Daughter vs Mom: Thoughts On Marriage! | Shutup Sejal Podcast | S2 Ep16

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  • @simranchandna5193
    @simranchandna5193 2 года назад +86

    My mumma is just like yours, very kind & open and easy to talk to
    We need to be mom's like them if ever we decide to have kids! This parenting is precious 💜

  • @Vishu1169
    @Vishu1169 2 года назад +106

    Yaaaaar, cnt decide who's cuter, you or ur mom. Your mother is precious for her generation 😭❤️

  • @ramyajagan1
    @ramyajagan1 2 года назад +23

    As a 40 yr old mum , I am an in between generation of your mum and your generation. I completely agree with your mom that if you find the right partner it can be a beautiful institution, also you have to evolve with each other and make compromises along the way , You will have to pick your battles wisely . But in that journey you may just find your best friend

  • @simplymaneesha8079
    @simplymaneesha8079 2 года назад +27

    Sejal, I can completely relate to what your mom is saying. A right guy, makes your life heaven. Even my husband is so good. A good friend , we still play ludo when our son sleeps and laugh our heart out watching a good movie. I just want to share here that a true guy will always remain the same before or after marriage. He will make you happy. Always see, temper, aggression and other side of someone's , bcz sometime people hide it. Rest good people are here. It's all about luck.

  • @tejaswijamblekar2288
    @tejaswijamblekar2288 2 года назад +11

    I can never have enough of your mom. Just the right example for "evolving parents". I really hope i can learn and imbibe similar traits while raising my lil one. Thanks Sejal, your podcasts are really getting interesting episode by episode ☺️💕

  • @__rishikasingh
    @__rishikasingh 2 года назад +18

    I love your mom !
    She's so understanding :')
    Unhe baat krte jab bhi suno na baahaut acha aur sukoon feel hota hain ❤️
    You're a lucky daughter

  • @SavioPaes09
    @SavioPaes09 2 года назад +19

    This is precious. Sejal and her mom are so cool

  • @deepiankakohli4843
    @deepiankakohli4843 2 года назад +11

    Great watch. Aunty has such perfect views in every aspect of this topic. She talks with so much authenticity, true experience and poise. Much needed guidance for youngsters in today's fast paced world. Thanks for sharing your thoughts ✨

  • @Leosaysmeow
    @Leosaysmeow 2 года назад +3

    1. respect and accept you for what you are.
    2. Understand you and your decisions.. it becomes easy when both are on the same page..Is by your side. Is always there for you even when you have a fight.
    3. Want you in your life.
    4. Makes you content and happy.
    5. No judgements just sharing freely and fearlessly.

  • @knowwithSparsh
    @knowwithSparsh 2 года назад +3

    Anjali mam is such an inspiring woman i have come across. Always a treat to listen to her. I wish my daughter Arya takes a lot of insipiration from her when she grow up and come to know that she was the first person who saw her in this world.

  • @christineherbert4937
    @christineherbert4937 2 года назад +1

    Beautiful discussion! A big thank you to your mom for her views on Marriage! Yes it is for keeps and it should Always be looked at with that perspective .
    Unfortunate circumstances may happn sometimes and couples get divorced , true. But Generally speaking, if marriage isn't permanent, it's pointless.

  • @radhe20429
    @radhe20429 2 года назад +3

    Watching Dr Anjali speak is pleasure to the eyes and mind!!!

  • @noddyexpress
    @noddyexpress 2 года назад +5

    You look absolutely adorable in this look, Sejal. Such a sweetheart. Maintain this style more often

  • @antarapandya627
    @antarapandya627 2 года назад +26

    This was a very wholesome conversation! Being married, i found it really helpful!! ♥️

  • @sofiahussein3751
    @sofiahussein3751 2 года назад +1

    Your mother is so well spoken. I’m in awe of her ❤️

  • @sbgz
    @sbgz 2 года назад +53

    Your mother gave on-point statements. Loved it ❤️. Especially "Marriage is a Gamble" 😂

