Psychology in Hindi
I don't know in depth... That what is happening with me.
The only thing I know is I was more productive in my child hood after class 8 in 2018, I've become very less productive.
Mera v engineering khatam hua abhi...age kya keren Bhai any tips???
@@ayush.12444 tum ek kamjor insaan ho. Jo sochta hai saari problems ka solution online hi mil jaaye.
"I have never let my schooling interfere with my education."
- Mark Twain
Good thing we mens are increase our standards and rejecting toxicity from womens . Keep fighting and keep striving for better men .
Still S!mp ready to take care girls...
I love how men now are starting to motivate other men....it was truly needed....💯
They were from ancient day we men always support others.
Finally my dream has come true.
I as a men want it from my heart.
Always think for men. Help men.
Yes brother
@@RomanReigns-be9jjwill you support gay and bisexual men 😂. Support karne ka matalab sex nhi hota bas acceptance hoti hai.
@@vasusharma4519 fEmINisT spotted opinion rejected ❎
Even my parents never understand me since my childhood......
But this guy understand each and everything .........
Mera yhi experience hai very less goal set kro .fir usko dhire dhire bdhaao .
Bhai @divyanshu rawat kaha se ho tum uttarakhand se kya
@@achauhan4953 almora se bhai....
@@divyanshurawat9836 almora se present sir
It's like being punished for having a dicKJJJ
Irony is that YT always age restrict educational videos whereas cringy vulgar Omegle videos are widely promoted by YT 😂. Seems like a conspiracy. Isn't it? 🤔
New world order agenda
True...because for yt only views are important/ money
Videos that promote psychologically disturbed teenagers committing hate crimes and taking their own lives in the end are not "educational videos" my guy. Start using some brain cells maybe, all conspiracies would unveil themselves before you 😂
Yes. . It's true.. And it is because weak people are the best consumers
Jo jyada dikhta hai woh jyada bikta hai aajkal ki kadvi sachchai
As a women I always used to think about my male friends back in school they used to fight with teachers strongly they used to take risk. But just because they can't do boring work or refused to follow stupid rules they suffered.
The fact that always amazed me how effortlessly rebellious men can be, at the end I figured it out that men act amazingly at the time of emergency or if there is any challenge. Week before I was thinking on same point patriarchy harm men also no one talk about it...... But most importantly men need to understand this. Still alot of men shame each other if they don't fit in particular standards.
Yeah men are toxic to themselves I've seen that with my brother & his friends.
Patriarchy was created by men. The feminised society makes them uncomfortable.
@@kdjoshi726but I always treated my friends and brothers with respect but they never cared for me and said I was weak and so I cared.
Caring is a weakness now?
@@playmobilegamescodm I assume you're a male.
No, caring isn't a sign of weakness. It shows that you have the courage to show humane qualities like care and still be masculine. Really appreciate that you have the capacity to care for others❤
You are strong, keep going and spreading kindness :)
there's nothing like 'patriarchy'..
Recommended channel for men out there
1. Richard Cooper ( relationships )
2. Andrew huberman ( work ethics)
3. We r stupid ( health and fitness )
4. Seeken ( you know why)
Hope it helps
And
Stay strong king's 👑
You got this.
U could add Dr. Jordan Peterson too
@@Equalitybeforelaw we r stupid Hindi mai h bhai
Thank you so much! 🙏🏻
Richard Cooper : tactical soap owner & charges $33.33/min phone session
Andrew Hubermen : Selling work ethic courses (not sure)
We r stupid : Selling his own supplement brand!
Seeken : Will soon launch his book courses! 😂
@@jkshallinheritearth3883 majority of their content r free.
I tried my best in my studies, but I always fell behind when competing with my sisters. My parents would often tell me that if I didn't become the best, I would have to serve my sisters and ask them for money. When I became angry hearing this, they would say it was just a joke. Similar things happened to me in school because I had a good physical build compared to my classmates. They often made fun of me for this. It seemed like no matter what I did, people always found fault in me. When I was thin, I was made fun of. When I became overweight, my parents scolded me for it. When I became athletic, I became isolated because my school was mainly oriented towards theory. Now at age 20, I am suffering from anxiety, high blood pressure, high pulse rate, low confidence, and I am afraid of everything. I tend to overthink and worry that things might go wrong because of me. I am on a lot of medication, but I still often hear my relatives tell my parents that it's all a facade and I am just pretending like this so that I can run away from everything.
I empathize with your situation bhai....only thing you can do is make some money so you can be independent of those toxic people and live your life in peace the way you want to.
Its ok brother you got this, become consciously dangerous i know its not easy but or koi option bhi toh nahi you have to fight alone, may god give you strength and dont you dare to give up, you are just 20 you have so so much time to improve, learn some skills and so on trust me there are people like you but in their 30s or 40s so be proud of yourself that you know there is a problem and that you know you have to solve this, its better to know early than to realise this in your 30s or 40s so lets go man 💪💪🙏
Found a job according to your interest even if it's low wages at start & try to stay away from these moron , doesn't matter even if they're your parents or relatives & then get settle alone after some savings
Same issue all same i have ocd an anxiety disorder That's why sometimes i think that either i should do something cruel to give this society a sense of fear so they don't make fun of me but i can't do this because i have very soft heart i can't even throw a stone to a stray dog.
I would only suggest you to STAY HAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. Those who always let you down are too dissatisfied in their own lives, hence can't see others happy. And it is common for girls to excel more in studies in almost all households. Adopt a dog if possible, they always send positive vibes.
