The Mansplain Podcast Reacted To My Video About Them
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"When any man gets close to a woman, we naturally want to start doing stuff to them."
Stay away from my grandma
underated comment
😂😂😂😂
Dudes coping with the fact that without jesus and the threat of hell he'd have rapey thoughts
Can’t even go to family reunions these days
Chris-chan...
Shoutout to the person in chat who said "fellas, is it gay to have friends?"
I legitimately laughed out loud
Time stamp please?
provide timestamp or judgement shall come for you
@@agua246 maybe 41:44 ??? might be someone else that typed a similar thing
@@anaigrimaldo612 11:45
It is indeed very gæy to have friends💫
the hypocrisy of them saying gender doesn’t have an impact on identity and ten minutes later saying they can’t be friends with women because they’re too different…
Bruh they’re surviving on the half of a brain cell they’re sharing between the five of them. Leave em aloneeee.. 😫
DUDE, like I was just about to say that.
WAS JUST ABT TO SAY THIS LOL
@Okaro Shinn you should shut up imo
@@rabcy4400 melt brain
“Men view women differently than women view men”
I view men as people, what do they view me as, dish soap??? 💀
Lmaooo
Baseball cards
probably when you realize how many times they've most likely asked a woman to do the dishes lmao
More like the dishwasher.
@@Gillion_x3who’s supposed to do them 😂
"Women and men can't be friends."
Just say women don't want to talk to you and leave.
fr plus the testosterone thing is so dumb, like, does this guy knows that men and women have the EXACT same hormones ????
@sir, this is a Benny's I guess so lmao what a dummy
It is so crazy to think of excluding an entire half of the world from your life experiences and social circles because you have one (1) woman you get to sleep with in your life. Imagine cutting off all but one (1) woman (outside of family) out of your life because you see them and their importance in the world to be so miniscule and basically non-existant outside of the individual need of maternal and sexual affection. Absolutely batshit lol. 💀
literally
Tell it like it is 🚶♂️🚶♂️
As a woman, I would genuinely be PISSED if my partner gave up their friends because we were together. That’s some unhealthy bullshit behavior.
Right, if you did nothing wrong then he’s the problem.
same here. i only date other women so the dynamic is a little different, but if my girlfriend were to ditch all her friends as soon as we started dating and only wanted to be around me, i'd be wicked concerned about what kind of person i'd just entered a relationship with. either that or i'd be worried about what kind of vibes i'm accidentally putting out there that made her think i'd be upset about her having friends.
yeah i don't like it either if ever get a man i pray he doesn't lose his friends like no go out bruhh i don't like too much attachment go have fun just be responsible tho ..u miss me call me...
Wait you mean women actually exists?
You also have to remember if he just cuts off all the platonic relationships he has with women like that he’d most likely expect you to no longer have male friends because of this weird idea all men are after one thing
Cody and Noel have Girl Defined, and now Nick has Mansplain. It’s the Circle of Life.🙏🏼💖
Isn't it beautiful☺
Girl Defined and Mansplain, match made in heaven
@@asuka-ryo if these are the kind of people god likes then i'd rather be friends with the devil
my reply got deleted 😔
I can’t believe I just found Nick!!
Anytime someone says "iT's JuSt A jOkE" after an offensive joke towards women, is a just a sign of trying to normalize misogyny, you can not convince me otherwise
Yep
I think as long as the maker of the joke knows it’s offensive/wrong and actually respects women, it is pretty ok with me.
YES ABSOLUTELY
We call those the Schrodinger's Douchebag.
Facts. Anytime anyone uses “it’s just a joke” after anything racist, sexist, misogynistic, etc. it’s absolutely an attempt to normalize. Especially since that kind of behavior has become increasingly inappropriate for more & more people as the generations with whom that behavior was accepted become less & less relevant & fade into a minority belief system
my dad doesnt have friends that are women but he still found a way to cheat on my mom for three years so I think platonic relationships don't mean you're gonna cheat.
I-
Can I laugh?
yeah, another reason not to trust someone who doesn't befriend someone of the opposite sex. kind of an excellent excuse to be hypocritical
The fact that he had zero platonic friendships with women shows that he just doesn’t see women as human beings
My mom did the same thing to my dad lmao
@@gato8008 🤝
the beautiful irony of them dismissing any criticism nick makes with "it was just a joke", n then taking all of nick's jokes literally 😭
Exactly! Lmao
Yes 😂😂
fr it's never a joke when it's about them 💀
He does the same to
5.1k likes here✨
jokes aside long haired dude saying all men wanna do stuff to women when they’re near them gave me literal chills that dude is terrifying
straight up im always on edge around men for this reason. so many of them think this way and it’s terrifying.
@@emilycrawford8013 I’ve been in a relationship for 11 years and I’m still scared. Even when you tell them your with someone they still don’t give up and try to pressure you more.
@@emilycrawford8013 as a male i've never met another male that genuinely thinks this way there's a reason their podcast was unsuccessful and died it was doomed from the start tbh
@@ZaWRLD “as a male” is when you should’ve stopped.
@@user-vm6mw5xw7o Maybe you wouldn't have that mindset if you gave genuine feedback instead of just insulting others. so rather than trying to better myself instead it just makes me mad not helping you or literally anyone else for that matter that fact that you even made this comment in itself is embarrassing.
the "HE SAID US" part of this video makes me truly hysterical
Time stamp?
@@Jocesuh 47:00
and now I understand why the third channel is named that, it all makes sense now
But I don’t get why it’s so funny to him? That bit was hilarious but I didn’t get the cause of it..
@@yazee08he’s high
Some solid dating advice: never ever ever EVER date anyone who thinks they can only be friends with their own gender 🤢
PERIOD
Probably pretty solid idea to avoid them as friends, too. Or just avoid them in general lol.