  • @deepikasekar380
    @deepikasekar380 2 года назад +13

    Sejal, I have been following for the last 7 years and I must say that you have played such a big role in shaping my personality and I'm so glad about it. I've grown up with you and your videos and I love the way you have evolved over the past years. All your videos with your mom have been so precious and sensible max. And especially in this video, the way you talk has taken us all back to the Sejal from a few years back. This is such a cute video and I'm a big fan!!!! Much Love ♥

  • @tanyasingh3118
    @tanyasingh3118 Год назад +1

    How good is your mom, such an articulate response by her

  • @s.bhalla9962
    @s.bhalla9962 Год назад

    I love when both of them sit together and talk about such topics. Gives a lot of clarity❤

  • @kunalkabir6591
    @kunalkabir6591 2 года назад +6

    It's been years ,i am watching your videos my 12th got over my college got over, and still didn't left your channel, still subscribed you, because i believe one day you will shine more than sun ❤️
    Happy advance marriage Kumar ji ❤️😂

  • @RS-ho4qj
    @RS-ho4qj 2 года назад +7

    Sejals mom has blessings from so many couples whom she has helped start family. She is an excellent Gynaec specialising in old age pregnancy.
    God bless her family 🙂

  • @iamjagari
    @iamjagari 2 года назад +3

    Thanking for putting such a mature conversation out to the world! ❤

  • @rutujapalkar4329
    @rutujapalkar4329 2 года назад +8

    Aunty is totally correct and I like that fact that she was saying what she wanted to and wasn't trying to seem cool by agreeing to fancy things. I totally understand and agree to what she said. I am 23 and could relate to whatever Sejal said. But aunty was truely correct, as always❤

  • @Vini_04
    @Vini_04 Год назад

    Love your and your mom's bond...it's so so beautiful, I can feel the warmth she has for you like a child also and at the same time she understands also that you are now an adult... 💜

  • @124tripathi4
    @124tripathi4 2 года назад +1

    Dr Anjali mam you are really very clear in your mind, calming personality..

  • @priyankajain-rh5zh
    @priyankajain-rh5zh 2 года назад +1

    So lucky to have a mom like that.

  • @FunAndCreativeCorner
    @FunAndCreativeCorner 2 года назад

    Very good discussion. This kind of maturity should be given to every daughter for this generation so that they will be able to take right decision. I did not get the right person. So I am suffering a lot in my life. But still adjusting for the only reason is my child. I don't want my child to suffer with our decision. Adjusting whole life is not easy. I don't have trust, friendship, love but still staying together for my child.

  • @niyati19
    @niyati19 2 года назад

    Love the topic..... like your mom's open-mindedness and how she has evolved through years.

  • @PoornaKrishNarasimhan
    @PoornaKrishNarasimhan 2 года назад +1

    Sejal, this was one of the most intellectually forward discussions a family can ever have. I am sending this to my parents and friends.

    • @Maurima-z9w
      @Maurima-z9w Год назад

      This is purely emotionally based discussion. Nothing intellectual about it. It's disheartening to see Sejal glorifying divorce and her mother hesitating a lot to say the adjustment part of marriage which is a necessity. Modern so called woke feminist like her are void of logic. All they get is pet cats and dogs in old-age.

  • @srishtijha3
    @srishtijha3 Год назад

    Her hair suits so well here. This hair colour looks so good

  • @priyasmitaghosh2739
    @priyasmitaghosh2739 2 года назад +2

    Okay this was so much needed. Such wholesome conversation. Loved Aunty 🥰 And of course, thanks Sejal for keeping it so real ✨

  • @Prplnpeach
    @Prplnpeach 2 года назад +16

    Yr Sejal u r so lucky to have a mom like her❤❤❤❤

  • @RP-de3iv
    @RP-de3iv 2 года назад

    Your mother is so graceful and kind
    She's so reasonable 😍

  • @kalaipriyaaesthetics4042
    @kalaipriyaaesthetics4042 2 года назад +1

    This is beautiful. Loved this conversation. I was able to connect with both sejal and mom's point of view! I also needed to hear this topic. Thank you sejal.