This guy spitting Facts ❤
@@aashishmagar5705 was thinking same
Agreed. I also have the same understanding. I have made a similar video about teenage boys. Do watch it.
He's basically copying what Jordan Peterson has been saying..
If u heard Jordan Peterson's lectures, you'll realise he says the same time..
@@pkleffectIt doesn't matter. I know him very well. But seeing this in Hindi and reaching hindi audience is very informative to Indians.
His thinking is still influenced by feminist propaganda. And maybe he is a simp. many of the things he said was clearly showing that his thinking is anti-male.
Message to women - Congrats. You are free to do whatever you want.
Message to men - Don't get married, if you are an incel, hire sex workers, treat SWs with respect and enjoy a free uninterrupted bachelor life.
Aajkal ladke career set hone ke baad spirituality me Jaa rahe hai ..
but may to 13 year sehi spirituality me hun
lucky me 🗿
@@ASHTAR00100fuck spirituality
Aur females career set hone ke baad cheating karne jati hai as an independent and powerful female...
@@ruokff378sadly true
Same buddy main bhi spiritual hoon.
Let's all take a moment to appreciate and respect our MEN for their hard work . A huge respects for all the hard working fathers, brothers, husbands 🙏
😪❤️
Hey queen you dropped this 👑🙏
yes bro
Totally agreed 🙏
nah ...we will just die alone ....maybe we will find love in eternity
Talk about masculinity and people will call you toxic. And here men's are getting weaker physically and mentally both. Stay strong brothers . Don't let society fool you.
They became weaker because they were always protected from women and by women, now they are having to face them and compete with them. Men don’t have the prior experience of that while women just got there chance to prove themselves so they are over performing. With them even the women will get lazy like the men and both will give average output only
@@mochimmy3724wtf😂 u are saying men need protection from women😂😂 biggest joke men are protector men are becoming weak bcz of toxic feminism but don't worry manosphere will kill this too
@@mochimmy3724men don't need protection they are protector and to much mother or female love produces weak men watch fight club . Society collapse when men becomes weak . It happened in past and it will happen in future .
@@mochimmy3724#men don't need protection they are protector and too much mother or female love produces weak men watch fight club . Society collapse when men becomes weak . It happened in past and it will happen in future that's the fact .❤ And women have always less output than man that's why western company are firing then
@@mochimmy3724men don't need women protection and too much female love cause week men and output of women always been low that's why western companies firing them .
Every school need a psychologist as a teacher 😊
My school got a teacher during 11&12 and she 🤡was teaching a bit about LGBTQ I was going to get out of there or would have asked her to stfu and there are 2 gender.
This Man is helping us in such a way we need most. Let's make these videos viral. Share more and more. It can save life; save society.
Hats off to you sir.🔥
Listen to Jordan Peterson..
Most of what this guy is saying, it's taken from him..
@@pkleffect it's still good
@@pkleffect then what.. if same thing a girl would have done, ur dick would have fallen for her
To be honest I am in my 30s doing a normal corporate IT job, earning a satisfactory amount of salary to survive in tier 2 city, However I have faced many rejections on marriages proposal, I was depressed addicted to alcohol and smoking for a long time, Now in 2023 I had joined the Gym and practices shadow boxing, life is good and less stressful if you stopped taking people and society seriously, Let's take life casually with no hate ,no regrets,
Thank you bro for sharing this content
If you just can erase women and women related issues from your life then your life will be so much better .
Addiction and alcohol is not solution even a womens are depressed and rejected many times they didn't do it so chill
@@Letsgo-sg4cy if u keep ur negativity aside then only grows.. even boys helps to distoy themselves
Men should marry men
@@mohdsaqib482 then you should work on same sex marriage rights .. and ask governments to allow gay marriages
The education system is missing 2 things: education and system
It rewards obedience and destroys creativity and doesn't allow individuality. Even if girls are doing well in school it isn't really benificial to them later in life either, we must change it for everyone. We shouldn't put men and women against each other, rather they should work together.
Totally agree with you...
And this education system is wasting our lot of youth time ☹️
Thanks from manosphere ❤️🔥
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It's correct. Females want men that are better than them..... in looks, money, education.......I know because I'm going through it. Me and my gf know each other since childhood,we have a 12 year relationship. Both of our families know about us. I have full freedom to go to her house anytime,she can also come to my house.But everything is limited to between the four walls....she can't go anywhere with me...not even with our friend group,we have common friends bcz we were classmates. Her family pretends that I'm just her friend and they doesn't want anyone else to see us together outside. Recently she got into PhD and went to live with her sister... I'm still applying for govt jobs..she talked me out of doing PhD because the money won't be enough. When she got the PhD I thought that now we can enjoy our freedom a little.....but unfortunately since then I have basically become her brother....we barely see each other...sex has become extinct....her sister acts like bajrang dal.... always monitoring always regulating....we can't go to a restaurant together we can't watch a movie...we can't even lie on the bed closely......but her sister did all kind of shit with her then BF.... because he had a good job and I currently don't have one...
So now I have to get a job that is better than her....... only then I'll be promoted to her BF again ..... otherwise what will society say....
Have a pride and integrity
Pahle baat tere pass achi gf hai
Isse maat jane dena
Jaldi se koi nokri dhoond le bhai
Love from akhandsingle
Bhai tu uska gulaam ban ja, uske kutta ban ja please
Broo! Never lose hope.. Tu karke dikayegaa! For sure...