Yeah that gives me the vibes that the second they are alone with a woman they'd cheat on you because they can't control themselves 🤣
@@dessenlover it very much gives me I refuse to me alone in a room with another woman for ominous reasons and I call my wife mother vibes
@@dessenlover It also gives me rapey vibes
"when a man sees a woman he naturally wants to do stuff"
every lady in that chat pullin out the pepperspay
seriously how freaking creepy is that
When I see a rich man, I get the urge to kill him and take all his money. That’s why my body count is so high.
I'm ordering tasers who wants?
Funny how Jesus literally says in the Bible that if a man looks at a woman and has such thoughts about her, he's already sinned in his heart
Dude, I think even the guys in the chat pulled out pepper spray from the comment.
I’m a lesbian, and all my main friends are women and I’ve never fallen for them or thought of them romantically. But they can’t be true friends with women without different considerations? That’s a YIKES from me.
cause you don't have testosterone so you don't actually want women /heavy sarcasm
@@skeleletonboi4533 They will shit themselves when they find out all humans have testosterone and estrogen (just in different proportions that vary a lot within female, male, and intersex people) 🤣🤪
Like yeah that’s weird you can think about it. I have women friends and sometimes yeah it does cross my mind sometimes, doesn’t mean I can’t be friends with them
@@Nothingtoseehere-eo7zq yeah same
It's probably cuz they're like, closeted sex offenders and I wouldn't be surprised if they get arrested at some point
The most frustrating part for me about dudes like this is how they aggressively project their own misogyny and sexual frustration onto all men. Just because you personally are incapable of being a normal fuckin person around women, doesn’t mean I am.
As a bisexual man this video taught me the much needed lesson that I am fully incapable of having friends. My bad y’all I didn’t know I needed to have sex with everyone I see
My brother is trans and for a while his testosterone level was too high, and I can confirm that he did not turn into a misogynist republican.
I took it and mostly I was just angry and sweaty a lot and it enhances your sex drive but doesn't make you uncontrollable ffs
They don't Even know how testosterone works, same with the alpha stuff, they just take a bunch of definitions and twisted them to excuse their sht
That's good. My 11 year old nephew and his best friend haven't turned into a misogynistic republican, neither have any of my male friends
I swear someone donate some dictionaries to these people because they truly don’t know the definition and function of things lol.
Or a misogynistic Democrat.
HE LOOKED SO SCARED WHEN HE SAID “unless you’re a femboy”
he was
totally revealed his search history with that joke
@@Fox_Olive IM DYING
NAHHH LITERALLY BRUH! He did that stare someone does when they want to see how people react so they can change their reaction
He said 👀👀👀👀
i could guarantee you that if it had been a *woman* who had made the video about them, they would not be treating her with as much respect as they treated nick with 😭
I'm surprised they treated nick with respect actually.
i cant stop thinking about this, it’s so true
This hits so hard
I didnt think about it like that. But, yeah. Thats the smoking gun. The undeniable proof that gender as well as sex plays a major role in human interaction
I was thinking that same thing. This proves nicks points all at once!
You don’t have to get intimate in friendships, y’all can just be buds who do fun shit together no need to get personal. That’s a platonic friendship
But to be clear, you can also be intimate in platonic friendships by sharing your feelings, goals, and thoughts about life.
Platonic just means not sexual
@@honey2826or romantic?
@@honey2826And not romantic
Misogynists really need to learn that “it’s just a joke” does NOT cancel out misogyny. It normalizes misogyny.
This X1000 !!!!!!!
misogyny is the only "comedy" they know, they can't let go of it
I remember when some rando told me they hoped I died and when I said something back their friend defended them saying it was just a joke 💀
Preach Murren.
oh they know, they love playing dumb
seeing their dynamic makes me so tense? it feels like all 5 of them are secretly fighting for dominance and at any moment someone could be eliminated
One can only hope :)
it's like sexual tension but the opposite
@@eg816 aggressive tension
I've noticed this sort of "dominance competition" to be a feature (not to mention a red flag) in "bro-groups" of macho (and often times misogynistic as well) guys when they get together/interact with one another.
Toxically masculine guys like this will get into this sort of competitive mode intentionally or unintentionally whenever two or more of them get together, or even sometimes in any interaction they have with any sort of guy, even if the other guy is just vibing and not trying to compete like this.
As you can imagine, it's exhausting to both witness and especially experience, and I would imagine it is exhausting for the guys themselves to strive to perform this aspect of gender constantly.
Who will get voted off Survivor
SIMPisland
Mans just admitted he can’t control himself in front of women 🤨🤨🤨 🚩🚩🚩
That made me very very uncomfortable
@@lexthechex same i was like 💀✋🏻 re-fucking-wind please
A fully trained dog, despite cannot speak a human language, can fully understand “no” “stop” “don’t”. So if a dog can understand that, then it means they can too. But they don’t care, and that’s a huge problem. Men that act like this would commit violence because they believe they have the power to control the people that they believe is weaker than them.
As someone who grew up in that type of Christian environment. You are taught basically that to not be friends with the opposite sex. As men, basically your urges are so overwhelming that you have to hold off until marriage (basically) So in a way I get that. However it doesn’t excuse that the way he views that is backwards
I can't control myself around women, but in the sense that I forget how words work when I talk to somebody who's really cute
As a gender-fluid person I can confirm that when my gender aligns more with male/masculine all respect for women just evaporates
as it should!
50 minutes of reacting to men who don’t know the difference between “platonic” and “romantic”
The allos are at it again
while confidently saying they know the difference
I was searching for a comment like this 🙏
deadass
The way they described the difference between "platonic" and "romantic" made me lose brain cells within seconds. It's so damn confusing on how they described it
I like the whole men and women can't be friends thing because as a bisexual it means I can't have any friends. I mean, I don't. But that's cause of my shitty personality.
💀💀omggg this was tooo funnnyyyy, felt this tho
this shot me in the heart pls
Same.
Couldn’t relate more, iconic
Too real lmao
“Accountability feels like an attack when you’re not ready to acknowledge how your behavior harms others”
I am saving this.
Asad Parvez Yeah I agree
This video is quite the conundrum.
It's literally a video about a guy reacting to a video, of some guys reacting to a video of that same original guy reacting to a video of the guys that the original guy reacted to...