  • @poojabhogle9059
    @poojabhogle9059 2 года назад

    Thanks for putting this here.❤️🙌

  • @hriitz6665
    @hriitz6665 2 года назад +1

    You are so blessed to have such a nice mother ❤Love u Sejal

  • @1234CDAB
    @1234CDAB 2 года назад

    Great video Sejal. I wish your mom would've said "IF and when you are ready to have children".... It is a choice and not an obligation. Zero is as valid a number as one or two.

  • @suomotophoenix3450
    @suomotophoenix3450 2 года назад +1

    Your mom is very knowledgeable n well experienced about life🥰😍😘

  • @sreyasibanerjee2037
    @sreyasibanerjee2037 2 года назад +1

    Such a meaningful and mature conversation. Loved this ❤

  • @snehdeepkaur7285
    @snehdeepkaur7285 2 года назад +1

    Love your mom's thoughts so open minded

  • @snehabiravat
    @snehabiravat Год назад

    She is Lucky she has A So understandable mother Nd wl known mindset about marriage literally so lucky

  • @zindaganiharshilkizubani6504
    @zindaganiharshilkizubani6504 2 года назад +1

    My mother too a doctor and same vibe she is just like your mom 😊I am
    Married and I am lucky 🍀 too

  • @R999soup
    @R999soup 2 года назад +2

    This conversation between u nd ur mom is wholesome....😇

  • @teenaj2007
    @teenaj2007 2 года назад +1

    This was a really helpful topic.....though there is no perfect answer to this question... I think your conversation would help a lot of us 😊 Thank you so much Sejal....lots of love to you and your mom . big fan of both.... ♥️ this new hairstyle is suiting you a lot Sejal ...you be the cutest!!

  • @suhanabhattacharyya758
    @suhanabhattacharyya758 2 года назад

    Sejal, hats off to you for addressing this question varna this often gets brushed up

  • @FunAndCreativeCorner
    @FunAndCreativeCorner 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for such meaningful, mature and useful content.

  • @PrakashParmar-hs5qc
    @PrakashParmar-hs5qc 2 года назад +2

    Sejal your mom's words are full of wisdom,
    I would like to watch on channel methali, how parents can manage work and home.
    Thank you

  • @heartandsoul1974
    @heartandsoul1974 2 года назад

    Your mum is wonderful! Respect ❤

  • @madhuriyadav5574
    @madhuriyadav5574 2 года назад +1

    Your hair just looks fab!!

  • @mrunamayikajale8685
    @mrunamayikajale8685 2 года назад

    U r very lucky girl sejal.. Rare moms having this type of mentality to understand their child..

  • @abhilashputti8803
    @abhilashputti8803 2 года назад +8

    It's clear, Sejal has inherited her bubbliness from her mother!♥️

  • @MinakchiNanda
    @MinakchiNanda 2 года назад

    Gonna watch this again with my mom... Also more love and power to you Sejal ❤️♾️🧿

  • @ritikarana8119
    @ritikarana8119 2 года назад +2

    sejal is looking so damn pretty !

  • @divyatelkar3576
    @divyatelkar3576 2 года назад +1

    Omg! Such nice video😍 love the conversation between you and your mom❤️

  • @joe0212
    @joe0212 2 года назад +1

    Equally important is knowing the families background. It is foremost I think. Marriage is not about two people it is about two families.

  • @livingwithswati7699
    @livingwithswati7699 2 года назад +1

    Being in a relationship with respectable boundaries is the key to a long lasting marriage u should not get into each others nerves

  • @vaidehicrs9898
    @vaidehicrs9898 2 года назад +3

    Wow I wish I had a mom like this. Why just a mom, I wish I had a life partner, brother, father, relatives also like sejal's mom. 😀👍

  • @rohnegi
    @rohnegi 2 года назад

    This is very simplistically put. Aunty you did the job well!

