How do I manage my Career and Family? | work life balance #4 | dhanya varma (malayalam)

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  • Опубликовано: 20 апр 2020
  • Juggling home, family, children is not an easy task.it essentially includes a lot of balancing work and family ...well I work as a freelance media person and I have three kids and a dog too...sigh!!!!
    This part of the let's talk series runs you through how one can explore various possibilities and come to the right conclusions about balancing career and children.Also talks about how we need to rewire ourselves before we head out to work....I share some tips and advice regarding the way to go about i managing family and work.there are times that you need to walk a tightrope between home, family, career and kids. this kind of balancing needs a of planning and prioritising on our end.
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    About this channel,
    I am Dhanya Varma. This is my official RUclips channel. I am a talk show host, actor, emcee, a tedx speaker based out of Kochi Kerala. I was the host of the very popular show The Happiness Project On Kappa Tv. On the personal front I am married with three children. On my channel here I put out videos that could inspire or motivate you to better your personal and professional lives. I cover various skill building topics, ideas for personality development, self-improvement, self-development, changing mindsets and attitudes. I like to talk to various people from various backgrounds and bring forth interviews and personal stories from celebrities and achievers alike. We all need to grow and evolve not just as professionals but also in our more intimate relationships be it our family or our relationships. I also offer tips, life lessons and advice from my personal life experiences. My varied work experience and my professional journey as a journalist, a media person, an interviewer, a talk show host has contributed greatly to my growth as an individual. I wish to share these diverse inputs with you. I believe that positivity and positive mindsets can alter our lives dramatically. Here we have thoughts that you could apply in your day to day lives and help you in your personal growth journey. I love to travel and explore. So you would find vlogs on food and travel as well here. I hope this channel enriches your life in some way, with ideas, concepts and experiences that could expand your worldview.
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Комментарии • 84

  • @ashiqn1265
    @ashiqn1265 4 года назад +13

    മലയാളത്തിൽ ഞാൻ കണ്ടതിൽ വച്ച് ഏറ്റവും മനോഹരമായി ഇന്റർവ്യൂ ചെയ്യുന്ന ഒരാളാണ് താങ്കൾ
    Best wishes for your youtube channel
    നല്ല വീഡിയോസ് ചെയ്യൂ

    • @iamwithdhanyavarma
      @iamwithdhanyavarma  4 года назад +1

      Did you like.vdo, if yes..
      Pls do share n subscribe.. thanks

  • @naseebakakkad6709
    @naseebakakkad6709 4 года назад +13

    Well said..... this guilty kills me day by day.... of not going for work

  • @beenaramkumar1171
    @beenaramkumar1171 4 года назад

    Best wishes Dhanya for your new channel All your new Talk s

  • @nimisharoy6867
    @nimisharoy6867 4 года назад

    Hi Dhanya.. very good video and content.. I am a working mother and I can very well relate to this.. please include more and more videos like this..

  • @meg_apras_ith8541
    @meg_apras_ith8541 3 года назад

    The way you speak ♥️. I am a hard core critisizer . But I m not able to find anything from you most of times. You are just awesome 😍.

  • @kirtipillai3594
    @kirtipillai3594 4 года назад +1

    Being in the same space as the content shared in 4 parts, I must admit that it's indeed a pleasure listening to you. Atleast this definitely keeps one motivated. Keep up the great work!

    • @iamwithdhanyavarma
      @iamwithdhanyavarma  4 года назад

      Thanks a lot..pls do share the vdos with your friends and family

  • @aiswaryav8719
    @aiswaryav8719 Год назад

    This one is especially so good❤ practical advices. I have made notes and will be inculcating them in my life 😇🙏🏻 Best regards, Aiswarya

  • @aryaj7213
    @aryaj7213 3 года назад

    killer negotiater !!!Nailed it

  • @magicalworld9129
    @magicalworld9129 Год назад

    Loved it❤

  • @itsmesini
    @itsmesini 3 года назад +3

    I just love listening to you, the way you speak and the content quality is commendable

  • @dranusha2964
    @dranusha2964 4 года назад +1

    You are doing a great job mam.... thank you... love 🥰

  • @meenubmenon
    @meenubmenon 4 года назад

    All the best chechi for your channel..Really loving it🥰

    • @iamwithdhanyavarma
      @iamwithdhanyavarma  4 года назад

      Thank you... huggs..did you watch my latest vdo...how to speak good English

  • @shree-
    @shree- 4 года назад

    Hi mam, hope you are doing well. I like ur talks,way of speaking.really an inspiration for me.

  • @shymashabeer4883
    @shymashabeer4883 2 года назад +1

    Great words and very nice presentation 👌🌹

  • @NANOWARRENBUFFETT
    @NANOWARRENBUFFETT 4 года назад +2

    Chechiii suuper aanu.. "unemotional aayi evaluate cheya" thts the key word. Bhayangara ishtayi ..