Quite a mindbender
Best quote I’ve seen in yeeeeears👌🏼
@@Dwyanerose you commented that three or more times already
I am AFAB and I have naturally high testosterone. Can confirm that everyday I struggle in not saying something completely misogynistic.
Women??? Exist??? We CANNOT be friends 😤😤😤
I'm so proud of you for not including a derogatory term towards women in this comment ❤️ ur struggles are soo valid
as an ex catholic now i get why i felt so led on by so many youth group guys. it’s because they don’t know how to separate platonic and romantic relationships with people of the opposite gender. it’s either “we barely know each other so we can’t get deep” or “i know them too well so now i must be romantically interested” and they don’t even know they’re doing it
Ex Christian here,, I struggle with this myself and hate it.
It's so stupid cuz at the core the message is "you can't be deep and vulnerable with your platonic friends, (especially if they're women) that's only for your spouse."
sometimes still I feel like I'm always going to have this be corrupted in my mind because of what church drilled into my head growing up, making relationships and gender roles so strict and complicated
I briefly went to a youth group as a teen. Promptly left when one guy i thought I'd made friends with came up to me and said no one at school believed he had a girlfriend and he was so happy we were together 🤡 i still feel kinda bad for ghosting the whole church but it scared the crap outta me. We'd spoken maybe 2hrs total
@@shrimpscampin as long as your aware and can tell yourself it isn't true when your brain does the 'programmed' response it will get easier ❤ it can take the brain years to catch up to what we actually believe to be true
This explains so much- like I’m a lesbian and this one friend I had kept hitting on me (he is Christian or branch off that religion) and because we were close friends I guess he thought it meant like more but like… I am gay so I never got how he thought that. I’m not friends with him anymore so anyways
@@herenow4550 I've known I need therapy but unsure of which method to approach. CBT is one that has seemed the most useful but worrying about making the best choice for my money is a bit paralyzing. Your comment is encouraging me to follow my intuition that cognitive behavioral therapy is a good place to start
It’s so embarrassing seeing how much all of them are trying to impress eachother 😭💀
they're fighting for dominance because they want to be seen as alpha and it's so cringy
sounds a little bit fruity to me 🤔
its fruity af fr
They’re so gay
Right !! 🤣🤣
Nothing has lead the youth away from Christianity more than christians like this
And imagine if Jesus is real.... what happens after they die??
@@mistressofstones they will go to hell
I was a great catholic (liked mass, volunteering, did sunday school, communion, confirmation, etc.), but as a lesbian, Christians literally pushed me out over their hatred and renewed god-fearing bs that made me want die (luckily, I wasn’t actively suicidal, but I basically didn’t want to exist for 3 years in MIDDLE SCHOOL). Christianity isn’t necessarily bad on its own, but the manipulation of it for personal and political gain and lack of self-reflection have ruined its future.
@@ladynoluck Sadly for me one of my moms friends called me "sick" for accepting Gay people :(
@@serenity5702 i’m sorry. That’s completely against the lessons we are supposed to learn from Christianity 😞
As a woman, thank you for standing up to these guys! It’s hard to listen to let alone talk to people like this when you are a woman and they are invalidating You the whole time.
"If a woman says it's offensive, it's offensive."
Well I mean, yeah, that's how it works. If someone punches you, they don't get to decide if you're feeling pain or not.
EXACTLY
But what happens if a different woman says it’s not?
@@dewdew4047 then you say okay all good and keep it moving. Women are not a monolith
@@SB-pq8fu I’m just asking because it comes off weird to me when I see other people online be like “if so and so says it’s offensive to (insert group here) that means it’s offensive”
@@dewdew4047 Here’s the thing, they’re are plenty of women out there, that to seek male validation, inherently develop internalized misogyny.
Which is ironic, because assuming that to relate to men, you have to be misogynistic, is inherently misandristic.
The whole point is, that if you yourself, who is not apart of said community, say something about that community, and a majority of people from that community say it’s offensive, it probably is. Just because there’s a spoonful of women who make they’re whole personalities “Not GettIng offEnDed” doesn’t mean that what you said isn’t offensive. It’s the same as saying “Well I have a black friend..” when saying something inherently racist to black people.
The "men wanna do things to women when they're nearby bc of testosterone" is absolutely horrifying
all i can say is any man who has that mentality around me will have asked for a wound 🔪
The scary part is that I've been told this by my mom MY MOM, and because of that I believe it's reasonable. But ofc im more mature now so I know better. 😔
@@Katehm2037 i’m so sorry your mom instilled those TOXIC ideals in your head. i’m happy for you that you are wiser now and see that she was wrong to tell you that.
U don’t feel anything when ur around someone u find attractive?
@@sharticus-jh7qn well it’s something her mother told her so really i don’t know who to blame. Ive made peace with it. But the sad thing is that many other girls in my country don’t realize that.
i had a pastor tell my congregation that even if a woman or girl that he knew was in danger or injured he wouldn’t pick them up in his car in order to resist temptation…. like no you’re just a creep
also i am no longer religious lmao
that is so wild
Holy shit that's so disgusting
🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
Facts.
If u see a LIVING CREATURE specifically HUMAN, on their death bed… and you won’t help your urge to have dex with them will take over and “cause you to do things”
You can visibly see the moment that they realize this isn’t just some roast video and go “oh shit, he’s actually about to drag us through mud without breaking a sweat”
Girl ate them right on up in the calmest way
I was there and watching nick gradually get more hostile towards the christian podcast bros as the stream went on was literally priceless
he has the patience of a saint lol, because the deeper you get into each and everyone of them the worse it gets
frfr
How did you have patience to watch it?
@@miss42310 lol I was doing notes for school at the same time, with the stream on in the background
It was totally beautiful to behold
big nik saying “he just singlehandedly caused a rift in the podcast” and immediately deflecting, then leaving like a week later is… beautiful
LMAO
Wait what?! He left the podcast?!
he LEFT? PLS THATS SO FUNNY GAFEWGEHWHEJW
I didn't know he LEFT LMAOOO. Interesting moment in history to have watched happen 😂😂
Faith please don’t leave us hanging give us the deets
As a trans man who has been on testosterone for six months, I can confirm that my respect towards women has completely disappeared! Because that is EXACTLY how hormones work!