  • @anshikaallawadhi4295
    @anshikaallawadhi4295 Год назад +1

    5:20 too cute ❤

  • @arpitachakravorty4539
    @arpitachakravorty4539 2 года назад

    Always reminds me for my bond with my mom. Loved it!

  • @saumyaavinashi5468
    @saumyaavinashi5468 2 года назад

    She is my favourite and I agree to her each nd every word. Respect Dr Anjali !! I hv found my right partner , we took our own time to get married and to hv a baby and now we had our cute daughter a month back

  • @hermie6076
    @hermie6076 5 месяцев назад

    You missed an important aspect, what do you think about being married but childless by choice for a less complicated life.

  • @christinedsouza5960
    @christinedsouza5960 2 года назад

    Omg. I love Dr. Anjali so much! ❤️

  • @mamtabhatia986
    @mamtabhatia986 2 года назад +1

    Your mother has great knowledge experience and great perspective as a parent and of life,, her approach towards life is very practical and I and her shares same thoughts and approach to life,,,I also thoroughly believe tht no matter watsoever time years two people spent together,,life actually starts inaction when they get socially bonded together as married and share same bed, one roof and lot more together,, And it’s important these days to have a family specifically parents who are so supportive,,evolving,, guiding, understanding and the list goes on,, giving liberty as a parent to their child to live life on their terms is till in India not so welcoming,, but it’s extremely important and parents should understand this and society shud not be given more weightage in comparison to your children,,You lucky girl Sejal to have such support in life,,I can share more bt this platform is too small, might my comment not get noticed,, Invite me next on ur series on any topic content u plan for and give me bigger platform to speak cos it’s fruitful only to speak wen someone listens u,,,,,
    Appreciate subject n video,, Icing on my comment here - your mother is my first cousin sister,, hope u and she wud recognise me better noww😜 U can easily find my contact nowwwwww,, its u who introduced me to utube as a spectator and Since then I never missed ur contents,, Bye Sejal and say helo to Anjali Didi,, hope dada and dadi doing fine,,I just saw yesterday u bak to mumbai bt save a date for me in ur planner wen next back to Gurgaon,,

  • @eshagharpure500
    @eshagharpure500 2 года назад

    Always waiting for such videos! ❤️

  • @100INTERIORS
    @100INTERIORS 2 года назад

    Loads of luv for Dr. Anjali Mam

  • @khushalisethi
    @khushalisethi 2 года назад

    The best video so far! 💕

  • @Anothersigmamale
    @Anothersigmamale 2 года назад

    This was very insightful video. Expecting such deep talk videos.

  • @yuktapalekar
    @yuktapalekar 2 года назад +1

    Wonderful.
    Only a few families are open 👐 about marriage and they don't force their children.
    And most of the populace is forced by their children to get married in unconditional situations.
    I have seen one of my friend who got married and she is my age & the culture of their community is terrible. One of my friend's relatives where a girl who married at a very early age around 15. and the girl from my friend's relative is just 21 and now she is for her 4th time pregnant. I was shocked to see that.
    I am very lucky that my parents are not forcing me to get married.

  • @payalagarwal2571
    @payalagarwal2571 2 года назад +1

    This is exactly me and mom 😌🧿❤️ totally relate.

  • @barnali3182
    @barnali3182 2 года назад +1

    Lucky daughter indeed 🥰🥰🥰

  • @JIYASINGH14
    @JIYASINGH14 2 года назад +2

    Sejal it maybe a little too ahead of me but I would love to see you being a mom and starting a family ahhhh I am having goosebumps writing thiss lol whaaaatttt????? I am following you since your college and goddd😂 I should stop noww🤝

  • @PavitraRaani
    @PavitraRaani 2 года назад

    I'm loving this !!!!! Your videos are so comforting ❤ I'm so glad you chose to talk about topics like these 💫 you are incredible and it has been beautiful to see you grow through this channel Sejal🤍 pls pls pls keep posting such amazing videos ❤ love you 💫🌻