    • @iamwithdhanyavarma
      @iamwithdhanyavarma  4 года назад

      thanks so much..pls do watch the other vdos share and subscribe

  • @ArulMjoseph
    @ArulMjoseph Год назад

    Good advice 👍🏻

  • @jeejanair1245
    @jeejanair1245 2 года назад

    Superb , vibrant topic and presentation Dhanya👌😀

  • @GARUDAMEDIAmalayalam
    @GARUDAMEDIAmalayalam 4 года назад +1

    It's really inspirating. Highlighted communication. Nice... 👏👏👏

  • @preshapalace
    @preshapalace 4 года назад

    Hello, Dhanya Chechi... Nalla series aarunnu 4partum kandu, Keep going 👍😊, Thank you for sharing 🙏

    • @iamwithdhanyavarma
      @iamwithdhanyavarma  4 года назад

      Thanks sumi..pls do share the vdos with your friends and family

    • @preshapalace
      @preshapalace 4 года назад

      @@iamwithdhanyavarma, 👍😊

  • @lakshmypashine2189
    @lakshmypashine2189 4 года назад +1

    Killer Negotiator.. 👌👌

  • @nitharajain6808
    @nitharajain6808 4 года назад

    Our happy dhanya chechi💓

  • @sangeetharadhakrishnan7064
    @sangeetharadhakrishnan7064 3 года назад +1

    V nice video....all points are relevant

  • @dhanambalan5548
    @dhanambalan5548 3 года назад +3

    From your channel I studied Spoken English and Malayalam also. Thank you.

  • @neenu2653
    @neenu2653 4 года назад +1

    Don't aim for perfection.😊😊. Much relieved to hear that.. Usually Everything and everybody around us preach us to b perfect..
    And killer nogotiatr.. I tried to be one. Tried to make him iron his own shirts..and ended up with the final verdict, "nee athu iron cheyyathe innu orangilla".
    As you said our moms hav made them so lazy that they think , they have to b given all services. atleast from now onwards we moms വേർതിരിവില്ലാതെ, ചെയ്യേണ്ട കാര്യങ്ങൾ ആൺ പെൺ വ്യത്യാസമില്ലാതെ ചെയ്യണം എന്നുള്ള ചിന്ത അവരിൽ വളർത്തിയെടുക്കണം.

  • @riyaskv5436
    @riyaskv5436 3 года назад

    Your a great Mama...

  • @anjalibalakrishnan6341
    @anjalibalakrishnan6341 3 года назад

    Nice talk 👍

  • @thanheemriyas8959
    @thanheemriyas8959 4 года назад

    Genuine person

  • @safnagafoor1175
    @safnagafoor1175 3 года назад +1

    These words were wot I was waiting for. It came to me at the right moment... Since I am at home being a mom of a 2.5 half year old and four month old... Always guilt....

  • @nesmalam7209
    @nesmalam7209 Год назад

    present..

  • @thanuantony4163
    @thanuantony4163 Год назад

    Superb presentation

  • @anjusree4664
    @anjusree4664 4 года назад +2

    These are the words which I was longing for so long to hear..❤️ I am a new mom and next month I have to join back to my work after my maternity leave. I was so worried about how I will manage time for my baby and my job. Genuinely your words are a great relief for me.. Thanks a lot Ma'am ❤️❤️

    • @iamwithdhanyavarma
      @iamwithdhanyavarma  4 года назад +1

      Am glad that it has been of use to you...all the best when you get back to you... remember to take care of yourself first :)

    • @anjusree4664
      @anjusree4664 4 года назад

      @@iamwithdhanyavarma thanks ma'am ❤️

  • @afrazahran4930
    @afrazahran4930 4 года назад +1

    Good video ma’am

  • @houseofveggiesbysophie4009
    @houseofveggiesbysophie4009 4 года назад

    Ente oru nalla friend akkan njan agrahikkunna allannu Dhanya.all the very best Dhanya.ente makkalkkum aunty nne valiya ishtamannu.

    • @iamwithdhanyavarma
      @iamwithdhanyavarma  4 года назад

      Thanks so much for you love.
      .my regards to your daughter

  • @paroos88
    @paroos88 4 года назад

    Wonderfully said Dhanya.. 😊👍

  • @Gkm-
    @Gkm- 4 года назад

    Good video

  • @Ruksadr
    @Ruksadr 4 года назад

    Well said👏👏😳😳😳😳

  • @aryaj7213
    @aryaj7213 3 года назад

    Mam subtitle add cheyamo..I suggested this vedio for my freind ( not a malayali) and realised there is no subtitles.