Ayyy a fellow transmasc I’m also six months on t I think a bit longer but close
Can totally confirm, I'm 2 years on T now and its made me believe women are a wholly separate species. It's crazy what a little hormone can do to a man. uwu.
@@WetRatGaming HELP THE UWU
Damn, it's crazy how I'm a Trans woman and taking E made me call every Man a racist, mysogynistic pig.
One year on T and I can finally make a woman cry just by looking her in the eyes!!! Makes me feel so manly uwu
For how much they talk about automatically being attracted to any female within proximity, I'm really hope that doesn't include their sisters. Cause I'm just getting that fundie "I'd date my sister if I could" kinda vibe.
Dudes who can’t have platonic relationships with women generally can’t have healthy platonic relationships with other men either. That is HEAVILY palpable in how they interact on this podcast.
TRUE
Fax!
Based
That's true but just a side note: the way that Americans use the word Platonic give me seizures
@@felipecagorago ??? The only definition of platonic that I can find is essentially “a close relationship between two people who are not dating or having sex.” That’s the only definition I’ve ever known and google isn’t showing me anything otherwise 🤷🏻♀️
“Well, men have testosterone!” ….everyone does?? The levels are just different. The fact that they try to use “science” as an argument for their ideas and don’t even know the most basic thing…. I’m screaming.
Idk why people like this think testosterone is some goddamn magical ichor. It’s a single hormone. It’s not God.
Trans men that take testosterone don’t become unable to interact with women without wanting to do them every second and women with higher testosterone levels don’t get extremely high sex drives in fact testosterone isn’t even linked to sexual desire in men and women but these bozos will probably never do extra research to figure that out they’ll just use it as an excuse to be misogynistic
@@Andrea-rc1gz Right. Some of them literally have more testosterone than men at times and they still act normal
@@Andrea-rc1gz I take me some of that testosterone and I’m trans. Bruh if any other trans men, and there have been, try to act like testosterone is either the only thing that makes them male or masculine and they act in ways that society has normalized men to act, then they have very skewed views of what they expect from transitioning to male really does & they also are probably down the road going to regret the decision and make other trans men look strange. What a hormone does physically or mentally to a person does not = hey lemme be sexist & not have empathy. They’ll just act “stereotypically male” which is just that...a stereotype and then pull the testosterone card. And I’ll side eye those people forever.
Now because I realize I probably am coming off with a sort of grandiosity, I acknowledge any anger this may pull from someone. But I didn’t learn this before I too sat in this toxic headspace at a time, even contributing to it by exchanging those views with other males who weren’t even trans.
The battle against misogyny and the discrimination of any person really is not something a hormone gives or takes away, that’s just your head and your view of the world. Hate will always exist, but you could always try harder to not be a booty hole.
The decision to act this way is 100% influenced and encouraged by society, it is not genetic, it’s gross and everyone needs to pretend they didn’t come across this comment because I have no idea where I was going with this. Thanks!
Ignore this.
So infuriating, if they’d just literally google it they’ll see every person has testosterone! And it has a huge part in the female reproductive system just like the male system!
Big Nick has a trans sister and it makes me worry about his interactions or even maybe shunning of her because of his newfound faith.
Family reunions are hell I JUST know it
Thank you for putting this out there, Imma pray for her to be safe from whatever tomfoolery he may put his sister through under “the name of the Lord”. 🙏🏼🙇🏻
That makes me very concerned about his "femboy" joke
@@gh0stcup same
damn i wonder how she must feel about seeing what Big Nick has rabbit-holed into :(
I love the editing choice to zoom in on Nick’s face and go quiet while Nick latches on to “He said us” and then playing flight of the valkries as Nick rips into him as if the editor is saying “Yeah, get his ass!’ Editing that feels like a conversation is good editing. Good job Ethan.
Psst! It’s Hall of the Mountain King
@@MissE_Art ahh, my elementary school knowledge of classical music has failed me. How could this have possibly happened?😔
Can someone please explain this part? I missed the context and don't understand why that was a focus 🤷
@@sweetfreeze5528 me too 😢
@@sweetfreeze5528he said us I think
as a bisexual, i have made the healthy decision to not be friends with anyone as i can't not think about sex when i associate myself with them.
I’m pansexual I don’t even hang out with humans anymore I only talk to Lizards and Mark Zuckerberg
@@wavecityfox7900 So just lizards, then.
@@devindalton4688 lizards do hit different , tho 😳🤒🥵🥶
This but it wasn’t my choice!
@@wavecityfox7900 so basically a lizard and a rich lizard? SMART.
Lmao, the funny and sad part is you know they wouldn't be this chill about it if a woman did the exact same video.
Oh for sure. Theyd be asking why shes single and not taking care of her man. I feel like they also wanted to be meaner but had to stick to what theyve said before which is "men right women wrong"
@@saltydinonuggies1841 Honestly
they would dismiss all criticism and ignore it because its just a 'triggered feminist'
I WAS LITERALLY THINKING THE SAME THING
That’s why I actually think it’s so important for allies to make videos calling out people/issues on groups they aren’t affected by. Like there’s this channel that talks about movie troupes and he’s made some on several misogynistic troupes that I have never even thought about or picked up on before hand and I really appreciate that a guy made those videos because if a woman had made them they wouldn’t have been taken as seriously.
The silence after “unless ur a femboy” has me HYPERVENTILATING
Too much for even the mysogyny podcast
he just wants to see Nick in cat ears and a maid dress 😳
@@coatimundi69 😲
@@coatimundi69 isn't that what we all want? 👀
But in the original podcast Jon Michel had pigtails and look like he was wearing make up, he looked pretty feminine to me
"when a man sees a woman, he naturally wants to do stuff"
And they were confuse as to why women says "men r tra$h" or when a woman feels unsafe with men.