  • @pankhurimaheshwari9491
    @pankhurimaheshwari9491 2 года назад

    Mam is so sorted about topics

  • @kruthikabr1548
    @kruthikabr1548 2 года назад

    Wow love your mom's thoughts. So lucky you are girl

  • @sydelcrasto6936
    @sydelcrasto6936 2 года назад

    Want more of these with Mom please❤️

  • @sharvanisivakumar4792
    @sharvanisivakumar4792 2 года назад

    Longerrrrr please!! 💛

  • @rishikadubey8046
    @rishikadubey8046 2 года назад

    Dr. Anjali 😍😍❤️❤️❤️ I can listen her all day

  • @jagrititodi2513
    @jagrititodi2513 2 года назад +1

    Both of you MANNN 🔥🔥🔥! Sejal you are looking sooooo beautiful 🤩... Your hair do these days is on 🔥... Make a video on that too if..

  • @spark8551
    @spark8551 2 года назад +1

    Your left hand sweater...I wanted you to pull it back... getting anxiety 🥲..... amazing amazing video but ❤️

  • @sadaffatima7391
    @sadaffatima7391 2 года назад

    Intellectual mumma💕🌻

  • @akshaygupta7868
    @akshaygupta7868 2 года назад

    Thanks for this video!

  • @2212seemakumari
    @2212seemakumari Год назад

    Ma'am aap dono Kamal ho aapki bate loved it , such a blessing having a great mom , lucky Sejal ma'am 😊😊

  • @jassu31
    @jassu31 2 года назад

    Such a great video! Truly.. 😊

  • @raimasensharma8969
    @raimasensharma8969 2 года назад

    Such a nice and cute video 😍😍
    And hello to Anjali Aunty too 🥺🥺
    And love you so much Joy didi ❤️❤️

  • @Haripriyajalakam
    @Haripriyajalakam 2 года назад +2

    You look super cute chubby ❤️ and that hair colour ur outfit r damn good 🥰...all the best for ur next projects ❤️

  • @knowledgeofislam5938
    @knowledgeofislam5938 6 месяцев назад

    Thanks good talk 😊

  • @shrabanirakshit3560
    @shrabanirakshit3560 2 года назад

    Your mom is perfect listen to your mom ❤

  • @sritha2877
    @sritha2877 2 года назад +1

    Presence of ur mother in ur videos makes it very interesting

  • @lettersandflowersss
    @lettersandflowersss 2 года назад

    thank you i feel understood 🥺

  • @lumberyard5438
    @lumberyard5438 2 года назад +2

    Everyone is different in nature. The most important thing is to ask yourself if you are willing to compromise and adjust with someone. if you are attuned to habit of living alone for many years and are Happy ( some occasional boredom)in that lifestyle then don’t get married. If you cannot manage yourself like you don’t like doing household chores or you avoid taking responsibilities then you are better off being single. Remember Marriage is a big responsibility. Raising a kid is even bigger responsibility. No matter what people say like marriage gives companionship blah blah … its all nonsense. The day you have kids your priorities change and your life revolves around him or her. So conclusion is- the only reason to get married is, if you want kids. Period.

  • @kirti12472
    @kirti12472 2 года назад +2

    Your hairstyle looks so cute

  • @joe0212
    @joe0212 2 года назад +1

    Looks like Sejal wanted an answer from mom through this 😅

  • @sejalrajgor1235
    @sejalrajgor1235 2 года назад

    Really Very helpful video ❤️❤️🥺

  • @vidushitripathi8146
    @vidushitripathi8146 2 года назад

    loved it 😍😍😍

  • @shiningstar10121
    @shiningstar10121 2 года назад

    Wish every child in India have parents who have such progressive, free thinking mindsets rather than being conditioned by what society / relatives expect out of you/your kids.

  • @Yachana_Sharma
    @Yachana_Sharma 2 года назад

    Loved this episode

  • @ANJALITHWAL21
    @ANJALITHWAL21 2 года назад

    You are so adorable Sejal di..

  • @travelwithpawan8847
    @travelwithpawan8847 2 года назад

    Nice and genuine talk

  • @reenaranghar8570
    @reenaranghar8570 2 года назад

    Loved it ❤