Capping hard. You're literally usernamed gigachad and referring to women as females but men as men. You're just another redditor 🍼 mate... Stop lying
You are a man, you are not a burden, you can achieve whatever you want in your life🔥 Thank you sir for thinking about this major problem ❤️
OMG your videos are always beyond anything. I have seen that ' Restricted' video before and though I am a female , I completely agree with what you say. I have an elder brother and i have closely seen the societal pressures under which men live. They have to take responsibility of the family , have to be the provider and protector , have to have so called good career , have to be good looking, earn huge and have to be 'strong' and CONFIDENT , pursue women , have to be intelligent, have to be good communicator, be able to express their emotions and also have the ability to be 'VULNERABLE' and also taking all this Sh*T , they have to be funny and have to have good sense of humor ....in order to impress a girl. Really this is so much to handle. And there are this FALSE FEMINISTS who are brain washing young women , telling them 'you don't need men' ; ' just have good career and earn money'. All this make me extremely disheartened. All the people out there , we have to understand that regardless of the gender , we all are at disadvantageous position , so we need to support each other. Please be kind to each other.
I must take some time to appreciate @Shubh. for your research and logical presentation. Video was fabulous as always and editing was EPIC , plus that unusual music in the background was killer . Keep it up
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Thanks sister for giving a logical viewpoint about it ,I hope everyone can be half as sensible as you are ...
@@SagarKumar-vl9vl Thanks I appreciate it.
Very accurate analysis done by you. 🙏
@@adishegokar I think the main problem with feminist is that they think men are trash because they commit crime...and when those top 1% get girls and those top 1% male exploit females then feminist point out all men
Correction : Tik tok handsome e boys make millions @ young age, meanwhile average guys have to build their career 😂
NO Marriage! BEST Way To Live Happily 🙏✅✅
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Hmm
WTF
@@Avian0020 shut
Mai dubara dekhe ke liye tayar hu ❤❤❤ brother
@@hduhehehgeheh3600 wo mere dimag me bhi dawnload hai 😅
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I'm 18... I FEEL PURPOSE LESS
When I try to study it's very hard to even raise my pen sand start solving a maths sum.
When I try to workout it's very hard to just start.
The only thing which is easy now is to watch RUclips......
I'm learning psychology since a very long time from Seeken Jigyaasa & I can understand that it's just a way to keep my brain busy.
I'm just consuming infotainment content from..
Seeken
Seeken Jigyaasa
Dhruv Rathee
Soch by mohak mangal
Get set fly fact
Get set fly science
Get set fly flearn
Gigl
Fundoo programming
Psychology in Hindi
I don't know in depth... That what is happening with me.
The only thing I know is I was more productive in my child hood after class 8 in 2018, I've become very less productive.
@@ayush.12444 prepare for college write competitive exams for best college it could be your short term goal if you want 🙂🙂🙂 then you can further explore in college
@@hduhehehgeheh3600 bhai merko chahiye
we are at your side. don't worry brother❤️
Woh sirf apni baat nahi kr raha dost....sare males ki bat kr raha h
@@db18135right
The problem is men are losing self respect and over valuing women. Men need to wake up now and have some self respect 😑
@Science The main reason is our culture where there is very limited male-female interaction so most men don't know how to interact with female. Lack of female interaction and awareness also leads to desperation.
True.
Exactly..
When i stop doings things for my female friends(Bcz they don't help m in my things in retrun)..In uni life..
They start degrading me..
"Toxic Masculinity doesn't exist. Toxic byproduct of mishandling masculinity exists." - This has to be the most profound statement I've heard all of 2023!!! Kya mast logical points compile kiye hai aapne!!! Love your work!! The desi narration is the icing on the cake🤩🎂!!
U r right.... stabbing a girl in a public place in broad daylight , throwing acid on someone is because of female being toxic ...guys are too innocent to even be put under trial....😅 They should go scot free for whatever crime they commit ... isn't it
@@dollops1729that's not what that meant stupid ☕
divorce is the best option for u?
Don't worry brother,we are with you❤
One major reason of men su*c*de is loneliness. In this digital age every women gets enough attention in social media but many men don't. Every one of us have friends who try to slide into girls' DMs instead of doing some productive career oriented discussions. We need a community or platform where lonely men can find like minded friends.
Only beautiful and well groomed Girls get that attention.
Shouldn't men appreciate men?...like how women do among themselves?....this boosts confidence I heard....I am not quite sure...just my opinions....men especially back away from appreciating or praising another man in the fear of being judged
@@ojastopale4865 True ....I am also a girl but because of my dark skin I don't get much attention on social media sites whereas I see my friends who are quite beautiful and shows skin get the attention ....even though I felt jealous but I can't make my dignity fall because of slight attention right?....at the end of the day knowledge and dignity lasts.
@@7wonders411 matured women queen ❤️
@@ojastopale4865 No most of the girls apply makeup on tiktok and get attention
A common notion that women try to fix unstable men and make them a better person, if it ever were true, is also changing with increasing self dependence, financial freedom and opportunities for women. In my observation and personal experience, most women don't bother helping a mentally disturbed partner in overcoming their issues anymore in relationships. It's much easier to break-up and find someone else where they don't have to put much efforts, rather than solve and grow together.
You might not believe it as you haven’t met one but there are still women who stand by their partner through thick and thin .