No because you know they’re not friends when they can’t disagree with each other. Other podcasts have tons of arguments and debates cos the hosts are actual mates and are comfortable with disagreements lmao
They do disagree with each other tho
You can see the tension. Like, you don't fear saying the wrong thing around friends. You don't have those like making jokes and feeling immensely awkward and just letting people ignore you, you don't have to fight to speak up, there's a natural flow when you have genuine friendship. I rarely have ever felt like genuinely unheard when around friends, and if I do, I speak to them about that, presumable in this scenario, off camera. If a joke falls flat, people ask questions or give pity laughs, they aren't fucking weird enough to just ignore you.
Friendship comes with trust and a level of comfort in one's presence. They just don't seem entirely relaxed in each other's presence.
Not to say they aren't friends, but they don't seem like close enough friends to be making a whole goddamn podcast with. :?
@Miriam Svenson Exactly. Making jokes that go too far will get called out but friends know it's not malicious but just a misstep, a clueless or ignorant remark, etc., they know better than to shame a person they care about because they messed up.
Plus friends can have civil debates that crop up without warning that don't lead to discomfort or discourse. If it heads that direction, friends know to shut down the argument to preserve the friendship, hence you'll agree to disagree if you're tired of the debate/argument and/or start to feel more emotionally compelled or that things are getting tense.
Not to mention how friends can have different views and just not even need to debate it. I'm non-religious, I consider myself an agnostic apathiest. I don't think it's my place to decide whether a religion is right or wrong and I don't think I have the capability to know for sure, and honestly, even if a higher being came before me and told me they existed, I don't think I'd suddenly change how I live my life. I do my best to be morally good, and if a higher being doesn't agree with my morals of good and bad, then why would I want to end up in their eternal playground anyways? I'll take the risk of eternal damnation over the risk of there being no afterlife and having wasted my life on things that could potentially be meaningless.
I've had plenty of very religious friends, and the reason we get along is we are both able to recognize that us having differing views on the world doesn't mean that one of us has to be right or wrong, nor does it mean that we have to disagree with each other constantly. I don't know if there's a god, but when I speak on the matter I refer more hypothetically, because again, I don't know. That's not me being disrespectful intentionally, and most of my friends recognize that. And I like to show genuine curiosity to their particular way of thinking in the bounds of their religious belief. It's a generally educational conversation we can have, where we recognize we may have different opinions, but we don't have to be at each others' throats but rather learn and grow from one another and enjoy a pleasant conversation on religiosity.
To me, that's a sign of at least a good friend, not even per se a best friend, because I feel comfortable enough around them to discuss subjects where we have very opposing views without any discourse or even debate, but rather sharing our sides in a friendly non-combative way, and we can enjoy our differences as humans.
Of course that requires a level of maturity I doubt these men have. :T
Like for example from a better podcast: Unlimited bacon, but no games; or Games, unlimited games, but no games?
thinking about the trash taste boys and how every other minute you have garnt and connor picking fights.
john michael saying that the only person he would give a ten in emotional closeness is his wife is such a huge red flag. so many men like him will use their wives as their singular emotional dumping ground while simultaneously doing no emotional labor for their spouses
It's sad for so many reasons
Not to mention I don't even understand how you can form such a deep, intimate, super intense, 10/10 relationship with a girl if you're afraid to have a girl as a friend lmao
@@crazygur1y exactly! 😂
@@crazygur1y cuz in their mind it doesn't work stranger to friend to gf to wife. It's probably most naive christian woman to wife, to personal tool and therapist lol
yes and then they end up living a really sad lonely life with NO REAL FRIENDS
it’s a sign if immaturity
couldn’t be me doe
The secondhand embarrassment I’m experiencing right now is physically unbearable, but it’s so satisfying to watch
I’m hiding in the comments so I don’t have to face what reactions they have lmao
@@Toasted.Pencils okay same i'm like wincing and i'm here hiding in the comments
It hurts so good
It hurts everywhere
23:53 💀
All these dudes have big "Where's my hug?" energy.
It's so weird to watch them be like "oh yeah he's funny" "he's spitting facts" "no he seems cool" to "oh no we just realized he actually did his research on us and isn't stupid so let's make really bad comebacks and pretend to laugh at the horrible jokes the others make" every 2 seconds. It's like they can't make up their minds about whether they want to befriend Nick or punch him lol.
Or make out...
@@jaymesEo6 ayo 😳
@@jaymesEo6 😏
@@jaymesEo6 teehee
nah they were def complimenting him to trick him into coming on their podcast and humiliating him. so glad he shut it down fast.
The fact that the entire time Nick is trying to say that they cut him off.... THEY'RE CUTTING HIM OFF!
Big nik small voice :(
RIght, and when he said it like for a fifth time and the golden retriever-looking guy (I don't remember his name) was about to unpause the video to cut him off. lmfao big nick is lacking some self respect
Good
Gabe’s blank stare and unmoving smile is so unnerving. He’s like a default Sim that didn’t load in correctly.
a non-speaking npc
abnormal titan
Literally spit out my drink 😂😂😂.
I’m literally playing sims while watching this video. Your right 😂
👁👄👁
“I don’t believe in platonic friendships with the opposite sex”
So Mary Magdalene wasn’t one of Jesus’ closest companions?
Nah,They fucked by those guys logic.
with healthy limits i guess HEH 🤍 and that's GOOD. 🙂
the whole “she’s not gonna f*** you bro” rebuttal that these misogynists have is so sad and lame because why can’t there be men who defend women or just believe women deserve rights without getting any type of sexual attention from women? so we only deserve human decency if we provide sexual favors? goodbye.
Yeah they truly believe every woman owes them sex
@@Andrewbait she's not asking him to... can you read?
exaCTLY
@@gray.2081 Please go back to Reddit
I’m like…
I guess my gay brother’s automatically misogynistic now…
Then again, these people are both “not homophobic”… but also don’t bring up what they believe might happen to him when he dies… or WE die, not sure how God’s going to like my bisexuality…
The only thing funnier than their fake, obligated laughs is when Big Nicks jokes sandbag into a different dimension.