  • @mous6498
    @mous6498 4 года назад

    Supper madam

  • @mujjubhai3125
    @mujjubhai3125 4 года назад

    👌👌👌

  • @smithack1
    @smithack1 4 года назад

    Like your videos 🥰🥰😁

  • @naqiyamuhammedmadambillath6596
    @naqiyamuhammedmadambillath6596 2 года назад

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @saleenakurudan9938
    @saleenakurudan9938 4 года назад

    👍❤️

  • @soniajoseph5202
    @soniajoseph5202 3 года назад

    Chechi pls try to present in English itself, ur language is so helpful for lots of people in the journey of their communication learing.

    • @iamwithdhanyavarma
      @iamwithdhanyavarma  3 года назад

      All my recent videos are in English..pls check the last videos

  • @JJ-up4xt
    @JJ-up4xt 4 года назад

    Can u share ur kids routine

  • @sarink7105
    @sarink7105 3 года назад

    Whenever reads, how to improve understanding skills.. especially in English. Any tips. Really fedup. Please suggest.

    • @iamwithdhanyavarma
      @iamwithdhanyavarma  3 года назад

      The more you read, the more you will get used to the words...but pls check the meaning as a practice ❤️

  • @sharikathejus6920
    @sharikathejus6920 4 года назад +1

    Killer negotiator.. wow.. loved that phrase..I believe women are peace loving souls...inorder to balance family and workplace we are the first to negotiate.. instead of guilt let us embrace our ability to adapt.. yes we have talents.. success stories.. yet it becomes our reponsibility to take over.. if not us then who.. Lets not stop dreaming..

  • @Adhil2016
    @Adhil2016 4 года назад

    Chechi this is the situation i am facing. Me an mba finance holder. But have two kids. So cnt go for wrk. Feeling guilty. Depression watever so.

    • @iamwithdhanyavarma
      @iamwithdhanyavarma  4 года назад +1

      There is a friend of mins who is mba finance and is working from home...she started very slow but is doing very well...try options online

  • @JJ-up4xt
    @JJ-up4xt 4 года назад

    How to learn to be negotiatet😀

  • @maneshmathews9537
    @maneshmathews9537 4 года назад

    Haiii. I would like to talk to you

  • @kuriankk1666
    @kuriankk1666 4 года назад

    I have faced bullying from men not everyone few posion at work bcz I was performing same there level even more they won't teach me if anything new which I don't knw ,they basically from Kerala ,Bombay .as keralite I also never give up . But I realized there well planned tricky people behind me n always bullying on work space . Can you do motivational speech on this will be highly helpful for those facing same situation.also marriage decision to take based on things in life .I know it's too much expecting but it's really helpful for people stuck in life ....

    • @iamwithdhanyavarma
      @iamwithdhanyavarma  4 года назад

      Could you please explain more...

    • @kuriankk1666
      @kuriankk1666 4 года назад

      @@iamwithdhanyavarma how to overcome bullying at office by colleagues .there is limit either complaint HR or self deal with it .this is mostly men , not all . When i correct them they react like u don't teach me . Also as per roster they plan there convienent juniors n two or three same grade n Mumbai team. They push complicated cases to me when I take over shift . Untill then they play with case purposely extent time . They speak infront of juniors like stamping on me tht I can't do this task . We are working with other nationality too u can imagine especially who now we fight mostly . .they don't like women coming to same position with them .ego is main thing . They especially sometimes joke around me as u say accent of English sometimes Malayalam will come too . During public talk they make fun on tt . We don't want Malayalam accent in English though they speak half English ,if I want to perform never give chance to perform when it comes to programmes .
      2. For girls getting to a point of marriage it's difficult situation say yes or no . Practically how we can take decision on tt for those who are not good decision makers .These are my points .
      I never give up on bullying ,I struggled and got staff of month FYI .
      If you speak abt this based on ur experience that will be great to understand. Bit long message ...sorry

  • @deliciousdelightfusion4105
    @deliciousdelightfusion4105 4 года назад +2

    Please do more on killer negotiation 😁

  • @afrazahran4930
    @afrazahran4930 4 года назад

    Malayalam story book onn good etha enn parayamo

    • @iamwithdhanyavarma
      @iamwithdhanyavarma  4 года назад

      I haven't read many malayalam books...but the one I loved is khasakinte ithihasam

  • @Sijirenju
    @Sijirenju 3 года назад

    Can I talk to you please

  • @Adhil2016
    @Adhil2016 4 года назад

    Pls reply

  • @sebinstanley
    @sebinstanley 4 года назад

    COVID has brought things to the new normal "Work from Home"... which inadvertently ends up in a coleslaw kind of a situation at the home front
    We need to write up some new rules to handle that

    • @iamwithdhanyavarma
      @iamwithdhanyavarma  4 года назад +1

      Extremely stressful at home these days...for parents, teachers kids alike