@@CynicalRealist8488 yeah they exist but self entitlement is increasing day by day in women specially educated women , now i'm not against women education but we should change our way of education
@@CynicalRealist8488 we found them today too. As our moms and aunts. Women of our generation are completely useless.
@@CynicalRealist8488 why would they stick to one if they have hundreds of choice waiting for them ??
@@nayanvaishnavvv hundreds of choice ? Only for a woman who has no criteria that she’s happy to go with a man who has nothing more to offer except money . I mean there are far more important things than money like character ,mentality , intellect and unless these are a match I don’t think 2 people can stay together for long and since these things are difficult to find so choices are not many like you mentioned (for women of value) . Now this also depends on men whether they wait to choose a woman of value or just cling to any woman they find physically attractive so if men make wrong choices they really shouldn’t blame a woman rather learn from mistakes and choose better next time . Same goes for women .
I am a female and I love watching your videos , really appreciate the knowledge that you share ❤
One of the best video of 2023. You are doing an amazing job man. Keep It up. And youtube always does this because the most powerful bodies of the world never wanted or will ever want to resolve all the issues.. Reason is well know to all the adult people.
"toxic by product mishandling masculinity " good point
M a girl, and I totally agree with your words❤ is topic par bat honi chahiye, solution khojni hogi aur system change Krna hoga😊
Chal bhag ku$$$yA
Sach me didi
Sala ab to girl par se bharosa hi uth Gaya
Aaj bus se utar raha tha bc piche se koi dhakka de diya samne woman ☕ thi phir hua jagda jisme mai to kewal sorry sorry keh raha tha par wo geen Kar 3chate lagayi aur public bhi Mari itna depress me agaya Hoon ki Sala dubara bus se nai aya auto reserve karvaya ,$u(ide Karne ka ma'am Kar raha hai
@@jeeteshsingh1840 please relax 🙏apke sath jo v hua wo galat hua, lekin isme apki galti nhi thi.....phir aap khud ko q hurt Krna chahte hn????? Please eise vichar mn se nikal dijie
@@jeeteshsingh1840 brother same here but if you are right slap or file and FIR make them humble
Too much freedom have poisoned thier mind
Gents are born to rule every area I am with you my bro😄
Miss immature take care of. Yourself
I hope you are as. Good as your comment😉
Nandini Bhattacharya ji too is fighting for Men's rights and Men empowerment. The misconception in India is that women empowerment is women overpowerment. Men must first learn how to be United and fight against women rapists... Men must first learn how to practice Brahmachary
I thank you on the behalf of all male population 😊😊😊
Proud to be men🔥✨
Thik hai but men hone proud karte raho ge to successful ban ne ke lie kam kab karoge....focus on your work and good luck bro🤜🤜
😔Don't Destroy Your Goal for a Hole😠
👀Focus On Your Goal Then You Get Many Holes😁
Hhh
You are absolutely right, I am a teacher in CBSE higher secondary school.... I motivate boy students if you may not like to get good marks,, then start reading motivational books and enhance your risk averser capacity and do business in future... You did good research work one more time bro, you are best👍👍👍, salute.....
Then you are the best teacher in the world
Respect sir💯
Sudharo education system ko
A real teacher focuses on practical things rather than spilling theory. You are doing great and wish there were more teachers like you
Defense aur martial arts sikhao jaise Japan aur korea mein hota hai.Unki street fight dekhi hai un boys ki movements.Aur india mein boys fight karte hai toh bas danda aur bat use karte hai.Ab toh boys ki fightings bhi kam ho gyi hai.Boys ka main maksad protect aur defense ke liye hota hai aur past mein sab soldiers the battle mein jaane wale lekin ab sb video games khelte hai.
As an ambitious woman and a teacher... I always love the open thinking in men which is lack in most of the women.. they are always supportive.. i've never seen any men in my life who ever misbehave with me, obviously it also depends on girls how they behave with them.. sometimes we need to understand them..
Absolutely right ❤
Yeah in my life most men were understanding tho I do have my fair share of harassment cases too. Especially male teachers. Very few female teachers were understanding ngl. And sometimes women shame other women for the very same problems we face (like pregnancy, periods etc.) I was even told multiple times how female coaches in trains are toxic af compared to the general male coaches. This guy is right about increasing competition among females.
Teacher ho to education system sudharo
What do you mean open thinking and are always supportive?
@@kdjoshi726which harrassment are you talking about? Also, not all men are good. Remember this, so you have to stay alert and trust no one blindly
I'm 18... I FEEL PURPOSE LESS
When I try to study it's very hard to even raise my pen sand start solving a maths sum.
When I try to workout it's very hard to just start.
The only thing which is easy now is to watch RUclips......
I'm learning psychology since a very long time from Seeken Jigyaasa & I can understand that it's just a way to keep my brain busy.
I'm just consuming infotainment content from..
Seeken
Seeken Jigyaasa
Dhruv Rathee
Soch by mohak mangal
Get set fly fact
Get set fly science
Get set fly flearn
Gigl
Fundoo programming
Psychology in Hindi
I don't know in depth... That what is happening with me.
The only thing I know is I was more productive in my child hood after class 8 in 2018, I've become very less productive.
What do u do now?
Same brother...
Acharya prashant ko add kr le, aur politics dekhle india ke....me too 18 😁, concept clear krna he too acharya prasant ko. Sun shorts.. Akdm suru se fir,
Serious mt hjna pr unko sunne lgega too life ke bht kachra aise hi saaf hjyega🙃😉
Add shwetabh gangwar
What do you do ? Don't feel hopeless do connect with good consultants or mentors for focused life .I can connect you with good one too .