The laughs are so uncomfortable 💀
This video is quite the conundrum.
It's literally a video about a guy reacting to a video, of some guys reacting to a video of that same original guy reacting to a video of the guys that the original guy reacted to
Wow
I rarely feel secondhand embarrassment, but when Nick made that fem-boy joke and he visibly waited for laughter..... Yah that one hit different.
Why do you sound like that
@@leonardoenriquechaconagraz7302 o oh o oh ooooo
I wouldn't say roasted as much as eloquently pointed out the flaws in all their opinions. Also just how awful what they say is to and about girls. Thanks for being a great example of how to be a respectful guy in 2021
Yeah they're gonna have a shock when they're gonna watch that video and realized what's Nick actually roasting people.
literally! the fact they think this is just a roast rather than pointing out genuine concerns with what theyre saying shows theyre not gonna change their bullshit thought
you mean to be a decent guy....cuz these guys are below the bare minimum.
@@lizmarrin8676 NBC bc c B
nick is really a great example of what it means to be a respectful, good guy. he gives me hope in men. lol
I could never have kids with a man that doesn’t believe in platonic relationships with women because clearly they don’t view our humanity in its fullness. Same type of men to treat their daughter as their property. I also love how they just leave out the possibility of *gasp* befriending a woman you’re not attracted to 😮. Their only motive to even attempt to connect with women is sexual, which feels inherently predatory.
I know they’re homophobic so this isn’t something they considered, but like who tf are bisexual men supposed to be friends with then??
"Testosterone makes me do things to women" said the male man to the judge during the r*pe trial
Knew I recognised it from somewhere
@@neuro_4385 wait did that actually happen?
male man
@@vanessashola6806 most likely. So many men say that after r@ping a woman to “defend” themselves in any way that ends up not working at all
Right, speak on it
I feel like I‘m dying of cringe… They are proving Nicks points. If he is male, he can decide if it is offensiv, if he is a women, he could not.
I was confused because I didn't know if you were talking about big nic, or regular Nick
@@samueldeadman5733 its Nick points being proven against big nik I believe. If that helps. 😂 so big nik crew get to choose what’s offensive and a women being offend is not really her being offended because they don’t see it as such. I guess 🤔
@@samueldeadman5733 "there can only be one Nic(k) in this town, partner."
Exactly. I could only think about the fact that if it was a woman reacting they would have the nastiest reactions
@@luizapinavaz3347 So true
It's so interesting to watch a group of guys who think they are best friends slowly realize they genuinely don't like each other. They actually don't know how to be friends and think working together made them a friend group. It would be sad if they weren't all terrible people.
You can watch the relationship deteriorate. Them watching that video tore them apart
its kinda sad honestly
@@teamcynda6202 yep, and after this video was posted that deleted all their videos and stopping making the podcast lmao.
@@Nicklovesmw2 are you serious?? 🤣
@@Nicklovesmw2 wait did they really
The rewatch value on this one is amazing:D keep coming back every three months
The fact that nik sent him a dm like “haha no hard feelings” is that kind of submissive behavior from men i love to see
breedable energy
@@skeleletonboi4533 facts
SCREAM
Dam your creepy
Uh weird?
21:00 I am so sick of everyone thinking that women don't have testosterone and men don't have estrogen. It's on different levels, sure, but we both still have both hormones. And as someone who took T I can assure you that having heightened testerone, while it does increase sex drive, does not affect your ability to interact with others respectfully.
Back at school i was once laughed at for saying that women do have testosterone
@@judy1982 what school did u go to? 😭
@@aevovae im from Lebanon and it was actually a good school but the students were trash lol
I didn’t know. Thank you 😊
Women have testosterone normally unless they’re on their period
Do…do they not know that Jesus also had close female friends? Like Mary and Martha, the sisters of Lazarus? Like the bible straight up says that he loved them and were close to them, but he didn’t marry or date them. So if they are suppose to be followers of Christ and be more like Jesus…then what is this nonsense?!?
Pretty sure God would want everyone to be friends with everyone regardless of gender, so them saying they're so horny they can't be around women doesn't sound very christian to me.
@@madaodog__7224 It isn't, but tbh both sides are kinda disingenuous to the other so I don't really care. Cuz in all honesty, idek how I ended up here from a MoistCritikal vid.
theyre sigma chads you wouldn't understand
Although I still agree with absolutely nothing Big Nick says, he went onto an interview with the youtuber Mr. Bread (I suggest you watch his vids about big Nick too, they're great) and explained that he actually doesn't agree with the some of the things his friends talked about in their podcast, one of those being that you can't have close female friends and they brought up your same point. Just wanted to let you know!
@@agua246 you mean smegma chads?
nightmare blunt rotation
But then…. If you have a girlfriend and you’re waiting to have sex until you’re married (like many Christians do)… does that mean (by their definition) you have a platonic relationship with said girlfriend??
EXACTLY
I dont know how they don't understand that
not necessarily. you can still have a romantic relationship, that's one of the reasons why people differentiate between asexual and aromantic. /nm
@zetjet I totally agree! I just formulated the argument along the lines of what they were saying in their podcast.
I was trying to show basically what you are saying as well:
how their argument made no sense at all, because (as you rightfully point out) there is more than just factors such as sex that differentiates a romantic from a platonic relationship.
@@zetjet9901 exactly, but they didn’t make that distinction, and asserted that the only difference between a platonic relationship and a romantic one is whether you have sex.
They are all so nervous and insecure, you can see their minds in overdrive going “Come up with something funny to say. Act unbothered by the criticism” that they don’t listen to what anyone else is saying.
This video really is we’re comedy and tragedy met.
YES ITS SO UNCOMFY TO WATCH
@@angelinaquawas7337 you can tell none of them actually have anything in common and secretly have no respect it clearly shows it rlly off putting
You put it perfectly
Yeah I noticed this. Their body language, awkward laughs, covering face, folded arm, and quick (but late) remarks....
Especially Big Nick and the dude in brown
Nick just having a death note filled entirely with other nicks is so funny. One day he will be the only nick…
Please leave Nick Lutsko
It's like the Josh battle
That sounds like a Rick & Morty plot line. 😅
he will never be green though
I am the 1K like
Nick sure has a knack for reading people's insecurities
Nick-nack
The dislike these dudes have for each other is palpable. Well, except the guy who looks like a republican senator’s son... he has no clue what’s going on.
Why is he there??
he looks more like the closeted kid at church camp to me, but those two types definitely have cross over so
He probably thought he was going over to Nick's house to play board games and got roped into a react video
I don’t look at much Republican senators and yet I knew exactly who you were talking about
@@pissapocalypse 😂 😂
“Isn’t mansplaining when you sit with your legs open?”
“No, that’s man spreading. Mansplaining is when you cut your pubic hair.”
“No, that’s manscaping. Mansplaining is when you kill someone when you didn’t mean to.”
“No, that’s manslaughter. Mansplaining is when you…”
I’m done with my dumb joke now. Thanks for reading so long. 🤚
Underrated comment
Isn’t mansplaining a package of tools to keep ur BUAWLS fresh? No, that’s Manscape, the best product in the gaaammeee!
@@usernamesmatter BUAWLS
I love this joke.
As I read this the video got to this part
they are literally saying sex defines a relationship and is the only factor not making it a friendship. wtf is wrong with them to think when u see a woman all men just want to “do stuff with them” like nah y’all are just pervs
And then they'll be like, not all men just want your body blah blah blah😐
Yup. It makes a lot more sense when you understand that guys like this don’t even consider ugly women to be people. I mean, hot girls aren’t to them either - but ugly women don’t even get considered.
Yes, men like them are very dangerous! Goes to show you it’s not always the dark alleys and shit you gotta look out for. Sometimes… it’s the church guy who’s the biggest douche of them all 😭
@eloquent•etiquette amen fellow ace
istg it's like they can only view women in a sexual manner
As a trans man on testosterone, can confirm I have not been turned into a misogynist-
"We have a chemical in our body called Testosterone that's super intense"
Women also have that. Also, did you know testosterone turns into estrogen, which people think a female hormone.
Majoring in biology and I've taken plenty of Endocrinology courses. I hate it when people say stuff like this when they don't know the exact science
fuck the exact science, they need to learn about the basic foundational principles that define science
i wish my estrogen turned to testosterone dawg ion feel like a girl
Are you joking you actually don’t know anything testosterone aromatises into oestrogen in males oestrogen in females is produced from the uterus and ovaries don’t lie about being a biologist
HAHA I LOVE THIS THANK YOUUUUU
ppl who know nothing abt science but use “science” as an excuse to be bigots are the worst
"this guy is probably a huge buzzkill at parties" says the group of conservative christian men LMAO
Says BigNik while literally everyone else on the podcast immediately disagreed and said he'd be the life of the party 😂 Why don't they just admit they hate BigNik at this point? Lol They interrupt him, they don't listen to him or react to his jokes, and even actively disagree with them
They're having fun at their own "conservative christian men" party, where he would be the buzzkill.
Only asexuals can have lots of friends, as a bisexual I am allowed none
psh haven't you heard? bisexuals aren't real. they're as fake as scienk
As a bisexual, you would technically be allowed to have nonbinary friends. As a pansexual, I am allowed none.
i get all the friends
same :/
imagine how pans and omnis feel😨
The blond dude in the back just sitting with his mouth wide open always gets me. Cause like why tf is he just sitting there?
These guys are the kind of guys to tell me I’m “going to hell” for being asexual then turn around and praise Mary for being a virgin all her life.
Jesus had siblings.
@@arianam6430 To be fair it's not really common knowledge, and when someone does mention Jesus having siblings, people will take it as them being Joseph's children from a former marriage. There's nothing that can back up that claim of Joseph being a widower with grown children before marrying Mary, but more often than not, people will do such stretches to avoid admitting that it's all but stated that Mary didn't remain a virgin.
Has. Has anyone said you're going to hell for NOT having sex?
@@fricketyfracktraintrack yes my mother and she thinks I'm brainwashed or something because I'm AroAce
@@LOU121399are you just making stuff up? “People will take it as them being Joseph’s children from a previous marriage.” Where did you get that idea from? Do you realize how much the sanctity of marriage was important back then? Joseph wouldn’t just have some previous wife with many of his children…
One of my favorite things about nick is that he doesn't feel the need to play nice or suck up to the people he makes videos on when they reach out. It makes me deeply uncomfortable because I'm so used to commentary/comedian youtubers changing their tune when they collab with people they've made videos about (no shade to anyone), but I appreciate how he sticks to his values, it really shows how genuine he is
right, like i can think of two people (whose content i reaaly enjoy) who do that often it's refreshing to seer nick stick to his opinions about this podcast.
@@starylize who?
starylize whoehowho
ya I feel like cody does that a lot
Cody definitely does this and I love Cody and his content but like he makes criticism's of people but when they reach out to talk to him he kinda changes his tune
Ive been laughing at all of big nicks jokes, not cause they’re funny but cause of the second hand embarrassment I get when no one else laughs.
lmaoo
Omg same
lol
the faces he makes during the awkward silence are what really get me
I had to take a couple breaks while watching this because of how uncomfy it was to watch big nic try to express his frustration regarding being interrupted, while being interrupted
21:33
"Naturally any men start wanting to do stuff"
Nick: _ªªª_
Them not getting half Nicks jokes and taking so many things literally is killing me slowly
Taking things literally, not understand jokes at times and overexplaining is such a weird combination to live with.
Also they just hype and support their original video as if someone else made a valid point supporting them but it’s just them frat boying their own opinion
It's such a bizarre thing to watch. They purposefully take jokes literal to "make fun" of Nick and if it's valid criticism they laugh if off. What a dumb dynamic to have, I just know no one finds this stuff entertaining.