Don't loose hope .Life is beautiful 😊
Thank you so much for making this video for us ❤❤❤
You definitely understand how we men feel about the society ❤❤😢
I am having some disorders, i went to the psychiatrist first time... He just didn't take any test just asked question that do you have gf ? I said no i just broke up last month.. he then said you don't have any disorder, you are in depression because of break up.. aur rudely bat bhi kri... Vahi agar koi ladki hoti to pyar se bat krta, ek ek bat sunta, puchta fir decide krta ki use kya problem h... Lekin mai ldka tha to na meri koi bat suni na koi test lia.. bs break up ka sunte hi result de dia ki depression h bs... Kisi aur expert dr k pas bad me gya tb test lia usne fir pta chala ki dyslexia h.. so ye bahut dukh deta h.. ladko ke sath iss trh se dr bhi vo bhi mental health se jude dr aise pesh ate h... Jab ki hum help mangne jate h... It's horrible
Ladko se log bahut rude hote ja rhe hai
This video is surprisingly profound ! Deeply thought of
The school age problems are very relatable to anyone who struggled to comply and restrain themselves to a textbook-exam cycle.
Great work !
I just wanted to say that, as a child I have always craved for practical learning. So the thing is didn't gave up on learning and getting good scores, i still manage to get decent scores by changing the way I learnt sure that way was very time consuming but I did that because i didn't wanted to sounded like someone who was just giving reasons not to study.
Wht change did you apply bro?
To males ....society oar schools ke rules nasediyon ne bqnaye hain ...tumhe es chain ko todd Kar Mahan banna hai ..❤
ये चैन तोड़ना सरल नही है मूर्ख
@MARATHI MANUS मिल गया सबसे बड़ा मूर्ख
Thanks for this.
Oo baate trigger kar gaya ladki ho syd😂
Shanti sadan : Shanti Shanti behen
In a family, if there are 1male and 1female child. Nowadays Male child suffer a lot by family members, society and government polices too. Male child is ordered to do all necessary household works like pick up Ujjwala gas, bring medicine, some hard labour work, drop father at bus stand and many more. But in opposite site mother don't allow their girl child to help her in household work. She also explain that girl have to go in laws, so she has to study more for getting better husband. In other hand parents ignore their male child. I notice if someone does hard labour work, he can't focus on study properly. Energy flows on muscles not for brain.
Those kinds of parents are shit. Girls should be told to go out and do chores out side the house as boys do. Boys should be told to learn household chores too. I think most of the gendered gap in society starts from parents who do not have a visionary mentality. I am from northeast and here girls do these things like riding bikes, bringing home gas cylinders and everything a boy is told to do. Similarly boys are also very good at household chores and therefore this problems are less in northeast.
@@manstarenergy respect brother, totally agree with you.
We have to create our own value in society.
Avoid women who don't value that at all cost and keep working on increasing your value.
As a high school passed man, i wanna tell today's teen specially boys that ,Elementary school is about taking or learning the things that you are interested in or your aim is. And highschool is about starting to take the step in your career field. I am not talking about school education is sh*t dont focus. Your aim is on other side so your education. In life don't worry if you are getting average marks or below average. Experience matters the most. Keep grinding. Gaming and pornography can ruin your life so be careful.
I am spoiled man. I am done with my f*cking daily life. I wanna change but its so hard that I can't. I wish i knew this before. And wish there was someone who teach and lead me like father.
I do have father but i have always been hearing "look at others, they are earning. They are doing great" since i was in 8. And the comparison was so unfair he was comparing with older people than me.
And today i have lost all my energy.
But Don't lost your energy like me. Wish you a happy life.!!
More power to you
It's a universal truth that our education system and society will never change their mindset.....so,instead of arguements we have to make our future by ourself own....
After a long a time i found a video which totally describes a men's situation 😢
Be a men it's not easy I also face daily 😑 trauma anxiety career tension lonliness and much traumatised thing 🙁
exactly, and in fact other men make fun of a man who's broke.... and when in need, no once will stand. for a V@gina, many dIckzzz will come to support.
Same pinch
😂😂😂😂 Ek bhi ladki ne comment nhi kiya😂😂😂
Feminism at it's peak😂😂
If this country faces a situation like Ukraine. That will expose the real potential of so-called feminism.
But what feminism should comment here . His video is quite right . Nothing wrong .
@@shashwatihalder4529 You did not understand my comment.
Bhai feminazi yaha pe bhi apna victim cards play karne achuke h
They have commented . I saw it , widen your eyes bro.
bro I live in western country. Man mainly loses most of his property in divorce. Women always win. so many stay alone. Also, according to law here, living together for more than 6 months is considered defacto marriage.
Hats off to you bro 😅you every time change our deeply rooted vague believes. I request you to throw some light on the human psychology in respect of the human mind 🙏
I have inattentive Adhd due to which I perform below than average, 3 time failed in NEET UG, people toned me always & I depressed , but one day magic is happend ,I noticed my problem solving skills, rate of learning new things, septial reasoning and analysis, my IQ is much higher than average people due to inattentive adhd, Guess what I become successful researcher in biotechnology field( b/c adhd people get bored and frustrated by repeated learning same thing again and again but not get bored in learning new book or learning new things).
Lesson- if you can't cure your problem make it's your superpower. 🤞
This was something new ...believe me this is my first video in which someone is talking about males problem you tube should not remove such videos it was really satisfying that someone talking about males mental problems. I respect every female but in real world mens have more mental domination to prove themselves as success in society.
ENOUGH TO MAKE A GROWN MAN CRY BROTHER,REALLY GREAT VIDEO❤🙏🤘
We Fall We Break We Fail But Then We Rise We Heal We Overcome
Finally a someone made a actual video on this topic. I am currently looking job in IT field but mostly top mnc are preferring women with bare minimum knowledge. Coz it as become to increase female employee. But male like me will do? There is already competition now women's are getting edge in jobs too coz they are women. I am highly frustrated now coz of this. A women can easily reject a job coz of location or timing issues. Her family will also support her for this. A female work late night in a office there are lots of provisions and protocol for them. If a male miss behave with a girl in a office, all males are round by in a office. I don't know but now being male in private is becoming more tough.
As boys we have to accept our life be it in terms of ups and downs, even I faced the issue during all stages of my education before being diagnosed with ADHD.. But now i accept my life in terms of the song ''Linkin Park - In the End'' as what the lyrics say!!
In the end it doesn't even matter....
Comparison, competition kisi ka moral down karne ke liye nahin hota
Nobody is perfect we all need each other
LAXMI GOOD WOMAN[
Also, When females are sad they cry and gain attention from boyfriend, best friend or family members. But, its almost impossible for a man to do the same. Holding emotions in long affects brain in a bad way.
In my case, regular meditation has helped me a lot. Meditating for just 30 minutes rejuvenates the brain function.
Meditate brothers…. It helps a lot
We need strong men's community. Unfortunately we will be lebelled as sexist.
Dude men dont even try to cry or share
Meditation is the only key
And females without any boyfriend or best friend and not ,uch understanding families?
Nowadays it's different for man to find a woman with emotions
They have emotions only for other women
@@ridhamatri9447😂😂😂
The fact that I am watching this video on repeat, tells me that how much facts you have spoken. I thank you for this video.
if you are watching repeatedly your are living on borderline. take help i suggest.
Hi bro, you are spot on. An amazing guy, intellectual and handsome at the same time. I was a skinny boy and remained skinny until college and was often bullied by my peers. Even though I was good at studies, nobody wanted to be my friend. But now, after so many years I have got an amazing personality and am surrounded by wonderful friends. I moved to Canada last year in search of better avenues for growth and employment. To all the boys and young men out there, don't quit! Your life will just get better with each passing year. Trust me, life is unfair but never take it for granted. You only live once, but if you do it right, only once is enough. In case you guys need any help, feel free to reach out to me.
Be a strong men, You are not weak, God made you alive because you are special and have a work, Accept their opinion from outside not inside, Make your own move because you have a the right to survive, Suicide means The End do you really want to end you long journey? Keep fighting 💪 You are really special you can't give up until you'll complete your work
I have lost 6 and half years doing Nothing.I am 12 pass and Now I am 23 years old.I have lost because I Was in Depression.My mental problem is from childhood because my parents quareel each other.But now I am alright and I am going to study Technical subject.
Good to know that you are doing well now, don't look back keep moving forward. Try observing your emotions as a observer and realize its all within you, you can control and channelize your emotions as per your needs.Our emotional drama can pull us down forever, on the other hand positive thoughts and emotions can take us to the places where one might have not even imagined. All the best, cheers!!
My story is the same as you I'm 23 and i also lost 6 years after my class 12 th😢
Your raised a very exigent topic brother👍
I am also suffering from the same trauma you discussed as my life is full of obstacles hampering my growth...
But I think no girl would understand my circumstances or prefer marrying me
I request everyone to think upon it and come up this growing problem of female chauvinism 🙏🙏😢
Every word is true.... As a female.... I am constantly facing this issue.... Men r becoming weak... Sometimes I can't even feel much difference between them nd me... The factor that make them man... Is declining rapidly.... Very few strong men we can see nowadays around ourselves...... May all men see this vdo nd realize the need to wake
Walk with out shirt on your apartment terrace, then you know the difference between male and female.. Men either strong or weak is men anyway. The strongness and weakness is in your perception, first change that and don't tell men how to be men because men has already a lot of mess going in their life
Nani?!
Men are not becoming weak, they just don't want to use their strengths for chivalry or helping women in trouble as they know they will get branded as serial rapist by the very women they helped
God itna bhi bewkoof nahi h …
Women ko sex ki advantage di h … to men ko testosterone ki masculine power…
Most basic needs of humans in order
1.) food 2.) shelter. 3.) medical facilities 4.) clothes 5.) sex
Suru ki 4 chej hi inportant h jab paise nahi honge indian girls apne aap black or ugly ho jayegi .. or jab earn karna padega … suntan ..dust me ..
India me job to jaise bahut h ..
Or fake cases ki wajah se koi women ko bhi nahi rakhega small scale business me 😊..
Me kudh nikal diya sari females ko corona time par ..
Bas money circulation men me rakho 😂
Or waise bhi indian girls ko phir compete karna hoga nepali girls k sath .. jo vo kabhi kar nahi sakti prostitution me 😂…
Bepali girls me fat nahi hota … skin colour white hota h .. beautiful hoti h … or nature bhi accha hota h 😊
Lmaoo
☹️❤️Thank you very much for understanding the pain and suffering inside men.