Well, taking things literally is pretty basic for Christianity.
That's how most conversations with misogynists go. They have to interpret your words in a way that proves them right so they can REFUSE to think
I'm really glad you called them out on the friendship thing. When I got engaged, my best male (Christian) friend of almost ten years just ghosted me. Literally, from daily texting to not speaking a word to me. It hurt then, it still hurts, and it was a really shitty thing for him to do. Men and women can and should be friends. Maybe if more Christian men were friends with women, they would actually be more kind and decent and Christlike to women in general.
this feels reminiscent of those niceguy stories i’ve heard where a dude gets mad and ghosts a female FRIEND for dating someone
It's like they forgot that Jesus had women friends in the bible 🤦♀️
@@normalgamergal woah woah woah you're forgetting that jesus definitely would've rated those women at a 4 (MAX) on the friendship scale
sounds like he didnt exactly see you as a friend but maybe its just me
@i sometimes even a relief can hurt;;;
the he said us channel is almost to 1,000 subs. all the links are in the description (i stream secretly on that channel sometimes)
UPDATE: go to big nik’s twitter to see his statement on why their channel was deleted. i talked to him yesterday privately and he came to the conclusion that he wanted to redirect his path in content creation after seeing my video. it honestly surprised me a lot, but i did gain a lot of respect for him and i hope he sticks to his word.
he said us
He said (s) us 😳😳😳😳
“The he said us” - green is not nick 2021
he said *s* (us) *ssy baka*
1k subs
In sociology I learned so much about human nature and human identity, that this RUclipsr is exactly where I am headspace wise. I agree with almost every point this man makes. You’re intelligent as hell.
The comprehension level of these guys is astounding.
How did all 5 of them not get the “grinding” joke?
@@michaelk9279 i literally didn't even think of grinding meaning job until i watched this video (safe to say i was a little confused)
i have no clue how they didn't get that
Lmao what comprehension
They are literally just outing themselves as predators, I can't 💀💀💀
I guess I’ll tell my husband that he has to stop talking to his childhood friends who took him in when his mom was abusing him because they’re women.
Well, time for him to not have a family becuase he obviously wanna smash 🤷♂️
Damn right!!! He's practically cheating already
@ If he even LOOKS at another woman he's already cheating shaking my smh
/s
@@pissapocalypse shaking my smh😭
Honestly how dare he be friends with women before you two met. That's shady girl
40:27 i love how gabe goes from hysterically laughing to a straight face in 0.5 seconds
"You can watch the whole podcast."
Well ya can't.They deleted their channel. Lol.
BAHAHAHA
Yayyyyyyyyyyyyyy 😭🤣
no fucking way. they did?!
Good
Good. Good riddance.
The whole "Men can't be friends with women because SEX" argument is the dumbest shit ever. I'm friends with a girl who I had a thing for, and when she found out she told me she wasn't interested and we still managed to be platonically intimate. Crazy how that works, isn't it?
I had a male friend who had a crush on me, he told me and I said I wasn't interested. We had a two day period of awkwardness and then we were back to being friends in the back of German class! Where we made lots of funny memories btw. It's like even if you don't get sex from a girl, you can still support each other and make each others' lives a little better.
Been on the opposite end of this, crushed on a guy friend who later got a gf. We still hung out and studied together, I was disappointed sure, but I had a crush on him cause I loved his company! That didn't change just because he got a gf. We're all people who have a lot to offer each other besides romance and sex
Same. I’m completely aware that he finds me attractive and I turned him down almost a decade ago now. I would say the same thing now that I said back then: “I’d love to remain friends with you, if you can stay that way. If you can’t handle that, if you’re going to be pining after me waiting for the day I give in, then I don’t wanna be friends. But if you drop this notion and want to continue our friendship with no alter motives, I would love that, because we’re great as friends.”
Lot of it is socialization. The more you grow up in an environment where girls and women are considered an “other” and not just a human being like you, the more difficult it is to have a normal relationship with them. Especially if you have limited direct interactions with them growing up. Some people are able to break free from this mind but many don’t.
Yeah bro you’re in the friendzone. Somewhere no guy wants to be.
@@Obas1 While I sympathize with the pain of not having your feelings reciprocated, I'd like to point out two things. One, disappointment from a one sided romance isn't exclusive to men. And two, the term "friendzone" is misleading. People use being friendzoned as if it's some sort punishment the person who's uninterested deals out. Being "friendzoned" plays into the idea that people are mean for just wanting to be friends.
I love how they clearly planned to have a light-hearted reaction but it gradually turn sour as they watch the video
eddy made a good point that they seem like they weren’t aware that there are genuinely real guys like Nick, not just guys who respect women to get in their pants
The thing about these Christian groups is that they are together because they are in the same church not because they actually like each other as people
Right? I avoid being "friends" with people from church because it's never real
@@melonie_peppers I mean you can make friends at church like going to the church services while helping people and etc. Just dont be fake.
@@agua246 I get that we're all gathered because of Jesus but if we nothing to talk about outside of Jesus then it gets really awkward. We don't have to be having "worldly conversations" but just like talking like normal people
@@melonie_peppers it's not illegal or sinful to talk about other stuff in church lmao.
@@agua246 I'm surrounded by Jesus Freaks that's why
"everyone interrupts nik"
big nik: "thats tru... 😔"
gabe: 👁️👄👁️
it's also funny cuz everytime he wanted to pause, they blocked him and one guy was like we cant keep stopping every 5 seconds
😂
Gave looks like he's on Pause
Big Nick actually hit him with the "we're not so different you and I" like a damn anime supervillain.
The whole “men have testosterone, which makes them want to start doing stuff anytime they get near a woman” is exactly how my parents think. When my sibling and I were 12 and 14 years old respectively, and we wanted to wear crop tops, or my parents were explaining why dress codes are important and needed, that’s basically the argument they used. It’s disgusting and horrifying. My dad would have to “approve” of any clothing my sibling or I wanted to wear to see if a man would be okay being in our presence if we were wearing it. Absolutely wack