🤐
Right 👍
One of the greatest video i've seen on youtube in terms of content. Great job man. You're doing an amazing work by raising awareness on such not talked about issues which are more important than anything in present day and time.
If a boy does well in some fields, he can't appreciate by society.
women love to play victims and amplify their problems on a big scale thats why female issues are discussed openly and they are applauded for it whereas men downplay their own problems and would rather die than than talk about their problems, in fact they've become extremely good at it. hence, women run under the false impression that mens lives are absolutely perfect and they don't need any kind of support, help or appreciation.
Bruh men in authority also support womens due to their own desperation..
Men’s problems are downplayed by women
Don't stop making such videos. We are to support.🔥
12:04 It take lot of effort to overcome that loser tag. Many just couldn't able to overcome even in their entire life. When you stop giving F about people you actually start melting that tag and living happy on your own terms.
Gentlemen deserves so much respect and love for their sacrifices too. As a girl I have seen my father struggling financially though my mother and I never asked anything from him still he tries to give us more thing. I know girls there are bad men too but that doesn't mean that in this world there would be no gentlemen at all. Jai hind. Jai Bharat
Same situation here ma'am...I shouldn't share this but last day I saw my dad crying...this is not good...ofc he can cry....but it's just that I couldn't tolerate it....the society is corrupted for both genders....and it's high time we start acknowledging mens' problems....
@@7wonders411 please don't call me mam and it's really heartbreaking to hear your father's situation. I don't know if you are a boy or girl but please study so much that in future neither your father nor your partner and children in future have to see this kind of day. I hope everything becomes alright ❤️
@@armedforcesmedicalcollege1111 see why only u mention bad men lets call all men gentle man without them we can't stay happy u should mention about bad women too who down their sons purposely lol
@@shreyashreya1328 At first this video is for men so I am not going to talk about women. Then I don't feel that we should respect bad men so yeah I said this and I don't feel that I said something wrong. If you are not a bad person then u should not be offended by my comment.
@@armedforcesmedicalcollege1111 u can talk about bad women too right why bcoz these days women are teaching sons to give respect to women why bcoz women give birth blah blah am not saying that is bad but should teach their daughters to respect men without them they are not going to give birth this is the problem right
Bhai Aapne Dil Ke Taar Chedkar Rula Diya❤️❤️🥹🥹😭😭🙏🙏
Life of men is tough, females can express pain and can get sympathy but what about men? Men can't express his pain because according to society it represents Masculinity.😅 But still we don't complain and try to be happy always.😌
Namo Buddhay.😊🙏🏻☸️
Bhai there is nothing bigger than making money in these world and Patriarchy puts lot of pressure on men to go out earn for family so badi problem iss duniya me kya hogi sidhi baat men live more tough life
What's there to be proud about not showing your pain when necessary or needed!??? 🙄what he said on the video has just gone over the top of your head . No need to always put a fake smile on your face just for the sake of showing others that you are tough when in reality you are literally suffering inside your mind . Sharing or even showing the pain doesn't mean that we'll do it for 24/7 🙄 . It's okay to share your pain with your loved ones for a few times whenever needed . It won't cost anything infact it'll help depending on the person .🙄It's because of people like you some other troubled or depressed men can't get help at the right time and tends to take their life away . To share or show your weakness is to make yourself vulnerable; to make yourself vulnerable is to show your strength because it takes strength to show vulnerability . And by saying it I don't mean it in a way that someone need to literally go and share their weaknesses or pain to everyone or even their enemies , they can share it with someone who's willing to help them (be it a family member , friends or any loved & trusted ones or even a psychiatrist) .
If something isn't right or is problematic for every men then raise your voice whether it might look like complaining or anything. Had all men were like you then there wouldn't have been men like seeken jigyasa or other men activist ,psychologist etc who raised voices for men's problem & pain .
@@cruel5746 I am not saying of myself but a common man do this because of society, he is encouraged to hide his feelings and pain because it represents Masculinity.
@@cruel5746 ya it's ok to accept your failures but man should know how to control their emotions. You can see the examples of many ' chutiya' males in video. These are those people who can't control their emotions. Men should know how to do that
Meditation has changed my life. Do it regularly brother. It helps a lot
I understand the pain of men but it's also true that many men don't understand the pain of women that's why these things are happening. If men and women both understand eachother many problems will be solved automatically.
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would u accept a boy not good looking, financially unstable, but brilliant and have good personality ?
@@bappabain2142they won't
For that, there should be proper communication between men & women.
An amazing video with a great message! ✨
loved this video brother. you kinda brought up the topic that no one talks about especially in India. Your video was heart touching and as a male, i agree with you too. The males mental health need to be considered. love you bro, i hope that you'll share more content like this.
Boys are real hero of the society..❤❤❤
What is wrong with RUclips dammit. I even watched your last video. RUclips needs to get their databases correct. Btw great video of course. I was waiting for you to explain what happened to the previous video.
RUclips ne community restrictions laga di thi
@SportsGuy_24.7 Yes it was about suic*de rate of men being higher than women, almost double to quote. In the report it said every 4.45 mins in India a man takes his life and about 9 mins in India a woman takes her life. Both are not good but yes men are more prone to commit to this act of taking their life.
@SportsGuy_24.7 Ha bhai Ye RUclips ke chochle h bsss
I have been struggling as a male for more than 10 years and I'm in my 20s. Half of my life is wasted for nearly nothing.
Well said. Harsh reality of today's world ,we are just considered a bull who will be towing all responsibilities and make everyone happy but no one is gonna ask our well-being and mental state 😢 now hatred towards girls will come into existence, already started.
So i had the feminine trait of being agreeable to everything and also of the graph shown that in some useful things my ss was low when i was small till 10th std.
But from there i was not so much agreeable with my teachers about there teachings ,i know that if i questioned them or corrected them they will feel embarrassed. So i didn't question but still the good things is that i am now more disagreeable if i dont find it right, and say no to them at their faces directly.
Now i just have to increase my ss in useful things .
Thanks for making this video🙏
Actually I watched your video yesterday
After some time RUclips restricted the video . I was shoked that the truth is being repressed
I came back today to support you:-👍
I figured out the changes you made in this video
I strongly agree with your points. We are always focused to build ourselves from outside or physically ignoring the fact that health or fitness comes with being mentally strong too especially in India we are not aware about this concept of mental health or how to take care of it we simply pass our judgement by making fun of people who we find not fit for the society and when it comes to talk about men's mental health it's extremely critical in comparison to females. Our society has been patriarchal however in today's world we cannot neglect the fact that the external pressure are imposed on men make them feel depressed or alone they can't even vent out their emotions in front of others on top of that, we have set false expectations for them to be strong and rigid always. In India it's almost like a shame for a man to cry as if they are not human beings or they can't get hurt. Feminism seems a hot topic for everyone to discuss about that we don't tend to care about or atleast pay attention to their condition. I agree by the time females have replaced men in many sectors due to which our family system has destroyed as we don't perform where we are supposed to be good in order to compete with each other.
It doesn't matter men or women. It was always about completing each other not to compete with each other. This is such a shame we are ruining our future, our generation with our own hands.
I was thinking about it for a while now and so I clicked on the video and it surely gave me new viewpoints to understand men's psychology even better. Thanks
As Salam walekum meri pyari aapa Allah apki izzat ki hifazat kare ameen summa ameen
@@ShaheenKhan-jk9gq Walequmassalam my dear,
May Allah subhanauta'ala increase you and your family in every aspects of life too♥️🤲
Wow firstly I appreciate that you take a step on other people perception too.
But some of the problems are not within the idea they're in growing up i.e. parenting.
Like you said men can cry too but that is not ideal. Basically women, family and people see man as strong and courageous. And nothing is wrong in them. ( The people who say it's ok to cry are also lost respecting him and hia words subconsciously, I'm the big example for this because I used to cry a lot until my age 16 years. My own friends talking my words like crap even they're logic, my family doesn't believe in me to establish my startup and girls in my class look at me like I'm 9 years old.) Problem is not society problem is my growth and my dad didn't teach me that THE ART OF STOIC.
I'll tell more if you really interested in what I'm saying about your viewpoints with deepest truth behind it.
Cheers 🎉
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Thanks I come across this channel... At least someone is talking about the hidden pain of male... 🙏🏼🙏🏼
I would appreciate to this man for taking our stands wonderful speech nd the whole conversation was open❤thanks a lot from each and every boy/man
This is a very interesting topic you have discussed and covered often less spoken about in public domain. Hats off to you for bringing such a sharp subject into contrast picture. It's really a risky and tedious task to bring this to the table after a lot of research and data.👌
I commented yesterday also!
Man I love the topics you take to talk
Broo your channel is too logical intellectual , scientific. great work and you have in-depth understanding
Definitely need to have 'Gender Equality' in our society
More power to men!
You are so strong ✨
Deep respect for you!!!
Kitna saap bno ge 🙂 mai toh soch skta hu bs khuch likes k liye ☠️ itna saap bnne ki jrurat aanpdi 🙂 pta nhi kitno ka jindgi brbad kro gi tum
@@dangaman1916 bhai, kehna kya chahte ho!?
Sab ko ek saman hi samajh te ho?
Kuch cheezein dill se kahi jaati hain, mehsoos krke..meko hua bol diya
Ab agar tumko nahi hua aur accha nahi laga isme meri koi galti nahi
Bhagwaan aapko thodi badi soch dein!
Mere bhai...agar aapne gender equality likha hi hai to completely express krte hue likho na..."more power to men "-> ye likhna kaha se gender equality signify krta hai?
@@ruhiparween3356 We talk about women empowerment, we are talking about lgbtq. Lil, are we talking about men. It was more like a shout-out for them and much in context with the video, hope you understand.
More power not just to me but to all! ✌✨
@@baymax6199 thik hai ...sab log baat krte hai women empowerment, women rights etc...but guess what?...at the end hota kya hai ? Ye sab chijein kya real me implement hoti h...nahi!!!! ..humein aaj bhi ghar se bahar kisi sunsan raste par chalne se pahle sochna padta hai ki kahi kuch ho na jaye...aaj bhi girls agar bahar nikalti hai to majority of boys bhediye ban ke ghoorte hai....aur bhi bahut taqleefein hai jo sirf females ko hi jhelni padti hai...aur isme v aapko takleef hai ki log iss par bat kre!...waah!
Thank you for supporting males 😔😢
We support you brother beyond the youtube algorithm 👊🔥🖤
I am a 39 yr old woman & i have always hated school. For its pointlessness on so many levels. The curriculum which i kept questioning but also the morals taught in western influenced schools (Icse, cbsc etc.) which promote comparison & also hatred, superiority-inferiority, groupism, sexual energy etc. within students. There's also the rich vs not so rich phenomena. Such schools are just places for slaves. I wish gurukuls & their essence comes back.